Why Parents should Listen to Kids | Anyue Sun | TEDxYouth@Xujiahui

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  • Опубліковано 9 лют 2025
  • Anyue Sun is a 10 years old Y5 primary school student. With a keen sense of the joy of life, she loves singing and got the third place of “Mainland-HongKong-Taiwan” English singing final contest. Had stayed in Malaysia for 2 years and been traveled to many countries which buildup an open mind, friendly but independent thinking girl. As school TV director, She loves work with people and making friends. In some ways, she is “a good girl in other people’s eyes”.
    But after many times rejected by her best friend’s parents Not allow kids play together which almost killed the girls friendship. And as a teenager, she is also suffering on how to be herself and balance the parenting. She found that “NO” is a common things in kid-parenting. So she did research on different country parenting and kid psychology theory and proved that “Parents should listen to kids” and stop been as a “Snowplows parents” is good for kids. She want to share parents that 父母要孩子听话,请先听孩子说话.
    2018港澳台儿童歌唱大赛总决赛英文独唱季军
    校学生TV台导演
    校合唱队主唱
    the third place of “Mainland-HongKong-Taiwan” English singing final contest
    school TV director
    lead singer of the school choir This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

КОМЕНТАРІ • 126

  • @Sanriolover87
    @Sanriolover87 Рік тому +35

    Not just is this an amazing example on why parents should listen to their kids it’s very true cause if parents always say no it will teach kids to not think for themselves and will always think about how their opinions don’t matter and always follow others cause they don’t think that what they say is right and teaching them to only rely on others.

  • @UzmaHussainUzmi
    @UzmaHussainUzmi Рік тому +17

    Out standing debate❤voice of every children

  • @jamesmichaelwalker683
    @jamesmichaelwalker683 7 місяців тому +8

    The adults always believe that they more know more than the kids and they know what is best for them even when they don't.
    This is another reason why currently as well our kids are facing significant ATTENTION DISORDER OR WHY THEY ARE ADDICTED TO SCREEN.
    Learning by doing is good for kids...
    Giving to them oppportunity to play, connect with their relatives and friends is also good.
    One reason why I call for the increase of Urban Green Space per see is to send kids in smart and connected urban green space where they can play, enjoy and dreams.

  • @bumblebeegamerreal
    @bumblebeegamerreal 2 роки тому +21

    That confidence and her age makes me look like a joke

    • @softlife4700
      @softlife4700 6 місяців тому

      😂😂😂😂 just couldn't help laughing

    • @reyanshnaik
      @reyanshnaik 21 день тому +1

      Do you know a thing called public speaking that is the thing

    • @bumblebeegamerreal
      @bumblebeegamerreal 21 день тому +1

      @@reyanshnaik Yeah duh, its not like I don't know. Im saying not everyone has the gall to go up on stage, let alone a child.

    • @reyanshnaik
      @reyanshnaik 21 день тому

      @@bumblebeegamerreal uhmm bro the thing is that most people have stage fright ok? And the thing is that maybe it is because listening to her maybe made you down I just wanted to cheer you up;*

  • @flavs-noises
    @flavs-noises 2 роки тому +11

    Thank you anuye, whish more people were like you

  • @Raji_makeover
    @Raji_makeover 9 місяців тому +5

    This child says truth

  • @cosmicfelinesas5191
    @cosmicfelinesas5191 3 роки тому +148

    How old is she exactly, she speaks more truth than adults do

  • @HydraticJaz
    @HydraticJaz 2 роки тому +10

    go girl you rule we love you😍😍😍

  • @ChoChallChall_Game
    @ChoChallChall_Game 2 роки тому +15

    WOW she’s so good at english

  • @gabriellafabiyi7399
    @gabriellafabiyi7399 3 роки тому +6

    I was told to watch ted talk and here I am watching this video

  • @annabellesplaytalk
    @annabellesplaytalk 2 роки тому +15

    You are amazing Thank you for the little. I agree with you Sometimes parent should listen to kids

  • @Phantombecool69
    @Phantombecool69 Рік тому +11

    Awesome kid! I also agree that parents should listen to kids.

    • @mercedesastorga1877
      @mercedesastorga1877 Рік тому

      I have to disagree. If you tell a kid that fire is dangerous and the kids don’t understand and still hurt themselves they do it. If parents are actually logic and let them play too then kids would trust the decisions and information parents say specially when it’s about fire

    • @ashwatimenon3265
      @ashwatimenon3265 4 місяці тому

      You have a point

    • @maxwellpeter5955
      @maxwellpeter5955 10 днів тому

      Toxic parents: nah, i'mma do my own thing

  • @queenfintan5798
    @queenfintan5798 3 роки тому +14

    The kid learn things from their activities not from parents say about something. It is makes kid do not understand what their parents means.

  • @gracyjoshy9427
    @gracyjoshy9427 8 місяців тому +3

    An excellent talk ,hats off .All parents should listen to that❤

  • @thuhuong5885
    @thuhuong5885 Рік тому +4

    i also agree that parents need to lisen

  • @ranjanmakwana880
    @ranjanmakwana880 Рік тому +3

    We are learning speeches in class and we used her as an example. Eva

  • @zaramehak2256
    @zaramehak2256 Рік тому +3

    Her pro ❤❤ she is so good

  • @nguyenngocanhthu_ellie5151
    @nguyenngocanhthu_ellie5151 3 роки тому +6

    she so good 💖💞💓💟💕

  • @DS1R18LIChingHayp
    @DS1R18LIChingHayp 4 місяці тому +2

    Why is she so beautiful ?

  • @oduwoleabimbola6126
    @oduwoleabimbola6126 8 місяців тому +2

    Her language at the end❤

  • @Parthamitra2264
    @Parthamitra2264 3 роки тому +17

    i like this girl because she is not shy i am very shy

  • @yayopriyowibowo
    @yayopriyowibowo 2 роки тому +8

    I like how your speaking and telling i hope i can be just like you😄

  • @Diamond_gurll
    @Diamond_gurll 9 місяців тому +3

    Outstanding 👏🏻👏🏻🤝🏻

  • @nillythelich688
    @nillythelich688 4 роки тому +38

    im so confuse they have 24 mil subs yet they have so little views?
    26 i meam

    • @Fwootgummi
      @Fwootgummi 4 роки тому +18

      Probably because adults don't want to listen to a kid's opinion on the way they're treated. Adults just assume they know best and can do no wrong toward a kid because they don't know any better. Kids are way smarter and observative than they're given credit for.

    • @subhraa6932
      @subhraa6932 3 роки тому +5

      @@Fwootgummi just now
      My mom told that I need to learn from her
      It's wrong
      Even elders can learn from children
      And if l let her watch this vdo shebis gonna start giving lectures about arguing with her

    • @ellieandryaninwonderland2352
      @ellieandryaninwonderland2352 3 роки тому +1

      @@Fwootgummi it's true

    • @ItzAnas_iii
      @ItzAnas_iii 2 роки тому

      Bruh i am 13 i don't need to hear form a kid

    • @GA_Playz_YT
      @GA_Playz_YT 11 днів тому

      @@Fwootgummi i have semi snowplow parent tbh

  • @AlliSong-ux3hq
    @AlliSong-ux3hq 4 місяці тому +2

    The story is good (故事讲的挺好的)

  • @kiaravalentinaherediabernu4846
    @kiaravalentinaherediabernu4846 4 роки тому +26

    This video is very interesting and thoughtful.

  • @annguyenphuc2155
    @annguyenphuc2155 3 роки тому +5

    she so good

  • @ninavivy4308
    @ninavivy4308 2 місяці тому +1

    she's right

  • @cy-taku3952
    @cy-taku3952 3 роки тому +7

    That was great her points for for real great and she doesn't stuter that much presenting this

  • @randomshit3427
    @randomshit3427 4 роки тому +14

    My teacher but this on one of my assignment

    • @HydraticJaz
      @HydraticJaz 2 роки тому +3

      same this is the reason why I watched this my teacher gave me this assignment

    • @Olivia20155
      @Olivia20155 2 місяці тому

      same

  • @Sajjad-d8m
    @Sajjad-d8m Рік тому +7

    great video i hope my dad changes after watching this

  • @pigpig4961
    @pigpig4961 10 місяців тому +1

    wish more parents see this video

  • @sangphungdr
    @sangphungdr 3 роки тому +4

    She is realy great

  • @reyanshnaik
    @reyanshnaik 21 день тому

    Public speaking Is the key

  • @oduwoleabimbola6126
    @oduwoleabimbola6126 8 місяців тому +1

    I loveee this🎉💙

  • @bmycluongdung9817
    @bmycluongdung9817 2 місяці тому

    Love your voice!😍

  • @prajaktawaingankar9540
    @prajaktawaingankar9540 4 місяці тому

    You are very very correct ❤

  • @jaehee0707
    @jaehee0707 6 місяців тому +1

    That girl is right ❤

  • @agatestringfam2740
    @agatestringfam2740 Рік тому +1

    Outstanding job.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😎🔥🎆🔥🎆🔥👍

  • @lightplaysyt9971
    @lightplaysyt9971 2 роки тому +16

    when mom say no to go to the studio and speak to audience💀

  • @ItzAnas_iii
    @ItzAnas_iii 2 роки тому +4

    Exacally but now i am 13

  • @lightplaysyt9971
    @lightplaysyt9971 2 роки тому +6

    3:14 = i thought it was an ad💀

  • @gervaswiratama8428
    @gervaswiratama8428 4 роки тому +8

    Wow

  • @ayoooyahforever5332
    @ayoooyahforever5332 Рік тому +1

    So coool🎉😂😊

  • @Melissaonbesties
    @Melissaonbesties 6 місяців тому +1

    I agree

  • @sentongopaul9038
    @sentongopaul9038 2 роки тому +4

    Good job

  • @Melissaonbesties
    @Melissaonbesties 6 місяців тому +1

    I'm showing this video to my mum😂😂😂

  • @nbashir561
    @nbashir561 Рік тому +1

    An amazing kid

  • @sharinaross1865
    @sharinaross1865 6 місяців тому +2

    Awesome kid.

  • @matothi1193
    @matothi1193 2 роки тому +4

    Pretty good

  • @IkawlangSapatna-z9r
    @IkawlangSapatna-z9r 5 місяців тому

    When and where did the video

  • @Steve-m7k
    @Steve-m7k Рік тому

    ❤ Why the police should listen to innocent victims

  • @PhucLe-xc2nq
    @PhucLe-xc2nq 6 місяців тому +2

    cool

  • @CpFavas
    @CpFavas 5 місяців тому +1

    Kids are not demons

  • @smitadeshmukh5252
    @smitadeshmukh5252 Рік тому +2

  • @fikrutsegaye2803
    @fikrutsegaye2803 3 місяці тому

    Hello dear ! May God bless y 🙏

  • @wtriii7611
    @wtriii7611 2 місяці тому

    Hi, This video is very nice and convey to us a valuable concept for our teachers, parents and more educators! Can I get your authorization and transfer this excellent video to other platform, like Red, WeChat Channels?😍

  • @CpFavas
    @CpFavas 5 місяців тому

    She has a good accent

  • @LIMJIAXIN-iw8ss
    @LIMJIAXIN-iw8ss 8 місяців тому +1

    My mom dosen't listen to me too:(

  • @blackdragone
    @blackdragone Рік тому

    Anyone else felt called out? 👀

  • @AlliSong-ux3hq
    @AlliSong-ux3hq 4 місяці тому +1

    4:40 The first time I hear snowplow parents

  • @Gigochadturbo
    @Gigochadturbo Рік тому +5

    Ой типа умная нашлась

  • @JessicaRosei
    @JessicaRosei 2 роки тому +9

    okay who also thinks her parents hired a writer to write her this script just for the glory and fame of the family

    • @parveenpinjari3230
      @parveenpinjari3230 2 роки тому +5

      Focus on the way she speaks and expresses her emotions rather than finding for the scrip writer

    • @EmberLynn-ee2kn
      @EmberLynn-ee2kn Рік тому +2

      omg use ur brain and watch that again💀

    • @Whynot-e7f
      @Whynot-e7f 11 місяців тому

      Ya she’s so good. Love her!❤

  • @GetALifeStudios123
    @GetALifeStudios123 10 місяців тому +1

    Who’s here for the performance task ? This sucks I failed lmao

  • @user-Jfoweisawsome
    @user-Jfoweisawsome 5 місяців тому

    This is cool

  • @lexacnd
    @lexacnd 3 місяці тому

    what was her source for the monkey experiment?

  • @ellieandryaninwonderland2352
    @ellieandryaninwonderland2352 3 роки тому +3

    I'm a parent

  • @marlissonlopesdasilva6369
    @marlissonlopesdasilva6369 4 роки тому +10

    good girl

  • @Ally45949
    @Ally45949 Рік тому +1

    I AGREEEEEEEEEEEEÈ!!!!!!!

  • @SqeeG
    @SqeeG 3 роки тому +7

    She definitely has Asian parents 😂 . And I bet they STILL say "no" to her and control her life to this day 🙁 .

  • @mel16156166
    @mel16156166 Рік тому

    Hold on
    Since when did barbed wire turn strong and lose spikes

  • @jackiecharlie8798
    @jackiecharlie8798 3 роки тому +7

    Some kids are just demons 😈 I know a 5 year old that thinks like a teenager.

  • @hibaahmed6275
    @hibaahmed6275 Місяць тому

    This is amazing 🎉what is this

  • @cooliethad
    @cooliethad 2 роки тому +4

    kocak

  • @nikkychang8811
    @nikkychang8811 2 роки тому +12

    growing up in an asian family I bet her parents wrote her script lol

  • @amadeojoshuag.t4854
    @amadeojoshuag.t4854 6 місяців тому +1

    Normal Asian life

  • @wiliamhendershot5229
    @wiliamhendershot5229 Рік тому +1

    stop kidding me

  • @labakanurzidil2464
    @labakanurzidil2464 11 місяців тому

    to taste their medicine?

  • @vsgayatri2k
    @vsgayatri2k 9 місяців тому

    I

  • @LUNA_CH_CB
    @LUNA_CH_CB 2 роки тому +1

    Hey be my lol

  • @julietayip297
    @julietayip297 Рік тому

    批評中國式教育

  • @Ninjagofan_4life
    @Ninjagofan_4life Рік тому +1

    That was beautiful❤‍🩹❤‍🩹

  • @BawiliMwajuma
    @BawiliMwajuma 8 місяців тому

    HI LOVE

  • @NiuniuCynthia
    @NiuniuCynthia 5 місяців тому

    I agree

  • @CpFavas
    @CpFavas 5 місяців тому

    She has a good accent

  • @aydamkram8810
    @aydamkram8810 10 місяців тому

    Wow

    • @DejuLiu
      @DejuLiu 3 місяці тому

      She is speech good feeling.