How To Reinvent Yourself In Your 30s

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  • Опубліковано 27 лип 2024
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    Thinking about reinventing yourself? In today's video, I'm revealing five STEPS and five STRATEGIES show you the best way forward on how to reinvent yourself. Enjoy!
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    0:00 - Introduction
    1:06 - What Is Reinventing Yourself?
    2:01 - Challenges To Reinventing Yourself
    3:03 - Align Your Goals
    3:47 - Make A Plan
    4:53 - Visualize Success
    5:51 - Set Realistic Goals
    6:22 - Develop Positive Habits
    8:54 - Step Outside Your Comfort Zone
    10:18 - Change Your Style
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    11:49 - Accept Changes
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  • @hespokestyle
    @hespokestyle  2 роки тому +2

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  • @DapperArtImagery
    @DapperArtImagery 2 роки тому +16

    I'm in my 30s (undergoing lots of change) and feel this age range brings a lot of emotional maturity that just wasn't there in my 20s. I'm also the most confident and self-aware I've ever felt and with all those factors considered I absolutely agree the 30s are a great opportunity for others to reinvent themselves.

  • @georgems831
    @georgems831 2 роки тому +5

    Thanks for the video Brian! Im 33 and I'm so unsure of what i want in life! How i want to be my life! Im an organized person but something missing.

  • @michaelosullivan3529
    @michaelosullivan3529 2 роки тому +4

    Brian great video I changed at 50 and if you think reinventing yourself at 30 is tough 50 was an upheaval and dramatic to say the least but worth every effort to ensure that the next phase of my life is on my terms
    Keep up the good work

  • @kevinjackson8011
    @kevinjackson8011 2 роки тому +9

    Really needed this video. Your 30s are weird because It feels so inauthentic and/or too late to reinvent at the age. Thanks for doing this

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 роки тому +1

      You're very welcome, Kevin. So glad you enjoyed it.

  • @xavierpeoples8424
    @xavierpeoples8424 2 роки тому +1

    I'm so glad I found your content!

  • @JohnnyVichi
    @JohnnyVichi Рік тому +1

    this deserve way more viewssssss

  • @ankurperiwal9704
    @ankurperiwal9704 2 роки тому +2

    Its like an advice from an elder brother! Thanks for such quality content :) Love the mix up of recent videos, refreshing and makes it a compleete package ! :)

  • @keeganturner8448
    @keeganturner8448 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks for this Brian. Love all your content.

  • @abelbernal4766
    @abelbernal4766 2 роки тому +1

    I know this guy from the saxophone standard. That video shaped me and i still use it as a reference as a professional

  • @GoodOne4All
    @GoodOne4All 2 роки тому +2

    Just the video, I was looking for. 🙏😊

  • @chriswalker6671
    @chriswalker6671 2 роки тому +3

    Good timing for me! In just the last few days, I’ve started considering a major career change. (At 46!) This video was helpful in clarifying my thoughts. Thank you.

  • @harshjaggi2829
    @harshjaggi2829 2 роки тому +1

    Loving the new background very bronzy....

  • @tonightwerideee
    @tonightwerideee 10 місяців тому

    thank you for providing this video. I've been yearning to find other men that serve as strong and refined role models; I got that from you posting your knowledge. Thank you, again. I'll be back

  • @foyzurrahman5864
    @foyzurrahman5864 Рік тому

    Excellent thanks 😊😊😊

  • @LivinginBoulder.Madaras
    @LivinginBoulder.Madaras 2 роки тому +3

    Hey Brian, love your content. Could you do a video around fashion advice for shorter men (5"5' myself)? I like Modest Man, but I'd love to hear your guidance as I love your level of sophistication. Thank you!

  • @danielduggan5405
    @danielduggan5405 2 роки тому +7

    Thanks for this video, as always, Brian. It’s nice to see you getting back into the swing of things with HSS. Though the outfit-related videos are my favorite, the variety you’ve been bringing lately has been refreshing. It’s like you’re reinventing yourself… 😉

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 роки тому +1

      Haha! Cheers, Daniel. Thanks for the continued support.

  • @jrlee31
    @jrlee31 2 роки тому

    Thank you 😊

  • @alijahthomas5687
    @alijahthomas5687 2 роки тому +1

    Hey hey Brian. Keep up the good work buddy. I was wondering are you going to do another watch collection anytime? Have you got any new pieces?

  • @ronm6585
    @ronm6585 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you.

  • @Iamsujant
    @Iamsujant 2 роки тому +1

    I’m on my 30’s.Thank You!

  • @Keysala79
    @Keysala79 2 роки тому +1

    Hi Brian, please drop a video per week 🙏

  • @heard_me4166
    @heard_me4166 2 роки тому +1

    Great video as always! Can you tell me what lens you used to shoot this video?

  • @planetdee3587
    @planetdee3587 2 роки тому +1

    Though I like the me I became from 2011 till about 2015, a lot has went down hill since. I was with somebody for the last 10 years that started bringing me down. So I am going to be going thru a separation soon and I will need to reinvent myself as well. I know the me I want to be and there is not a whole lot of change I need to make but I truly need to work on the confidence side. I have always been confident but sometimes people can put you down so much that you lose that confidence in yourself. And though I am normally strong enough to not let people bring me down, when you open yourself to somebody to experience joy, you also open yourself to being vulnerable. I look forward to my journey of rebuilding and becoming better. But for now comes the detachment part (property and kids) which will be very hard to handle mentally.

    • @bmxtrickbiker91
      @bmxtrickbiker91 Рік тому +1

      I really feel and understand this comment, I've experienced the same thing. Hoping to get back to who I am/was, and/or exceed it. Good luck my man.

  • @clap7777
    @clap7777 2 роки тому

    Like the big mic and the talk show desk. Nice change....

  • @thewiseguy6750
    @thewiseguy6750 2 роки тому +9

    Hey Brian hope you are well! I've been following your channel and blog for many years now and I would like to give you some feedback with the best intentions. I personally don't particularly enjoy the recent turn in your channel, giving some general and vague advice about self improvement. Prefer the specific content about clothing, gentleman manners etc, I find it more helpful and enjoyable since your style is flawless. Hope you don't take this the wrong way, I wish you all the best!

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 роки тому +10

      Thanks for the feedback and for the way you approached it. Some people who complain about things here don't take the time to consider that perhaps I am more than their servant and that I "owe" them something. The fact is that I am an active duty soldier in the Army with 19 years of service and all the responsibility for people and things that comes with that level of seniority. Now that we are more or less getting back to "business as usual", that is a strain on my time. We are fitting in this content when we can, aiming to provide the best possible product every single time. In other words, this is not my one job.
      A nearly 15 minute video like this -- which I would not call "vague" -- takes a lot of time and effort to conceptualize, script, shoot, edit, and deliver. Additionally, we have been investing heavily in the website and bringing on fresh voices. I recommend checking it out if you haven't lately. And as far as self-improvement, what I will say is that feeling good and having more confidence is the "thing under the thing" when it comes to dressing well. I say it after the intro of most videos. It takes most people a long time to figure that out. But that's why this type of content goes hand in hand with style-related content.
      If I can rant as someone who has been in this industry for nearly a decade now.... I saw a post on Instagram from an older gentleman this morning showing off and bragging about an excessively expensive watch winder that was made "specially for him." This person wrote for me once or twice but eventually revealed himself to be a huge entitled snob. I can't stand that crap because it misses the point so completely about dressing well and appreciating quality. I always say that there are "look at me people" and "listen to me people" in this industry and it's pretty easy to tell who is who. Thanks for reading.

    • @thewiseguy6750
      @thewiseguy6750 2 роки тому +2

      @@hespokestyle I apologize if my comment implied that these videos are not hard work or time consuming, I certainly don't believe anything close to that. Your content is always of the highest quality and anyone who says anything in the contrary is not paying attention.
      Agree with the part about self-improvement and it being the basis for dressing well and (see what I did there).
      Thanks for taking the time to reply.

  • @gwamoniakable
    @gwamoniakable 2 роки тому +1

    This is true for all ages: whatever you are in your 20s, 30s or 40s etc. There is always a time for change -> it is called evolution :)

  • @kaiummia7679
    @kaiummia7679 Рік тому

    Wow

  • @sandzmd
    @sandzmd 2 роки тому +2

    Yay

  • @samtrevor3449
    @samtrevor3449 2 роки тому +38

    I think the best way of reinventing yourself will be to make better investments to earn from multiple streams of income. This is what is life changing.

    • @cannonspellman3989
      @cannonspellman3989 2 роки тому +1

      I've been making losses with my trades and investments recently. How do you earn $ 21,000 weekly?

    • @cannonspellman3989
      @cannonspellman3989 2 роки тому

      How can I communicate with Stake Birb?

    • @cannonspellman3989
      @cannonspellman3989 2 роки тому

      Thank you for sharing, I'll definitely communicate with him and improve my investments.

    • @Great_Ideas_Great_Life1
      @Great_Ideas_Great_Life1 2 роки тому

      Lately I have seen a lot of recommendations about Stake Birb, he must be very helpful.

    • @evelynnbrattin1671
      @evelynnbrattin1671 2 роки тому

      @@Great_Ideas_Great_Life1 trust me his strategies are excellent and exceptional. I've accumulated over $170k in gains in the last 3 months.

  • @uzzalkumar7331
    @uzzalkumar7331 Рік тому +1

    Nice vedio

  • @faridmahnad4985
    @faridmahnad4985 2 роки тому +4

    Love the new setup, is this a permanent change for these style of video? Also, I agree with these steps!

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 роки тому +1

      Hey, Farid! Good to see you, as always. Yup, this will be the new "talking head" set. Will probably add some things in the background here and there but this was our MVP (most viable product) for this shoot!

  • @jj-bu6yb
    @jj-bu6yb 2 роки тому +1

    You are my biggest role model! You changed my style

  • @Javi_C
    @Javi_C 2 роки тому +1

    👍

  • @observethemfdynamic
    @observethemfdynamic 2 роки тому

    I appreciate what you are trying to do here, but I’d love to see some style/clothing related content!

  • @jmgerraughty
    @jmgerraughty 2 роки тому +2

    Oof I really wish this video came out, like, 8 years ago!

  • @kutubhussin5685
    @kutubhussin5685 Рік тому

    Supar

  • @doifeellucky
    @doifeellucky 2 роки тому +2

    What about in your 50’s?

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 роки тому +2

      You can follow the same guidelines.

  • @faiqalishah1713
    @faiqalishah1713 2 роки тому +1

    Idk but for some reason I thought it was jordan b peterson video and I clicked it

  • @stylishcrush
    @stylishcrush 2 роки тому

    T
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    Y

  • @snowf6307
    @snowf6307 Рік тому

    reinventing myself into a DILF got it

  • @nukie404
    @nukie404 2 роки тому +1

    Loving the new background Brian! Great advice as well, I definitely did not think I'd be constantly picking up new roles through my 30s (husband, father, new job, immigrant, etc.) but it has helped me feel young! Except when my body doesn't feel like it did a decade ago 😫🥲😂. - Han

  • @kaiummia7679
    @kaiummia7679 Рік тому

    Wow