Not the first time I've heard of Tiege Hanley and have for a while now. However, I did order the lvl 3 to try out as I by no means am afraid of doing skincare and do currently use one that's much more expensive but it works for my skin in keeping it dry, smelling great, and not oily as many others do. But I'm willing to actually try the TH product system out and see how that goes once and for all.
I think you’re one of the best advisors on style a young person can find. You teach classic, traditional style, without ever looking outdated. Too many classic style advisors out there will make a young person look like a grandfather. It’s an art (or calculated science maybe, haha) to learn to dress conservatively, yet modern. Thank you for your work, and good luck!
And also what I always liked about his work is that he doesn't yell at the camera, doesn't try to be "cool" and most importantly doesn't make content just to advertise products. I left Alpha M, RMS and that guy Jose Zuniga just because of these things.
I am in my early sixties and if there was anything I really wish I knew forty years ago - is that life is overwhelmingly a game with your mind and it never relents. It boils down to keeping all the false myths about who you imagine you are in context as simply that. They are stories you do battle with. It is easy to settle for less than you are capable of if your internal narrative goes, I am not lucky, or great things don't happen to me, I am not good in math, or attractive, or worthy, etc, etc. I know so many people who charted the course of their life based on the false belief of all the things they could not do. We all have them to one extent or another. Life is a game with the trickster of your mind.
One of the most stylish men on the internet thinks skincare is too complicated for him. This tells that no matter how successful a man is, there is always a drawback he wishes to improve.
I am 52 years old and successful in my profession working in a complex corporate environment. I manage a large and diverse team across different cities, and I tend to mentor young professionals who just reach out to me for career advice. Here is some advice that I typically give either professionally or would give on a personal level if asked: 1. Hustle takes no skill. Regardless of your education, your family background, or how you look - your hustle, your commitment to getting ahead, learning, being the best you can be will help determine how successful you want to be. Hustle doesn't take skill. It is a mindset. 2. Balance. Try and give yourself balance as you get older. Recognize that it's not all about work. it's also not all about play if you want to get ahead. Hobbies are good. Reaching your goals both professionally and personally are good. Balance. 3. Clothing/wardrobe - Build a foundation. Brian has some excellent videos on building a foundational wardrobe where pieces can mix and match. Some advice for younger men starting out - over time, say goodbye to Zara and H + M...buy quality. There are excellent consignment stores that sell lightly-worn designer clothes for the price of clothing you may buy at a 'fast fashion' store if budget is an issue. Some of my best suits - Dolce and Gabbana, Armani Collezioni, Etro, etc. were from consignment stores once I threw out the polyester cheap suits. All I did after was have the suits laundered and tailored. Speaking of which: find a good tailor who can do small alterations to your clothing to turn a designer suit into a bespoke-looking suit. Few other tips: nothing cheapens nice clothing with a plastic digital watch or bad looking eyeglass frames. Accessories like a decent steel watch and eyeglass frames that suit your face shape and your outfit are important. 4. Grooming - Nothing dillutes a nice-looking outfit with poor grooming and hygiene. Wash your face twice a day with a quality face cleanser (not a bar of soap). Moisturize and wear something with an SPF during the day, and a moisturizer (no spf) at night to nourish your skin. Shower daily, and use a non-fragranced body cleanser (I like Aveeno) that moisturizes your skin, use a quality deodorant (I like Mitchum - non scented) and keep your nails trim and get a haircut every 4-5 weeks. Finally - wear a quality fragrance. If you only want to wear one fragrance that you can wear all-year round (cold/warm weather) I would suggest you wear something like Chanel Bleu de Chanel or Creed Aventus (more expensive niche fragrance). If you are on a budget, something like Versace Pour Homme is inexpensive and will keep you smelling nice all day/year long. 3 sprays in the morning. Maybe freshen up later in the day with another 3 sprays. Don't over do it. 5. Nutrition and exercise - Watch the simple and empty carbs. When you go to a grocery store shop on the outside, where produce (fruits and vegetables) are on the left, meat/fish, etc. are on the right, and everything in the middle (stuff in boxes with processed foods) has to be purchased with a bit more care. As you age, your metabolism will slow down. You have to adjust what you eat. Working out and thinking it will solve everything doesn't work. Speaking of which: Exercise - cardio before heavy weights. Get a piece or cardio equipment at your place or go to the gym (COVID permitting) and work out every day if you can for 20-30 minutes, raising your heart rate and pushing yourself. Just a few thoughts from me...many of which Brian has spoken about. Jose
@@arielaava2102 Hi Ariela...here are my thoughts on personal relationships with friends and lovers: 1. Friends: No matter how busy you are in life, it's always important to put aside time for friendships. In my experience, some of the people I have clicked with the most are different than me - their views on life, on what makes them happy are different than mine...and I sincerely find that refreshing. It's always easy to want to hang out with people who are just like you....don't be afraid to build friendships with different hobbies or different life experiences. It will help broaden your perspective on life. Another thing I have learned about friendships is simply to be a good listener and to be supportive when you are needed. Friendships are a two-way street and sharing some laughs and some tears can go hand in hand. 2. Lovers: for lovers, in my own experience as a male who has been in a committed relationship for many years, it's first and foremost - being comfortable in who you are as an individual, and while life isn't always perfect, it's important to be comfortable with who you are and where you want to go in life to find someone who is compatible with you. Everyone is different, and finding the right person to be in a relationship with isn't always easy. Just like friendships, relationships that I feel work well are ones that have balance to them and passion. Balance means listening as well as speaking. In my experience, it means being supportive and caring. I have also found that everyone needs their 'space' - togetherness is great, but alone time is healthy too.
Inner peace is the single most important thing I wish I learned in my 20s.. ..Brings confidence and clarity and is a great foundation for a fulfilled and productive life ....
As a 19 year old, this video is a blessing for me. I've been watching all of your videos since October 2019; since I was 17, and you've helped me graduate from the casual style of certain UA-cam influencers to true classic menswear's which reasonates with me more than anything else. Thank you for coming into my life when you did and providing me the crucial guidance to change my style when I was in desperate need of some inspiration. I was always enraptured by classic menswear, but I didn't know how to approach it, and your videos almost entered me into a different portal of style as they became a huge guidance for me and they still are. Thank you so much Mr. Sacawa!
One of the reasons I watch this channel is that our ages are close and of course great content. It's great all these young gentlemen are looking at the great channel
You didn’t mention anything about sunscreen. I think in your 20’s slapping on sufficient sunscreen, daily, is probably the single most effective method to preserving youthful skin.
Yes! Trying to get my 20 y.o son to slap on sunscreen has been a failure so far, despite living in a hot place where we can get burnt in winter on a sunny day. But one thing I've learned is that young adults have to do it their way, and repeat all the mistakes us oldies made LOL. Just human nature, I do remember I was the same at his age, was so sure it would be different for me.......(it wasn't of course 😉)
I'm apart of that group of people in their 20s! And your channel has helped improve myself in so many ways! This video is so great. Please keep producing content! Even us "young" guys love it!
I find this video rather motivational. You have put together things that most of us are afraid to speak of and prehaps at some point have already experienced but are unwilling to admit.
Thank you so much for being transparent! I can’t stand a man that has an ego that’s way too high and makes you feel like your not good enough to even talk to him. Being honest, to me, is stylish.
I feel positively ancient being in my late 50s. Great insights. I’ve learned to let go of regrets. It’s more important to learn the lessons of good and not so good outcomes and put those lessons into action.
What a wonderfully gracious gift to the 60% of your viewers who need to hear this. Your examples are clear, relatable, and exactly the kind of thing I also wish I had done at that age.
I wanted to share that I really enjoyed hearing a bit about your own life and background. I never imagined you as a musician, nor as having done a term of service right out of high school. In just sixty seconds, my entire sense of you shifted, obviously in a good way. I may not be in your target demographic (too old), but I do enjoy spending 10 or 15 minutes with your videos over coffee in the morning. Please continue to share who you are - style is good, but style backed by substance is special.
I'm 24, and I've been watching videos from this channel for the last few months. I think the reason so many younger guys follow you, is because we're at a transitional time, such as finishing university, and at the early stages of our careers. We want to upgrade our wardrobes (which I've been doing recently), and sharpen our appearance up, to make the best impressions on those we meet in our budding professional lives. I've already taken a lot of tips from this channel, and others like Real Men Real Style, and applied them to work outfits (mostly business casual).
Mistake number one is a classic. I bought way too many things instead of focussing on classic versatile clothes when I started building my wardrobe. Great video. Peace from France.
Another superb one Brian ! There are 3 reasons why I subscribed to The Hespokestyle channel and every video of yours does justice to all 3 reasons. 1. Your style and style advice are timeless - they are stylish now, they will be stylish 25 years from now. 2. You aren't a pushy salesman masquerading as a UA-camr. 3. Your videos are crafted more to a gentleman's style
When I lived in Melbourne and worked for Thomas pink (which got me into menswear/fashion) I think my favorite thing to do was to sit with my girl on a bench at lunch and just do nothing. That thirty minute pause every day was the best thirty minutes of my day. On another note, at 28 I use more advanced skincare now so I look 22 but tiege is great as a simple way to get into skincare that's fast and easy for most guys, def recommend it. Also, I watch because of the format, your style, and just you as a person. You convinced me to get a denim jacket actually but mine is a burgundy color so a bit younger style still haha!
I'm not in my 20's, no longer in my 30's, cruising thru my 40's but I really did appreciate the heart-felt real sit-down talk. We need to do this introspective talk again.
Being quite a bit older than you I can concur with your advice. The taking risks(calculated ones) is particularly important because many people in your life will try to dissuade you from following your dreams, even well intention-ed people! Some people actually don't want you to succeed because they need company! Remember that most people are too busy waiting for a guarantee in life before acting on something that potentially will pay off big time, nothing ventured nothing gained!
I definitely relate to the idea of not knowing how to properly build a wardrobe when you're young. I'd always just buy individual pieces, without really thinking about how they would fit with the clothing I already owned. And to be honest, this is something I occasionally still struggle with. But planning ahead, and thinking about how to create outfits that are actually cohesive, rather than assuming they'll fit, has helped.
As soon as I heard "skin care routine" I was like: we are ten seconds away from a Tiege Hanley plug. (Because I watch a lot of Mr. Wonderful) XD Can't wait to get mine!
Hey I'm finding your channel refreshing. I feel like it can be easy to accidentally look older when it comes to classic menswear if the cut isn't right. One tip on the crows feet is to use a roller after moisturiser. It can increase collagen and elastin. Also taking a high antioxidant diet (high vegetable and berries diet) and supplementing with antioxidants such as green tea, resveritol, vitamin c.
Wonderful video, Brian! As a musician who DID take a chance and moved to NYC (all the way from Romania) I can relate to a lot of what you said... Still, somehow I'm glad that today you are (primarily) a style influencer, because this way we can all enjoy your great sense of style and knowledge ;)
This is a really great video. Though I'm almost twice 20, I can attest that it's never too late to make a positive change. I especially appreciate your 'why' on making music. Bringing people together in harmony, joy, and commonality is why I'm a musician too. Thanks, Brian!
Thank you for your Channel, Brian! I am 53, and looking back I can say I began being concerned about fashion in 6th Grade with a compliment on what I was wearing from my female art teacher! ***Gentlemen in their 20s please listen to Brian! To everything he's saying my answer is a resounding "Amen!!"
One style advice that I wish I thought about deeper is that "one looks best in white t-shirt and jeans." Not to be taken literally, but it does cover the fundamentals of style: invest in classic pieces, don't over-complicate things, recognize good quality, and most of all focus on what's underneath (i.e. yourself). You don't have to have the super model body, but at the very least understand your body and work with it. By the way, younger Brian seriously gives off the serious jazz musician vibes 😁. - Han
As a University graduate looking the part in a professional setting is absolutely key so you're not put in your place. Your philosophies transcend age groups. But sound advice 💪🏻💪🏻
Hi Brian, another great vid thank you! I was just wondering if you could give us an explanation / create a video on your haircut / top hairstyle tips? Thank you!
Question, when a suit has functioning buttonholes but the sleeve is too long what can be done to keep the functioning buttonholes if I need to shorten the sleeve?
I’ve been using some of the Aesop products you recommended in a couple videos a few years ago and love them, however there is no doubt they are on the pricey side. Would you say Tiege Hanley is comparable in terms of quality if we’re looking for something less costly?
You can't have anything that doesn't go together when you don't have any taste in the first place! I did my bedding yesterday and I kid you not, put brown bed sheets with orange duvet covers haha (I don't care what it looks like and not enough people come over) I always have something to wear because I don't care what I look like - as long as it's clean and isn't as bad as my bedding then I'm fine with it
Interesting video Brian ! As I’m in my 20’s, it’s great to hear your thoughts about this. Didn’t comment much lately but I kept an eye on the channel (and my fingers on the like buttons !).
Even if you know that things might not combine well with each other i think it is hard to find a store where you have enough good pieces that you like so you can combine them in one go as you want.
I'm 22 and honestly i think the reason behind the age of your audience has a lot to do with our generations love and enjoyment of the past, it seems to be becoming more popular in guys my age because there was kind of a gap in this kind of style in our parents generation and its a new and fresh look in our eyes, and because of this gap we have never really learned these style concepts and you break things down and articulate things that a lot of people that are trying to do this don't do as well
Believe there are no mistakes in life, only experiences. Good & bad both. Both are required for course correction in life. So should take both in good stride and move forward.
I'm in my late 20's and I totally relate to those things you mentioned. I've been following your channel for a while and slowly developing my personality, choice of menswear and a better understanding of how it is to grow older (sometimes a little bit wiser). Thanks for always giving us good advice and content on your channel!
I'm only 18 (first year university) and I already like the idea of settling down with a full time job. It'll give me stable hours with a defined time to pursue my interests.
@@hespokestyle I’d actually be interested in hearing how you ended up where you are from there, sometime! I’m in the middle of trying to start over, and life *after* music is rough!
Incredible share and content. Striving for my entry in specialist training program gradually brings something usually fun into a heavy burden. A larger picture is something hard to see when diving in a short goal “getting the entry”. 😓
Bryan, I never knew about your musical past and your commitment to your music. Now, in my mind, you are forever linked to the Ryan Gosling character from La La Land :-)
I think you should have a dedicated video on proper Traditional wet shaving using double edge blades, that way guys can ditch the cartridge crap that causes all those spot in your teens and twenties. Traditional shaving soaps and creams now come with fantastic skin ingredients, especially from all the artisans out there. They really nourish your skin. There are many wet shaving Chanel’s you could direct your audience to. Geofatboy/ kensurfs, friendship shaving to name but a few. Once you try you never go back.
Interchangeble Wardrobe - Sort of... I kinda have some pieces that don't look to bad together. Pure Luck though. Taking care of my skin - Probably my biggest sin. Learning to Relax - yeah, this one also hit home. Mainly because of my athletic background, I seem to only know "active". Become Focused, but see the bigger picture - my constant quest of "self-improvement" and "finding my purpose" Take calculated risks - nothing to say on this. Great video, great channel. keep up the great work (oh, and I'm reaching my 30's this year so... yeah. )
Hi Brian , we would appreciate if u make a vedio about your story of UA-cam , I mean how did u came here , about ur career and some important tips for aspiring fashion lovers ...
Thank you for amazing advice brain, they are really appreciated. Also Tiege Hanley is really good, I admit i was very skeptical, but they DO deliver. What is ree-laks-eishen by the way?
I'm in my 30s and I'm also (not surprisingly) in the middle of the journey of changing the way I look... I think that everyone has their own time to know what they want/need and the time to incorporate it and do something about it. You channel has a unique way to give people a tremendous variaety of clues to achieve that... and that's a very notable thing. These kind of videos are my favourites. Keep the great work... we'll be seating here waiting for it.
You need a do a meet and greet one day. Lot of fans, including me, would love to meet you. Imagine that finely dressed crowd looking and smelling like a million bucks! Lol. Cheers to you again, my UA-cam friend.
As some in their 30s, I wholeheartedly endorse this advice. Speaking of being in my 30s, I believe you’re in your 40s, correct? Any advice for guys in their 30s?
@@hespokestyle agreed. My 30s have been great so far, much better than my 20s. I actually make decent money now, Im more comfortable and sure of of which I am, and I’m married to the love of my life.
30 years old and a subscriber. How about a some advice from the master? I’m the best man in a wedding and not being offered a +1 due to being unattached. Let it go and move on or address with the bride and groom?
I believe at least one other bridesmaid took issue with it. Sounds like the bride and groom thought it was weird for anyone to assume they would be extended a plus one. Am I crazy or is that a bit overboard?
Give Tiege Hanley a try & get a FREE dopp kit with your first box at tiege.com/hespoke20s
Awww.... I appreciate the invitation and offer but I still love my Battenkill. Kit that matches my Battenkill luggage.
Now that you have Tiege Hanley here, I wonder how a video with you and Aaron Marino (alpha.m) gonna look like. You got plans for collab?
InstaBlaster.
Not the first time I've heard of Tiege Hanley and have for a while now. However, I did order the lvl 3 to try out as I by no means am afraid of doing skincare and do currently use one that's much more expensive but it works for my skin in keeping it dry, smelling great, and not oily as many others do. But I'm willing to actually try the TH product system out and see how that goes once and for all.
I’m exactly 20 years old, but i’ve been watching your channel since i was 18. Your style are really good.
That's awesome!
Same here, just turned 20, huge fan of the channel.
@@gunnarmichels3276 in 3 months then I’ll be 20
I think you’re one of the best advisors on style a young person can find. You teach classic, traditional style, without ever looking outdated. Too many classic style advisors out there will make a young person look like a grandfather. It’s an art (or calculated science maybe, haha) to learn to dress conservatively, yet modern. Thank you for your work, and good luck!
That's so kind of you to share. Thank you for the support.
And also what I always liked about his work is that he doesn't yell at the camera, doesn't try to be "cool" and most importantly doesn't make content just to advertise products. I left Alpha M, RMS and that guy Jose Zuniga just because of these things.
I am in my early sixties and if there was anything I really wish I knew forty years ago - is that life is overwhelmingly a game with your mind and it never relents. It boils down to keeping all the false myths about who you imagine you are in context as simply that. They are stories you do battle with. It is easy to settle for less than you are capable of if your internal narrative goes, I am not lucky, or great things don't happen to me, I am not good in math, or attractive, or worthy, etc, etc. I know so many people who charted the course of their life based on the false belief of all the things they could not do. We all have them to one extent or another. Life is a game with the trickster of your mind.
Great message. Thank you for sharing and thanks for your continued support.
As someone in my early thirties, I’ll gladly take this wisdom. This was insightful. Thanks for sharing.
Meditation REALLY helps with this
Really helpful! Thank you so much and wish you all the best!
Thanks sir for the advice, duly appreciated.
One of the most stylish men on the internet thinks skincare is too complicated for him. This tells that no matter how successful a man is, there is always a drawback he wishes to improve.
You're too kind.
I am 52 years old and successful in my profession working in a complex corporate environment. I manage a large and diverse team across different cities, and I tend to mentor young professionals who just reach out to me for career advice. Here is some advice that I typically give either professionally or would give on a personal level if asked:
1. Hustle takes no skill. Regardless of your education, your family background, or how you look - your hustle, your commitment to getting ahead, learning, being the best you can be will help determine how successful you want to be. Hustle doesn't take skill. It is a mindset.
2. Balance. Try and give yourself balance as you get older. Recognize that it's not all about work. it's also not all about play if you want to get ahead. Hobbies are good. Reaching your goals both professionally and personally are good. Balance.
3. Clothing/wardrobe - Build a foundation. Brian has some excellent videos on building a foundational wardrobe where pieces can mix and match. Some advice for younger men starting out - over time, say goodbye to Zara and H + M...buy quality. There are excellent consignment stores that sell lightly-worn designer clothes for the price of clothing you may buy at a 'fast fashion' store if budget is an issue. Some of my best suits - Dolce and Gabbana, Armani Collezioni, Etro, etc. were from consignment stores once I threw out the polyester cheap suits. All I did after was have the suits laundered and tailored. Speaking of which:
find a good tailor who can do small alterations to your clothing to turn a designer suit into a bespoke-looking suit.
Few other tips: nothing cheapens nice clothing with a plastic digital watch or bad looking eyeglass frames. Accessories like a decent steel watch and eyeglass frames that suit your face shape and your outfit are important.
4. Grooming - Nothing dillutes a nice-looking outfit with poor grooming and hygiene. Wash your face twice a day with a quality face cleanser (not a bar of soap). Moisturize and wear something with an SPF during the day, and a moisturizer (no spf) at night to nourish your skin. Shower daily, and use a non-fragranced body cleanser (I like Aveeno) that moisturizes your skin, use a quality deodorant (I like Mitchum - non scented) and keep your nails trim and get a haircut every 4-5 weeks. Finally - wear a quality fragrance. If you only want to wear one fragrance that you can wear all-year round (cold/warm weather) I would suggest you wear something like Chanel Bleu de Chanel or Creed Aventus (more expensive niche fragrance). If you are on a budget, something like Versace Pour Homme is inexpensive and will keep you smelling nice all day/year long. 3 sprays in the morning. Maybe freshen up later in the day with another 3 sprays. Don't over do it.
5. Nutrition and exercise - Watch the simple and empty carbs. When you go to a grocery store shop on the outside, where produce (fruits and vegetables) are on the left, meat/fish, etc. are on the right, and everything in the middle (stuff in boxes with processed foods) has to be purchased with a bit more care. As you age, your metabolism will slow down. You have to adjust what you eat. Working out and thinking it will solve everything doesn't work. Speaking of which:
Exercise - cardio before heavy weights. Get a piece or cardio equipment at your place or go to the gym (COVID permitting) and work out every day if you can for 20-30 minutes, raising your heart rate and pushing yourself.
Just a few thoughts from me...many of which Brian has spoken about.
Jose
Love these. What advice do you have about personal relationships with friends and lovers?
well said brother
@@arielaava2102 Hi Ariela...here are my thoughts on personal relationships with friends and lovers:
1. Friends: No matter how busy you are in life, it's always important to put aside time for friendships. In my experience, some of the people I have clicked with the most are different than me - their views on life, on what makes them happy are different than mine...and I sincerely find that refreshing. It's always easy to want to hang out with people who are just like you....don't be afraid to build friendships with different hobbies or different life experiences. It will help broaden your perspective on life. Another thing I have learned about friendships is simply to be a good listener and to be supportive when you are needed. Friendships are a two-way street and sharing some laughs and some tears can go hand in hand.
2. Lovers: for lovers, in my own experience as a male who has been in a committed relationship for many years, it's first and foremost - being comfortable in who you are as an individual, and while life isn't always perfect, it's important to be comfortable with who you are and where you want to go in life to find someone who is compatible with you. Everyone is different, and finding the right person to be in a relationship with isn't always easy. Just like friendships, relationships that I feel work well are ones that have balance to them and passion. Balance means listening as well as speaking. In my experience, it means being supportive and caring. I have also found that everyone needs their 'space' - togetherness is great, but alone time is healthy too.
@@joserauldino Those are good advices, thanks.
Love this Channel, I am 70 years old. Style never goes out of Fashion. Thank you Brian.
You're very welcome!
Inner peace is the single most important thing I wish I learned in my 20s.. ..Brings confidence and clarity and is a great foundation for a fulfilled and productive life ....
How did you learn inner peace?
As a 19 year old, this video is a blessing for me. I've been watching all of your videos since October 2019; since I was 17, and you've helped me graduate from the casual style of certain UA-cam influencers to true classic menswear's which reasonates with me more than anything else. Thank you for coming into my life when you did and providing me the crucial guidance to change my style when I was in desperate need of some inspiration. I was always enraptured by classic menswear, but I didn't know how to approach it, and your videos almost entered me into a different portal of style as they became a huge guidance for me and they still are. Thank you so much Mr. Sacawa!
Thank you, Aziz. That is beautiful and I'm so glad that my videos have had that impact on you. The best gift ever.
One of the reasons I watch this channel is that our ages are close and of course great content. It's great all these young gentlemen are looking at the great channel
Thanks, Johnra!
You didn’t mention anything about sunscreen. I think in your 20’s slapping on sufficient sunscreen, daily, is probably the single most effective method to preserving youthful skin.
That's a great point!
Yes! Trying to get my 20 y.o son to slap on sunscreen has been a failure so far, despite living in a hot place where we can get burnt in winter on a sunny day. But one thing I've learned is that young adults have to do it their way, and repeat all the mistakes us oldies made LOL. Just human nature, I do remember I was the same at his age, was so sure it would be different for me.......(it wasn't of course 😉)
I'm apart of that group of people in their 20s! And your channel has helped improve myself in so many ways!
This video is so great. Please keep producing content! Even us "young" guys love it!
You're very kind, Ben. Thank you so much!
I find this video rather motivational. You have put together things that most of us are afraid to speak of and prehaps at some point have already experienced but are unwilling to admit.
Thank you so much for being transparent! I can’t stand a man that has an ego that’s way too high and makes you feel like your not good enough to even talk to him. Being honest, to me, is stylish.
I’m 21 and it’s been about six months sense I realized I should be buying clothes for outfits not as one time pieces. And thank god for it 😂
UA-cam analytics outed me! 23 and been following HSS since 21. The huge age range this channel caters for is expected since the style is timeless.
Thanks, Gregg!
I am not smart enough to read Nietzsche, but your fourth one really reminded me of "He who has a why to live can bear almost any how".
I feel positively ancient being in my late 50s. Great insights. I’ve learned to let go of regrets. It’s more important to learn the lessons of good and not so good outcomes and put those lessons into action.
50s?! Junior, I always thought you were younger! It's the name... :) Thanks, as always, for the continued support.
What a wonderfully gracious gift to the 60% of your viewers who need to hear this. Your examples are clear, relatable, and exactly the kind of thing I also wish I had done at that age.
Thanks so much, Dave!
I wanted to share that I really enjoyed hearing a bit about your own life and background. I never imagined you as a musician, nor as having done a term of service right out of high school. In just sixty seconds, my entire sense of you shifted, obviously in a good way. I may not be in your target demographic (too old), but I do enjoy spending 10 or 15 minutes with your videos over coffee in the morning. Please continue to share who you are - style is good, but style backed by substance is special.
I'm 24, and I've been watching videos from this channel for the last few months.
I think the reason so many younger guys follow you, is because we're at a transitional time, such as finishing university, and at the early stages of our careers.
We want to upgrade our wardrobes (which I've been doing recently), and sharpen our appearance up, to make the best impressions on those we meet in our budding professional lives.
I've already taken a lot of tips from this channel, and others like Real Men Real Style, and applied them to work outfits (mostly business casual).
Mistake number one is a classic. I bought way too many things instead of focussing on classic versatile clothes when I started building my wardrobe. Great video. Peace from France.
Yes take risks in your 20s! I’m born and raised in CT and moved to Tampa, FL when I was 27. One of the best decision I’ve ever made!
I'm 20 years old and new into your channel. There are so many valuable things to take out from your videos. Love your content!
So glad to hear that, Jimi. And welcome! Thanks for the support.
Another superb one Brian !
There are 3 reasons why I subscribed to The Hespokestyle channel and every video of yours does justice to all 3 reasons.
1. Your style and style advice are timeless - they are stylish now, they will be stylish 25 years from now.
2. You aren't a pushy salesman masquerading as a UA-camr.
3. Your videos are crafted more to a gentleman's style
Thank you so much! That is insanely nice of you to say. I appreciate it.
I’ve been enjoying your videos lately a lot. There is something elegant and timeless about your over all style. Truly inspiring.
Thank you so much!
When I lived in Melbourne and worked for Thomas pink (which got me into menswear/fashion) I think my favorite thing to do was to sit with my girl on a bench at lunch and just do nothing. That thirty minute pause every day was the best thirty minutes of my day. On another note, at 28 I use more advanced skincare now so I look 22 but tiege is great as a simple way to get into skincare that's fast and easy for most guys, def recommend it. Also, I watch because of the format, your style, and just you as a person. You convinced me to get a denim jacket actually but mine is a burgundy color so a bit younger style still haha!
I'm not in my 20's, no longer in my 30's, cruising thru my 40's but I really did appreciate the heart-felt real sit-down talk. We need to do this introspective talk again.
Being quite a bit older than you I can concur with your advice. The taking risks(calculated ones) is particularly important because many people in your life will try to dissuade you from following your dreams, even well intention-ed people! Some people actually don't want you to succeed because they need company! Remember that most people are too busy waiting for a guarantee in life before acting on something that potentially will pay off big time, nothing ventured nothing gained!
I definitely relate to the idea of not knowing how to properly build a wardrobe when you're young. I'd always just buy individual pieces, without really thinking about how they would fit with the clothing I already owned. And to be honest, this is something I occasionally still struggle with. But planning ahead, and thinking about how to create outfits that are actually cohesive, rather than assuming they'll fit, has helped.
Thanks for the comment, Terry. Add this channel to your regular diet to help reinforce!
As soon as I heard "skin care routine" I was like: we are ten seconds away from a Tiege Hanley plug. (Because I watch a lot of Mr. Wonderful) XD Can't wait to get mine!
PEACE! It's great stuff.
Love your presentation with your content. Being genuine is what separates you from other content creators.
Thank you so much 😊
I am 24 and I been watching your videos for two years! Thanks for the great content!
I love that you are a professional musician!
That makes you so cool.
Sweet! Too kind.
Hey I'm finding your channel refreshing. I feel like it can be easy to accidentally look older when it comes to classic menswear if the cut isn't right. One tip on the crows feet is to use a roller after moisturiser. It can increase collagen and elastin. Also taking a high antioxidant diet (high vegetable and berries diet) and supplementing with antioxidants such as green tea, resveritol, vitamin c.
Wonderful video, Brian! As a musician who DID take a chance and moved to NYC (all the way from Romania) I can relate to a lot of what you said... Still, somehow I'm glad that today you are (primarily) a style influencer, because this way we can all enjoy your great sense of style and knowledge ;)
Thanks, as always, Matei!
This is a really great video. Though I'm almost twice 20, I can attest that it's never too late to make a positive change. I especially appreciate your 'why' on making music. Bringing people together in harmony, joy, and commonality is why I'm a musician too. Thanks, Brian!
Thanks, Daniel!
Thank you for your Channel, Brian! I am 53, and looking back I can say I began being concerned about fashion in 6th Grade with a compliment on what I was wearing from my female art teacher!
***Gentlemen in their 20s please listen to Brian! To everything he's saying my answer is a resounding "Amen!!"
One style advice that I wish I thought about deeper is that "one looks best in white t-shirt and jeans." Not to be taken literally, but it does cover the fundamentals of style: invest in classic pieces, don't over-complicate things, recognize good quality, and most of all focus on what's underneath (i.e. yourself). You don't have to have the super model body, but at the very least understand your body and work with it.
By the way, younger Brian seriously gives off the serious jazz musician vibes 😁. - Han
Haha! Thanks, Han! Great advice as well. I expect nothing less from you!
@@hespokestyle Thanks Brian for your kind words! 🤝
would never have thought you’d promote alpha m’s products 🤣 but seriously - they’re great products, i use them myself. love the videos, brian!
They sure are!
Your channel is amazing and definitely deserves a larger audience.
I appreciate that!
As a University graduate looking the part in a professional setting is absolutely key so you're not put in your place. Your philosophies transcend age groups. But sound advice 💪🏻💪🏻
Hi Brian, another great vid thank you! I was just wondering if you could give us an explanation / create a video on your haircut / top hairstyle tips? Thank you!
Question, when a suit has functioning buttonholes but the sleeve is too long what can be done to keep the functioning buttonholes if I need to shorten the sleeve?
Not much, unfortunately. You can only shorten so much without it looking bad.
Depends on how much you need to shorten the sleeves but a skilled tailor should be able shorten them from the shoulders
Andreas is correct. I've had sleeves shortened from the shoulders on a jacket and you would never know.
I’ve been using some of the Aesop products you recommended in a couple videos a few years ago and love them, however there is no doubt they are on the pricey side. Would you say Tiege Hanley is comparable in terms of quality if we’re looking for something less costly?
Most definitely. I love Aesop as well but you get an entire month's supply of TH for less than one Aesop product.
You can't have anything that doesn't go together when you don't have any taste in the first place!
I did my bedding yesterday and I kid you not, put brown bed sheets with orange duvet covers haha (I don't care what it looks like and not enough people come over)
I always have something to wear because I don't care what I look like - as long as it's clean and isn't as bad as my bedding then I'm fine with it
Interesting video Brian ! As I’m in my 20’s, it’s great to hear your thoughts about this. Didn’t comment much lately but I kept an eye on the channel (and my fingers on the like buttons !).
Thanks for the support! Would love to see you in the comments more often!
Simon Sinek has a great speech on knowing the "Why" of the things you do. Good to hear if you have a few min to spare
Yup. I've read the book
You could say he spoke style
Great video Brian! I'm part of the 60% and I love videos like this so I appreciate your insights.
Awesome! Thank you!
Even if you know that things might not combine well with each other i think it is hard to find a store where you have enough good pieces that you like so you can combine them in one go as you want.
Great advice brother!
Glad you think so!
Hey Brian can you make a video for high schoolers?
I'm 22 and honestly i think the reason behind the age of your audience has a lot to do with our generations love and enjoyment of the past, it seems to be becoming more popular in guys my age because there was kind of a gap in this kind of style in our parents generation and its a new and fresh look in our eyes, and because of this gap we have never really learned these style concepts and you break things down and articulate things that a lot of people that are trying to do this don't do as well
Believe there are no mistakes in life, only experiences. Good & bad both. Both are required for course correction in life. So should take both in good stride and move forward.
Good advice!
I'm 56 and find your videos very informative. You should do a video that target men in their 50
's
Thanks, Charles. Appreciate the comment and the suggestion!
Extremely personal and helpful video. Thank you Brian!
Glad you enjoyed it!
I'm in my late 20's and I totally relate to those things you mentioned.
I've been following your channel for a while and slowly developing my personality, choice of menswear and a better understanding of how it is to grow older (sometimes a little bit wiser).
Thanks for always giving us good advice and content on your channel!
You're very welcome!
Great tips Brian. Thanks.
You bet!
I'm only 18 (first year university) and I already like the idea of settling down with a full time job. It'll give me stable hours with a defined time to pursue my interests.
Kid, you are so wrong...
Hi Brian
Thanks for The Tips !!
Great Video !!
No problem!
I wish I saved more money when I was in my 20s during the 90s and 00s.
Great advice. Learning about money also is a good one, credit, investing a little.
3:24 When I learned the rule for NC Search Warrant I thought it applies to all male communication: Describe to the "exclusion of all others."
Also being in my 20s you are offering great insights to us!
My pleasure!
Mark >> see 'Red Pill Coach'
I’m part of the 40%!
On the younger side
Nice!
Im not even 17 but still watching this as it is so good
Yeah
Great video! Keep up the great work. Would love to see more videos about jazz!
As a semi-retired classical musician, I totally know what you mean about working in a vacuum!
Oh, yeah!
@@hespokestyle I’d actually be interested in hearing how you ended up where you are from there, sometime! I’m in the middle of trying to start over, and life *after* music is rough!
I wish someone had taught me about burnout way earlier in my 20s. This is great advice
Glad to help!
I got burned out real bad to something I really liked I’m 19 rn bouta be 20 so I will get back it soon enough before 20
Incredible share and content.
Striving for my entry in specialist training program gradually brings something usually fun into a heavy burden.
A larger picture is something hard to see when diving in a short goal “getting the entry”. 😓
Many thanks for the support. And good luck!
Hey Brian, what's your opinion on Hamilton watches? I'm 23 and considering buying one as my first "high end" watch.
Great choice! The Field Khaki Mechanical would be my pick.
Bryan, I never knew about your musical past and your commitment to your music. Now, in my mind, you are forever linked to the Ryan Gosling character from La La Land :-)
That made my day!
Definitely feel you on the first one. I wish I could get back the hundreds I wasted :(
Thanks for chiming in.
You are correct Brian. Here I am in my late 20s.
you can change your life if you really want to taking the first step is the way foraward
I use La Mer cream for my skin care routine its phenomenal give s your face a nice glow !
Thanks for sharing!!
@@hespokestyle the Eye Concentrate 👁 I also have & use to prevent dark circles underneath, you should get some from Neiman Marcus .
Hey give us a look book in what to wear in summer. Shoes to wear with summer shorts is what I need
Will add it to the idea pile! Thanks!
I think you should have a dedicated video on proper Traditional wet shaving using double edge blades, that way guys can ditch the cartridge crap that causes all those spot in your teens and twenties. Traditional shaving soaps and creams now come with fantastic skin ingredients, especially from all the artisans out there. They really nourish your skin. There are many wet shaving Chanel’s you could direct your audience to. Geofatboy/ kensurfs, friendship shaving to name but a few. Once you try you never go back.
Interchangeble Wardrobe - Sort of... I kinda have some pieces that don't look to bad together. Pure Luck though.
Taking care of my skin - Probably my biggest sin.
Learning to Relax - yeah, this one also hit home. Mainly because of my athletic background, I seem to only know "active".
Become Focused, but see the bigger picture - my constant quest of "self-improvement" and "finding my purpose"
Take calculated risks - nothing to say on this.
Great video, great channel. keep up the great work (oh, and I'm reaching my 30's this year so... yeah. )
Sounds like this hit the mark for you?
@@hespokestyle yes it did. It's one of those "learn with who came before" vibes ;)
Love your channel! I was wondering where you blue denim shirt is from and the jacket in this video?
Hey greetings from Guatemala in Central America!! Excellent videos, thanks for the advices, how old are you?
Hi Brian , we would appreciate if u make a vedio about your story of UA-cam , I mean how did u came here , about ur career and some important tips for aspiring fashion lovers ...
I've done a few about my journey, I believe. I can consider. Thanks for the idea!
@@hespokestyle thanks for reply ..❤️❤️...
Thank you for amazing advice brain, they are really appreciated. Also Tiege Hanley is really good, I admit i was very skeptical, but they DO deliver.
What is ree-laks-eishen by the way?
You're welcome, Farid! I was skeptical as well but more than pleasantly surprised.
Fantastic but Too short! When the video started to drag me more in it ended 😀 well better too short than to long dough.
It worked! :)
What shirt are you wearing in this video?
This one: hespokestyle.com/product/denim-dress-shirt/
That was a lot right there. Well said. I'm still working on some of those at 50. LOL!
We're all works in progress!
Great vid! When’s your updated watch collection video coming out?
I did one in December.
Im 24! But been watching you here since i was 19
Very surprised to hear you feeling old, you look so young!
Too kind
I really like your jacket. Is it a suit(came with the same fabric pants)or sport jacket?
Sport coat. Will be available this spring!
I'm in my 30s and I'm also (not surprisingly) in the middle of the journey of changing the way I look... I think that everyone has their own time to know what they want/need and the time to incorporate it and do something about it. You channel has a unique way to give people a tremendous variaety of clues to achieve that... and that's a very notable thing. These kind of videos are my favourites. Keep the great work... we'll be seating here waiting for it.
Thank you so much, Leo. I appreciate your support!
You need a do a meet and greet one day. Lot of fans, including me, would love to meet you. Imagine that finely dressed crowd looking and smelling like a million bucks! Lol.
Cheers to you again, my UA-cam friend.
As some in their 30s, I wholeheartedly endorse this advice. Speaking of being in my 30s, I believe you’re in your 40s, correct? Any advice for guys in their 30s?
Yup. 43. 30s were a great time!
@@hespokestyle agreed. My 30s have been great so far, much better than my 20s. I actually make decent money now, Im more comfortable and sure of of which I am, and I’m married to the love of my life.
Thank you bud.
Video aside, what is the song that plays in the very beginning (not in the title) when Brian introduces the topic? I love it.
treat em mean keep em keen.
30 years old and a subscriber. How about a some advice from the master? I’m the best man in a wedding and not being offered a +1 due to being unattached. Let it go and move on or address with the bride and groom?
Oh, wow, interesting. Are you the only one?
I believe at least one other bridesmaid took issue with it. Sounds like the bride and groom thought it was weird for anyone to assume they would be extended a plus one. Am I crazy or is that a bit overboard?
Awesome video! Turning 28 soon and getting anxious about the fearsome THREE -ZERO
As Jay-Z once said, 30's the new 20.
I took Tenor sax in HS and looking back I should have stuck with it, especially listening to Stan Getz and those guys from the 60's
I was never a big Stan Getz fan myself. Not my kind of tone!
@@hespokestyle gotcha 👌🏻
In Russia we don’t have Tiege Hanley (( and if you try to order that from a reseller it would cost you 125+$
Whoa!