“It’s Such BS!” - People Calling Jonah Hill Abusive For Text To Ex-Girlfriend
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- Опубліковано 10 лип 2023
- In this short clip PBD, Lauren Chen, Adam, and Vinny People Calling Jonah Hill Abusive For Text To Ex-Girlfriend.
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Those texts make Jonah seem more decent and authentic than the greatest publicist could ever dream.
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Yep...She is just using Jonah for a few more views.....sick.....
It does but my question is: why did he accept her the way she was since the beginning? She was a surfer and posted her "thirst traps" since before they talked to each other as far as we know.
Probably was put our by his publicist..
Toxic, pathetic, cry-bully leftists don't want men to have reasonable boundaries and standards. If a woman had said the exact same words to a man, she'd be called a hero.
Congrats to JONAH for openly being a self respecting, very articulate, man with standards.
"You can't serf with men or have friends" to a literal serf instructor, is a pretty funny standard 😂
Hill was fine. The ex-gf sounds slutty, at best.
Articulate? He seems weird as hell and totally insecure with everything. Giving her a list of what he expects in a gf. And this video didn't age well. He has even worse accusations that just came out.
@@kevinmatthew1050lol aged well? This video is 5 hrs old.
@marcriley2697 right and right after this was posted he had another crazy accusation come out.
I heard this years ago and it always stuck with me.
“People don’t change, they just become more of who they really are.”
Better versions of themselves. Meaning if they lie and cheat, they get better at it
they dont change if they dont know how to change, its something the Govts dont want you to know
Profound
some do. usually usually requires the finding of God. Who was there all along.
This is eye-opening. I always said "I haven't changed, I've grown". But this is more profound
I had to set down my boundary when someone I was dating thought it was okay to go to the club with her single girlfriends and flirt with guys for free drinks. I told her I wasn’t okay with that, and she thought I was being absurd.
A relationship is a compromise between two people, nobody is entitled to all the benefits of a relationship with none of the responsibility for that relationship.
Did you end up leaving her?
Lol guys the media can be bought. This "scandal" is a distraction to his real scandal
@@juanio7036hopefully he did. No man wants a skank in his life. 😊
What you were asking for didn't even seem like a compromise, it sounds like the bare minimum to match the decorum.
@@juanio7036 oh yeah, it was done because I can’t date someone who flirts with thirsty men at a club, no matter how minor the reason.
That girl is despicable. Too many women pull this type of behaviour these days. Jonah comes out of this looking like a decent guy.
Such a strange conversation to be having these days, especially since it looks like the new woman hasn't wanted to marry Jonah either, a step that really isn't necessary. After all, no one in current times would ever stoop to calling children born in unlocked relationships "illegitimate." Thank goodness that ridiculous stigma no longer exists.
Why are American women acting like animal david 🤔?
@@maryhalverson5713 Well the blame was in the wrong place. It's not the child's fault their parents are bums. On the other hand I can see wanting to avoid marriage as a celebrity I'm sure Jeff Bezo's ex-wife is a lovely lady but really half?
And now some hack actress is accusing him of sexual assault.
@@Yukiabiannightmare I wish I was surprised. Despicable stuff.
Very emotionally intelligent of Johan Hill. I never took him seriously, but man, that was impressive.
same here. I enjoyed his acting, but never gave him much thought.
overall, seems like a reasonable request to me.
Same, earned some respect from most men probably.
you never took him seriously cause you keep watching superbad
@@chuckiegravesfield3170😂😂
You never took him seriously why? Because he was overweight?
I now have immense respect for this man who respect himself and has honor.
11:55 PBD is right. I changed dramatically from 28 to 32. I’m now 42 and happily married but I literally had to have a “come to Jesus” conversation with myself, I became an Orthodox Jew and then remained celibate for 5 years until I got married at 32. When you see through the nonsense of your life and decide you’ve had enough and want to commit to something greater than yourself and live in a meaningful way, you change IMMEDIATELY! Not 10%. Only 100% will do.
Exactly..much respect...the point of life is to evolve and change for better everyday...people are very unaware of / and overlook the most miraculous things in life
That’s amazing man.. fair play
I don't see anything wrong with what he said/asked.
If she wasn't happy with the boundaries that he maturely shared then walk away don't call them abusive smh 🤦♀️
Thank You! That's where the lies of the WEST ARE EXPOSED THE 👹 DEMON WEST HYPOCRIT LIAR 👉 MEN TREAT WOMEN RIGHT? What? B.S THE WEST RELATIONSHIP ARE ALL DISATER ...👉 CHEATING MARRIYING HIS FRIENDS ABUSING CHILDREN 👉 & THEY DARE TO LIE MEN TREAT WOMEN RIGHT! BULLSHIT BULLCRAP 👉 WE HAVE SEEN MILLIONS OF HOLLYWOOD STARS ABUSE SAME IN THE CULTURE.... PLEASE STOP BRAGGING WITH MEN RESPECT WOMEN 👉 THAT'S BRAGGING WITH LIES LIES MANIPULATIONS & CORRUPTION AS WELL
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not to mention that unfaithfulness begins with friendship with people the S.O. doesn't know about
I mean she's a professional surfer and model of her sponsorship merch. She posts loads of content in swimwear and is paid to. He knew this when he pursued her. To expect her to change her livelihood snd content to suit his preferences is entitled and unrealistic. I also find the language he uses quite manipulative but thats just a personal impression.
@celestialasmr9624 Yeh, I appreciate that, but obviously (imo) once he started dating her, he felt uncomfortable with the pics she was uploading and requested that she didn't do it, she didnt want to restrict her uploads.
So, as adults, you accept those differences, which means the relationship can't continue. 🤷♀️ that's all it seems to be to me, badged incorrectly as abusive
He did it right. Got rid of that broken chick and upgraded. Smart guy.
I think he could have that conversation in person. Through text it seems inpersonal. Other than that he knows what he wants and comunicated it clearly.
@@Domian328Its a good thing he did it by text, otherwise he would've been finished in the public court.
@@Domian328Better to put it in writing
Well she looked exactly like him just without the beard. Its super weird.
Its a sad world we live in when the so called *personal* texts that we thought we were exchanging with our *significant* other can be turned around and used as weapons for the other's benefit. Jonah was shown being respectful and forward, but she, being clearly the more insecure one, couldnt respect his wishes. Now the very thing she tried using against him just blew up in her face. Jonah made the right call to step away from that toxic mess.
There was nothing wrong with these texts. She sounds super angry that he moved on and is happy. Shame on her for doing this.
She's playing the victim women these days r disgusting Jonahas a real mfin man
He was trying to guilt shame a surf instructor for wearing a swim suit lol. It's not okay to make people bad and manipulate by saying they are doing sth bad to you. A psychiatrist's analysis on yt(Dr Grande) exposes some worrying patterns of his behavior. There were lots of messages.
@@MsCCarolinee but at what point does she stand up for herself and take responsibility? They were in a long distance relationship. They were not living together or even together 24/7. He was finding out what she was doing through Instagram. He's allowed to voice concerns about things that bothers him. She's allowed to stand up for herself and tell him to F-off. There was no unfair balance bc she was not dependent on him for anything. People guilt shame others on a daily basis from what they eat to political beliefs. It's called freedom. They broke up. He moved on and married and had a child with someone else. She decided to make their private relationship details known AFTER finding this out. I'm unfortunately on his side in this even though I'm not a fan of his work.
@@MC-cyh l just listened to a psychriatrist who analyzed all of his texts at lenght and you say there is nothing wrong with them. Just because he is insecure and afraid of losing her doesn't make it her fault. I suggest you watch Dr Grande before you come to such a conclusion. He is a professional. Also, l thought he didn't say anything wrong in the beginning too but after listening to the analysis of an expert l changed my mind to a large extent
@@MsCCarolinee An investigator had this to say about your Dr. Grande: "His PhD is in EDUCATION. He doesn’t profess to be a psychologist or psychiatrist. He claims to be a COUNSELOR, which doesn’t require specific educational standards unless the person specializes in a particular field of counseling.
The issue that other professionals have with him is that they claim he is practicing psychology when what he is doing is applying psychological PRINCIPLES to his counseling methods. Hell, your bartender and barber do that, so what’s the issue?" I think you should listen to your gut more.
For that woman to share that publicly, and her mindset describing those texts fully reveal the despicable entitlement she possesses. All while seeking approval from the ungodly amount of other people that's outrageously entitled.
He cheated on his current partner.
she's clearly a clout chasing 304
@@cantbendkneeso he cheated with another woman she pulls up message that's has nothing to do with him being a cheater make it make since and 3 yrs after they broke up she post message of Convo they had yea good observation she is a narcissist woman that make up false allegations to be seen as a victim and go viral get fans that agree with her to make her feel empowered 😂😂
@@kashawnbynum3129 Okay let's go. Actress Alexa Nikolas has accused Jonah Hill of forcibly kissing her against her consent when she was 16 years old. Nikolas said in a string of tweets that the incident took place at a party in actor Justin Long's house. Hill told her that if they were to be in a relationship together, she wasn’t allowed to “surf with men,” “model,” “post pictures of yourself in a bathing suit,” “post sexual pictures,” or have “friendships with women who are in unstable places.” Hill in which he appears to ask her to take down photos of herself from Instagram, Brady wrote: “If your partner is talking to you like this, make an exit plan. I too struggle with mental health but I do not use it to control [people] like he did to me.” He was sexting her whilst with his new fiancee. He is a POS and I'm glad that young men see this and realise that this isn't the way to treat someone you supposedly love.
@@kashawnbynum3129 Also it's manipulative. You have made an emotional investment into a relationship and then someone makes demands when leaving the relationship wouldn't be easy for the person on the receiving end. There is a desire to make it work to salvage the emotional investment. Insecurities are normal but weaponising your insecurities to control or isolate someone like he did by telling her she couldn't surf with males or meet friends that's not okay. He was shaming her for being the person she was when they met. He didn't love her, he thought he owned her.
I just became a Jonah Hill fan.
Thank you, Mr. Hill for modeling sane behavior for our young men!
TOP G Jonah
He seems like a very nice, even-tempered man who would make a good father.
Still not a fan but I like how he dealt with his gf
@@dontquitpersevere323 Yeah. +RECPEC
@@dontquitpersevere323Same here
I like how if you look at the evidence she shows, its shows how upfront and honest he was with her.
The friends of the first two women I dated said the same shit to me. “Stop controlling her.” All I was doing is saying if this is not what you want, we don’t want the same things and are not compatible. Pretty simple
It's called Gaslighting, she tried to gaslight the audience to make people believe that he's controlling, when in fact, she noticed with his boundaries, that she has no control over him. Which means, next to Gaslighting, she resorted to Projecting and Manipulating. That says everything you need to know about Sarah.
Perfect analysis
Exactly. These texts were from 2021 so she held onto them for two years with the intent of publicly embarrassing JH and his new family as some kind of revenge for him not being down with her lifestyle and ending their relationship. She needs people in her life that can help her let go of things rather than the confirmation bias and attention the people calling JH "abusive". This is toxic behavior.
Best take. Women that are crazy do crazy things.
I mean she's a professional surfer and model of her sponsorship merch. She posts loads of content in swimwear and is paid to. He knew this when he pursued her. To expect her to change her livelihood snd content to suit his preferences is entitled and unrealistic. I also find the language he uses quite manipulative but thats just a personal impression.
So if she manipulates him to moving away from his boundaries that’s totally fine but if he merely states his, he’s controlling. She’s the bad one here
I’ll stand with Jonah. He was respectful and reasonable
Let's be real though theure having these discussions through text? It's weird.
@@Rick-bi9fw Really? Not sure why that would be weird. I’ve been married for 20 years and my wife and I have conversations over text messages.
He’s a liberal jew prob the most degenerate people on earth
Women want communication then criticize if they don’t agree with it
@@Rick-bi9fwnot weird at all.
When people say "People don't change" I roll my eyes.. Nice to PBD for standing up for people who strive to be better each day.
I genuinely love you guys! Great talks on matters that are important and defending your values!
At this point of my life i have trouble defending my values, but im getting there and your podcast and the people on it are giving me clarity, and ansers to questions I've asked myself! For this i am grateful!
I dated a girl once who just could not move out of the party phase. It is awesome when you are both 23, but at 43 it gets sad to watch.
Agreed. I know people in their 50s and 60s who still want to party. It's incredibly bizarre..
@@arizonagirl6474 it is so cringe to see people like that. And they are convinced they are the coolest people around. hahahaha
@@BushCampNinja Haha exactly. Can't help but laugh..
I’ve met several people who try to blame it on having adhd 😂
@@robertelizondo4499That’s a new one lol
Jonah comes across as smart, totally rational and based. It's the 'sick in head' people that have issues with his words. There's absolutely nothing abusive or wrong with Hill's stance.
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The only mistake Hill made, really more of a question of judgement, was knowing what his boundaries were and then choosing to pursue a relationship with a surfer model whose lifestyle and career is contingent on posting shots of her in bikinis. Nothing he did was manipulative or abusive though in the slightest. All of his boundaries are perfectly normal.
@@shushanthswinderballs1122 True. Agreed..
@@shushanthswinderballs1122 a woman who is highly attractive is a body that men from all walks of life whether rich or poor or handsome or ugly look at and want to possess roughly in sex..simple animal fact
Amen.
The fact that she released those texts thinking she was really doing something tells you all you need to know about the mindstate of alot of women these days (not all... but alot) and where we are as a society.
I truly loved how the discussion about people changing was contented and accepted by all. Having open conversations where people disagree is the most important factor in personal growth. Open yourself to listening but also dont back down to being challenged. Approach the situation with respect, open minds and also conviction.
He didn't try to control her. He just indicated the boundaries he expects not be crossed for him to continue in the relationship. He even said he understands if she doesn't want to acquiesce to his requests. She waited until he had a kid to put out texts and call him an emotional abuser. It sounds more to me that she's bitter and upset somebody else is getting the life she was too irresponsible to keep.
Right she thought she could break him on her knee and is absolutely seething. I'm sure she's probably met handsomer surfer dudes then him since then but she's obviously missing something.
then why date a surfer chick 😂😂😂😂
it is a bit controlling when you have lived your life one way then all of a sudden because of someone else's insecurities wants to change your lifestyle, simply because they are uncomfortable, COULD OF DATED ANYONE ELSE, but decided to date the surfer chick 😂😂😂😂
@kmt8825 how do you know he's insecure? Could it be that he saw some behaviors that went down and got tired of it? One should have a certain level of decorum while in a relationship. If you act like you're for the streets while you're with someone, back to the streets, you will return. Ask Keke Palmer. Granted, he should have set the boundaries in the beginning, but no one has to put up with something that interfere with their relationship. People evolve, and what worked at first may not work now. There's no control if he set boundaries and she didn't agree. He didn't hold her back from leaving and manipulate and/or force her to stay. That's control. She chose to leave and now she's bitter. She needs to take accountability for the choices she made while she was there and put herself in his shoes.
I think she is more of an emotional abuser. By the sounds of it, she is quite manipulative.
Anyone who doesn’t have their “non-negotiables” when they go into long term relationship/marriage is a FOOL! Good for Jonah for bouncing!
I agree. Trust me, their women in their 40s that are still delusional, not want to change. Yet if you're unafraid to say your non-negotiables, you'll get rid of the bad apples.
Seriously? I have even bigger respect for this man now, than I ever had before. This is a proper, respectful and very reasonable gentleman.
The way this is being portrayed in the media is actually ridiculous. He's being made out to be a horrible, controlling abusive partner when, in fact, it's the most level-headed and mature way to start a relationship I've ever seen😂😂
The trust was definitely not there. He trusted her to have a private conversation about they’re relationship. What did she do? Well we’re talking about it now.
If more people would actually communicate like Jonah Hill did here, it would save a lot of wasted time for us single folks avoiding games and people of low integrity. I respect his forthrightness and it should be the norm, but it’s the opposite and quite hard to find in a potential partner. Glad he passed on her and found someone who shares his values and character traits.
Communication is a two way street. Don't get ahead of yourself, you should know when you are or are not being communicated with. You're most likely wasting your own time.
He found the basic daughter of an ex model to manipulate.
@@bernibeckmann9753 Absolutely!!! Majority of time you can figure out if you can communicate with a potential partner on 1st or 2nd date. If you can’t communicate/have a conversation then it’s not going to work out.
Even if the physical attraction is strong in beginning, communication during intimacy is important too.
@@chrisfrank2664 it just dont work that way..nothing rational about lust...some of the most mind blowing amazing sex u will ever have is with dirty rotten lying cheating nasty people...a woman may by beautiful but if she is too nice a man will leave her for a bitchy lousy young woman who he has fantastic sex with...lots of what people are doing together is based on great sex that is why there are so many problems
@@r.walker7986don't od on all that copium
That was honestly the kindest, most gentle way I’ve ever seen anyone break up with anyone 😂
This actually makes me have a tiny bit of respect for Jonah despite him being a hollywood actor. He's showing decent boundaries for a relationship and acting mature about it.
Agreed.
Tiny bit.
That text message was eloquently put. That's a good man that knows what he wants.
Good for Jonah! He has healthy boundaries! It’s terrible he chooses to have a partner that respects herself and him LOL. Her character shines through by posting their personal texts…
What’s crazy is people aren’t even mentioning the fact that he’s worth millions. He needs to protect his bank account from potentially predatory people and needs to vet any woman that he may let into his inner circle. These modern divorce settlements are crazy.
I’m going through a huge change in my life and I appreciate your argument that you can change Pat!
It's sincere, respectful, logical and he doesn't even put down her ridiculous demands. He's a decent guy.
N he just happen to love hoes. Bet you he met her drunk out of his ass at 6am in a nightclub. What was he doing when he met her? . Reading a bible?
That is NOT abuse!! I actually think it shows how mature he is 💖 He knows what he needs and wants good for him
Stacey the problem isn't this. The problem is feminazism and modern young women who have been indoctrinated... hence young women see this and side with the girl(a majority do at least) basically women like the ex of jonah want it all... a man with money and status to love and support them while also having freedom to be a 304
And that is what most modern wome. Want, it is disgusting... hence why men are done
Exactly. I'm tired of people throwing the word "abuse" around.
@@soaf1985my sentiments exactly. Only dumb ignorant toxic people would use such a nasty word irresponsibly.
She’s just bitter cause she’s not the one pregnant by him. He’s awesome for clearly expressing what he wants and not settling for someone who doesn’t share his values. That’s all. She’s free to do as she wishes just not with him. She made her choice.
In 100% agreement with Jonah Hill. I have the same boundaries.
As a woman, I don't see a single wrong thing with the text! I wish there was more MEN with those standards out there and consider and appreciate women that actually have those standards!🙌🏽💯💯💯💯
Not standards, they are insecurities, lol.
@@r.walker7986agreed. Now if she had said those things it would have been acceptable, but that’s a different story because she’s a woman!
Who does he think he is being so mean to her, threatening her and DEMANDING she bow to him?! He obviously FORCED her to do things she didn’t want to do because she’s a woman! He needs to go to prison!
@@HitLeftistsWithHammers Only if he gave her explicit reasons to do this so there are many factors to be considered before you would become a psycho for doing this...
We have these standard and are called "insecure" for declaring them
@@absolut_dre Labeling your insecurities 'boundaries" and "standards" does not stop them from being insecurities. If you are a short fat man choosing to date attractive women who can have their pick and you try to bar them from being around more attractive men, that is not a standard. A standard is requiring honesty and kindness and respect. Not a bunch of rules you pull out of your ass to pad your insecurities or stop you worst neurotic fears from coming to pass...
Also she hearted it!!! The respect Jonah asked for should be standard from both people in any relationship. The fact that people are upset about this is surprisingly unsurprising.
I'm glad I'm not the only one who caught that--she was liking and loving those text before she decided she wanted to "expose" him for it.
Good for you Jonah setting boundaries in a polite way on your expectations. Never waiver.
As a woman, I LOVE having a man who has a similar boundaries about me! We have been together since I was 19, I'm 38 now and have the best relationship
That’s beautiful!
Considering that the ex came out like a year after when Jonah was all happy, kid and all just speaks for itself. Even worse is that she doesnt really have anything outrageous either on him, like can you really blame the guy for having standarts, cmon.
He said nor did anything wrong
Yes he did …he got into a relationship with her
@@terrencedemas6 While he has some blame,I mean he probably thought she posted those thirst pics when she was single and when she was in a relationship she will probably tone it down, but it did not happen and things only for worse.So he gently broke up with her.
I'm glad somebody said this publicly. Because I'm tired of seeing women bash him and call him controlling for not wanting to deal with her
Love everything you guys said 👏🏽
Do not date a girl who has only guy friends or is way too comfortable around other men when she's in a relationship. Trust me, I know from experience do not make the same mistakes I made
If I'm talking to a lady and she brings me around a bunch of dudes I'm just going to look at it as beta orbiter try outs and bail. Imagine doing that to a woman: hey come meat all these bar slags I used to bang before we met. That wouldn't work very well for dudes and hopefully not very long for chicks.
feminists and simps are gonna try to shame you and say you are insecure, bro.
I hear and agree with you. In my experience, I yet to meet a girl who either have good friendship or bonding with same sex. The reason , no girl want to listen to other girl's bullshit or pay for her shit. Girl's always hang around with guys because men pay for their entertainment in return they get the sex back. With all this commotion going on, people like you or me try to find a life partner. God saves us brother.
I think the resentment that she comes out with is because, now she's losing some Hollywood clout and that makes her angry that you've upset her orbiter
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Thank you! I was going a bit crazy feeling like this was totally normal boundary setting! People want us to be okay with all kinds of behavior in relationship and put our feelings aside .
2nd video ever, never heard of you until sounds of freedom, SUBSCRIBED 100% right...
As a woman , wife and mother I have to agree with Jonah. I am conservative in every aspect!!!
lmao sorry but as a guy I disagree.
@@JERSEYBOYPLAY2HARDAs a guy if you disagree you’re probably a blue pilled male feminist beta simp with testosterone levels of an 8 year old and triple jabbed.
@@JERSEYBOYPLAY2HARDAs a guy I agree with Jonah, he laid out what he was comfortable with and stated she was free to pursue other people if she disagreed.
@@dingus6317 insecure. as a man if you find every guy a teat then you simply not a lion. dude a clown. he got with her while she was doing this and now he wants her to change. guys now days are beta. just go get with a nun.
guarantee if you looked into the window of the lives of the dudes “disrespectfully” disagreeing with Jonah you’d find disorder, misconduct, mediocrity and a laundry list of overall shoddy decisions that have culminated at the very least into a very piss poor past that probably still very much spills into their present.
I thought what he wrote was mature and perfectly reasonable. It sounds like he was dating someone who couldn't respect his feelings, morals or boundaries. Someone who refused to compromise in any way. The fact that she not only didn't care about his perspective but then tried to publicly humiliate and smear him makes me think she is likely: a narcissist.
Reading between the lines she was doing something dodgy when he met her or just before and he found out about it and she blamed it on the influence of some of her former friends then shortly after that started partying with those friends including being touchy feely with several "male friends"
"people don't change "arguably ever" --I was typing as Pat said it---HE CHANGED, I'm sure YOU changed--I DO AGREE IT IS VERY VERY RARE! BUT I have done a complete 180. from being in the army in '97 to getting so F--FAT! I lost 250 pounds, got off drugs, and became the most disciplined person I know and HOLD MYSELF HIGHER STANDARD THAN 99% of people bc I want to help them! I'm an entrepreneur! TYSM Pat and everyone! I Love these episodes! I love Jonah Hill (I mean, his acting/producing etc) AND PAT I AM SO JEALOUS! I heard you with Sean at Think Media and the plans you have for filming and your new sets! SO EXCITED! BUT I WISH THAT WAS ME NOW instead of a couple years! LOVE YOU GUYS! YOU ARE WORTH IT ! praying for all y'all and your family! TY TY TY TY FOR EVERYTHING! ps--YOU SAVED MY LIFE (LITERALLY) from suicide during the pandemic! THANK YOU IS NOT ENOUGH! I gtg now and work on my channel and business so I can pay it forward!!
i agree with your statements whole heartedly stating boundaries is healthy in every relationship
I just saw a person I know on Facebook complaining about this exact text. I don't understand how it's the man's fault for stating boundaries.
Its because the "boundaries" sound really controlling. A boundary would be something like "I won't date women who post bikini pictures on instagram", in which case he shouldn't have liked all her insta posts and slid into her dms. To do that and THEN tell her to stop doing it because of his boundaries is wild
Jonah Hill just earned more of my respect.. Every relationship should have clearly communicated boundaries. Relationships are not a free-for-all, all-you-can-eat. You want to be steady with guy, yet place all ur assets out there for the world's consumption. Really do not understand girls of nowadays.
Good report
I fully agree with Patrick. I have done 3 massive transitions in my life:
1) Before I was 11 years old. I was a trouble maker and artistic.
2) After I was 11 years old. I focused on getting a scholarship. I became a very calculative and one of the best students in High School. I was very also confrontational.
3) After 24 years old when I relocated to Poland. I became more calm and developed several skills.
And I'd say I'm doing a 4th greatest change when I'm 33 years old because I got tired of many things. I'm almost starting my 3rd move of my next 5 moves.
"He's not allowed to have non-negotiables...because feminism...she should be able to do what she wants."
Nailed it. People need to start calling these feminists out for this hypocrisy!
Ya, she wanted more fame and money... but not be reasonable in any aspects on her part. Boundary-less male relationships was probably the most important thing he had problems with. He left her, and found a more conservative girl that was ready to be a partner and a mother, and hopefully it'll be worthwhile for both of them.
He got with her knowing her whole lifestyle was his non-negotiables. He wasted noth their time.
@@osiris8519 Maybe he was being the "good guy" player with her knowing full well he'd never take her seriously. Soft dumped her, and found the wife and mother of his child next!!
PEOPLE CAN'T HANDLE THE COLD HARD FACTS!! He is telling the TRUTH 🤣
Best content you’ve made so far IMO
Wow. Setting boundaries and finding someone willing to operate within them is key to long term success as long as both parties agree.
It’s not like he put a gun to her head and forced her to do something.
Keep in mind that Jonah has a top 0.1% therapist who probably told him this was a good thing to do and it took incredible strength to set those boundaries
That’s exactly what I thought!!! He made a whole documentary about his therapist!!! Lol
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We are reading your next five moves in our Morning Meet Up David. Thanks for the wisdom and wise counsel on business.
She let these texts out and tried to ruin Jonah but really what she did was got him more admirers. Good job being a great human being.
Seems like Adam gets hyped up when drama topics pop up 😂
2:17 and now we know that when a woman gives us their preferences we can now officially call them controlling and insecure.
this woman must absolutely be publicly shamed, I don't think people fully grasp what she's attempting to do, The last tool a man has in his toolbox that he can still use these days is his ability to walk away and remove itself from the relationship, She's literally trying to frame a man leaving because he has boundaries That aren't being respected toxic and misogynist
@@DangleSanif you can’t walk away from a relationship you’re done with, that’s not a relationship. That’s being a hostage.
@@DangleSanexactly.. keep dating me despite my behaviour and have ME be the one you "put a baby in.." or else I'll publicly selectively leak your private messages and say you are a horrible creep.
Stalker crap
No. It's like the people that claim only white people can be racist. Probably will claim only men can be controlling, etc. because only men have power because of the patriarchy. Or some such nonsense. LOL
No one wants a snitch as their life partner.
Always make your intentions, standards, and boundaries clear if you decide to date or form a relationship. If someone refuses to meet your requirements then they can leave.
I now have a new view of respect for this man. I hope that my daughter meets a man who is clear with his words and intentions like this.
What a great guy! He was so respectful in setting his boundaries!!
A real man, a smart man,
does not find himself in any part of this situation.
Nice segment.
I've been seeing this story for a few days, so I clicked on this just to see how badly Jonah was beating this woman, and THIS is what "legitimate" news outlets were calling abusive? OMG.
Same here. Jonah should be a hero
But meanwhile they are misreporting on what the movie sound of freedom is about. Scumbags
My wife and I are on the same wavelength with that. Zero tolerance with BS.
Damn imagine a man having standards for his woman he gets bullied and called a misogynist but nobody has a problem for women having outlandish standards. It’s crazy
Women have standards all the time. Don’t like other girls pics. Don’t flirt with other girls at work. Don’t text female girl friends, don’t snap chat girls, etc etc etc
Guy: please don’t put your naked body on Instagram
And they call it abuse!!!! It’s sickening
I can relate to Jonah 100%, God bless his new Family.
"Can you not bang other dudes?"
Modern women -"Can you believe how abusive this guy was to me!"
SO CONTROLLING!! LEAVE GUUURL YOU DESERVE BETTER
Love that message! Girls need to know they don’t need to participate in all that to match up with a stable decent guy❤️
Jonah killed this!!! Way to go bro I took notes. He articulated it so well I need that
If a human is in a relationship with another human and one of those people wants an exclusive relationship but the other is building up their body count this is not truly a relationship that some individuals can handle and they move on from this
It’s a headache how the typical, scummy media outlets are calling his straightforward communication “out of control therapy speak.”
Because Jonah had a Netflix special solely based on his therapist! With Jonah as secondary focus! He’s my kindred spirit in many brotherly ways!
Very good discussion.
I just became a Jonah Hill fan. A very polite and intelligent man standing up for his beliefs in a respectful manner.
How is this abuse??? God forbid a man speaks directly wow.
I've been with my wife since I was 19 and I'm now 44. She was 24 with a 4 yr old daughter. Our son is 19 now and he wants the same type of relationship his mother and I have and I'm proud of that. We got there by defining boundaries over all of those years and doing our best not to get even close to crossing those boundaries. All of Hill's boundaries were fine and the reason I say that is because they were stated before they got married, before they brought children in the world and they went separate ways. The only problem with boundaries is when they are thrown out after marriage, or after having a child, and aren't consistent with the boundaries that have been previously agreed upon.
I agree that people can change. What causes them to change is the determing factor. You will completely change from one thing to a different thing if something seriously compels you.
I ruin my life until 2 years ago me and my wife both completely turned 180 and changed lives. From jobless dope fiend to general managers at both of our employers work 50 to 60 hours a week
well done. Respect!!
Jonah Hill seems like a standup guy. He’s more submissive to the “race bating” in Hollywood than I’d hope for, but this text portrays a guy who knows what he wants and is perfectly reasonable in communicating those details.
That’s not controlling behavior from Jonah hill. He’s actually very reasonable.
Jonah laid out his case perfectly… Women always seem shocked when good men say, thanks….but no thanks. And later in her life, she’ll likely be back…or want to be. Stick to your morals Jonah!
That 304 tried to call his bluff.. only to realize it wasn't a bluff.. she did what all women do, got mad and jealous and tried to get revenge
Thats not what he said. This is not about morals its about his insecurity in himself. he hearted the video of her surfing in a bikini then told her she had to take down all pictures of her self in a swimsuit... she is a surfer and a surf instructor, they get their money from endorsements and modeling, usually in swim wear... where was the part where he said he was going to financially support her and compensate her for whatever money she missed out on by changing so he would feel less insecure. Good luck finding women willing to work with you going forward jonah...
"Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned."
Man this guy is an awesome human! I wish I could communicate so clearly without offending people. Wow 😅
"The problem is he's not supposed to have non negotiables" well said Lauren Chen 👏
I’m glad Lauren brought up the wife material comment. I completely agree with all of them about Jonah’s intentions and his right to preferences, but I also agree that (unless the girl does a bait and switch), I have little sympathy for men who hook up with the fast and shallow arm candy and then complain that she’s fast and shallow. I’ve been hearing a lot about how women should have realistic expectations - well, that goes both ways. The first text mentions that her previous behaviors eroded the trust in their relationship, so it was obviously not new behavior.
Don't forget that she posted it all publicly in hopes of hurting him through social ostracization. Send her social media mob of SJW white knights after him. That's how women operate these days. Character assassination is their first move when they feel they have been even remotely slighted.
@@dejuren1367That’s not victims blaming, that pointing out problematic expectations that end up causing problems.
He also has to take some level of accountability for his choice.
I made a comment also asking how he dated and get into a serious rlsp with a professional surfer and athletic model when he knew he preferred women of a more quieter conservative nature in appearance and behavior.
@@ogolden8315 agree, I’ve found myself in a similar situation as Jonah currently. I’m just lucky enough to not be famous and have my business blasted all over the internet 😂 but I knew what I was getting into and her past behavior, it was my fault thinking I would be the difference maker in her behavior so I see where you’re coming from
@@datMMAguy Thanks for your honesty bcos I feel there is a little bit of cognitive dissonance and psychology dishonesty going on the discussion.
I don’t follow these people, so just by the few clips I’ve heard on the story, I can’t say much about abuse, but I will say there was definitely some attempted level of emotional manipulation happening.
I say that bcos based on his texts he…
FIRST - He pursued a woman who was established in a profession/career that doesn’t really lend itself to the mode of dress and socialization (surfing is a very male dominated sports, so it’s logical to me that she would have more male colleagues in that area than female).
SECOND - It doesn’t seem like (based on rough timeline) he had expressed these expectations in the beginning of his pursuit of her. If he had really expressed all this at the very first few weeks of dating, then the rlsp most likely wouldn’t have continued.
OR…. If it did continue, then she would have continued it based on her agreement with his expectations.
I think it is manipulative to wait until someone is emotionally invested in you and the rlsp to start pushing for changes that you pretended to be okay with earlier. Men hate when women do that and resist, so I can image she also resisted.
The other manipulation tactic was the dangling of marriage. She’s invested in the rlsp and you all are at the stage of making a decision to go to the next level, but in order for you (Jonah) to consider it, she has to do xyz.
Now, obviously, the rlsp ended at some point. Her releasing the text with the arrival of his new child, doesn’t put her in a good light.
However, I don’t really see him as some totally stand up guy who was just setting boundaries and expectations (which there is nothing wrong with).
Hopefully, he picked his new wife and mother to his child based on the fact that she ALREADY had the desired qualities he wanted set in place.
@@ogolden8315 It's normally more complicated then just one or the other. It can often be both. Maybe he totally thought he was going to be fine with her and her job but as whatever trust eroded he became less okay with it?
That's right!! Jonnah Hill knows his value and if she can't agree with the boundaries then gtfo
That is actually a perfect tweet. He outlines exactly what his "boundaries" are and says if it this is not what you want then he is fine with it and will support her, but he just cannot be in a monogamous relationship with her. Well done. How on earth is this wrong?
It's wrong because mongamy is no longer the standard, making a "mistake" or having "regrets" is the norm now. Its better to be sorry than safe🤷♂
Well said!!!