Daniel's point about fighting against one's ideal play versus typical play is a good one. We often think when we're playing at our best, that should be the new average, and when we don't meet that expectation self-destructive thoughts occur and the "wheels start falling off".
Intuitive tennis made a similar point w/ his student when he talked about winning on a day where you feel good vs a day where you feel off, and her argued the most important was the later
I’d just say remember that 99.99% of us pay money to play tennis and aren’t getting paid. Don’t waste your time and money throwing a tantrum or fretting about some missed shots, just learn to take joy in the process. Great vid Jonas and Daniel!
Love it!! I live by Timothey Gallwey’s book the inner game of tennis and it was given to me by my former coach Nick Bollettieri when I became his elite protégé back in 1985. Tak tak. Ps: I’ll be talking to Head soon about being sponsored professionally as a 59 year old! I’m stoked!!!
I played competitive Juniors growing up in South Africa and the fear of losing / pressure of succeeding / not disappointing my parents ultimately ended my career with tennis . 25 years on I’ve just picked up a racket for the first time again after some deep reflection on my life , how I handle my emotions and how to deal with defeat and it’s honestly changed my life for the better . I don’t get upset on the court , I can keep calm and identify when I am about to allow negative thoughts in . Mental toughness I think it’s probably the most important aspect of the game .
Playing in competitions is the best way to improve, if you have the right mindset. You have to solve a lot of problems, the main one being how to overcome your opponent. It's not for the faint-hearted and you need to be strong mentally.
my main mental hurdle is not winning or losing. i don't care too much about that. but playing worse than what i expect from myself, that is hard to handle for me.
Hi, I would like to hear more of y our discussion about playing as a doubles team. I assume Daniel is a stronger player and I want his perspective as well your perspective on how you deal w/ being the "weaker link of the chain/team" At my level, I'm used to being the stronger person on the team and work on being patient not expressing displeasure w/ mistakes. But as I move to the next level, I will find myself taking on the role of the weaker link.
As usual, nice talk plenty of content. In my case, I learnt that, by far, the fear of making a mistake hitting wide or long is THE LIMIT. I care too much about the score, confusing intensity with "caring too much". Even if I'm old (I just restarted to play after a long long break), that's the lesson I'm learning now. It's never too late, is't it? 😉
Playing matches is fun but only when you have decent level - don’t make double faults, can keep the ball in play. It just adds another dimension to the game.
Daniel's point about fighting against one's ideal play versus typical play is a good one. We often think when we're playing at our best, that should be the new average, and when we don't meet that expectation self-destructive thoughts occur and the "wheels start falling off".
Intuitive tennis made a similar point w/ his student when he talked about winning on a day where you feel good vs a day where you feel off, and her argued the most important was the later
I’d just say remember that 99.99% of us pay money to play tennis and aren’t getting paid. Don’t waste your time and money throwing a tantrum or fretting about some missed shots, just learn to take joy in the process. Great vid Jonas and Daniel!
Nothing like a fresh grip to improve mindset and performance.
Good conversation about what all tennis players experience.
Love it!! I live by Timothey Gallwey’s book the inner game of tennis and it was given to me by my former coach Nick Bollettieri when I became his elite protégé back in 1985. Tak tak. Ps: I’ll be talking to Head soon about being sponsored professionally as a 59 year old! I’m stoked!!!
I played competitive Juniors growing up in South Africa and the fear of losing / pressure of succeeding / not disappointing my parents ultimately ended my career with tennis . 25 years on I’ve just picked up a racket for the first time again after some deep reflection on my life , how I handle my emotions and how to deal with defeat and it’s honestly changed my life for the better . I don’t get upset on the court , I can keep calm and identify when I am about to allow negative thoughts in .
Mental toughness I think it’s probably the most important aspect of the game .
This was a good video. Lots to think about for competing.
Great topics! I have these issues on the court.
Playing in competitions is the best way to improve, if you have the right mindset. You have to solve a lot of problems, the main one being how to overcome your opponent. It's not for the faint-hearted and you need to be strong mentally.
Such a great video!! Love it!!!
my main mental hurdle is not winning or losing. i don't care too much about that. but playing worse than what i expect from myself, that is hard to handle for me.
Really great discussion. 🎉
Thanks Jason!
Hi, I would like to hear more of y our discussion about playing as a doubles team. I assume Daniel is a stronger player and I want his perspective as well your perspective on how you deal w/ being the "weaker link of the chain/team" At my level, I'm used to being the stronger person on the team and work on being patient not expressing displeasure w/ mistakes. But as I move to the next level, I will find myself taking on the role of the weaker link.
As usual, nice talk plenty of content. In my case, I learnt that, by far, the fear of making a mistake hitting wide or long is THE LIMIT. I care too much about the score, confusing intensity with "caring too much". Even if I'm old (I just restarted to play after a long long break), that's the lesson I'm learning now. It's never too late, is't it? 😉
Have fun, don’t care about the score…the winner has to pay the drink…🙃
@@TheBlessedLion that's a great hint 🤣🤣
Playing matches is fun but only when you have decent level - don’t make double faults, can keep the ball in play. It just adds another dimension to the game.
Definitely therapy. Unless the opponents are belligerent.
I know a pusher that also cheats but luckly he is playing in my team ^^
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The word 'push' is used because all the other four letter words were already taken
Nice trucker tan Jonas 🙃
Worked hard on it!
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