"If You Want To FIND THE PERFECT Relationship, WATCH THIS!" | Marisa Peer
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- I talked with my team and wanted to share the REAL reason I met my husband, the love of my life. Watch this video to learn the important changes I made for myself before attracting a romantic partner. Love should never be chased or worked for, so learn the secret to manifesting and attracting the right person.
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Marisa Peer is the author of 'I Am Enough' and creator of Rapid Transformational Therapy®️(RTT). Marisa Peer is an English best-selling author, nutritionist, relationship therapist, hypnotherapist trainer, and motivational speaker. She is using hypnosis for anxiety, weight loss, addiction, and overcoming fear.
She has spent over 30 years working with people including royalty, rock stars, actors, professional and Olympic athletes, CEOs and media personalities and has developed her own style that is frequently referred to as "life-changing."
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The last guy I met was handsome, successful and funny. From the moment we met we had an instant rapport. We had so much in common. I thought I’d met ‘the one’. Then, a few dates in, he commented ‘look at the state of that’ about a size 16 or so woman in leopard print yoga pants. I knew it was time to end it. Pick someone kind and they’ll always be kind to you, even during the hard times.
Very perceptive of you🤔
it's only an opinion lol
This is so true.
If they aren't kind with others, it is only a matter of time until they will be unkind towards you. Red signals =>run
I am going through a breakup right now and I really appreciate this comment. My ex was mean towards his mother, he said he has no moral debt towards her because he was mad that she does not save money. Although she had an expensive apartment on her name, buy anyway. Not a nice, kind guy... I understand now
I married my intellectual husband at age 40. I respected him.above all and then 26 years we are in love with each other
Beautiful ❤
Make what you want familiar.
Make what your want normal. Don’t put love on a pedestal.
The last line was what I needed to hear ❤️
That last line is huge for me too! I used to watch a lot of RomComs until I realized I’d idealize love in a way that was unrealistic. Learning and growing everyday has helped me overcome these “fantasies.”’
💖 Marisa Peer Team
eye opener.. I choose guys who are not putting me first just like my parents did. I've always had this fear that no one will choose me or put me first. And in my friendships I do the same thing, even go farder and put them first always put them on a pedestal dedicate my time and feel guilty even at the thought of saying no to them WOW
I needed to hear this! Sexual chemistry, best friend chemistry and admire/respect. Look at their qualities. Make what you love familiar and make the negative unfamiliar. Decide to being lovable and accept yourself. Absolutely believe that you’re worthy of love. It’s a choice to be happy! ❤️
Thanks 💖 I’ve made the negative familiar
I dumped an ex because he was treating his dog horribly and called her names was very short tempered with her she was young only a year old. I couldn’t take it I lost all respect for him!
I noticed this about an ex too, he liked annoying his dog and make him fake bite him. I felt so annoyed watching those scenes
I was hoping to hear you somehow convinced your ex to give you the dog.
Oh Marisa, thank you so much for sharing so much of your own life and experience with us. I have finally found the companion for the rest of my life... and my ex husband from a 20-year marriage who's love was never attainable even when I tried jumping through all the hoops he said he required said, "Oh, I see you've finally made the effort and put in the work to stay with someone". And I told him, "Nonono, it couldn't be simpler! It is so easy to be with someone who accepts me for who I am." As opposed to 20 years of being with someone who criticized me for who or what I am not.
So thankful to watch this video and have it confirmed that my companion ticks all the boxes. We're in our third year, and for the first time, ever in my 48 years, the more time I spend with him, the more I discover things that I like about him. Ciao from Italy, L
This is such a wonderful thing to hear xx
Absolutely!!! Spent 7 years TRYING to please looking over my shoulder all
The time .. he was NEVER satisfied!! I’m on my own now.. but not for long always grateful for healing time. Far better to be alone then with somebody who makes you very unhappy and diminishes your self-respect self worth and self love.
I resonate with everything you mentioned. I was in a relationship which I was head over heels in. I had the sexual chemistry, the best friend chemistry and thought I had the admiration and respect in the beginning. Over time, this person wanted me to change the way I perceived my son, treated him and change my thoughts about the things that mattered to me. I remember putting off a real estate course because he felt it would take away from our time. I wanted to make him so happy I became exhausted, miserable and physically sick. He always threatened to leave me and I felt scared to lose him so I tried to be and think the way he wanted and resented him and myself in the process. It showed in the relationship as I became less interested physically and lost respect for him even though I tried to convince my self otherwise. He was very critical of everything and I became critical too. I’m very grateful that he left because I did not know how to leave him. I’m learning now that I’m enough and undoing habits to avoid these pitfalls as a result of an ill perception of myself.
@@lifeslessons9889 Same here.
If you have to twist yourself into a pretzel to be accepted by your nearest and dearest, run! They are narcissists if the first order, sick and hollow inside, who need to put you down, so they feel "up". That won't last long, then they need to do it again. Do not accept this.
Funny, that’s exactly wat I often say to ppl who tell me that it’s time I find someone to be with and eventually marry: “if I don’t find my partner in this lifetime, I’m ok with it.” I hated all the dramas with my ex and now that I’ve my peace of mind, I enjoy being by myself. I don’t seem to want to find someone else either. Thx for your wise words MP 🙏🏻
I wish I could gift her something
She's always a great help to me
your lovely comment is the best gift ever thank you so much xxx
There is a common fear among people who fail in love once or twice that they might have the same experience as the previous one and due to this reason they always have a doubt and apprehensions about whether the next one will give them what they are looking or leave them in same condition as past ones. 🙃🙃Even I learnt from my experiences that you get what you focus on. If your focus on your failures then definitely the next one will be same and if you focus on success and look for positive things you are bound to be happy and peaceful in whatever you do. 😊💝
Beautifully said, I agree🙌💛✨
You’re right! We should focus on what we want and NOT in our fears!
The first rule of love is to learn to love yourself, if you cannot love yourself, you cannot love anyone🙏
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you cannot give what you don't have
Maybe you could start a dating service with your website? That could help people meet others who are RTT fans.
I am lovable: this brought me to tears. Thank you for sharing your personal story. 💗
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We all get what we deserve, and if we feel that we DESERVE BETTER, then it's time to BELIEVE that WE DO. 😁 mostly putting this here for myself, but if you're reading this right now, know that you're worthy. 😙
Thank you so much for this video Marisa, much love to you 💟💟💟
Thank you for this. My relationship with my ex was just like the ideal relationship you described. I feel very grateful to have experienced it.
Hi Marisa, I'm at that stage where I would much rather imagine my future as a single person than tolerate all the drama associated with the bad relationships. Finally content. So happy for you and your husband- teabags and lettuce.. hilarious!
Thank you so much for these insights, they’re so helpful!
This is just the right video for single people. Thanks!
You’re welcome ❤️
Marisa is a wise woman! Thank you! ♥️🙏
Thank you for sharing whispers of wisdom. As a single person I find it interesting how friends or acquaintances express that it’s hard to believe I’m not married and they have an interest to ... find someone for me! 😂😳😂 As you share, being alone is quite a good status, as an unhealthy relationship without respect and trust between two people is of no desire. When we find a person whom we become friends with and experience in each other a resting place of like-mindedness in values and beliefs, spontaneous conversational sharing, joy, laughter, care and kindness gestures the outcome will be unity upon our responses leading to sexual intimacy. Those engaging in sex early on in relationships, guilty 👋 as charged, will come to learn however the overarching requisite for bonding with one another is found in the emotional, intellectual and spiritual areas of life... they cannot be separated from the physical. Continuing to be blessed by your spirit of kindness to your family of followers! Gracias 🙂💕👊
I have it like you had, picking toxic partners that Felt distant And cold to me, i didnt know why i was attracted to people who were cold with me, Now im realizing its because both mum And dad werent good at showing me love when i was a Kid And my mother was toxic for me. Father left for another woman. Its So weird that what happens in your childhood, keeps repeating until you Are ready to accept it, feel the buried feelings finally And heal. I Hope ill find a man who Will be honest And loving one day, same as me
Sending you so much love and best wishes xx
Hi Marisa, thanks for being genuine. Thanks for sharing your
Story. My lid is on the way,I just feel it.❤This is so helpful. Much love Marisa.😊❤
Love this so much ❤...thank you for sharing this insight. It's amazing how sexual chemistry can cloud our judgment. It's also uncanny how we gravitate towards the familiar, often subconsciously, even if the familiar is terribly toxic!! I'm happy that I finally broke that pattern as well...my boyfriend was someone who initially held no attraction for me, however he was persistent so I got to know him on a different level and the chemistry developed with time. 😘A sharp wit & intelligence are my favorite traits in a partner as well!!🤗💖
Thanks Marisa! I’ve been educating myself almost everyday since I found your UA-cam channel. I became a certified wellness advisor last winter, but I love your teaching and finally it makes lots of sense by learning so much from you! After learning from you, I even made my video, “Command Yourself, ‘No More Leftovers for Me!’” for my fitness audience! Haha You impacted me SO much. I’m interested in your training!
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Thanks,Marissa. Since I have started watching hing your videos,I am feeling better about myself. I struggled with finding love,because I didn't love myself. I had attachment issues because of low self esteem.
Thank you for sharing! Your so great to remind me of my worth and what I am searching for❤ I am tired of working for love and worthy of it!!!! Thank you, thank-you for all the wisdom
🌹😄This video is so beautiful and honest.Thank you for sharing your experience with us.
I now have hope again to meet my future partner after all.I am ready to get married🌹
That's wonderful ❤️
So lovely to hear about how your relationship now is beautiful after past turmoils ❤ real does give hope.
Aww 💗Beautiful message, Complementing each other 🌻 beautiful story. starting the day with love and light. Thank you
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Thanks for sharing these helpful stories. You are amazing. I like the fact that you are talking from experience and giving us tips. Thanks, Marisa! Much love.❤🤗
Thank you for your lovely comment ❤️
Thank you Marisa.
I have been following and learning from your work for a wile now and made some of your very powerful hypnosis courses.
I am divorced and have children.I left my husban even though we had an amazing mental & sexual connection and we loved each other very much, but he was very abusive mentaly, critical, negative and, he was not a kind person.
I felt our relationship was very hard work.
It was more than 2 years ago since I divorced.
I am a magnet to men, in a good way, I have so many oportunities to meet and start dating someone new but I am pushing them away and I don't even meet anyone for more than a coffee.
Listening to you, I realised how afraid I was and am to fall into the same abusive relationship so I cut myself from all the potential relationship men around me.
Some are realy all a woman would want but I realize that subconsiously, I am looking for the "bad boy" type, but I don't want to date him really.
So I continue pushing men away.Saying no.
I made a decision to stop looking for this type of man.
I will make it familiar. To look for the other type.Sexual chemistry, best friend chemistry and we must respect and want to be with this kind, smart and nice person .Thank you .(-:
Sending you best wishes xx
Your speaking soothes me, I LOVE YOU
Such an emotional, honest history you shared . Made me emotional I suppose as it resonated. Thank you for your love and wisdom as always 💗🙏🏻
Thank you for your lovely comment ❤️💖 Marisa Peer Team
Absolutely beautiful! Thank you for sharing your personal story. I felt like I was talking with a really great friend...I may or may not have verbally responded to you while watching your video. 🤗
This is beautiful! Thank you for sharing, Marisa. I am ready for such a relationship.
Marisa, love you 🙏❤️🙏your honesty, your story. So so happy for you awesome to listen to you and truly thankful to all you have created. Feel so blessed to the amazing people who have helped me through. I am feeling brave and so free now I am about to Publish my first book on Amazon it’s to raise the Vibrational Frequency. God bless you, oh and yes I’m single feel the best ever in my life I’m 57 in a few weeks. I absolutely resonate with you after manipulative marriage etc.
Found myself it’s awesome.
Love the lid - just brilliant. So funny my daughter leaves the lids of everything. It is a choice.
Lov’n’light to you always xx
Very useful insight.. thank you . And, you said what I now believe of myself.. I’d sooner be happy on my own than with the one who makes you unhappy! Been there 🥺
Thank you so much Marissa, it's just what i needed to hear 💜
You are so welcome darling :)
Wow very interesting insights. ❤️
I love this so much!! Thank you so so much for sharing this intimate story! You are wonderful Marisa ❤️ xxxx
That’s really kind of you to say ❤️
The happiest time of my life was the first 7 when I lived with my mum and Gran so it didn't involve my Dad who I didn't meet until 16 and so I feel like I don't need a man to be happy.
What a wonderful testimony. Thank you.
Thanks a ton, Marisa - you are the best!💛
And I LOVE your husband I need to stop tolerating less than what I deserve
That's funny I saw bridesmaids and that movie was hilarious LOL
I love this video. It reminds me of somethings my mother told me when I was young.
Love it!Thank you Marisa ❤ 🙏with appreciation!
Thank you for sharing. What a lovely story. Long may your love continue. 🌝🇬🇧
Values are sooo important.
Thank you Marisa. Please can you write a short book with all your quotes in. They are amazing.
Hi, thank you so much for your suggestions. I will make sure that I pass these on to Marisa and the team 🌸 (Kim - Marisa Peer Team)
Thank you so much. All I needed to hear now!😁
Just imagine how easy everything would be in our lives if changing your mindset to loving yourself and knowing you are enough was as easy as flipping a light switch. I love Marisa and her videos, but I always struggle to practice what she preaches. Does anyone feel the same?
don't beat your self up, the transition is hard. but once its done, its done! i've been on this journey for 5 years and there is still things i'm learning. best wishes to you.
@@alisameiah5035 🤗
It's doable... If you need assistance talk to her team of therapists you will experience freedom in a very new and exciting perception
Sometimes the gulf between having a healthy life or mind and where we currently are makes it soooo difficult to implement or even understand people like Marissa
The secret is in how u self identify. U hv to change ur self perception. Change you self concept first
Hello Marisa Thank you for speaking from your Heart ♥ Your a Pioneer woman I am so Happy to be on your Amazing Rapid Transformational Therapy It's something that makes my soul and Heart Dance with joy
Love Yvonne xxx ♥️♥️♥️
That’s really kind of you to say ❤️
I love your videos! I’ve found them at the right time.
You spoke about your husband the whole video!!!!!!
It's such a wonderful feeling listening to you , great advice ♥️
You're an inspiration. Thank you.
I think this is my favorite video of yours! Excellent!!!
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So amazing ❤seriously...my mind opens up by listening to u Marisa! Thank u thank u and thank u
You’re welcome ❤️
Make the crazy men unfamiliar. Best advice yet thank you!
Awesome listening to and learning from you Marisa. Thank you x
I seem to always attract men who are younger than me. I am not sure what is up with that pattern. I don't want to be with someone younger than me. I don't mind a few years years. Even 5-6 years is doable at this stage (46). I just find it discouraging when I know the man is 10 years or more younger and I can tell he likes me and I do like his personality but I never open up to the pursuit of it because he is just too young. So disappointing when that happens. Most important to me is finding someone I respect and admire. Surely I can find that in someone my age?! LOL. Someone a few years older than me would be a refreshing change of pattern. Can I make that the familiar?
Excellent video/advice!
Thank you for all that you do Marissa!
This is beautiful ❤️ How do we make the qualities familiar?
So glad you enjoyed this. You can make unfamiliar qualities familiar by paying close attention to who you are attracted to and who you spend time with. Look for the qualities that previously you might have overlooked - it's a case of making a conscious effort to spot them, until it becomes subconscious x Marisa Peer Team
Thank you so much Marisa!
Are you going to make a 21-day transformation for finding love, similar as you did for abundance? ❤️
yes that will be ready next month
@@MarisaPeer oh how great is that 🥰😍
I am hopeful, what a powerful message.
I've never heard anyone validate that. My mom was a very successful teacher. Til this day we say her "kids" weren't really her kids.
Thank you
Thank you for sharing it. Very insightful 🙏
Thank you for your lovely comment ❤️
Bless you Marisa I really needed this
I must admit I'm guilty of threatening to leave my partner, as if I'm always waiting for it to end.
It’s good that you realize it’s wrong, that’s the first step to making positive changes!
@@chezy8148 yeah, don't get me wrong sometimes he deserves it but I need to manage my emotions better
Thank you!
Thanks a lot!
Beautiful story. 💕
Thank you so much❤️🌷🌸
Funny is vital. I love your videos
There is one other thing you need to do to find a partner. You need to get out of the house. Get out and about. I know too many women who go to work and then just go home and watch tv and they wonder why they don't find the right person. They don't usually just show up on your doorstep. Unless you have a job where you meet lots of people you need to venture out
Good point but where to go to meet someone? I'm a guy and don't meet a lot of people at work, don't go to church or bars, so where meet a nice single woman? Also the online dating experience hasn't worked out.
@@jacque4697 I guess some ideas might be that you could volunteer for a fundraiser or event. Take a class at a community college. In fact if you have a skill you could teach a night class at the community college. Get a cute puppy or borrow a friend's and walk it in the park you would be surprised how many people stop to say hi to the dog and end up talking to you. Go to a museum or an outdoor event. Window shopping in a mall. I once dated a man I meet in a grocery store when I couldn't reached the top shelf and he helped me. There are lots of places. Just don't sit at home. Good luck!
i wish I heard this when i was 18. I wouldnt be so terrified of dating as I am today
Hi Aurinko, glad you enjoyed the video. Sorry to hear that you find dating difficult. If you wish to seek self development in this area, I would potentially advise booking an RTT session with one of our specialist therapists who can discuss your concerns further and give you additional support. You can book this using the link below:
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Marisa Peer Team
omg I thought I was the only one who didn't close lids properly hahaha
Put me first. That's something I long to experience.
Fantastic Marissa
Thanks for sharing this
You’re welcome ❤️
Thank you .. you're so lovely ❤️🥰🥰
How do you change the familiar to unfamiliar and vice versa?
Thank you. I am loveable.
You absolutely are. 💖 Marisa Peer Team
Love it!
God bless you Marisa
My appreciation💕🌺
This was me 🥴 thank you Marisa 🌺❤
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Love this 🙏💜
Thank You So Very Much Marisa! ❤️ I Like You. ❤️
I Really Do Like You. ❤️
You Are My Friend.
You Are My Therapist. 💖
I Do Hope That You Don't Mind?
Because, I Don't Want Anyone Else, But You. ❤️
My Name Is Teresa Murphy.
I Live In Tacoma, Washington USA.
of course i don't mind I love your comments thank you XX
Mam I am just in a great delusion I just want a advice. Right now I am not looking for any relationship because I wanna learn more about me and what exactly relationship means, but I do have a male friend, and I love him a lot according to me love is just something found in every relation I love him as much as I love my female friend. But now I am confused is he someone I can move in in romantic relationship in future, and if not how will I identify or know that this is the person I would want to live n share my future life with?
If u suggest me reading me any book or any Playlist pls do. Thank u
Hey Marissa , if you got bored one day and found this comment can you please make a review about the movie "Howls moving castle"?? It's a great movie.. I would love to hear your thoughts about this especially the main character Sophie 💜💜💜☺️🌸
Is there an appropriate age when someone could find the true love?is it curse or wish for someone young to find the everlasting love?
Some fictional examples for visualization purposes: (We don't expect the guy to be like our fictional crushes. Similarities are appreciated. But if I told you who I liked, you wouldn't know the guy. So fiction makes better examples for people you don't know. Also, it is more entertaining.) Mr. Darcy from Pride and Prejudice. (Obviously. Book, TV series, movie. They all rock.) Mark Darcy from Bridget Jones. He is a bit too grounded, but that can be forgiven on the grounds of him being lovely all around in general. Also, I'm not as crazy as Bridget Jones, so we could work. (Referring to what happened between the second and third movie.) Hawkeye from The Last of the Mohicans. He is brave, loyal, passionate, predictable (in a good way), and has integrity. You can't beat that no matter the century. Robin Hood. (The Kevin Costner one, preferably.) Russell Crowe's character from A Good Year Gerard Butler's character from The Ugly Truth - the more decent scene revealed before the dancing. Not the exaggerated chauvinistic persona he donned. (Yes, she was a bit much and flawed, but we are talking about men right now.) Hugh Jackman's many characters. Logan, Leopold, Drover, Stanley, Eddie… Charles from Younger. The list is long. You get the idea. (Charles is the character from the video.) This is where real freedom starts to come into play, because everything I have mentioned above can be done from your computer with an internet connection. You're beautiful, sexy, show. Motorbike, Sprite, Spiderman, Phi Po I love you
Dear Marisa, I have a personal question about relationships, and really need your help. Can you please let me know how to contact you. I really need your advice 🙏🏻❤️
Thanks for reaching out. If you wish to seek therapeutic support/self development, I would advise booking an RTT session with one of our specialist therapists who can discuss your concerns further. You can book this using the link below:
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Marisa Peer Team
I am happy with your succesful marrige. But if take into consideration the fact that there are limited number of intelligent men, who can have all those qualities you mentioned, for a happy life, does it mean other men should not make famillies as they do not have appropriate qualities for being a perfect husband?
Thank you so much. 💓💃🇦🇹🙂
♥ thank you ♥