1) Do not be too available, too easy, too agreeable. Don’t work hard to get him. Be a prize - you’re the diamond and they are the setting. Have your own opinion. Have your own life and he will notice that. Be a little mysterious. The man you’re dating must earn your time, affection and love. 2) A guy will like you if he feels good around you and with you. Do everything you can like laugh at his jokes, engage with him. Don’t focus on making them feel good all the time, but focus on how they would feel around you. Have the conversation be an equal exchange. Be the best you. 3) Start to use the word “we” in the convo more. Things like “we” had the best time last night.
the kind of males this sort of mindset will attract are beta males, who are willing to be submissive in the relationship. aka you will have to be the one doing the approaching and talking to them. Men who are succesful tend to be very alpha and alpha energy are attracted to people who are submissive. just wanted you to know that you're 1. either a masculine female looking for a submissive boyfriend or a submissive female looking for a masculine boyfriend. it's impossible to have both energies in the same person, those relationships never work out.
@@zeroresistance7203 Nothing is impossible. I've often dated men with matching energy. It can be quite exhilarating. And I've dated with opposite energy and that's fun too, but I'm really just looking for respect and kindness (and sanity) bc it seems to be really hard to find yet it's so basic.
Right on time. Today I know my worth and I know I'm a Queen looking for a King. Thanks my beautiful friend. You're such an amazing woman to share your wisdom. God bless you.
I believe, to make a relationship work, you must give as much as you recieve & recieve as much as you give. Mutual Effort is Critical. 'Do Not row the boat alone' Do not criticize, or emasculate. Do not project Your feelings onto someone else. Listen and be present. Respect one another. Be, act and do the way you want to be done onto you. Exude happiness and just love 💕
If ANY person ever is addicted to another person that person is probably a replacement drug for something else they have been addicted to. Just like any other drug the addiction to you will get old and you will be replaced by another drug. People with addictive personalities usually are not a good match for people looking for a commitment because the addiction problems always come first and you are second. Psychology - addictive behavior.
Dear Marissa, I will listen to your videos over and over and over so that it can saturate my brain. After two long failed marriages I realize for number one I did not stand up for myself and say I don't want to marry you and number two I let him sweep me off my feet too easily. Now I have the ability to speak up and say no thank you. I appreciate your loving time spent for who see our worth.
@@MarisaPeer Marisa, I hope you have been doing wonderfully! I wanted to ask, what do I do if I was easy in the beginning, and am seeking this balanced relationship with my partner now? We ended up getting married, but I have from the beginning done almost everything (people pleaser/making it easy). How can I make him interested, when he doesn’t care either way? We’ve also didn’t really do dates before, where he took me out for my pleasure, etc, and even now, he still rarely asks about me/ or asks what I’ve been up to, etc. He says we’re all caught up, etc, so it’s not that there’s a lot to ask me about. I do love him, he is sweet in his own, very limited way, but I definitely feel like he doesn’t really care about things I would like, etc. I’d like to be in a more receptive relationship, where he shows his interest in me as much as I do, but I don’t know how to transition when he’s already been receiving all the attention, without having to offer it back due to my actions before and now
We are so lucky to have you Marisa ☺️ ,, Thank you for always doing so much for people who can’t perhaps afford to go to a therapist, Thank you for your words of wisdom again today, it really struck a cord with me 💖.
@@MarisaPeer Thank you for all you do , you are helping me daily to become stronger by listening to your videos & telling myself daily’ I am Enough, I am lovable, I deserve the love I so freely give others ‘. 💖💖💖💖 xxx
What brilliant advice. I wish I had had it when I was younger as it would have stopped me from being in so many disastrous relationships but thank you Marisa, as always you have hit the nail on the head with everything you say. I love you forever.xxxxxxxxxx
Sometimes I feel you always need to keep running from them all your life. They will keep running after you. Our love and expression is only for children and pets. Never show a man your ability to love!
Reveal yourself gradually with a possible good person. Both of you will benefit if the match is good. Distance the losers as you learn they are not good for you.
You show limited vulnerability, or gradual vulnerability. If they become more distant, you drop them. Do not try to change them. You cannot. Rather, learn who they are and make intelligent choices.
Well the idea of chasing after things, badgering and being pushy is great for the field of business. You can be a shark in your own right and it will work. The thing is, and I don't know why we think we have to chase men because I was always taught right from the very beginning was to let them chase you. Let them wonder where you are and what you're up to. However apparently because I've spoken to men a lot of them loose interest because they think we are unavailable, so we have to do a little something to make them think they're in with a chance to do something, to come over - a lot of men won't waste their time if they think all is going to happen is to be rejected so I think we have to do something. It's just all the right balance because we don't want to seem too easy but up for a date. Before I met my husband I used to be able to date quite confidently it was just in the relationship when they were loosing that interest and I was more invested but they were very interested in the beginning. And I do know that your supposed to keep your interests, keep your hobbies and don't cancel just because he or she wants you to come over because you're teaching them they can pick you up and put you down and it does cause some disrespect from them towards you because if that person is healthy they want you to have a backbone they don't want to do that to you but abusers like toxic people will see that a d exploit that to their advantage!!!
@@nofybn7794 hurt people hurt people. Sorry you’ve been hurt. Look into manifesting and your life will change. In order to stop being hurt, you need to work on healing and loving yourself
@@lifeslessons9889 maybe sometimes these experiences were needed, for the lessons they taught us...Alone isn't the worst thing one can be, imo (and also alone doesn't have to be = lonely.) Its far worse to be lonely in a relationship. Good for you that you got out and are healing!♡ I know the feeling in regards of 'wasted years', but at least we DID get out in time...some people never do that step 😥
So isn’t man is a hunter limiting belief? I want to be myself no matter what still feel loved, if i am gonna play games because i believe they are hunters than each time i share myself i start to fear of loosing him.
Same. I hate the idea of having to play games. If you can't be your genuine self, what's the point? All that pretence is exhausting and when under stress, people will likely see the real you at some point.
In a way yes,but its also coded in their DNA for generations..see it not as playing games but rather teaching them what your worth is..staying in your feminine receiving mode,you dont have to keep this up forever,just the dating stage..its not about "not being you" its about not working hard for him,and lean back to receive from him.❤
What understood was that If the “real you” is one that drops her life to please a man Bc you fear if you don’t he will leave Bc that’s a turn off for men. To be honest I don’t like a man that’s all the time after me at the beginning it bores me I take it like he has not life b4 me. I want a man that has a filled life (but that’s me). And she also said “At the beginning” don’t make him your priority, until he earns your time and your attention. On my book that isn’t playing games I genuinely have a full life to make time for a man he has to earned, become meaningful to me.
Love yourself ladies. Make your life beautiful on your own. Fill your life with what you love. Work hard, make money on your own. This will attract the right man
Thank you, learned the hard way. I completely lost myself and it is taking me alot of work and years to learn who I am and become me. I felt invisible to my partner. And once I became so involved in things I neglected; with my own interests, friends, activities, trips without my partner he is always wanting to spend time with me.
Omg! I used to date men and let them treat me poorly because I thought it was the way to show I'm really into them... "Uh, I came all the way to the Netherlands and you're just inviting me for a hot chocolate drink (expecting sex after)? Well, everybody else would say how cheap of you, but it's okay because I really like you." Now I am boths angry at them and myself >:(
absolutely true...I never was selfish or arrogant.. but there was this boy ( now a man 😅..) who always wanted to date me., for the last 10 years.., I somehow didnt like him and was sure he is not worthy to meet., so I started ignoring.., then he somehow always find me on facebook, instagram or twitter..., he was even blocked from my side for 3 years...and then he finds me again via social media..., once he even contacted my mother ..😂.. : Angry and exhausted I decided to give him a chance and he was going mad, that I am finally talking to him ( yes only talking, not a date ...), the result is: he is amazing 🤩...and now I am totally in love with him...but at the same time I always make sure he got a Prize and he knows it...after all he wanted me for the last 10 years...☺️
I think we can't use the Charles and Camilla example, as diana did have a very fiery and cheeky side, but she wasn't Charles choice initially. It was chosen for him. I really do believe we have a destined strong soul mate, and Camilla was it for Charles. But your concept is fabulous and does work for mainstream relating.
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Thank you Marissa 💗I had a wonderful first date last weekend. First time I’ve been excited about someone in a long time . He wanted to meet this weekend but I wasn’t able to but he said ok let’s do the following . I texted him tonight to ask how his week has been and asking how excited he is to buy his new motorbike tomorrow. I hope this was ok . I feel in my gut it was a friendly touching base vibe. What do u think ? ✨✨✨
Hi Aisha, this sounds like a really nice connection to make - if you have a good feeling in your gut then it bodes well! Good luck with your dates... xx Marisa Peer Team
Some us are exceptions to what you're saying and actually appreciate that dinner being made!!! My wife did and we were engaged in 6 months and married for decades. I did not chase, never have, never will!!!!!!!!!!
I like the kind of Feminist Marisa is, she never denies some FACTs about how male and female ways of thinking are different. Denying facts doesn't make you feminist, it makes you delusional.
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I’ve been listening and learning and I feel ready now to date again. Many years ago I had 1 amazing date but the timing was wrong for both. Next week I’m meeting him again for a walk in the park (Covid blah) and I won’t be too available the next day for a repeat. I’m busy right?
Yes! But be busy for real, schedule something else or do something you truly enjoy! Don't just wait around, your time is precious and you are a beautiful successful woman. The best of luck!
I hv been struggling with relationship issues from past few years . after some bad experiences i always try to rush things and force the relationship which makes ppl pull away ..hope this helps ..
Hi, I hope this helps. I have also linked a resource that may help you, this is a 45 min webinar where Marisa helps people learn self-love and acceptance and explains why it's the root of all things in life. You will also find the information in regards to the I Am Enough program bit.ly/I-am-enough-masterclass-Fb - Kim (Marisa Peer Team) 🌸
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If he is a hunter then we must be the prey,we must change that idea,dont give yourself easily i agree but that is not just about sex ,be yourself love yourself have yourown mind and thoughts and timing,i hate those games be the prey and make him chase so if he is an idiot and one day you are tired to play games he will loose interest?? Who cares what they want you want sex go for it you want him for relationship check on him in time then invest but always invest in yourself first have great life even without man
Why do not talk about gay relantionship too? I honestly do agree with few things you are saying....because it'0s genderelized and honestly i found it working just for old fashioned people
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Love the video but what if you make him addicted to you after big efforts and tactics what if you lose control on him or he dies suddenly ?wouldn't it be a big destroying loss after the effort you did to make him addicted? And same effort you will do to find another one? I think that would be equal to his addiction to you
I hate this advice. It's really a turn off when a girl is agreeable on a date, true. But that bullshit with the hunters is not that true anymore. Only the guys full with testosterone and kind of dumb go after a girl again and again, after she said no. I think we should be better than animals in that. It is really not that good idea to be distant and play hard to catch. You don't have to be "easy", but this kind of games are big turn off for me. And that shit - "you should be a prise" is really stupid. Usually you are really helpfull Marisa, but here is a big no no. I often see that advice and it's always from a woman. Today the world is different, there is too many people to play silly games, when you like someone.
Ooh thank you for this 🙏 this only works if a man is sort of a "player" and then when you fell in love with him and want to build a relationship, he just gets bored or lose the interest.. I just want to be who I am and also I would like to see who the man really is, not who is pretending to be to get you.. many guys Can learn what to say, what the women want to hear, they can put a lot of effort in the beginning but what is the point .. still feels like a game.. and also, if I would be a man, I would Also like more if I wouldnt be played, if a girl starts with "let' s him wait, don't show the interest even if you are interested" and so on.. I think a good man who is genuinely looking for a nice relationship just don't have this need to hunt someone constantly.. at least I hope so..
Yes it is true i a met a man and he wants sex on the first time and I said no. So he lost intrested in me i respect him and like hin i said the third time we meet we can have sex so he ened up having family problems and lost intrested. So i syop calling him. I have decided to let him chase me and not running after him.
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My acquaintance said that I want to get rid of him because I don't talk to him a lot online and call him and he hasn't talk to me for days and he threatened to kill me.
Hi, I'm sorry to hear this, it doesn't sound like a healthy relationship from what you describe. Have you got anyone you can speak to about this? Best wishes, Marisa Peer Team
No...its actually, you can still like him but have a life beyond him. Throw yourself into yourself and squeeze him in somewhere. Don't drop everything for him.
You have a big idea of yourself. Why shouldn't you eat pizza. Who are you Queen Elizabeth. If we follow your advice we will end up alone. Because he will find someone else and they will have a good time while I will stay at home all alone, waiting for the guy that will ask me to go eat lobster. Come on.
1) Do not be too available, too easy, too agreeable. Don’t work hard to get him. Be a prize - you’re the diamond and they are the setting. Have your own opinion. Have your own life and he will notice that. Be a little mysterious. The man you’re dating must earn your time, affection and love. 2) A guy will like you if he feels good around you and with you. Do everything you can like laugh at his jokes, engage with him. Don’t focus on making them feel good all the time, but focus on how they would feel around you. Have the conversation be an equal exchange. Be the best you. 3) Start to use the word “we” in the convo more. Things like “we” had the best time last night.
the kind of males this sort of mindset will attract are beta males, who are willing to be submissive in the relationship.
aka you will have to be the one doing the approaching and talking to them.
Men who are succesful tend to be very alpha and alpha energy are attracted to people who are submissive.
just wanted you to know that
you're 1. either a masculine female looking for a submissive boyfriend
or a submissive female looking for a masculine boyfriend.
it's impossible to have both energies in the same person, those relationships never work out.
@@zeroresistance7203 lol true
@@zeroresistance7203 Nothing is impossible. I've often dated men with matching energy. It can be quite exhilarating. And I've dated with opposite energy and that's fun too, but I'm really just looking for respect and kindness (and sanity) bc it seems to be really hard to find yet it's so basic.
I listen to Marisa so that I can sleep. Her voice is soothing
Me too, she’s wonderful in many ways.
Me too
Same here!!
So TRUE
Very Helpful Thank YOU.
Right on time. Today I know my worth and I know I'm a Queen looking for a King. Thanks my beautiful friend. You're such an amazing woman to share your wisdom. God bless you.
Thank you for your lovely comment ❤️
I believe, to make a relationship work, you must give as much as you recieve & recieve as much as you give. Mutual Effort is Critical. 'Do Not row the boat alone' Do not criticize, or emasculate. Do not project Your feelings onto someone else. Listen and be present. Respect one another. Be, act and do the way you want to be done onto you. Exude happiness and just love 💕
Beautiful comment, thank you ❤️
You are exactly right
Love this! ❤
Unfortunately in a modern world a lot of this doesn’t work. Men nowadays don’t ask twice, they will just go for the easier object
Agree. Although some cultures vary.
Also it can be regarded as playing games. Nobody likes the feeling of being manipulated.
@@mouna8007 so true
@Iban Anahammock so true
I totally agree. With internet and all, if you're not available, they'll give up on you and find someone else..
If ANY person ever is addicted to another person that person is probably a replacement drug for something else they have been addicted to.
Just like any other drug the addiction to you will get old and you will be replaced by another drug.
People with addictive personalities usually are not a good match for people looking for a commitment because the addiction problems always come first and you are second.
Psychology - addictive behavior.
Sadly the hunters are so weak nowadays
Marisa is a mind reader I swear!
I was just wondering what her take on feminine energy was, and this vid dropped. Absolutely astounding💖
That's amazing 💚
Dear Marissa, I will listen to your videos over and over and over so that it can saturate my brain. After two long failed marriages I realize for number one I did not stand up for myself and say I don't want to marry you and number two I let him sweep me off my feet too easily. Now I have the ability to speak up and say no thank you. I appreciate your loving time spent for who see our worth.
You are amazing xx
I am So Lucky to have found Marisa Ma’am and get Advised by her almost every day....😇
Thank you for your lovely comment ❤️
@@MarisaPeer Marisa, I hope you have been doing wonderfully!
I wanted to ask, what do I do if I was easy in the beginning, and am seeking this balanced relationship with my partner now? We ended up getting married, but I have from the beginning done almost everything (people pleaser/making it easy). How can I make him interested, when he doesn’t care either way? We’ve also didn’t really do dates before, where he took me out for my pleasure, etc, and even now, he still rarely asks about me/ or asks what I’ve been up to, etc. He says we’re all caught up, etc, so it’s not that there’s a lot to ask me about. I do love him, he is sweet in his own, very limited way, but I definitely feel like he doesn’t really care about things I would like, etc. I’d like to be in a more receptive relationship, where he shows his interest in me as much as I do, but I don’t know how to transition when he’s already been receiving all the attention, without having to offer it back due to my actions before and now
We are so lucky to have you Marisa ☺️ ,, Thank you for always doing so much for people who can’t perhaps afford to go to a therapist,
Thank you for your words of wisdom again today, it really struck a cord with me 💖.
Thank you for your lovely comment ❤️
@@MarisaPeer Thank you for all you do , you are helping me daily to become stronger by listening to your videos & telling myself daily’ I am Enough, I am lovable, I deserve the love I so freely give others ‘. 💖💖💖💖 xxx
You are doing all the work, I'm so proud of you xx
@@MarisaPeer What a privilege to have a message from you 🥰 xx Thank you 🙏🏼
What brilliant advice. I wish I had had it when I was younger as it would have stopped me from being in so many disastrous relationships but thank you Marisa, as always you have hit the nail on the head with everything you say. I love you forever.xxxxxxxxxx
He messaged me once and asked me to keep in touch. I never messaged hm again. He obviously wanted me to pursue him and wasn't interested in me.
Same here.”Keep in touch “..I thought what the heck is this supposed to mean?!After 3 months he posted pictures with another woman
Roger that!
He should find ways to get me addicted to him or make me want him. Know your worth and don't crave for attention.
I’m so lucky I got to listen to your words today xxx thanks, needed this.
Yes, boundaries ! WE ARE WORTH MORE
Sometimes I feel you always need to keep running from them all your life. They will keep running after you. Our love and expression is only for children and pets. Never show a man your ability to love!
Rubbish. You’re coming from a place of fear and you are missing her point entirely.
@@judymiller8831 agree
Reveal yourself gradually with a possible good person. Both of you will benefit if the match is good. Distance the losers as you learn they are not good for you.
@@martialmusic How do we know that person is right for us? when you show your love and become vulnerable, they run.
You show limited vulnerability, or gradual vulnerability. If they become more distant, you drop them. Do not try to change them. You cannot. Rather, learn who they are and make intelligent choices.
I'm lucky to have found you, Marisa. Life changer. I listen to you every day xx
You are so wise and wonderful, Marisa ⭐️ immensely grateful, fully agree and life exactly following this way 🙏🏼♥️
"ur soooo blessed to have Me"
Well the idea of chasing after things, badgering and being pushy is great for the field of business. You can be a shark in your own right and it will work. The thing is, and I don't know why we think we have to chase men because I was always taught right from the very beginning was to let them chase you. Let them wonder where you are and what you're up to. However apparently because I've spoken to men a lot of them loose interest because they think we are unavailable, so we have to do a little something to make them think they're in with a chance to do something, to come over - a lot of men won't waste their time if they think all is going to happen is to be rejected so I think we have to do something. It's just all the right balance because we don't want to seem too easy but up for a date. Before I met my husband I used to be able to date quite confidently it was just in the relationship when they were loosing that interest and I was more invested but they were very interested in the beginning. And I do know that your supposed to keep your interests, keep your hobbies and don't cancel just because he or she wants you to come over because you're teaching them they can pick you up and put you down and it does cause some disrespect from them towards you because if that person is healthy they want you to have a backbone they don't want to do that to you but abusers like toxic people will see that a d exploit that to their advantage!!!
The first rule of love is to learn to love yourself, if you cannot love yourself, you cannot love anyone
Its the only love ❤️ we love ourself with that person not the other person ...
@@PammyR56 a lot of people are hurting! Especially men that were hurt by women and vice versa!! Nothing is ever personal!
@@bodnarova05 especially men hurt by women? No, men hurt women.
@@nofybn7794 hurt people hurt people. Sorry you’ve been hurt. Look into manifesting and your life will change. In order to stop being hurt, you need to work on healing and loving yourself
@@nofybn7794 and Louise Hay
I just find narcissists..I have stepped back from relationship and romance..Can't get the hang of it..57 and alone..
Me too, my ex very abused, now 53 I feel better alone than wrong one. Maybe a learn how to do better
Im 33 and feel the same since over 10 years. Alone and ok with it....its better to be alone than with certain people who abuse and/or use you.
Maybe you need to love yourself more, respect yourself and put yourself first♥️
@@jayjagger3616 Yes I did that for too many wasted years .. now alone and healed . But, lessons were learnt and now opened to the NEW.
@@lifeslessons9889 maybe sometimes these experiences were needed, for the lessons they taught us...Alone isn't the worst thing one can be, imo (and also alone doesn't have to be = lonely.) Its far worse to be lonely in a relationship. Good for you that you got out and are healing!♡ I know the feeling in regards of 'wasted years', but at least we DID get out in time...some people never do that step 😥
Thank you Marisa. Your teaching is invaluable
That’s really kind of you to say ❤️
Wish I knew this before this time. Thanks Marisa.
Uh I’ve done sooo many mistakes! Time to learn!!!
A great way to learn is through our mistakes. Marisa Peer Team
So isn’t man is a hunter limiting belief? I want to be myself no matter what still feel loved, if i am gonna play games because i believe they are hunters than each time i share myself i start to fear of loosing him.
Yes, I do believe it’s a limiting belief and the world is changing. No game playing. ❤️
Same. I hate the idea of having to play games. If you can't be your genuine self, what's the point? All that pretence is exhausting and when under stress, people will likely see the real you at some point.
In a way yes,but its also coded in their DNA for generations..see it not as playing games but rather teaching them what your worth is..staying in your feminine receiving mode,you dont have to keep this up forever,just the dating stage..its not about "not being you" its about not working hard for him,and lean back to receive from him.❤
What understood was that If the “real you” is one that drops her life to please a man Bc you fear if you don’t he will leave Bc that’s a turn off for men. To be honest I don’t like a man that’s all the time after me at the beginning it bores me I take it like he has not life b4 me. I want a man that has a filled life (but that’s me). And she also said “At the beginning” don’t make him your priority, until he earns your time and your attention. On my book that isn’t playing games I genuinely have a full life to make time for a man he has to earned, become meaningful to me.
Love yourself ladies. Make your life beautiful on your own. Fill your life with what you love. Work hard, make money on your own. This will attract the right man
💖
Thank you, learned the hard way. I completely lost myself and it is taking me alot of work and years to learn who I am and become me. I felt invisible to my partner. And once I became so involved in things I neglected; with my own interests, friends, activities, trips without my partner he is always wanting to spend time with me.
Omg! I used to date men and let them treat me poorly because I thought it was the way to show I'm really into them...
"Uh, I came all the way to the Netherlands and you're just inviting me for a hot chocolate drink (expecting sex after)? Well, everybody else would say how cheap of you, but it's okay because I really like you." Now I am boths angry at them and myself >:(
absolutely true...I never was selfish or arrogant.. but there was this boy ( now a man 😅..) who always wanted to date me., for the last 10 years.., I somehow didnt like him and was sure he is not worthy to meet., so I started ignoring.., then he somehow always find me on facebook, instagram or twitter..., he was even blocked from my side for 3 years...and then he finds me again via social media..., once he even contacted my mother ..😂.. : Angry and exhausted I decided to give him a chance and he was going mad, that I am finally talking to him ( yes only talking, not a date ...), the result is: he is amazing 🤩...and now I am totally in love with him...but at the same time I always make sure he got a Prize and he knows it...after all he wanted me for the last 10 years...☺️
I'm training a (male) puppy. Be the mean lady w the FOOD 💕 lol
"that is just not acceptable 4me" 💕
I think we can't use the Charles and Camilla example, as diana did have a very fiery and cheeky side, but she wasn't Charles choice initially. It was chosen for him.
I really do believe we have a destined strong soul mate, and Camilla was it for Charles.
But your concept is fabulous and does work for mainstream relating.
Hello my lovely friend I come across your comments section it got my attention for we to know more about each please I would love you to contact my private email
Thank you Marissa 💗I had a wonderful first date last weekend. First time I’ve been excited about someone in a long time . He wanted to meet this weekend but I wasn’t able to but he said ok let’s do the following . I texted him tonight to ask how his week has been and asking how excited he is to buy his new motorbike tomorrow. I hope this was ok . I feel in my gut it was a friendly touching base vibe. What do u think ? ✨✨✨
Hi Aisha, this sounds like a really nice connection to make - if you have a good feeling in your gut then it bodes well! Good luck with your dates... xx Marisa Peer Team
Thank you Marissa ! Unfortunately this guy ghosted me . Never mind , very disappointed but I’ve dusted myself off ✨
Thank you for caring 💗
Keep at it. One day, you will find someone who deserves you. Sending best wishes and support. 💖 Marisa Peer Team
Some us are exceptions to what you're saying and actually appreciate that dinner being made!!! My wife did and we were engaged in 6 months and married for decades. I did not chase, never have, never will!!!!!!!!!!
She bagged you through your stomach then!!!! lol
I like the kind of Feminist Marisa is, she never denies some FACTs about how male and female ways of thinking are different. Denying facts doesn't make you feminist, it makes you delusional.
Thing is...nowadays with all those datingapps, men find 5 other woman on the app who are easy like that and dont want for you.
Crazy really real love isnt concerned with mind games having to be a certain way its unconventional if you love each other
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This is absolutely beautiful
thank you xx
Never be to available be a prize, have your own opinion and understand men are hunters who are willing to chase the prize
It's a balance you need to find a guy will chase but if you make it too hard you run the risk of him giving up.
@@Stephen-bq4nq absolutely. So many people here are so misguided.
Hi Marisa, thanks for this guinion information. This is so helpful and I surely appreciate all you do. Much love Marisa. 🥰🙏
I'm so happy you found it helpful xx
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I’ve been listening and learning and I feel ready now to date again.
Many years ago I had 1 amazing date but the timing was wrong for both.
Next week I’m meeting him again for a walk in the park (Covid blah) and I won’t be too available the next day for a repeat. I’m busy right?
Yes! But be busy for real, schedule something else or do something you truly enjoy! Don't just wait around, your time is precious and you are a beautiful successful woman. The best of luck!
Great tips.
This video is great ... need more videos like this
Hi there! Thank you so much for your kind words towards Marisa, I will be sure to pass them on (Kim - Marisa Peer Team) 🌺
You are completely right.
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I hv been struggling with relationship issues from past few years . after some bad experiences i always try to rush things and force the relationship which makes ppl pull away ..hope this helps ..
Hi, I hope this helps. I have also linked a resource that may help you, this is a 45 min webinar where Marisa helps people learn self-love and acceptance and explains why it's the root of all things in life. You will also find the information in regards to the I Am Enough program bit.ly/I-am-enough-masterclass-Fb - Kim (Marisa Peer Team) 🌸
@@MarisaPeer thank you I have Registered for it
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NEW LOVE COMING
If he is a hunter then we must be the prey,we must change that idea,dont give yourself easily i agree but that is not just about sex ,be yourself love yourself have yourown mind and thoughts and timing,i hate those games be the prey and make him chase so if he is an idiot and one day you are tired to play games he will loose interest?? Who cares what they want you want sex go for it you want him for relationship check on him in time then invest but always invest in yourself first have great life even without man
I have got my guy i love him very much been seeing for months now hopefully he will ask me to marry him
Lovely, soon at the right time (Kimberly - Marisa Peer Team) 🌸
Why do not talk about gay relantionship too? I honestly do agree with few things you are saying....because it'0s genderelized and honestly i found it working just for old fashioned people
Marisa is amazing x
That’s really kind of you to say ❤️
Thank you 🇬🇧
So i think he is blind or stupid not to see how great i am:(
The sad truth is that CADS GET THE MUM FIGURE IN THE END
Hi Marisa, Where can I get your book: Reprogram your mind?
all my books including "I am Enough' and 'Ultimate Confidence' are available at amazon
@@MarisaPeer Thank you for replying. I´ve looked on both amazon.com and amazon.co.uk but I don´t see it. Is there another one you can recommend? :-)
Hi there, you can find Marisa's I Am Enough book here :) - bit.ly/free-iae-book-fb Marisa Peer Team.
I had been doing all upside down. I ' ll spoilt it on the first month. Let's see of I can correct it. Thanks
Good luck 💖 Marisa Peer Team
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What about gay guys? I imagine it’d be the same approach?
You are brilliant....
That’s really kind of you to say ❤️
So calming
Relaxing advise
Thanks so much. Love you!❤❤❤
Thank you for your lovely comment ❤️
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Love the video but what if you make him addicted to you after big efforts and tactics what if you lose control on him or he dies suddenly ?wouldn't it be a big destroying loss after the effort you did to make him addicted? And same effort you will do to find another one? I think that would be equal to his addiction to you
How do you make this work in a marriage of 17 years with 8 children? ( the children are from the marriage)
I just adore you 💕
Thank you kindly beautiful soul🥰
Thank you for your lovely comment ❤️
,@@MarisaPeer you're most welcome😘
I hate this advice. It's really a turn off when a girl is agreeable on a date, true. But that bullshit with the hunters is not that true anymore. Only the guys full with testosterone and kind of dumb go after a girl again and again, after she said no. I think we should be better than animals in that. It is really not that good idea to be distant and play hard to catch. You don't have to be "easy", but this kind of games are big turn off for me. And that shit - "you should be a prise" is really stupid. Usually you are really helpfull Marisa, but here is a big no no. I often see that advice and it's always from a woman. Today the world is different, there is too many people to play silly games, when you like someone.
Ooh thank you for this 🙏 this only works if a man is sort of a "player" and then when you fell in love with him and want to build a relationship, he just gets bored or lose the interest.. I just want to be who I am and also I would like to see who the man really is, not who is pretending to be to get you.. many guys Can learn what to say, what the women want to hear, they can put a lot of effort in the beginning but what is the point .. still feels like a game.. and also, if I would be a man, I would Also like more if I wouldnt be played, if a girl starts with "let' s him wait, don't show the interest even if you are interested" and so on.. I think a good man who is genuinely looking for a nice relationship just don't have this need to hunt someone constantly.. at least I hope so..
Yes it is true i a met a man and he wants sex on the first time and I said no. So he lost intrested in me i respect him and like hin i said the third time we meet we can have sex so he ened up having family problems and lost intrested. So i syop calling him. I have decided to let him chase me and not running after him.
What if it's the other way around? Getting the girl to pursue the guy?
What if the man says to the woman that she's lucky to have him?
Why I always forgot this principal!!!
Wow, thank you ❤❤❤❤❤ xxxxxxx
What if... pizza is my favorite? 😬
Hi Marisa I want to get all your coursesmainly for changing my thoughts and to get what Its meant for me -as I believe you are my only HELP
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My acquaintance said that I want to get rid of him because I don't talk to him a lot online and call him and he hasn't talk to me for days and he threatened to kill me.
Hi, I'm sorry to hear this, it doesn't sound like a healthy relationship from what you describe. Have you got anyone you can speak to about this? Best wishes, Marisa Peer Team
Thank you so much, Marisa, you are a lifesaver.
I hope you are okay!
@@mw1476 I am still alive.
You are never alone. I hope you can find help.
Does this work with androgynous women?
I love you❤️
That’s really kind of you to say ❤️
I so love you ❤️❤️❤️
euh... and how to get a girl addicted to you?
Easy. Do anything for her.
So you're teaching us to be sneeeaky mwahahaha
I hate that you have to pretend you don’t like him. LOL 🙄
No...its actually, you can still like him but have a life beyond him. Throw yourself into yourself and squeeze him in somewhere. Don't drop everything for him.
@@minacerra good point.
You have a big idea of yourself. Why shouldn't you eat pizza. Who are you Queen Elizabeth. If we follow your advice we will end up alone. Because he will find someone else and they will have a good time while I will stay at home all alone, waiting for the guy that will ask me to go eat lobster. Come on.
Go be the mum lol 😢
Thank you 😊
Good tips.