How much does your boyfriend know about periods?

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  • @madelynwood2008
    @madelynwood2008 3 роки тому +12824

    The definition of a period:
    Uterus wants baby
    Uterus doesn't get baby
    Uterus gets REVENGE

    • @missybarnes7400
      @missybarnes7400 3 роки тому +426

      this is the most accurate thing I've ever read.

    • @izzy6022
      @izzy6022 3 роки тому +51

      i love ur profile pic 😍😍

    • @madelynwood2008
      @madelynwood2008 3 роки тому +20

      @@izzy6022 thanks! MendesArmy4ever

    • @userA600
      @userA600 3 роки тому +209

      And :
      Uterus doesn't get bored of revenge until Menopause.

    • @userA600
      @userA600 3 роки тому +112

      And then menopause causes other pain and other problems...

  • @branflake19141
    @branflake19141 4 роки тому +7115

    "Recyclable?"
    " No."
    "Rubbish."
    Lol

    • @userm180
      @userm180 3 роки тому +45

      for GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON that whoever believeth in HIM should not perish but have eternal life"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 3:16."But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 1:12. hi! JESUS loves you and died for you if you accept HIM! HE rose from the dead to show us that death cant hold HIM! repent and start living your life for HIM and when the time is right HE will get you to Heaven💛

    • @EccentricFlamingo
      @EccentricFlamingo 3 роки тому +77

      @@userm180 stfu

    • @anja6983
      @anja6983 3 роки тому +68

      @@userm180 another Christian here....
      Yeah stfu

    • @Maura237
      @Maura237 3 роки тому +60

      I honestly have never seen that inserter thing in my country. At least not in commercials or the only pack I ever bought. It is (for most anyway) just unnecessary plastic

    • @agonda1
      @agonda1 3 роки тому +40

      In germany we dont have those. I dont get the use? 🤔

  • @helantopia
    @helantopia 3 роки тому +5032

    when I got my first period I thought I was going to die because no one taught me about it and my parents just celebrated and took me out to eat without explaining anything so I thought they were celebrating me dying taking me to my last meal 😭

    • @marajean4930
      @marajean4930 3 роки тому +319

      Girl! I feel you. I was 13 and had no clue and only had it once that entire year, so I just never told anyone. And then I got it again at 14 and was fiiinnnaally like “oh thank god, I’m not dying”. Only to discover I’d die just a little bit each month 🙃

    • @KhluKhlu
      @KhluKhlu 3 роки тому +424

      omg I- CAN’T- BREATHEEE YOU THOUGHT IT WAS YOUR LAST MEAL 😂

    • @sapphiiee
      @sapphiiee 3 роки тому +210

      I can't believe they celebrated your period, my mum just gave me a pad and said 'well .. there you go' (i knew what period was because i learnt about it from my older sister) 😂

    • @helantopia
      @helantopia 3 роки тому +78

      @@sapphiiee idk I guess there were celebrating me becoming a woman. I didn't understand it either!

    • @arxh6944
      @arxh6944 3 роки тому +77

      I got my first period while being at my aunts (who I only see once a year) and I was wearing a dress. I didn’t do anything but put toilet paper in my underwear and I bled through them soooo quickly. My aunt asked if I got my period and I said no 😭😂 but I had bled on the (beige) sofa

  • @sorinapavel1321
    @sorinapavel1321 3 роки тому +6006

    Why do all men think the pad sticks to your body???

    • @quinncohen3643
      @quinncohen3643 3 роки тому +577

      I think they think it's like a bandaid.

    • @Bringon-dw8dx
      @Bringon-dw8dx 3 роки тому +243

      So did I before I had my first period

    • @funnycomplications4582
      @funnycomplications4582 3 роки тому +51

      Wait... it doesn’t work like that?

    • @JustGigi319
      @JustGigi319 3 роки тому +304

      @@funnycomplications4582 in case you're being serious... no. Remove the protective strip from the pad, and it sticks to the underwear. The "wings" on the side wrap around the crotch area of the underwear to protect from leaks

    • @Eugene-ul7gp
      @Eugene-ul7gp 3 роки тому +13

      @@Bringon-dw8dx same lol

  • @assiradarling8981
    @assiradarling8981 4 роки тому +10372

    The moment he said “should be free” I fell in love with him 😫

    • @M.rkiness
      @M.rkiness 4 роки тому +8

      Ok o.o

    • @livs3455
      @livs3455 3 роки тому +89

      I wish everyine was like that

    • @rachie2913
      @rachie2913 3 роки тому +65

      He’s taken haha😂

    • @userm180
      @userm180 3 роки тому +39

      for GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON that whoever believeth in HIM should not perish but have eternal life"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 3:16."But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 1:12. hi! JESUS loves you and died for you if you accept HIM! HE rose from the dead to show us that death cant hold HIM! repent and start living your life for HIM and when the time is right HE will get you to Heaven💛

    • @marialivingston8154
      @marialivingston8154 3 роки тому +14

      Lol he’s taken hun

  • @marianabonina249
    @marianabonina249 3 роки тому +6025

    Men: women are so emotional
    Also men: proceeds to throw controller at the wall screaming in anger cuz he lost a game of fortnight

    • @codgirl1609
      @codgirl1609 3 роки тому +123

      To be fair, I have almost reached the point of throwing my controller too 😂.

    • @Ajnoguin
      @Ajnoguin 3 роки тому +34

      @@codgirl1609 especially while PMS

    • @funnycomplications4582
      @funnycomplications4582 3 роки тому +8

      That’s just getting angry

    • @myheartwillstopinjoy8142
      @myheartwillstopinjoy8142 3 роки тому +222

      @@funnycomplications4582 getting angry = getting emotional
      Anger is an emotion

    • @Momusicrec
      @Momusicrec 3 роки тому +53

      @@funnycomplications4582 angry is an emotion?

  • @reesemiller4043
    @reesemiller4043 4 роки тому +9911

    Uterus:thinks it's gonna get a baby
    Also uterus:decorates and prepares for a baby and gets exited
    Me:doesn't get preg0
    Uterus:tears down all the stuff and throws a hissyfit

    • @reezeparis6835
      @reezeparis6835 4 роки тому +250

      basically. also just found out dairy makes it worse and i'm craving icecream. make it stop 😭

    • @reezeparis6835
      @reezeparis6835 4 роки тому +17

      @Cilantro mood sorry bud

    • @Pebbsthepebble
      @Pebbsthepebble 4 роки тому +34

      reeze paris
      I just ate ice cream and I feel like throwing up
      No wonder

    • @kerrylightner8112
      @kerrylightner8112 4 роки тому +46

      @@reezeparis6835 I learned a little while ago that our food cravings during our periods is our body telling us we are lacking in a specific nutrient. I don't know what it means means for dairy but personally I've combatted my horrible chocolate cravings with snacking on things containing magnesium and it genuinely helps.

    • @reezeparis6835
      @reezeparis6835 4 роки тому +8

      @@kerrylightner8112 interesting

  • @renae9365
    @renae9365 3 роки тому +5231

    Girl put a ring on him and call him husband, he’s sweet, kind and a keeper!!!

    • @userm180
      @userm180 3 роки тому +47

      for GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON that whoever believeth in HIM should not perish but have eternal life"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 3:16."But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 1:12. hi! JESUS loves you and died for you if you accept HIM! HE rose from the dead to show us that death cant hold HIM! repent and start living your life for HIM and when the time is right HE will get you to Heaven💛

    • @Luna-rw5up
      @Luna-rw5up 3 роки тому +154

      @@userm180 What religious babble did I just read?

    • @thishandleisiunavailable
      @thishandleisiunavailable 3 роки тому +30

      @@Luna-rw5up Christian I think

    • @rodriguezelfeliz4623
      @rodriguezelfeliz4623 3 роки тому +26

      He seems scared of her tho

    • @victoria.b3728
      @victoria.b3728 3 роки тому +8

      @@rodriguezelfeliz4623 Ya i can see what u mean

  • @bravingthehallways8169
    @bravingthehallways8169 4 роки тому +7321

    I died when he said, you stick the wings of the pads on your legs 😅😅

    • @milaaigetachew6362
      @milaaigetachew6362 4 роки тому +73

      i died when he said you don't know when it comes

    • @pretty948
      @pretty948 4 роки тому +36

      I used to think that when I was younger

    • @tshepiempopi.11_11
      @tshepiempopi.11_11 4 роки тому +8

      I hollered 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @maj._07hup
      @maj._07hup 4 роки тому +17

      ik he was genuinely confused but I could not help it

    • @userm180
      @userm180 3 роки тому +21

      for GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON that whoever believeth in HIM should not perish but have eternal life"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 3:16."But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 1:12. hi! JESUS loves you and died for you if you accept HIM! HE rose from the dead to show us that death cant hold HIM! repent and start living your life for HIM and when the time is right HE will get you to Heaven💛

  • @rebeccajewell2705
    @rebeccajewell2705 3 роки тому +2856

    My son worked at a predominantly female office his Sr year in high school. He actually figured out his co-workers’ cycles and would leave them chocolates on there desks at just the right time. He’s 31 now and very aware and sympathetic to what his female friends go through.

    • @tricia1072012
      @tricia1072012 3 роки тому +99

      Risky strategy, He could end up with them shoved where the sun don't shine.

    • @Tolz_z
      @Tolz_z 3 роки тому +105

      Thats woooooww reallllyyy sweet😲

    • @urfavnegr05349
      @urfavnegr05349 3 роки тому +56

      Awwww so sweet

    • @laylamohamoud2545
      @laylamohamoud2545 3 роки тому +49

      That is beautiful

    • @mellea1316
      @mellea1316 3 роки тому +153

      I used to work with a guy that left the few ladies in the building chocolates. A couple of us were friends with his wife and all synced to the same cycle. He knew when to leave us snacks and candy. He had to deal with it at work and at home 😆

  • @noavocadoanymore
    @noavocadoanymore 4 роки тому +2785

    I feel like I lose half a pint every month.

    • @ashlynn1652
      @ashlynn1652 4 роки тому +54

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I probably lose double that.

    • @GrimReaper-qc6dd
      @GrimReaper-qc6dd 4 роки тому +21

      So um asking for a friend how do like tampons work. And do you know stuff that helps with the cramps for a girl like for the pain just wondering just in case I have to buy some of these for someone

    • @k3iraa515
      @k3iraa515 4 роки тому +21

      @@GrimReaper-qc6dd buy paractimol and chocolate also a hot water bottle help .about tampons those are explicit about in a comment section

    • @GrimReaper-qc6dd
      @GrimReaper-qc6dd 4 роки тому +11

      @@k3iraa515 that's the first reply I got without an insult 😂😂

    • @k3iraa515
      @k3iraa515 4 роки тому +15

      @@GrimReaper-qc6dd omds haha I don't really like being rude unprovoked

  • @alffuergregor
    @alffuergregor 3 роки тому +1711

    My wife always says: I'm bleeding. She does not call it period or other words. She says bleeding. Freaked me out at the beginning :D

    • @PunkRockBarbie
      @PunkRockBarbie 3 роки тому +128

      I call it shark week 😂 some people laugh, some people stare at me like I'm psycho. I figure I need the laughs that time of month

    • @elsalovefors
      @elsalovefors 3 роки тому +26

      I call it menstruation

    • @starreid9712
      @starreid9712 3 роки тому +60

      I either just call it my period or I'll say hell started today lol

    • @charlizemahony7079
      @charlizemahony7079 3 роки тому +36

      I called it rainbows for the first three years when I got it at age 10 lmao, I still don’t remember what was going through my head when I decided it’s code name lol.

    • @risamaeve
      @risamaeve 3 роки тому +34

      I say my uterus is trying to murder me bc that's how it feels

  • @ellaalves4676
    @ellaalves4676 4 роки тому +1503

    i love how open he is to learning about this stuff!

    • @userm180
      @userm180 3 роки тому +5

      for GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON that whoever believeth in HIM should not perish but have eternal life"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 3:16."But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 1:12. hi! JESUS loves you and died for you if you accept HIM! HE rose from the dead to show us that death cant hold HIM! repent and start living your life for HIM and when the time is right HE will get you to Heaven💛

    • @menacingjack
      @menacingjack 3 роки тому +8

      @@userm180 what

    • @undisclosedsender8297
      @undisclosedsender8297 3 роки тому +4

      And she's perfectly reasonable to cover it all, so openly. This vid achieved its goal.

    • @HGrrrr
      @HGrrrr 3 роки тому +5

      @@userm180 why do you feel that you have to post stuff like this?
      Are you trying to sell something?

  • @marnieglue4350
    @marnieglue4350 3 роки тому +1020

    My boyfriend asked me if I still get cramps... as in he thought it only hurt the first few times 😂

    • @tovahcooper8
      @tovahcooper8 3 роки тому +52

      Lmao I wish

    • @lilycarolinesings
      @lilycarolinesings 3 роки тому +41

      Omg, it’d be great if we could grow out of it

    • @coffeeandhorses7991
      @coffeeandhorses7991 3 роки тому +7

      Made me laugh!

    • @risamaeve
      @risamaeve 3 роки тому +36

      I didn't get cramps for the first 10 years and now they're awful, so let him know it can be the opposite -_-

    • @goldi9032
      @goldi9032 3 роки тому +12

      @@risamaeve Omg I also started getting menstruental problems about 4 years ago... Never had any the 10 years before. I'm so sad.

  • @larakr9
    @larakr9 3 роки тому +184

    "It's not a bloody drainage system." 😂😂 Her response and unintended pun are hilarious!

  • @kimberlynslattery6001
    @kimberlynslattery6001 3 роки тому +705

    When my dad was battling cancer he was taking hormones as part of his treatment and one day he said I feel really sad and irritated and I just dont understand why (we were on vacation) and then he said I understand how you all feel when you're on your period. It was interesting to see him get a unique perspective on what we go through

    • @staaarshineee
      @staaarshineee 3 роки тому +57

      I hope your dad is okay now 😊

    • @andonbrown385
      @andonbrown385 3 роки тому +19

      Fun fact girls get a bit of an emotional perspective on what it's like being a guy when they are on their period

    • @jessicaf6358
      @jessicaf6358 3 роки тому +1

      @@andonbrown385 That's a great point!

    • @whatthehelldoiputhere_
      @whatthehelldoiputhere_ 3 роки тому +1

      My dad has cancer rn :(

    • @immieyo6097
      @immieyo6097 3 роки тому +3

      @@whatthehelldoiputhere_ I hope him and your family recover physically and emotionally, I pray your Dad gets better.

  • @melomaniacwallflower
    @melomaniacwallflower 3 роки тому +468

    When I first got my period I already knew what it was, my first thought was, "Crap, now I gotta deal with this for the rest of my life." I told my mom and she was excited while I'm like 😐

    • @sameeha2621
      @sameeha2621 3 роки тому +15

      Girl same 😐

    • @ig7002
      @ig7002 3 роки тому +18

      Not the *rest of your life*. You have menopause to look forward to. Sort of...

    • @MelonNite
      @MelonNite 3 роки тому

      @@ig7002 what’s menopause..?

    • @MelonNite
      @MelonNite 3 роки тому +1

      I started mine while eating cherries. Just ate some today and got flashbacks :,)

    • @aheywood
      @aheywood 3 роки тому

      Sameeee

  • @sofiaalexandra843
    @sofiaalexandra843 3 роки тому +1196

    The menstrual products are just basic needs for a person with a period.

  • @theoriginalds_2484
    @theoriginalds_2484 3 роки тому +1068

    This has helped me understand alot. Why did my sex ed classes chose to not teach boys this stuff as well i dont know. Both genders need to learn and understand what the other is gping through. Especially boys, boys can be very childish.

    • @aang3267
      @aang3267 3 роки тому +105

      *all genders (sorry I just get annoyed when people say "both genders" because it implies there are only two, nothing against you though (: ) and I'm glad that boys are wanting to learn! Most boys in my class are quite immature and probably would laugh and stuff, but you seem very mature! And I agree, boys should learn, periods aren't something women should have to hide and keep a secret, they should be able to tell their boyfriend's and guy friends and boys about it instead of feeling ashamed and worried to be judged

    • @mhm6073
      @mhm6073 3 роки тому +11

      @@aang3267 thank you

    • @aang3267
      @aang3267 3 роки тому +33

      @@piellamp no, all. There are a lot of different gender identities bud

    • @piellamp
      @piellamp 3 роки тому +12

      @@aang3267 yeah 2 now go outside kid

    • @piellamp
      @piellamp 3 роки тому +14

      @@userA600 ooh yeah he or she thanks for proving my point! see there is only 2

  • @debcat539
    @debcat539 4 роки тому +352

    I am 67 years old now, and started my "cycles" at 14.5. Lots of pain from the beginning. Didn't know I had endometriosis until my total hysterectomy when I was 47 years old! Had infertility problems, but my husband and I were blessed with one child. Severe pain, vomiting, and shooting pains down my legs for years!!!

    • @TessG9107
      @TessG9107 4 роки тому +24

      I'm very sad to hear that. I hope you're okay now. Congratulations on your child.

    • @amyturner2034
      @amyturner2034 3 роки тому +22

      It’s very sad that people aren’t more informed that you shouldn’t be vomiting from pain, and you shouldn’t be passing out from it alone. Hopefully endometriosis is better taught soon.

    • @userm180
      @userm180 3 роки тому +4

      for GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON that whoever believeth in HIM should not perish but have eternal life"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 3:16."But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 1:12. hi! JESUS loves you and died for you if you accept HIM! HE rose from the dead to show us that death cant hold HIM! repent and start living your life for HIM and when the time is right HE will get you to Heaven💛

    • @deborahdueck8151
      @deborahdueck8151 3 роки тому +4

      Well I'm glad you where able to have at least one child, and also I love your name.😉

    • @madelinenelson1018
      @madelinenelson1018 3 роки тому +2

      That sounds exactly like my periods

  • @averyelizabeth1070
    @averyelizabeth1070 3 роки тому +1745

    Him: they should be free
    Her: preach sister
    Me: IM IN LOVE PLEASE MARRY ME SKDKLSLSLSLSLls

    • @userm180
      @userm180 3 роки тому +6

      for GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON that whoever believeth in HIM should not perish but have eternal life"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 3:16."But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 1:12. hi! JESUS loves you and died for you if you accept HIM! HE rose from the dead to show us that death cant hold HIM! repent and start living your life for HIM and when the time is right HE will get you to Heaven💛

    • @reishez1372
      @reishez1372 3 роки тому +25

      I think they should be free in public bathrooms, but not in stores. It’s like toilet paper; you need it but you still buy it. You get toilet paper in public bathrooms for free because it’s just a basic need that should be provided. I also believe that the luxury tax should be removed. Yes, I am a woman.

    • @user-qe9jl4xw4u
      @user-qe9jl4xw4u 3 роки тому

      @@reishez1372 some countries don’t need toilet paper

    • @reishez1372
      @reishez1372 3 роки тому

      @@user-qe9jl4xw4u I mean, where do you want pads and tampons to be free? I don’t think you were originally thinking about countries like Syria and Afghanistan. You were probably thinking about the UK, Canada, and the USA..

    • @reishez1372
      @reishez1372 3 роки тому

      @@user-qe9jl4xw4u even things we absolutely need are not free though. Food, water, shelter, and heating still have costs.

  • @nataliacortes6919
    @nataliacortes6919 3 роки тому +583

    “Ugh the patriarchy” “Yeah we suck” lmaooo love that

    • @neelamdixit5419
      @neelamdixit5419 3 роки тому +1

      Ohhh I was literally thinking about it too!!!

    • @sambhav6385
      @sambhav6385 3 роки тому +5

      Naa that’s actually kinda bad, he shouldn’t say “we stuck”.

    • @leahkentra6016
      @leahkentra6016 3 роки тому

      Time stamp

    • @cheyblake2475
      @cheyblake2475 2 роки тому

      @@sambhav6385 Nah, humanity kinda does right now, but we're getting better, just slowly. Which SHOULDN'T TAKE THAT LONG!

  • @anidiot159
    @anidiot159 3 роки тому +298

    Fun fact: The reason we tend to get more mood swings and we snap a bit more on our periods is because the amount of testosterone in our bodies is increased

    • @AdelaPondelickova
      @AdelaPondelickova 3 роки тому +14

      like actually? that's pretty interesting

    • @pflynn623
      @pflynn623 3 роки тому +11

      @@AdelaPondelickova Yes its true!

    • @GayDisaster16
      @GayDisaster16 3 роки тому +3

      No. It was a joke, biological women don't have testosterone... The person was making fun of men@@pflynn623

    • @faith6985
      @faith6985 3 роки тому +109

      @@GayDisaster16 Actually, women do naturally produce a tiny bit of testosterone. It’s much less than men, but we do produce it. Fun fact.. men also produce a tiny bit of estrogen as well, and an excess of natural estrogen in men is the cause of gynecomastia or “man boobs”. I actually had to do a presentation on estrogen and testosterone for my anatomy and physiology class, but before that I had absolutely no idea! ^-^

    • @GayDisaster16
      @GayDisaster16 3 роки тому +7

      @@faith6985 that's so cool! I didn't know that!

  • @LindaRosem
    @LindaRosem 3 роки тому +137

    I was 9, and had never even heard of a period at that age, and I literally thought I was dying and screamed for my mom... and was absolutely horrified to learn that I was going to have to experience that every month for the foreseeable future

    • @risamaeve
      @risamaeve 3 роки тому +17

      I was 12 but my first reaction was absolutely "well shit I'm stuck with this now"

    • @HickChicken
      @HickChicken 3 роки тому +5

      I had a very similar experience. So you aren't alone on that one.

    • @LindaRosem
      @LindaRosem 3 роки тому

      @@risamaeve hahaha I love that

    • @LindaRosem
      @LindaRosem 3 роки тому +2

      @@HickChicken aww wow, thank you girl! It’s so good to know we are not alone, hey? 🥰💕

    • @jfelton4153
      @jfelton4153 3 роки тому +1

      Commonly known as precocious puberty. A mother nature nasty.

  • @gabbyford1670
    @gabbyford1670 3 роки тому +412

    They should definitely be tax free. Moreover, they should be made from materials that are non-toxic.

    • @TJ-st3vz
      @TJ-st3vz 3 роки тому +7

      I use pads even those aren't made with great chemicals but actually inserting tampons with all those chemicals INSIDE i feel like is way worse.

    • @tedthepup641
      @tedthepup641 3 роки тому +11

      Scotland is the first country in the world to make them free.

    • @justsomerandomname2067
      @justsomerandomname2067 3 роки тому +1

      @@tedthepup641 i dont understand, why should they be free though?

    • @tedthepup641
      @tedthepup641 3 роки тому +16

      @@justsomerandomname2067 because they are a necessity and some people don’t have the luxury of being able to buy them.

    • @justsomerandomname2067
      @justsomerandomname2067 3 роки тому +1

      @@tedthepup641 but food, for instance, is a necessity too, but it isnt and shouldn't be free

  • @3rdGenCamaroGirl
    @3rdGenCamaroGirl 3 роки тому +399

    Once in high school I was in a class with two male teachers and one female teacher. I was curled up in a ball about to pass out on the floor whilst clenching my abdomen from my agonizing cramps. The male teachers were like “what is wrong with this girl?” The female teacher walked up and sat beside me and said “you’ve got your period, don’t ya hun?” I nodded yes and then she sent me to the nurse’s office and I went home. Women can sense when another female has her period

    • @userm180
      @userm180 3 роки тому +10

      for GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON that whoever believeth in HIM should not perish but have eternal life"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 3:16."But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 1:12. hi! JESUS loves you and died for you if you accept HIM! HE rose from the dead to show us that death cant hold HIM! repent and start living your life for HIM and when the time is right HE will get you to Heaven❤

    • @zoephillips9865
      @zoephillips9865 3 роки тому +33

      @@userm180 cool story bro.

    • @bellaholman6793
      @bellaholman6793 3 роки тому +2

      Touchè

    • @artsymarsy8480
      @artsymarsy8480 3 роки тому +43

      @@userm180 jesus has never helped my cramps unfortunately

    • @andonbrown385
      @andonbrown385 3 роки тому +9

      That's the stupidest thing ever, girls don't have some sense that just tells them those guys were probably just shocked at what was happening and just because a single women realized what it was doesn't men's you have that extra sense, it's quite easy if you pay attention to any girl enough to know when they are on their period

  • @kerrywood407
    @kerrywood407 3 роки тому +55

    This guy actually listens and takes the information in then asks actual relevant questions. He’s a good one girl xx

  • @ioannachouliaras7991
    @ioannachouliaras7991 4 роки тому +472

    4:05 preach sister 😂😂

    • @tshepiempopi.11_11
      @tshepiempopi.11_11 4 роки тому +6

      I loved that! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @userm180
      @userm180 3 роки тому +1

      for GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON that whoever believeth in HIM should not perish but have eternal life"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 3:16."But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 1:12. hi! JESUS loves you and died for you if you accept HIM! HE rose from the dead to show us that death cant hold HIM! repent and start living your life for HIM and when the time is right HE will get you to Heaven💛

    • @cidd801
      @cidd801 3 роки тому +22

      @@userm180 please, I beg of you, stop shoving your religion down people’s throats. No one is here for that. Go do that somewhere it’s wanted. I’m sure there is an audience out there that is willing to listen to you and your beliefs.
      Ps~ I am not saying this because I am an atheists or anything. I have religious beliefs as well, and when someone ASKS for them, I’m more than happy to discuss it with them. I don’t, however, just shove it in everyone’s face.

    • @dishaaadiyaajit4888
      @dishaaadiyaajit4888 3 роки тому

      That was honestly such a preach sister moment tho fr :)

    • @princessnugget5994
      @princessnugget5994 3 роки тому

      @@cidd801
      I’m not trying to sound rude or anything but there’s literally no way to “shove religion down throats” on the internet. You don’t have to read it. You can go look at something else. If you don’t want to hear about it you can just ignore it.

  • @lottebevk1019
    @lottebevk1019 4 роки тому +333

    Please take notes all men who tell me that I'm a cry baby when I say periods suck.

    • @userm180
      @userm180 3 роки тому +5

      for GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON that whoever believeth in HIM should not perish but have eternal life"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 3:16."But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 1:12. hi! JESUS loves you and died for you if you accept HIM! HE rose from the dead to show us that death cant hold HIM! repent and start living your life for HIM and when the time is right HE will get you to Heaven💛

    • @alejandraortiz2594
      @alejandraortiz2594 3 роки тому +13

      @@userm180 what kind of comment reply is that - ?

    • @datfatrat7135
      @datfatrat7135 3 роки тому +3

      @@userm180 i saw this girl on a one direction video too

    • @junaidhussain7339
      @junaidhussain7339 3 роки тому +4

      @@userm180 fam shut the fuck up

    • @lilstump5539
      @lilstump5539 3 роки тому +1

      @m remember people will hate you because they hated Jesus first

  • @penguinvsminja
    @penguinvsminja 3 роки тому +64

    Ladies, extreme pain is not normal with periods. If you have bad pain and other symptoms please seek help to see if you have endometriosis or adenomyosis. I’m glad she at least mentioned endometriosis.

  • @crustyfroonchfroo8542
    @crustyfroonchfroo8542 3 роки тому +383

    “should be free” ikr?!?! if men had periods they would’ve be free years ago!

    • @justsomerandomname2067
      @justsomerandomname2067 3 роки тому +6

      Why should they be free though?😅
      Also, men need food and food isnt free yet, why would the situation be different for pads/tampons?

    • @SeedingFinger
      @SeedingFinger 3 роки тому +36

      @@justsomerandomname2067 I don't know where you live but in my country we have the option for free healthcare (you can get free contraceptive pills and condoms for example, as well as any other medicine your doctor prescribes) so at least to me it seems like period related stuff should fit into that same category. It's not something we can help but have, there's nothing we can do about it but control its symptoms by taking hormonal contraceptives, ibuprofen (both of which you can get for free) and using pads/tampons/menstrual cups.
      If not free they should at least be heavily subsidized. They can be rather expensive, especially if you have a heavier period that lasts for longer than 6 days and you live with multiple people who will most probably get their periods at the same time as you (and not everyone has that kind of money to just throw away in the form of a pad each month)
      Sorry for the long comment I'm high and I can't for the life of me make it shorter, I swear I tried

    • @alicia9498
      @alicia9498 3 роки тому +48

      @@justsomerandomname2067 this is kinda sexist. “Men need food and it isn’t free”, first of all females need food too. Having your period isn’t a choice and it isn’t a fun thing.

    • @justsomerandomname2067
      @justsomerandomname2067 3 роки тому +3

      @@alicia9498 i know, im a female. But needing food and being hungry also isnt a choice and isnt fun.

    • @pH7oslo
      @pH7oslo 3 роки тому +1

      Name one thing that's free for men?

  • @melinabroich8859
    @melinabroich8859 3 роки тому +379

    Fun fact: in Germany (and probably many other places) tampons don’t have that thing to push them in! You have to use your fingers 👀

    • @CClarinet123
      @CClarinet123 3 роки тому +36

      oh really? Im from the eu as well, but we have both types. I actually was never able to use the ones with that thing

    • @alisonshellum9870
      @alisonshellum9870 3 роки тому +21

      In the UK we have both types (and some come with cardboard applicators, not plastic).

    • @watermelonthelittleone2182
      @watermelonthelittleone2182 3 роки тому +55

      Yes thats true,im german...I was so confused when she showed him how a tampon works haha. I was like: What the fk is that? I think I like the german version more,the american one seems complicated.

    • @sjspooner-burnham2273
      @sjspooner-burnham2273 3 роки тому +11

      In the uk we have applicator and non applicator tampons

    • @kathi-h8333
      @kathi-h8333 3 роки тому +5

      Ähmm... I'm also a german girl, but i know both... Few days ago my mum buyed them accidently...

  • @KirstyM100
    @KirstyM100 3 роки тому +105

    Loved when he said "should be free". In Australia tampons cost more because they are called a "luxury item".... seriously, another luxury item that is taxed higher are BMW's... are they really comparable???

    • @cathylinden3656
      @cathylinden3656 3 роки тому +11

      That's insane and so wrong.

    • @lisamartin9831
      @lisamartin9831 3 роки тому +6

      I had that in France too, and Cola was a necessity product at the time... what the hell were they thinking.

    • @daddyleon
      @daddyleon 3 роки тому +1

      tbf, compared to the reusable menstrual cup, it could be a bit more luxury.
      But yeah, should be like any sort of medicine.

  • @DajanaDarling
    @DajanaDarling 3 роки тому +83

    I feel as if the endometrioses bit wasn't explained well enough. It's not just about pain.
    Basically the tissue that usually only builds in the uterus to be prepared for a possible fertilized egg to implant, not only grows in the uterus, but also outside of it. It can attach to other organs as well. And every months it becomes more and more, because it can't be bled out like the normal tissue. So, when there's too much of it, that's when the pain starts. And it becomes stronger each month. The tissue can also lead to bowel problems and others. It's really horrible that women are often not being taken seriously when they talk about pain and that it takes so long for them to be diagnosed.

    • @risamaeve
      @risamaeve 3 роки тому +7

      The scary thing is that endometrial tissue can in rare cases float in the blood stream, there was a woman that wound up with endometrial tissue in her lungs and brain. Even when it's not as crazy as that some people's cervix and uterus get fused to organs around them from all the endometrial tissue growing. It's hardcore.

    • @dianeshelton9592
      @dianeshelton9592 3 роки тому

      No the blood doesn’t stay there it is absorbed by your body , but blood where blood isn’t supposed to be in the body is very painful. Just like a large bruise. You don’t end up with 40 years of old blood in you.

    • @beautifulspirit7420
      @beautifulspirit7420 3 роки тому +2

      Yes I agree she could have actually explained what endo was.

    • @Panda72021
      @Panda72021 3 роки тому +3

      (person with endometriosis here!) the tissue that grows outside the uterus is actually 'Similar' but totally different than the tissue that grows INSIDE the uterus. It even creates its own estrogen supply independently of the ovaries, which is one of the many reasons why getting a hysterectomy isn't a cure. Also pain and the amount of endo tissue doesn't necessarily correlate with pain, some people can have it everywhere, and not even know they have endo; other people can have it in only a few spots, and feel like hell. The tissue breaks down and is reabsorbed by the body which creates this sort of festering gunk that can fuse your organs together (it can also present as clear slime, that does the same thing, but is harder to diagnose because it is damn near impossible to see). Surgery is the only way to properly diagnose because unless you have things like cysts as well, it doesn't show up on any scans. Surgery is done laparoscopically, and there are two methods ablation and excision. Ablation really doesn't work well because it's just burning off surface level endo tissue on internal organs (it's like melting the tip off the iceberg and saying "good enough") whereas excision is actually cutting into organs to dig out as much tissue as possible (while trying not to do any serious damage to the internal organs...but it happens). But because it creates its own estrogen supply and feeds off of that, it always grows back.

  • @makennaroot3201
    @makennaroot3201 3 роки тому +327

    Seven minutes into the video and I realize joe isn’t the bf’s name it’s the channel’s name😐(I’ve never watched this channel lol)

    • @krishnajah5871
      @krishnajah5871 3 роки тому +6

      Same dude!!🤣i got it when i read your comment

    • @DebbyKrish
      @DebbyKrish 3 роки тому +2

      Yep me too

  • @angelaburrow8114
    @angelaburrow8114 3 роки тому +38

    Kudos to Natalie for making this video but Tom is adorable. He's definitely a keeper, caring, kind, compassionate, & eager to look after his girlfriend in a way of her choosing. I wish all men were like him, the world would be a better place.

  • @loismcgregor2729
    @loismcgregor2729 3 роки тому +157

    Why is it a universal thing for your whole family to find out you’ve finally started your periods 😂

    • @userm180
      @userm180 3 роки тому +4

      for GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON that whoever believeth in HIM should not perish but have eternal life"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 3:16."But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 1:12. hi! JESUS loves you and died for you if you accept HIM! HE rose from the dead to show us that death cant hold HIM! repent and start living your life for HIM and when the time is right HE will get you to Heaven❤

    • @vanyaserra1
      @vanyaserra1 3 роки тому +31

      @@userm180 imagine being so indoctrinated into a cult you have to go on youtube and post the same thing over and over again.

    • @rozielcorner756
      @rozielcorner756 3 роки тому

      My family didn't find out until after a year or so
      ...

    • @CClarinet123
      @CClarinet123 3 роки тому +5

      @@vanyaserra1 i just keep reporting as spam

    • @margauxarguelles6128
      @margauxarguelles6128 3 роки тому +7

      I am Catholic, but I don’t see the need in shoving my belief down other people’s throats by spamming. If you really want to spread the “good word”, there are a lot of less irritating ways. Least you could do is make it somehow related to the post, this copy-paste thing is just lazy.. and annoying. 🙄

  • @BlueBird_V
    @BlueBird_V 3 роки тому +78

    “There’s no hole in the bottom?” Talking about the cup.
    “No, it’s not a bloody drainage system!”
    🤣💀

  • @yumemiruuuu
    @yumemiruuuu 2 роки тому +3

    “They should be free”
    That, right there, is an absolute *king*

  • @Irnbru4ever
    @Irnbru4ever 3 роки тому +26

    Wow! You guys are amazing, you obviously have a wonderful relationship to be able to talk so openly about periods. Your partner is such a nice guy who obviously cares so much about you to share everything about you 👍❤️

  • @whodoitbe6633
    @whodoitbe6633 3 роки тому +49

    If people were to talk to boys about periods when they were little then they wouldn't be weirded out

    • @daniellamcgee4251
      @daniellamcgee4251 3 роки тому +3

      Exactly! That's what I did. Open doors for him to wander in and out on his own terms. He first really noticed when he was 2 years old, so I explained in terms he could understand from then onwards. He always felt comfortable to ask questions. He was never distressed or embarrassed by periods, other blood , his or anyone else's, or anything related to the body. It was just all part of life. I also explained when I had PMS so he would be prepared for any over reactions! He appreciated the warnings! If he knew I was having my period, he wouldn't worry, and would know it was temporary and I would feel better soon. When I was too sick to leave home, at 12 years old he walked to the local shop and bought me sanitary products. He said it was an interesting psychological experiment seeing people looking at him weirdly while he was buying them! He was totally comfortable about the whole thing, and happy to do something more mature and independent and help me. :)

    • @karaa7595
      @karaa7595 3 роки тому +6

      My 6 yo son knows alllll about it. He even double checks I have enough tampons lol.

    • @daniellamcgee4251
      @daniellamcgee4251 3 роки тому +2

      @@karaa7595 How cute and caring your son is! 💗

    • @daniellamcgee4251
      @daniellamcgee4251 3 роки тому +2

      @@karaa7595 Your son will probably be the source of bodily information and sex education for kids at school! Kids will figure out he is comfortable with, and knows stuff, and probably ask him loads of questions. Because kids are embarrassed to ask teachers. Puberty can start, in the normal range, from 9 years old for boys, and from 8 for girls with this generation. So it's good to be prepared! It sounds like you have a wonderful, healthy relationship with your son. It's heartwarming. 💜

    • @whodoitbe6633
      @whodoitbe6633 3 роки тому

      @@karaa7595 awww that's soo sweet

  • @Priyanka..111
    @Priyanka..111 3 роки тому +23

    I really appreciate how understanding he is and such a good listener he is 😌🙌

  • @sophiejaycolt4374
    @sophiejaycolt4374 3 роки тому +37

    Ok so now UA-cam is tracking my menstrual cycle.

  • @InHerJoy
    @InHerJoy 3 роки тому +17

    I'm on my period, find this vid, think "Oh hey, I'm curious what he knows!" As soon as Natalie asks the endometriosis question I start crying. Some of it might be hormones, some pain... But most of it is the feeling of being seen and feeling so happy that that question was included.
    I'd like to ask anyone that doesn't know what Endometriosis is to have a look online. Find the details, look up the symptoms and what it might lead to. One day you might recognize these details in yourself, your family, friends, coworkers or just a random woman suffering on the street. And you'll be able to tell them to look into it and save them YEARS OF PAIN without a clear cause.
    Thank you Joe

  • @TheHestya
    @TheHestya 3 роки тому +157

    There is only that amount of blood specifically for healthy women, but there are other things mixed with it. Don't think it's not a big deal and a lot of work, pals without periods. Especially if you have any illnesses that affect your periods. Like PCOS or Endometriosis. There's other fluids mixed with the blood that build up the walls of the uterus and are helping to get the shed layer and blood out so there's more discharged than a shot glass over 4 days. And way more when it's far longer... Ugh.

    • @kittyisabel6076
      @kittyisabel6076 3 роки тому +23

      totally agree, and also some people’s uterus’ can just decide, ‘happy birthday lemme release two eggs not one’ so it can be heavier because of that! a shot glass every 4 days sounds ridiculous, more like a shot glass per two tampons 😂

    • @astralkilla
      @astralkilla 3 роки тому +5

      Thank you for clarifying that! I’m on the birth control shot and it messes up my period so bad, I am getting off of it, however a few times I have bled for 2 months in a row!!!! I’m not kidding I lost enough blood to pass out and probably die.

    • @Panda72021
      @Panda72021 3 роки тому +5

      There's always other fluids besides blood regardless of conditions (person with endometriosis here) because you aren't JUST shedding blood, the whole lining of the uterus is breaking down and being flushed out of your body, along with things like discharge as well. I absolutely hate the heavy bleeding and the clotting. Thankfully I take meds to stop my period, but I'll never forget how awful it was getting it and bleeding like crazy for even as long as 2-4 weeks. And some people without health conditions can bleed heavy too, but of course if it's really heavy (or you feel lightheaded at any time) definitely worth getting checked out by a doctor who actually listens; because better safe than sorry.

    • @TheHestya
      @TheHestya 3 роки тому +1

      @@Panda72021 100%, I envy people with light periods that don't suffer because of them.

    • @Panda72021
      @Panda72021 3 роки тому +1

      @@TheHestya Right? They just seem to breeze through it. Of course they could be more miserable than they are letting on, and are just great at hiding their discomfort/pain. But anyone who has ever suffered with periods knows there's a certain amount of pain (or literally any of the other symptoms) that are just impossible to hide.

  • @guineapigland5656
    @guineapigland5656 3 роки тому +27

    Can we PLEASE start a petition for every boy/man and sit down and learn about things like this.

  • @mikaelapierce1819
    @mikaelapierce1819 3 роки тому +16

    He’s so sweet and not inappropriate about the whole thing. Very cute

  • @carlymadar3149
    @carlymadar3149 3 роки тому +24

    3:20
    “Carefully” I’m dead 😂

  • @bmalina9954
    @bmalina9954 3 роки тому +16

    This is one of the most wholesome video I have ever seen, I love how much he knows about it and how much he is willing to want to learn more :)

  • @astralkilla
    @astralkilla 3 роки тому +40

    Where did you find him 😫😫 I need men in my life like this!! I’m tired of cringing every time an uneducated guy opens his mouth about female things.

    • @pH7oslo
      @pH7oslo 3 роки тому +2

      Want to take a pop quiz on male things? =P

  • @Mopsyoutube
    @Mopsyoutube 3 роки тому +140

    Dude no fricking way it’s a shot glass, to be fair I’m pretty heavy but I wake up with a shot glass in my pants and that’s after a few hours not days

    • @userm180
      @userm180 3 роки тому +1

      for GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON that whoever believeth in HIM should not perish but have eternal life"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 3:16."But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 1:12. hi! JESUS loves you and died for you if you accept HIM! HE rose from the dead to show us that death cant hold HIM! repent and start living your life for HIM and when the time is right HE will get you to Heaven💛

    • @de4830
      @de4830 3 роки тому +24

      exactly, it’s probably a shot glass of the solid bits alone 😂

    • @vhimeras8030
      @vhimeras8030 3 роки тому +18

      I mean, using a menstrual cup I drop at least half a shot glass every time I empty it during the first two/three days

    • @aang3267
      @aang3267 3 роки тому +22

      Shot glass of actual blood, the other stuff is different fluids and tissue that the uterus made for the uterus bed :)

    • @Mopsyoutube
      @Mopsyoutube 3 роки тому +8

      @@aang3267 they didn’t mention that though so it makes it seem easier when it’s not

  • @karikling8812
    @karikling8812 3 роки тому +79

    I honestly don't get mood swings on my period, so the trope that women who are angry must be on their periods is a bit tiresome. PMS doesn't affect all women, so quite a few of us can be very happy even when we're dripping blood down there, or we could be angry because somebody did something bad or we're going through crappy circumstances.

    • @aang3267
      @aang3267 3 роки тому +7

      Yeah, if anyone says that to me I would get very annoyed (thing is, guys in my class are very immature and barely know what periods are so luckily they never say that to me or any other girls) but if someone did say that, the next time they get angry I'd just be like "weLL sOmEoNeS oN tHEir pEriOd"

    • @institches2750
      @institches2750 3 роки тому +6

      Same. I dont typically get mood symptoms. If I am short-tempered, it's from a bad bout of cramps. I think most people get snippier when they're in pain.

    • @baksteen3162
      @baksteen3162 3 роки тому +3

      it makes me very angry that some men tend to think that women can only get angry when on their period.

    • @margauxarguelles6128
      @margauxarguelles6128 3 роки тому +5

      People have different PMS symptoms. It is annoying when people lump PMS-ing women as emotional wrecks that can be appeased by a little chocolate. I admit i can be a bit snappish at times, but it doesn’t mean i’m on my period or that giving me a bar of chocolate will make my righteous anger magically disappear.

    • @institches2750
      @institches2750 3 роки тому +3

      @@margauxarguelles6128 Though to be fair, I would typically take chocolate as a thoughtful gesture intended to cheer me up, no matter the time of the month.

  • @dre3742
    @dre3742 3 роки тому +95

    *wings* “Stick them to your legs..?”

  • @susanmerriman4520
    @susanmerriman4520 4 роки тому +295

    She talking about women and girls with fairly light periods. I. Would of loved a 4 day period I considered it good if it only lasted 10 days!.

    • @aspiring...
      @aspiring... 4 роки тому +17

      Wow 10 days is that common? I genuinely didn't know.

    • @crazyformyself9773
      @crazyformyself9773 4 роки тому +14

      @@aspiring... yeah me either ;-; I only have 3 days... but then again I am only 15, so that might be changing at anytime when I get older :/

    • @universalpenguin7113
      @universalpenguin7113 4 роки тому +4

      I am on my second period but on my first it lasted for seven days

    • @crazyformyself9773
      @crazyformyself9773 4 роки тому +3

      @@universalpenguin7113 wow your second period? like, ever? how old are you, if you don't mind me asking lol

    • @AtinyHJ
      @AtinyHJ 4 роки тому +5

      Universal Penguin I just had my third and every time they lasted for seven days😩

  • @DeepBlue7
    @DeepBlue7 3 роки тому +6

    Thank you SO much for covering endometriosis! I had stage 4+ along with adenomyosis, causing extreme illness and infertility. Last year I needed a hysterectomy, oopherectomy (ovary removed) and excision surgery to remove the endo. More people need to talk about this and learn about it so thank you!! xo

  • @melissabarranti188
    @melissabarranti188 3 роки тому +417

    When he asked what he should get her for her food carvings I was like “Awwww he’s so sweet”. Also I’m impressed by how much he knew
    Dang guys thanks for all the likes.

    • @Bringon-dw8dx
      @Bringon-dw8dx 3 роки тому +8

      Anyone that lives with a girl should know this amount minimum, and if they don’t you’ve failed as a girlfriend (or he’s an asshole for not listening)

    • @sydney4220
      @sydney4220 3 роки тому

      The bar is soo low....

    • @alex47_in_downtown18
      @alex47_in_downtown18 2 роки тому

      @@sydney4220 not as low as for men though :p

  • @millyjones4879
    @millyjones4879 3 роки тому +49

    The things that’s really annoying is the lower back pain cause I already get bad lower back pain from my scoliosis lmao

    • @lisamartin9831
      @lisamartin9831 3 роки тому +2

      I do too, but I actually like better my back pains than the belly ones, simply because I'm used to them more.

    • @millyjones4879
      @millyjones4879 3 роки тому +1

      @@lisamartin9831 ye that’s so true

    • @anishab6010
      @anishab6010 3 роки тому +1

      That lower back pain is such a bitch 😭

    • @millyjones4879
      @millyjones4879 3 роки тому +1

      @@anishab6010 honestly facts

  • @gippuccino
    @gippuccino 3 роки тому +25

    I know I probably won’t get recognized, but at 5:16 she said that it is from 11 to 14 that periods start, but it can actually start between 9 and 16! I am one of the people that started at 9 years old, so, just to let anyone here know that it isn’t necessarily between 11 and 14 that someone will have periods, ok? :)

    • @charlicks8808
      @charlicks8808 3 роки тому +5

      I was also 9 when I had my first period

    • @unrealuniverse9651
      @unrealuniverse9651 3 роки тому +2

      Yeah but that is the average not everyone is the same

    • @MrsNanaBlue
      @MrsNanaBlue 3 роки тому +2

      The range is really big. I got mine really late, I was 16/17.

  • @nathanzylbermann5391
    @nathanzylbermann5391 3 роки тому +27

    I feel like you should probably talk about secretions too, no one talk about them but basically every person who menstruates has them (to a certain degree)

  • @tessabarras7792
    @tessabarras7792 2 роки тому +3

    Very well described and I loved the way they both discussed the subject without any embarrassment.

  • @symmoneg
    @symmoneg 3 роки тому +8

    this was the absolute best way I've heard periods explained and talked about. Usually the subject makes me uncomfortable, but I think this is a fantastic video. Very nice couple.

  • @greenabigail2740
    @greenabigail2740 4 роки тому +55

    "And then that's.... 👆"

    • @userm180
      @userm180 3 роки тому +3

      for GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON that whoever believeth in HIM should not perish but have eternal life"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 3:16."But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 1:12. hi! JESUS loves you and died for you if you accept HIM! HE rose from the dead to show us that death cant hold HIM! repent and start living your life for HIM and when the time is right HE will get you to Heaven💛

  • @klallamcedar0099
    @klallamcedar0099 3 роки тому +88

    "Recyclable?"
    "No"
    "Rubbish"
    I agree dude!!

  • @anthonyhale3921
    @anthonyhale3921 3 роки тому +3

    We don't understand completely but we try are hardest to understand and this has helped me to understand more

  • @DanielleGendron2012
    @DanielleGendron2012 3 роки тому +6

    “I feel like you’d know when that gets full.” 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @grice478
    @grice478 3 роки тому +8

    I get really bad period pain (passing out bad) and I remember how bad it would be in school. Loads of guys (and girls) would make fun of you if you complained about the pain or passed out. They should really teach you the extent of the pain when you're in school because it feels like someone is digging a knife into you

  • @montanageris6140
    @montanageris6140 3 роки тому +27

    I feel like every single girl died a bit inside when he said the wings of the pad were supposed to stick to your legs

  • @OhVictoria
    @OhVictoria 3 роки тому +5

    He is adorable and super understanding and willing to be more informed. She has a good one :)

  • @bodybalancer
    @bodybalancer 3 роки тому +17

    Not sure why this is popping up a year later but im glad they included a moon cup. Ive used one for years & never looked back, life changing. Probably saved a decent amount not buying disposable products, which are disgusting when you think about it & the waste it generates. But i remember them making me sore & irritated :( the silicone cups are so much more comfortable. Just takes a little getting used to in the beginning.

    • @sarahmcm5559
      @sarahmcm5559 3 роки тому +1

      How were you in the beginning? I've made an attempt to use one but it was so difficult to put in and take out I don't know if I could try again

    • @caitlyncarson9151
      @caitlyncarson9151 3 роки тому +1

      @@sarahmcm5559 it's definitely weird at the beginning. I found at first putting it in and taking it out could be complicated. As it's supposed to suction to your walls to prevent leakage the first day or so the pressure was unusual (but no different than how the first time using a tampon is unusual). And it takes a bit of practice to figure out how to get the cup into place correctly. As for taking it out, I've found the trick is to break the suction before you pull it out by pressing it on one side with a finger before grasping the tail. I think it took 2 months for me to really figure it out. But I 100% recommend you try it again, I find it much more comfortable and flexible than other options. I like that I don't need to change it every time I go to the bathroom and can wait until I'm in my own house (barring an unusually heavy flow). And I often forget I'm wearing one and like that's it's not a visceral reminder that I'm on my period every second of the day.

    • @sarahmcm5559
      @sarahmcm5559 3 роки тому

      @@caitlyncarson9151 thanks for your advice :) it was breaking the suction I found hard to do, I can see how it could cause some problems if not done correctly ... Definitely isn't an easy option compared to pads but hopefully I can get into it with some practice

    • @fiprosha
      @fiprosha 3 роки тому

      @@sarahmcm5559 I think I had three different cups that I had problems with either getting it out again or feeling comfortable with the cup inside. Then the 4th on just fit perfectly and I never had problems ever since.
      All these cups sort of look the same, but small changes in shape and size can go a big way :)

  • @94habuka77
    @94habuka77 3 роки тому +9

    lovely couple. Love that they are speaking so normally about it. Because it IS normal. And should be normal not only for woman! Thank you for this video

  • @geraldrobert4797
    @geraldrobert4797 4 роки тому +31

    Parents should teach all their children about periods and things like that. It helps avoid awkward situations. Once I was in 6th grade. A lot of the girls had periods at my school by then and I like to think all of them carried around pads, tampons, or menstrual cups. So I have a jansport backpack with 5 pockets. 2 big pockets where I put my books. 1 medium pocket for pencils and pens. I had 2 small pockets. One was higher up and I kept my chapstick, money, school ID cards, and my phone in that pocket. The other pocket was stuffed with pads. Me and my friends always showed up an hour before school and we had 0 period so we were basically alone. We decided to go through each other’s backpacks while we were waiting (which looking back on it is sorta stupid and an invasion of privacy). So we looked at the books, moved on to the pencils and finally we were onto the pads. I said I didn’t want them to look in that pocket because my period was new and the schools didn’t talk about it with us at all. I think the other girls knew what was in there but the guys didn’t. This one guy was pestering me (He’s really nice and was probably just curious). Then he tried to reach and open it and I stopped him. When he asked what was in there In said girl things. He clearly didn’t know what that meant because he kept questioning. He probably thinks I had a vape or something in there :P

    • @userm180
      @userm180 3 роки тому

      for GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON that whoever believeth in HIM should not perish but have eternal life"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 3:16."But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 1:12. hi! JESUS loves you and died for you if you accept HIM! HE rose from the dead to show us that death cant hold HIM! repent and start living your life for HIM and when the time is right HE will get you to Heaven💛

    • @geraldrobert4797
      @geraldrobert4797 3 роки тому +4

      m No thanks. I don’t accept him and I won’t life my life for him

    • @leticiaferreira6978
      @leticiaferreira6978 3 роки тому +4

      @@userm180 don't you think it's a bit of an invasion to go and reply to every comment with that I mean people can not be religious or have other beliefs and I don't think that replying to UA-cam comments is how you're gonna spread your faith nor how you should

    • @mirathaloor494
      @mirathaloor494 3 роки тому +2

      @@leticiaferreira6978 I reported their comment for spam

  • @ashlynn1652
    @ashlynn1652 4 роки тому +9

    My parents knew I was about to & I knew a bit about it but it was a shock. How they knew was I got incredibly depressed right before & didn't want to leave my mother's side. Which both were extremely out of character for me. Me & my grandparents had just got back from a vacation. My friends hadn't seen me in a while & I didn't want to even go outside. So my grandmother took me to a specialist because how depressed I was & they said that was why. Shortly after I started my first period.

    • @userm180
      @userm180 3 роки тому

      for GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON that whoever believeth in HIM should not perish but have eternal life"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 3:16."But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 1:12. hi! JESUS loves you and died for you if you accept HIM! HE rose from the dead to show us that death cant hold HIM! repent and start living your life for HIM and when the time is right HE will get you to Heaven❤

  • @heybea891
    @heybea891 2 роки тому +1

    Good guy!!! He handled that really well and respectful!!!

  • @erinpowell941
    @erinpowell941 3 роки тому +2

    Adorable these two. This video should be shared in classrooms with kids to show them how men and women should interact about such things.

  • @Sik15
    @Sik15 3 роки тому +11

    Endometriosis is gnarly! The uterine lining spreads to other organs and still behaves as it would in the uterus!

  • @hiilikespicynoodles5873
    @hiilikespicynoodles5873 3 роки тому +4

    He's so good about it great bf and also thanks for being like woman's spokesperson to all the men you explained periods amazingly thank-you xxxxx

  • @moxylady007
    @moxylady007 3 роки тому +4

    Omg. Every woman I know - every month - is always like ohhhhhh it’s my period. Suddenly it makes sense. Like every month I am surprised! We are alllll surprised. Every month! I’m so glad you said that. Validating.

  • @roseannr581
    @roseannr581 2 роки тому +2

    I wish all men were like your boyfriend,we need to teach men about periods and let them know what it’s like for us.you’re right about endometriosis being misdiagnosed. I suffered with it for years and the pain was horrific. I only found out i had it when i was going in for a hysterectomy at 34.it was in my medical records and no-one thought to tell me,its really important to get the right diagnosis and get it early.

  • @melissasaint3283
    @melissasaint3283 3 роки тому +2

    She's spot on about the emotions. Hormonal emotions (except in cases of pmdd) and the physical pain just make it harder to deal with things that ordinarily irritate, anger or upset you.

  • @BiblioBlichar
    @BiblioBlichar 3 роки тому +20

    I never understand why everyone always talks about emotional stuff when on their period. I’ve never experienced that

    • @iwasnvrhere9970
      @iwasnvrhere9970 3 роки тому +13

      it's different for everyone, some ppl have rlly bad mood swings others don't same with the likes of cramps, blood flow, discomfort ect, everyone has a different experience

    • @lisamartin9831
      @lisamartin9831 3 роки тому +4

      Because some people have them ? Some don't have pain at all, but everyone associate periods = pains. So ...well.

    • @elizewyn
      @elizewyn 3 роки тому +1

      Lucky you ! Maybe your hormones levels don't get super unbalanced then. When i'm PMSing i have very dark thoughts, and then i look at my calendar and it all makes sense.

    • @hannahdyson7129
      @hannahdyson7129 3 роки тому

      Then you are lucky

    • @Thaleya1
      @Thaleya1 3 роки тому

      Different for everyone...ive never gotten.acne. only emotional at times. And I bleed a fuck ton more than what they call the norm. I bleed through baby diapers because I have to use them as pads because there arent pads that can take that much blood.

  • @DaisyLoe
    @DaisyLoe 3 роки тому +6

    I got my first period on holiday and i was so embarrassed that i couldn’t tell my mum. I wish i had been taught more about periods in school. Looking back its awful that I felt embarrassed about something so natural, but i guess thats how *society* works.

    • @janasi1032
      @janasi1032 3 роки тому

      I got mine when i was in english class, i felt bad on that day and didn't know why. So i got my period and my friend had some pads, thank god! Without them ....Well lets not think about that!

  • @fibrown444
    @fibrown444 4 роки тому +23

    Flashback to the early 90s and Claire Rayner talking about wings!

    • @userm180
      @userm180 3 роки тому

      for GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON that whoever believeth in HIM should not perish but have eternal life"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 3:16."But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 1:12. hi! JESUS loves you and died for you if you accept HIM! HE rose from the dead to show us that death cant hold HIM! repent and start living your life for HIM and when the time is right HE will get you to Heaven💛

    • @jayisawesomesauce
      @jayisawesomesauce 3 роки тому +1

      @@userm180 whut

  • @user-ww9dn6us3b
    @user-ww9dn6us3b 3 роки тому +41

    Are in the US also tampons without applicators....I live in Germany and I‘ve never seen one here.🤷🏼‍♀️ Isn‘t it such a big waste...all the plastic, although it isn‘t necessary.

    • @melodyknievel515
      @melodyknievel515 3 роки тому +5

      I accidentally bought tampons without an applicator here in the US and I couldn't use them. Maybe because I'm not used to them, but I'm also really, really small and need the extra push otherwise I can't get it up there 😅

    • @acedragon1456
      @acedragon1456 3 роки тому +9

      In the uk you can buy with or without the applicators depending on what brand you buy.

    • @userm180
      @userm180 3 роки тому +2

      for GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON that whoever believeth in HIM should not perish but have eternal life"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 3:16."But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 1:12. hi! JESUS loves you and died for you if you accept HIM! HE rose from the dead to show us that death cant hold HIM! repent and start living your life for HIM and when the time is right HE will get you to Heaven❤

    • @skabizzibel8666
      @skabizzibel8666 3 роки тому +7

      @@userm180 this has nothing to do with the comment. But idk good for you

    • @phoebeel
      @phoebeel 3 роки тому +1

      @@melodyknievel515 you push it in with your finger...?

  • @_apoorva_07
    @_apoorva_07 3 роки тому +1

    "SHOULD BE FREE" that's a King right there!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Genesis-McGruder
    @Genesis-McGruder 3 роки тому +4

    You can actually get your first period anywhere between 9 and 15; with 11-14 being most common, on rare occasions it could start earlier or later than the aforementioned time frame.

  • @JustGigi319
    @JustGigi319 3 роки тому +7

    There is also adenomyosis. It's like endometriosis; however, in endometriosis, the uterine lining grows outside of the uterus. With adenomyosis, the uterine lining grows into the uterine muscle. A lot of the same symptoms, including the long, heavy periods, cramping, back pain, etc.

    • @jfelton4153
      @jfelton4153 3 роки тому

      So many complications involved in the female reproduction system.

    • @Courtneyburns90
      @Courtneyburns90 3 роки тому

      @@jfelton4153 I have thickening of the womb which can be pre cancerous and only treated by having a coil stuck in my cervix..fun times.

  • @myeramimclerie7869
    @myeramimclerie7869 3 роки тому +50

    I agree so much that they shouldn't just teach about the biological side of it! They should teach about hormones too and what they do with your mood. They also could compare it to the male hormone cycle so the average boy would understand better. If they're really good they could also teach about transgender people's hormones and periods...
    If my kid will not learn all this in school, I will teach it! 💪

  • @kellsndudz
    @kellsndudz 2 роки тому +1

    Him: "It should be free."
    Her: "Preach, sister."

  • @autumn_nights392
    @autumn_nights392 2 роки тому +1

    What always surprises me is the fact that a lot of men think that you stick a pad to your body instead of your underwear

  • @starfusion617
    @starfusion617 3 роки тому +10

    Why does every man say “This is a tampon” in the same way every video 😂
    They’re so confident in the tampon before they open it lol

  • @amandacassidy4957
    @amandacassidy4957 3 роки тому +17

    "What do you think they cost?"
    "They should be free..."
    * crying quietly *
    In Germany it's not that long ago we had to pay luxury taxes for this shit
    *fecking luxury taxes*

    • @gaia4318
      @gaia4318 3 роки тому +3

      Here in italy , we still have luxury taxes on this things ...it's so fucked up

  • @teresayeates3437
    @teresayeates3437 3 роки тому +15

    He says: Moon cup, me, learned something new.

  • @amishanagarajan2016
    @amishanagarajan2016 3 роки тому +2

    He is a very thoughtful and just overall decent guy.

  • @nafisaismat8985
    @nafisaismat8985 3 роки тому +2

    That 1st period reaction of her mom, "oh my god, you've got your period!" & Then informing every aunties is such an Asian thing. 😐😂🤦🏽

  • @hannahsifleet595
    @hannahsifleet595 3 роки тому +15

    That’s not actually what endometriosis is. Just some of the symptoms. Endometriosis is where tissue like the lining of the womb grows in places it shouldn’t. It can cause heavy and painful periods, but it’s much more serious than just that.

    • @Evija3000
      @Evija3000 3 роки тому

      It's basically tearing your inner organs...

    • @Panda72021
      @Panda72021 3 роки тому

      Preach! I've had it for around 11 years now, definitely more than "just" painful periods. In fact one of the "alarm bells" that went off for me that signaled that something was NOT RIGHT, was that I was experiencing PMS-like symptoms (which have gotten worse over the years and doesn't even feel like pms anymore) when my period wasn't even due.

  • @hazellevesque7773
    @hazellevesque7773 3 роки тому +15

    I got mine at 8, and idk the exact amount but it feels like a whole lot more than a shotglass

    • @leiamast9035
      @leiamast9035 3 роки тому +2

      I got mine at 11

    • @leiamast9035
      @leiamast9035 3 роки тому +3

      @ATHARV KAWLE congratulations 👏 🙌

    • @alexislennon4973
      @alexislennon4973 3 роки тому

      @ATHARV KAWLE Welcome to our period party 🎉
      🤣🤣🤣

  • @angelaburrow8114
    @angelaburrow8114 3 роки тому +21

    I would question the fact that it's mostly male doctors who don't care about endometriosis. In my experience, the men I've seen have been sympathetic & eager to help. The worst treatment always came from female doctors. The worst was a female gynae who said endo wasn't a big deal & I should just suck it up! This was after I'd had a period for 2 years non-stop & had needed a blood transfusion because the anaemia got so bad despite being on iron tablets. I was also on strong opioids for pain.
    My GPs have always been fantastic, male & female, apart from one I grew up with. According to her, I never had anything wrong with me. Even when I saw her after I'd just been discharged from hospital following emergency surgery, she claimed I was making it all up & refused to take the letter the hospital told me to give her. She refused to prescribe the meds the hospital gave me (they only give you a couple of days supply in hospital, with the understanding your GP will give more). I had to go back to the consultant at the hospital to ask for a prescription & he was so mad at the GP he rang her to complain. I was told to leave the GP practice after that, & found an amazing clinic who look after you so well. I've been with them for over 10 years now & can't find a single fault with them.

    • @romem1952
      @romem1952 3 роки тому +5

      I'm glad that you were lucky enough to find good male docs. Unfortunately it seems like endo has been shown as not so bad to everyone who doesn't have it so it influences both. Where I struggle is getting a referral. Male family docs tend not to get much about this stuff in my opinion. I even just asked for birth control to help my really bad pain and he told me that it probably wasn't as bad as I was making it out to be. Hoping to drop him.

    • @angelaburrow8114
      @angelaburrow8114 3 роки тому +1

      You've got a bad doctor there. How easy is it to change? Everyone deserves quality healthcare & doctors are the ones to provide it. He is failing you & his profession by not taking your illness seriously. Find a better doctor as soon as possible. You shouldn't have to live without treatment. Please listen to someine who is, without a doubt, older than you & probably more disposed to fight for myself. I reached a point when I was fed up of everyone telling me what to do so became very assertive. When you have endo, or any chronic illness & your doctor isn't on your side, you have to fight for yourself. Tell your doctor you're leaving & find a better one. I dont know if you're part of an online support group. If you're not, find one in your country & ask for doctor recommendations. I'm sure there will be others in your town who can help you. Endo sisters stick together closer than our adhesions. (Sorry, bad joke.) 😉
      The pill did nothing for me, nor the Mirena iud. The only thing that helped was being on Prostap for 18 months. It was hell, with bad side effects & it caused a relapse in another chronic health problem I have. A couple of months after that finished I had excision surgery, & ended up pretty much pain free for about 5 years. It's back again, but nowhere near as severe as before, so I have refused treatment. I get pain for maybe 5 days a month & I already take strong opioids for something else, so it's manageable. The only thing that upsets me is that doctors all told me it would go when I hit the menopause. That happened about 3 years ago, yet I still get pain. At least it's not as bad as it was 15 years ago. I wouldn't want to go through that hell again.
      Take care of yourself. 🙂
      Edit: repeated first sentence so I removed it.

    • @_bandito.
      @_bandito. 3 роки тому

      Hey, I've been having my period non-stop like for a month, or even 2/3 months, my doctor said I might have endometriosis. I also take iron tablets and have anemia and I also had a blood transfusion. But I don't think it's endometriosis cuz it doesn't hurt, like the whole time I would not get cramps, or get angry, emotional or anything like that.
      Btw I'm almost 15

    • @angelaburrow8114
      @angelaburrow8114 3 роки тому

      @@_bandito. Endometriosis doesn't always cause pain. It can do, & it can range from mild to all-consuming, never-ending pain, like mine, or you can have no symptoms at all. The problem is that no 2 women have the same symptoms which is one of the reasons why it's difficult to diagnose. It can also cause infertility which is why you need to listen to your doctor. Some people only find they have it when they can't get pregnant & go for testing. You're very lucky that you have a doctor who's listened & is concerned. Most of my endo friends, like me, had symptoms when we were young, but back in our day our doctors said it was impossible to get under the age of 30. I wonder if your doctor is young, as I'm sure recent medical training has improved knowledge for newly qualified doctors so they understand it can affect women of all ages once they've hit puberty. The estrogen that kicks in strongly with puberty feeds it. For this reason, limiting foods that promote estrogen can help.
      Please, if your doctor recommends testing, accept it. It's better to catch it early because treatment can help. Some people respond to the pill, others to a hormonal coil, others to injections like I had, others need surgery. However it can only be managed if you let your doctor help you.
      To be diagnosed, you'll need an operation, but it's not a big one. They'll make 2 tiny holes in your abdomen, usually one low down, just above the pelvis & the other in your naval. They'll puff your stomach up with gas to provide room to move a small camera. This is the only way to get an accurate diagnosis &, even then, if the endometrial deposits are tiny, less experienced doctors won't see them; this means a negative diagnosis isn't always definitive. Sometimes they'll cut away any deposits they see when they're inside but most times they'll leave them & try you on other treatments first. Recovery is quick because it's not as invasive as cutting you open from side-to-side like they used to do. It didn't hurt me, except for when I laughed for about a week afterwards, because I was given adequate pain relief.
      If you want to discuss it more, or you want advice or anyone to talk to, feel free to ask me. I'd also recommend finding an online support group based in your country. If you like, I'll find one for you & post it on here. It would help you to talk to people your own age who have it. The site I used had a few girls your age & younger who'd finally been diagnosed after their parents complained & pushed for a diagnosis. One had even had symptoms since she was 10 years old. My Mum had problems your age, luckily I started with pain in my late 20s, although I'd had other problems since my periods started. You're not alone in this. There are women worldwide who will support you, & it sounds like your parents care too, since you're seeing a doctor. 🙂

    • @_bandito.
      @_bandito. 3 роки тому

      @@angelaburrow8114 thanks, I'd really like to meet other girls that have it, I live in Italy btw. The surgery stuff is scaring me so much oml.

  • @juana6919
    @juana6919 3 роки тому +1

    HE IS A KING, he knows quite a lot and the rest, he is willing to learn

  • @itsophwatkins
    @itsophwatkins 3 роки тому +1

    You have won the boyfriend lottery with this one

  • @rsmith6366
    @rsmith6366 3 роки тому +3

    I'm so glad we went to a girl's grammar school. It was so much more open, so when I got my period (aged 12) I knew exactly what it was. Introverted as he'll so I kept it a secret from even my mum for atleast a month before she discovered I was throwing away bloodied underwear (didn't know how to clean them). One of my worst experiences was going to Whales with my school for Gold DofE. I had packed my ibuprofen in the rucksack in the trailer and my mini bus was driven by 2 male teachers. I had to wait until we got to Whales (from East Kent) to ask a female teacher if she had any. She then loudly proclaimed to the entire group "does anyone have any painkillers, Beccy's got cramps". Couldn't even enjoy my chip dinner.

    • @JulieWallis1963
      @JulieWallis1963 3 роки тому

      Where is _Whales_ ? And how tf did you do a DoE if you don’t even know the country is called Wales? 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

    • @rsmith6366
      @rsmith6366 3 роки тому

      @@JulieWallis1963 autocorrect