Yes, we’re hanging out in my bathtub for this video (there was noise outside and the bathroom happened to be soundproof haha). I think it’s pretty cozy though! Friendly disclaimer: I would love for you to share your opinion on this video topic, of course, but please refrain from trying to poop on everyone’s party if that’s your only intention since it’s just not constructive :) We know it’s expensive here and that our rent is more than your mortgage. Also, my math in the budget section was… questionable… the whole thing is a guesstimate anyways, so plz go easy on me haha. Okay thanks I hope you enjoy the videooo!
People can use a calculator or chatgbt if they want to figure out their budget. It's your human, lived experience that's the draw of your videos! The value of seeing a real person making it happen in NYC is ineffable.
😮😮 omg! Lol, I don't care if there was a city that looked like heaven, I would not pay that amount for a one-bedroom or inefficiency😂 I guess it's just not my thing
I'm a lifelong New Yorker, and though I went straight from living with my parents to living with my partner, I agree with everything you said about NYC life. One tip I would give about moving here alone is to join some group activities to meet new people so you feel less alone - whether it's salsa dancing, rock climbing, improv, etc. :) It's hard to make lasting relationships just drinking at bars.
The minimum requirement of 40-times the rent is really keeping alot of hard working people from being able to afford a decent apartment in a good area. And that doesn't even include the fact that the rent increases every year make it even harder. I encourage people to get away from Manhattan and look in the southern Brooklyn area. You definitely get better apartments for the money. Your commute for the subway might be a bit longer but to me its worth it. I live alone, I'm too old to do the roommate thing. Basically its about being thrifty and changing your mindset.
I moved to NYC in my early 20s, and now I’m in my 40s. I started with roommates and then lived alone. In my late 20s I put aside a percentage of my paycheck into a separate account that I ignored. Eventually that money grew to invest into a stock market portfolio. And when the real estate market was right I used that money for a down payment to buy my own place. Sold my first place and made over $100k, to then upgrade to a larger space. So my advice is to save and keep your eye on the market.
Hi Chelsea! I’ve lived alone in L.A. for 8 years now. A lot of similarities with your experience in NYC-tough to find a good apartment, rents are crazy, etc. But I’ll never go back to sharing space. Thanks for your video!
Living alone (and having the means to) is such a privilege, regardless of whatever city/town you're in. I've lived alone since the age of 17 (early 1990s) with the exception of when I had roommates, lived with boyfriends, or when I was married. Living alone helps to build character - like you said, to know that you can provide for yourself - is something to be cherished. It helps you to learn about yourself through financial stress, loneliness, anxiety... Women really have only lived alone (with social acceptance) for not even 100 yrs, but if it's something your heart yearns for - do your research, prepare, and go for it! Thank you so much for sharing your experience and helping other young people navigate their way around their choices and decision making! I wish I had your UA-cam video to watch when I was first moving out on my own .... but we didn't have UA-cam in the 1990s!🤣
I lived alone for a few years in the Seattle area before I got married. I love my husband dearly, but I sometimes miss having my own space. Getting to do what you want when you want, keeping your space to your own style, I think everyone should experience it once in their life. It builds character!
I live in rural prairie Canada and was absolutely riveted by this video! I have no desire to move away, but this was such a well organized and thought out video and it shed a light on a life that is so foreign to me, that I couldn't help but be captivated. Well done Chelsea for tackling such a complex topic in such an accessible way!
I'm German and have zero intention in moving to the US, I just find your content very interesting :-) It really puts my daily life into perspective when I compare my budget with someone living in NY
LOVE the discussion regarding safety. People often forget it is a personal metric and that many of the "dangerous neighborhoods" aren't actually inherently super dangerous- how you carry yourself and how you take precautions can make a big difference. I am moving to my own big city soon, Toronto, and I have found your videos very comforting. Thank you for this channel, Chelsea.
In short it costs a lot of money to be alive. You have to work a lot to just survive and then if you’re lucky enough to have a really good job that pays a lot then you can truly live life the way its meant to be. You have to admit that its really sad that even if you do have a full time job, the odds of being able to live without roommates is really low and thats not just in NYC, but in any major city in the US. This stuff should really be taught in high school and college. No one really knows this stuff when they should be learning it and when it would be most beneficial to learn it.
so true, capitalism formation of the economy has made living and getting by so difficult! Let alone having dreams and wanting more than just “getting by”
This was extremely helpful and realistic. I'm in my mid twenties and I related so much to your thoughts about the logistics of moving and paying attention to the details of how you feel in a new space. I definitely feel more inspired to make the leap I've been dreaming about for years.
I'm watching this from a rural village in Hungary with about 650 residents. We live in a small house with 0.4 acre garden and I think the only thing about our lifestyle we have in common is that I too have a corporate job at a US based company. I find you videos so interesting and I'm glad I stumbled upon your channel. This is what I love about youtube, the tiny peek into someone else's life. Thank you:)💗
Moving alone to NYC this Oct to take on an assignment for two years and currently looking for an apartment so seems like we are in the same situation! Your videos have been very helpful to me. Thank you so much Chelsea for sharing your insights. Keep them coming!
If you don't mind a longer commute by subway I highly recommend to anyone moving here to look further away from the city. I moved here in July and I sacrificed having a 40min commute for a quiet, safe neighborhood, a very spacious apartment with free street parking at a reasonable rent price.
Ive lived alone most of my adult life and i wish i had more friends that dont have kiddos so we can explore and hang together. I definitely love living alone. It gives an element of peace. When i was younger i didnt mind roommates but essentially nothing compares to peace of mind and having your own space
I lived alone for two years in Berlin/Germany and everything you mention seems to be the same in those big cities. I was never afraid (I avoided the night life), but I felt lonely sometimes. Not to share my daily impressions at work and in the city made me sad some days. But the I took my bike, cruised around, had a coffee and watched people on the streets. I collected business cards of shops and restaurants, started scrappbooks and made my own city map (this was before iPads and Google maps😂)…one day I felt like I owned Berlin. This city was always good to me. After two years I moved back to my small hometown because of my job. But I remember those two years with pride, I wenn out of my comfort zone and I made it.
Your videos are my comfort ❤😊I seriously relate to so much of what you go through. Anxiety, being alone, figuring life out….I suffer from all of that. Thank you for being such a beacon of hope for us that thought we were alone.
I had to drop everything to see a notification of a new video from you. I love your videos sooo much! You bring so much realistic insights that I think anyone considering moving to nyc would much appreciate-me. Keep up the great content ❤❤❤
Life in the city can be quite a struggle to make ends meet. That financial fact resonates with me. You're providing much needed info that is not readily available out there. This is good encouragement for others. Thank you for being so transparent.
What an incredible video Chelsea. It’s so conversational and well done. I would love to see you get some training and become a counsellor or therapist. Your manner, your advice, but mainly your own experiences would bring so much to something like that and can be a very good living. I enjoy your channel and your work. Good luck with the apt hunting!
@@ChelseaCallahan such a real and informative view of living in nyc alone… so much more real than many of the gals posting videos about living in nyc… I suspect it will open the eyes of many thinking of making the move. It also answers some questions for me about how any young people afford to live in nyc….. I’m a 62 year old Canadian woman. 😁
I'm a guy in Sydney and can relate to all the expenses and the financial hole that you find yourself in living alone and almost everything you said about NY life , expenses, decisions, psychology relates to life in Sydney
Finding this as someone who lives in Dallas alone and I think some of this advice is SO RELEVANT and helpful even if NYC isn’t where you’re looking to live solo. The quiet/stillness/peace I experience living alone is precious to me but also know that for some folks that quiet/solitude is a huge turn off. It’s good to do those thought exercises of like, ok, I’m settled, it’s 8pm, I’m alone, how do I feel? Congrats on being able to provide this for yourself. I know I am so proud (and lucky and privileged) to be able to do this for myself and don’t take if for granted for a second!!
I live near London, UK. Av salary here in the UK is 27k per year which is around £1,800 per month (after tax). Flats in and around London are extremely expensive (ranging from £1000 to 2-3000 per month) plus cost of water, gas etc . Young people here rent rooms because no one can afford a place on their own
I can still remember the first night in my first apartment that I owned (Australia). Shutting the door and knowing that everything inside was mine and mine alone was so exciting. Best of luck with the new apartment search.
I’m a 37 year old and moved to a new to me city to live by myself that’s definitely not nyc. I don’t live in the best neighborhood but it’s the best one I’ve lived in I think. It’s nice to be on my own and structure my time and day as I see fit. It’s also really satisfying to be able to support myself financially, emotionally, whatever. I don’t think my life as it is would have been possible if I didn’t work so hard on my education and I gotta give a high five to my past self for taking that opportunity as far as I could go with it.
I’ve lived in NY (Brooklyn) most of my life but never alone. My family owns property and we all have our own space so sometimes it can be like living alone but when I want to be around people, I just go upstairs. It’s always so interesting seeing other people’s experiences in the same place and how interesting it is that every experience can be so different. I had no idea that rent was so expensive though. I definitely don’t think I could live in my own city alone and still have a life and that’s pretty crazy. You expense breakdown (minus the rent for me) is pretty accurate I’d say. Love your videos!
Thanks for the awesome video, Chelsea! Although I don't live in NYC, I live in a big city and agree with a lot of the things you've said. I'm currently living with a roommate, but I sometimes do want to live alone. I know I could do so if I invested more money, but at the same time, I feel like I would get lonely without company. We may not be best friends, but we still go out for brunch or activities sometimes. Some of my roommates in the past have become my best friends too. However, I know this will not last forever. I feel like it's okay to live with roommates and live alone at some point in your life. Both experiences are different and have pros and cons, but either way will definitely help you. Good luck with your apartment hunting!
Never being able to get ahead with money hit me deep and I was someone who lived with roommates. I wish I could have experienced living alone in NYC but now that I've moved, it's even more impossible when I look at current rent prices. I've gotta live vicariously through you!
I live alone in NYC and this video is spot on. Budget was realistic; however I would shave off some of other areas to contribute to a retirement account. I love living alone.
Having to face bugs all by yourself. This really hit home for me. LOL. Lived alone for 5 years (loved it) and this was a thing! But living alone was awesome. I think everyone should do it if they have the chance.
I still can’t believe you transferred from restaurant to corporate jobs. I wonder if I could do that but I don’t even know if I could see myself in a corporate environment. I don’t think I could afford living in NYC but it sounds amazing to be in that environment. Thanks for making these kinds of videos. It’s not as fun to think about these sorts of things but it’s important to think about.
I made this transition too. I was a server fall 2021 and now i have an office job at a bank, ive been here for 8ish months. I’m still not making a ton of money (still more than i made serving though) but its enough to have some left over to save. It’s definitely possible!!!
@@minitinybaby I didn’t know this was a thing. I don’t have server experience but I wonder how transferable my experience is. Thanks for sharing your story too and good luck
Hey! Newer subscriber. I think you’re selling yourself short on how wide your demographic truly is. I’m a mom of 5 in my 40’s. Never got to live alone. Good for you for doing it. That’s amazing. I think it’s so important for everyone to be able to take care of themselves. I’m fascinated with your content. Thanks for sharing!
Even though I don't live in NYC and don't plan on moving, I enjoy your content. I follow several UA-camrs who give realistic advice on the places they live such as Chris from Hello From Hawaii and Maddie from MaddieGold in Mexico. I'm glad to see realistic content becoming more frequent because I find that far more interesting and engaging than just a bunch of sugar coated imagery.
100% agree with you. I have ALWAYS wanted to live in NYC, even for just like a year or so, but haven’t gotten the chance yet. I lived alone in San Jose CA for almost 5 years, and although the initial stress of finances got to me, I wouldn’t change that time in my life for anything. I will ALWAYS encourage people to live on their own and get that experience. Mind you, I was in a relationship and we were supposed to move in with each other. I had went from my parents(moved out at 24) to rooming with my cousin, and then he and I talked about living together once she decided to move out. Though he made a lot more than me and would have paid all of the bills allowing me to save, I knew I needed to get the experience of doing things on my own. And in that time I grew SO much, I traveled, I made a lot of friends, and I learned to be ALONE with myself and enjoy my own company. I found myself doing things I used to think other people we weird or “lonely” for doing. Like taking myself out to dinner, going to the movies, going on a trip. If your questioning it, just take the leap. Establish a safety net(friends or family) you know will take you in if something happens and go. Like, I knew I could go back home or with my brother if anything happened. DO IT! No “regerts”
I’m 35 and lucky enough to have been able to separate from my partner and move out on my own in Brooklyn. I have in all honesty, enjoyed the experience. It’s a good enough balance of me to work my ass off but then enjoy the perks of living in NYC in my spare time. Never a dull moment
I watched your videos before I moved to nyc for the first time and it really helped. I lived in a shared space with roommates and it was really nice to have my own room and space but roommates really stressed me out not having a safe space to cook, clean, unwind is really important to me. I’m now exploring the reality of me living alone and i really enjoy these videos they are very encouraging and real! Looking forward to what you share next! ❤
I live in Los Angeles and I have a similar experience. I adore NYC, but on teacher salary I would not survive, so I’m just a seasonal visitor. Even that is a privilege. Hope you find a new home soon!
Im 23 and Just got accepted into nursing school🙏❤️. After 1 year of school I could move to NYC and a salary for the job I want is $80,000 - $90,000 . I know people make more but i think that salary could get me started in the city and smaller boroughs like brooklyn , astoria , queens and stuff like that .
As a native New Yorker that’s not enough for the majority of Queens and Brooklyn. Unless you want to live in a crap area of Queens and Brooklyn. You’ll need a roommate
Why you only have 40K followers is beyond me. Your videos come across as honest, truthful, personal, insightful, kind, purposeful, and inspiring. Always look forward to your next vlog. Keep 'em coming Chelsea :)
Great video! I love watching you Chelsea living alone I’ve never lived alone myself so maybe that’s why. I remember taking a trip to LA by myself (stayed at a hotel) to see my mom and it was awesome! New York is tough but you’ve shown it’s possible! Proud of you!🤗🥰🌷💗
Wow I moved out of my home at 19 and have lived alone since 2018, and this video (that I just happened upon by algorithm, happy it brought me here and subscribed ❤) reminded me to be grateful that a) I’m able and glad to live alone and b) born and raised in this crazy metro area where people fight to stay in. I by no means THRIVE financially but god what a reminder to be mindful of all the great, not so small things in life to appreciate. Thank you for this very real, honest, realistic view of living in the city. I get so sick (…and maybe report sometimes out of pettiness…) of those unrealistic “How I live in NYC with a $5-8k budget and high paying corporate job in addition to maintaining a healthy lifestyle!!!!” videos and this was so refreshing to watch.
I live alone in orange county California and have seriously considered moving to Manhattan. The energy of that city is so incredible. I was just there in april and gets better every time i come back!!!
Your videos have been extremely helpful. I plan on leaving the army and starting over in NY. I grew up only 90 minutes from NYC and have family in the BX. Excited for this next chapter!
This was very insightful AND well edited and shot! I am looking to move to New York soon and I really appreciate the messages here. I feel like a lot of the videos I watch are too tailored towards the creator's own experiences and beliefs about moving to NY. I love how you gave some examples from your experience; however, your experiences/examples you gave never took the forefront of whether or not you should live alone or not. There was always optimism and inclusivity for other people who may not have the same exp as you. Great video!
I had the privilege of living alone in Chicago..it is one of the greatest experiences of my life!! City life is exciting!! I was hoping to move to NYC..pre pandemic I was getting my resume ready to become a flight attendant..now I live in Destin FL. I will never forget my Chicago life...FYI originally from Milwaukee WI. I love your content Chelsea. Thank you.
I do love your video's Chelsea. You truely are very honest and forth coming about what is going on in your life. You are a beacon of fresh air. Thanks for your candor😊
I live in Melbourne Australia. I'm 45 and lived on my own since 2010 and have now bought my own 1 bedroom unit - though to afford this I had to move out about 40km from Melbourne CBD but I mostly WFH and my office is local. I will say though if you're someone who doesn't want kids and don't follow the traditional relationship escalator once you live on your own you'll never share with anyone ever again - I know I won't I LOVE solo living but yes it's expensive and great breakdown of the budget considerations but if you can afford it it's so worth it.
Hey from Houston, I ❤. NYC!!! Couldn’t live there, but love to visit!!!! I can’t wait to see your new place! I hope things go smoothly as far as finding a place you love, and not too many surprises! Wishing you all the best, LM
Living alone in nyc is the best thing I’ve done as well. Although, it can be tough, not being able to split the expenses, the independent feeling is priceless! Great video as usual.
I’m in my late 30’s living in rural Alaska near Denali National Park and I love your videos. I’ve always had a love for NYC and it’s so cool to live vicariously through you 😊
While I'm a native New York; I stumbled upon this video on my feed and I'm not crazy about watching vlogs especially regarding NY. But I watched a couple of your videos and your videos are very authentic / real. So thank you for sharing your experiences and also I was considering living on my own so maybe that's how your video popped up 😅
I clicked on this thinking it was a bathroom remodelling video. Guess not. Instead it's a girl sitting in a bathtub talking about living in NYC. Who *IS* this Chelsea?! Now I'm in love. 😍
I can relate to this so much as a NYer . Thank you for all the sound advice for those considering moving here in 2023, and your personal testimonial. You’re an amazing person.
I’m an expat about to come to NYC and I’m super happy I stumbled upon your channel! I love your attitude and realistic but also POSITIVE view of the city. I’m a runner as well so hopefully that will keep my mindset as optimistic as yours :)
I LOVE living alone in NYC. Moved to Brooklyn from Houston back in 2006, and have only had roommates for a small percentage of that time. The longer you live here and the more connected you get it gets a little bit easier to find apartments. I lucked into one of those amazing deals that I never want to leave. Was originally going to live here with a roommate, and when that arrangement imploded, I decided to make it work by myself and I am so happy. So yes, much more expensive to live here than Texas, but the opportunities here are so much more plentiful, the community feeling of neighborhoods is just beautiful, and not having to have a car is THE BEST. I was feeling guilty because my grocery budget is substantially higher than yours, but I am saving money by only taking the subway aside from a very rare Uber ride. Anyway, fantastic video as always and I'm crossing my fingers you find a great new apartment!
This was such a great video. I have no desire whatsoever to live in NYC. BUT the advice was solid and helpful for many other situations and places! Thanks for the time you spent on this Chelsea!
I'm a Canadian 🇨🇦 and just find you so relatable and down to earth! No desire to move to NYC but super cool to see your journey! I've been considering starting my own YT from a Canadian view but kind of intimidated! Keep doing what you are doing!
video at 8:50: the most powerful, realistic, truthful and valuable advice anyone could ask for. WELL-SAID. (and immediately following, she has the CUTEST ears I have ever seen, except maybe on bunnies and kittens.....)
i dont live in nyc, but I live alone in a midwestern city (MUCH more affordable than nyc lol, my rent for a 1bed is only $725) and especially as someone who is quite introverted and enjoys spending time alone, designing my home the exact way *i* want it to look, and knowing I can use my space however I want whenever I want is so deeply important to me. I know cost, safety, introversion/extroversion etc are concerns that vary from person to person, but I genuinely really think living alone in a metropolitan area is one of the most worthwhile experiences you can have If you can afford it. Especially as a woman, it’s so empowering to be out there doing your own thing independently. Frankly, there is SO much propaganda about how cities are *SO* dangerous for women and yes, obviously you need to be aware of where you are and be on alert, but the notion that cities are super dangerous all of the time is just bullshit (newsflash, statistically you’re much more likely to be victimized by a family member or Romantic partner than a random stranger on the street) and the pros VASTLY outweigh the cons. It really makes you realize how much you can do on your own and how you don’t have to just settle down, get married, and move to the suburbs if that isn’t what you want out of your life! If you’re a woman reading this and considering living alone, I can’t recommend it enough! thanks for your content Chelsea! I hope one day I can move to nyc but in the meantime I’ll continue living vicariously through you!
All the NY, NJ, MA and CA transplants (who destroyed their own states) are now moving to your midwestern city. Very soon, your $725/mo will be a distant memory....
Midwestern? Is it Chicago? I’ve been looking at Chicago, New York, and Boston specifically. I’m trying to visit all of them soon to see which city I like the most
@@henryjoshual1848 yep, absolutely true lol! rent prices have risen a crazy amount just in the 4 years that i've been living here, my previous apartment was only $600/month and my current place is a few hundred dollars less than what similar places are going for in my neighborhood. just going to make the most of it before my landlord realizes she could be charging more!
@@TheGreatWasian_ no, not chicago! however i am from the chicago area originally and people i know love it there! but chicago is definitely a lot more expensive than where i live but i would say it's definitely more affordable than nyc or boston (depending, of course, on what neighborhood you want to live in). you might also consider looking at cleveland! it's relatively affordable and i think it's a super cool city. plus being on the lake is a huge bonus!
Never had the desire to live in NYC but still watching lol. Thankful I still live in a big city with all the perks but not as expensive. I own my condo and pretty much never budget. It’s so freeing
vivo solo hace mucho tiempo ,fue difícil ,sentía realmente solo ,pase por crisis fuertes ,con el tiempo lo fui asimilando ,y hoy por hoy disfruto del estar solo ,me gusta mi vida y le agradezco a DIOS este nuevo tiempo...desde chile con amor
You’ve got it all under control with a great sense of reality. I agree that it would be good to live in a place like NYC for a year or so just for the experience. Lots of common sense and wisdoms being shared from…the bathtub….lol.❤
Another great video! Thanks for sharing this. I'm currently debating on moving again AND relocating to a new area (NYC is on that list). Appreciate your realistic / insightful thoughts on it all. Can't wait to see how the apartment hunting goes!
Great informative video. I'm from Houston and live with family. 24, in grad school and just got a full-time offer at a corporate job in Jersey City. It will be a big move and I think I'll need roommates. I'm starting at 80k salary, no student loans, no credit, and a car as my graduation gift. Finding a place is going to take a miracle.
At one point I came back to the video just looked and was like why is Chelsea in the bathtub 😂 I don’t live in NYC but I spend a LOT of money on art supplies!!
This is so inspiring!! I love that having extra financial pressure made you even more motivated to be more successful 🎉 congrats this is truly the dream! To have a little corner of NYC ❤️
i'm an introvert so one would think i hate living with roommates in NYC but thats actually not the case at all. in fact my roommates have helped me so much to come out of my shell and have the confidence to meet new people. i made the decision to live with others on purpose even though i could afford to live alone, and its the best thing i ever could've done.
Hey Chelsea, great work, I'm actually, just visiting NYC next March 2024 so I'm frantically watching anything I can find on the City, I thought you gave a wonderful insight into what it's like to move to NYC,good for you and we'll done on your personal journey,Really enjoyed your piece fun and informative. Maybe you should consider some presentation work your very bubble great communication,. Best wishes for your Future Richard.😊
the number breakdown was too real. a thousand million percent i prefer living alone. for the stranger reading thru, go to every listing, be early, nice, courteous, persistent, speedy. if you have to pay a broker's fee, and you can, do it once and be done with it. some of the better listings go exclusively to brokers. and if you befriend a broker, they might contact you if they have something not even listed yet. it's a lot of speed, luck, good timing, and money. so get the new job (and that new offer letter) first and everything else becomes easier. once you hit that 70k+ range, and granted you have some savings and minimal debt, nyc really opens itself up to you in a diff way. been great watching your growth, chelsea! i watched your old nyc vids and your content has only improved xo
off topic but there's the money shot at 00:09 🙂 Going back to the topic, your in-depth advice about living alone in NY is an opener to many.. including me. But is it worth it to live alone in NY? Yeah! for sure!
I would be like you in the beginning and be just in my room and not getting out so ya, it is really an eye opener to see that yes having roommates would be a good idea.
This was SUCH an interesting video, thanks for sharing these insights! As an Aussie, it was super interesting to get a peek into what it's like living over in your part of the world. Best of luck with hunting for your new place and your move x
Yes, we’re hanging out in my bathtub for this video (there was noise outside and the bathroom happened to be soundproof haha). I think it’s pretty cozy though!
Friendly disclaimer: I would love for you to share your opinion on this video topic, of course, but please refrain from trying to poop on everyone’s party if that’s your only intention since it’s just not constructive :) We know it’s expensive here and that our rent is more than your mortgage. Also, my math in the budget section was… questionable… the whole thing is a guesstimate anyways, so plz go easy on me haha. Okay thanks I hope you enjoy the videooo!
People can use a calculator or chatgbt if they want to figure out their budget. It's your human, lived experience that's the draw of your videos! The value of seeing a real person making it happen in NYC is ineffable.
No matter how you budget, somehow you usually end up breaking even at best even if you make a good salary.
❤ your videos are PRICELESS! Thanks so much Chelsea
😮😮 omg! Lol, I don't care if there was a city that looked like heaven, I would not pay that amount for a one-bedroom or inefficiency😂 I guess it's just not my thing
I love your content.
I'm a lifelong New Yorker, and though I went straight from living with my parents to living with my partner, I agree with everything you said about NYC life. One tip I would give about moving here alone is to join some group activities to meet new people so you feel less alone - whether it's salsa dancing, rock climbing, improv, etc. :) It's hard to make lasting relationships just drinking at bars.
Love love love that advice!
I am a girl that lives in the uk but still am watching this 😂 it’s interesting to see what other people live like
SAME! London girl x
Same but from south America xd
I am bloke and I love it
Same here! 😊
Me too
I'm 28 and living in queens alone. I would say Chelsea is 100% right. It's great living alone but being financially stressed is another thing.
I have lived alone since 1999 and cannot imagine living with anyone again. My rules, my roof, my remote control!!🤣
I agree with Becky. My words exactly.
To be able to afford living alone is a privilege
The minimum requirement of 40-times the rent is really keeping alot of hard working people from being able to afford a decent apartment in a good area. And that doesn't even include the fact that the rent increases every year make it even harder. I encourage people to get away from Manhattan and look in the southern Brooklyn area. You definitely get better apartments for the money. Your commute for the subway might be a bit longer but to me its worth it. I live alone, I'm too old to do the roommate thing. Basically its about being thrifty and changing your mindset.
Totally agree. This is solid advice
Yea me too. I need my own space now it allows me to regroup and be raw without without worrying about bothering anyone
I moved to NYC in my early 20s, and now I’m in my 40s. I started with roommates and then lived alone. In my late 20s I put aside a percentage of my paycheck into a separate account that I ignored. Eventually that money grew to invest into a stock market portfolio. And when the real estate market was right I used that money for a down payment to buy my own place. Sold my first place and made over $100k, to then upgrade to a larger space. So my advice is to save and keep your eye on the market.
Where did you got lots of money to buy something? What you’re doing for living?
Hi Chelsea! I’ve lived alone in L.A. for 8 years now. A lot of similarities with your experience in NYC-tough to find a good apartment, rents are crazy, etc. But I’ll never go back to sharing space. Thanks for your video!
sharing.....space.....SUCKS !!!
Living alone (and having the means to) is such a privilege, regardless of whatever city/town you're in. I've lived alone since the age of 17 (early 1990s) with the exception of when I had roommates, lived with boyfriends, or when I was married. Living alone helps to build character - like you said, to know that you can provide for yourself - is something to be cherished. It helps you to learn about yourself through financial stress, loneliness, anxiety... Women really have only lived alone (with social acceptance) for not even 100 yrs, but if it's something your heart yearns for - do your research, prepare, and go for it! Thank you so much for sharing your experience and helping other young people navigate their way around their choices and decision making! I wish I had your UA-cam video to watch when I was first moving out on my own .... but we didn't have UA-cam in the 1990s!🤣
I love this comment❤
I lived alone for a few years in the Seattle area before I got married. I love my husband dearly, but I sometimes miss having my own space. Getting to do what you want when you want, keeping your space to your own style, I think everyone should experience it once in their life. It builds character!
This is why I don’t want to ever marry haha.
I live in rural prairie Canada and was absolutely riveted by this video! I have no desire to move away, but this was such a well organized and thought out video and it shed a light on a life that is so foreign to me, that I couldn't help but be captivated. Well done Chelsea for tackling such a complex topic in such an accessible way!
Wow thank you so much!
Totally agree! i live with my partner in SF, and this video does not pertain to me whatsoever, but somehow your video just completely drew me in!
I'm German and have zero intention in moving to the US, I just find your content very interesting :-) It really puts my daily life into perspective when I compare my budget with someone living in NY
Genau das dachte ich mir auch. Auch wenn man es umrechnet (was natürlich nicht zu 100% akkurat ist) ist es immer noch super viel Geld in Euro😮
LOVE the discussion regarding safety. People often forget it is a personal metric and that many of the "dangerous neighborhoods" aren't actually inherently super dangerous- how you carry yourself and how you take precautions can make a big difference. I am moving to my own big city soon, Toronto, and I have found your videos very comforting. Thank you for this channel, Chelsea.
In short it costs a lot of money to be alive. You have to work a lot to just survive and then if you’re lucky enough to have a really good job that pays a lot then you can truly live life the way its meant to be. You have to admit that its really sad that even if you do have a full time job, the odds of being able to live without roommates is really low and thats not just in NYC, but in any major city in the US. This stuff should really be taught in high school and college. No one really knows this stuff when they should be learning it and when it would be most beneficial to learn it.
so true, capitalism formation of the economy has made living and getting by so difficult! Let alone having dreams and wanting more than just “getting by”
I was born and lived in NYC my whole life. When I see something that's not expensive it's shocking for me and hard to believe
This! Same.
watching this living in rural Canada w/ no intention to move but always enchanted by the prospect
I've never had any interest in NYC, i'm just here for you Chelsea!!! Love you and your content!❤❤
You're so sweet haha
Living alone anywhere for even a short time is a critical part of personal self-growth and is worth the extra cost.
This was extremely helpful and realistic. I'm in my mid twenties and I related so much to your thoughts about the logistics of moving and paying attention to the details of how you feel in a new space. I definitely feel more inspired to make the leap I've been dreaming about for years.
I'm watching this even though I have no plans moving to New York. I really just enjoy your content! 💙
I'm watching this from a rural village in Hungary with about 650 residents. We live in a small house with 0.4 acre garden and I think the only thing about our lifestyle we have in common is that I too have a corporate job at a US based company. I find you videos so interesting and I'm glad I stumbled upon your channel. This is what I love about youtube, the tiny peek into someone else's life. Thank you:)💗
I’m 30 something, mother of two, married and living in Australia snd still watching this😆. NYC is so fascinating to me
Moving alone to NYC this Oct to take on an assignment for two years and currently looking for an apartment so seems like we are in the same situation! Your videos have been very helpful to me. Thank you so much Chelsea for sharing your insights. Keep them coming!
If you don't mind a longer commute by subway I highly recommend to anyone moving here to look further away from the city. I moved here in July and I sacrificed having a 40min commute for a quiet, safe neighborhood, a very spacious apartment with free street parking at a reasonable rent price.
Ive lived alone most of my adult life and i wish i had more friends that dont have kiddos so we can explore and hang together. I definitely love living alone. It gives an element of peace. When i was younger i didnt mind roommates but essentially nothing compares to peace of mind and having your own space
You’re clearly leveling up and we are LOVING to see it Chelsea. Proud of you and super inspired ❤
I lived alone for two years in Berlin/Germany and everything you mention seems to be the same in those big cities. I was never afraid (I avoided the night life), but I felt lonely sometimes. Not to share my daily impressions at work and in the city made me sad some days. But the I took my bike, cruised around, had a coffee and watched people on the streets. I collected business cards of shops and restaurants, started scrappbooks and made my own city map (this was before iPads and Google maps😂)…one day I felt like I owned Berlin. This city was always good to me. After two years I moved back to my small hometown because of my job. But I remember those two years with pride, I wenn out of my comfort zone and I made it.
Your videos are my comfort ❤😊I seriously relate to so much of what you go through. Anxiety, being alone, figuring life out….I suffer from all of that. Thank you for being such a beacon of hope for us that thought we were alone.
I had to drop everything to see a notification of a new video from you. I love your videos sooo much! You bring so much realistic insights that I think anyone considering moving to nyc would much appreciate-me. Keep up the great content ❤❤❤
I love how transparent you are! Thank you
Life in the city can be quite a struggle to make ends meet. That financial fact resonates with me. You're providing much needed info that is not readily available out there. This is good encouragement for others. Thank you for being so transparent.
What an incredible video Chelsea. It’s so conversational and well done. I would love to see you get some training and become a counsellor or therapist. Your manner, your advice, but mainly your own experiences would bring so much to something like that and can be a very good living.
I enjoy your channel and your work. Good luck with the apt hunting!
Wow thank you Andrea!
@@ChelseaCallahan such a real and informative view of living in nyc alone… so much more real than many of the gals posting videos about living in nyc… I suspect it will open the eyes of many thinking of making the move. It also answers some questions for me about how any young people afford to live in nyc….. I’m a 62 year old Canadian woman. 😁
I second counselor or therapist, if that's something you would be interested in!
I'm a guy in Sydney and can relate to all the expenses and the financial hole that you find yourself in living alone and almost everything you said about NY life , expenses, decisions, psychology relates to life in Sydney
Finding this as someone who lives in Dallas alone and I think some of this advice is SO RELEVANT and helpful even if NYC isn’t where you’re looking to live solo.
The quiet/stillness/peace I experience living alone is precious to me but also know that for some folks that quiet/solitude is a huge turn off. It’s good to do those thought exercises of like, ok, I’m settled, it’s 8pm, I’m alone, how do I feel? Congrats on being able to provide this for yourself. I know I am so proud (and lucky and privileged) to be able to do this for myself and don’t take if for granted for a second!!
I live near London, UK. Av salary here in the UK is 27k per year which is around £1,800 per month (after tax). Flats in and around London are extremely expensive (ranging from £1000 to 2-3000 per month) plus cost of water, gas etc . Young people here rent rooms because no one can afford a place on their own
I can still remember the first night in my first apartment that I owned (Australia). Shutting the door and knowing that everything inside was mine and mine alone was so exciting. Best of luck with the new apartment search.
I’m a 37 year old and moved to a new to me city to live by myself that’s definitely not nyc. I don’t live in the best neighborhood but it’s the best one I’ve lived in I think. It’s nice to be on my own and structure my time and day as I see fit. It’s also really satisfying to be able to support myself financially, emotionally, whatever. I don’t think my life as it is would have been possible if I didn’t work so hard on my education and I gotta give a high five to my past self for taking that opportunity as far as I could go with it.
I’ve lived in NY (Brooklyn) most of my life but never alone. My family owns property and we all have our own space so sometimes it can be like living alone but when I want to be around people, I just go upstairs.
It’s always so interesting seeing other people’s experiences in the same place and how interesting it is that every experience can be so different. I had no idea that rent was so expensive though. I definitely don’t think I could live in my own city alone and still have a life and that’s pretty crazy.
You expense breakdown (minus the rent for me) is pretty accurate I’d say. Love your videos!
Thanks for the awesome video, Chelsea! Although I don't live in NYC, I live in a big city and agree with a lot of the things you've said. I'm currently living with a roommate, but I sometimes do want to live alone. I know I could do so if I invested more money, but at the same time, I feel like I would get lonely without company. We may not be best friends, but we still go out for brunch or activities sometimes. Some of my roommates in the past have become my best friends too. However, I know this will not last forever. I feel like it's okay to live with roommates and live alone at some point in your life. Both experiences are different and have pros and cons, but either way will definitely help you. Good luck with your apartment hunting!
Always appreciate UA-camrs that are straightforward ❤
Never being able to get ahead with money hit me deep and I was someone who lived with roommates. I wish I could have experienced living alone in NYC but now that I've moved, it's even more impossible when I look at current rent prices. I've gotta live vicariously through you!
I live alone in NYC and this video is spot on. Budget was realistic; however I would shave off some of
other areas to contribute to a retirement account. I love living alone.
Having to face bugs all by yourself. This really hit home for me. LOL. Lived alone for 5 years (loved it) and this was a thing! But living alone was awesome. I think everyone should do it if they have the chance.
I live in DT Los Angeles, in a studio alone. It was worth it to get my own space but I relate to the being in the hole all the time.
I still can’t believe you transferred from restaurant to corporate jobs. I wonder if I could do that but I don’t even know if I could see myself in a corporate environment. I don’t think I could afford living in NYC but it sounds amazing to be in that environment. Thanks for making these kinds of videos. It’s not as fun to think about these sorts of things but it’s important to think about.
I made this transition too. I was a server fall 2021 and now i have an office job at a bank, ive been here for 8ish months. I’m still not making a ton of money (still more than i made serving though) but its enough to have some left over to save. It’s definitely possible!!!
@@minitinybaby I didn’t know this was a thing. I don’t have server experience but I wonder how transferable my experience is. Thanks for sharing your story too and good luck
Hey! Newer subscriber. I think you’re selling yourself short on how wide your demographic truly is. I’m a mom of 5 in my 40’s. Never got to live alone. Good for you for doing it. That’s amazing. I think it’s so important for everyone to be able to take care of themselves. I’m fascinated with your content. Thanks for sharing!
Thanks for being here! :)
Even though I don't live in NYC and don't plan on moving, I enjoy your content. I follow several UA-camrs who give realistic advice on the places they live such as Chris from Hello From Hawaii and Maddie from MaddieGold in Mexico. I'm glad to see realistic content becoming more frequent because I find that far more interesting and engaging than just a bunch of sugar coated imagery.
100% agree with you. I have ALWAYS wanted to live in NYC, even for just like a year or so, but haven’t gotten the chance yet. I lived alone in San Jose CA for almost 5 years, and although the initial stress of finances got to me, I wouldn’t change that time in my life for anything.
I will ALWAYS encourage people to live on their own and get that experience. Mind you, I was in a relationship and we were supposed to move in with each other. I had went from my parents(moved out at 24) to rooming with my cousin, and then he and I talked about living together once she decided to move out. Though he made a lot more than me and would have paid all of the bills allowing me to save, I knew I needed to get the experience of doing things on my own. And in that time I grew SO much, I traveled, I made a lot of friends, and I learned to be ALONE with myself and enjoy my own company. I found myself doing things I used to think other people we weird or “lonely” for doing. Like taking myself out to dinner, going to the movies, going on a trip.
If your questioning it, just take the leap. Establish a safety net(friends or family) you know will take you in if something happens and go. Like, I knew I could go back home or with my brother if anything happened.
DO IT! No “regerts”
I’m 35 and lucky enough to have been able to separate from my partner and move out on my own in Brooklyn. I have in all honesty, enjoyed the experience. It’s a good enough balance of me to work my ass off but then enjoy the perks of living in NYC in my spare time. Never a dull moment
I watched your videos before I moved to nyc for the first time and it really helped. I lived in a shared space with roommates and it was really nice to have my own room and space but roommates really stressed me out not having a safe space to cook, clean, unwind is really important to me. I’m now exploring the reality of me living alone and i really enjoy these videos they are very encouraging and real! Looking forward to what you share next! ❤
I live in Los Angeles and I have a similar experience. I adore NYC, but on teacher salary I would not survive, so I’m just a seasonal visitor. Even that is a privilege. Hope you find a new home soon!
teachers deserve to make sooooo much more. This is infuriating. Much love to you ❤️
Im 23 and Just got accepted into nursing school🙏❤️. After 1 year of school I could move to NYC and a salary for the job I want is $80,000 - $90,000 . I know people make more but i think that salary could get me started in the city and smaller boroughs like brooklyn , astoria , queens and stuff like that .
As a native New Yorker that’s not enough for the majority of Queens and Brooklyn. Unless you want to live in a crap area of Queens and Brooklyn. You’ll need a roommate
Why you only have 40K followers is beyond me. Your videos come across as honest, truthful, personal, insightful, kind, purposeful, and inspiring. Always look forward to your next vlog. Keep 'em coming Chelsea :)
Great video! I love watching you Chelsea living alone I’ve never lived alone myself so maybe that’s why. I remember taking a trip to LA by myself (stayed at a hotel) to see my mom and it was awesome! New York is tough but you’ve shown it’s possible! Proud of you!🤗🥰🌷💗
Wow I moved out of my home at 19 and have lived alone since 2018, and this video (that I just happened upon by algorithm, happy it brought me here and subscribed ❤) reminded me to be grateful that a) I’m able and glad to live alone and b) born and raised in this crazy metro area where people fight to stay in. I by no means THRIVE financially but god what a reminder to be mindful of all the great, not so small things in life to appreciate. Thank you for this very real, honest, realistic view of living in the city. I get so sick (…and maybe report sometimes out of pettiness…) of those unrealistic “How I live in NYC with a $5-8k budget and high paying corporate job in addition to maintaining a healthy lifestyle!!!!” videos and this was so refreshing to watch.
As a fellow single woman in her 30's living alone in a city although in the UK i always identify with your videos.
I live alone in orange county California and have seriously considered moving to Manhattan. The energy of that city is so incredible. I was just there in april and gets better every time i come back!!!
Your videos have been extremely helpful. I plan on leaving the army and starting over in NY. I grew up only 90 minutes from NYC and have family in the BX. Excited for this next chapter!
Excited for you too!!
This was very insightful AND well edited and shot! I am looking to move to New York soon and I really appreciate the messages here. I feel like a lot of the videos I watch are too tailored towards the creator's own experiences and beliefs about moving to NY. I love how you gave some examples from your experience; however, your experiences/examples you gave never took the forefront of whether or not you should live alone or not. There was always optimism and inclusivity for other people who may not have the same exp as you. Great video!
wow thanks so much for your kind words ❤️
I had the privilege of living alone in Chicago..it is one of the greatest experiences of my life!! City life is exciting!! I was hoping to move to NYC..pre pandemic I was getting my resume ready to become a flight attendant..now I live in Destin FL. I will never forget my Chicago life...FYI originally from Milwaukee WI. I love your content Chelsea. Thank you.
I do love your video's Chelsea. You truely are very honest and forth coming about what is going on in your life. You are a beacon of fresh air. Thanks for your candor😊
I live in Melbourne Australia. I'm 45 and lived on my own since 2010 and have now bought my own 1 bedroom unit - though to afford this I had to move out about 40km from Melbourne CBD but I mostly WFH and my office is local. I will say though if you're someone who doesn't want kids and don't follow the traditional relationship escalator once you live on your own you'll never share with anyone ever again - I know I won't I LOVE solo living but yes it's expensive and great breakdown of the budget considerations but if you can afford it it's so worth it.
Hey from Houston,
I ❤. NYC!!!
Couldn’t live there, but love to visit!!!!
I can’t wait to see your new place! I hope things go smoothly as far as finding a place you love, and not too many surprises!
Wishing you all the best,
LM
Living alone in nyc is the best thing I’ve done as well. Although, it can be tough, not being able to split the expenses, the independent feeling is priceless! Great video as usual.
I’m in my late 30’s living in rural Alaska near Denali National Park and I love your videos. I’ve always had a love for NYC and it’s so cool to live vicariously through you 😊
While I'm a native New York; I stumbled upon this video on my feed and I'm not crazy about watching vlogs especially regarding NY. But I watched a couple of your videos and your videos are very authentic / real. So thank you for sharing your experiences and also I was considering living on my own so maybe that's how your video popped up 😅
I clicked on this thinking it was a bathroom remodelling video. Guess not. Instead it's a girl sitting in a bathtub talking about living in NYC. Who *IS* this Chelsea?! Now I'm in love. 😍
I can relate to this so much as a NYer . Thank you for all the sound advice for those considering moving here in 2023, and your personal testimonial. You’re an amazing person.
I’m an expat about to come to NYC and I’m super happy I stumbled upon your channel! I love your attitude and realistic but also POSITIVE view of the city. I’m a runner as well so hopefully that will keep my mindset as optimistic as yours :)
I LOVE living alone in NYC. Moved to Brooklyn from Houston back in 2006, and have only had roommates for a small percentage of that time. The longer you live here and the more connected you get it gets a little bit easier to find apartments. I lucked into one of those amazing deals that I never want to leave. Was originally going to live here with a roommate, and when that arrangement imploded, I decided to make it work by myself and I am so happy. So yes, much more expensive to live here than Texas, but the opportunities here are so much more plentiful, the community feeling of neighborhoods is just beautiful, and not having to have a car is THE BEST.
I was feeling guilty because my grocery budget is substantially higher than yours, but I am saving money by only taking the subway aside from a very rare Uber ride. Anyway, fantastic video as always and I'm crossing my fingers you find a great new apartment!
This was such a great video. I have no desire whatsoever to live in NYC. BUT the advice was solid and helpful for many other situations and places! Thanks for the time you spent on this Chelsea!
I'm a Canadian 🇨🇦 and just find you so relatable and down to earth! No desire to move to NYC but super cool to see your journey! I've been considering starting my own YT from a Canadian view but kind of intimidated! Keep doing what you are doing!
video at 8:50: the most powerful, realistic, truthful and valuable advice anyone could ask for. WELL-SAID. (and immediately following, she has the CUTEST ears I have ever seen, except maybe on bunnies and kittens.....)
Fantastic news. So happy for you and so excited for you as well. What a great next step 🎉
i dont live in nyc, but I live alone in a midwestern city (MUCH more affordable than nyc lol, my rent for a 1bed is only $725) and especially as someone who is quite introverted and enjoys spending time alone, designing my home the exact way *i* want it to look, and knowing I can use my space however I want whenever I want is so deeply important to me. I know cost, safety, introversion/extroversion etc are concerns that vary from person to person, but I genuinely really think living alone in a metropolitan area is one of the most worthwhile experiences you can have If you can afford it. Especially as a woman, it’s so empowering to be out there doing your own thing independently. Frankly, there is SO much propaganda about how cities are *SO* dangerous for women and yes, obviously you need to be aware of where you are and be on alert, but the notion that cities are super dangerous all of the time is just bullshit (newsflash, statistically you’re much more likely to be victimized by a family member or Romantic partner than a random stranger on the street) and the pros VASTLY outweigh the cons. It really makes you realize how much you can do on your own and how you don’t have to just settle down, get married, and move to the suburbs if that isn’t what you want out of your life! If you’re a woman reading this and considering living alone, I can’t recommend it enough!
thanks for your content Chelsea! I hope one day I can move to nyc but in the meantime I’ll continue living vicariously through you!
All the NY, NJ, MA and CA transplants (who destroyed their own states) are now moving to your midwestern city. Very soon, your $725/mo will be a distant memory....
Midwestern? Is it Chicago? I’ve been looking at Chicago, New York, and Boston specifically. I’m trying to visit all of them soon to see which city I like the most
@@henryjoshual1848 yep, absolutely true lol! rent prices have risen a crazy amount just in the 4 years that i've been living here, my previous apartment was only $600/month and my current place is a few hundred dollars less than what similar places are going for in my neighborhood. just going to make the most of it before my landlord realizes she could be charging more!
@@TheGreatWasian_ no, not chicago! however i am from the chicago area originally and people i know love it there! but chicago is definitely a lot more expensive than where i live but i would say it's definitely more affordable than nyc or boston (depending, of course, on what neighborhood you want to live in). you might also consider looking at cleveland! it's relatively affordable and i think it's a super cool city. plus being on the lake is a huge bonus!
Never had the desire to live in NYC but still watching lol. Thankful I still live in a big city with all the perks but not as expensive. I own my condo and pretty much never budget. It’s so freeing
I already live alone in my own country but have been thinking of moving abroad for fellowship. This is so helpful! Thank you Chelsea!
vivo solo hace mucho tiempo ,fue difícil ,sentía realmente solo ,pase por crisis fuertes ,con el tiempo
lo fui asimilando ,y hoy por hoy disfruto del estar solo ,me gusta mi vida y le agradezco a DIOS este nuevo tiempo...desde chile con amor
I like your videos. I currently live in NC been thinking about moving to NYC I'm single with a dog.
You’ve got it all under control with a great sense of reality. I agree that it would be good to live in a place like NYC for a year or so just for the experience. Lots of common sense and wisdoms being shared from…the bathtub….lol.❤
Love that you mentioned marginalized groups😊 and the honesty ❤
Watching your videos from the UK is just making me want to move over desperately your life seems so cool
Another great video! Thanks for sharing this. I'm currently debating on moving again AND relocating to a new area (NYC is on that list). Appreciate your realistic / insightful thoughts on it all. Can't wait to see how the apartment hunting goes!
I live upstate and have never considered moving to the city.. I just love your videos 🥰🥰🥰
Great informative video. I'm from Houston and live with family. 24, in grad school and just got a full-time offer at a corporate job in Jersey City. It will be a big move and I think I'll need roommates. I'm starting at 80k salary, no student loans, no credit, and a car as my graduation gift. Finding a place is going to take a miracle.
At one point I came back to the video just looked and was like why is Chelsea in the bathtub 😂
I don’t live in NYC but I spend a LOT of money on art supplies!!
Ahahaha there was a party happening outside my window so I had to film in the tub 😂😂😂
Nope! I have no intention of moving to NYC but cannot stop watching NYC real estate/living videos 😅
This is so inspiring!! I love that having extra financial pressure made you even more motivated to be more successful 🎉 congrats this is truly the dream! To have a little corner of NYC ❤️
Love your videos!! Someday I’ll live there, but I love visiting NYC, every time is great!!
Nice to watch your video again. Good luck with new apartment search
This was a great video! So informed! I feel this applies to anyone from anywhere trying to move out on your own. I really appreciated this!
i'm an introvert so one would think i hate living with roommates in NYC but thats actually not the case at all. in fact my roommates have helped me so much to come out of my shell and have the confidence to meet new people. i made the decision to live with others on purpose even though i could afford to live alone, and its the best thing i ever could've done.
Love your videos, always interesting. Can't wait to visit New York in September with my friend. First time ever, going to be great fun.
I hope I find your apartment on street easy after you move out!! lines up perfectly with when I want to move to the city :)
Hi Chelsea! You are awesome. Thanks for sharing this valuable information
Hey Chelsea, great work, I'm actually, just visiting NYC next March 2024 so I'm frantically watching anything I can find on the City, I thought you gave a wonderful insight into what it's like to move to NYC,good for you and we'll done on your personal journey,Really enjoyed your piece fun and informative.
Maybe you should consider some presentation work your very bubble great communication,. Best wishes for your Future Richard.😊
the number breakdown was too real. a thousand million percent i prefer living alone. for the stranger reading thru, go to every listing, be early, nice, courteous, persistent, speedy. if you have to pay a broker's fee, and you can, do it once and be done with it. some of the better listings go exclusively to brokers. and if you befriend a broker, they might contact you if they have something not even listed yet. it's a lot of speed, luck, good timing, and money. so get the new job (and that new offer letter) first and everything else becomes easier. once you hit that 70k+ range, and granted you have some savings and minimal debt, nyc really opens itself up to you in a diff way. been great watching your growth, chelsea! i watched your old nyc vids and your content has only improved xo
great video !, real authentic and your take on living alone was spot on .... sending yo much love and wishing you al the luck in your apt hunt
off topic but there's the money shot at 00:09 🙂 Going back to the topic, your in-depth advice about living alone in NY is an opener to many.. including me. But is it worth it to live alone in NY? Yeah! for sure!
I would be like you in the beginning and be just in my room and not getting out so ya, it is really an eye opener to see that yes having roommates would be a good idea.
This was SUCH an interesting video, thanks for sharing these insights! As an Aussie, it was super interesting to get a peek into what it's like living over in your part of the world. Best of luck with hunting for your new place and your move x