Hi friends, I decided to still post today hoping that some light-hearted content might be comforting to those who need it right now. This was all filmed before I really knew what to say. It breaks my heart how many innocent Jewish and Palestinian lives continue to be lost at the hands of Hamas and the Israeli government. Of course there is much more nuance to this very complex tragedy than I can fit into a single youtube comment (I am still learning the history myself and processing it). So many of you are directly affected… Please know that I really care about you guys and my dm’s are open if you ever need someone to listen. If you’re in the west like me, it’s especially critical to get your news & history lessons from a broad spectrum of sources. Much love xx
A wildfire is a tragedy, a tsunami is a tragedy. The beheading of babies and rape of women is more than tragedy, it’s horror, demonic, murder. Hamas enacted a pogrom on the Jews in Israel. It’s not nuanced, it’s antisemitism, it’s evil.
it is such a privilege we can even disconnect with some lightheartedness and taking the time to understand these complex issues. thank you for approaching it with nuance when you have some influence online. and thank you for this mental health break 💞 I live alone adjacent to the city and its always such relatable content. we need more people like you on youtube!
Honestly, my best advice in the world.. take a Friday & a Monday off of work & just dedicate the time to putting EVERYTHING away, finding a spot for all of your stuff, buy storage, build storage & get it done. You will feel SO MUCH better!! Invite a friend or two over & have them HELP you & make your space your own. That alone will take any stress you are feeling...... not knowing where things are is preventing you from feeling like where you live is your new home..... promise you. Put it all away & the rest will come...... : )
Tidy house, tidy mind. You'll get there. The apartment is a lovely space, the doorways are a nice shape. Maybe if you pass the noisy neighbours and they say hi say oh did you hear that shouting the other night? Maybe it was across the street. They might quieten down a bit 🙂 xx
Came here to say this. You need a weekend of putting everything in its place. You will feel soooo much better. Enlisted the help of friend, it will help stop the doom scrolling!
Hi Chelsea! Just letting you know that your life is what I, a mother and wife trying to make a career shift, daydream about when I'm overwhelmed by my own routine. It's not about fancy vacations, beach drinks, or parties for me. I long for that life you're living, single and hustling through it all. Don't get me wrong; I'm grateful for what I have. I just can't help but be amused by how we, as humans, tend to idealize someone else's burnout. The classic "the grass is greener on the other side" in its purest form, right? P.S. Love your content.
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This is hilarious you have an enormous washing machine standing in your kitchen like some kind of boulder and the tiniest, smallest dish washer . It may mean nothing to you but this glimpse into your life that you share is so human and kind of connecting. i have almost nothing in common with you but still this is relatable and somewhat charming , really good work.
When I tell you, I legitimately dropped everything and watched this video I mean it. Thank you for realistic content, I am moving this weekend and I feel the burn out and sticking with the commitments but all will be good with Gilmore girls.
It's nice to hear someone talk about being overwhelmed and needing to do their favorite things instead of resorting to taking their life. My sister was feeling the same way after having 2 full time jobs for a month, she couldn't take it anymore and her depression took her on September 22, 2023.
My deepest condolences ! I am reading a beautiful new book rn : Grief & Renewal - by Don Miguel Ruiz. I’ve been highlighting all these gems in it. It’s helping me. God’s love and comfort to you at this sorrowful time. Liz
Marathon training takes a lot out of you. I’m also training for the NYC Marathon. It’s not only physically taxing but emotionally draining. Once you’re at the starting line and cross the finish line, the appreciation of the grind will be worth it. It’s life changing. Hang in there.
During and *endlesssss* major construction project outside my bedroom window, I bought those bright yellow 3M earmuff ear protectors you see on construction sites to wear inside my apartment. I still put them on over my earbuds when I can't deal with my neighbors and just listen to whatever in blissful silence. They look...silly....but the on-demand quiet is priceless
Life can be mundane doing the same thing over and over again. However, it’s important to romanticize little things in your life, taking a bath, taking a walk, enjoying a glass of wine to unwind, having a nice end of the day routine. I give people who live in New York props, I couldn’t do it. I deal with chronic pain and multiple health issues and there are days I just can’t bust my ass because of it. And I’ve been romanticizing the simpler aspects of my life because of these hurdles I have to deal with, because my life can get repetitive.
Chelsea I am the mum of a newborn and a 6 year old and I know exactly how you feel when you say short on time, the best advice I can give is habit stacking, so always make sure when you are doing something you are passively doing something else, i.e if you watch TV take that time to do nails and a hair mask, get your outfits ready the night before and lay them out is also a top tip, I have more but don’t want to clog up your comments. ❤
Hey Chelsea. Love your videos. ❤ thanks for just keeping it real and being yourself. Helps me feel more normal ❤❤ As a single mom of 4 kids. Who also struggles with depression and anxiety- what’s really helped me is to try to really be present in each moment. Even if it feels the same everyday. No day is really the same. Examples are- when I drop the kids off at school each day, I walk, so that I can get some fresh air, and look around at the flowers, the trees and the sky. The clouds can be so beautiful ☁️☁️ I used to think I had to be in some beautiful place to enjoy them- like a beach. I appreciate when I feel the sun beating down on my face, and stop for a minute to soak it in. I used to think I had to always go to Starbucks and buy some fancy coffee, but I’ve mastered a simple recipe at home- it’s my little cozy routine. Also when I’m around others, I try to be a listening ear. So many people are going through so much- Even hand writing a nice card to someone, expressing how much I appreciate them, or how encouraging they are to me. It always boosts your mood to give to others, even if it’s simple. I always thought, when I get a car I’ll be happy, when we get better furniture I’ll feel better, when I make a bit more money, I’ll feel secure. I live a simple life- Some might even say boring- But! My kids are healthy, I am healthy, we have a home, and food, and we have 2 cute cats. ( I heard you say maybe one day you’d get one- do it, they are a joy😺) I came to realize that the small simple mundane things, could be appreciated. Joy isn’t based on circumstance- it starts from within.
Be yourself. Don't try and "Keep up with the Jones". What's right for them, might not be right for you. I'm 50 years old. All I want out of life is peace. I make my husband laugh when I tell him I feel like this, if a new person enters my life, and they smell like headache and drama, get to steppin'!!!!! ;) :) You getting super excited over appliances is SO me!!! My love and prayers are with you, Chelsea :) :)
I go by my brothers motto of "One thing at a time". A few years ago I started implementing zone cleaning. I went through my house room by room and wrote down all the things that I would like to clean each time I was in that room. Then I broke it down in a 4 week time frame. So some rooms are smaller and I can add them in with another room during that one week. Then I broke down those weekly tasks to 4 days. I don't want to have anything to do Friday, Sat or Sunday besides dishes and maybe some laundry. So an example for me is I wanted to have my porch clean at least once a month. I added this to my living room since you walk into my living room from my porch. In 15 minutes I can have my porch swept, windows cleaned outside and I like to wipe down my mailbox and seating area. Then the living room consists of using swiffer duster to wipe down walls and ceiling fan. Then I dust all the furniture, clean the windows, and vacuum. Then my chores for the week are complete in that zone cleaning. I am a more motivated person in the mornings so I get up early enough to have an extra 30-40 minutes before I have to be at work and I am able to get these tasks completed. Plus I like my kitchen cleaned before I leave as well so I load the dishwasher. Hand wash whatever items I don't like to put in the dishwasher. I leave them to airdry all day and put them away when I get home. Wipe down my counters and I have a decently clean kitchen everyday. That is typically about a 10 minute max task for me. My life has been so much better and less stressful knowing my chores will get done and my weekends and evenings are pretty much free. Hope this makes sense and helps a little.
You are definitely not going crazy. thank you so much for uploading all the real footage. i am a highschool teacher halfway across the world and struggling as well at the moment. it makes me feel real conected watching your videos and knowing that life can be tough. thank you!
I really appreciate your genuine vlogs! It's such a relief to know that many people worldwide can meet the same struggles. Watching your videos is a great way to learn a new mindset to cope with everyday life. Greetings from Italy 😃
Unsolicited advice from someone who is perpetually overwhelmed by big projects and never knows where to start: start with time. I do half an hour a day on the project (for me it’s renovating a whole house on my own). May get a lot done, may not, but you’ll be half an hour closer to finishing.
You're taking your time unpacking - that's great! No need to push yourself, as you have a job, marathon training, vlog editing, sleeping, eating, etc. all are much more important right now. You are soooo inspiring, doing life on your own - and you have the coolest little gadgets like that Kenzzi and your little dishwasher, so cool! I got laser hair removal done on my legs nearly 10 years ago, and it cost me an arm and a leg (no pun intended). Less than a month until the marathon🏃♀... you are nearly there! Keep going, you're doing grrrrreat!
@@ChelseaCallahan Although I cannot go back to my 30s, your videos are very inspiring for people of all ages - they're pure and real, and I couldn't enjoy them more! I never had much support or encouragement while growing up, so I strive to encourage others in my life (and on UA-cam) as much as possible - we all deserve positive support!💜💛💙
I totally feel you on the noisy neighbor issue. Since moving to California, I’ve had nonstop noisy neighbor problems. Funnily enough, when I lived in NYC, I rarely had this issue. But I will say that you don’t want to let that resentment for your loud neighbors to build up inside you. It’s not good for your mind, body, or soul. I’m the kind of person who’ll say something but I know everyone isn’t like that. Whatever you do, release that energy so that it doesn’t consume you.
I bought a little dishwasher after living in my apartment for 3 years and it was the best decision I ever made. I always hated washing dishes and procrastinated doing it. Not anymore!!! Highly recommend getting one, mine sits on the top of my refrigerator and the tube goes down to my sink (I use a pitcher and a step stool to fill it up at the top) - wish I had done it earlier tbh.
thank you for talking about how everyone has their own body hair preferences and how none of them are wrong. I'll admit, when the ad started I was a bit apprehensive. This other youtuber that I liked had tried to make their laser hair removal ads entertaining and called her old hairy self a "rat" (all the while preaching self love) which was discouraging tbh, esp as someone w body hair. Im so glad you handled it so gracefully and are still someone I can admire!
KID CUISINE I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT. What a time to be alive. I have a vivid memory of picking that out as a 'fun Saturday night dinner' to eat while watching Casper. Looking back, my mom probably thought I was crazy for liking it. But I DID. The BROWNIE. It was everything.
.. prioritise things… you have to work to pay bills etc so that comes out top , do food shopping on way home from work just do it once per week as saves money and time . run in your lunch hour or run home from work that way your exercising and saving money on buses or the underground, Each day per week set aside 20 mins to clean one room in your house if your a naturally messy person just accept your house is a mess and don’t worry about it.
Hey Chelsea. Hang in there, take it one day at a time. How about getting an old fashioned timer and setting it for 15 minutes. Focus on one area at a time. Also your walls are very bare and white, how about some art to lift your spirits. Choose a rug and some pillows too. Some ambient lighting on table lamps, a floor lamp. Youll get there! ❤
So relate to your channel at the moment as someone who has moved suddenly, is doing it alone, living in sudden chaos, trying to do a full time job, plus run a side business, plus sort out chaos, build furniture to store stuff, set up appliances - and zero time for self care, recovery from burnout etc
I was inches away from buying a tiny dishwasher last fall for my 300sq ft apartment built in 1897. I ended up finding a place with a friend from work which has a full dishwasher and in unit laundry. I love my roommate dearly but I miss living alone! There's something so nice about sitting with yourself. I'll be living vicariously through you and your tiny dishwasher!
Yay! Little by little the kitchen is coming together! 🤌🏽 Something to look into, a “faucet splitter” for your kitchen sink faucet. That way you don’t have to keep unscrewing the washer, etc and can make a little more of a “semi-permanent-but-totally-removable-renter-friendly” setup that makes it easier for you to just use your appliances without having to do any “pre-setup” each time. 😉 Can’t wait for the next vlog! 🫶🏽👏🏽👏🏽
You look so pretty without makeup, you’re right you can do your job without it, and honestly it’s a slay anyway. I also don’t wear makeup to work! I feel better without it honestly.
burnout part hit home. I gave my notice in and will change a job soon. terrified that it will be even worse for me there then it is in the current work place. this helped to see that pushing through pays off.
I had a similar fear when I started the job I have now. my therapist told me the worst that could happen is it doesn't work out and you find something else. when she simplified it for me like that it took away some anxiety. hope it helps, congrats on the life change :)
Chelsea when I saw on your last vlog about neighbour noise I immediately was triggered. I lived for six years in an apartment building (in London) with constant neighbour noise - partying at all hours and loud music, drug dealers having massive fights, even my sweet next door neighbours who were deaf were so loud because they couldn’t hear themselves. Anyway it led to me developing misophonia and it got so bad I wouldn’t go most moment without headphones. still years later I now live in the countryside and I’m triggered by noise even though I get None in this house as it’s semi detached and the other side is an old and very quiet lady who lives alone 🎉🎉🎉 Anyway take care of yourself Chelsea and try to manage the stress of noise as much as you can before you feel like it might develop into something more serious like it did for me ❤❤❤
I’m in a situation where I have the opportunity push myself or to stay out in something comfortable to let myself breathe. I needed this reminder that being comfortable is okay sometimes, thank you!
I just appreciate so much how real you are - I'm about to turn 30 in a couple months and i feel like watching your videos have made that less scary for me, idk maybe that's dumb. I find myself grinning along to the goofy parts of your video. Thank you for posting you're an inspiration! :)
Love how you’re adapting to your new place! It’s so hard in the beginning right? I’ve moved so many times in my life myself. You’re doing great! Great vlog as always!🥰🤗💗🌷
Single mom of 20+ years here. Some days def feel overwhelming solo - I carved out at least a couple hours of “nothing time”. While my daughter was at swimming, I’d sit at Starbucks and happily do nothing for an hour. This was possible bc I multi-tasked everything else. Clean for the 2 hours laundry is in, that kind of thing. Cook for a couple of days at a time - a frittata and soup both, so we weren’t bored. Let things go. Laundry stays in the basket unfolded? Eh. Takeout, yes please. That kid is now 22 and living on her own in NYC, too!
Get that sponsorship girl! I also finally found a place to move uptown, and I’m moving from coney by myself after a breakup so the stress is real. Plus working full time and dealing with chronic pain, some days I feel like I just can’t do it. I know we’ll get through the hard times, thank you for being real!
thanks!! sorry to hear you're going through a breakup and while dealing with everything else. your new beginning starts now, congrats on your new spot!!
That's funny ... I have rarely had a dishwasher in the vintage apartments I have ever lived in; minus the times I had a home - but have gotten used to simply hand washing my dishes forever --- but glad you got a tiny one 😁
I get so happy for you when you’re in good moods and have dance breaks. I also have thyroid disease so constantly tired, I applaud you ❤ you’re doing great and I’m proud of you 😊❤
This may be weird, but my favorite thing about you is how you always read the directions for everything. Because I just assume I know how it works and get frustrated when I don’t.
Wow Chelsea, this is a great update. The realistic life of a single in NYC..especially as you are so close to the marathon. I’m sure you’ll have more stories about the quirks and eccentricities of the building and the people in it. With the dishwasher, I’ve found that once the dishwasher is finished its cycle, I open the door slightly and place a tea towel aver the door and almost shut the door again, the steam from the dishwasher is absorbed by the tea towel and dries dishes quicker. Can’t wait to see the next update ❤
I feel this way all the time, especially now in my senior year of college with a double degree. The only thing that gets me through the burn out is tiny little treats for myself throughout the week. Like a good coffee or a nice picnic as a reward 😅
I empathise with your burnout - I went through something similar in my 30's, really killing it for my career and the goals I had set. Looking back, I don't regret anything I did for my career because the skills I built helped me later when I had a crisis, but I wish I would have slowed my pace a bit. I am a person who needs creature comforts and I often let my anxiety about "not doing enough" or "not being dynamic enough" get in the way. It took me 10 years to learn how to give myself some grace. So, it's a process. The fact that you see it now is the beginning of that process, so you already have a leg up. :D Apropos of nothing, 9:04 in the video was a very surreal moment for me where I thought I was watching Minority Report with all the dancing ads on the wall. Spooky.
I’ve never clicked on a video so fast. I’m in the in the same boat, about my neighbors. I live in a 2 bedroom/1 bath unit, my neighbors have the same layout, but insides of the capacity it should hold. They have about 6 ish people living there. Loud neighbors= annoyed.Also keep the updates coming, welcome to the adulting era, the applicances and home stuff excitement stage. ❤
I’m 20 right now and to be honest, i’m not ready to be adult and I’m scared about future and watching your vlogs is like my dig sister talking about her life and give me comfort about life and future.💕🍪
Your dishwasher has the same body as mine, just different branding and controls. I love that thing. I had to get that one because it was the only one that would fit in to the very specific space I needed it to fit in to! Mine's the Electriq Freestanding Mini Table Top Portable Dishwaster. My stuff comes out dry though 🤔
Hi Chelsea!!!! ❤I love your videos. Oh, the joy of seeing you in your genuine moment of happiness when you hooked up that cute lil dishwasher! I am inspired by you all the time💖🙏✨😊
You could mail an anonymous letter to the owner of the complex about the yelling and that most people are not going to complain but rather move out because they won't want to speak up due to retaliation. Mail it from another location to the their office. That's what I would do. 😁 Your apt is nice, looking forward to a full apt tour after you get sorted out there. Happy for you!! 🥰
When we moved into our bungalow we got that dishwasher, it is brilliant. Best purchase we have ever made. FYI the button next to the timer setting is to dry the dishes afterwards. 👍 Moving, working two jobs and training for a marathon is a lot! Give yourself time and grace. You will get there!
I love seeing your apartment come together! Your new dishwasher is adorable 😍 kudos for u for figuring out how to set it u! I hate doing stuff like that!
I’m so glad you’re starting to feel better and more at home in your new flat. It’s already starting to LOOK more like a home and if you’re sleeping well you’ve obviously settled in nicely. I’m envious of your little dishwasher, would you recommend it? Hugs from England 🏴 ❤
I have the same branded one she has and I love it! The best purchase I've ever made. I waited for 3 years before I bought it and wish I had done it sooner.
Hi Chelsea, you are really pushing yourself for the marathon 😊. Love to see someone so dedicated. Love your apartment and that dishwasher is so cute. It doesn't take up much space, and looks classy ❤. Take care and also I would love to see you do vlogmas.
Great new video! Wooo….our UA-cam live with you was included (inside joke of the animal sound even made the cut lol). And yay for a new appliance…always exciting as an adult. Congrats!
Okay so, I've been in my bedsit apartment for almost four months now and even though it's a huge improvement over where I used to live (previously shared with a couple for eight years) it still took me at least two months to get used to and feel at home in my new place and to get a new daily routine together even a cleaning routine etc and I just love it.
Hi Chelsea, I just want to say that I recently found your channel and I absolutely love it as someone who’s been in New York for five years and I feel like our lives are very similar and I just wanna know that I find a lot of comfort watching your content, because it reminds me That we truly are all just trying to live the best that we really can in the city! we’re rooting for you. Thank you for posting :)
Hello, Chelsea 💙💛 from Ukraine. Like your videos 💕 waiting every week for new one. PS: Maybe you just need to wait to steam and dry out the dishes inside the washing machine. The big washing machine works like this. It steams and dry dishes after washing them. 😃 there should that option. 🤗
Hey there! Could you please link the dishwasher? PS I have the same washer!!! I love it. I used it in my kitchen in my old place and now in my new one I can hook it up like a real washer. Great washer!!! I’ve had it for 3 years.
Chelsea, we love you. Grieve your old place. It’s ok that some days are better than others. Also, after my long week of work, watching you make Mac n cheese and eat butter straight out of the wrap just made my weekend. You rock. Love your content ❤️🤘
Omg I love your videos you crack me up love how realistic you are in your videos ..I love how your place isn’t always perfectly clean,organized, dishes in the sink etc that’s normal way of life🫶🏽 love from Jersey
I appreciate that you are keeping it real about it taking you awhile to settle in and fully unpack. I just moved on Saturday and have put this immense pressure on myself to get fully unpacked while working full time. It's just too much though. It may take a month, or more. And I am working on being okay with that. Thanks for all you do!
So nice to see you smiling again! The vibe of your apartment is fully coming to life, as well! And love the mini dishwasher. It's literally the lil things that make a difference.
Oh my god kerrygold butter!!! As an Irish person this is hands down the BEST real butter. Have it on toast...with tea..!..its the ultimate comfort. You got good taste my friend 👌
My biggest advice for times like this is to have really restful things you can look forward to and easily do, like reading a book or going to the park. It’s so easy to doomscroll when you’re wiped and don’t have something easy but exciting to do with your free time.
I have been watching a lot of and different vlogging and I must say beside the sponsoring which of course is needed I like you channel the most. The honesty and being real. I am really happy that you found another space that is also much bigger. Looking forward to seeing the upgrades and improvements on your apartment.
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The Kenzie work great on my dad's head the only bad part is now there's like a big bald spot there but he didn't tell me where I should use it so😂
Hi friends, I decided to still post today hoping that some light-hearted content might be comforting to those who need it right now. This was all filmed before I really knew what to say. It breaks my heart how many innocent Jewish and Palestinian lives continue to be lost at the hands of Hamas and the Israeli government. Of course there is much more nuance to this very complex tragedy than I can fit into a single youtube comment (I am still learning the history myself and processing it). So many of you are directly affected… Please know that I really care about you guys and my dm’s are open if you ever need someone to listen. If you’re in the west like me, it’s especially critical to get your news & history lessons from a broad spectrum of sources. Much love xx
A wildfire is a tragedy, a tsunami is a tragedy. The beheading of babies and rape of women is more than tragedy, it’s horror, demonic, murder. Hamas enacted a pogrom on the Jews in Israel. It’s not nuanced, it’s antisemitism, it’s evil.
You have a heart of gold Chelsea! 🥰🤗🌷💗
it is such a privilege we can even disconnect with some lightheartedness and taking the time to understand these complex issues. thank you for approaching it with nuance when you have some influence online. and thank you for this mental health break 💞 I live alone adjacent to the city and its always such relatable content. we need more people like you on youtube!
WHERES THE BLUE WORKOUT TANK FROM?
U are my comfort struggling with conditions u have done so much thank you for posting videos
Honestly, my best advice in the world.. take a Friday & a Monday off of work & just dedicate the time to putting EVERYTHING away, finding a spot for all of your stuff, buy storage, build storage & get it done. You will feel SO MUCH better!! Invite a friend or two over & have them HELP you & make your space your own. That alone will take any stress you are feeling...... not knowing where things are is preventing you from feeling like where you live is your new home..... promise you. Put it all away & the rest will come...... : )
☝️ agree. If I don’t organize my house I’m frustrated. To get clarity , organization is the key 🔑
Def get a moving in party going. Especially for the mundane stuff- dishes etc. It helps sooooo much!
Yes. You deserve the time to settle in and get organized. Awesome video. Congrats on your new space ! You earned it
Tidy house, tidy mind. You'll get there. The apartment is a lovely space, the doorways are a nice shape. Maybe if you pass the noisy neighbours and they say hi say oh did you hear that shouting the other night? Maybe it was across the street. They might quieten down a bit 🙂 xx
Came here to say this. You need a weekend of putting everything in its place. You will feel soooo much better. Enlisted the help of friend, it will help stop the doom scrolling!
Hi Chelsea! Just letting you know that your life is what I, a mother and wife trying to make a career shift, daydream about when I'm overwhelmed by my own routine. It's not about fancy vacations, beach drinks, or parties for me. I long for that life you're living, single and hustling through it all. Don't get me wrong; I'm grateful for what I have. I just can't help but be amused by how we, as humans, tend to idealize someone else's burnout. The classic "the grass is greener on the other side" in its purest form, right? P.S. Love your content.
One more thing… I have another impersonator on this platform spamming my comments trying to get people to buy things… it’s not me. Please report if you can, always feel free to dm me on instagram to check if you’re ever unsure
This is hilarious you have an enormous washing machine standing in your kitchen like some kind of boulder and the tiniest, smallest dish washer . It may mean nothing to you but this glimpse into your life that you share is so human and kind of connecting. i have almost nothing in common with you but still this is relatable and somewhat charming , really good work.
When I tell you, I legitimately dropped everything and watched this video I mean it. Thank you for realistic content, I am moving this weekend and I feel the burn out and sticking with the commitments but all will be good with Gilmore girls.
It's nice to hear someone talk about being overwhelmed and needing to do their favorite things instead of resorting to taking their life. My sister was feeling the same way after having 2 full time jobs for a month, she couldn't take it anymore and her depression took her on September 22, 2023.
Sorry for your loss 😢
I’m so sorry, my sincerest condolences
My deepest condolences !
I am reading a beautiful new book rn : Grief & Renewal - by Don Miguel Ruiz. I’ve been highlighting all these gems in it. It’s helping me. God’s love and comfort to you at this sorrowful time. Liz
@@lizzabbott that book looks interesting, I'll check it out asap, thank you!
I’m so sorry, I can’t imagine losing a sibling 💔
Marathon training takes a lot out of you. I’m also training for the NYC Marathon. It’s not only physically taxing but emotionally draining. Once you’re at the starting line and cross the finish line, the appreciation of the grind will be worth it. It’s life changing. Hang in there.
wow you said it! didn't expect it to be so emotionally draining. so cool you're also training!! see you at the starting line!!
During and *endlesssss* major construction project outside my bedroom window, I bought those bright yellow 3M earmuff ear protectors you see on construction sites to wear inside my apartment. I still put them on over my earbuds when I can't deal with my neighbors and just listen to whatever in blissful silence. They look...silly....but the on-demand quiet is priceless
such a good idea!! sorry about the construction... that would break me
Life can be mundane doing the same thing over and over again. However, it’s important to romanticize little things in your life, taking a bath, taking a walk, enjoying a glass of wine to unwind, having a nice end of the day routine. I give people who live in New York props, I couldn’t do it. I deal with chronic pain and multiple health issues and there are days I just can’t bust my ass because of it. And I’ve been romanticizing the simpler aspects of my life because of these hurdles I have to deal with, because my life can get repetitive.
Chelsea I am the mum of a newborn and a 6 year old and I know exactly how you feel when you say short on time, the best advice I can give is habit stacking, so always make sure when you are doing something you are passively doing something else, i.e if you watch TV take that time to do nails and a hair mask, get your outfits ready the night before and lay them out is also a top tip, I have more but don’t want to clog up your comments. ❤
Love that tip! thanks for sharing ❤
Hey Chelsea. Love your videos. ❤ thanks for just keeping it real and being yourself. Helps me feel more normal ❤❤
As a single mom of 4 kids. Who also struggles with depression and anxiety- what’s really helped me is to try to really be present in each moment. Even if it feels the same everyday. No day is really the same.
Examples are- when I drop the kids off at school each day, I walk, so that I can get some fresh air, and look around at the flowers, the trees and the sky. The clouds can be so beautiful ☁️☁️ I used to think I had to be in some beautiful place to enjoy them- like a beach. I appreciate when I feel the sun beating down on my face, and stop for a minute to soak it in. I used to think I had to always go to Starbucks and buy some fancy coffee, but I’ve mastered a simple recipe at home- it’s my little cozy routine. Also when I’m around others, I try to be a listening ear. So many people are going through so much- Even hand writing a nice card to someone, expressing how much I appreciate them, or how encouraging they are to me. It always boosts your mood to give to others, even if it’s simple.
I always thought, when I get a car I’ll be happy, when we get better furniture I’ll feel better, when I make a bit more money, I’ll feel secure.
I live a simple life- Some might even say boring- But! My kids are healthy, I am healthy, we have a home, and food, and we have 2 cute cats. ( I heard you say maybe one day you’d get one- do it, they are a joy😺)
I came to realize that the small simple mundane things, could be appreciated. Joy isn’t based on circumstance- it starts from within.
I love every word. Thank you for this. I'm gonna try and do some of these things tomorrow. You're superwoman!!
You're amazing! Thank you for your inspiration 🙏
That's beautiful!
Be yourself. Don't try and "Keep up with the Jones". What's right for them, might not be right for you. I'm 50 years old. All I want out of life is peace. I make my husband laugh when I tell him I feel like this, if a new person enters my life, and they smell like headache and drama, get to steppin'!!!!! ;) :) You getting super excited over appliances is SO me!!! My love and prayers are with you, Chelsea :) :)
I go by my brothers motto of "One thing at a time". A few years ago I started implementing zone cleaning. I went through my house room by room and wrote down all the things that I would like to clean each time I was in that room. Then I broke it down in a 4 week time frame. So some rooms are smaller and I can add them in with another room during that one week. Then I broke down those weekly tasks to 4 days. I don't want to have anything to do Friday, Sat or Sunday besides dishes and maybe some laundry. So an example for me is I wanted to have my porch clean at least once a month. I added this to my living room since you walk into my living room from my porch. In 15 minutes I can have my porch swept, windows cleaned outside and I like to wipe down my mailbox and seating area. Then the living room consists of using swiffer duster to wipe down walls and ceiling fan. Then I dust all the furniture, clean the windows, and vacuum. Then my chores for the week are complete in that zone cleaning. I am a more motivated person in the mornings so I get up early enough to have an extra 30-40 minutes before I have to be at work and I am able to get these tasks completed. Plus I like my kitchen cleaned before I leave as well so I load the dishwasher. Hand wash whatever items I don't like to put in the dishwasher. I leave them to airdry all day and put them away when I get home. Wipe down my counters and I have a decently clean kitchen everyday. That is typically about a 10 minute max task for me. My life has been so much better and less stressful knowing my chores will get done and my weekends and evenings are pretty much free. Hope this makes sense and helps a little.
Oooo! I like this. Thank you!
You are definitely not going crazy. thank you so much for uploading all the real footage. i am a highschool teacher halfway across the world and struggling as well at the moment. it makes me feel real conected watching your videos and knowing that life can be tough. thank you!
I really appreciate your genuine vlogs! It's such a relief to know that many people worldwide can meet the same struggles. Watching your videos is a great way to learn a new mindset to cope with everyday life. Greetings from Italy 😃
Unsolicited advice from someone who is perpetually overwhelmed by big projects and never knows where to start: start with time. I do half an hour a day on the project (for me it’s renovating a whole house on my own). May get a lot done, may not, but you’ll be half an hour closer to finishing.
You're taking your time unpacking - that's great! No need to push yourself, as you have a job, marathon training, vlog editing, sleeping, eating, etc. all are much more important right now. You are soooo inspiring, doing life on your own - and you have the coolest little gadgets like that Kenzzi and your little dishwasher, so cool! I got laser hair removal done on my legs nearly 10 years ago, and it cost me an arm and a leg (no pun intended). Less than a month until the marathon🏃♀... you are nearly there! Keep going, you're doing grrrrreat!
you write the most encouraging comments!! thank you ❤❤ the pun was perfect
@@ChelseaCallahan Although I cannot go back to my 30s, your videos are very inspiring for people of all ages - they're pure and real, and I couldn't enjoy them more! I never had much support or encouragement while growing up, so I strive to encourage others in my life (and on UA-cam) as much as possible - we all deserve positive support!💜💛💙
I totally feel you on the noisy neighbor issue. Since moving to California, I’ve had nonstop noisy neighbor problems. Funnily enough, when I lived in NYC, I rarely had this issue. But I will say that you don’t want to let that resentment for your loud neighbors to build up inside you. It’s not good for your mind, body, or soul. I’m the kind of person who’ll say something but I know everyone isn’t like that. Whatever you do, release that energy so that it doesn’t consume you.
I bought a little dishwasher after living in my apartment for 3 years and it was the best decision I ever made. I always hated washing dishes and procrastinated doing it. Not anymore!!! Highly recommend getting one, mine sits on the top of my refrigerator and the tube goes down to my sink (I use a pitcher and a step stool to fill it up at the top) - wish I had done it earlier tbh.
thank you for talking about how everyone has their own body hair preferences and how none of them are wrong. I'll admit, when the ad started I was a bit apprehensive. This other youtuber that I liked had tried to make their laser hair removal ads entertaining and called her old hairy self a "rat" (all the while preaching self love) which was discouraging tbh, esp as someone w body hair. Im so glad you handled it so gracefully and are still someone I can admire!
thanks for your honesty and for sharing this! Much love xx
KID CUISINE I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT. What a time to be alive. I have a vivid memory of picking that out as a 'fun Saturday night dinner' to eat while watching Casper. Looking back, my mom probably thought I was crazy for liking it. But I DID. The BROWNIE. It was everything.
LMFAOOOO no we were the same person. CASPER omg
Except sometimes the corn would fall into the brownie...not a good combination!
.. prioritise things… you have to work to pay bills etc so that comes out top , do food shopping on way home from work just do it once per week as saves money and time .
run in your lunch hour or run home from work that way your exercising and saving money on buses or the underground, Each day per week set aside 20 mins to clean one room in your house if your a naturally messy person just accept your house is a mess and don’t worry about it.
Your videos are always so calming for me , your storytelling is always so authentic and fun . Thanks for another great video .
Hey Chelsea. Hang in there, take it one day at a time. How about getting an old fashioned timer and setting it for 15 minutes. Focus on one area at a time. Also your walls are very bare and white, how about some art to lift your spirits. Choose a rug and some pillows too. Some ambient lighting on table lamps, a floor lamp. Youll get there! ❤
You can get an over the washer storage with a shelf and put it there by the outlet so it’s not a hazard of having an electric cord
And it frees up your counter too
So relate to your channel at the moment as someone who has moved suddenly, is doing it alone, living in sudden chaos, trying to do a full time job, plus run a side business, plus sort out chaos, build furniture to store stuff, set up appliances - and zero time for self care, recovery from burnout etc
Sending you all the good vibes 💕
I just LOVE your channel. You have the cutest and funniest personality. Thanks for making me smile everytime you post! 🥰💖🥰💖🥰💖
I was inches away from buying a tiny dishwasher last fall for my 300sq ft apartment built in 1897. I ended up finding a place with a friend from work which has a full dishwasher and in unit laundry. I love my roommate dearly but I miss living alone! There's something so nice about sitting with yourself. I'll be living vicariously through you and your tiny dishwasher!
Yay! Little by little the kitchen is coming together! 🤌🏽 Something to look into, a “faucet splitter” for your kitchen sink faucet. That way you don’t have to keep unscrewing the washer, etc and can make a little more of a “semi-permanent-but-totally-removable-renter-friendly” setup that makes it easier for you to just use your appliances without having to do any “pre-setup” each time. 😉 Can’t wait for the next vlog! 🫶🏽👏🏽👏🏽
ooooh! time to go back to the hardware store!
I very much enjoy watching you move from one room to a different room in your new apartment.
the simple pleasures :)
I’ve been binge watching your entire channel since I found out about it and I love your videos so so much!! Happy 70k btw 💖💖
awe thank you!
You look so pretty without makeup, you’re right you can do your job without it, and honestly it’s a slay anyway. I also don’t wear makeup to work! I feel better without it honestly.
awe man thanks! and right? feels so much lighter through the day
chelsea! ever since i discovered your videos i literally drop everything when i see a new upload from you. i appreciate your truly realistic content ♡
burnout part hit home. I gave my notice in and will change a job soon. terrified that it will be even worse for me there then it is in the current work place. this helped to see that pushing through pays off.
I had a similar fear when I started the job I have now. my therapist told me the worst that could happen is it doesn't work out and you find something else. when she simplified it for me like that it took away some anxiety. hope it helps, congrats on the life change :)
Chelsea when I saw on your last vlog about neighbour noise I immediately was triggered. I lived for six years in an apartment building (in London) with constant neighbour noise - partying at all hours and loud music, drug dealers having massive fights, even my sweet next door neighbours who were deaf were so loud because they couldn’t hear themselves. Anyway it led to me developing misophonia and it got so bad I wouldn’t go most moment without headphones. still years later I now live in the countryside and I’m triggered by noise even though I get None in this house as it’s semi detached and the other side is an old and very quiet lady who lives alone 🎉🎉🎉
Anyway take care of yourself Chelsea and try to manage the stress of noise as much as you can before you feel like it might develop into something more serious like it did for me ❤❤❤
oh my god i'm so sorry you went through that!! and that it still affects you. I didn't know what misophonia was until now. thanks for sharing ❤
I’m in a situation where I have the opportunity push myself or to stay out in something comfortable to let myself breathe. I needed this reminder that being comfortable is okay sometimes, thank you!
That is such a powerful message ❤
I just appreciate so much how real you are - I'm about to turn 30 in a couple months and i feel like watching your videos have made that less scary for me, idk maybe that's dumb. I find myself grinning along to the goofy parts of your video. Thank you for posting you're an inspiration! :)
Love how you’re adapting to your new place! It’s so hard in the beginning right? I’ve moved so many times in my life myself. You’re doing great! Great vlog as always!🥰🤗💗🌷
Single mom of 20+ years here. Some days def feel overwhelming solo - I carved out at least a couple hours of “nothing time”. While my daughter was at swimming, I’d sit at Starbucks and happily do nothing for an hour. This was possible bc I multi-tasked everything else. Clean for the 2 hours laundry is in, that kind of thing. Cook for a couple of days at a time - a frittata and soup both, so we weren’t bored. Let things go. Laundry stays in the basket unfolded? Eh. Takeout, yes please. That kid is now 22 and living on her own in NYC, too!
7:40, go from coffee to green tea to wire-down and process things more easily.
Get that sponsorship girl! I also finally found a place to move uptown, and I’m moving from coney by myself after a breakup so the stress is real. Plus working full time and dealing with chronic pain, some days I feel like I just can’t do it. I know we’ll get through the hard times, thank you for being real!
thanks!! sorry to hear you're going through a breakup and while dealing with everything else. your new beginning starts now, congrats on your new spot!!
That's funny ... I have rarely had a dishwasher in the vintage apartments I have ever lived in; minus the times I had a home - but have gotten used to simply hand washing my dishes forever --- but glad you got a tiny one 😁
I get so happy for you when you’re in good moods and have dance breaks. I also have thyroid disease so constantly tired, I applaud you ❤ you’re doing great and I’m proud of you 😊❤
my fave moment is when you posted a new video, yeeeeeiiih!
This may be weird, but my favorite thing about you is how you always read the directions for everything. Because I just assume I know how it works and get frustrated when I don’t.
haha sometimes it's fun to go in blind
I binge watch Gilmore Girls too when I need to just zone out and relax.
You are doing great Chelsea!
I have watched Gilmore girls at least 50 ties lol. It came out when I was in jr. High school
Im glad you showed lots about the dishwasher! I am thinking of getting that exact one! ❤
Wow Chelsea, this is a great update. The realistic life of a single in NYC..especially as you are so close to the marathon. I’m sure you’ll have more stories about the quirks and eccentricities of the building and the people in it. With the dishwasher, I’ve found that once the dishwasher is finished its cycle, I open the door slightly and place a tea towel aver the door and almost shut the door again, the steam from the dishwasher is absorbed by the tea towel and dries dishes quicker. Can’t wait to see the next update ❤
a tea towel is a great idea!!
I feel this way all the time, especially now in my senior year of college with a double degree. The only thing that gets me through the burn out is tiny little treats for myself throughout the week. Like a good coffee or a nice picnic as a reward 😅
I empathise with your burnout - I went through something similar in my 30's, really killing it for my career and the goals I had set. Looking back, I don't regret anything I did for my career because the skills I built helped me later when I had a crisis, but I wish I would have slowed my pace a bit. I am a person who needs creature comforts and I often let my anxiety about "not doing enough" or "not being dynamic enough" get in the way. It took me 10 years to learn how to give myself some grace. So, it's a process. The fact that you see it now is the beginning of that process, so you already have a leg up. :D Apropos of nothing, 9:04 in the video was a very surreal moment for me where I thought I was watching Minority Report with all the dancing ads on the wall. Spooky.
I'm glad I found you ❤️ I enjoy your videos very much. ❤️
I’ve never clicked on a video so fast. I’m in the in the same boat, about my neighbors. I live in a 2 bedroom/1 bath unit, my neighbors have the same layout, but insides of the capacity it should hold. They have about 6 ish people living there. Loud neighbors= annoyed.Also keep the updates coming, welcome to the adulting era, the applicances and home stuff excitement stage. ❤
I love your little giggles when you’re setting up your dishwasher - I, too, get super excited about stuff like that
Happy to have to back Chels! ❤️ I hope settling into your new space has been easy going ❤️
I'm always waiting for your videos like crazy, Happy you feel better in your new home!!
I’m 20 right now and to be honest, i’m not ready to be adult and I’m scared about future and watching your vlogs is like my dig sister talking about her life and give me comfort about life and future.💕🍪
i just love your vlogs & how real you are, just refreshing these days ❤
Your content is SO important. Thank you for this.
Your dishwasher has the same body as mine, just different branding and controls. I love that thing. I had to get that one because it was the only one that would fit in to the very specific space I needed it to fit in to! Mine's the Electriq Freestanding Mini Table Top Portable Dishwaster. My stuff comes out dry though 🤔
Hi Chelsea!!!! ❤I love your videos. Oh, the joy of seeing you in your genuine moment of happiness when you hooked up that cute lil dishwasher! I am inspired by you all the time💖🙏✨😊
I only started recently to watch yr videos and I honestly love them. Love you ❤
Yay!!! you are a light as always! You are doing awesome and good job
Hi Chelsea I'm glad that you have settled in your new apartment. I do enjoy your UA-cam Channel.
You could mail an anonymous letter to the owner of the complex about the yelling and that most people are not going to complain but rather move out because they won't want to speak up due to retaliation. Mail it from another location to the their office. That's what I would do. 😁
Your apt is nice, looking forward to a full apt tour after you get sorted out there. Happy for you!! 🥰
keeping this option in my back pocket lol
hahaha you smacking that slice of pizza 🍕 against the washing machine! 😂 Hang in there. Things will settle down after marathon. 🤞 🙏
Your videos give me so much hope and motivation. I love your content so much! This video made my day.
When we moved into our bungalow we got that dishwasher, it is brilliant. Best purchase we have ever made. FYI the button next to the timer setting is to dry the dishes afterwards. 👍
Moving, working two jobs and training for a marathon is a lot! Give yourself time and grace. You will get there!
no way! thanks for the dish dryer tip, that saved me
@@ChelseaCallahan you’ve very welcome! Putting dishwasher salt in the dishwasher will help aswell. :)
I love seeing your apartment come together! Your new dishwasher is adorable 😍 kudos for u for figuring out how to set it u! I hate doing stuff like that!
I always wait for your vlogs to drop. It's just so wholesome and positive. Keep up the good work 🥰
I’m so glad you’re starting to feel better and more at home in your new flat. It’s already starting to LOOK more like a home and if you’re sleeping well you’ve obviously settled in nicely. I’m envious of your little dishwasher, would you recommend it? Hugs from England 🏴 ❤
I have the same branded one she has and I love it! The best purchase I've ever made. I waited for 3 years before I bought it and wish I had done it sooner.
@@JMFoster76 Thank you so much for replying. Do you mind if I ask what the make and model is please? 😊💐
I came for the relatable content, I am staying for plumbing journey.
means the world 🚽🔧🛠
Hi Chelsea, you are really pushing yourself for the marathon 😊. Love to see someone so dedicated. Love your apartment and that dishwasher is so cute. It doesn't take up much space, and looks classy ❤. Take care and also I would love to see you do vlogmas.
Omg i got a mini dishwasher also its honestly AMAZING you wont regret it.
Also kerrygold (or any Irish butter) is so amazing could eat it all day.
I could never get a dishwasher that holds that little bit of dishes 😂hope it brings you joy!
Great new video! Wooo….our UA-cam live with you was included (inside joke of the animal sound even made the cut lol). And yay for a new appliance…always exciting as an adult. Congrats!
Okay so, I've been in my bedsit apartment for almost four months now and even though it's a huge improvement over where I used to live (previously shared with a couple for eight years) it still took me at least two months to get used to and feel at home in my new place and to get a new daily routine together even a cleaning routine etc and I just love it.
Hi Chelsea, I just want to say that I recently found your channel and I absolutely love it as someone who’s been in New York for five years and I feel like our lives are very similar and I just wanna know that I find a lot of comfort watching your content, because it reminds me That we truly are all just trying to live the best that we really can in the city! we’re rooting for you. Thank you for posting :)
Hello, Chelsea 💙💛 from Ukraine. Like your videos 💕 waiting every week for new one. PS:
Maybe you just need to wait to steam and dry out the dishes inside the washing machine. The big washing machine works like this. It steams and dry dishes after washing them. 😃 there should that option. 🤗
Hey there! Could you please link the dishwasher?
PS I have the same washer!!! I love it. I used it in my kitchen in my old place and now in my new one I can hook it up like a real washer. Great washer!!! I’ve had it for 3 years.
i LOVE how U keep finding new small stuff to do major daily chores with, the tiny clothes dryer and tiny dishwasher is freakn awesome!
Yes: zooming out sometime
Chelsea, we love you. Grieve your old place. It’s ok that some days are better than others. Also, after my long week of work, watching you make Mac n cheese and eat butter straight out of the wrap just made my weekend. You rock. Love your content ❤️🤘
I am mesmerized by the advertising advancements seen at 9:04. LOL!
no me too!! the dancing with the stars one always got me staring
The beautiful Chelsea, i always enjoy your vlogs..i love the fact that you are real.
Omg I love your videos you crack me up love how realistic you are in your videos ..I love how your place isn’t always perfectly clean,organized, dishes in the sink etc that’s normal way of life🫶🏽 love from Jersey
Hi! Another wonderful video. Really made me smile! I LOVE the coat! Where is it from? 😊
Thank you so much for your content
I appreciate that you are keeping it real about it taking you awhile to settle in and fully unpack. I just moved on Saturday and have put this immense pressure on myself to get fully unpacked while working full time. It's just too much though. It may take a month, or more. And I am working on being okay with that. Thanks for all you do!
congrats on your move! it really does take a lot of time and energy. you got this!
Chelsea, THANK you so much for uploading! I really need some sunshine now with my cup of coffee. Let's start the videeeeooooo
So nice to see you smiling again! The vibe of your apartment is fully coming to life, as well! And love the mini dishwasher. It's literally the lil things that make a difference.
Oh my god kerrygold butter!!! As an Irish person this is hands down the BEST real butter. Have it on toast...with tea..!..its the ultimate comfort. You got good taste my friend 👌
Congrats on 70k subs!!.. and of course you’re awesome!
thank you!!
My biggest advice for times like this is to have really restful things you can look forward to and easily do, like reading a book or going to the park. It’s so easy to doomscroll when you’re wiped and don’t have something easy but exciting to do with your free time.
I have been watching a lot of and different vlogging and I must say beside the sponsoring which of course is needed I like you channel the most. The honesty and being real. I am really happy that you found another space that is also much bigger. Looking forward to seeing the upgrades and improvements on your apartment.
wow thank you 💘
Your subscribers are going up a lot !! Congrats on 70k 🎉
🥹thank you!
when you said ginger shot.... my dmbass thought gingerbread shot!!! 🤣🤣🤣
There you go again... posting content just when I need it. ❤
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