How I Got My Feminine Fade | Black Women | Stephanie Long

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  • Опубліковано 14 жов 2024
  • Hi ladies, just thought I'd share some suggestions on what to ask for when going to the barbershop for a haircut. It can be very intimidating, cuz guys are definitely going to be paying attention. I'm sharing my experience with my barber who've I've been going to for 4 years now. I'll also share some tips on how to take care of and maintain your fade while starting your waves. The products I use in my hair are easily accessible and will not create product buildup. I hope yall enjoy this short instructional/how-to video.
    Hope y'all enjoy!
    Xoxo,
    Steph💜
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 111

  • @donyettacureton5309
    @donyettacureton5309 3 роки тому +48

    yes , im rocking my fade again i will never go back! you are rock you have to be confident to wear it and not be afraid. i get so many compliments . I love your look!

    • @EclecticNista
      @EclecticNista  3 роки тому +3

      Exactly!!

    • @sungaze342
      @sungaze342 2 роки тому +5

      Yeah I’m just digging the low cuts and fades they be looking sexy as hell on us females ESPECIALLY if you have the face for it

    • @GeorgiaGirl__
      @GeorgiaGirl__ 2 роки тому +1

      Best decision ever!

    • @nana8135
      @nana8135 4 місяці тому

  • @cameronfranklin1436
    @cameronfranklin1436 3 роки тому +36

    Bartering is an art. Some people just cutting hair. A talented barber will look at the face,shape of the head ,and texture of hair . If you bring a picture ,it will not look exactly like the picture but will fit it you and the above things mentioned

  • @quelquun2018
    @quelquun2018 3 роки тому +25

    I'm 21, been cutting mine since I was 18, and I've never looked back. 1.5 inches of growth is too much for me. I'm running to the barbers :)))) Its freeing , and I do feel the most confident with my hair short !!

    • @AeijaBlu
      @AeijaBlu 2 роки тому +6

      OMG ME TOO! I FEEL SO CONFIDENT AND BEAUTIFUL WITH MY FADE!!

    • @ruvimbopasi6214
      @ruvimbopasi6214 Рік тому +3

      Why is this mee😭, I grow it out for a few months cause I want braids, then 3 weeks into the braids I want a fade

    • @toastEDmrshmello09
      @toastEDmrshmello09 4 місяці тому +2

      Same! My mom asks me why I cut all my hair off and it's because I feel best and cleanest this way. It suits my personality!

  • @janetallen5912
    @janetallen5912 2 роки тому +10

    Your hair looks great. I learned the hard way I have to direct the barber. They don't consider female vs male barber cuts.

    • @EclecticNista
      @EclecticNista  2 роки тому +1

      Girl, yes you do have to direct. I do I’m the beginning . However, my barber knows how I like my haircut. I’ll go back to it probably later on this year. I’m really enjoying some length right about now.

  • @JG_SmileSOBright
    @JG_SmileSOBright Місяць тому +1

    I just cut my hair into this style this summer! I ❤ it! You are GORGEOUS and the cut looks GREAT on you! So nice to find a channel w short cuts being featured 🎉

  • @callieduval3000
    @callieduval3000 3 роки тому +19

    Men love hair period but we love switching up our hairstyles and I am seriously thinking of cutting my locs and just starting over naturally and I love short hairstyles. It gives you that extra ump!

    • @latoyiadavis8269
      @latoyiadavis8269 2 роки тому +2

      Did you cut your locs? I am cutting my locs.

    • @goodwill374
      @goodwill374 2 роки тому +2

      Hey 👋🏽 . 8 years locd. Cut them back in august. First I shaved one side kept designs. Then I finally cut all off. Did the fade game for a while. Attempted growing it back out like pixie cut type….. needless to say. Going back to my barber tomorrow. 9 months without my locs still don’t regret anything.

    • @charlenehunter5098
      @charlenehunter5098 Рік тому +2

      Yes Callie thinking of cutting my locks for my birthday and yes that low fade looks good

    • @shawtness3
      @shawtness3 7 місяців тому +1

      I did this 2days ago , now i want to cut lower more so i have waves rather than lil inch of jerry curls haha

    • @prettybrwneyez7757
      @prettybrwneyez7757 2 місяці тому

      Had mine for 8 years. Just cut them off into a TWA with NO regrets. Loving my loose curls

  • @mrsmurphy6371
    @mrsmurphy6371 3 роки тому +18

    I love it . I had no idea it was high and a low fade . I just tell my husband grab the clippers and let’s get this hair cut. Right now I am just a tad shorter than yours and platinum blonde ( yeah Jasmine’s millions views video taught me how to color my hair ) and I love it . It’s so easy . Thank you for sharing Miss Stephanie 💕💕💕💕

  • @Hfg904
    @Hfg904 3 роки тому +14

    Yasssss Girl !!!!!! I too am a girl rocking a fade and I am also about color 👍🏾 I LOVE my short hair ~ thank you for the tips and I also love your fashion sense! 🥰

  • @KathleenVOTES
    @KathleenVOTES 3 роки тому +6

    Bam is correct! Thanks for the info. I get a barber asking lots of questions when they first cut your hair but it annoys me when they keep asking “are you sure?” You look beautiful!!!!

  • @tanyamclin3153
    @tanyamclin3153 3 роки тому +12

    Hey lady thanks for sharing to tips can't wait to see the Barbershop series

  • @mzlizb2153
    @mzlizb2153 3 роки тому +8

    Beautiful, thank you so much for the tips on terminology ❤️🥰 Definitely gonna make difference when I go to the barber

  • @Niseone58
    @Niseone58 3 роки тому +9

    Hey Ms. Steph enjoyed the video and learning what to ask for at the barbershop. I’ve decided to embrace my gray so I love rocking a fade💕.

    • @EclecticNista
      @EclecticNista  3 роки тому +2

      You are so welcome and YES embrace it!!!!!!

  • @teresasutton53
    @teresasutton53 3 роки тому +9

    I love you so much.. you like a sister in my head 😍😂 I love your look and thank you for tips on cuts and also showing telling us products and also showing the pictures of products👍🏾 I love your 💄. What color is it?

  • @cameronfranklin1436
    @cameronfranklin1436 3 роки тому +36

    You have to feminize the fade. You wear it . It does not wear you. One of my late Barber used to say.

  • @adorehathor
    @adorehathor 6 місяців тому +2

    When you pulled out the du rags and was like, "dis one and dis one" 😊so cute

  • @ladyghana5603
    @ladyghana5603 2 роки тому +3

    ABSOLUTELY FABULOUS 💥💥💥💥💥👍🏾👍🏾
    i’ve been bald blonde 👱🏿‍♀️ and beautiful for 4yrs. due to alopecia but i got much inspiration from you and Jazmine!😇i get so many compliments and attention it’s unreal

  • @ShaesWorld81
    @ShaesWorld81 3 роки тому +10

    Beautiful ❤️ I just cut mine off so thanks for the tips.

  • @pamelalove2786
    @pamelalove2786 2 роки тому +3

    Girl, you bad….You rocking it!

  • @gwendolynjones484
    @gwendolynjones484 3 роки тому +2

    I have been a girl rocking a fade for many years... I don’t like my hair tapered either.. (skin showing)
    I use coconut oil...or Shea butter and occasionally I use a tap of edge control to lay down the hair that sticks up...only when I need a haircut..I don’t use doo-rags.. only because they give me a headache..no matter how loose I tie it.so I use a silk scarf..let me just say you are Gorgeous and you’re rocking that fade.
    I’m 51 and my hair is starting to turn gray...but I’m gracefully embracing it but I will color it every once in awhile..

  • @brookesimone5204
    @brookesimone5204 3 роки тому +1

    wow its crazy ur the first channel i stumble across and your in jersey lol, im from asbury park i love meetthebarber’s work 💕

  • @JUST_MORELLA
    @JUST_MORELLA 2 роки тому +3

    I just chopped all off. Your hair looks 😊 amazing!! Where did you get and what do you call the brush you are using in this video??

    • @EclecticNista
      @EclecticNista  2 роки тому

      Congratulations!!!!!! I use a coiling sponge and I purchased it from my local BSS.

  • @DreaRahming
    @DreaRahming 4 місяці тому +1

    Gorgeous hun stunning thank you for telling me what to ask for

  • @BnanaPdn
    @BnanaPdn 3 роки тому +7

    Gurrrl, you better emulsify (with your bad self)... I love your style.

    • @EclecticNista
      @EclecticNista  3 роки тому

      Yes ma’am, you need the butter to melt 😂😂😂

  • @mariaddubkg531
    @mariaddubkg531 3 роки тому +1

    Very pretty lady. Loved all the hairstyles you showed including your Cesar cut

  • @donnawilliams6834
    @donnawilliams6834 3 роки тому

    Im hooked. You look absolutely gorgeous. I want this style. Thank you for sharing.

  • @trivie70
    @trivie70 3 роки тому +1

    You are amazing. Thank you for sharing. I'm thinking about doing a fade now.🤗

  • @latashaglenn7926
    @latashaglenn7926 5 місяців тому +5

    Don’t knock a bald fade, until you tried it !

  • @mocha8821
    @mocha8821 2 роки тому +1

    You are gorgeous you make me wanna cut my hair again this would be the 4th time but I will keep it cut.

  • @lakithagoss225
    @lakithagoss225 2 роки тому +5

    Always take a picture of your desired style to your barber. The barber will be able to tweek to style to your facial features.

    • @EclecticNista
      @EclecticNista  2 роки тому +2

      Facts, they use it as a guide and can tailor it to you.

  • @sherondarichard9144
    @sherondarichard9144 3 роки тому +3

    Love the tips

  • @annettegarcia789
    @annettegarcia789 3 роки тому

    I just love your short look you are rocking that short cut Thanks for sharing love and Blessings to you #shorthairgirlsrock

  • @thetracyset
    @thetracyset 3 роки тому +5

    Cute style on you!

  • @latrishahayward9359
    @latrishahayward9359 Рік тому +1

    Beautiful! I love that

  • @HomemakerDaze
    @HomemakerDaze 2 роки тому +1

    You look amazing!

  • @moonpiemoonpie
    @moonpiemoonpie 10 місяців тому

    I’m so nervous about this transition I’m about to embark but I’m 29 and I’m so over my shoulder length hair. I big chopped to a twa 11 years ago but I want my hair exactly like this for my 30th. I want to grow it from the root and lose all this breakage.

  • @rashidabeasley3116
    @rashidabeasley3116 8 місяців тому +2

    Super cute

  • @marjorievuyiswa9559
    @marjorievuyiswa9559 3 роки тому +2

    Love it!

  • @tmjah94
    @tmjah94 3 роки тому

    GORGEOUS!

  • @godislove6398
    @godislove6398 2 роки тому

    Amen to That my Sister my hair does not define me !🥰

  • @mindisflowershop2017
    @mindisflowershop2017 3 роки тому +1

    “However” 🤣

  • @HomemakerDaze
    @HomemakerDaze 2 роки тому +11

    Omg yes hairdressers and barbers shouldn't be trying to convince women not to get short hair or even go bald, it's their own decision and they are so sexist.

  • @capricew5
    @capricew5 3 роки тому +1

    You rockin that......

  • @AsiaWilliams1731
    @AsiaWilliams1731 2 роки тому +2

    Yes bald baddies winning

  • @shandranewell2837
    @shandranewell2837 3 роки тому +3

    I'm all in the beauty supply store lol

  • @frenchygigi
    @frenchygigi 3 роки тому +1

    So just to clarify ideally you want to do this at bedtime and sleep with the dorug? Also I am traveling Friday early morning and unable to get the crinkle and curl by then do you have alternatives recommendations instead of the Taajid Waajid one?

    • @EclecticNista
      @EclecticNista  3 роки тому +1

      Yes, do this routine at bedtime or right after you shampoo your hair. After shampooing, set your hair and wear durag while you do your makeup. Yes, you can use any type of wrapping foam that has no alcohol. Hope this helps hun 💜

  • @happy2bnappy575
    @happy2bnappy575 4 місяці тому +1

    You are wearing that Caesar cut.

  • @KiyahPrettyBOMB
    @KiyahPrettyBOMB 2 роки тому +1

    Gorgeous!!!

  • @ThePhoinix33
    @ThePhoinix33 3 роки тому

    Would like to wear a fade cut. My hair now is bra length natural 3b . I have tension alopecia behind my ears any suggestions ?

  • @welcome2vonasworld821
    @welcome2vonasworld821 3 роки тому +2

    Thanks for sharing

  • @charlye6380
    @charlye6380 3 роки тому +1

    Yes I beat that face, love the look, hey u rock short hair well.

  • @Faithful26
    @Faithful26 Рік тому +1

  • @cherpierre8595
    @cherpierre8595 2 роки тому +1

    It is beautiful

  • @AyyoShyGurlTv
    @AyyoShyGurlTv 2 роки тому

    Beautiful 😍 🌟

  • @kemeyartusniki842
    @kemeyartusniki842 2 роки тому

    Beautiful

  • @quelquun2018
    @quelquun2018 3 роки тому

    looking at your pictures, you look like one of those aunties that I wish i had :))))

  • @mrs.jsmith9879
    @mrs.jsmith9879 Рік тому

    Do u hve a picture of how ur daughter cut looks

  • @ThePhoinix33
    @ThePhoinix33 3 роки тому

    New subbie

  • @jandee74
    @jandee74 Рік тому

    i paused the video after 40 seconds….to much talking for such short amount of hair 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @glowingcrowns1692
    @glowingcrowns1692 2 роки тому +1

    Feminine fade? I'm sorry there's no such thing. A fade period make y'all look masculine

    • @EclecticNista
      @EclecticNista  2 роки тому +4

      Everyone has an opinion and that’s fine💜

  • @monicabrown1359
    @monicabrown1359 3 роки тому +3

    While it looks nice there’s nothing “ feminine“ about a fade

    • @EclecticNista
      @EclecticNista  3 роки тому +28

      Well, I happen to think it’s the WOMAN, that makes it look feminine. Thank you and I like it for the everyday low maintenance.

    • @mzlizb2153
      @mzlizb2153 3 роки тому +3

      WRONG 😑

    • @Cloudywithachancee
      @Cloudywithachancee 3 роки тому +4

      Girl keep tht bullsh*t to yourself

  • @HottgirlzinMiami
    @HottgirlzinMiami 2 роки тому

    It’s the girl rocking a fade is a bad chick for me❣️