You are one of the few who understand me. I have over 100 house plants and 2 cats. And music is my medicine and I play guitar. Gardening in season is also my passion. I have a brother and sister I communicate almost daily to ground me. I love all forms of exercise and I paint houses for a living. I also do arts and crafts/woodworking at home. I love to cook healthy food. What I just shared is my very simple life. I am typically always alone and prefer it this way and love it. I wasn't always this way thou. 20s, 30s 40's I was very social and did my fair share of being part of community settings and volunteering. As I evolved in my own journey I realized nobody has ever really cared about me like I do them. I never fit in with other humans. I don't have jealousy and envy in me like most humans. I prefer my precious valuable time away from them now. I sometimes feel like something is wrong with me and maybe I'm missing out but I know I'm not. When I go into public and see how miserable and lost the masses are, I'm so grateful to be who I am and that I created a life alone that I do mostly enjoy. Thank you for your content. It's comforting to know there are others like me out there
Very well said. I think your experience is very similar to most lone wolves. Hit the nail on the head. Time for me to shut down UA-cam and spend the rest of the evening in silence. Thank you
Credit your past as training. You were a productive counterpart among your peers 20's down towards 40's. Now you're a solo artist with only more to gain in your present.
You found your Holy Grail so to speak. I'm happy for you!! I still miss being one and in harmony with somebody. Looks like I need waay more plants. And pets... 😊 Thank you!
Thank you for your insights. Ever since I was being a kid I thought I needed to belong in a group. Doing what was expected of me? And I never felt good in any group. I went being over social, trying to please people. If people reacted a way, I thought it was my fault on how they would react. Now I know it's the other way around. That how people react is only a reflection on how they feel. Fast forward,... Since my divorce 4 years ago. I took the solitude to self reflect, make time to focus and take care of me. I embraced my time alone. I finally loved living alone. Not needing validation from anyone but from me. I started solo traveling the world doing marathon city trips and I love every moment of being a lone wolf. It was what I needed to do all along. I love listening to my inner voice and I will never betray myself again. Ever,...mentally it has made me stronger than ever. I'm thriving day in, day out. I do what feels right, whatI want to do. And what's really been the game changer? Not drinking alcohol. Another thing society wants you to do,... 100% body, mind and soul.I am my best friend.Take care. Grtz from a lone wolf in Belgium.
I've been embracing my inner loner. I spent a long time trying to avoid it, but there's a comfort in understanding who I am, and what I'm good at. It's okay to be a loner.
I was just thinking the other day that even when I was a kid, teenager, adult, some of the best times I've had were by myself. Going to the beach, Movies, Cycling, etc. I like friends etc, but I love doing what I want, my path, my music. And I won't feel bad about it, it's who I am.❤❤👍
I am 72 and had been searching for me a long time. It became easier for me, once my roles, of motherhood and wife were complete. I have become my authentic self and that is due to my courage to stand alone. Alone with Me❤..Now, I am a lighthouse to others just by being me. So happy, I got there..before I pass.
I'm definitely a wounded lone wolf, working on healing from trauma that goes way back to my earliest memories. I have enjoyed all of your videos, Fraya, but this one really speaks to me a lot. Thank you!
Never thought anything was wrong with me - in fact I always knew I was on the right path. "Mental focus to forge your own path". - exactly right! Read the book "Think and Grow Rich" when I was in college. A lone wolf can benefit from the mindset that this book describes.
Fraya, I appreciate you're understanding of the ,"Lone Wolf" information . I have been a Lone Wolf my entire life , I am only truly comfortable when I am alone. My creative energy blossoms when I am alone . At those alone moments when I am in the now , time is forgotten . This is when my creative energy comes alive and time is irrelevant. I found you're video's and am grateful that you are sharing this information with others . I am sure when others find your channel they will realize their not ALONE.
@@frayamortensen Yes, I appreciate your positive understanding because unless you have self awareness of your gift you are not going to be able to explain to those who are not lone wolfs . I had a very difficult time as a child, my parents through I was unusual because I would not participate in team sports with others. I always wanted to be alone exploring with my microscope or studying anatomy learning the nature of living things etc.
There is a meme…….”I don’t go out very often, but when I do, it reminds me why I don’t” With this in mind, interactions with other humans, teaches me just how far I have travelled, in my spiritual, psychological & emotional journey, pushing me further into lone wolf & into my own world of creative, hermetic bliss. I do like people though, & seem to be popular, as my energy is magnetic & attracts attention, mostly when I don’t want it…..well, actually, I never want attention. I prefer to be incognito, under the radar to observe the narrative & not be in it. I never seek entertainment or distractions away from path & I am becoming more assertive with others, in order not to do things to please them. I have a real problem, this time of the year. People don’t know how to handle it…..”you can’t be on your own for Christmas” reply; “I’ve never heard of such bullshit” please, leave me alone…… I’m surrounded by sheep, with their beliefs & traditions.
Yup. That’s me cuz I know to make things work myself. I been a lone wolf for very long time. And I’m not afraid to be alone rather being lonely. My spirit is very strong no matter the ups and downs in life. Great video. Cheers. 😎😎😎🔥🔥🔥
Thank you SO much for this! I just returned from a walk in the woods "alone"--without other humans. But SO not alone! I saw two coyotes--and I was overjoyed as I watched them! I saw squirrels and many birds. I cherished every moment I spent near these amazing creatures, many of which I may have missed seeing had I been with another human. Nature nourishes my spirit. I don't know anyone who understands this--but perhaps you do. I'm glad I found this video!
Nice one Fraya! Normalizing that (my) lone wolf is step one. I think I did it a long time ago, but hearing it talked about is truly pacifying and validating.
Thank you Fraya, very well done. At 67, I’ve been aware of this path since childhood. Although I’ve been caught in a few pileups on the freeway of life, I survived and kept walking, eyes to the front. My MO is to minister/socialize among a very select few of family and friends while being kind to myself and my interests. I loved your presentation 😌 Peace from eastern Ohio John
One of the best decisions of my life, i had to disengage from society for a while, till i figured out my real propose. Now i can go back full fletched and feel secure about myself, because i know what i am supposed to do! Nothing external will have the power to influence my path, as long as I keep believing! Trust the process!
Beautiful video! 🙏 The pandemic was so interesting because I felt totally respected in an energetic way. Also people in a certain level got us because they were forced to learn to be quit and in state of stillness.
A happy lone wolf needs nature (mud to play in, trees to climb) and to constantly gain wisdom through self reflection and learning, projects and a crew for regular morning coffee meet ups.
You deliver the goods, Fraya. I think you’ve touched a lot of bases for people that need those bases touched- myself included. I work in the entertainment field. That alone has isolated me with a lot of folks. But I see a lot of my own coworkers, who are in my position, who are struggling as well. We kinda accept it. But that doesn’t mean we don’t suffer. As those folks try to form a “pack” or bond with guys like me, they eventually form a clique and then you’re either in or out. I am out. I am more Lone Wolf than the pack of “Lone Wolves” I am working with , especially within my union brothers and sisters; it is unsettling. I know your focus on this approach is much more general, population-wise; but you’re really hitting points with theater people - the Marilyn Monroe analogy is dead on. I hear you.,… Your ultimate message is “self respect”. For people who are constantly bros beaten and called the “ field help”, your message is very important.
I have my chosen "tribe" of other lone wolves all over this 🌍 I have had for over 50 years, but more pronounced now than ever. I ride alone on my motorbike, I live alone, now mainly in my "car camper". I don't have a settled home/ house from personal choice. I choose not to fund "Society" wherever legally(!!) able to. I want NOTHING to do with organised Society, consumerism, stuff, clutter. I find it debilitating, wasteful of resources, it penalises the contributors and rewards the idle/none contributors, the fickle and takers. I hop into and out of "company" when it suits me . I live my best life according to MY rules and my morals/ regulations. I never break the 11th Commandment of..... "Thou shall not get caught". Not that I do anything bad that I consider to be "illegal". I use my extensive adventuring, travelling life/work experiences and common senses, respect, manners and fly under "their" radar. I love my life.👌 I hope you all love your chosen lives?
FOMO is literally a concept i cant even comprehend what it means. I'm not kidding i literally have to force my brain to wrap it around this concept. I mean i kinda know what they mean intellectually but i have zero feelings zero relation to it.
When I was a kid, I was so excited. I moved all of my toys, games, puzzles, hobbies into my bedroom, where I was going to hole up forever. Maybe a bat-cave idea. And then I got everything in there, the potholder maker, the chemistry set, the electronics. And said ok. I’ve got it all here. I can just stay in my room and come out ahead. And soon after I had everything there, I looked around and said “what good is this? Mom and Dad are out there.”
Brilliant, thank you for the insight-spot on!!! 56 years lone wolf and didn't know its not a bad thing till this info of the self of a long wolf!!!! TY Still be coming, for ever!!! Just Saying TY
When i was a kid and my parents sent me to my room, while in my room i figured out i can climb out my bedroom window 😉👍 no one can stop me from doing what makes me happy 😇
OMGness .... I've said it before to you, I'll say it again ... Get Out Of My Head ha ha. Such a great video. Such a great message so many need to hear. Thank you and God Bless.
I have no friends but do not feel alone.. it’s been that way all my life. I am social but just do not feel comfortable in a group. I do not feel weird any more. I am glad that I have my own standards which guide me.
My husband's death forced me into a long dark night of the soul. I am so glad! My life is so much better. And while I'd never call myself a Lone Wolf, I assuredly AM one! And neurodivergent.
Yes I was very comfortable and safe when the pandemic and qaurrintine happened. I’ve experienced feeling left out or alone all my life. 64 and I’m learning to accept it and appreciate it.
Norma Jeane Mortenson aka Marilyn Monroe; experienced severe traumatic emotional injuries throughout her lifetime. Trauma creates the lone wolf, and also triggers a variety of mental health issues. A broken heart may never heal, there isn’t enough spackle or silly putty for a permanent fix. Abandonment by one’s Mother creates trust, rejection and an inferiority complex which cause a perfectionist syndrome, as I have experience in this area. The subconscious mind won’t let you forget about it, ever!
Absolutely! her story is one that many of us lone wolves can relate to because indeed she was one too. I feel a certain connection to her (not sure if it's because of the last name... )
You deliver the goods, Fraya. I think you’ve touched a lot of bases for people that need those bases touched- myself included. I work in the entertainment field. That alone has isolated me with a lot of folks. But I see a lot of my own coworkers, who are in my position, who are struggling as well. We kinda accept it. But that doesn’t mean we don’t suffer. As those folks try to form a “pack” or bond with guys like me, they eventually form a clique and then you’re either in or out. I am out. I am more Lone Wolf than the pack of “Lone Wolves” I am working with , especially within my union brothers and sisters; it is unsettling. I know your focus on this approach is much more general, population-wise; but you’re really hitting points with theater people - the Marilyn Monroe analogy is dead on. I hear you.,…
Nothing... is worth compromising peace of mind. Honestly peace of mind is probably more valuable than even time. Bc i will go out of my way to take a pleasant path of peace over a fast path full of angry and disloyal people..or at least the promise of a shortcut, it always seems to take longer doesnt it? The long path of peace taking up your time was more of a good thing wasnt it? Literally. If you got an extended vacation would that be a good thing or a bad thing? Thats what letting peace lead your decisions is. Sometimes peace doesnt equal "easy". Sometimes peace of mind means cutting off painful parts of yourself or confronting or leaving others. And you or they may guilt trip you like youre the bad person. Youre not. We live in the material world, and enjoy it. But never at the cost of letting others leverage anything against you. Thats power. Not diamonds and gold or being able to lie and trick people well. Or status. Or a big expensive cheaply built mansion lol.
I have such mixed feelings about this one. Most of the time I feel like I just ended like this, not by choice. It seems so much easier to end up alone, lonely or a loner. It takes so much energy to deal with other people. It's not like I enjoy being alone as much as I don't care about spending so much time with my own company. I would as far as to say it is the purest form of selfishness. Definitely not consider myself a happy person, I envy people that can smile and have friends and all the patience to deal with other people. Sometimes I wish I couldn't bear my own company just like so many extrovert people seem to have a problem with. There's nothing I love more than a long solo road trip, a long bike ride, a long hike, skinning up a mountain on my snowboard, etc. I have always entertained the idea that if you are moving, there's not one place you can be, so you can't be lonely. Not sure how to come out of this hole, after all the brain that got me here probably doesn't have the tools to get out. It also probably has to do with the fact of being defeated so many times that it just becomes easier to retrieve back into my shell, that familiar space. Thanks for you and this video, your eyes are mesmerizing.
🎉 From Hellas till now the philosophers of reason Have with abstract thought walled themselves from the wisdom they so earnestly sought To what pale avail have these rationalists laboured when the nature of being still lies beyond their seeing All thought blinds This, then, is the ultimate paradox of thought: To want to discover something that thought itself can not think By practising mind control, stilling the mind, your awareness, consciousness rises into the 4th dimension, light, Self Practice is the sole criterion for testing Truth. 😊
I’m really hard on myself and a perfectionist with my craft work . Some times I feel like I’m just an acting a different roll to fit In with others . It may not always be me.
I am male, 33. Pretty much everything you say about a lone wolf empath checks out with me. I was wondering if you have some insights on dreams. I've always had tons of very vivid dreams. They have helped me a lot on my journey and pointed me in the right direction. Dreams connected to others are happening as well. I had a dream about someone's dead friend and told her about it on the day that person died. I can connect to people easily, but I do not bond with them. People drain me of energy. I always say that, in order to be around people, I need to be alone. Thanks for the videos. I'm crazy about your haircut, by the way.
@@CRAFTYCREATIONS60 I see dreams as oracles or as ways for us to work through subconscious blocks. If oracles we need to take care to use our discernment. Thanks for the hair compliment, it used to be much shorter, so this is the “growing out” phase 😅
I’m sorry Fraya for these replies. Looooong work hours are coming into play. 38 hours straight on the in, 21 on the out. We are the front line of cultural warfare in Eugene Oregon. When it’s going good it beats working. When it’s like it is now, it’s a week on Iwo Jima in 1944
Brittle voice type and a grey room. I believe her that she spent a lot of time alone in her room. Years of barely using your voice or not at all. Mine is the same way.
I describe myself as non tribalist. I don’t identify with any group be it political, religious, National, I don’t even support a sports team. I don’t know anyone in my universe who isn’t tribal. I think we must be a very small percentage of the population. Has there been any studies done?
Like you said, my brother died young--brutal assault on head by someone he barely knew. He was a lone wolf. Everyone is jealous of lone wolves. I have an advice for fellow lone wolves, if you are a lone wolf and an introvert--BE MIGRATORY--if you want to survive and thrive. If you remain stuck in your house and keep working on an online job to pay your bills, you'll be gathering unwanted hatred around you in your neighborhood. This was the lesson I learnt from my brother's death. If you don't have money, go out in parks or public library at random times--Just don't remain stuck in the same house all the time. Otherwise, they'll come knocking at your door to pick a fight with you and then they'll blame you for their actions.
In the past I would think this message is what the technocrats want All of us seperate and in our boxes But at this point, I don’t get most people Where I live Something has changed I feel like people have become zombies 😮
Important conversation! Goes against the "drama narrative ". On perception: "Blinded by self-importance....... the visionaries of society haven't the vision of a blind musician nor the perception of a churchmouse_" cc. 2003
😂 this is cute but not needed for me. Been alone since age 9, from boarding school and lived away from home and family. At 50 still used to be alone. I tried relationships tried starting a family and failed woefully. I’m just not built that way and accept who I am. Marilyn Monroe and I have similar natal charts.
I'm a fan of looking for more than what people offer to feel complete. Lots of options these days - even AI. Thanks for the vid - morning to you, too. Just do it.
I agree that would have been great for Monroe and she would have then been a true role model for women. Instead of the dissolution of self that she unfortunately passed on. Material success and pleasure over the soul and healthy mind.
I remember when I was a teenager, and I would be out in the world. They were men and women that were lone wolves and you can tell that they didn't fit the mold and they weren't following the cookie cut out and they had it rough because they clashed with everybody, they meet, people would shame them, ridicule them make fun of them. This is not a new phenomenon. This has been around for decades, but maybe now I think it's more common. It's okay to be different, dare I say weird. Or stand out? And everybody would do everything to fit in, but now I feel like I'm that guy LOL sometimes😅
recently was called a 'loner', 'not a team player' and ostracized from my department at work because I wasn't willing to limit my ability to contribute to the growth of the company and just bend the knee and fall in line like the other minions and serve and worship the department leader.
For of en3rgy traveling with darkness of the heart feel yet will the mind ever a different path offers more input into the unknown of 3 consciousness will crash as the outer watches the inner verse evolving yet is the mind ready🤔 Ty for sharing my beautiful spirit family of fraya ❤3
I think you guys liked the idea of being lone wolf but not everyone can be lone wolf . Lone wolf is neurodiverese that is true. But to be able to not need any emotional support since childhood that is something not a lot able to manage. No validation not caring to be liked.So I don‘t think it’s great idea to force the idea on everyone. Lone wolf heal themselves alone. Has always resilience. It is good to be inspired but not to force it!
You are one of the few who understand me. I have over 100 house plants and 2 cats. And music is my medicine and I play guitar. Gardening in season is also my passion. I have a brother and sister I communicate almost daily to ground me. I love all forms of exercise and I paint houses for a living. I also do arts and crafts/woodworking at home. I love to cook healthy food. What I just shared is my very simple life. I am typically always alone and prefer it this way and love it. I wasn't always this way thou. 20s, 30s 40's I was very social and did my fair share of being part of community settings and volunteering. As I evolved in my own journey I realized nobody has ever really cared about me like I do them. I never fit in with other humans. I don't have jealousy and envy in me like most humans. I prefer my precious valuable time away from them now. I sometimes feel like something is wrong with me and maybe I'm missing out but I know I'm not. When I go into public and see how miserable and lost the masses are, I'm so grateful to be who I am and that I created a life alone that I do mostly enjoy. Thank you for your content. It's comforting to know there are others like me out there
Very well said. I think your experience is very similar to most lone wolves. Hit the nail on the head. Time for me to shut down UA-cam and spend the rest of the evening in silence. Thank you
Credit your past as training. You were a productive counterpart among your peers 20's down towards 40's. Now you're a solo artist with only more to gain in your present.
You found your Holy Grail so to speak. I'm happy for you!! I still miss being one and in harmony with somebody. Looks like I need waay more plants. And pets... 😊 Thank you!
Sounds like a beautiful life.
You sound very normal to me.👍
Thank you for your insights. Ever since I was being a kid I thought I needed to belong in a group. Doing what was expected of me? And I never felt good in any group. I went being over social, trying to please people. If people reacted a way, I thought it was my fault on how they would react. Now I know it's the other way around. That how people react is only a reflection on how they feel. Fast forward,... Since my divorce 4 years ago. I took the solitude to self reflect, make time to focus and take care of me. I embraced my time alone. I finally loved living alone. Not needing validation from anyone but from me. I started solo traveling the world doing marathon city trips and I love every moment of being a lone wolf. It was what I needed to do all along. I love listening to my inner voice and I will never betray myself again. Ever,...mentally it has made me stronger than ever. I'm thriving day in, day out. I do what feels right, whatI want to do. And what's really been the game changer? Not drinking alcohol. Another thing society wants you to do,... 100% body, mind and soul.I am my best friend.Take care. Grtz from a lone wolf in Belgium.
I've been embracing my inner loner. I spent a long time trying to avoid it, but there's a comfort in understanding who I am, and what I'm good at. It's okay to be a loner.
I was just thinking the other day that even when I was a kid, teenager, adult, some of the best times I've had were by myself. Going to the beach, Movies, Cycling, etc. I like friends etc, but I love doing what I want, my path, my music. And I won't feel bad about it, it's who I am.❤❤👍
All I can say is thank you. I've been fighting against the grain my whole life. It helps to know that I'm NOT ALONE in enjoying my time alone.
I am 72 and had been searching for me a long time. It became easier for me, once my roles, of motherhood and wife were complete.
I have become my authentic self and that is due to my courage to stand alone. Alone with Me❤..Now, I am a lighthouse to others just by being me. So happy, I got there..before I pass.
such an amazing journey.... and perhaps it's a path back to self. 🥰
Lighthouse here too , light inside to guide 👍🌻
I'm definitely a wounded lone wolf, working on healing from trauma that goes way back to my earliest memories. I have enjoyed all of your videos, Fraya, but this one really speaks to me a lot. Thank you!
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Never thought anything was wrong with me - in fact I always knew I was on the right path. "Mental focus to forge your own path". - exactly right!
Read the book "Think and Grow Rich" when I was in college. A lone wolf can benefit from the mindset that this book describes.
Fraya,
I appreciate you're understanding of the ,"Lone Wolf" information . I have been a Lone Wolf my entire life , I am only truly comfortable when I am alone. My creative energy blossoms when I am alone . At those alone moments when I am in the now , time is forgotten . This is when my creative energy comes alive and time is irrelevant. I found you're video's and am grateful that you are sharing this information with others . I am sure when others find your channel they will realize their not ALONE.
It's great to find others who feel the same way - a true gift!
@@frayamortensen Yes, I appreciate your positive understanding because unless you have self awareness of your gift you are not going to be able to explain to those who are not lone wolfs . I had a very difficult time as a child, my parents through I was unusual because I would not participate in team sports with others. I always wanted to be alone exploring with my microscope or studying anatomy learning the nature of living things etc.
I used to have a fear that I was a lone wolf. At age 59yrs I've got over it, but it's refreshing to hear it talked about ❤
There is a meme…….”I don’t go out very often, but when I do, it reminds me why I don’t” With this in mind, interactions with other humans, teaches me just how far I have travelled, in my spiritual, psychological & emotional journey, pushing me further into lone wolf & into my own world of creative, hermetic bliss.
I do like people though, & seem to be popular, as my energy is magnetic & attracts attention, mostly when I don’t want it…..well, actually, I never want attention. I prefer to be incognito, under the radar to observe the narrative & not be in it. I never seek entertainment or distractions away from path & I am becoming more assertive with others, in order not to do things to please them.
I have a real problem, this time of the year. People don’t know how to handle it…..”you can’t be on your own for Christmas” reply; “I’ve never heard of such bullshit” please, leave me alone…… I’m surrounded by sheep, with their beliefs & traditions.
It starts off by not caring. You have to not care at the level you’ve never experienced before.
I had society beaten out of me and stolen, and I’m not even kidding.
Self care is paramount
For me this is the empowering pep talk that opens the gates self awareness into the land of Lone Wolf Freedom. HOOOOOOWL!!
Yup. That’s me cuz I know to make things work myself. I been a lone wolf for very long time. And I’m not afraid to be alone rather being lonely. My spirit is very strong no matter the ups and downs in life. Great video. Cheers. 😎😎😎🔥🔥🔥
Thank you SO much for this! I just returned from a walk in the woods "alone"--without other humans. But SO not alone! I saw two coyotes--and I was overjoyed as I watched them! I saw squirrels and many birds. I cherished every moment I spent near these amazing creatures, many of which I may have missed seeing had I been with another human. Nature nourishes my spirit. I don't know anyone who understands this--but perhaps you do. I'm glad I found this video!
AMAZING!!! Yes, i prefer my nature walks alone "but not alone" 😁✌️
Nice one Fraya! Normalizing that (my) lone wolf is step one. I think I did it a long time ago, but hearing it talked about is truly pacifying and validating.
Girl you are on point. This needs to be talked about more
Thank you! I'm here for it 😁✌️
Thank you Fraya, very well done. At 67, I’ve been aware of this path since childhood. Although I’ve been caught in a few pileups on the freeway of life, I survived and kept walking, eyes to the front. My MO is to minister/socialize among a very select few of family and friends while being kind to myself and my interests. I loved your presentation 😌 Peace from eastern Ohio
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One of the best decisions of my life, i had to disengage from society for a while, till i figured out my real propose.
Now i can go back full fletched and feel secure about myself, because i know what i am supposed to do!
Nothing external will have the power to influence my path, as long as I keep believing! Trust the process!
I have always felt sorry for people who don't have a lot of interests and hobbies, I have lots of them.
Honor and respect others path as you like to do others for you not feel sorry 🎉
So much truth. It's good to know & feel that there's people like you out there Fraya! 🙏❤️💪
For me being alone is recharging time❤
Beautiful video! 🙏 The pandemic was so interesting because I felt totally respected in an energetic way. Also people in a certain level got us because they were forced to learn to be quit and in state of stillness.
Being a lone wolf is my strength. I probably thrive in an apocalypse 👌
A happy lone wolf needs nature (mud to play in, trees to climb) and to constantly gain wisdom through self reflection and learning, projects and a crew for regular morning coffee meet ups.
Thanks Fraya, another great video/ conversation on this topic.
Glad you enjoyed it!
You deliver the goods, Fraya.
I think you’ve touched a lot of bases for people that need those bases touched- myself included.
I work in the entertainment field. That alone has isolated me with a lot of folks. But I see a lot of my own coworkers, who are in my position, who are struggling as well.
We kinda accept it. But that doesn’t mean we don’t suffer.
As those folks try to form a “pack” or bond with guys like me, they eventually form a clique and then you’re either in or out. I am out.
I am more Lone Wolf than the pack of “Lone Wolves” I am working with , especially within my union brothers and sisters; it is unsettling.
I know your focus on this approach is much more general, population-wise; but you’re really hitting points with theater people - the Marilyn Monroe analogy is dead on.
I hear you.,…
Your ultimate message is “self respect”. For people who are constantly bros beaten and called the “ field help”, your message is very important.
Thank you. Your videos make me feel better every time I watch.
I have my chosen "tribe" of other lone wolves all over this 🌍
I have had for over 50 years, but more pronounced now than ever.
I ride alone on my motorbike, I live alone, now mainly in my "car camper".
I don't have a settled home/ house from personal choice.
I choose not to fund "Society" wherever legally(!!) able to.
I want NOTHING to do with organised Society, consumerism, stuff, clutter.
I find it debilitating, wasteful of resources, it penalises the contributors and rewards the idle/none contributors, the fickle and takers.
I hop into and out of "company" when it suits me .
I live my best life according to MY rules and my morals/ regulations.
I never break the 11th Commandment of.....
"Thou shall not get caught".
Not that I do anything bad that I consider to be "illegal".
I use my extensive adventuring, travelling life/work experiences and common senses, respect, manners and fly under "their" radar.
I love my life.👌
I hope you all love your chosen lives?
FOMO is literally a concept i cant even comprehend what it means. I'm not kidding i literally have to force my brain to wrap it around this concept. I mean i kinda know what they mean intellectually but i have zero feelings zero relation to it.
Thanks!
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Now I understand why you say lone wolf, thank you for elaborating more on that topic. Well done and keep up the good work 👍
Great 3 suggestions at the end of the video. Thanks.
I'm sooo lone that no one even gets the opportunity to tell me how selfish i am for it...
When I was a kid, I was so excited. I moved all of my toys, games, puzzles, hobbies into my bedroom, where I was going to hole up forever. Maybe a bat-cave idea. And then I got everything in there, the potholder maker, the chemistry set, the electronics. And said ok. I’ve got it all here. I can just stay in my room and come out ahead. And soon after I had everything there, I looked around and said “what good is this? Mom and Dad are out there.”
Omg thank you so much for this video, I really needed this
You're so welcome!
Don't settle. Break the cycle. Rebel. We got this. Let's go!
Brilliant, thank you for the insight-spot on!!! 56 years lone wolf and didn't know its not a bad thing till this info of the self of a long wolf!!!! TY
Still be coming, for ever!!!
Just Saying TY
When i was a kid and my parents sent me to my room, while in my room i figured out i can climb out my bedroom window 😉👍 no one can stop me from doing what makes me happy 😇
Lovely message. Thank you.
My pleasure 🙏🏼
OMGness .... I've said it before to you, I'll say it again ... Get Out Of My Head ha ha. Such a great video. Such a great message so many need to hear. Thank you and God Bless.
Brilliant!
My heartfelt thanks!
Great analysis and well presented. Thanks! The fact that ‘time out’ and ostracisation are used for punishment should give everyone pause to think.
Thank you Fraya !
You're welcome 😊
Validating!!!❤
I have no friends but do not feel alone.. it’s been that way all my life. I am social but just do not feel comfortable in a group. I do not feel weird any more. I am glad that I have my own standards which guide me.
such an elegant person.
My husband's death forced me into a long dark night of the soul. I am so glad! My life is so much better. And while I'd never call myself a Lone Wolf, I assuredly AM one! And neurodivergent.
Happy to have you here! ✌️😁
Thank you for this video
My pleasure
Watched my bank account skyrocket after I became single.
Yes I was very comfortable and safe when the pandemic and qaurrintine happened. I’ve experienced feeling left out or alone all my life. 64 and I’m learning to accept it and appreciate it.
Norma Jeane Mortenson aka Marilyn Monroe; experienced severe traumatic emotional injuries throughout her lifetime. Trauma creates the lone wolf, and also triggers a variety of mental health issues. A broken heart may never heal, there isn’t enough spackle or silly putty for a permanent fix. Abandonment by one’s Mother creates trust, rejection and an inferiority complex which cause a perfectionist syndrome, as I have experience in this area. The subconscious mind won’t let you forget about it, ever!
Absolutely! her story is one that many of us lone wolves can relate to because indeed she was one too. I feel a certain connection to her (not sure if it's because of the last name... )
@ i have a difficult time believing she caused her own demise. As with many others who know too much.
I am normal, it is just that almost everyone else is crazy.
Very helpful and very well done...Many Thanks !!
Most welcome! Thank you for watching. 😁✌️
I’m ok. Thank you.
You deliver the goods, Fraya.
I think you’ve touched a lot of bases for people that need those bases touched- myself included.
I work in the entertainment field. That alone has isolated me with a lot of folks. But I see a lot of my own coworkers, who are in my position, who are struggling as well.
We kinda accept it. But that doesn’t mean we don’t suffer.
As those folks try to form a “pack” or bond with guys like me, they eventually form a clique and then you’re either in or out. I am out.
I am more Lone Wolf than the pack of “Lone Wolves” I am working with , especially within my union brothers and sisters; it is unsettling.
I know your focus on this approach is much more general, population-wise; but you’re really hitting points with theater people - the Marilyn Monroe analogy is dead on.
I hear you.,…
I encourage reading a chapter in Thoreau’s _Walden_ titled “Solitude”
Great video! Just wanted to add that your short hair looks beautiful on you!😊🫶🏻🇨🇦
You are a beacon of light darling❤
Keep up the great work sister
I appreciate you 😊
Most welcome! 🙏
Nothing... is worth compromising peace of mind. Honestly peace of mind is probably more valuable than even time.
Bc i will go out of my way to take a pleasant path of peace over a fast path full of angry and disloyal people..or at least the promise of a shortcut, it always seems to take longer doesnt it?
The long path of peace taking up your time was more of a good thing wasnt it? Literally.
If you got an extended vacation would that be a good thing or a bad thing?
Thats what letting peace lead your decisions is. Sometimes peace doesnt equal "easy". Sometimes peace of mind means cutting off painful parts of yourself or confronting or leaving others. And you or they may guilt trip you like youre the bad person. Youre not.
We live in the material world, and enjoy it. But never at the cost of letting others leverage anything against you.
Thats power. Not diamonds and gold or being able to lie and trick people well. Or status. Or a big expensive cheaply built mansion lol.
For many loners, a super realistic humanoid adult companion robot can be a great solution.
Great video. Not had human contact for the past 3 weeks. I have had an offer to do something on Christmas day. No thanks, im fine on my own. 😊
Excellent information, thank you, Fraya
You're so welcome!
My parents named me Lon Wolf...they knew what I would be. Happy as a loner.
I have such mixed feelings about this one. Most of the time I feel like I just ended like this, not by choice. It seems so much easier to end up alone, lonely or a loner. It takes so much energy to deal with other people. It's not like I enjoy being alone as much as I don't care about spending so much time with my own company. I would as far as to say it is the purest form of selfishness. Definitely not consider myself a happy person, I envy people that can smile and have friends and all the patience to deal with other people. Sometimes I wish I couldn't bear my own company just like so many extrovert people seem to have a problem with. There's nothing I love more than a long solo road trip, a long bike ride, a long hike, skinning up a mountain on my snowboard, etc. I have always entertained the idea that if you are moving, there's not one place you can be, so you can't be lonely. Not sure how to come out of this hole, after all the brain that got me here probably doesn't have the tools to get out. It also probably has to do with the fact of being defeated so many times that it just becomes easier to retrieve back into my shell, that familiar space. Thanks for you and this video, your eyes are mesmerizing.
Thank you
🎉 From Hellas till now
the philosophers of reason
Have with abstract thought
walled themselves from the wisdom they so earnestly sought
To what pale avail
have these rationalists laboured when the nature of being still lies beyond their seeing
All thought blinds
This, then, is the ultimate paradox of thought: To want to discover something that thought itself can not think
By practising mind control, stilling the mind, your awareness, consciousness rises into the 4th dimension, light, Self
Practice is the sole criterion for testing Truth. 😊
I actually prefer solitude… I don’t know why people feel it’s a bad thing.
There's a lot of empowerment lone wolfing
I’m really hard on myself and a perfectionist with my craft work . Some times I feel like I’m just an acting a different roll to fit In with others . It may not always be me.
I am male, 33. Pretty much everything you say about a lone wolf empath checks out with me. I was wondering if you have some insights on dreams. I've always had tons of very vivid dreams. They have helped me a lot on my journey and pointed me in the right direction. Dreams connected to others are happening as well.
I had a dream about someone's dead friend and told her about it on the day that person died. I can connect to people easily, but I do not bond with them. People drain me of energy. I always say that, in order to be around people, I need to be alone.
Thanks for the videos. I'm crazy about your haircut, by the way.
@@CRAFTYCREATIONS60 I see dreams as oracles or as ways for us to work through subconscious blocks. If oracles we need to take care to use our discernment. Thanks for the hair compliment, it used to be much shorter, so this is the “growing out” phase 😅
Indeed the pandemic wasn’t a challenge at all it was my normal state
I’m sorry Fraya for these replies. Looooong work hours are coming into play. 38 hours straight on the in, 21 on the out. We are the front line of cultural warfare in Eugene Oregon.
When it’s going good it beats working. When it’s like it is now, it’s a week on Iwo Jima in 1944
I’m NEVER not gonna be the punk rocker I was in 1980.
Great insight 😊
2:55 well frankly for me literally NOTHING changed i didnt even notice a thing. I didnt even know wtf these people were talkin about how bad it was...
Thank you.
You're welcome! 😁✌️
Brittle voice type and a grey room. I believe her that she spent a lot of time alone in her room. Years of barely using your voice or not at all. Mine is the same way.
I describe myself as non tribalist. I don’t identify with any group be it political, religious, National, I don’t even support a sports team. I don’t know anyone in my universe who isn’t tribal. I think we must be a very small percentage of the population. Has there been any studies done?
I don’t even have a favourite band.
Perhaps you should start a non-tribalist tribe? 🤔💭🤨
@@knicschenck9764what a brilliant idea 💡
Like you said, my brother died young--brutal assault on head by someone he barely knew. He was a lone wolf. Everyone is jealous of lone wolves. I have an advice for fellow lone wolves, if you are a lone wolf and an introvert--BE MIGRATORY--if you want to survive and thrive. If you remain stuck in your house and keep working on an online job to pay your bills, you'll be gathering unwanted hatred around you in your neighborhood. This was the lesson I learnt from my brother's death. If you don't have money, go out in parks or public library at random times--Just don't remain stuck in the same house all the time. Otherwise, they'll come knocking at your door to pick a fight with you and then they'll blame you for their actions.
In the past I would think this message is what the technocrats want
All of us seperate and in our boxes
But at this point, I don’t get most people
Where I live
Something has changed
I feel like people have become zombies
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Lov you ❤
Important conversation! Goes against the "drama narrative ".
On perception:
"Blinded by self-importance....... the visionaries of society haven't the vision of a blind musician nor the perception of a churchmouse_"
cc. 2003
I’m a lone turtle
It’s like finding out pac members
😂 this is cute but not needed for me. Been alone since age 9, from boarding school and lived away from home and family. At 50 still used to be alone. I tried relationships tried starting a family and failed woefully. I’m just not built that way and accept who I am. Marilyn Monroe and I have similar natal charts.
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I'm a fan of looking for more than what people offer to feel complete. Lots of options these days - even AI.
Thanks for the vid - morning to you, too. Just do it.
You got it! Have a great day my friend. ✌️
I agree that would have been great for Monroe and she would have then been a true role model for women. Instead of the dissolution of self that she unfortunately passed on.
Material success and pleasure over the soul and healthy mind.
i’m not a lone wolf. i’m a lone jaguar.
I remember when I was a teenager, and I would be out in the world. They were men and women that were lone wolves and you can tell that they didn't fit the mold and they weren't following the cookie cut out and they had it rough because they clashed with everybody, they meet, people would shame them, ridicule them make fun of them. This is not a new phenomenon. This has been around for decades, but maybe now I think it's more common. It's okay to be different, dare I say weird.
Or stand out? And everybody would do everything to fit in, but now I feel like I'm that guy LOL sometimes😅
(1) If I have a smartphone
(2) If I watch UA-cam videos and play online games
(3) Am I really alone?
(4) There are people everywhere online...so?
I wish she would be my woman 🥰🥰
recently was called a 'loner', 'not a team player' and ostracized from my department at work because I wasn't willing to limit my ability to contribute to the growth of the company and just bend the knee and fall in line like the other minions and serve and worship the department leader.
For of en3rgy traveling with darkness of the heart feel yet will the mind ever a different path offers more input into the unknown of 3 consciousness will crash as the outer watches the inner verse evolving yet is the mind ready🤔
Ty for sharing my beautiful spirit family of fraya ❤3
I love being a lone wolf.people only want to use or abuse..
I’m NEVER not gonna be a punk rocker
I think you guys liked the idea of being lone wolf but not everyone can be lone wolf . Lone wolf is neurodiverese that is true. But to be able to not need any emotional support since childhood that is something not a lot able to manage. No validation not caring to be liked.So I don‘t think it’s great idea to force the idea on everyone. Lone wolf heal themselves alone. Has always resilience. It is good to be inspired but not to force it!