Absolutely. That’s so important. Because then, if you actually like the person inside after you get to know her, it gives you a reason to put in the effort. It feels like you found somebody compatible with you (to a certain degree, since you just recently met her), thus making it more likely that you’ll actually attract her (since it is more likely that she likes you too). Also it comes across not as needy.
But that can't be a goal tho, your purpose refers to your contribution to the world, what will you do that will help your fellow humans have a better life, what legacy will you leave? And if you set a goal like that you're kinda putting the woman on the pedestal which turns her off because she doesn't want to be #1 in your life. She wants to help you fulfill your mission. And after you have a child and you become a father, you won't have any other goals in your life? Will it be fulfilled already? I don't think so. I think you can do much more than just having kids and raising them (even complete failures do that)
If you're a Christian, your goal should be to serve the world and try to get as many people as you can to come to the truth of Jesus Christ, at least that's the goal that God has showed me. Start to accumulate riches in heaven where you'll live forever.
@@AngelGarcia-oy3yjthat can totally be a goal. his goal is to love and raise children to be good people. how can you say “that can’t be a goal”. his goal can be anything. quite literally ANYTHING. so can yours, and so can mine. just because you don’t have the same goal as him doesn’t mean it’s not a goal he “can” or should have. he’s his own man. “even complete failures do that” is wrong. failures raise children poorly. it takes an incredible man and woman to raise children properly. there is a large difference in the way a healthy and stable couple raises their kids vs parents who live in poverty or are participating in a cycle of abuse. when he says his goal is to raise children, that is his goal NOW. once they’re all grown up, he’ll find another goal. this is how goals work. hope this helped you understand.
can i be perfectly honest, thinking you need a guide on this is the problem, if you think that you are bad at "speaking and charisma" well then thats just your mental health thats bad beceause you probably arent, go see a therapist instead
@@Vikto7. to an extent yea, but a full long guide? im telling you right now, its just your brain telling you you're bad at speaking to women, you arent actually
you gotta break some eggs to make an omellete. im sure i creeped out tons of girls over the years". That was a powerful quote or statement I heard from another guy, a dating coach, who gives advice to men, it's in regards to men getting better at just approaching or interacting with women. I just want to be sure I interpret it or have the right mindset and that is, men even have to risk getting labeled creepy or just even screw up and mess up interactions, that results in getting negative reactions from women as in the woman is uncomfortable from the man's presence, makes her feel uncomfortable As in its part of the journey of getting better, do I have the right mindset or not? "It's the learning process. EVERY guy goes through that. Every GIRL goes through similar things, where she reacted in some awkward way to a guy, shooed away a guy she regrets shooing away and now assumes probably hates her, etc., etc. The way you deal with it is by continuing to improve socially, so you can be SMOOTH instead of awkward. This is what everyone does, men and women alike. It is part of the GROWING UP PROCESS." so is making mistakes socially with women, as in, getting labeled or perceived as creepy or weird when approaching, messing up interactions in which the woman was uncomfortable, is that part of the process of getting better? was the ever the case for you or guys you helped, knew? Do i have the right mindset, right perspective or not?
You are on right track, don't worry! In order to get better in speaking with girls, you need to practice on, you can already guess, girls. So yes, you gonna screw it multiple times, I did too, I came out as social retard multiple times but everytime you screw up, see what you screwed up, think about it and try not to make same mistake again.
hamza your videos have changed my life so much, I have a new video explaining how you have changed me, and all i want to do is say thankful, you have single dramatically change the trajectory of my life, im so grateful for you ability to speak into my soul and say things in a way that completely resonates with me, i literally watched every single new video from your, you are the best thank you
Hamza. You have helped me and so many of my friends on self-improvement. I still have people who doubt what you teach after I have tried to introduce them to your channel, but that is ok. Thank you, for everything you have done. You are legendary and a gift to all who listen.
The last tip about nervousness/excitement works because your adrenaline and noradrenaline circuits give the exact same response for both. The difference between the two is just the framing that your mind gives to the "release" of that circuit, but there's biologically no difference between the two. The more you know 👍🏼
Hamza, you're probably not gonna see this comment but I would like to thank you because, firstly you helped me, but my bestfriend was going through a breakup and (call me an asshole if you want ) I purposefully used that to get him in the gym and I am actively introducing self improvement tactics (cold approach, making money with me, ect.). Thank you and may God bless you soul.
Hey Hamza, been watching you for a long time. Make a video on how to fight and how to stop bullies that can’t be stopped through yelling or telling the teacher or any other way.
To everyone reading this, what helped me is just treat everyone like your guy friends, just dont be as racist as you are with them. (Dont lie we all are racist with our friends no matter your ethnicity.)Treat them like your guy friends, and if you know that you want something with one special person just show it to them partial dont show too much attention but also treat them different then anyone else.
I think an important point to understand is: Choose a woman who chooses you. I recently forced myself into liking a girl in my school, so that I could ”train the skill of asking girls out on dates.” I essentially wanted to get close with her and then ask her out. After a little bit of exchanged texts and conversations, it became clear she doesn’t like me. Her personality in general seemed very incompatible to mine from the get go. Even like the most intricate details like mannerisms, humor style and all that stuff (that’s already not considering values, long term goals, morals) of hers was drastically different to mine (not that that’s bad). But I kept trudging through the snow, thinking “I gotta at least ask out one girl this year.” Don’t do that. I think that’s stupid.
Bro i'm so grateful for your videos and advices , I was on self improvement like last year and lost track, stopped some good habits, and you are putting me back on my feet right now. Thank you so much hamza
This Video is at the Perfect timing, I had a First meet up some days ago, i thought it was good and shii, i texted her again and been left on delivered for 8 Hours Now, so thank You like always hamza
I discovered your channel in May 2022. I am less awkward around men but I struggle with girls. I still have thoughts in my mind that I don't need to talk to girls because I'd rather focus on my hobbies like drawing and also God. I am also 22 and in college. I see girls I am attracted to in campus but too afraid to talk to them. I think it is because I lack confidence since I am skinny-fat 120 pounds and 5'6" I am also short and brown so I think that I am unattractive. I also feel like I have to self improve first and then talk to girls when I gain the confidence to do so. I still have a lot of work to do because I have no income and I am too anxious to deal with people and I need to overcome pmo. I did make a lot of progress compared to previous years when coming to my pmo 'addiction'.
To any awkward young man finding himself, get you a Levi! Get you a black friend to party with. You will learn his confidence and his style of dress fast and that is what the ladies love! 💯
Before, if we didn't get prestige and respect from other men in real life, we became obsessed with being worthy of it, but now in today's era we have streaks of nofap in discord names "120 days" which means prestige or whatever shit
The proggresed the relationship part is what got me to wake up this is why i got rejected ultiple times because i would keep staring at girls and imagineing like how it would be to be her boyfriend or smth and kept knowing things bat her when she doesnt even know who tf i am
no fap was really hard at the start even with progressively deloading but now i just pray in the morning and i havent fapped for like 30+ days i have lost count tbh. Stop worrying about no fap, Give your worries to god and he will fight your battle.
I believe raising or training animals that are otherwise difficult to discipline or train may bring insight on how to raise a child. Especially raising a child to be on Self-Improvement. I’m an animal lover, but I know they stink and trash houses and your life may not be suitable for having an animal. But living with a farmer for a few months may bring insight how to raise your children in the future. Cats and horses are a perfect example, cats don’t understand discipline. Meaning the best way to train them or raise them to do a desired behavior is through positive reinforcement. Dry Creek Wrangler trains horses that are difficult and stubborn, by always providing two options to give the horse a choice
i am a man but i want to kiss you with my lips hamza, i cant express my gratitude for you in words. I am so grateful for these long form unedited video you are uploading. please do not stop hamza. I love you
Hey there. I have a few genuine questions regarding cold approach that I still struggle with and I often get mixed answers to. - What do I do if a very attractive woman is let's say at the same bus stop with me but she has earphones in. Is it better to leave her alone since earphones often signal "leave me alone" or should I approach her in a respectful friendly way? She can still say no but if you don't do it you are most likely missing out on a great chance. It's still hard to believe that women (generally speaking) like being cold approached by a strange man they don't know. Do you have any opinions to share on this?
5th year medical student here. Underwent varicoele surgery same as you a couple of weeks ago myself. Just wondering what the outcome (regarding spermogram, fertility etc) has been for you since living a healthy lifestyle including avoiding cancerogenic materials etc?
This is the same level of quality of the videos you had after you “quit” your channel, love this new direction
@@Toast2005 why not?
yo ishaan whats good bro
Nah they're even better.
Hey bro, seen you in Adonis School
@@flewberi yo
A mindset shift that has really helped me while talking to women has been trying to see if I like her rather than trying to get her to like me.
Absolutely. That’s so important. Because then, if you actually like the person inside after you get to know her, it gives you a reason to put in the effort. It feels like you found somebody compatible with you (to a certain degree, since you just recently met her), thus making it more likely that you’ll actually attract her (since it is more likely that she likes you too). Also it comes across not as needy.
@@raxn2673 exactly! It’s an act of self respect, and other people will only respect you if you respect yourself
Exactly! And I have found myself asking more important questions about her to see if I will like her.
real advice man
Getting mad at yourself for losing focus in meditation is like getting angry when your muscles start burning in the middle of a set
That's a good one
Dude I actually was just awkward and thinking about how to do correct things great timing
I'm always awkward
same bro
Women aren't important you can always jerk off
or we are just trapped in the algorithm
17 Indian Guys WAS PERSONAL 😭
most the time its like 200
Haaha 😂
“I love you bby girl” that shi killed me😂
Well that's what typical pakistani guys do 😂
We’ve got to do better, we must stay focused
In order to be less awkward around women, first become less awkward around men.
Sun Jin Woo, the art of Propaganda
Solo leveling?
Solo leveling?🧐🤔
I didn't expect to see such references here haha
GGGRRRRRRRIIIIIIIIIITTTTHHHHHHIIIIIIITTTTTHHHHHHHH
solo leveling?!
Thank you for updating the old videos.
Wouldn't it be so funny if Hamza's next relationship is with a girl called Jessica
* finds 10/10 women *
"whats your name ?"
"Jessica , i kinda like you tho"
"sorry we cant be together"
"why"
*give her his yt channel link*
My goal in life is to become a father, so this is the first step.
Respect to you
But that can't be a goal tho, your purpose refers to your contribution to the world, what will you do that will help your fellow humans have a better life, what legacy will you leave? And if you set a goal like that you're kinda putting the woman on the pedestal which turns her off because she doesn't want to be #1 in your life. She wants to help you fulfill your mission. And after you have a child and you become a father, you won't have any other goals in your life? Will it be fulfilled already? I don't think so. I think you can do much more than just having kids and raising them (even complete failures do that)
If you're a Christian, your goal should be to serve the world and try to get as many people as you can to come to the truth of Jesus Christ, at least that's the goal that God has showed me. Start to accumulate riches in heaven where you'll live forever.
@@AngelGarcia-oy3yj I am not reading all that.
@@AngelGarcia-oy3yjthat can totally be a goal. his goal is to love and raise children to be good people. how can you say “that can’t be a goal”. his goal can be anything. quite literally ANYTHING. so can yours, and so can mine. just because you don’t have the same goal as him doesn’t mean it’s not a goal he “can” or should have. he’s his own man. “even complete failures do that” is wrong. failures raise children poorly. it takes an incredible man and woman to raise children properly. there is a large difference in the way a healthy and stable couple raises their kids vs parents who live in poverty or are participating in a cycle of abuse.
when he says his goal is to raise children, that is his goal NOW. once they’re all grown up, he’ll find another goal. this is how goals work.
hope this helped you understand.
We want a full guide on speaking and charisma
Anyone who agree hit a like
👍
+storytelling
can i be perfectly honest, thinking you need a guide on this is the problem, if you think that you are bad at "speaking and charisma" well then thats just your mental health thats bad beceause you probably arent, go see a therapist instead
@@Jake--be2jv
But some easy skills, tips, and tricks don't hurt either
@@Vikto7. to an extent yea, but a full long guide? im telling you right now, its just your brain telling you you're bad at speaking to women, you arent actually
Hamza's videos these days are killer! Keep this shit up
Been loving these longer, off the cuff (but still focused) videos. Feels very down to earth.
"Send me a DM if you're an attractive woman" what a g!💪🔥
you gotta break some eggs to make an omellete. im sure i creeped out tons of girls over the years".
That was a powerful quote or statement I heard from another guy, a dating coach, who gives advice to men, it's in regards to men getting better at just approaching or interacting with women. I just want to be sure I interpret it or have the right mindset and that is, men even have to risk getting labeled creepy or just even screw up and mess up interactions, that results in getting negative reactions from women as in the woman is uncomfortable from the man's presence, makes her feel uncomfortable As in its part of the journey of getting better, do I have the right mindset or not?
"It's the learning process. EVERY guy goes through that. Every GIRL goes through similar things, where she reacted in some awkward way to a guy, shooed away a guy she regrets shooing away and now assumes probably hates her, etc., etc. The way you deal with it is by continuing to improve socially, so you can be SMOOTH instead of awkward. This is what everyone does, men and women alike. It is part of the GROWING UP PROCESS."
so is making mistakes socially with women, as in, getting labeled or perceived as creepy or weird when approaching, messing up interactions in which the woman was uncomfortable, is that part of the process of getting better? was the ever the case for you or guys you helped, knew?
Do i have the right mindset, right perspective or not?
You are on right track, don't worry! In order to get better in speaking with girls, you need to practice on, you can already guess, girls. So yes, you gonna screw it multiple times, I did too, I came out as social retard multiple times but everytime you screw up, see what you screwed up, think about it and try not to make same mistake again.
Getting through social awkwardness really is so important!
I feel like a SPARTA after getting respect from HAMZA
hamza your videos have changed my life so much, I have a new video explaining how you have changed me, and all i want to do is say thankful, you have single dramatically change the trajectory of my life, im so grateful for you ability to speak into my soul and say things in a way that completely resonates with me, i literally watched every single new video from your, you are the best thank you
Dear Hamza;
This was so good ,it felt illegal to watch it free.
W my G.
Hamza. You have helped me and so many of my friends on self-improvement. I still have people who doubt what you teach after I have tried to introduce them to your channel, but that is ok. Thank you, for everything you have done. You are legendary and a gift to all who listen.
Timing is 10/10
it’s crazy how you upload such valuable information on the internet for completely free
Love watching these vids while working out, doing neck rn.
I like rhe humor in your vids man keep it up
THIS IS THE PATH HAMZA, DON'T FUCKING FAIL AGAIN.
Love from Kerala India
Uff
Kattinaadhyanam cheyu, prethyejichu ath cheyyan thonnathirikumbol
Njanum
polayadi mwone
Don't be one of those 17 Indian guys 🤣🤣
Another lecture by professor Hamza, gotta watch.
Amazing Man! 👍🏻 How about Full Guide On Stoicism!! Being Emotionally strong 24 x 7
Hamza your videos geniunely help men like us who are going through issues no one talks about
The last tip about nervousness/excitement works because your adrenaline and noradrenaline circuits give the exact same response for both. The difference between the two is just the framing that your mind gives to the "release" of that circuit, but there's biologically no difference between the two. The more you know 👍🏼
Hey Hamza, We need a guide on TESTOSTERONE as well big bro.
He already made a 2h guide on testosterone if you scroll down on his channel you will find it he's shirtless on the thumbnail
Hamza, you're probably not gonna see this comment but I would like to thank you because, firstly you helped me, but my bestfriend was going through a breakup and (call me an asshole if you want ) I purposefully used that to get him in the gym and I am actively introducing self improvement tactics (cold approach, making money with me, ect.). Thank you and may God bless you soul.
probably the realest video on this topic!!!
Hey Hamza, been watching you for a long time. Make a video on how to fight and how to stop bullies that can’t be stopped through yelling or telling the teacher or any other way.
Thank you Hamza. Your process for breaking a fap addiction is so helpful.
I love these guides❤ please help us all improve upon the different aspects of masculinity
Hamza you’re the best
jesus is king ✝️✝️
Yup ☦️
Kanye🗣🗣🗣
He is
Yes, he is!
Yes he is
I've got a similar Chad friend. I will copy him, I already did in a few ways, and it works really good.
Love the new style of content, so much value!!!
To everyone reading this, what helped me is just treat everyone like your guy friends, just dont be as racist as you are with them. (Dont lie we all are racist with our friends no matter your ethnicity.)Treat them like your guy friends, and if you know that you want something with one special person just show it to them partial dont show too much attention but also treat them different then anyone else.
MORE FULL GUIDES!!!!!!
GOATZA>>>>
Exactly what I needed.
I got two wedding ceremonies the next 2 days.
Will approach girls and keep you guys updated here.
Update Chad…
@@gsx.0018 It was a success, got 4 girl's phone numbers, chatting everyday on whatsapp for 10-15 mins. (no friendship talking)
I’d really like to see a full guide on how to stand up for yourself
gonna talk to a girl tommorow at school who has a crush on me, thanks hamza.
I aint gay but i still love you
Bro give me the update on what happened.
Good luck G. I'm rooting for you.
Bro your profile picture made me rember good old Minecraft UA-cam era when everybody had this pfp and we all were like 12-13 years old... So lovely
thanks hamza
make a video about cold approach ?
Thanks a lot bro !
I think an important point to understand is: Choose a woman who chooses you.
I recently forced myself into liking a girl in my school, so that I could ”train the skill of asking girls out on dates.” I essentially wanted to get close with her and then ask her out. After a little bit of exchanged texts and conversations, it became clear she doesn’t like me. Her personality in general seemed very incompatible to mine from the get go. Even like the most intricate details like mannerisms, humor style and all that stuff (that’s already not considering values, long term goals, morals) of hers was drastically different to mine (not that that’s bad).
But I kept trudging through the snow, thinking “I gotta at least ask out one girl this year.”
Don’t do that. I think that’s stupid.
Absolutely valuable guide bro, you help us all, God bless you Hamza bro.
Can you do one for last minute resistance and how to sleep with a girl..... like all those PUA strategies and stuff?
Bro i'm so grateful for your videos and advices , I was on self improvement like last year and lost track, stopped some good habits, and you are putting me back on my feet right now. Thank you so much hamza
Much better than the soyjaks and the Jeffries, just high-quality information.
Don't objectify or alienize women, we're all human beings, that should be the basis
These slides are 🔥🔥
1 like = 1 push-up, and I’ll post a video ⚡️ (24hr limit)
Keep up the good work I wish if I watched your channel before
Finally Hamza has realized that socializing is critical self-improvement
Watched it all felt fast
This Video is at the Perfect timing, I had a First meet up some days ago, i thought it was good and shii, i texted her again and been left on delivered for 8 Hours Now, so thank You like always hamza
I discovered your channel in May 2022. I am less awkward around men but I struggle with girls. I still have thoughts in my mind that I don't need to talk to girls because I'd rather focus on my hobbies like drawing and also God. I am also 22 and in college. I see girls I am attracted to in campus but too afraid to talk to them. I think it is because I lack confidence since I am skinny-fat 120 pounds and 5'6" I am also short and brown so I think that I am unattractive. I also feel like I have to self improve first and then talk to girls when I gain the confidence to do so. I still have a lot of work to do because I have no income and I am too anxious to deal with people and I need to overcome pmo. I did make a lot of progress compared to previous years when coming to my pmo 'addiction'.
Go on the George Janko show, Hamza!
Great video as always , well dome hamza ✅
DO THE HARDWORK ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU DONT FEEL LIKE IT
From Bangladesh
How is no one talking about how he had surgery for asymmetric ears even tho he said hes proud of his insecuritys
Hamza can u make a vid of u cold approaching girls please
Thumbs up if you're love language is physical touch. 🙏
#Masculine
How do you always make videos with precise accurate topics
1000hours plus of recording , reading books, etc. Also clean diet so zero brain fog
Hamza, you should make a full guide on being a good son.
3rd one is gold
To any awkward young man finding himself, get you a Levi! Get you a black friend to party with. You will learn his confidence and his style of dress fast and that is what the ladies love! 💯
I would probably be volunteering and writing (poems and maybe even books)
"So, first of all - get an ear surgery"
A very inspiring video for young men
Before, if we didn't get prestige and respect from other men in real life, we became obsessed with being worthy of it, but now in today's era we have streaks of nofap in discord names "120 days" which means prestige or whatever shit
The proggresed the relationship part is what got me to wake up this is why i got rejected ultiple times because i would keep staring at girls and imagineing like how it would be to be her boyfriend or smth and kept knowing things bat her when she doesnt even know who tf i am
8:00 about Porn I would say that people should get some other things to do, like I've noticed that I mostly fap when Im bored or have nothing to do.
Thank you in advance❤
hamza u need to make ur facecam bigger.
thank you hamza
no fap was really hard at the start even with progressively deloading but now i just pray in the morning and i havent fapped for like 30+ days i have lost count tbh. Stop worrying about no fap, Give your worries to god and he will fight your battle.
Hamza is forgetting to put the link in the description second time 😨
Who would have guessed powerpoint is the way to go. It genially works.
1:27 lead magnet
I believe raising or training animals that are otherwise difficult to discipline or train may bring insight on how to raise a child.
Especially raising a child to be on Self-Improvement.
I’m an animal lover, but I know they stink and trash houses and your life may not be suitable for having an animal.
But living with a farmer for a few months may bring insight how to raise your children in the future.
Cats and horses are a perfect example, cats don’t understand discipline. Meaning the best way to train them or raise them to do a desired behavior is through positive reinforcement. Dry Creek Wrangler trains horses that are difficult and stubborn, by always providing two options to give the horse a choice
He knows what we young men needs
Amazing video
Before beginning the vid boys,
Breathe!!!
I'm pretty sure it's in the guide as well
i am a man but i want to kiss you with my lips hamza, i cant express my gratitude for you in words. I am so grateful for these long form unedited video you are uploading. please do not stop hamza. I love you
Sound gay but I agree with you xd
Bro wtf 💀💀💀
This is kinda zesty bro😂
bro
Alr bro..
Love from India broo 🇮🇳💖
Where is "Full Giude to cold approaching women" video? In this video its said that it is 40 minute long
I can't find it no matter how hard I try
wow i wanted this video
Much needed , genuinely
Hey there. I have a few genuine questions regarding cold approach that I still struggle with and I often get mixed answers to.
- What do I do if a very attractive woman is let's say at the same bus stop with me but she has earphones in. Is it better to leave her alone since earphones often signal "leave me alone" or should I approach her in a respectful friendly way? She can still say no but if you don't do it you are most likely missing out on a great chance.
It's still hard to believe that women (generally speaking) like being cold approached by a strange man they don't know. Do you have any opinions to share on this?
I have a 80 day meditation streak on medito
Bro make a full testosterone guide 🙏🙏
He did
The first picture 😭😭😭
5th year medical student here. Underwent varicoele surgery same as you a couple of weeks ago myself. Just wondering what the outcome (regarding spermogram, fertility etc) has been for you since living a healthy lifestyle including avoiding cancerogenic materials etc?
I also have vericocele and I am having infertility problems, please give me some advice
What if I'm awkward around anyone?