10 Things I Wish I Knew Before Having a Breast Reduction | 1 Year Post Op

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  • Опубліковано 21 гру 2024

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  • @terfree1
    @terfree1 День тому +45

    I do not have need for a breast reduction, but I found your video very informative. I'm sure many women will appreciate all your insight into the process. Thank you for being brave and sharing your journey.

  • @ThatPlacefkaNebraskaBugeater
    @ThatPlacefkaNebraskaBugeater День тому +24

    Thank you for being so candid. I'll bet you've helped a lot of people by being so brave, vulnerable, and open about health struggles and treatment.

  • @my3sneezes
    @my3sneezes День тому +19

    Got mine in 2003. BEST THING I EVER DID FOR MYSELF. no regrets

  • @Larry-qw3rp
    @Larry-qw3rp День тому +23

    What a brave video Kiva. You look fantastic.

  • @sisselpaulsrud3733
    @sisselpaulsrud3733 День тому +21

    I do not regret my breast reduction - I would do it again 10 times! I had suffered enough and was emotionally prepared. But of course, there are some months of adjustment. Worth it!

    • @KivaBrent
      @KivaBrent  День тому +2

      Exactly!! So well said :)

    • @bestboomer2573
      @bestboomer2573 День тому +1

      Did one. Don’t regret in the least.

  • @adrabruzzese7610
    @adrabruzzese7610 День тому +11

    You are amazing to share on such a personal subject. You look so much lighter, I dont mean lighter in weight just lighter like you can breathe easier and happier. Glad the surgery was a success.

  • @janicerepass6996
    @janicerepass6996 День тому +12

    This is a great, honest, frank discussion. I am so happy you are happy with the way you look. That, my friend, is worth everything!!

  • @MaryMary-gn3in
    @MaryMary-gn3in День тому +28

    You are so sweet and honest. The truth is. always good. Real is you.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @KivaBrent
      @KivaBrent  День тому +2

      Aw thank you!! You’re too sweet :)

  • @keeshabu
    @keeshabu День тому +16

    Wait! Its been a year??!! Wow time is moving too fast. Congrats on the baby. You'll be a wonderful mommy. Happy Holiday's to you, your family and everyone watching!!

  • @rosalyndavis9635
    @rosalyndavis9635 7 годин тому +1

    You’ve ALWAYS told us the truth about home stuff.
    We’ve trusted ourselves to laugh with you and to trust you.
    This personal sharing is so important and appreciated, Kiva. ❤

  • @krisy-in-italy
    @krisy-in-italy 19 годин тому +3

    I had to wait until 60 to have my breast reduction. Almost 70 now and I am still so happy! I had wanted one since I was 13 years old. I was already a full C then and it only got worse. It was so refreshing to have people finally look me in the eyes when speaking to me. I had no idea that was even a thing. 😅

  • @AutumnReid659
    @AutumnReid659 День тому +7

    I have breast cancer and I really struggled to find a comfortable bra post op. I found the honeylove wireless bras are the most comfortable for me.

  • @kb-gb2dm
    @kb-gb2dm День тому +8

    Thanks for sharing such a personal story including before and after pix. I admire you.

  • @jennifergermain286
    @jennifergermain286 День тому +4

    Thank you for posting this Kiva! I’ve wanted a breast reduction since high school. Currently on my weight loss journey and then plan to finally have it done at 48 years old. I’m scared! The scaring is a very big concern for me. As are the drains. Thank you for being so candid. You have just reassured me that even though it will be a process, it will 100% be worth it in the end.

  • @hindes5509
    @hindes5509 День тому +8

    I've had two and I am super happy! Thank you for making this video. And you look WONDERFUL!

    • @KdogBites
      @KdogBites День тому

      I had two, years apart, as well. Best decisions ever!

  • @EdelweisSusie
    @EdelweisSusie 14 годин тому +2

    To anyone even remotely contemplating this - go for it! Best thing I ever did, and had I known of a good surgeon I’d have done it 40 years ago and saved myself a life of misery. No pain whatsoever post-surgery, just couldn’t carry anything heavy for a few weeks - I was back at work 3 days later!! Don’t live in misery like me.

  • @darlazoch1309
    @darlazoch1309 12 годин тому +1

    I love that you’re so open and honest with this personal journey….you’re helping so many people!! Why not let this be your comfortable bra ERA…!.?❤

  • @cynthiaanderson-morrisette2825
    @cynthiaanderson-morrisette2825 21 годину тому +3

    You look great Kiva, glad you're happy! ☺️

  • @angelab7542
    @angelab7542 День тому +5

    You look amazing!!! I had a double mastectomy a year ago with reconstruction. Although that was a different beast, when you mentioned those drains!!!! OMG!!! GURL!!! THOSE drains haunt me.😂 I can laugh now. But i remember crying because they hurt so bad some days. A lot of how you described the process was so relatable on so many levels!!! Thanks for sharing.❤

  • @deborahmurphy5316
    @deborahmurphy5316 15 годин тому +1

    I am happy for you,you look amazing.
    I just had a breast reduction,it’s been 5 weeks,I was in so much pain before I had it done ,no pain now loving the way I feel .
    Thank you for sharing your story,take care 🤗

  • @Joe-uy5mv
    @Joe-uy5mv День тому +3

    Thanks for being so vulnerable and sharing. I’m sure it wasn’t easy but it is a decision many of us have considered and it’s great to be better informed. You look incredible and I bet it feels life changing!

  • @clairevinet3557
    @clairevinet3557 День тому +5

    Dear Kiva I had a big problem with inflammation in my body.Because of this I want to share with you that I have done and doing Ketovore and Carnivore lifewtyle… Thank you for your total honesty of your procedure and experience.
    You are are love and appreciated.🤗🇨🇦💖🙏🏼

  • @MelanieWoolfe
    @MelanieWoolfe День тому +5

    Kiva, what a great video, I think soo many ladies are going to find this helpful! And can I say at the 5.50 mark when you’re wearing the white dress you are glowing with beauty and happiness! Thank you for bringing your joy to the world and Merry Christmas to you and your Family!

  • @M.Jsmile
    @M.Jsmile День тому +4

    wow now I understand more why you kinda broke down manic crying post surgery vlog. It was very hard for you to see the drastic changes and still see yourself. Glad you feel better and more comfortable with the new you. Thanks for sharing.

  • @kristinapreedy7069
    @kristinapreedy7069 День тому +5

    Thank you so much for being so vulnerable and sharing these details. I always watch you for your other content but also loved this video. ❤ I’m 62, 5’1” and have similar breast issues (38G); I wish the reduction surgeries had been as prevalent and people had openly discussed them when I was your age - I also think they contribute to my back issues. Not sure at this point if I’d do the reduction but your video was very informative. Congrats on taking the plunge and continued good health and happiness with your choices!

  • @julrox4044
    @julrox4044 3 години тому

    Kiva - you're so beautiful and such an inspiration! Thank you for sharing your experience. At 61 years old, I've been seriously thinking about breast reduction and your honesty has helped me so much. I'll probably be the oldest person to get a reduction, but there's no time like the present to make changes that will make me feel better.

  • @kimreese3530
    @kimreese3530 22 години тому +2

    I had breast reduction surgery and I wish someone had been so honest and given me insight before I had the surgery. I’m very happy I had surgery, but I wish I had someone give me a heads up about the details. You’re absolutely correct when you say the drains were the worst part.

  • @dagnolia6004
    @dagnolia6004 День тому +2

    thank you for your bravery in sharing this journey

  • @TGSHomeandGarden
    @TGSHomeandGarden День тому +8

    holly cow you are so tiny now! I didn't realize the reduction was going to make such a huge impact! I hope that it has made life infinitely easier for you, which in turn will make your motherhood journey easier.

    • @KivaBrent
      @KivaBrent  День тому +4

      Thank you!! It has been made life so much better :) When I carry her around, it’s like I didn’t have the reduction 😂😂

  • @nanjorgensen5524
    @nanjorgensen5524 День тому +2

    You are so right that it is helpful to others to discuss issues like breast reduction!! Thank you. I've always had sm-med breasts but have now had a lumpectomy and radiation. Even tho' the process, surgery , snd recovery is different for each woman no one give more personal support, helpful hints, and a listening ear like someone else who's been through it. We need to help each other, for iur health. ( I also often still wear my Haynes! It's comfort but also a finger to our society's artificial image of perfection.)

  • @kandm2597
    @kandm2597 15 годин тому +1

    Wow, I don't know how I found this, but a reduction is my #1 when I reach Medicare age, as right now I have only a healthshare program. I appreciate your transparency, and now I want to look into doing it right away...

  • @mamak2066
    @mamak2066 22 години тому

    Kiva , you are so real / authentic, vulnerable and brave. Thank you for sharing with us. You inspire me.

  • @peggymarshall5671
    @peggymarshall5671 23 години тому +1

    KB I’m 70 and want a breast reduction but I’m not sure at my age it’s worth the time and money. I do appreciate your very open, candid thoughts and points. 1 suggestion I have for you is to use castor oil on your scars. Just make sure it’s organic, cold pressed, and in a brown Glass bottle. I use it daily as a moisturizer on my face. As a moisturizer after a shower on legs and arms. Research the benefits of using castor oil you will be shocked. Love you and all your great videos. ❤❤

  • @susanelizabeth1724
    @susanelizabeth1724 16 годин тому +1

    BEST decision I ever was able to do! My biggest problems or saggy my breast were from giving birth and breastfeeding.
    Luckily Insurance covered it for me but it required for me to go down dramatically. Which I don’t even care.
    Cause I love my new ones!

  • @beckyhiggins3144
    @beckyhiggins3144 День тому +1

    Oh thank you so much for sharing your experience!! It’s so helpful to have you do a show and tell- I don’t know anyone who has had the same problem with breast size. I wish I had gotten the surgery a long time ago… now I don’t know… I might be too old. However watching your videos is so encouraging that I will bring it up with my MD at my annual exam. Thank you again. (I love ALL your videos. ) 💕💕💕

  • @jlbnerdy
    @jlbnerdy День тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your experience & educating us! Its so helpful for researching procedures & nice to see a real person I trust to share their experiences.

  • @Bayleebutton
    @Bayleebutton 13 годин тому

    I am so happy for you!and thank you for being so vulnerable 🥺❤️❤️

  • @Sa_bribri
    @Sa_bribri День тому +1

    You look absolutely AMAZING!!! Thank you so much for sharing your journey!!

  • @user-yy4fo9mw7w
    @user-yy4fo9mw7w День тому +1

    Congratulations KB! You seem really happy and confident. Also totally beautiful sans makeup. Thank you for sharing your story. ❤

  • @cvonsutphen
    @cvonsutphen День тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your story and being so open and vulnerable about the process. *Inspiring* !

  • @YRMW1983
    @YRMW1983 День тому +5

    I'm a FF/G and while for now I'm still okay with how they look, I've started experiencing a lot of pain (shoulder and back) and discomfort in the past year. And the funny thing is I've lost weight since I've been on my running journey this year, but my boobs have stayed the same size (I swear they feel heavier too).
    I've only very recently considered a breast reduction (especially if its continuing to impact my day to day life). But it's very early stages and I'm still gathering information.. So thank you for the video, its been very, very helpful!

  • @cindysteffens8065
    @cindysteffens8065 День тому +2

    I love your honesty. This was very interesting. ❤❤❤

  • @LostZucchini
    @LostZucchini День тому +2

    You look great! Im glad you are happy and more comfortable. I hope you continue to heal to 100% very soon.

  • @stephaniegermain2088
    @stephaniegermain2088 День тому +1

    Love it. You look beautiful in all your tops and dresses in this video. Thank you for sharing your journey.

  • @reggie9334
    @reggie9334 День тому +5

    Thank you for this video. ❤

  • @fionaatkins
    @fionaatkins День тому +1

    Thanks so much for sharing. I'm not looking to have a breast reduction but was very interested to hear your journey.
    I think you look great, and I'm glad it was all worth it for you.

  • @amkii2
    @amkii2 День тому +2

    Your results look so natural and perfect on you!! So glad you're happy.

  • @Larry-qw3rp
    @Larry-qw3rp День тому +2

    Good for you on making an amazing health decision for yourself. You are beautiful inside and out. ❤. Merry Christmas to you and your family.

  • @CherylWSW
    @CherylWSW День тому +1

    Kiva you look amazing!! Very brave of you to share your journey with the world.
    I am sure your honesty will help many others contemplating the surgery 😁
    Wishing you, Babe and baby a beautiful holiday together 🥰

  • @delmorrow896
    @delmorrow896 День тому +3

    Brave and beautiful. Thank you for your courage and honesty.

    • @KivaBrent
      @KivaBrent  День тому +1

      Thanks so much for watching!!

  • @bogieboog
    @bogieboog День тому +1

    Thank you for the honest deep dive on this surgery you look great and its very helpful to understand the procedure and the outcome-plus you are very funny and relatable! You addressed all the issues i had questions about although for me I would want a breast lift. Definitely major surgery.

  • @sheriherrington8239
    @sheriherrington8239 День тому +1

    The breast reduction makes you look so much slimmer. You look great!

  • @sandrateal8723
    @sandrateal8723 19 годин тому

    Youve really well Kiva and i appreciate you sharing your experience for a very personal experience.

  • @lalaxo1570
    @lalaxo1570 19 годин тому

    Wow.. Kiva.. I would just like to echo what your UA-cam family is saying in the comments.. Thank you for this wonderful video! So much respect to you for sharing your experience! I am so happy you are happy with your decision and outcome. Much love and thanks to you..

  • @RescueNinjaKris10
    @RescueNinjaKris10 День тому +2

    You are so adorable. I have been talking about getting a reduction since I was a teenager. My surgeon wanted me to lose some weight. before I have my reduction. So probably next year sometime. Thank you so much for sharing your story. I truly appreciate you.

  • @keishab2056
    @keishab2056 14 годин тому

    What a great, informative video. Thank you for sharing!

  • @traceyonthego6618
    @traceyonthego6618 23 години тому

    Thanks so much Kiva for sharing your experience! I’m scheduled to have surgery in February. I’ve been wanting to do it for over 20 years but chickened out! I appreciate this insight! You look great!🙌🏽
    Happy holidays!🎄

  • @eiffeljacques5426
    @eiffeljacques5426 День тому +2

    You look lovely. Love yourself the way you are. It's your beautiful heart that counts.

  • @susanfindell6154
    @susanfindell6154 День тому +1

    You’re so cool! I like your channel, a great variety of subjects 😊

  • @cindylake7193
    @cindylake7193 21 годину тому

    Kiva I am SO so happy for you and your decision. I think you definitely look better with the reduction. Thank you for sharing. ❤ you.

  • @juliemkphotography9279
    @juliemkphotography9279 День тому

    I'm so happy for you Kiva! I love your content, keep it up!

  • @DeeKayy1016
    @DeeKayy1016 День тому +1

    I appreciate you sharing this so much! Thank you!

  • @Marie-oy1jc
    @Marie-oy1jc 17 годин тому

    Thank you so much for sharing your journey. I have been thinking about getting one and this was so helpful. You look amazjng!!

  • @barbiec4312
    @barbiec4312 День тому +4

    100% GORGEOUS!❤❤

  • @nanbone83
    @nanbone83 День тому

    Thank you so much, Kiva, for sharing your experience- you look fantastic 😊 love you and your channel!

  • @Poisenivy5
    @Poisenivy5 20 годин тому

    Thank you so much for sharing ❤ youve always been so beautiful and just thank you again so much for sharing!

  • @vikkistutzman4712
    @vikkistutzman4712 День тому

    You look amazing and I'm glad you feel so good about it and can help others now!

  • @pjg6019
    @pjg6019 День тому +4

    You are a strong, courageous, beautiful woman.

  • @janetingacollins6409
    @janetingacollins6409 14 годин тому

    You look great!! I feel ya with the hate for surgical drains. I had them for an ankle surgery and they were awful 😖

  • @jpeterson8235
    @jpeterson8235 День тому +1

    I had a reduction and would do it again if needed. It was an outpatient surgery - very little pain- could not wear an underwire bra for 6 months . My clothes look better- I feel fabulous- my lifestyle is much more active because they're not bouncing around and getting in the way. I have two friends that had implants and had to get them redone twice- then decided due to health issues to get them removed. Large breasts are not easy to deal with either way- implants or just big breasts .

  • @robingoldstein7909
    @robingoldstein7909 День тому +1

    I had one when I was 20 and couldn’t be happier. I had it done in 1988 and things are done differently now. It does take awhile to readjust to the changes. You look fabulous ❤❤. I just wish he made me smaller. 😉

  • @deritaratcliffe4592
    @deritaratcliffe4592 День тому +2

    I had mine in 1997. I imagine they are soooooooooo much better now but I don't and have never regretted anything--except not doing it sooner! I was able to wear normal bras after 3 months or so. Definitely remember the cone phase.

  • @jannettwebster8787
    @jannettwebster8787 День тому

    Kiva thank you for sharing your experience with us. I am thinking about getting a breast reduction and you have made my decision quite easy ❤️ Happy Holidays to you and your family 🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄❤️

  • @msjenkins
    @msjenkins День тому +1

    Chile you look amazing!!!!! And shout out to that there tattoo! It's beautiful!!!

  • @LynsAlteredArts
    @LynsAlteredArts День тому +2

    You look great and I’m so happy you’re happy with it. I knew someone that had I think she was on her third breast reduction because they kept growing back. I had no idea, I don’t know if that’s hormonal or if your doctor ever said, that was a possibility. But I had no idea that could happen.

  • @SarahHomeDaily
    @SarahHomeDaily 6 годин тому

    kiva you look amazing. hope you and your family are doing well!

  • @createwithconfidence8094
    @createwithconfidence8094 День тому +2

    I had large breasts also. I had considered reduction. However. I found a lump and ended up with cancer in 2 quadrants on one. The cancer was driven by excess estrogen. So I made the choice of bilateral mastectomy with tissue reconstruction. The surgery failed on the cancer side but not on the other. I ended up removing the tissue and getting implants. Any surgeries around our bodies is tough! And yes, the drains are awful but necessary.

  • @MiVidaBellisima
    @MiVidaBellisima День тому +3

    I had a breast reduction in 2016 and my only advice is make sure that you do it AFTER you’re done having kids. I thought I didn’t want kids back then, but after I got married we decided to have one. My breasts went right back to their original size and even though I was happy with the surgery, there was so much internal damage to the milk ducts that breastfeeedikg was impossible (like drinking an ice cream milkshake through a straw) so I ended up pumping for 6 months (3x the work of nursing and you lose a LOT more sleep) until my mental health couldn’t handle it anymore…..
    TLDR folks: it’s great, you’re boobs are going to be perky and smaller with less shoulder and back pain. But it could cause some heartache if you have it when you’re not done having kids.

    • @MiVidaBellisima
      @MiVidaBellisima День тому +1

      *your

    • @YRMW1983
      @YRMW1983 День тому +1

      Helpful comment! I’ve been wondering about this

    • @RochelleLang
      @RochelleLang День тому

      I think she said her partner had the baby

  • @niccimerrow4922
    @niccimerrow4922 День тому

    Girl, your beautiful!! Rejoice

  • @marilynrich
    @marilynrich День тому +1

    You look fabulous! I also had a reduction. My nipples always show too. I bought some Cakes nipple covers and they take care of that issue. Give them a try. Get the large size. Nobody knows that you are wearing them. They are grippy and not sticky. All the best Kiva. ❤

  • @sarapanzarella97
    @sarapanzarella97 День тому +1

    Thank you for continuing to share this journey. The nipple thing happens to most women after breast feeding. That was one thing I was not prepared for after having my kids. I was like ‘that won’t happen to me’ - wrong wrong wrong. So annoying- have to always have some padding. The more I think about it the more I would like this done. You look great and very proportional. Tired of each of my boobs being bigger than my face LOL.

  • @ALMad04
    @ALMad04 День тому +2

    It’s a safe space and you are beautiful. You favor one of my daughters, so I may be a little biased.😂
    However, thank you for sharing, I am in the same position you were in. I am a H now and have considered reduction, but I have been scared. 🤷🏽‍♀️🤣🤣🤣

  • @ritab5620
    @ritab5620 День тому

    Thank you for sharing your journey.

  • @angelartistic3056
    @angelartistic3056 День тому

    You look fantastic!!! Do what makes you comfortable.

  • @loriwoodard6974
    @loriwoodard6974 День тому

    Good for you ! you are looking great. keep on keeping on

  • @boysrus2
    @boysrus2 День тому

    Wow, you look great! And you look thinner too. Happy Holidays to you, wife & little baby!

  • @talisacopeland1767
    @talisacopeland1767 18 годин тому

    You may be having a bad skin day but I couldn't tell. Your skin looks beautiful. Thank you so much for sharing your story it will help women make a decision about having the surgery. Your body looks gorgeous.

  • @margaretames6522
    @margaretames6522 День тому +2

    I had a friend who had a breast reduction and tubes tied. She called it a bubal-tubal.

  • @Joy-TX
    @Joy-TX День тому +2

    Well ,you look great. Is your back any better? Is it easier to carry the baby? Have a wonderful Christmas 💕

  • @tonda2.039
    @tonda2.039 День тому +2

    You look beautiful! So happy for you.

  • @Kwilt2collect
    @Kwilt2collect 22 години тому +1

    Surgery in 2021, went from HHH to DD. Don't wear a bra at all anymore, just undershirt & camisole.

  • @Emilygregoire9
    @Emilygregoire9 День тому +2

    I have a cups but I still found this video very informative, I work in the surgical department, and I've seen a few reductions, mastectomy, and I've seen implants. I'm not there for any aftercare, but I still like to know what patients are going through after surgery.

  • @velocitygirl8551
    @velocitygirl8551 День тому +3

    You look amazing 💖

  • @janaewulff6987
    @janaewulff6987 День тому

    Good for you, I think you look fabulous! If you're happy with your results then I call that a success!
    I'm large and one day hope to get the surgery. They're heavy and in my way! 😝

  • @ritabrightly7932
    @ritabrightly7932 День тому

    You're so awesome!!!!! What a great video. P.S. you're also quite loveable. I always enjoy your videos

  • @chucktownQT
    @chucktownQT День тому +2

    You look GOODT!! I had one and I looooove it!!!!! No drains were needed, and scars be damned. I couldn't hide that stomach anymore tho😂😂😂

  • @ccondotta9630
    @ccondotta9630 День тому

    Congratulations 🎉

  • @debrahill2272
    @debrahill2272 23 години тому

    Try using, cocoa butter and aquaphor for the scarring areas.... I had to buy expensive underwire bras and it was a visible difference in my wardrobe fittings..DDD..You looking amazing..😊

  • @susanacosta4423
    @susanacosta4423 День тому

    Kiva you look great!!

  • @StefaniOwen
    @StefaniOwen День тому

    You look amazing,good for you ❤