The first story is sickening. This is how life is! Animals have to eat each other for life to go on. If you wanna be vegan that's on you but wanting animals to go vegan is just too much 😃😐
Your friend is being who he is! Your the bad friend for not supporting them! To think your vicitmizing yourself s depressing. My friend dramatically changed from female to Male and I support them to whole way. They changed in outfits and personality but they are sooooo happy to be like this that it warms my heart and I find happiness in there happiness and if you don't. They need new friends..
Thats what I thought! I understand as well how tough it is for your friend to change into an entirely different person but we still share the same memories. Op kind of made it more awkward and sad for the guy friend because he just wants to be accepted. Idk, I feel like they could've handled it a bit better. . .
The one with your daughter in law crying? Not the a-hole, that’s not guilt tripping they sat you down, expected you to take it well even though it could easily damage your life? I wanna drop the student loans on your son and say, “I know I said I would pay your student loans, but you can’t really expect me to keep to that right?”
The one with the girlfriend and the budget: she’s totally in the wrong and the partner was very responsible in bringing it up and actually talking about it and making a budget.
The Alex one, I am a pangender human and you hold support them, just because they changed genders doesn't mean you can't do stuff like hanging out, they might change and so but everyone does eventually. Alex doesn't deserve a friend like you. Being friends with someone who changed their identity doesn't change your relationship. Heck, me and my friends changed our identities a lot trying to find who we are but we still support each other
it’s not like they don’t support Alex. I’m pretty sure Alex just doesn’t want to do the stuff they used to because it’s “feminine” or something. And they’re just upset because they want their group back, but since they don’t do the stuff they used to together the group has died.
For the trans one: your friend isn’t dead, they are just a different gender, they still have the same personality. If you can’t stand by that then leave their life, pretty simple.
The last story is absolutely ridiculous. If some of the friends couldnt see the band, it was their own fault. Not everyone else should hv to miss out. The friends should also understand that it is stupid to make others suffer for their mistake for absolutely no reason
For the trans gender one I felt so f ing mad at that because I have two trans friends and just because they may be different now and boys and girls doesn’t mean that “your old friend is dead” it means that they have changed to be more comfortable like changing into pajamas to go to sleep because it uncomfortable to sleep with rough clothes scratching at your skin. This was a total a hole move and you should be very disappointed in your self because of that. Just because someone is different doesn’t mean that you get to believe that they are new like a new kid it’s not ok. They will be the same unless they want to change.
Dude. You can do everything still. Just cause they’re trans doesn’t mean their gonna be a completely different person!! He’s still trying to hang out with you guys- Respect his pronouns please 🏳️⚧️
Still though she kinda made it clear that she was uncomfortable being friends with them because they changed and they also made it clear that they felt uncomfortable doing makeup etc with them because they changed and I can get that I had a trans friend they was a guy and we would do things that I was comfortable doing and they said they wanted to be a girl and convinced me to do girly stuff with them even though I’m a guy and don’t like doing stuff like that so I can get there point of view
I agree with all the other people about the trans one. Alex isn't a new person, he just finally accepted who he was, and I'm sure he was expecting support from his best friends, too. Also it's a little unfortunate that the narrator kept using they/them pronouns despite saying that Alex wanted to use he/him pronouns. I understand that they/them pronouns are universally gender neutral, but you should still respect people's pronouns if you know them. I feel super terrible for Alex, and I can't imagine anything like that. As a trans nonbinary male myself, I've been accepted by all my close friends and family (aside from grandparents), but I know that I would be crushed and inconsolable if my friends treated me like that after I came out. Coming out gender-wise was a lot tougher for me than sexuality-wise. I really hope that wherever Alex is, he's found better friends and people who accept him no matter who he is or who he turns out to be.
I like to use this phrase when I came out to someone, "you can't lose what you never had" you never lost Alexa because Alexa wasn't real, Alexa was a facade, he always wanted to be Alex.
i cannot STAND the trans one. as a transgender individual i feel incredibly hurt by this. your friend is not ''dead'' because they are not the gender you originally perceived them to be. that story completely disrespects and shames your friend for simply following their heart. you should have respected them and their decision. it is disappointing to see people like that. you should be disappointed in yourself and know how terrible it is to be acting like this. do you even understand how hurtful this is to other transgender people, let alone your friend? i'm glad you don't want to be friends anymore because they deserve someone better than you. that was seriously low.
as someone with trans friends, it made me sad to hear the story. When my friend came out as trans, he changed in an AMAZING way! If the friends won't love and accept the real person he is, then they dont deserv him
In certain ways she was being disrespectful, but in others, I think she was fine. From what she said, her friend changed a lot after the transition, and you can't blame her for not liking her friend as much, because apparently her friend just wasn't the same, and they couldn't do the same things anymore. But then again, if you don't like someone anymore, you just tell them without having them embarrass themselves by you not answering their friendship phrase. Oh, and didn't her friend go by he/him pronouns?-
i kinda hate that girl who was playing the victim in the situation where her friend transitioned to a guy(which i fully support and i love how brave the guy was for telling his friends), it’s honestly kind of transphobic how they just ignored him after he transitioned-
I feel so bad for Alex, his friends shouldn’t have just basically ghosted him like that, he isn’t a different person. Being trans doesn’t make you a completely different person you are still you and he probably just wanted to be treated like a human, but his friends don’t see him as their friend but as someone who died. I’m just honestly disgusted by how they treated him. He’s being who he is and they can’t accept so yes they are the assholes in that situation. By same person I don’t me they aren’t a boy they are still a girl, I mean they are still their friend they just identify as something different.
.... what do you mean that he is dead, he just became who he truly is adn if you dont accept him for who he truly is just beacuse of his gender then you have to get over yourself, also you used the wrong pro nouns it he/him and you used they/them
@@mistakemochi7134 Umm no, tf.. The channel liked almost all the comments talking abt how the friends were horrible by treating their trans friend like that..
They also used she her for them at the beginning and after learning Alex was trans I rewinded the video and covered up the she’s with he’s bc he is a guy now, and them being so rude just hurt me
The trans one, wtf??? Dude, the friend was just being themselves, "can't do the same things" well yeah maybe you can't do some of the hings you used to do, but you can still do the rest
Still though she kinda made it clear that she was uncomfortable being friends with them because they changed and they also made it clear that they felt uncomfortable doing makeup etc with them because they changed and I can get that I had a trans friend they was a guy and we would do things that I was comfortable doing and they said they wanted to be a girl and convinced me to do girly stuff with them even though I’m a guy and don’t like doing stuff like that so I can get there point of view
@@LeviAckerman-rb8fz still, all the other things though?? You can still go shopping, bake, etc. even though their friend isnt a female anymore they can still do stuff
With the transgender one, it is BS. I'm not saying that it is a lie, but what I am saying is that I am transgender, and have plenty of friends who knew me before I became a male. We did "girly" things when I was female, but we can still do plenty of things now. I still like having my hair played with, going shopping, and doing others/my nails, and baking. This story actually made me cry, as I have been rejected by others, who had the same problem as in the video. I am still trying to help for trans rights, and for people to give us respect, and to acknowledge our pronouns and feelings. So, to summarize, the person who did not even try to be kind or respectful to someone just because they can't do "girly" things is definitely the a hole, and Alex should learn that asking for respect shouldn't hurt. thank you for reading, and my advice is to be gay, and do crime. (don't do crime, just get a frog 🐸) 🏳️🌈 ❤️
I was trans for awhile, I'm once again a cis woman, but as someone who knows how being treated like Alex was feels, I completely agree with this comment I'm getting a frog when I move out
As a hypoglycemic person, you are not TA That teacher is LEGALLY required to give her an exception, or she will PASS OUT!! Pacing out is already bad, but for hypoglycemic people, if it’s bad enough, we could pass out and not wake up. That teacher deserved to be outed, and fired.
4:20 respect his pronouns not they He him And you could still do the same thing u used to do its extremely homophobic to even think that your not the a hole, you are. And if you can't respect his pronouns and see him the same then shame on you.
Homophobia is not respecting anyone in the Lgbtq+ community including trans non binary and other gender and sexuality Specific people not just the gay people but I understand the confusion and its fully understandable how this can be confusing but now you know (im not trying to say this in a mean way in just Trying to educate people about the lgbtq+ community)
@@pancake4698 But from all the dictionaries I've seen, it only ever mentioned homosexuality. And if it applied to the lgbtq community as a whole, why would there be different words for different prejudices against different kinds of members?
Still though she kinda made it clear that she was uncomfortable being friends with them because they changed and they also made it clear that they felt uncomfortable doing makeup etc with them because they changed and I can get that I had a trans friend they was a guy and we would do things that I was comfortable doing and they said they wanted to be a girl and convinced me to do girly stuff with them even though I’m a guy and don’t like doing stuff like that so I can get there point of view
The one about the person being trans all he did was change his pronouns and appearance and I know how he feels cause when I came out as non-binary my ex best friend acted like I was completely different and the thing is my personality hasn’t changed just my pronouns and she still is super pissy about it just remember just because they are trans gay or any part of the LGBTQIA+ does not mean they should be defriended everyone deserves love and yes EVERYONE so please don’t hate
For the one about best friends, I know plenty of transgender people who didn't completely change, plus there are plenty of movies for guy and girls alike to watch, guys can still get their nails and hair done, and of course they can bake cupcakes (Unless your friend doesn't want to do any of these, but still). I know change is hard, but I would hate for my best friends to think like this about me, just because I know who I want to be in life.
In the story about the grandmother being the nanny, I have to wonder if the daughter in-law does not like the mom in-law, or they have questioned the grandmother's way of raising the kids and that is why they decided to put the kids in daycare. Either that or someone guilt tripped them about having the grandmother being their nanny. Those are the only reasons I can think of for them to do that. I also find it strange that she is still paying the for her son's education. Unless she has another son it is weird that the son is not paying it himself. If he can have a wife and kids he should be able to pay for his own education.
For the last story about the band. If I was prepared and brought everything I needed so I could see my favorite band but my friends weren't and they told me I couldn't see the band if they couldn't, I'd be so upset. It's not my fault they didn't bring Ids so why should I have to suffer too? I would just go in without them and have a good time. It's there own fault for not being able to get in
4:00 As a trans person myself, use his pronouns and his name. It’s disrespectful not too and honestly you sound like a bad friend for not accepting him for who he is.
4:45 (I'm gonna be using "Your" and "You" a lot, it's targeted at the OP, not the reader of the post) Alexa isn't 'dead' Alex is still there. You just need to accept him. He is still trying to be your friend, which is obvious when seconds before you tell us that he tried to do the "besties for the resties" thing, and nobody, not even you, picked up on it. Alex came to you with a very important matter and instead of accepting him as who he is, you decided to stop hanging out with him because of what? Huh? Him coming out? It's still the same person, just now not 'hiding' under something they never related to!
All they did say stay true to themselves. And baking cupcakes seriously you can do this with anyone maybe sleepovers because of parents I don't see why but maybe but cupcakes
Me in the first story be like: person: you have to get rid of your cat me: i got news for you person: what? me: bye *slams door in face and locks* me: now what was i saying mittens? Oh yeah. That physcopath could never get a job with that issue. Also the fourth story the person has common sense. She should be able to have a snack due to her condition.
The first story: yes tons of vegans have cats.And I made me mad when she wanted the bf to go vegan just bc she was idk why it makes me mad. Leave her. Shes obviously toxic. I know it might be hard but plss leave her. 3rd story: just bc your friend is trans doesn't mean he's "dead" he's just a different gender. Also I might get I it's hard at the beginning bc you've none your friend to be that gender for a long time. And it's ok to feel a little sad but that doesn't mean yur friend is dead
For the trans friend one you are a really rude and mean person. Your calling him she and her and then you call him them.He was comfortable enough to tell you and you act so meanly. He was probably terrified and you act the way he feared you would. You should support him no matter what! That's not fair on what you did. Trans people deserve respect, and not rude criticism. They're humans too! 🏳️⚧️
the story about alex is just too nostalgic first of his pronouns are he/him y would u use they/them and he must have finally removed a huge pain of his chest after coming out to their friend group and he must have wanted to be himself y the hell would they make him feel guitly of it, as a trans guy i know how he must have felt and they dont wanna be friends becoz of his gender well he deserves better i hope his in a good place
This is the first time I got a video from your channel, and I really enjoyed the video until you got to the transgender story. I feel extremely sorry for Alex, and I really hope he got better friends. I have a friend who is struggling with their gender identity, but I'm gonna support them no matter what gender they are, why? Because they're still the same person. Alex may have changed his gender, and started acting in a way that made him feel happy, but he's still the same person that you and your other friends became friends with. This just makes me sad.
4:25 borderline transphobia. You are ignoring this guy's gender identity and just acting like it's a stupid phase! I have a trans friend who made a drastic change from FtM and i supported them throughout the whole process and still am, even tho your friend had the absolute courage to come out to you you KEPT using she/her pronouns in your story, as a real friend you should help and long for you friend's happiness and wellbeing instead of being a total a**hole because of ur friend's identity.
Okay, the trans one. As a transgender male this was very hard for me to listen to. I’m not trying to sound rude but you definitely did, as did all your friends. You need to be supportive of Alex and who he chooses to be. I know one of the only ways I was able to come out was because of my support system, if I didn’t have a good one, I would be lost trying to be someone I’m not. That story made me really angry at you and your friends, just because he’s trans does not mean his entire personality has changed, your friend did not die, he’s still as good, if not better, then he was before now that he’s working on figuring himself out. Again, support 👏 him 👏 please 👏
For the story about Alex, just because HE felt more comfortable as a boy, that doesn't mean that your old friend is dead. HE'S still your old friend, just with a different appearance and gender identity. Also, quit using the wrong pronouns. HE said to go by HE/HIM pronouns, not THEY/THEM pronouns.
For the trans story i completely disagree with the person who submitted the story. Alex isnt a new person he just finally was comfortable in his own skin! And with the things they said they couldnt do anymore yall can still do all of it just chose not to because your freind decided they wanted to feel like himself and not pretend hes something he just isnt! Its completely unacceptable behavior from the person who was supposed to be one of his closest friends
The trans one makes me mad Like he’s your best friend give him support and at least be supportive enough to finish the phrase like it’s just ‘for the resties’ it’s not hard to support the LGBTQ+ community especially if it’s your BEST friend that’s all he did was transition into a boy and change his name and pronouns the least you could do is finish the phrase
For the story about get the teacher fires I can say that as a person with a 504 I know that that teacher BY LAW has to abide by it. This one is extremely important to due to it being a 504 related to medical issues. So in conclusion that teacher deserved to be fired
1:12 would i be okay with it if it was human meat? imo i dont really see a diffrence its meat, while morally people see it as wrong to consume ones own species. its seen a lot in nature if an animal cant get food, they will canibalize their fellow species
too the person telling the 3rd story about there friend transitioning ((not the narrator)) you need to stop.. your friend is uncomfortable, and you think there a “new person” they just change there gender and name, you can attest try to help and then later stop the friendship if you are still uncomfortable, don’t just “ OH YEAH WHOLE NEW PERSON DONT LIKE EM ANYMORE”
I think on transgender one, honestly sometimes you can't do the same things with girls and guys. They should not have said they were dead but I get where they're coming from
For the first story you should be able to keep the cat. Cats are naturally carnivores and it seems you love her like a sibling or your own daughter so it’s not fair your girlfriend expects you give up your cat just because she lives off a carnivorous based diet
For the first story: can’t the same thing be turned back on her for plants? We too are technically eating alive organisms which would later be killed for our food. Fruits are the reproductive parts, the roots similar to the mouth, the leaves can be compared to the nose and so on. So, why does she eat fruits, roots (like potatoes) and leaves (like spinach)? And sprouts and literally baby plants! Would she eat baby humans?! And I know she could say that plants don’t feel a thing and can regrow but animals too can reproduce and dead animals (killed instantly and quickly to make it not hurt/hurt less ) won’t feel a thing either. Being a vegan is good and we should avoid hurting other animals since we can afford it but a cat, a carnivore, has no other choice. It’s either eat meat or die. And a dead cat, in the name of protecting other animals, is frikin pointless. And all this is coming from a vegetarian thinking about going completely vegan.
The story time of the type one diabetic girl the teacher is an a hole the girl could have passed out and the mother is a good mother and just looking out for her child
As a trans person, the Alex one is making me sick and I’m not even completely done with listening to it. You’re friend isn’t dead, he is being who he is and you have absolutely no right to be against that. The fact that the idiot does not even use he/him pronouns makes it even worse.
All your friend did was just being himself like y'all can still paint nails, watch movies, etc together. It's not like their dead. He found himself and you guys if your supportive best friends then y'all will support stop acting like he died
How come you can't bake cupcakes with them or watch movies or go shopping or or other things he he's your friend and you should support him so I think you're the bad friend I bet that took guts for him for him to tell you guys and now you do this you're a bad friend
I have many trans freinds and even a few family members who are Trans, when they transitioned they didn't do a complete 180 and become a whole new person, the only difference was their name and pronouns, that lady and her freinds disgust me
I can see that but if I'm able to call my brother the correct pronouns and his new named after him coming out as trans only last year and I've never miss gendered nor dead named him once it just shows that people are really really slow at accepting things and the story is a prime example there's still the same person no matter what they just finally opened up and learned that they can trust their friends the most
FIRST IF ALL I OWN A CAT his name is Simon he eats animals because he has to eat predators have to eat that’s what prey is for so don’t take the dumb prey’s side think of the predators that are staving because people take away their food and if your girlfriend really Care about animals she would care of predators too
4:10 This sounds really transphobic :( no matter what besties are still besties! just because they have changed to what they are comfortable with does not mean they are dead. this sounds like an asshole situation.
The second story is extremely transphobic and sick they are really evil to have said that he is not the same person he is the same person but not in the same body !
WTF THAT BEUTIFULL MAN IS A MAN AND HE DIDNT CHANGE JUST BECAUSE HE CHANGED HIS IDENTITY! HES THE SAME PERSON! As a transmasc person, its really upsetting and angering to hear this kind of talk. If somebody changes their gender, name, and pronouns, you have to respect them, and you have to see that they are the same person, but just the version they were always mean to be, the version they always knew they were.
4:00 to 4:54 is just disrespectful, you cant say your best friend is "dead" just because they decided to change. Honestly that person who thought their friend was "dead" needs some help, also yes you are the ______
Isn't one pf these storytimes just transphobia- like just bcz ur friend is a guy doesn't mean u can't bake cupcakes with him, and when he specifies that he uses he/him prns, u should respect him! And Alexa isn't dead. He's still the same person, he just feels more valid this way! And a non binary person, I just got so pissed off
The first story is sickening. This is how life is! Animals have to eat each other for life to go on. If you wanna be vegan that's on you but wanting animals to go vegan is just too much 😃😐
Plus most dog and cat food isn't even pure meat it's grain
I'm vegan and my dog only eats meat, he's pretty healthy and happy. so... I'd never make him eat something that wouldn't make him full and happy.
@@chereeqiisdiary exactly ✔
@@chereeqiisdiary respect x4
Enforcing your partner to go vegan is just wrong I mean your partner has their own life as well you should respect others
Your friend is being who he is! Your the bad friend for not supporting them! To think your vicitmizing yourself s depressing. My friend dramatically changed from female to Male and I support them to whole way. They changed in outfits and personality but they are sooooo happy to be like this that it warms my heart and I find happiness in there happiness and if you don't. They need new friends..
Thats what I thought! I understand as well how tough it is for your friend to change into an entirely different person but we still share the same memories. Op kind of made it more awkward and sad for the guy friend because he just wants to be accepted. Idk, I feel like they could've handled it a bit better. . .
I've heard this story time multiple times and I just realized they miss gendered and kinda dead named them throughout the whole thing.
They literally are transphobic
Alexa was dead. Alexa isn’t who Alex is. OPS BFF wasn’t Alexa to begin with. He was Alex all along
@@Yourlocaltrashgoblin im happy! all people should be happy !
Yeah, the friend group Alex is in is Hella transphobic and toxic. He needs new friends.
The one with your daughter in law crying? Not the a-hole, that’s not guilt tripping they sat you down, expected you to take it well even though it could easily damage your life? I wanna drop the student loans on your son and say, “I know I said I would pay your student loans, but you can’t really expect me to keep to that right?”
The one with the girlfriend and the budget: she’s totally in the wrong and the partner was very responsible in bringing it up and actually talking about it and making a budget.
The Alex one, I am a pangender human and you hold support them, just because they changed genders doesn't mean you can't do stuff like hanging out, they might change and so but everyone does eventually. Alex doesn't deserve a friend like you. Being friends with someone who changed their identity doesn't change your relationship. Heck, me and my friends changed our identities a lot trying to find who we are but we still support each other
it’s not like they don’t support Alex.
I’m pretty sure Alex just doesn’t want to do the stuff they used to because it’s “feminine” or something. And they’re just upset because they want their group back, but since they don’t do the stuff they used to together the group has died.
For the trans one: your friend isn’t dead, they are just a different gender, they still have the same personality. If you can’t stand by that then leave their life, pretty simple.
The last story is absolutely ridiculous. If some of the friends couldnt see the band, it was their own fault. Not everyone else should hv to miss out. The friends should also understand that it is stupid to make others suffer for their mistake for absolutely no reason
For the trans gender one I felt so f ing mad at that because I have two trans friends and just because they may be different now and boys and girls doesn’t mean that “your old friend is dead” it means that they have changed to be more comfortable like changing into pajamas to go to sleep because it uncomfortable to sleep with rough clothes scratching at your skin. This was a total a hole move and you should be very disappointed in your self because of that. Just because someone is different doesn’t mean that you get to believe that they are new like a new kid it’s not ok. They will be the same unless they want to change.
I made me so mad as well
Same
The person who was telling the story didn’t even use he/him pronouns and instead used they
Agreed
I know like yall can do the same thing like maybe she wouldn't want to.
Dude. You can do everything still. Just cause they’re trans doesn’t mean their gonna be a completely different person!! He’s still trying to hang out with you guys-
Respect his pronouns please 🏳️⚧️
But it seems that he was a different person
@@gunforall6247 they sound like they were acting the same when the wrote it they were trying to do the besties thing
i agree!
Still though she kinda made it clear that she was uncomfortable being friends with them because they changed and they also made it clear that they felt uncomfortable doing makeup etc with them because they changed and I can get that I had a trans friend they was a guy and we would do things that I was comfortable doing and they said they wanted to be a girl and convinced me to do girly stuff with them even though I’m a guy and don’t like doing stuff like that so I can get there point of view
@@LeviAckerman-rb8fz ✨Use he/him pronouns for him please✨
I agree with all the other people about the trans one. Alex isn't a new person, he just finally accepted who he was, and I'm sure he was expecting support from his best friends, too. Also it's a little unfortunate that the narrator kept using they/them pronouns despite saying that Alex wanted to use he/him pronouns. I understand that they/them pronouns are universally gender neutral, but you should still respect people's pronouns if you know them. I feel super terrible for Alex, and I can't imagine anything like that. As a trans nonbinary male myself, I've been accepted by all my close friends and family (aside from grandparents), but I know that I would be crushed and inconsolable if my friends treated me like that after I came out. Coming out gender-wise was a lot tougher for me than sexuality-wise. I really hope that wherever Alex is, he's found better friends and people who accept him no matter who he is or who he turns out to be.
Alexa isn’t “dead” .Alex is alive.
Alex is alive and strong (i hope)
Exactly! You didn’t lose Alexa, you gained Alex
I like to use this phrase when I came out to someone, "you can't lose what you never had" you never lost Alexa because Alexa wasn't real, Alexa was a facade, he always wanted to be Alex.
i cannot STAND the trans one. as a transgender individual i feel incredibly hurt by this. your friend is not ''dead'' because they are not the gender you originally perceived them to be. that story completely disrespects and shames your friend for simply following their heart. you should have respected them and their decision. it is disappointing to see people like that. you should be disappointed in yourself and know how terrible it is to be acting like this. do you even understand how hurtful this is to other transgender people, let alone your friend? i'm glad you don't want to be friends anymore because they deserve someone better than you. that was seriously low.
as someone with trans friends, it made me sad to hear the story. When my friend came out as trans, he changed in an AMAZING way! If the friends won't love and accept the real person he is, then they dont deserv him
I literally ranted to my friend over that girls homophobia
Ik that’s so rude (from a trans person) I can’t believe it
In certain ways she was being disrespectful, but in others, I think she was fine. From what she said, her friend changed a lot after the transition, and you can't blame her for not liking her friend as much, because apparently her friend just wasn't the same, and they couldn't do the same things anymore. But then again, if you don't like someone anymore, you just tell them without having them embarrass themselves by you not answering their friendship phrase. Oh, and didn't her friend go by he/him pronouns?-
@@gunforall6247 No, she was being very disrespectful and rude.
i kinda hate that girl who was playing the victim in the situation where her friend transitioned to a guy(which i fully support and i love how brave the guy was for telling his friends), it’s honestly kind of transphobic how they just ignored him after he transitioned-
I feel so bad for Alex, his friends shouldn’t have just basically ghosted him like that, he isn’t a different person. Being trans doesn’t make you a completely different person you are still you and he probably just wanted to be treated like a human, but his friends don’t see him as their friend but as someone who died. I’m just honestly disgusted by how they treated him. He’s being who he is and they can’t accept so yes they are the assholes in that situation.
By same person I don’t me they aren’t a boy they are still a girl, I mean they are still their friend they just identify as something different.
You give up mittens I give up eating.
Jk, eating is never ending
Am I the only one that focused more on the Marshmallows then the story 😬
Your really not
.... what do you mean that he is dead, he just became who he truly is adn if you dont accept him for who he truly is just beacuse of his gender then you have to get over yourself, also you used the wrong pro nouns it he/him and you used they/them
notice how the channel only liked the comments without the stuff going against the homophobes
@@mistakemochi7134 ?
@@mistakemochi7134 Umm no, tf.. The channel liked almost all the comments talking abt how the friends were horrible by treating their trans friend like that..
@@Emikkuma your fricken late when I got here nothing about them going off about the trans story was liked
They also used she her for them at the beginning and after learning Alex was trans I rewinded the video and covered up the she’s with he’s bc he is a guy now, and them being so rude just hurt me
The trans one, wtf??? Dude, the friend was just being themselves, "can't do the same things" well yeah maybe you can't do some of the hings you used to do, but you can still do the rest
100% true
Still though she kinda made it clear that she was uncomfortable being friends with them because they changed and they also made it clear that they felt uncomfortable doing makeup etc with them because they changed and I can get that I had a trans friend they was a guy and we would do things that I was comfortable doing and they said they wanted to be a girl and convinced me to do girly stuff with them even though I’m a guy and don’t like doing stuff like that so I can get there point of view
@@LeviAckerman-rb8fz still, all the other things though?? You can still go shopping, bake, etc. even though their friend isnt a female anymore they can still do stuff
With the transgender one, it is BS. I'm not saying that it is a lie, but what I am saying is that I am transgender, and have plenty of friends who knew me before I became a male. We did "girly" things when I was female, but we can still do plenty of things now. I still like having my hair played with, going shopping, and doing others/my nails, and baking. This story actually made me cry, as I have been rejected by others, who had the same problem as in the video. I am still trying to help for trans rights, and for people to give us respect, and to acknowledge our pronouns and feelings. So, to summarize, the person who did not even try to be kind or respectful to someone just because they can't do "girly" things is definitely the a hole, and Alex should learn that asking for respect shouldn't hurt. thank you for reading, and my advice is to be gay, and do crime. (don't do crime, just get a frog 🐸) 🏳️🌈 ❤️
Iv been asking for a frog
@@bubblebeez4196 You are amazing
@@I_love_chez_42 he said that they might change their name to Ace because it’s a nickname so now imma call him that :)
@@bubblebeez4196 ✨🐸amazing🐸✨
I was trans for awhile, I'm once again a cis woman, but as someone who knows how being treated like Alex was feels, I completely agree with this comment
I'm getting a frog when I move out
“Honestly having friends is hard im too selfish for it” cheers mate ill drink to that
I’m ready for the 547th video of the day to watch! I enjoy watching these videos!!!
Uwaaaah the frog marshmallows is sooo cute 🥺🥺
the teacher is acting like its an inconvenience for their student not to pass out 🤡
As a hypoglycemic person, you are not TA
That teacher is LEGALLY required to give her an exception, or she will PASS OUT!! Pacing out is already bad, but for hypoglycemic people, if it’s bad enough, we could pass out and not wake up. That teacher deserved to be outed, and fired.
To be honest you should support you friend he is being who he wants to be!
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respect his pronouns not they He him And you could still do the same thing u used to do its extremely homophobic to even think that your not the a hole, you are. And if you can't respect his pronouns and see him the same then shame on you.
Homophobic? What does the story have to do with being gay-
Homophobia is not respecting anyone in the Lgbtq+ community including trans non binary and other gender and sexuality Specific people not just the gay people but I understand the confusion and its fully understandable how this can be confusing but now you know (im not trying to say this in a mean way in just Trying to educate people about the lgbtq+ community)
@@pancake4698 But from all the dictionaries I've seen, it only ever mentioned homosexuality. And if it applied to the lgbtq community as a whole, why would there be different words for different prejudices against different kinds of members?
@@gunforall6247 since the friend is trans, you could say that the girl is transphobic but homophobic would also be an accurate way to describe her
trans rights. Alex didnt change his personality just his body and you should respect that
Still though she kinda made it clear that she was uncomfortable being friends with them because they changed and they also made it clear that they felt uncomfortable doing makeup etc with them because they changed and I can get that I had a trans friend they was a guy and we would do things that I was comfortable doing and they said they wanted to be a girl and convinced me to do girly stuff with them even though I’m a guy and don’t like doing stuff like that so I can get there point of view
The one about the person being trans all he did was change his pronouns and appearance and I know how he feels cause when I came out as non-binary my ex best friend acted like I was completely different and the thing is my personality hasn’t changed just my pronouns and she still is super pissy about it just remember just because they are trans gay or any part of the LGBTQIA+ does not mean they should be defriended everyone deserves love and yes EVERYONE so please don’t hate
For the one about best friends, I know plenty of transgender people who didn't completely change, plus there are plenty of movies for guy and girls alike to watch, guys can still get their nails and hair done, and of course they can bake cupcakes (Unless your friend doesn't want to do any of these, but still). I know change is hard, but I would hate for my best friends to think like this about me, just because I know who I want to be in life.
Just because he understands himself more now and realized that he is a boy doesn't mean he is a different person 😒😡
In the story about the grandmother being the nanny, I have to wonder if the daughter in-law does not like the mom in-law, or they have questioned the grandmother's way of raising the kids and that is why they decided to put the kids in daycare. Either that or someone guilt tripped them about having the grandmother being their nanny. Those are the only reasons I can think of for them to do that.
I also find it strange that she is still paying the for her son's education. Unless she has another son it is weird that the son is not paying it himself. If he can have a wife and kids he should be able to pay for his own education.
For the last story about the band. If I was prepared and brought everything I needed so I could see my favorite band but my friends weren't and they told me I couldn't see the band if they couldn't, I'd be so upset. It's not my fault they didn't bring Ids so why should I have to suffer too? I would just go in without them and have a good time. It's there own fault for not being able to get in
OMGGG I LOVE THE VID 🌿😀
😍😍😍
Really random thing but in Dubai/ where I live Cinnamon Toast Crunch is called cina-mins
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As a trans person myself, use his pronouns and his name. It’s disrespectful not too and honestly you sound like a bad friend for not accepting him for who he is.
Ikr like as a guy he can still paint his nails and do all the stuff it the same person but different gender I feel like they are definitely the A hole
Earlyyyyy❤️♥️ love ur vids👍🏽👍🏽
Thank you😍
I love your vids🥰🥰🥰
4:45
(I'm gonna be using "Your" and "You" a lot, it's targeted at the OP, not the reader of the post)
Alexa isn't 'dead'
Alex is still there. You just need to accept him. He is still trying to be your friend, which is obvious when seconds before you tell us that he tried to do the "besties for the resties" thing, and nobody, not even you, picked up on it. Alex came to you with a very important matter and instead of accepting him as who he is, you decided to stop hanging out with him because of what? Huh? Him coming out? It's still the same person, just now not 'hiding' under something they never related to!
For the cat one my mom has a cat and she is vegan but she loves the cat either way
“You would be okay if that was human flesh?!”
I mean, a cat’s gotta eat
All they did say stay true to themselves. And baking cupcakes seriously you can do this with anyone maybe sleepovers because of parents I don't see why but maybe but cupcakes
Me in the first story be like:
person: you have to get rid of your cat
me: i got news for you
person: what?
me: bye
*slams door in face and locks*
me: now what was i saying mittens? Oh yeah. That physcopath could never get a job with that issue.
Also the fourth story the person has common sense.
She should be able to have a snack due to her condition.
The first story: yes tons of vegans have cats.And I made me mad when she wanted the bf to go vegan just bc she was idk why it makes me mad. Leave her. Shes obviously toxic. I know it might be hard but plss leave her.
3rd story: just bc your friend is trans doesn't mean he's "dead" he's just a different gender. Also I might get I it's hard at the beginning bc you've none your friend to be that gender for a long time. And it's ok to feel a little sad but that doesn't mean yur friend is dead
For the trans friend one you are a really rude and mean person. Your calling him she and her and then you call him them.He was comfortable enough to tell you and you act so meanly. He was probably terrified and you act the way he feared you would. You should support him no matter what! That's not fair on what you did. Trans people deserve respect, and not rude criticism. They're humans too! 🏳️⚧️
The fact the she called her daughter an entitled bratt smh. Edit: Thanks for the heart! 🥰🥰
5:45
that teacher needs to go to jail! I would do the same thing!
these stuff cute💜
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Does anyone know the storyteller's tiktok at 8:21
I swear I dont understand how a VEGAN gf doesn't like the bf's cats like wth. Aren't vegans supposed like animals
the story about alex is just too nostalgic first of his pronouns are he/him y would u use they/them and he must have finally removed a huge pain of his chest after coming out to their friend group and he must have wanted to be himself y the hell would they make him feel guitly of it, as a trans guy i know how he must have felt and they dont wanna be friends becoz of his gender well he deserves better i hope his in a good place
This is the first time I got a video from your channel, and I really enjoyed the video until you got to the transgender story. I feel extremely sorry for Alex, and I really hope he got better friends. I have a friend who is struggling with their gender identity, but I'm gonna support them no matter what gender they are, why? Because they're still the same person. Alex may have changed his gender, and started acting in a way that made him feel happy, but he's still the same person that you and your other friends became friends with. This just makes me sad.
4:25 borderline transphobia. You are ignoring this guy's gender identity and just acting like it's a stupid phase! I have a trans friend who made a drastic change from FtM and i supported them throughout the whole process and still am, even tho your friend had the absolute courage to come out to you you KEPT using she/her pronouns in your story, as a real friend you should help and long for you friend's happiness and wellbeing instead of being a total a**hole because of ur friend's identity.
Okay, the trans one. As a transgender male this was very hard for me to listen to. I’m not trying to sound rude but you definitely did, as did all your friends. You need to be supportive of Alex and who he chooses to be. I know one of the only ways I was able to come out was because of my support system, if I didn’t have a good one, I would be lost trying to be someone I’m not. That story made me really angry at you and your friends, just because he’s trans does not mean his entire personality has changed, your friend did not die, he’s still as good, if not better, then he was before now that he’s working on figuring himself out. Again, support 👏 him 👏 please 👏
Plot twist: The girl is secretly the vegan teacher 💀 or the vegan teachers daughter
2:02
t h i c c
Does anyone know who made the story about the club?
For the story about Alex, just because HE felt more comfortable as a boy, that doesn't mean that your old friend is dead. HE'S still your old friend, just with a different appearance and gender identity.
Also, quit using the wrong pronouns. HE said to go by HE/HIM pronouns, not THEY/THEM pronouns.
For the trans story i completely disagree with the person who submitted the story. Alex isnt a new person he just finally was comfortable in his own skin! And with the things they said they couldnt do anymore yall can still do all of it just chose not to because your freind decided they wanted to feel like himself and not pretend hes something he just isnt! Its completely unacceptable behavior from the person who was supposed to be one of his closest friends
I’m diabetic and the story about the person with it. It’s not fair it’s happened to me I passed out.
The trans one makes me mad
Like he’s your best friend give him support and at least be supportive enough to finish the phrase like it’s just ‘for the resties’ it’s not hard to support the LGBTQ+ community especially if it’s your BEST friend that’s all he did was transition into a boy and change his name and pronouns the least you could do is finish the phrase
The first story is just🤣
If cats kill other animals
Then how about dolphins, snakes, wolves,bears and MANY MORE
For the story about get the teacher fires I can say that as a person with a 504 I know that that teacher BY LAW has to abide by it. This one is extremely important to due to it being a 504 related to medical issues. So in conclusion that teacher deserved to be fired
1:12 would i be okay with it if it was human meat? imo i dont really see a diffrence its meat, while morally people see it as wrong to consume ones own species. its seen a lot in nature if an animal cant get food, they will canibalize their fellow species
1:30 HELL NO, if your vegan gf is making u get rid of your pet end it, if she was a good gf she’d deal with the cat!
too the person telling the 3rd story about there friend transitioning ((not the narrator)) you need to stop.. your friend is uncomfortable, and you think there a “new person” they just change there gender and name, you can attest try to help and then later stop the friendship if you are still uncomfortable, don’t just “ OH YEAH WHOLE NEW PERSON DONT LIKE EM ANYMORE”
You're against mittens
*I am against you*
You’re against mittens?
I’m against your existence
MY vegan mother has had over 10 cats at one point.
The beginning story...is the girlfriend...that vegan...😨
Did anyone else watch this and just focus on the food
I think on transgender one, honestly sometimes you can't do the same things with girls and guys. They should not have said they were dead but I get where they're coming from
For the first story you should be able to keep the cat. Cats are naturally carnivores and it seems you love her like a sibling or your own daughter so it’s not fair your girlfriend expects you give up your cat just because she lives off a carnivorous based diet
For the first story: can’t the same thing be turned back on her for plants? We too are technically eating alive organisms which would later be killed for our food. Fruits are the reproductive parts, the roots similar to the mouth, the leaves can be compared to the nose and so on. So, why does she eat fruits, roots (like potatoes) and leaves (like spinach)? And sprouts and literally baby plants! Would she eat baby humans?!
And I know she could say that plants don’t feel a thing and can regrow but animals too can reproduce and dead animals (killed instantly and quickly to make it not hurt/hurt less ) won’t feel a thing either.
Being a vegan is good and we should avoid hurting other animals since we can afford it but a cat, a carnivore, has no other choice. It’s either eat meat or die. And a dead cat, in the name of protecting other animals, is frikin pointless.
And all this is coming from a vegetarian thinking about going completely vegan.
The story time of the type one diabetic girl the teacher is an a hole the girl could have passed out and the mother is a good mother and just looking out for her child
The audacity to ask if YOU were the asshole like you dont know in the 3rd story💀🤚-
As a trans person, the Alex one is making me sick and I’m not even completely done with listening to it. You’re friend isn’t dead, he is being who he is and you have absolutely no right to be against that. The fact that the idiot does not even use he/him pronouns makes it even worse.
second one, that's just a no-
g r e a t s t o r i e s = ]
All your friend did was just being himself like y'all can still paint nails, watch movies, etc together. It's not like their dead. He found himself and you guys if your supportive best friends then y'all will support stop acting like he died
How come you can't bake cupcakes with them or watch movies or go shopping or or other things he he's your friend and you should support him so I think you're the bad friend I bet that took guts for him for him to tell you guys and now you do this you're a bad friend
Why he killing the frog 😭😭😭😭
4:50 bro this is messed all the way up
*listening to the first one*
Who the f### will get a rid of a cat just because there vegan
I have many trans freinds and even a few family members who are Trans, when they transitioned they didn't do a complete 180 and become a whole new person, the only difference was their name and pronouns, that lady and her freinds disgust me
tbh you could've handled the trans friend situation a bit better. But, I get it such a drastic change like that can be a bit a bit uncomfy
I can see that but if I'm able to call my brother the correct pronouns and his new named after him coming out as trans only last year and I've never miss gendered nor dead named him once it just shows that people are really really slow at accepting things and the story is a prime example there's still the same person no matter what they just finally opened up and learned that they can trust their friends the most
FIRST IF ALL I OWN A CAT his name is Simon he eats animals because he has to eat predators have to eat that’s what prey is for so don’t take the dumb prey’s side think of the predators that are staving because people take away their food and if your girlfriend really Care about animals she would care of predators too
YOU pay your son's student loans and he has the audacity to do that to you!!!! I would've told him to pay his own loans if he did that to me!
with the trans ones, cupcakes are rated e for everyone
My girlfriend What's the allergic to my cat so I took her out When I mean by took her out I mean my girlfriend
The first story: im a vegetarian and have animals who eat meat (cats and a dog) and I think ur gf is weird. Its the circle of life dude
bro im trans and i told some of my friends about it and they all respect me and my pronouns and treat me like normal that story made me so f ing mad
The trans one- i am trans and ALEX IS HIS NAME! not "alexa" like some people cant he cant help it and also dont use they use he jeezz
4:10 This sounds really transphobic :( no matter what besties are still besties! just because they have changed to what they are comfortable with does not mean they are dead. this sounds like an asshole situation.
The second story is extremely transphobic and sick they are really evil to have said that he is not the same person he is the same person but not in the same body !
WTF THAT BEUTIFULL MAN IS A MAN AND HE DIDNT CHANGE JUST BECAUSE HE CHANGED HIS IDENTITY! HES THE SAME PERSON! As a transmasc person, its really upsetting and angering to hear this kind of talk. If somebody changes their gender, name, and pronouns, you have to respect them, and you have to see that they are the same person, but just the version they were always mean to be, the version they always knew they were.
The third story is kinda odd for me because I'm non-binary myself and just because he is a boy doesn't mean you guys can't do the same stuff
4:25
4:00 to 4:54 is just disrespectful, you cant say your best friend is "dead" just because they decided to change. Honestly that person who thought their friend was "dead" needs some help, also yes you are the ______
Isn't one pf these storytimes just transphobia- like just bcz ur friend is a guy doesn't mean u can't bake cupcakes with him, and when he specifies that he uses he/him prns, u should respect him! And Alexa isn't dead. He's still the same person, he just feels more valid this way! And a non binary person, I just got so pissed off
Hold up hold up hold up he can't go get his nails and hair done? I am a trans dude and I am all about makeup styles
I’m a diabetic and the one about the snacks actually made me so angry. You are definitely not the a*****e