I mean it wasn’t really lying though. It was because she’s black. There’s more that went into it but bottom line that’s what it was. It’s alienating to that poor girl to be essentially cut out of the family all due to some racist step-grandparents. It’s messed up to cater to them when the mom wasn’t even in contact with them anymore
@@anonymouspotato1022 then don’t send a card to racists and purposely leave out your black child. Because that can show to the kid that she’s embarrassed of her.
also for the story where the woman told her step daughter to not be in a couple of the photos people are calling her raicst, but she was literally trying to stop a bunch of racist people from being hurtful and rude to her? She wasn't excluding her step daughter because she was black, she was excluding her step daughter to protect her feelings. and it was literally only a couple of photos that were going to a family they don't speak to. Why cause an argument over people you don't speak to over someone you love?? And that dad was in the wrong. Not for being mad, but for telling his daughter. That was an adult conversation that she should have been left out of, and he hurt her feelings out of spite. He should have worked it out with his wife instead of telling his daughter something hurtful and not even telling her the full story. Now her step daughter might think her step mom hates for something she can't control, which could leave her feeling horrible and left out for the rest of her life.
For the story about the mom shaving her 5 yr old daughters unibrow Honestly she isn’t the a hole because she kept saying that she was still beautiful both ways and also she was worried that she’d get bullied, because her cousins teased her which made her feel ugly so no she isn’t the a hole
(1st) both are wrong. Though mostly the husband, just saying “because you’re black” is wrong. Nothing else to add there. It should never be said to a child like that, specially when they already (might) feel a disconnect from their siblings. (My cousin had that happened). As for the wife and wife’s family.. I don’t think that you should change because of family members because it hurts, but I get it. I’ve been there (related situations, not about race or ethnicity) so I know that it hurts when family has different views. However, She did the right thing in not wanting to expose a child to a harsh cruelty.
I feel that the mom was protecting her. She’s only five and what’s worse? Fitting in beauty standards or getting potentially bullied? If the girl said she really wanted to get rid of it, then I think it’s okay.
Young kids don't understand beauty standards, but they do understand insults and the younger the kid , the more underdeveloped the social filter. They are vicious and that sort of bullying leaves deep scars that affect how the kid grows up and interacts with others. This mom did good, not bc she made her daughter more "beautiful" (that is a subjective opinion) but bc she chose her daughters personal comfort above trying to make a point about what beauty is. Her daughter was clearly distressed about how kids treated her bc of it, all her mom did was help relieving that distress. When she is older and more competent, maybe her mom can sit her down for a discussion about beauty then, but for now this was a good move imo
The fake perfume one is stupid like the guy said oh I’ll get that for you and she said NO but he looked and it was 300 so he got a fake one and she finds out it’s fake and doesn’t complain and he calls her ungrateful like WHAT
5:25 NOT THE START OF THE STORY BUT WHERE THEY SAY IT dude, you retracted yours words, bought them a fake, being dishonest then call them the brat for calling you out but still saying the thought was there? what sense is that??
Story 3: well tbh ur gf said thank u but since it’s fake you can’t expect a big reaction tbh you should have both just talked it out or u could’ve found another perfume she liked but cheaper
Yeah he exploded and called her a brat when she should have been the one to explode on him because he said that he would get her the perfume and then went behind her back and got a fake one without telling her even though she said that she didn’t need it and that he didn’t have to buy it for her.
@@siribelle3821 agreed. Also she probably told him incase he was duped. He was projecting his insecurities unto her. He did say that the guys hitting on her were rich so it makes him feel less than.
Well, maybe he is less than. but it’s not because he has less money, it’s because he tried to trick his girlfriend and then blew up and called her a brat when she didn’t roll out the red carpet for him for doing so. so he’s materialistic, jealous, competitive, insecure, sneaky and has anger issues ? no thanks.
Why would you exclude a child from a family photo. Then have her take the pictures. The family would’ve just been short on getting a Christmas card. Not hiding my family for anyone
First story, dude wth the dad was an a hole bc the mum was being generous and he just up and lied to his daughter like bro if her parents are racist don’t make ur daughter be in the Christmas card photos bc the family will just get a bunch of crap bc of it
I personally wouldn’t say generous, I’d say she didn’t want the kid to be hurt about their skin, so she left her out of a photo, but I totally agree about the dad being an a hole.
I don't agree with the "if her parents are racist don’t make ur daughter be in the Christmas card photos" if her parents are racist, cut them off. Like why are they even getting a Christmas card?
(the first one) in my opinion in her card to her family if there racist don't let her in but make her feel not left out. if the dad wanted a photo with her then do one and just send it to your family?
First story Both of those were pretty wrong but how were caring for her was very kind. Maybe instead of just acting on the fact that your parents are racist, ask your husband or whomever and try to find a better solution or just say you didn't want her there because of your family's beliefs beforehand.
Idk why people think its ok to associate with racist family & act like its them and not you. If you still deal with them and allow them to disrespect your kids you're just as bad and you shouldn't have a interracial family in the first place if you're so afraid of what your family says that's your choice they should accept it and fk off if they don't! Also was she really protecting the child or herself? The kid doesn't know wtf is going on. The so called Mom is making excuses and sheltering her from the truth isn't helping either and the dad's explanation was shitty as well. These kids have a journey ahead of them...
The one about the perfume: you are definitely in the wrong. Calling her a brat and materialistic when she was at least trying to be gratefully is just crappy. If you knew you didn’t have the money you could’ve just told her and maybe she would’ve been more understanding.
I think that if the child wants it then it’s fine she’s not like I can’t stand it we’re waxing I can understand the dad but it makes her feel more comfortable without it
ok these comments are just people saying who’s right and wrong. stating your opinion is fine but saying who’s right and wrong like you know and your opinion is the only one that matters is just annoying
for the first story, you aren't the mole cus you helped you're friend to catch her bf cheating on her. If she saw him cheating sooner, She'll feel depressed or She saw him cheating after. But you had secound thoughts . So you're a part time mole
I agree with the Dad about the unibrow . You gave her a complex . This is why it's important we build confidence in the home . And the cousins should have been checked and then asked to leave if they continued. In those moments and by cutting the unibrow you taught her 1 : that bullies are right and it's okay 2. She is only beautiful if her beauty is acceptable to society or others 3 you don't have her back and won't defend her.
the parents cant check every person that bullies her in the future. Bullying can also cause trauma and low self esteem, probably more so than beauty complexes. Sure, the mother could have talked to the child first, but what parent can stand to see their child unhappy? Since she is still young, the daughter’s brow will prob grow back and then when she is older she can make a decision. childhood bullying really sticks with you. learnt from experience
1st. Both yes you are. You could’ve like not sent your parents any if they won’t accept one of YOUR children that you have now taken into your heart. Second the husband was being a complete jerk just blurring that out
Bro the husband is a jerk for her wife taking off her unibrow and wife was right to do that because just one person bullying is bad and that’s how kid go into things like depression and anxiety and sometimes bullying never stops it will get worse. So no the mom is not wrong
That’s the first story you’re kind of racist because yeah she might be that but you can’t exclude her because of the color of her skin and your parents you need to accept that
So the mother and the daughter unibrow one she isn’t the as**ole she is quiet a good mother her daughter got made fun of at 5 because of the unibrow told the mother she didn’t want it anymore than when she woke up she thought she was beautiful every 5 year old should think that they are it’s cruel if people say that they are ugly
For the first I say the mom isn’t in the wrong all the way, I have some pretty racist family and I’m very glad I’ve never met them or had them talk to me especially as a kid.
The fist story both parents are wrong the husband for lying to his daughter and the wife for trying to appeal to racists
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I mean it wasn’t really lying though. It was because she’s black. There’s more that went into it but bottom line that’s what it was. It’s alienating to that poor girl to be essentially cut out of the family all due to some racist step-grandparents. It’s messed up to cater to them when the mom wasn’t even in contact with them anymore
@@OpossumOnTheMoon it was not because she is black it was because she didn’t want to subject the kid to racism
@@anonymouspotato1022 then don’t send a card to racists and purposely leave out your black child. Because that can show to the kid that she’s embarrassed of her.
also for the story where the woman told her step daughter to not be in a couple of the photos people are calling her raicst, but she was literally trying to stop a bunch of racist people from being hurtful and rude to her? She wasn't excluding her step daughter because she was black, she was excluding her step daughter to protect her feelings. and it was literally only a couple of photos that were going to a family they don't speak to. Why cause an argument over people you don't speak to over someone you love??
And that dad was in the wrong. Not for being mad, but for telling his daughter. That was an adult conversation that she should have been left out of, and he hurt her feelings out of spite. He should have worked it out with his wife instead of telling his daughter something hurtful and not even telling her the full story. Now her step daughter might think her step mom hates for something she can't control, which could leave her feeling horrible and left out for the rest of her life.
For the story about the mom shaving her 5 yr old daughters unibrow
Honestly she isn’t the a hole because she kept saying that she was still beautiful both ways and also she was worried that she’d get bullied, because her cousins teased her which made her feel ugly so no she isn’t the a hole
(1st) both are wrong. Though mostly the husband, just saying “because you’re black” is wrong. Nothing else to add there. It should never be said to a child like that, specially when they already (might) feel a disconnect from their siblings. (My cousin had that happened).
As for the wife and wife’s family.. I don’t think that you should change because of family members because it hurts, but I get it. I’ve been there (related situations, not about race or ethnicity) so I know that it hurts when family has different views. However, She did the right thing in not wanting to expose a child to a harsh cruelty.
Honestly that unibrow story, I agree with the mother. Id have done it too. And the kid is probbaly gonna be much happier for it
i understand the moms point of view but she should have talked to her husbandat least
I feel that the mom was protecting her. She’s only five and what’s worse? Fitting in beauty standards or getting potentially bullied? If the girl said she really wanted to get rid of it, then I think it’s okay.
I think I agree with them wife and the husband too. The wife should have asked the husband before she did that.
kids are RUTHLESS! They have no filter whatsoever
Young kids don't understand beauty standards, but they do understand insults and the younger the kid , the more underdeveloped the social filter. They are vicious and that sort of bullying leaves deep scars that affect how the kid grows up and interacts with others. This mom did good, not bc she made her daughter more "beautiful" (that is a subjective opinion) but bc she chose her daughters personal comfort above trying to make a point about what beauty is. Her daughter was clearly distressed about how kids treated her bc of it, all her mom did was help relieving that distress. When she is older and more competent, maybe her mom can sit her down for a discussion about beauty then, but for now this was a good move imo
Plus she reminded her daughter how beautiful she was no matter what
If a kid thinks you’re ugly they’re gonna call you ugly because they don’t understand that that’s mean
@@LowYummy I said that someone was ugly when I was the child’s age and I knew it was mean (I only said it because hey were bulling my friend)
Yes I agree
Petty yes wrong NO. I’m here for the pettiness he had it coming. 😂
The fake perfume one is stupid like the guy said oh I’ll get that for you and she said NO but he looked and it was 300 so he got a fake one and she finds out it’s fake and doesn’t complain and he calls her ungrateful like WHAT
5:25
NOT THE START OF THE STORY BUT WHERE THEY SAY IT
dude, you retracted yours words, bought them a fake, being dishonest then call them the brat for calling you out but still saying the thought was there? what sense is that??
I agree
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For the first one the wife was trying to protect the girl and the dad was wrong for what he said but I can see he said it out of anger
Story 3: well tbh ur gf said thank u but since it’s fake you can’t expect a big reaction tbh you should have both just talked it out or u could’ve found another perfume she liked but cheaper
Yeah he exploded and called her a brat when she should have been the one to explode on him because he said that he would get her the perfume and then went behind her back and got a fake one without telling her even though she said that she didn’t need it and that he didn’t have to buy it for her.
@@siribelle3821 I will never understand some people
@@siribelle3821 agreed. Also she probably told him incase he was duped. He was projecting his insecurities unto her. He did say that the guys hitting on her were rich so it makes him feel less than.
Well, maybe he is less than. but it’s not because he has less money, it’s because he tried to trick his girlfriend and then blew up and called her a brat when she didn’t roll out the red carpet for him for doing so. so he’s materialistic, jealous, competitive, insecure, sneaky and has anger issues ? no thanks.
10:30 I agree with the mother it's the kids happy with it then the mother and father should be happy with it
8:07 you should report them
Why would you exclude a child from a family photo. Then have her take the pictures. The family would’ve just been short on getting a Christmas card. Not hiding my family for anyone
Well its not her child so......
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First story, dude wth the dad was an a hole bc the mum was being generous and he just up and lied to his daughter like bro if her parents are racist don’t make ur daughter be in the Christmas card photos bc the family will just get a bunch of crap bc of it
I personally wouldn’t say generous, I’d say she didn’t want the kid to be hurt about their skin, so she left her out of a photo, but I totally agree about the dad being an a hole.
I don't agree with the "if her parents are racist don’t make ur daughter be in the Christmas card photos" if her parents are racist, cut them off. Like why are they even getting a Christmas card?
Ooo, good point
@@catfoodisyummyx sometimes it’s not that easy
@@cc-sv5qu yall really anti racist until its "too hard"
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Love it
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in my opinion in her card to her family if there racist don't let her in but make her feel not left out. if the dad wanted a photo with her then do one and just send it to your family?
What wax are you using?
I really love the last candle
For the one about the car, I think the cousin was in the wrong, but it wasn’t cool to buy HIS dream car.
Yeah but @ the same time it was deserved but she should have just gotten the same model but not exactly like what he wanted
I think its her money she can buy what she wants
@@ChihuahuaSenior exactly the other people are kinda acting like the cousin she can buy whatever she wants no matter if it was his car likings
I don't really care about the stories cuz they' boring to me and I can just listen to the same story later :) These candles are cute BTW :]
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First story
Both of those were pretty wrong but how were caring for her was very kind. Maybe instead of just acting on the fact that your parents are racist, ask your husband or whomever and try to find a better solution or just say you didn't want her there because of your family's beliefs beforehand.
Doesn't matter what they think or say... if u love the child then you know what to do
For the unibrow story I have one to and I haven’t waxed it ever
Hey bestie sorry I’m late :(
Where’s the final result for the candle carving one ;-;
You don’t have to have kids lol if you don’t want kids and don’t think you will be a parent don’t bring a kid into the world
Idk why people think its ok to associate with racist family & act like its them and not you. If you still deal with them and allow them to disrespect your kids you're just as bad and you shouldn't have a interracial family in the first place if you're so afraid of what your family says that's your choice they should accept it and fk off if they don't! Also was she really protecting the child or herself? The kid doesn't know wtf is going on. The so called Mom is making excuses and sheltering her from the truth isn't helping either and the dad's explanation was shitty as well. These kids have a journey ahead of them...
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You are amazingly talented!! Do you mind listening what products you use?
They didn't actually make the candles but i think you can just use candle wax for them and like scented oils.
The one about the perfume: you are definitely in the wrong. Calling her a brat and materialistic when she was at least trying to be gratefully is just crappy. If you knew you didn’t have the money you could’ve just told her and maybe she would’ve been more understanding.
1st: no, u were protecting her from people that would possibly ruining self confidence
2nd: ur a good friend 👏
Verdict…you are Not the asshole on all charges. People need more emotional intelligence. 🤷🏽♀️
I think that if the child wants it then it’s fine she’s not like I can’t stand it we’re waxing I can understand the dad but it makes her feel more comfortable without it
ok these comments are just people saying who’s right and wrong. stating your opinion is fine but saying who’s right and wrong like you know and your opinion is the only one that matters is just annoying
That is what an opinion is. State yours and leave.
2nd story: Your friend asked u so- no
for the first story, you aren't the mole cus you helped you're friend to catch her bf cheating on her. If she saw him cheating sooner, She'll feel depressed or She saw him cheating after. But you had secound thoughts . So you're a part time mole
This is only my opoionion
The 2nd story
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I agree with the Dad about the unibrow . You gave her a complex . This is why it's important we build confidence in the home . And the cousins should have been checked and then asked to leave if they continued. In those moments and by cutting the unibrow you taught her 1 : that bullies are right and it's okay 2. She is only beautiful if her beauty is acceptable to society or others 3 you don't have her back and won't defend her.
the parents cant check every person that bullies her in the future. Bullying can also cause trauma and low self esteem, probably more so than beauty complexes. Sure, the mother could have talked to the child first, but what parent can stand to see their child unhappy? Since she is still young, the daughter’s brow will prob grow back and then when she is older she can make a decision. childhood bullying really sticks with you. learnt from experience
if you know that your child has an obvious insecurity and there is something you can do to fix it,fix it.
1st. Both yes you are. You could’ve like not sent your parents any if they won’t accept one of YOUR children that you have now taken into your heart. Second the husband was being a complete jerk just blurring that out
Ok the first one so sort of sort of not mostly yes
No not
Bro the husband is a jerk for her wife taking off her unibrow and wife was right to do that because just one person bullying is bad and that’s how kid go into things like depression and anxiety and sometimes bullying never stops it will get worse. So no the mom is not wrong
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Can we all not protest and just watch the goddamn video?
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Why are all these stories either about boyfriends or racist family situations
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That’s the first story you’re kind of racist because yeah she might be that but you can’t exclude her because of the color of her skin and your parents you need to accept that
Sure,expose the child to unnecessary bullying.
The voice over is distracting.
Right just mute the stories they're so boring you can just listen to the same story on tiktok later
she could have showed her frida instead. teach her not to give af.
So the mother and the daughter unibrow one she isn’t the as**ole she is quiet a good mother her daughter got made fun of at 5 because of the unibrow told the mother she didn’t want it anymore than when she woke up she thought she was beautiful every 5 year old should think that they are it’s cruel if people say that they are ugly
For the first I say the mom isn’t in the wrong all the way, I have some pretty racist family and I’m very glad I’ve never met them or had them talk to me especially as a kid.
Kinda making me mad u care what others think
Terrible reading