If you feel behind in life, watch this.
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I used to always say “I feel so behind, everyone else is so far ahead of me, I’m not where I thought I would be”. What changed is that I deleted/ left social media 5 months ago. In the last 5 months I haven’t said or FELT behind at all. I actually understand how blessed I am. So the “behind” feeling really is comparison. Great video!! Love your channel ❤
I see I still am though. You may be not in that, but my issues are diff. You are blessed.
Totally hear you! Ditching social media feels like cheating the "behind" feeling, doesn't it? For me, it was like stepping off a hamster wheel of curated highlight reels. Suddenly, I had space to appreciate my own journey, flaws and all. ✨ It's crazy how much comparing to filtered versions of other people's lives can steal our joy. Thanks for sharing this, it's a powerful reminder to stay off the comparison treadmill and focus on our own paths!
Same here 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻
Main problem for me is my procrastination and not taking any action
As with many others..
Just do it bro. It hurts if you do it, but it hurts if dont as well.. choose your pain.
When I was in medical college, there was a guy who used to train in my gym. At 19, he had the best physique I had seen and didn't even seem to work that hard. I used to struggle in the gym and still couldn't look fit or get strong.
I kept training however and last year at 36 years old, I won powerlifting medals at my local state events and feel like I am in the strongest and best shape of my life while the guy from my college who I used to feel jealous of had a dad bod and doesn't even lift any more.
People are meant to shine at different times. I still feel bad comparing myself to others in my field. Guys who were junior to me in residency have gone on to become great surgeons while I feel I am working at a small hospital, but then I know that feeling low about comparison is the worst thing I can do.. Just keep working and try to be my best.
„People are meant to shine at different times.“ - That‘s a great statement on point, thanks for it!
Are u a surgeon? I soon will be starting my PG. and am 99% sure i will be taking surgery. Will u share ur experience as a young surgeon?
Thank you note from Korea - I’ve been suffering from a depression for a year now. Still feel frustrated about my life. Thanks for this video which motivates me a lot.
you guys in Korea are the strongest compared to the amount of work being socially pressured upon , you rock!
God bless us in our bad times!
You are not suffering from depression you are choosing depression.
Realizing that you are always where you are meant to be is simple, but not easy ❤
I no longer watch self-improvement videos on a regular basis, but recently started to see a decline in some areas of my life. This video is just what I needed. An inspiration, thanks and keep pushing! 👍
Slow and steady wins the race
This video came at just the right time. I’ve been feeling so behind watching people who are younger than me get married, have kids, buying homes, working in my chosen career path, all of the things I want to do. They all seem fit and have their lives together. I’m in my last semester of college and while Im proud of accomplishing what I have, I feel like at 25 I should be a lot further along than I am. Do you remember when you were in high school and people would talk about their plans and timelines for their lives? Mine has not gone that way. It’s a good and bad thing I guess.
Thank you for talking about this!
Why the fuck you comparing your life to the life of others. Focus on your own life and what you want to get out of life
Turning 40 this year. I’m at least working full time on a job I’ve been steady at. But I’m definitely not where I want to be aside from having taken good care of my body. I guess what I can take away from this is the advice on longevity because that’s the comparative advantage that I do at least have. There’s also countless directions that I can take it in.
Always feel like I did not fulfill my initial goals 20 years ago. Now 42 and working corporate but not where I feel I want to be. Feel like a little too late. This video motivated me. Thanks.
Man, every single damn time, every time, your words just resonate sooo much with me.
Thank you for sharing your wisdom, and your energy, which I find suuuuper uplifting.
There are so many people in the self-development world but not everyone makes me feel excited to take inspired action in my own life, not everyone makes it feel enjoyable. Your message always comes across in a feel-good type of way, instead of harsh and overly serious.
Thanks thanks thanks!!! ✨✨✨
Comments like yours make my week. Glad the vids help, Laura!
I just got hit with some set backs again to my plans and just opened utube and your episode came at a perfect time. Cause I’m feeling so behind again. This made me feel better
Hang in there, friend! progress isn't always a straight line, and setbacks are just bumps in the road, not detours. We've all been there, staring down the barrel of doubt, but gotta keep reminding ourselves, comparison is the thief of joy. You're on your own unique path, and your time will come.
I love reading the comments and not feeling alone. I hope you all get where you want to be in life ❤️ At 24 I know I’m young but I also feel I’ve wasted so much time. It’s crazy how impactful a short UA-cam video can be. I feel the weight of instagram being less inspiring and more a punch in the face these days so I think best to remove it temporarily as I at least start to create my own art and not have any comparisons. :)
It's like you knew what I needed to hear today...thank you man
Oh my gosh-thank you so much! I can’t even express how desperately I needed to hear this today. I appreciate you so very much!
I love you, Clark! You have always been the friend I needed. Thanks for the pep talk ❤
Clark this video is a miracle... just two days ago I started feeling like that and I started looking for videos about the topic, and now your video pops up... this is insane, the Universe truly always knows what you need.
Needed to hear this. Comparing myself to others is something I try to break, thinking about the full context is a great tip to break the cycle. Its so true
You inspired me so much to dare myself to be bold but honest,
to be looking for new friends who match my vibe,
to become honored to become their friends, in this attention economy and hustle culture I cherish being me, a little crazy a little shy totally introvert but loving to slow down, take my sweet time to breathe and reflect, enjoy my moments and become intentional with my day to day routine
Thank you
Amazing vibe! That hustle culture can be so noisy, it's refreshing to see someone embrace their own rhythm. Slowing down, breathing, savoring - that's where all the good stuff gets brewed, right? Finding friends who match that energy sounds like a recipe for genuine connection. To being a little crazy, a little shy, and totally unapologetically you! ✨
P.S. The "honored to be their friends" line? Absolute gold.
Wow! This is my 1st time being this early for a large channel's video. I just clicked on the notification and liked it IMMEDIATELY! Cant wait to finish watching. I've been feeling this way. ❤
you got this! ❤
I'm amazed by how good this video is... so well explained and clear to see what he's explaining.
Thank you. I needed to hear this today.
You know when you mention something, then suddenly Google are advertising all the things you said? Well when I think something, this guy makes a video about it 👌🏻
I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS🥰❣ THANK YOU SO MUCH. GOD BLESS YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING THIS WISDOM WITH US. I FEEL SO MUCH BETTER NOW😊.
Great video. This really resonated with me, especially the part about comparing ourselves to others online. I remember constantly scrolling through Instagram, seeing everyone else's seemingly perfect lives, and feeling like I was falling behind. It wasn't until I realized, as you mentioned, that it's all just a one-dimensional snapshot, and often hides the struggles and complexities behind the scenes.
Your story about traveling Southeast Asia really hit home. I was in a similar situation a few years ago, stuck in a dead-end job and feeling lost. So, cutting short, it wasn't always easy, but those experiences were transformative and I wouldn't trade them for anything.
One point I'd like to add is the pressure of the "overnight success" mentality. Everyone's obsessed with blowing up and getting that big break, but as you say, that often leads to burnout and unsustainable growth. I think it's important to remember that progress is rarely linear, and sometimes the best things take time and dedication.
Clark Kegley! We went to elementary school together, Mag town represent. Love the vids man, you're killin it!
Buying the ONE WAY ticket really had me, and seeing your footage from your journey looped in this video. This video came to me this evening as i was feeling “low” about my place in life right now. Thanks Clark 😊
I little behind but I’m working on it, with hope and work I will make it this year to a new career, thanks you ♥️
Just what I needed to hear. Thank you 🙏🏻
Thank you for your efforts to help people reach their full potential. Clark you're truly inspirational!
Thank you Clark!💚💚
Your content is amazing I can relate every single word you said, loved your content 💗
Holy shit man, I think you only had a few thousand subscribers a few years ago when I saw one of your DMT breathing videos. Nice work bud, glad to see you grow so hard
What a great perspective to share!
thank you so much Clark this really helped me you have no idea❤
I really needed this video thank you brother
In my thirties and the last single friend in the group, it bothers me sometimes since I do want a husband and kids. But as I am watching my siblings marriages and friends, I am glad my time is different because I am getting more time to work on self growth and working on things that I need to do they don’t lead to a unhappy relationship. Yes sometimes someone getting something first doesn’t mean it’s good or will lasts.
Brilliant ❤. Thanks very much Clark❤
I regret leaving this channel I left cause I thought it was to commercialize it I was wrong been missing out on allot of great content been here!
Clark, I just found you and I want to say, you are AWESOME!!!😎
Thank you! I needed to hear this. Everyone talks about going viral and instant gratification online…And I’m here taking classes for an engineering degree that will take 5 years to get. I don’t see any movement but perhaps brick by brick I will arrive. Not spectacular at all.
This was so good thank you
Dark , cold and full of mold that was funny 😂 thx for the videos so encouraging
Thanks Clark ❤
One way to flip jealousy is saying “All have what she’s having,” or “I’ll have what he’s having,” or even, “This or something better” because you never know when life gives you something better than you imagined 😊
I have a terminal illnes. In my workplace there is a female co-worker & she is just damn good at what she does. I would be lying if i say, that i am on the same skill level as her. She is also much braver than me - taking tasks, where she needs to work in another office of our company - nearly 300km away from the office, where we work normally. I would never do that, because i just lack the balls to do so. But no one in our company actually gives a flying fuck about that. I do my job as good as i can, & until now it always worked out just fine. What I can tell from my experience is, that if you are really invested in your work, & you actually give a fuck - that`s extremely valuable.
I needed it 😭😭😭
thank you Clark
Thank you.
comparison makes you feel like shit but if anyone is desperate to know if you are in the right path you probably are. don’t judge your choices too harshly as good or bad it just is and either way you will get to where you want to be.
Ha! Totally get the "feeling like shit" part. Comparison is a sneaky devil, always whispering doubts even when things are going alright. But I love what you said about desperation being a sign you're on the right path. Sometimes the deepest dives mean you flail around a bit before finding your rhythm.
And judging choices? Forget it. There's no "good" or "bad" when it comes to carving your own way. Every twist and turn leads to the next chapter, even the seemingly wrong ones. Have a great day!
Be yourself cause everyone else is taken
I think Colonel Sanders was in his 60s when he started KFC.
I compare too, my situation with others. Then I get sad because they have "more" in life 😢
You were never behind, those who are behind are those who didn't have a vision board nor never knew what the hell a vision board was. So many from the time of having a concept of life had no dreams, goals, ambitions, no childhood fantasies of being a space rodeo clown. Being born lacking anything that motivates whether money or carnal pursuits is really the reality of many.
Thanks Clark :-)
You dont want to be taken hostage by the need to compare, this is why i removed my social media. I just want to enjoy my life with i have - enjoy family, enjoy the simplicity of my days etc. people sometimes live in our heads rent free.
I think we just need our path. The culture is build after a chase.
Woohoo great video. Felt really frustrated today because of the direction life is going. So what about a video on reseting career fields? Turning 40 this year, mom of one and wife to an amazing man, working retail because it is lenient.
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Everything is dual and on the same spectrum
Hot vs cold
Love vs hate
Jealousy vs inspiration
Love that, also trying to become a big UA-camr 🙏🏼
This got me feeling even worse, thanks for trying though!
Rather than feel jealous, I feel defeated and think I could never do that (mostly in the art realm).
People who “blew up” on Forbes 30 under 30 list. Elizabeth Holmes, Charlie Javice, Martin Shkreli, Adam Neumann, and Sam Bankman-Fried lol.
I‘m exactly where I’m supposed to be
Thanks for the video and you look like Superman!!! Your name is Clark too 😂😂😂
Sounds like my story ... I became 4 times award winner in my profession when I was just 25... I quit 9-5 and started my freelance and it 5-6 painful years to get success again...bt believe me those years were so dark and felt up and down ...
But didn’t the awards give you the confidence to work hard for those 5 yrs? I’m genuinely curious, because I imagine that your experience would be leap years different from someone who was forced to change direction or start again because of illness, for example
Feeling the same
Wow,.still thinking about the last video you posted. Had to watch that again. What if I just don't know what I want? I like what you said, tho, Why not me? I'll have to think more about that.
Great
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can we do a more in depth video on jealousy and inspiration? where do these things come from, from your perspective? what are some clear examples of the process of alchemizing the jealousy to inspiration.
The universe works in mysterious ways lol. I was feeling a bit low due to a snag in my business & was thinking just that, that I should be further ahead, when I came across your video. Thank you for this beautiful reminder Clark, it gave me much needed motivation 🙏🏼🫶
I feel behind in life because i come from poor family and my family never celebrate my birthday. And in fact my life dont have any colourful . Now i am 28 and i keep comparing my life with other people. 😢
What if you lost body parts and the one thing you wish you had is something you really can't have back? How would I reframe this as a positive?
Video idea: How to make a big change if you cannot relocate at the moment
I might make that video since I've been definitely in that spot for years
Wow... In letzter Zeit gibt's eine Menge heftiger Interviews, aber das war noch mal eine Stufe drüber...
Life is not a race, not a rat race specifically, it's about living (your own life) in the moment while doing your part (for yourself, as a father, mother, etc.), because if it's a race, the dead end will be either boredom of "success" or death.
Comparison is the thief of joy...
Yeah I'm not convinced. Funding competitions still have awards for "young" or "early career" people - once you've screwed up for too long it seems impossible to pivot.
Same bro
Great video, but this man is getting finer
❤
Hi clark kegley i am wondering if you do private therapy sessions ? , i am someone who has alot of shadows and traumas and am struggling with self hate and emasculation traumas and much more these are just a few things i’m dealing with
I think the why not me mentality I have is due to my anxiety, traumas, and attachments to family. I want to move and do so many things but I'm scared it may be the wrong move, wrong passion, I won't have my family by me.....any advice?
Look what happened to Jen Shaw. You know she compared herself and had to have “it all” and now she had a hard reality check behind steel doors, in another state. Served humble pie…I like tres leches myself but I’ll take some humble pie too.
Compared to people who make enough money to save for retirement. I've always worked hard. Never got enough. Now I'm laid off and each day it gets worse. Applying and applying. Taking classes. Where are my results?
What if you feel far behind because you're a 39 years female so my biological clock is ticking, which is something I don't have control over. With everything and anything else, I am behind than most by age, but that really doesn't bother me. Just not too sure how I can get over feeling behind because I don't have kids (I want kids), and my clock is ticking, so I may never get it because it might not happen before I stop being able to have kids.
Not trying to be 60 and then finally have money to date or travel. It’s over by then.
Is your mom mad that you’re slamming her basement online lol ?
Idk why this video popped up but I’m here for it.
read gita by iskcon ❤ krsna our well wisher had written love letter for us , many years 🔙
Thank you for the video.
My only concern is that I kinda am picking up that you might have partial attachment to staying in that basement when you hit that low. Sounds like you might still be holding onto something there. I love the message though and appreciate the great work.
Hopefully we don't all have to wait till 44 to get our big Walmart moment 😂
But I hate this comparaison that people must be at a worst state so I can feel good about myself.. I wanna stop this whole comparaison
Sounds like Chris Pratt
It's called "envy". Cognitive behavioural therapy techniques work for that.
I lost my jib and my bf . It's killing me
I’m sorry to hear that. I am going through divorce.
It gets better, I promise. Don’t give up on yourself. Talk to your family.
Focus on becoming someone you can be proud of ❤
@@kaztech36 thanks 💜💜
Can we date?😅
STOP comparing yourself to others.
But as a Woman you have just till 40 time to make kids. You cant wait till 50 then
Most people that feel behind are in 30,40 & 50s even 60s. So talking about you at 23 is not helpful. The world is tough and people are scaling back on dreams. I see it in my kids in 20s.
It’s not about what you know
It’s who you know
I am a phenomenal singer but not famous
Because I don’t know the right people