5 LIES The Left Tells Women That Make Me FURIOUS.
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Hello classic crew and welcome to today's video! Today, I'm sharing five lies the left tells women that make me FURIOUS. I cannot believe how far the left misleads women away from their own fulfillment and happiness. I'd love to hear your thoughts, so leave a comment down below!
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Why do stay at home moms look down on moms who want to balance work and family? It's okay for moms to have ambitions and dreams outside the home.
If a mother isn't home to raise the kids those kids will raise themselves and are susceptible to making bad decisions that's why a lot of conservatives are against single-parent homes
She’s not looking down on those women, it’s the left that’s pushing the narrative that being a stay at home mom, it’s wrong, which is not true
@@Dasher49225 Well asking someone that is extremely manipulative and toxic.
@@DanJuega Nail. Head. Hit.
depends
Abby: Don't tell women to "fulfill your potential" by getting jobs!!!
Also Abby: Women, fulfill your potential by having BABIES!!!
Capitalists: " Huh... wait... COME BACK TO WORK LADIES 😨"
Conservatives: " Women should get pregnant more"
Also Conservatives: "Women should be let go if they get pregnant, because it's not profitable for the business"
@Johnny Rotten haha so true. Relying on the rich and famous brother nonetheless
She’s also calling women who have had an abortion murderers.
@@TreyParkersBitch they are murderers. Most hoes can easily be compared to a school shooter in terms of killstreaks lol no gun needed
@@TreyParkersBitch no baby im compassionate to human life in fact next time call me before you want to kill your kid, ill adopt him/her. Theres a god and he sees all evil not just the evil of men but also women
Abby describes basic freedom:
Also Abby: It makes me so mad 😠
Could she be any more of a communist?
Really no, like if you watch it's she's like "this is what liberals are saying, they're telling women to do these things." Which of course they aren't, but Abby doesn't actually talk to people and just listens to her brother or something.
She’s angry because women’s freedoms are being stolen from them. She doesn’t like to see women mistreated. Globalist pretend to give people freedom, but they are really restricting their options.
How to solve each of these issues:
1. Mind your own business. 2. Mind your own business. 3. Mind your own business. 4. Mind your own business. 5. Mind your own business.
Thank you for coming to my TED talk.
Good one.
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It ain't that easy when you doing your business affects other people doing their business, it's a comforting lie we like to tell ourselves to each their own when we inhabit the same land and same earth so it never can be to each their own that's why we have laws and governments and debates so we can reach some sort of common ground in pursuit of truth. "Mind your own business" doesn't work. I mean you couldn't, and this wasn't even offline that affected you directly so....
@@deepakkodwani420 of course you're a Jordan Peterson watcher. 💀💀💀
@@deepakkodwani420 Good point. I never stopped to think about how #4 a woman I've never met, nor will ever meet, feeling positive about her own body would effect me personally and change whether I can go about my life in peace. I guess I should make a video about how it makes me FURIOUS. Not mildly annoyed, not faintly displeased - FURIOUS!!!
"This is stupid" and "I hate this" aren't very compelling arguments
How about “it’s more empowering to have sex with a man who loves you?” Did you miss that entire argument?
@@matthewgallant3622what empowers someone can't be decided by you tbh
@@fireblaze6453 Explain why it’s not empowering, or go away. If you can’t use your brain and address the actual argument, you don’t matter.
@@matthewgallant3622She acts like the only two options in life are 1) sex with the one man you’re in a monogamous marriage with forever and ever or 2) a life of debauchery and sleeping with one man after another who treat you like garbage and don’t care for your pleasure or happiness. Like there are whole worlds between those two extremes 😂 You can have sex with someone who loves you who you don’t end up marrying, you can have casual sex with someone who isn’t your One And Only but cares about your pleasure as much as their own. As long as everything is consensual and everyone is having their needs met, I don’t see the problem. There are plenty of married men who don’t care about their wive’s pleasure, and I’ve had sex with people who weren’t my partner and we weren’t in love but genuinely cared for my pleasure and comfort.
@@arielrodriguez968 I mean there are only 2 options. Either you sleep with one person or you sleep with multiple. There’s various degrees of sleeping around, but those really are your two options. And Being consensual isn’t the only thing that makes a sex act ok. Idk why everyone thinks this is the case. And speaking as someone who spent 20 years sleeping around and having relationships for A few years, all that breaking up and first dates and time invested in people just for it to end, it wears on you psychologically. I see it with everyone my age whose still single. I’m married today and I wish I’d met my wife 20 years ago. There’s varying degrees of that jadedness and lack of trust people develop, I was average, but my wife was a virgin when I met her and she had none of that. I wish that was the case for me.
I think rather than just "telling women they can do it" when it come to parenting, if we really want to decrease abortion we need to do more than "tell" women what they can do, we need to actually support them - monetary support, medical care, maternity leave, comprehensive sex education, universal child care.
"I make up broad assumptions in my head and then get angry about them." -classically conservative
100% fact!
question: if you don't like her content and lifestyle, why are you here?
@@Alexander-qv4mwmaybe because some people want to see what the other side has to say rather than willingly be stuck in an echochamber?
@@Alexander-qv4mw actually, to be honest, it's to point and laugh.😎
It’s hard to hear a beautiful, intelligent young woman like Abbey, speaking so confidently about the things that you sold off like a two bit whore…isn’t it?
Having a job and a career is a necessity to afford a child for people not born into money or good circumstances. Being a stay at home mom is the ultimate luxury in my eyes, I would give anything to be with my child all the time but unfortunately if I want them to be fed it's just not a reality
One of my grandmothers was a SAHM who did the household and also built a small business selling her crops (literally lol).
In the very rural community, that actually was the maximum privilege for her: She didn't have to work in the fields, forests, lakes, and only did light work in the stable and if her husband complained about her not doing what all the other farmer women did (!) she reminded him about the fat dowry her family gave them.
My other grandmother did all the work including the stable and fields, as did my grandfather who helped with childcare.
They were not privileged in that society, and it only goes back two generations. The whole tradwife movement is an aesthetic which is not interested in past gender roles as they were.
I hate when the left always tells women to kill puppies and steal cookies. It's so pathetic. Why do the feminists always say, in order to be an empowered woman, you need to behave like Cookie Monster?! Just sick. Makes me furious. I'm almost as red as Elmo.
Hi Hunter!!!!!
Abs Shapiro finding out you can start a family after you establish a career (she can't fathom her fragile self doing any kind of labour)
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I came to this video just to find this comment
@@The_504
You too
“Love yourselves, ladies” are one of the top 5 things that makes her furious 🤣
So then she must hate herself?
@@t221000 well, we are taught to after all. I mean, I was raised conservative and that's what I was taught. Not like "oh you have to hate yourself" in direct terms. Things aren't very direct. The whole judge not lest ye be judged thing is generally not practiced though. So I at least was taught to judge myself, lest others judge me. Yet, they still judged. Christians are the best at judging other people, and letting them know where they fall short on their own expectations.
People these days love themselves to the point of narcissism. I'm pretty sure that's what she's getting at.
@@JoshuaGonzalez-nw1vh and no one is saying that or encouraging it. AT ALL. Grow up all of you. Seriously.
@@mslilly8960 they don't have to "encourage it" they do it of their own volition and it is rampant, make no mistake.
I'm conservative, not having kids and is a truck driver. By the way, I'm a straight woman. I don't want kids and I love having a job. Yous crazy if you think that I'm only made for having kids.
I know that's right!!!!
Curious, I've been marinated in lefty surroundings since I was a child, and I don't recall anyone ever saying these things. It's almost as if you're just severely misrepresenting a bunch of ideas from a group you've demonized. Please stop generalizing about what's good for women outside of the freedom of choosing their own way of life. People want different things, let it go. Also, I'm pretty sure "the left" isn't in charge of fashion :)
Fact!
It's really much easier for her to put words in people's mouths.
I’ve heard that through out my entire life, what she said it’s true
The audacity of Ben Shapiro putting on a wig and telling me what to do
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Just Like Loki
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I search "classically abby" just to read the comments and this one didn't disappoint
this is ridiculous. half of these are strawmen and none of them acknowledge that things can be empowering or good for one person and not for another, because we're all different.
Abby can only think in binary terms. Her way or the highway
Was just coming here to say this exact thing.
@@omglaserpewpewpew She also imposes that on other people, it's her way or the highway, and anyone who disagrees with her she thinks is also saying my way or the highway
Sex and the city directly influenced me Yo believe there was power in “having sex like a man”. Key and peele do a really funny skit about how it’s actually a man behind the campaign to tell women to be sluts. Pretty funny but clearly they see it too
Nailed it she screems about the insults whil eissuing more. What happens when people who can't have kids hear this insaneity? That's just cruel. Her name is not fitting. Someone with class would take the time to do research and not just say these things.
what's funny is i've heard NO ONE say this
yeah, you know why? Because most people aren't retarded
Conservatives are detached from reality.
Conservatives have to make shit up in order to make content.
Then I would have to say that you don’t listen
@@madeleinejones4406 do you? I went down the conservative rabbit hole for years and I only heard this type of shit from OTHER comservatives claiming they were liberal talking points. Never heard it directly.
Reading the comments really puts a smile on my face giving me hope for humanity knowing we aren't completely doomed.
I know.
1. What is empowering…is being able to CHOOSE the lifestyle you want. Criticizing someone for having sex outside of marriage is just as ridiculous as criticizing someone who voluntarily immersed themselves in religious purity culture.
2. Childbirth has a maternal mortality rate 14x higher than abortion, teen pregnancy has a 50%school dropout rate, and forcing single women to become mothers puts them at high risk for poverty, and their children for criminality & lower academic performance. By every metric, forcing women to give birth makes everyone (women, children, taxpayers) worse off.
3. If the most you can offer the world is your children, then motherhood IS fulfilling your potential. If you could cure cancer, but instead choose to engage in a job that literally any female placental mammal could do…then yes, it is a waste of your talent. (But you should still be free to choose it.)
4. Fat shaming people has been shown to increase depression and isolation, which usually results in increased weight gain. As for clothes, some women will feel empowered by covering up, others…by revealing themselves. Empowerment truly comes from the CHOICE.
5. An independent woman will not find herself trapped in a bad relationship just because she is dependent on her partner. There is a reason so many patriarchal cultures keep women out of school & the workforce, and marry them off so young. Dependence means they can be controlled.
FACTS!
To the kitchen with your bafoonery woman
You said everything so perfectly!
" Why don't we encourage women to embrace their natural strength as mothers?" - Gee I don't know Abby, why did Republicans cut help for families and funding for Planned Parenthood? Gee I wonder why women would avoid having children in a country where it costs a fortune to send them to college?? I WONDER
What Abby refuses to accept is that not all women are geared towards motherhood. Each woman gets to decide for herself if she wants to be a mother. We don't want to hear people like Abby telling us it's our job solely because it makes them uncomfortable if we don't do it.
The pitiful condition of an individual who follows Abbey’s videos and rants and raves in her comment section, because they don’t have a life or their own page to cry on. Individuals like you.
why do you keep on giving your two cents when you're not even a woman. lol.
@@megankissinger8269 this video is not for you. you are the one making the stupid generalization.
This comment section gives me hope that humanity can be saved LOL
What makes you feel entitled to tell us how to live?
It's so narcissistic to believe your way of living it's the only right way.
We are all different, we can want different things for ourselves and that's perfectly fine.
I don’t even agree with Abby, but to be fair her channel is targeted towards conservative/religious women. I don’t really feel like she’s narcissistic or dictating how other people should live, since you can choose whether to watch her videos or not. That being said she definitely comes across as smug in her beliefs a lot of the time
@@callumscornerstescoclubcar9100 this girls just projecting. She’s so mad at Abby for having her own opinions.
@@Theoriginalanimalcracker I'm not narcissistic for a simple reason. In oposition to Abby, I support whatever women want to do with their lives. They wanna be wifes and stay at home, great. They want to have no kids and develop a career, great. They want to hook up around, great.
I believe every woman is free to choose their path. Not like this girl, who bashes and look down with moral superiority to anyone who dares to wish a different life from the one she chooses.
@@Theoriginalanimalcracker I didn't twist her words. You're clearly not understanding.
@@masorikodoku23 I trust patterns. Sorry.
Abby: I HATE that they tell women to go OUT and get a JOB DISGUSTING!!! Why can't she be fulfilled at home???
Also Abby: you have to stay at home and have many babies
Girl you’re saying it’s not empowering for making a baby with someone. *but you’re also saying it’s empowering to have a family…*
Having 4 different baby daddies is NOT empowering.
I don’t necessarily think they’re told that causal sex is empowering, just that it’s okay if you have casual sex, it doesn’t make you a bad person or something. And not to look down on someone who does that
Pursue righteousness! Obey God's word. Turn from sin! Escape the wrath to come!
@@usausa3234 no go away
This is a total straw man version of the left. I move in left wing circles, we just don’t talk about this shit. “I find sex outside marriage to be SO empowering!” 😂
No one says that. It’s just live and let live. Consenting adults, freedom
@@usausa3234 We live in a free country... Keep your God comments to yourself.
@@usausa3234 Jesus was friends with a prostitute, the Bible encouraged incest 😂 gtfoh
Abby: Completely supports a persons personal freedom
Also Abby: COMPLETELY against someone who wants choses to have more than one intimate partner
@ximaine 100% Conservatives focus on what's the right thing to do and the left sees that as a threat because they think what they have the right to do is the right thing to do if that's what they like. And the mere fact of objecting to it is judgemental and an attempt to suppress their right. It's such a childish tactic.
@ximaine Who says that you're 'right'?
Micheal that isn’t a reasonable take
Most judgemental woman I've ever seen in my life.
Good. We need more judging in society.
@@matthewgallant3622 Why?
@@drewdickerson1177 Because we basically live in a narcissistic free for all today where you can be as godawful and shitty as you want and nothings every bad, it’s all the same, everything’s fluid, nothing matters, no matter how destructive it is to people around them. And nobody says shit.
Attractive though.
Which is something I, a bisexual woman, can see and appreciate even though she covers up.
This whole "covering up will not attract the wrong kind of attention, showing yourself will and it'll be your fault" thing is so nuts BUT I hear this in daily life and keep wondering why we are not over this
1. If someone wants to have premarital sex, that’s their business.
2. If someone wants or needs an abortion, that’s their business.
3. Fulfill your potential is different for everyone. Someone else’s potential is their business.
4. If someone wants to be comfortable with their body, that’s their business.
5. If a woman doesn’t want or need a man, that’s her business.
1. agreed
2. that's child murder
3. the purpose bestowed upon humans by nature is to procreate, and doing that is truly fulfilling your potential.
4. left is lying to women saying that being fat is attractive, when it's not, which is misleading women and lowering their chances to get with a mate they want.
5. everyone wants AND NEEDS a life partner, it's just that some people's egos are bigger than the Burj Khalifa and they're not willing to admit it. women are biologically wired to want to be with the strongest most dominant male within their reach, therefore yes, I am speaking for all women, and guess what ? I'm correct.
@@saarthakshandilya9733 yeah see that’s the problem with conservatives. They want everyone to think like they do. They don’t believe in freedom.
#2 Translation: If someone wants or "needs" infanticide, that's their business
@@jessicawest4515 the world is overpopulated anyway.
@@jessicawest4515 NOT an infant 🤡💩
as a leftist myself, it’s kind of funny how i’ve never heard any of these things coming from an actual leftist
Who do you actually watch? That's nonsense.
I grew up up in a conservative house and honestly my parents both worked. So it never ever occured to me that my mother was so (gasp fakely dramatically) horrible! Some people don't have welath! HELO! Like?!?! Sheesh. She and my father had 4 kids and we went to a private Christian school so that we could get a bettter education than the local schools. I do not think that was selfish of her or my father. They never left me wondering if I was loved. both worked together on the house. That's why I never bought that whole "Women need to clean and men can chill" lies! LOL ?
Man men and women both should know how to take care of themselves. When they are single how else ccan tehy sruvive? I'm telling you what if one of those red pill weirdo's tried to date me I'd ask him when he asks if I can cook or if I'm a virgin I will say it back to him. :D LOL I just think some people on the red pill side take things too far. I also think Abby is toxic not classic. Shehes. I'v eread the Bible plenty and it doesn't tell us we have to be married. It talks about those who are unablke to wait for sex prior to marraige. It is clear as day that those who aren't married are able to focus on God and God will never leave me alone.
A husbadn could die... or divorce your... there are many other things that could happen. In the end women need to learn to surivve alone.
I ain't being no housewife. You crazy.
So, I'm currently at #2 in the video and I gotta ask: is she trying to convince us, or herself? She doesn't seem to believe the things she's saying. At all!
It's called grifting. She knows she's lying through her teeth about other people's motivations, but hey, there's a payoff.
@@kamwickw933is there, though? Her channel isn’t doing well, her views have been abysmal, I can’t imagine she’s making all that much at this point.
I know she is that kinda of person, who doesn't have an opinion until Ben has one on smth an than adapts that without even understanding it. One can see in the way she articulates💀
You mean how she fails to articulate it😂 she just calls it stupid and wrong
@@GreyGirl999 yea exactly 😂
This is literally bullshit, she’s saying that because SHE enjoyed this lifestyle, everyone will. Oh, and on the abortion topic, if a twelve year old got raped and then was forced to give birth, would you still argue the same? And yes, I took the percentage into consideration. Nearly 140 million people give birth a year. With your statistics, 1% of them are not willingly doing it. This means that 1400000 people are giving birth against their will if abortion was illegal everywhere. Take a moment to think about that.
these conservatives will make that 12 year old have the child. they are so sick . they care about the unborn foetus compared to the actual living child
Doesn't legislation have exceptions for this case in particular?
That thumbnail could be a meme
@@dc2894lol true
Damn dude she sounds like she's on the verge of tears throughout the entire video. She's backed self-hatred into a logical corner and she's struggling with her basic beliefs.
This is usually about the point where they either wake up or double down.
@@mslilly8960 Not before they become drug addicts and emerge 6 months later from rehab with a new book published
@@thebrunoserge are you referring to yourself?
@@emptylikebox Talking about Jordan Peterson obviously. And many other right wing crazies
A wise elder once said “Only a Sith deals in absolutes.” Thank the lord we have Darth Pompous over here educating us all on what’s excepted of women.
I am trying hard not to be too petty and judgemental myself but this made me cackle so hard ahahah
Idiocy runs in the family.
They're proud of it! Inbreeding requires work and dedication
How much are you being paid to continuously embarrass yourself?
Her opinions are dangerous and while good for her they are not for the majority of people.
When you speed this up 1.5x she actually sounds exactly like Ben Shapiro :D
Hypothetically
Yes that’s her brother..
HAHAHA...it's so true
@@matthewgallant3622 *clone
I've watched the entire video, and I have a few things to say:
1. I'm not a fan of sleeping around and would never do it, but I don't look down on others who do. Sleeping around might not be empowering for you or women you know, but sometimes sex is just sex and has nothing to empowerment. Some people just seek out sex for pleasure and not for intimacy. Also, I agree that sex with someone who loves you would be ideal, however, you are making the assumption that every woman wants a husband or children. Not every woman wants a lifelong partner or dependent children. Some women, whether or not they engage in casual sex, don't want these things, and you should stop assuming they do.
2. You always say "women" instead of "some women". Not every woman is the same, but often, your videos are filled with generalizations about women and what they want. SOME women want a husband. SOME women want children. Generalizing an entire gender is regressive and makes it look like all women are a monolith.
3. You often fail to elaborate on your points and shut down other perspectives by calling the other opinion "stupid" or saying that it "makes you angry". By saying this, not only do you make it sound like you are unwilling to see another viewpoint, but you also sound authoritative. Your opinion is your opinion, not fact. Your opinion is not the correct way to live. Your opinion isn't better or truer than anyone else's opinion. You are entitled to how you feel, but don't act like what you think is the absolute truth.
4. For those who disagree with you, do you think insulting their perspective will make them agree with you? How can you expect someone to see your point of view if you're being condescending, waving their opinions off, and making mocking gestures and movements?
5. I have never considered myself an overt feminist, and I can't believe I'm saying this, but women will make their own choices, regardless of what you think or how judgemental you are. If a woman chooses to dress a certain way, that is her choice. If she chooses to marry, that is her choice. If she chooses to focus on her career, that is her choice as well. I'm generally conservative about many things, but I accept that women will do what they want regardless of how I feel. I might want a husband and kids, but not every woman will pursue that goal, and that's their choice. Just let people live the way they want to.
"Just let people live the way they want to."
That's always the response, isn't it? No, we will not let women continue to do things like murder their children. Or this new horror of "trans" children, sterilizing/sexually mutilating them to pretend they are the opposite sex. The most vile child abuse I've ever seen in my 50+ years on this planet.
Understand that our lives are not our own. We will give account to God for how we live.
@@Yesica1993 That's always the response because that's the way life works. Human beings have free will. What are you going to do, imprison every woman who disagrees with you and get an abortion regardless? Whether or not you personally agree with what a person does is irrelevant because no matter how feel, people gave the choice to live however they want.
@@djervalevy9784 Of course women who murder their children should be in prison. And the butchers who do it need the death penalty. No civilized society allows people to murder - especially CHILDREN - with no legal consequences for it!
@@Yesica1993 You're not responding to my sentence. Nowhere in my last statement did I ever mention abortion. If you want to respond, why don't you respond to what I'm saying?
@@djervalevy9784 Yes, you did:
"That's always the response because that's the way life works. Human beings have free will. What are you going to do, imprison every woman who disagrees with you and get an abortion regardless?"
Abby’s main point in this video: “if you don’t live your life EXACTLY the way I do, you’re immoral !!!1!!!”
Lol. Not every woman is the same. The whole point of feminism is women having the choice to live our lives the way we chose. If you want to dress modestly & have a traditional marriage, that’s your right! But some women don’t want that, and that’s their right too. Not sure what’s difficult about this.
Agreed!
She's constructed a series of strawman arguments that are built on a web of near-paranoic assumptions.
What's difficult about it is that some people just really, really want to tell others how to live.
What's difficult is that it's not the way she wants, even though Americans live in a democracy. The irony is that they go on to call leftists totalitarian, lmao.
It would be nice if you could pick out one thing and pointed it out for its inconsistencies rather than throwing punches in the air.....
So, what were your goals BEFORE you had kids? Did your (also conservative) parents tell you that you had to work before you were ever married or had kids?
Also, why do you hate empowerment?
Such fragile femininity. So much blather about the "immodesty" of women and how they shouldn't be having sex with anyone and everyone. Not a word about toxic masculinity (I'm sorry, no we don't tell men their wives are important. Men always get a pass if they are promiscuous, even when they are married.) Not a word about teaching young men women aren't meant to be "notches" on the bed post. Lots of garbage about how women should be healthy, without one consideration for the fact that not everyone has an easy time keeping weight off, for a variety of reasons. Not one thought to the women who perhaps don't have what it takes to mother a child with special needs, or is unwilling to submit another human being to a life of being disabled, blind, etc. I also noticed there don't seem to be any victims of rape or incest in her little bubble either. Why she things being empowered doesn't include staying home and taking care of kids, I don't understand. As for eschewing men, she doesn't have a good argument for being a stable, competent, single woman other than she doesn't like it. Silliness from the beginning to end, this.
5 Things I made up that make me angry
This comment section is everything I could have hoped for
I have a few things to say…
1. Firstly, QUIT GENERALIZING ALL WOMENS!! Not all women want to get married and settle down. Some don’t even believe in marriage and consider it to just be a piece of paper. Also there’s nothing wrong with having sex for just the pleasure of it not just to get pregnant. I personally have had sex for pleasure and hookups and all that and I do enjoy it, although I do like it in a relationship as well. And what about those who get married more than once or divorced?
2. Just gonna say straight up, I’m 100% pro choice. Women’s body, women’s choice all the way. You don’t have the right to judge or tell me what I can and can’t do with my body. I’m so tired of hearing the same bull from prolifers saying abortion is murdering babies. There’s many reason why women get abortions, not just cuz of careers. What about incest, rape, or health issues that can cause you to die. Screw that.
3. QUIT GENERALIZING ALL WOMEN. Not all women are the same. Not all women want to be stay at home mothers. I sure as hell don’t want to be. You can be conservative and still be a working career women. What is so wrong with being a mother and wanting to have a career? I have nothing against being a SAHM. My mother was a SAHM for my whole childhood up till I graduated high school when we decided to start working again.
4. Not all women want to be modest. I’m personally not modest at all and refuse to be. I shouldn’t have to cover up cuz of men or whoever. I respect my body, but I shouldn’t have to dress in a way to prove I do when I already do. Also just cuz a women is bigger doesn’t mean she’s not healthy. There’s many reasons for women being bigger.
5. Not all women find happiness from marriage or just men in general. What about the LGBT? Can’t assume all women want a man in their life. It’s not stupid that some women don’t feel like they need a man in their life and just choose to no want a man and want to be on their own and have freedom. Men tend to be worse for you than anything else especially the abusive ones. What about abusive ones? You never once said anything about abusive toxic relationships with men
Yes except that Abby and her followers truly believe that if you aren’t straight, don’t want children, and love the career you’re in then you’re not normal and need to seek help.
@@audreyf9092 oh I’ve noticed! It’s honestly really sad and just not the only way to live life. A bit heart breaking In a way
@@audreyf9092 Not to mention that her way of speaking is abrasive and condescending. I'm religious and conservative, but the way she speaks makes me want to not get married or have children, ever.
@@audreyf9092 LOL! When did she say that? Give me the video and the time stamp. LOL!
(But I will certainly say if you're not straight you're not normal and you do need to seek help. This is sexual deviancy and will lead to your destruction.)
@@audreyf9092 Did you know you can turn off videos? LOL!
Thank you for acknowledging the job of motherhood! ❤️
Hey Abby girlie, amazing how you just spend this entire video demonizing women for getting pregnant when they don’t want to be without taking into consideration that their bodies and lives are none of your damn business. You go girlboss queen!!
Is she attempting to be the Moral High horse like her brother Ben?
The 1st point is completely out to lunch. Sexual attraction and Sexuality is the primary means that woman use to habe power over men. So, I you can't use sex then you have NO power...
Abortion is a womans' issue. I don't know if you ever priced out having children. Children are basically 20 mortgage payment that you can't foreclose on. (20 year duration car payment!)
He pointed about being a Stay Home Mom just shows how ignorant she is in this matter. Stay at home mom is now classified as a Luxury today. I say that because only rich people can do that. I am guessing that she was brought up in a fairly affluent household.
Here’s an inspirational idea for all us ladies
We all have a potential to fulfill in life BUT create your own potential to fulfill. Create your own goals and dreams that you wish to fill. Every single woman has her own potential to fill. Whether that’s being a mother, being a successful business woman, having an amazing job, traveling, helping the poor, being a leader, living in a small town or a big city… create your own potential to live out your happiness in life!! Whatever it may be, GO FOR IT GIRL!! Don’t let this selfish society tell you what you ought to do with your life. Live your life the way you wish to fulfill your dreams 🤍
It’s really incredible how creative people get with their reasoning when they want to hide their hateful agendas
A fetus isn't a child...so an abortion isn't murder.
This is surreal she looks and sounds like Ben😭😭😂. Damn just discovered her today the matrix is broken, that said her takes are as horrible as her brother's.
"If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first."
I’m such a child. When she said “having sex Willy nilly” I chuckled “Willy” in my head. I will grow up one day, but today is not that day.
2:27 Holy shit Abby, you're turning into the spitting image of your brother! The nasally, almost childish tone on the "and it's stupid" sounds damn near exactly like Ben. This must be a great milestone for you!
hahahah. sad
She has a deeper more masculine voice than squeaky Ben, and you know it.
What are you antisemetic?
I loves how she thinks we should let her be to live her life with her own values, yet she’s telling anyone with values or that lives differently than her that they are absolutely wrong..half the stuff she says is hypocritical and skewed to fit her narrative
It's called traditionalism, you can be liberal for sure, but Abby is happy, and she's encouraging you to follow her path for being happy. Yes it doesn't work for everyone, literally no one's advise does.
It's possible for people to pursue casual hookups while being mutually invested in the other person's overall pleasure and experience and respect theming as a person. They're not always mutually exclusive concepts. There's also nothing wrong with pursuing hookups, or being in a monogamous relationship or a relationship that practices ethical non-monogamy. Also, there are lots of people who might alternate between casual hookups, relationships and a more serious one depending on circumstances exist
You must be in your 20s to have these delusional takes. Wait until 35.
Am I self destructive for wanting to hear what she has to say about lesbians?
....What's more empowering is having the ability to control whether or not I STAY pregnant if I don't want to be. And what's more attractive to me is a person who, if I DID get pregnant, would support my choice to abort it(aka. remove the life that is feeding off my body against my will), because I would rather die than bear a child. To me, it's more empowering to have hookups, because I have a way to enjoy myself with someone else who also just wants to have fun. Give me a world where women can just get their tubes tied at 18, and not get push-back about it at the doctor's office for some hypothetical man she might supposedly end up with. That's empowering. Women choosing what they want to do with their lives is empowering, not being told what their life should be...you know...like what you're doing.
And to be clear, I'm ABSOLUTELY saying that, if a woman WANTS kids, and a monogamous lifestyle, she should be able to have that too. But to tell women the only empowering way to live is by following some nonsense 'status quo' is, itself, DISEMPOWERING! That's what the Left is trying to communicate. We aren't saying that women can 'only be empowered by sleeping with anyone who wants you'. That's EQUALLY as gross and wrong. You are just as bad as the nonexistent hypothetical Leftists you are preaching against. ALL the Left really wants is for women to be free and empowered to live the life THEY WANT, and not all women want to be monogamous, married, and pregnant. Conversely, we know not all women want to be polyamorous, unmarried, and childfree. The issue is you disempower women by trying to claim that women can ONLY be happy in this one, minuscule box you find joy in yourself...and that's not okay.
In regards to 'fulfilling your potential', as you put it...No, we ALSO don't think women can't do that unless they get big careers outside the home. The problem is, thanks to capitalism, most women HAVE to, or there will be no home to live in. The Right, and its obsession with capitalism is the problem here. And, of course, we on the Left believe a woman should be able to do WHATEVER she wants with her life. This means she should be free to be a stay-home mom if she wants, or she can work for NASA or become a leading surgeon if she wants...or anything in between. ALL the Left wants is for people to pursue the life they want most. Period. Nothing more, nothing less. But currently, women CAN'T be stay-home moms unless they happen to marry one of the 1%, and have everything afforded by their partner's parents and whatever job their spouse has that grants them the massive amount of money required to live at all comfortably these days. So, like it or not, the very system YOUR SIDE supports is the main reason women almost NEVER have the option to BE stay-at-home mothers...You can't have it both ways, Abby...Fight for a system that lets people live at least relatively comfortably, regardless of work, or support capitalism, which makes it nigh IMPOSSIBLE to do that, unless you won the birth lotto, and ended up raised by filthy-rich parents.
Can a woman fulfill her purpose if she can't have kids?
Talk to women after they enter their 40s and see if they still have a liberal mindset. If you do they're childless and suffering from all the mental issues in the book. Zoloft's a bitch.
WHO ARE YOU TO TELL ANYONE WHAT TO DO?
WHY DON'T YOU GO TO A COUNTRY THAT
PRACTICES SHARIA LAW, BECAUSE THIS IS
THE VIBE I'M GETTING FROM YOU.
Also Most films geared towards women are pretty obvious about the fact that the women is either going to get her happily ever after in a family or with the boy she falls in love with, even if she doesn’t end up with that boy at the end she’s eventually gonna find someone he just was not the one. It usually isn’t about women being the girl boss it’s understanding that you don’t have to be in a relationship all the time to be happy you also need to learn to be your self too and you don’t necessarily need to be in a relationship to make some thing of yourself but that doesn’t mean that you need to be alone either you can be both you can be happy with someone and have the baby/ happy ever after and be a strong independent woman
question: ever heard of kibbe body types? i feel like you might enjoy researching it and doing a video on it.
Yes! They're fun!
@@dc2894 She won't reply - shes a disingenuous charlatan just like Ben is.
@@ClassicallyAbby so you do read the comments....
...Of you being totally demolished for your weak takes aka feelings over your alternative "facts".
They're not sending their best.
I have now come to the conclusion that she is, in fact acting in this video. She is pretending to believe/espouse these beliefs. And she is an horrendous actor.
This video would have worked very well in the 1950s. The title Classicallly Abby is correct. They literally taught these concepts from textbooks in the 50s. However, this is 2022 and if her wants and wishes, however valid, are not yours, that's alright. Humans evolve and adapt. Otherwise we would have gone extinct long ago.
@@jacobgrafstrom1917 According to....
What's really "empowering" for anyone is the freedom to turn off a this video at the 1 minute mark thus ensuring this Abby person doesn't receive any credit or monies from them clicking here.
Another great title for this video would be "Five Examples of the Straw Man Fallacy."
Speaking of that, keep an eye out for my upcoming video: "Conservatives Hunt the Homeless For Sport, And I'm Against It."
A great video! This list just shows the reason for so many frustrated women, physically and mentally ill, taking medicine to wake up, to sleep... My grandmother was more "empowered" and loved by her 8 children and my grandfather than you, a mediocre worker at a multinational company. Sorry, is true.
What about nuns?
lmao i love how everyone is just shitting on her
Because they don't finish the video, at most they'll listen to a minute or 2.
As a leftie-what? I don’t think you’re really understanding what our views are…
Sex with random strangers is not empowering. Having your CHOICE to be sexual in a safe consensual way without judgement is empowering. The fact that you can choose to have sex and still be who you are (unlike the traditional idea that you are no longer pure therefore lost your worth mentality) is empowering. No one is actually saying to reach empowerment get you a whole bunch of random sex.
Also abortion is not murder- let’s get that off the table
Right on. But nuance or acknowledging the complexity of reality does not seem to be Abby’s thing on this channel.
Yessss I know women who are married and not having meaningful sex anymore
Without judgment is a stupid expectation. When people on the left stop judging Conservatives for not cognitively assenting to trans identity, then maybe, just maybe, you’ll earn the right to demand no judgment all around. Until then, keep dreaming.
Abortion kills an innocent person so yes, it's murder.
First of all, kudos for leaving the comments on
Good content. Keep it up
Stability, love, home or annoyance, discomfort, pain, tears, feeling stuck, wasting time with a man who brings out the worst in me, I can go on. Yeah, I'm better off without that sh*t in my life and don't tell me I need to find a partner to make me better.
but. i DON’T need a man 💀 i don’t need a man to feel good about myself. women shouldn’t have to rely on a man to live good lives and to get validation 💀
"Men need women, women need men. Done"
The queer community: Mr Stark, I don't feel so good....
How do you have a channel/subscribers? No one in the comments are on your side 😂
we say its acceptable, and shouldnt be shunned upon
not empowering
Yes! Yes! And Yessssss!!
0:57- 1:05
It is up to the individual woman to decide what is and is not empowering to herself. Imagine four women.
One women is asexual and aromantic, she never has sex or gets into a relationship.
One woman is aromantic, but not asexual, she has casual sex regularly.
One woman is a fan of getting into a committed monogamous relationship. However, she does not desire to have children.
One woman wants to be a wife and a mother.
These four women all know what lifestyle is best for themselves, because it is their lives.
why does the right yell about things the public could care less about
It isn't really for you to decide what is and what isn't empowering for other women. I've had good experiences where random one night stands and threesomes and have been super fun. Saying it is "wrong" and "stupid" is just really judgemental. If you find sex to be an extremely emotional thing then perhaps casual relations aren't for you but lets not shame those who do. I will say that sex with one person with a longer period of time does feel better, but that generally because the longer you a with a partner the more they get to know your body and what they like. Also I had an abortion and hands down was one of the best decision of my life. Waking up to huge sickness and vomiting everyday just wasn't making me happy. Having my abortion made me happy. I guess it is all about choice at the end of the day. If you choose to be at home as a house wife or if you choose to be successful in your career - what matters the most is if you are happy in life.
Naa sista youre morally damaged and you need help
@@AR-ri8xw im good thanks x
unfortunately that's exactly what she's gunning for, "empowering" women by telling them they have no choice but to only think of sex as a weapon to snare a man, make him marry you, and give you babies. She's a rich girl who was trained from birth to be a trophy wife and to look down on other people who aren't that way.
@@ashfox7498I don’t think you are entitled to assert that much.
You sound very morally lost. I will judge what you do as immoral. I do not, however, judge you. You can still become a better person. Maybe one day you’ll wake up and see the better things in life besides ego, ego and ego.
Who are the mothers who are "doing it well"? What criteria measures those mothers who are "really put(ting) in the effort"? Whom would you like to give that credit?
Lol, on the first one she said it was wrong and stupid. Compelling argument. You really slammed that one home.
She shows many of her own biases, like her indicating that it's not empowering to an overweight woman to be dressed "immodestly". If we take two women, say one 300 pounds overweight and one normal weight, everyone can see that the former is overweight REGARDLESS of what she is or isn't wearing. By saying we shouldn't tell women they should love their bodies if they're overweight, or don't exercise enough, or don't eat right (people often disagree about what the best foods to eat even are!l) she's really just shaming women, and indicating her own fatphobia as well.
@@edwardunderhill9012 I thought men aren't supposed to have opinions on women's issues? LOL!
😆 Stay mad. 😂
Yet another video filled with non-arguments and lies. Nice work!
I cannot tell you how many women have tried to belittle me for being a SAHM to my 3 kids. As if working for a stranger is so much more important! The truth is that these women do not want to be with their kids (they have husbands who make enough money) -so they have to put others down who do. It makes me wonder why they had children in the first place.
Isn't it funny? If I told them I was a tutor for a kid full time, they'd think that was amazing. But if I tell them it's my own kid, they'll look down on me.
Women who work still want to be with their kids lmao some have to work to support their children and others just love to work. If women stayed at home and never worked we wouldn’t have nurses, teachers, and other woman dominated fields that are so important.
@@audreyf9092 Yeah I’m speaking specifically from my experience of women who do not financially need to work and say things to me like, “ugh, I could never stay home all day with my kids” . I don’t look down on women who don’t want to be sahm moms , I just don’t get why have them if you only want to spend minimal time with them. And why look down on me?
@@iheartclothestx1862 Sounds like you're generalizing from a pretty tiny handful of people being mean to you to tar the whole feminist movement with the same brush. It's tempting to take a personal anecdote and build a wide opinion on a big topic, but it's not accurate to do that. Also you're leaving out the historical patriarchal framework that right up until the 20th century kept women bound only to the home, regardless of their skills or preferences - this is the same oppressive framework that would prefer women didn't vote. It's important to keep that context in mind, because feminism isn't about hating men or stay at home moms. It's about equality.
@@iheartclothestx1862 Who is telling you that it's bad to be a stay at home mom? Who are you hanging out with, that would make a stupid statement like that? How dare they judge you. Let's watch abby judge all them!! It's bad to judge you, but it's good to judge others.
I do think about that a lot why do they seem to want us to be gross?
You are right about the first one for sure, Abby. I dont think people should ever be looked down upon for having multiple partners, but its very important to know the risks associated with this. STIs are another risk. It doesnt seem very empowering for someone to make themself sick.
Also, you are a very educated young woman. Staying at home with your kids doesnt change that in any way. Women's rights means empowering all women, whether they are working or in the home.
Another 'lie' that I cant stand is that women dont need to rest during their menstrual cycle/to just continue life as normal. For some women, cramps and heavy cycles mean they need to rest for a couple days.
Love it.
Okay but for the abortion one.. you cannot tell me that you wouldn’t choose your own life over the fetus if your life were in danger. You would not willingly leave your living child behind.
So do women (and men for that matter) who choose monastic lifestyles (monks/nuns) make you angry also?
Body Positivity- I'm overweight. Am I to hate my body? By hating my body is that supposed to encourage me to be skinnier? And clearly you're very uneducated on how fatness correlates with health. Who decides who looks "better" wearing what? That is simply a bias that you are comfortable with because you have been privileged enough to have a smaller body (not accounting for any situational weight fluctuation that all women have).
Tbh i think alot of ppl dont support alot of these arguments only because they still are learning about themselves and focusing more on society than their personal lives.
There are parents who all who respect everyone's choices and wish one of them had the luxury of staying home. They can't do to the realities of things like the rising cost of living
Not that there isn't people who don't respect the people they hook up with, but that can unfortunately happen in relationships too. At the end of the day, what's important is that sexual encounters are consensual safe and mutually enjoyable for everyone. Regardless if it's within the confines of any kind of relationship or not. And of course I know that there are people who enjoy casual hookups when it's pleasurable and consensual. But then it's even better when in a relationship with someone since they get all those benefits and more because. Because if it's someone they're in love with or want to be with
I couldn't make it past number 3. This was just too funny. To put it politely, you clearly have a very limited understanding of the "left" and of the world around you
1:47- 2:03
That does happen. Men sometimes panic in response to pregnancy announcements. I have an idea for how to prevent that. Let’s make sterilisation surgeries more readily available.
Even if you are married, your husband still might not want to have children.
10:28- 10:32
This means that, if a woman would prefer to remain single, that is fine. Even if she would like to find a relationship, that does not mean that she is doomed to loneliness and misery if she is unable to get a man.
10:37- 11:01
These fictional women are able to find themselves with no need for a man. Women in real life can do that too. That is great.
11:01- 11:28
We are encouraging women to decide weather they want a family or not. That is a decison you can make for yourself.
My favorite film franchise is the Karate Kid. Young Daniel LaRusso has a different love interest each film. He is capable of being happy weather he is in a relationship or not.
1. Who is the left? An entity? An organization? Just wondering. 2. I have literally NEVER heard anyone say that people should go out and have sex with lots of people. Ever. I HAVE heard that we should stop shaming people for their sex lives, which seems perfectly reasonable, but I don't hear people encouraging others to have lots of sex. 3. I have also literally never heard anyone tell someone else to have an abortion. That is such a stupid argument. 4. The way you talk about abortion makes it very clear that you are either purposefully spreading misinformation or you yourself are uneducated. An ectopic pregnancy is deadly to the mother if an abortion is not performed. An incomplete miscarriage is deadly to the mother if an abortion is not performed. You don't have to like abortion, but if you cannot accept that abortion is a medical procedure that saves lives, then you need to check yourself. Women who very much want children need abortions every single day to save their own lives. 5. Show me someone who ever said that women are not fulfilling their potential by staying home and raising children. That is a ridiculous idea and one I doubt is ever said by a serious person. No one thinks women should all go to work, but rather that women should be allowed to do what they want to do. Saying that women have a purpose of raising children is so stupid. If that were the case, we would say that infertile women are worthless. Raising children is incredibly meaningful, but it isn't an interest for everyone. Wtf is wrong with that? 6. Why not encourage women to be independent. Marriage doesn't work out for a ton of people. I would argue that being independent and alone is better than being in a decade-long relationship with a man that brutally beats their wife or sexually assaults them or emotionally abuses them. I'm not saying that men all behave this way, but I am saying that valuing marriage above all else can be problematic in many many ways. I would like to be married, but I am not going to settle for someone that treats me like garbage or that doesn't share my values, and I think me being independent is better than crossing my own boundaries just for the sake of being married.
Last of all, you are allowed to live your life however you want and other people should too, that doesn't make others' way of life wrong as you seem to constantly imply.
1. Who is the left? An entity? An organization? Just wondering.
LOL! The entire default of the culture, especially influencers like Hollywood, education, the news, social media - ALL are on the Left. You know that. Don't play like you don't.
2. I have literally NEVER heard anyone say that people should go out and have sex with lots of people. Ever. I HAVE heard that we should stop shaming people for their sex lives, which seems perfectly reasonable, but I don't hear people encouraging others to have lots of sex.
LOL! It's only shoved in our faces day and night from every angle. Go watch a music video or something.
And if you're doing something shameful with your sex life, you should be shamed.
The rest of your wall of text I didn't read.
@@Yesica1993 saying "the left" as if it is one thing doesn't make any sense. Political ideology exists on a spectrum and even the left side of the spectrum includes an extremely broad range of opinions and beliefs. I am aware of many celebrities in Hollywood, news outlets, educators, and influencers (Classically Abby included) who would likely not categorize themselves as having "leftists" views, so I am not sure how you can say those are "the left" that you disagree with without being hypocritical in some way.
The portrayal of sex lives of any kind does not mean it is being encouraged. True crime shows have a cult following, does that mean those shows are encouraging crime? Or does it mean they are just portraying something that exists? When it comes to defining what sorts of sexual behavior is "shameful", I'm not sure who we turn to for the guidebook because it would seem that no one can agree. Many religions have differing opinions and not everyone follows a religion. Therefore, just because someone does not like how someone else behaves in their sex life, does not mean that that sexual behavior is morally wrong nor should either person have any authority on the matter.
I am not surprised to see that you did not bother to read the rest of my text wall because, I too, know that having to read something long and/or covering an opinion that differs from your own may open the door for you to learn something, and damn that would be scary.
@@sarahbrown126 The left is the boogeyman! It is responsible for ALL the ills of society.