Crying can be painful but it can also be beautiful. Let it remind you of the love and connection we all share as part of this amazing community. It's OK to be vulnerable and cry even if just for little while. And it may not make you feel better right away, but it will. I promise 💙💚💜
Everything about this situation just hurts so damn much. We have to be thankful for the time we spent with the people we lose, and know that it’s all in the past now, that there’s nothing we could have done. Accepting what has happened is painful, but all too necessary.
@@FalloutProto you are right but we also gotta help those that are in pain and help them get through it because if we dont we will lose more and more people than we already have
rali and snowball were very important to me, especially rali, she made every night perfect with her voice, calmness, love and affection, when snowball was gone, I just wished the best for rali because snowball was very important to her and all of us, but it didn't happen, I wish I could go back in time and do something to reverse this, we will all miss you both, rest in peace
Been listening to Rali for probably about 3 years, and got to meet her a few times, I wish I could have become her friend. I dreamt about her the morning after she left us, I've spent most of the past few days going in and out of tears, it's going to be rough for all of us. We'll all get through this together, because we, this community, and this fandom, are a family.
Snowball was such a kind hearted person, even if they didn’t show it that often. They taught me to express myself, to have fun, and to be positive. Without that I would be a completely different person. Life is too cruel for the people that occupy it, and snow absolutely did not deserve any of what happened. I won’t ever forget you and what you did for me. Thank you, Cameron.
This is such a sweet video that i think is exactly what a lot of people need right now. I know the furry asmr space is a place where a lot of people go to for comfort and i worry that now it may just serve as a reminder of the pain many are going through. I think addressing it like this and encouraging people to process what theyre feeling and helping them through that as well as talking about your own journey can be uplifting to many people. This video felt like a warm hug and i think many will truly appreciate that.
I only wish it was pushed out a little sooner. I was so broken by everything that happened by Thursday. I’m lucky to still be here, lucky to be able to honor and grieve. It still hurts, I don’t think it will ever stop hurting, but it will get better. We will heal. If you’re reading this, I care about you, I can’t be there with you, but I know that others can. You matter to so many people, I promise, even if you don’t think so.
Egee, it hurts. I tried to help her. I messaged Rali and tried to be by her side. I was one of the last few people she messaged and she didnt even know me... Thank you for all you've done for us.
Unfortunately as a man we are taught to lock away the part of us that allow us to cry for many reasons and it is only been rationalized by ourselves and the people around us. It took me a long time to be able to be comfortable again with crying.
I wish I was more like you emotionally. As an emotional person, I find it hard to learn when to stop crying or when to not cry. It was very comforting listening to this. You're a comforting fluff
*My heart goes out to Snowball and RaliDali. Snowball is how i got to enjoy Furry ASMR and ASMR in General. She got me to discover other artists like You and Manny. My heart aches with great remorse with the Fandom. I'm crying as I'm writing this, because my Great Aunt came to mind, further fueling the fire to my Pain. This world is too cruel. And I am Bargaining with myself to ease the pain of Snowball and Rali's Passing. Im still depressed from my Great Aunt's Passing and a Family Friend from Church too. Eventually, depression will follow up from snowball and rali. Then eventually, I will learn to accept the deaths of Snowball, Rali, My Church Friend and My Aunt.*
Lisening to asmr reminds me of them... their content helped me through a lot. I just feel sad and empty. I have commented on my favourite video from Snowball to say thank you and goodbye to them, then i just cried while lisening to that video. I feel like i lost people close to me, even though i didnt know them. I wish that things would have turned out different and they would still be here. I hope they rest in peace.
I knew snow, we weren’t super close, but we chatted. I never really knew rali, however. But it hurts all the same. It’s okay to feel sad, and to grieve the loss of people you didn’t know. It’s okay to be affected by their loss, and it does hurt, but it gets better.
This video was uploaded on probably the worst day of my life so far, 18 hours of nonstop bad news, stress and anxiety, and seeing this video is really helping with the calm down. Being able to cry has been something that I’ve found really hard, and it especially hurts as I thought I was comfortable with crying, but I can just never seem to cry, Ever. I shed atleast one tear tonight but that’s it. Tomorrow is a new day, I’m still alive and that’s all that counts, but god I feel like things will get worse with the coming days.
There was a 20+ period in my life where I found it difficult to cry. It would happen very rarely, like maybe once every 5 years or so. There were many times where I wanted to so badly, but for whatever reason it just wouldn't come. I had somehow conditioned myself not to cry. It wasn't until a few years ago where it started coming more natural, when I really sat down to reflect, think about and feel what I was feeling. In my case, I think I tended to run away from my emotions rather than confront them. They were too uncomfortable to deal with, so I'd distract myself with work, chores, etc. It comes a lot more naturally now (and frequently!), but it's still hard sometimes. It's a process, and sometimes it takes a lot of patience and introspection. I never knew Snowball and Rali, nor did I ever really follow their work. And yet I am saddened by their loss all the same. They seemed like good people.
They were such amazing people. If you could, just keep them in your mind. I obviously won’t know if anyone does, but the thought makes me feel ever so slightly better.
I think the numbness can just screw it up at points too until it all bottlenecks and blows out together at a later time. Feeling pretty numb again now tbh. This vid did help though. Others perspectives, thought processes are always nice to hear.
you sharing your feelings on hard topics that men really aren't socially allowed to explore have been incredibly helpful and reassuring. thank you for making these videos!
Ah, this hits home to listen to. I spent a lot of time in tears during my teenage years, due to some stuff going on in my life, and I guess as I grew up I sort of convinced myself that I had to be strong and not do it. As I've gotten older, I've realised that this was not the smartest idea I have ever had, and now it is hard for me to let myself get that upset - sometimes I wish I could be more in touch with that side of my emotional life. Sadness is an integral part of the human experience, and how we deal with it is the important thing.
This situation had me in a world of hurt, so much so that I attempted. But only thanks to my amazing mother, am I writing this. Be thankful for what you have, it can be lost so damn easily. And please please PLEASE, talk to people and get help if you’re in a time of crisis. I read a similar comment at the time of the attempt and thought that it was stupid, that there was no point, but those resources are always available, people care. I care, and if no one else has told you today, I love you. ❤
I'm just lost man. Both theirs and your content helped me through tough times, and now I find that maybe there's no hope, which is pretty silly but that's where my thoughts are going to. Edit: Egee, please know that your content has helped me through a lot of difficult times. A lot of the videos you've posted helped me cope a fluff ton with certain stuff. But I'm not sure I can cope with the loss of these 2 furballs lmao
Seriously thanks for this egee, I think this is so so important. I’ve been trying to find myself again lately, I really lost myself and my emotions on this medication, learning to cry again after a long time of nothing is hard. I’ve not interacted wildly with this community but all the news lately has been hard, grief is really hard. I’ve spent years grappling with grief, and this is truly heart wrenching. All that to say, thank you again, this is important 💚
In searching for ways to help me through the immense hurt I have felt since Rali left this world, I found this. I never thought someone whom I've never met would have such an effect on me. Everything about the situation flooded over the dams I used to internalize sorrow and grief. I don't think I'll ever be the same again. The world certainly won't be the same without her light shining for us.
thank you for this, I've been wondering why i didn't cry for this long without acknowledging that i might just don't know how to cry anymore i might need to go to therapy again, thanks for reminding me man, and i mean it
Thank you for your content Egee, with the time passing I can finally listen again without having such a searing pain, and your words really do comfort me. Take care❤❤
Personally, i think it feels good to cry. But you still need an outlet for all that emotion. It’s good to talk to people and open up, even though it’s REALLY hard.
I hoped I would find peace by doing so too, but I’m still here, and honestly you never really find that peace, you just hold onto that scar forever. I loved them both so much, and I will continue to do so.
It definitely feels that way. It feels good to get it out, and crying while writing this, I have noticed that it hurts a little less. And it has almost made me kinda happy
20:57 i'm not a professional but in my unprofessional opinion i don't think this is much of a healthy mindset to have, although i can't describe it in a better way myself, but i just embrace it
At the end of the day, if you don't cry now, you will cry later. There's almost no doubt about it. So, it's better to figure out how to treat yourself inside because, with all of the recently shed doctrine of "men don't cry" simply /does not/ work. And, fun fact, they did a study at some point that tests the composition of tears, they do contain different hormones depending on the reason. They even form different kinds of ice crystals patterns, it's rather pretty.
As hard and hurtful as the news might be, along with anything else tearing at our minds...Please get help, and try to help yourself...we all need to love and keep an eye on each other...talk to each other...because you never know what a person is hiding, nor what they are feeling...R.I.P to them both...🥀
Because of the fallen state of humanity, our bodies are subject to all manners of suffering, tragedy, evil, and sickness. The only salvation and atonement that humanity can ever experience is through God. For, Jesus Christ is the Truth, the Path, and the Life. Crying can be a sign of strength, but letting those emotions consume your logic and stagnate your evolutionary expansion is when crying transmutes into a bastardization of its former designed purpose. And, those who partake in this particular endeavor can be given strength and rejuvenation. And, Spiritual Fruits will be arisen as a result. "Not only that, but we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not put us to shame, because God's love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us." -Romans 5:3-5
It's ok to cry it's not a sign of weakness it never was, it is something very much apart of us it is one of the things that makes us unique as human beings 🫂💚🌻
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Crying can be painful but it can also be beautiful. Let it remind you of the love and connection we all share as part of this amazing community. It's OK to be vulnerable and cry even if just for little while. And it may not make you feel better right away, but it will. I promise 💙💚💜
Thanks Egee
I hope so, it hurts so much.
After this i went and cried for about 20 minutes because i miss them both 😭😭😭
Everything about this situation just hurts so damn much. We have to be thankful for the time we spent with the people we lose, and know that it’s all in the past now, that there’s nothing we could have done. Accepting what has happened is painful, but all too necessary.
@@FalloutProto you are right but we also gotta help those that are in pain and help them get through it because if we dont we will lose more and more people than we already have
rali and snowball were very important to me, especially rali, she made every night perfect with her voice, calmness, love and affection, when snowball was gone, I just wished the best for rali because snowball was very important to her and all of us, but it didn't happen, I wish I could go back in time and do something to reverse this, we will all miss you both, rest in peace
Been listening to Rali for probably about 3 years, and got to meet her a few times, I wish I could have become her friend. I dreamt about her the morning after she left us, I've spent most of the past few days going in and out of tears, it's going to be rough for all of us. We'll all get through this together, because we, this community, and this fandom, are a family.
I haven't interacted with this community much, but what's been going on has me hurting. Such friendly people gone way too soon.
Agreed. Tragic.
@@NoahHolden-ln2no Definitely. It hurts bad. They were such pleasant people and had a big impact on many young queer people such as myself.
Snowball was such a kind hearted person, even if they didn’t show it that often. They taught me to express myself, to have fun, and to be positive. Without that I would be a completely different person.
Life is too cruel for the people that occupy it, and snow absolutely did not deserve any of what happened. I won’t ever forget you and what you did for me. Thank you, Cameron.
This is such a sweet video that i think is exactly what a lot of people need right now. I know the furry asmr space is a place where a lot of people go to for comfort and i worry that now it may just serve as a reminder of the pain many are going through. I think addressing it like this and encouraging people to process what theyre feeling and helping them through that as well as talking about your own journey can be uplifting to many people. This video felt like a warm hug and i think many will truly appreciate that.
I only wish it was pushed out a little sooner. I was so broken by everything that happened by Thursday. I’m lucky to still be here, lucky to be able to honor and grieve. It still hurts, I don’t think it will ever stop hurting, but it will get better. We will heal.
If you’re reading this, I care about you, I can’t be there with you, but I know that others can. You matter to so many people, I promise, even if you don’t think so.
Egee, it hurts. I tried to help her. I messaged Rali and tried to be by her side. I was one of the last few people she messaged and she didnt even know me...
Thank you for all you've done for us.
What happened to Rali? I heard about Snowball, but didn't hear anything about Rali.
@lycanthewerewolf6801 unfortunately, she passed away
Snowball not Rali
@@bagel3703 then what happened to Rali?
Sadly it was both. First snowball, and then her friend Rali 😢 @@bagel3703
Unfortunately as a man we are taught to lock away the part of us that allow us to cry for many reasons and it is only been rationalized by ourselves and the people around us. It took me a long time to be able to be comfortable again with crying.
@RaIiDali hmm?
19:19 thats very relatable. the part about compartmentalizing your own issues in order to be there for others to help them through.
I wish I was more like you emotionally. As an emotional person, I find it hard to learn when to stop crying or when to not cry. It was very comforting listening to this. You're a comforting fluff
*My heart goes out to Snowball and RaliDali. Snowball is how i got to enjoy Furry ASMR and ASMR in General. She got me to discover other artists like You and Manny. My heart aches with great remorse with the Fandom. I'm crying as I'm writing this, because my Great Aunt came to mind, further fueling the fire to my Pain. This world is too cruel. And I am Bargaining with myself to ease the pain of Snowball and Rali's Passing. Im still depressed from my Great Aunt's Passing and a Family Friend from Church too. Eventually, depression will follow up from snowball and rali. Then eventually, I will learn to accept the deaths of Snowball, Rali, My Church Friend and My Aunt.*
Lisening to asmr reminds me of them... their content helped me through a lot. I just feel sad and empty. I have commented on my favourite video from Snowball to say thank you and goodbye to them, then i just cried while lisening to that video. I feel like i lost people close to me, even though i didnt know them. I wish that things would have turned out different and they would still be here. I hope they rest in peace.
I knew snow, we weren’t super close, but we chatted. I never really knew rali, however. But it hurts all the same. It’s okay to feel sad, and to grieve the loss of people you didn’t know. It’s okay to be affected by their loss, and it does hurt, but it gets better.
This video was uploaded on probably the worst day of my life so far, 18 hours of nonstop bad news, stress and anxiety, and seeing this video is really helping with the calm down.
Being able to cry has been something that I’ve found really hard, and it especially hurts as I thought I was comfortable with crying, but I can just never seem to cry, Ever.
I shed atleast one tear tonight but that’s it.
Tomorrow is a new day, I’m still alive and that’s all that counts, but god I feel like things will get worse with the coming days.
There was a 20+ period in my life where I found it difficult to cry. It would happen very rarely, like maybe once every 5 years or so. There were many times where I wanted to so badly, but for whatever reason it just wouldn't come. I had somehow conditioned myself not to cry. It wasn't until a few years ago where it started coming more natural, when I really sat down to reflect, think about and feel what I was feeling. In my case, I think I tended to run away from my emotions rather than confront them. They were too uncomfortable to deal with, so I'd distract myself with work, chores, etc.
It comes a lot more naturally now (and frequently!), but it's still hard sometimes. It's a process, and sometimes it takes a lot of patience and introspection.
I never knew Snowball and Rali, nor did I ever really follow their work. And yet I am saddened by their loss all the same. They seemed like good people.
They were such amazing people. If you could, just keep them in your mind. I obviously won’t know if anyone does, but the thought makes me feel ever so slightly better.
I think the numbness can just screw it up at points too until it all bottlenecks and blows out together at a later time.
Feeling pretty numb again now tbh.
This vid did help though. Others perspectives, thought processes are always nice to hear.
It’s only worse being on SSRIs, because i feel so numb already. I WANT to cry, to grieve, to feel sad. But I can’t, which almost hurts more than
Thank you so much ❤
Thank you for still being here.
you sharing your feelings on hard topics that men really aren't socially allowed to explore have been incredibly helpful and reassuring. thank you for making these videos!
Ah, this hits home to listen to. I spent a lot of time in tears during my teenage years, due to some stuff going on in my life, and I guess as I grew up I sort of convinced myself that I had to be strong and not do it. As I've gotten older, I've realised that this was not the smartest idea I have ever had, and now it is hard for me to let myself get that upset - sometimes I wish I could be more in touch with that side of my emotional life. Sadness is an integral part of the human experience, and how we deal with it is the important thing.
This situation had me in a world of hurt, so much so that I attempted. But only thanks to my amazing mother, am I writing this.
Be thankful for what you have, it can be lost so damn easily. And please please PLEASE, talk to people and get help if you’re in a time of crisis.
I read a similar comment at the time of the attempt and thought that it was stupid, that there was no point, but those resources are always available, people care. I care, and if no one else has told you today, I love you. ❤
I'm just lost man. Both theirs and your content helped me through tough times, and now I find that maybe there's no hope, which is pretty silly but that's where my thoughts are going to.
Edit: Egee, please know that your content has helped me through a lot of difficult times. A lot of the videos you've posted helped me cope a fluff ton with certain stuff. But I'm not sure I can cope with the loss of these 2 furballs lmao
Seriously thanks for this egee, I think this is so so important. I’ve been trying to find myself again lately, I really lost myself and my emotions on this medication, learning to cry again after a long time of nothing is hard.
I’ve not interacted wildly with this community but all the news lately has been hard, grief is really hard. I’ve spent years grappling with grief, and this is truly heart wrenching.
All that to say, thank you again, this is important 💚
In searching for ways to help me through the immense hurt I have felt since Rali left this world, I found this. I never thought someone whom I've never met would have such an effect on me. Everything about the situation flooded over the dams I used to internalize sorrow and grief. I don't think I'll ever be the same again. The world certainly won't be the same without her light shining for us.
thank you for this, I've been wondering why i didn't cry for this long without acknowledging that i might just don't know how to cry anymore
i might need to go to therapy again, thanks for reminding me man, and i mean it
Thank you for your content Egee, with the time passing I can finally listen again without having such a searing pain, and your words really do comfort me. Take care❤❤
No matter what, your voice would always put me to sleep. Thank you for everything
This was a wonderful video and the timing seems right. Feel as you can~
Thank you for being here Egee
I cant find a better string of words to write in this moment
Just thank you
Thank you Egee
Thank you egee this helped me a lot
Thank you for fixing stuff in my head ❤
thank you egee
Rest In Peace RaliDali And Snowball… You Both Will Always Be Remembered, Loved, And Missed No Matter What Happens…
Heyyy egeee So happy to hear more of your awesome voice. Hope ur doing of friend stay safe ^W^
I do cry in private, although I really can't tell if it helps or makes things worse. But it was good to hear another perspective, thank you.
Personally, i think it feels good to cry. But you still need an outlet for all that emotion. It’s good to talk to people and open up, even though it’s REALLY hard.
Snowball and Rali were both so kind and entertaining. They didnt deserve the pain they were in. I hope they found peace
I hoped I would find peace by doing so too, but I’m still here, and honestly you never really find that peace, you just hold onto that scar forever. I loved them both so much, and I will continue to do so.
You have to learn how to grow in life cause the problems are growing. The trick is to grow faster than the amounting problems.
Come for the ASMR, stay for the heart, much love ❤️
I needed this thanks egee
Please stay with us, i cant lose anyone else, please
Thank you egee for this video ♥♥
31:20 crying is actually scientifically proven to help ease both physical and emotional pain.
It definitely feels that way. It feels good to get it out, and crying while writing this, I have noticed that it hurts a little less. And it has almost made me kinda happy
20:57 i'm not a professional but in my unprofessional opinion i don't think this is much of a healthy mindset to have, although i can't describe it in a better way myself, but i just embrace it
Hope you’re doing okay take care of yourself please
At the end of the day, if you don't cry now, you will cry later. There's almost no doubt about it. So, it's better to figure out how to treat yourself inside because, with all of the recently shed doctrine of "men don't cry" simply /does not/ work.
And, fun fact, they did a study at some point that tests the composition of tears, they do contain different hormones depending on the reason. They even form different kinds of ice crystals patterns, it's rather pretty.
As hard and hurtful as the news might be, along with anything else tearing at our minds...Please get help, and try to help yourself...we all need to love and keep an eye on each other...talk to each other...because you never know what a person is hiding, nor what they are feeling...R.I.P to them both...🥀
Thank you sm... truly is dark times for the asmr community
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Thank you for making this.
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Thank you
I love psilocybin
i struggle to cry, im too loud so i can't
try crying into a pillow
Uh oh here we go again
Because of the fallen state of humanity, our bodies are subject to all manners of suffering, tragedy, evil, and sickness. The only salvation and atonement that humanity can ever experience is through God. For, Jesus Christ is the Truth, the Path, and the Life. Crying can be a sign of strength, but letting those emotions consume your logic and stagnate your evolutionary expansion is when crying transmutes into a bastardization of its former designed purpose. And, those who partake in this particular endeavor can be given strength and rejuvenation. And, Spiritual Fruits will be arisen as a result.
"Not only that, but we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not put us to shame, because God's love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us." -Romans 5:3-5
It's ok to cry it's not a sign of weakness it never was, it is something very much apart of us it is one of the things that makes us unique as human beings 🫂💚🌻
did you just do peace love and plants in emoticons?
It's just a way I express myself sometimes
@@daylight4493 oh. I thought you were refrencing a mumbo jumbo thing.
Nope 🙂