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  • @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd
    @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd Місяць тому +53

    They always overplay their hand and end up "Busted & Disgusted." The creatures are notorious for shooting themselves in the foot. They are their own worst enemy...

  • @ZoeBranning
    @ZoeBranning Місяць тому +4

    When I walk away, I stay away! I don't have patience for anyone's foolishness and if we as human beings understood the value of time we wouldn't take it for granted! Time waits for no one.

  • @browneyes9507
    @browneyes9507 Місяць тому +73

    That testing is actually taking your kindness for weakness. And yes, I did the discard and never looked back 🎉

    • @adidouglas2571
      @adidouglas2571 Місяць тому +16

      Same here. When I discarded the narc, he was speechless. He knew I was done done 😌 October will make it 2 years 🎉

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 Місяць тому

      @@adidouglas2571 5 yrs for me- he didn’t see it coming had no idea ..

  • @queenb3088
    @queenb3088 Місяць тому +14

    He ain't calling me... he doesn't want any more of my strength. He's in hiding. Being a snake somewhere.

    • @Yomomma666xs
      @Yomomma666xs Місяць тому +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 this!!!!!!!

    • @chantemckeithan372
      @chantemckeithan372 Місяць тому +2

      Facts!! He's roaming and seeking whom he may devour.

  • @Nancy-yu2zx
    @Nancy-yu2zx Місяць тому +57

    I told him when I met him that I hated being lied to and that I cut people off. Guess he thinks he is too good for that. Well, he gambled and lost. It is becoming a hoover-fest on his part. Too little, too late. He has no idea who he is up against. I am a pillar of strength because of my Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. There is no going back. I'm free.

    • @Lillian-z7c
      @Lillian-z7c Місяць тому +3

      😊 🙏

    • @peacefaith560
      @peacefaith560 Місяць тому +6

      yup I warned him lol he called my bluff and wasn't expecting that discard

    • @never4saken165
      @never4saken165 Місяць тому +4

      😂😂😂 sometimes I wonder if any people on this platform have ever dealt with the same narc

    • @reneemassey-2827
      @reneemassey-2827 Місяць тому +2

      He sure did! He cheated repeatedly! He even tried to sleep with my daughter. After my divorce, I went COMPLETE BLACKOUT!!! Yeah, he Eff'ed around and found out.. 😢🎉🎉🎉🎉😢😢

  • @alex09696
    @alex09696 Місяць тому +70

    I called him out and went No Contact after 5 years. It's been 3 months and the smear campaign is in full bloom. I will not waiver. I will remain No Contact. I appreciate your videos. Thank you for all your help.

    • @efremcharlot9623
      @efremcharlot9623 Місяць тому +5

      Pay it no mind

    • @lsnagxs_7822
      @lsnagxs_7822 Місяць тому +5

      Same. 5 years & 3 months NO CONTACT... Everything she's saying, is happening

    • @alex09696
      @alex09696 Місяць тому

      @@lsnagxs_7822 Congratulation on maintaining No Contact. It takes nerves of steel.

    • @Keispeaks24
      @Keispeaks24 Місяць тому +4

      Stay unmoved, 🎉🎉🎉

    • @Atrice-oi4td
      @Atrice-oi4td Місяць тому

      @@alex09696 I blocked and cut off EVERYONE from his family and he didn’t have any friends and thankfully he k owns boo e on my side will listen to him because he was exposed and humiliated in the worst way by them. They stood up for me and made him leave…

  • @gloriahornby2457
    @gloriahornby2457 Місяць тому +21

    It's been 2 years with no contact. I was married for 40 years. He just stopped talking to me and was never home. I said enough and filed for divorce. I left that life behind and made all new friends. He was using my family as flying monkeys but I put a stop to that. I know nothing about him and I don't care to. I am not going to say its been easy but I got myself jnto therapy. I don't ever want to go back into a relationship with him. I am not ready to get into a relationship with anyone. I say this is my turn to have some fun and enjoy my new life. ❤

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 Місяць тому +1

      I did a 40 year sentence as well and my story is exactly the same as yours ❤

  • @sarangtokki2045
    @sarangtokki2045 Місяць тому +3

    30 years of no contact and he still mad 😂😂🎉🎉🎉😅😅

  • @bethrenee2007
    @bethrenee2007 Місяць тому +33

    My therapist told me yesterday that 'I've won!' And I've been cheesing all day, night and will continue smiling and living and putting on a good ole show for the rest of my life!

  • @shirlspark_stardust
    @shirlspark_stardust Місяць тому +17

    I agree I discarded that pigeon with the missing feathers he tried to come back but no contact ,I don’t hav time for dysfunction and evilness and crazy at all blocked on everywhere.

  • @fahimashuma
    @fahimashuma Місяць тому +15

    They are just clowns. He’s mad i accepted the discard. I dated him from university life, married him, got a 10yr with him. 17yrs I Knw him. All fake. Nothing real. I handled everything. And he put me in 2 cycles. I didn’t even take him to court for child support he’s irrelevant! Doesn’t care about the law either not worth my time or energy. He thought I would never leave him cuz I we had a marriage and child together.

  • @Serahboot8765
    @Serahboot8765 Місяць тому +13

    How do you make a narcissist suffer forever? You need to destroy narcissist ego and pride. You need to bring them back to reality. And there is a way you can do that. Without harming them directly. And that is by working on yourself. And going back to being the person you were before you got involved with the narcissist. The person that they were attracted to. And then becoming a better version of yourself. If you do that and let them see it, but you reject their hoover attempts. It will destroy their ego. Because they can't deal with rejection. They can't deal with being ignored. Especially if it's from something that they believe they should have. Narcissists find pleasure in breaking you down. They find pleasure in your pain. It gives them satisfaction. So the last thing they want to see is you building yourself up. You are happy. Because what really destroys their ego is when they see that you're not affected by their attempts to destroy you. You're still able to do what you need to do. You're still able to live the life that you want to live. You're still able to laugh and smile. Which means that their efforts have gone to waste. Their plan has failed. They didn't get the result that they were intending for. Because now you're even more successful. You look better than you ever did before. You're in better condition than when they first met you. Which destroys them. Because they remember how good things were back then. That's why they lovebombed you. And they would love to have that again. But if they can't, it will crush them. So you don't need to get revenge on the narcissist. You don't need to do anything to them. Just focus on yourself. Focus on your own life. Focus on building yourself up. Making your life better. And don't let them partake in it. Don't let them be a part of it. That is how you do it. All thanks to the cyber expert who was able to investigate his phone and get me the information and evidence that I needed to gain my freedom from the abusive relationship. If you are in a similar situation you can contact him on Instagram @ spy_milla1

  • @JC-tz7mf
    @JC-tz7mf Місяць тому +4

    The narcissist wants to come back so they can Take Your Soul. Stay Strong sisters and Brothers. I" Have Seen The Black Eyes. Those Who Know, Know. Stay Safe. And Blessed

  • @briannaennis876
    @briannaennis876 Місяць тому +4

    💔 she calls me blocked… it’s a sad situation. But she’s hurt me beyond repair.. I’m good. I’m great. I’m finding myself. ♥️

    • @viewerwatching5712
      @viewerwatching5712 29 днів тому

      I feel you brother, she did the same to me. Stay encouraged and God bless.

  • @TheCurlyBeauty
    @TheCurlyBeauty Місяць тому +1

    Become unreachable and watch them crash out. No contact is a power move! This video is sooooo true! He doesn't know what to do since I'm unreachable.

  • @LoveEndures7
    @LoveEndures7 Місяць тому +6

    I gave him Deuteronomy 28 - "Curses for Disobedience." ... he's been hiding in his cubicle all week 🫣

  • @CarlaMcmillion
    @CarlaMcmillion Місяць тому +11

    Absolutely FACTS 💯‼️, My ex- narcissist tried to hoover me back on several occasions and it's been well over 3 yrs., That door is shut, slammed and ceiled forever✌🏾✌🏾, Total Black Out‼️ My Level Up Game is On💃🏾💃🏾❤️ We don't play with clowns 🤡🤡, We leave them at the circus 😂😂‼️ Thanks for Sharing Mrs. Telsha ❤️❤️, Much Love and Blessings to You🙌🏾🩷🩷

  • @patricelawrence6812
    @patricelawrence6812 Місяць тому +1

    My Block Buster Movie PRODUCER OF THIS SHOW..GOD🙏🏼

  • @millionaire2631
    @millionaire2631 Місяць тому +17

    You are amazing and I will be forever grateful for your help and support..
    I’ll never forget you and will always wish many blessings for you ❤

  • @yvonne2034
    @yvonne2034 Місяць тому +7

    It's tough when the narcissist in your life (that "LOST BIG TIME") - is your own mother! After the silent treatment (for the final time) just because I will NOT listen to her gossip or speak nasty about people anymore - I decided: "Forget it, stay silent. I'm gone. Done. A one-way ticket out - with no return flight!"

  • @tslagare3696
    @tslagare3696 11 днів тому

    Seriously....the narcissists has lost the latest decades, and they can never win anyway, no matter whatsoever!

  • @lagoldie9783
    @lagoldie9783 Місяць тому +14

    Hello 👋 good afternoon Ms. Telsha. This is so true. I bet the narcissist family, that raised me, didn't think I'd have the strength to walk away. Oh ye of little faith! See, because its a bunch of them folks doing a number on us at a time. But now unto him who is able to keep us from falling. I believe the narcissist wants to make their victims sick unto death or even suicide! But God❤🙏🙌💯👑⭐

    • @lindabest3171
      @lindabest3171 Місяць тому +2

      @lagoldie 9783,Good afternoon ,Lil Sis, these VIPERS are ❤-less ,beyond EVIL! MOST OF THEM WOULD LOVE TO HEAR THAT THEY WERE THE CAUSE OF SOMEONE, COMMITTING SUICIDE!!! THEY WOULD HAVE A 🥳 🎉 🪅 🎊 🍺 🍻 THAT WOULD LAST THE REST OF THEIR LIFES! BUT, PRAISE 🙌BE TO YAHWEH, OUR GOD IS LOVE ❤️. HAVE A BLESSED DAY AND WEEKEND!STAY PSALMS 91EQUIPPED 💕🫂💕

    • @lagoldie9783
      @lagoldie9783 Місяць тому +2

      @@lindabest3171 Amen. Thank you Ms. Linda. What you're saying is right! I'm glad that you're still here standing strong. I hope you continue to get all that God has for you! 🙏💯🙌

  • @johnpichla9557
    @johnpichla9557 Місяць тому +12

    99k subscription! 100k is coming! Good job!

  • @catherinejustin1329
    @catherinejustin1329 Місяць тому

    Yes, told him what he was and he melted like the wicked witch of the west in the Wizard of OZ! Amazing!!!

  • @brandonlightfoot5631
    @brandonlightfoot5631 Місяць тому +6

    I know I’m tap dancing on this narc’s mind and bruises his ego because I’m giving him the silent treatment. My narc is a former childhood friend of mine sent me a friend request on Facebook and I thought “The Devil Is A Lie!” Life is good without him and I don’t need him in my life! I’m moving forward from this point on and I’m not going back‼️💯

  • @SouthernShuga
    @SouthernShuga Місяць тому +5

    I told him repeatedly I’d never been so disrespected in my whole life.. over and over and told him about the grace I was giving him and once I’m done. I’m done. He didn’t listen

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 Місяць тому

      DITTO DITTO DITTO 🎯🎯🎯

  • @candipayne2003
    @candipayne2003 Місяць тому +14

    Love 💗 the baby pink on you T thank you for another great video

  • @mzbarb
    @mzbarb Місяць тому +6

    I discarded him
    2 months no contact
    No hoover
    He let me go free and clear after 8 years with that demon

  • @paulaadeoye987
    @paulaadeoye987 Місяць тому +4

    They are nothing when you truly realize that. You win point blank period. I told him from A to Z who he was that he was not fooling me at all 🎉

  • @TraciBinIT
    @TraciBinIT 26 днів тому

    My exNarc cheated and put the new supply in MY FACE! Once I realized what was going on, I shut err’ thang’ DOWN. Including putting them and the kids out of my house. They tried and lost 😠

  • @JenniferHakeman
    @JenniferHakeman Місяць тому +18

    It’s all just witchcraft. Calling it an ideology of narcissism
    Is a dangerous idolatry

    • @queenb3088
      @queenb3088 Місяць тому +1

      It is witchcraft but how is calling it narcissism idolatry? Please explain?

  • @efremcharlot9623
    @efremcharlot9623 Місяць тому +4

    She discarded me,i discarded her, she ghosted me,i ghosted her,end of story

  • @WorkingProgress17
    @WorkingProgress17 Місяць тому

    He tried to prolong things after he left by not taking all of his things. I had to put everything out myself and just text him that his stuff was outside. After that, phone number change (twice because he found the first number somehow), social media block and privacy all across posts, and I also want to add that narcissists will screw you over in a lot of ways when they discard or when you discard (maybe they owe you money, have some of your things, other legal issues like taxes, etc.). You really have to choose your battles and let some things go to have peace.

  • @Atrice-oi4td
    @Atrice-oi4td Місяць тому +2

    I was pregnant when I broke it off with him and throughout the whole year of no contact he’s never even tried to reach out to even check what happened with that… it’s wild…

    • @RhondaAntone
      @RhondaAntone Місяць тому

      Wow...! That's SOOOO hurtful and despicable...!
      It's unnerving how so disillusioned we were in because of their narcissistic treachery, lies and manipulation.
      They are heartless deplorable creatures who destroys your life and leave your life with no mercy or remorse.

    • @Atrice-oi4td
      @Atrice-oi4td Місяць тому

      @@RhondaAntone yea and the thing is I didn’t want to have a baby…. He was pressuring me and purposely got me pregnant and then used my religion as a guilt for me to go through with it…

  • @Bossladylj
    @Bossladylj Місяць тому

    I love your laugh Girl. Speak that truth!!! I am grateful that I discard that bird before getting to deep. God protected me!!!! The Narc tested me and lost early. I am so glad that I am learning to recognize the signs before I start dating again. He tried it and came up short. Backwards walking giraffe is coming back for revenge? Uh Oh 😂😂😂😂 and he did love bomb me EARLY too because it was a requirement from me. He thinks I owe him?? Lawd Hammercy.

  • @fitgirlism3038
    @fitgirlism3038 25 днів тому

    I haven't seen a video from you in FOREVER! What happened to my subscriptions? That natural color looks fantastic on you. It's simple elegance. I forgot how much laughter this channel gives! LOL One of my friends just left his wife who has been cheating for the last 15 years. He had low self-esteem and would NEVER leave this woman until she came home with cooties. He has FINALLY seen the light and his ex from college, (I always liked her!) is also divorced. I feel I may be getting a wedding invite sometime soon. My friend was tested over and over...it took an STD for him to get it.

  • @JenniferHakeman
    @JenniferHakeman Місяць тому +5

    Check the frequency manipulation stuff. It lets you detach from the whole situation when you realize folks are controlled. Don’t try and battle it just leave it

  • @Fullgrace061
    @Fullgrace061 Місяць тому +4

    That’s the truth

  • @aprilcobianchi2815
    @aprilcobianchi2815 Місяць тому +4

    Yes this is true 💯

  • @Jay4050sy
    @Jay4050sy Місяць тому

    Powerful enlightenment. God bless you Telsha ❤🙏🏽

  • @staceydelbucchia2576
    @staceydelbucchia2576 Місяць тому +1

    Praise God Miss Tea❤️🙏🏼💯🥰🍿

  • @bigfacts1914
    @bigfacts1914 Місяць тому +1

    Yes ma am I called them out on the carpet 💯💯💯💯😂😂 love u! Love ur glow and inspiration. Thank you!

  • @catherinejustin1329
    @catherinejustin1329 Місяць тому

    Love it!! Crap Test....watch out for the crap quiz!!

  • @robpz448
    @robpz448 Місяць тому +3

    You're beautiful. ☕️

  • @Ottar111
    @Ottar111 Місяць тому

    Thank you for time and message 🙏

  • @LadyLotus8
    @LadyLotus8 Місяць тому +1

    Them things terrible ‼️

  • @jenodeau43
    @jenodeau43 Місяць тому

    It definitely had me questioning myself, my own ego…why I had to make sure I didn’t fail in another relationship and ‘fail’ at having him see my worth and that I ‘wasn’t like the others who had hurt him’…and it took a lot of time before realizing the simplicity and truth of this trauma bond/soul tie: that I was looking for outside validation from the ones I love in order to feel worthy of love (whole childhood family dynamic) and that he was carrying out abusive patterns on me because he couldn’t on his mother. In summary, prayer is real and the only power that defeated this hold. The Only one who will ever give you peace in your soul is You. God is not a forceful Spirit-you and you only end up choosing to give consent to peace or to chaos. Love Truth and it will indeed, when you are ready and willing to see it, set you free💪🤟

  • @VanessaIsaacs-u9c
    @VanessaIsaacs-u9c Місяць тому

    They lies what's going on never know Holy Spirit told me in my spirit.

  • @Atrice-oi4td
    @Atrice-oi4td Місяць тому

    Oh yea I did show out on hun real bad and embarrassed him in the worst way

  • @angelinaelder8746
    @angelinaelder8746 Місяць тому +1

    THANK YOU ROYAL QUEEN HE TESTED MY STRENGTH 75-YEAR-OLD TRYING TO LEAD AND CONTROL NARC ALPHA MALE / HE TEST ME WITH 3 STRIKES BUT HE'S OUT / NEXT / I'M A SUPER EDUCATED EMPATH / THANK YOU ROYAL QUEEN FOR ALL YOUR TEACHING

  • @jenty2713
    @jenty2713 Місяць тому +6

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤💯💯💯💯

  • @gloriawalker5897
    @gloriawalker5897 Місяць тому

    I found him with another woman. I filed for divorce and he sued me for alimony. 😂

  • @JustinPeralta-k5c
    @JustinPeralta-k5c Місяць тому +1

    Hahhaha that JUST happened to me thank you

  • @leslieallen5704
    @leslieallen5704 27 днів тому

    I told him, I was not like your ex's (that he still spoke to), tested me last week...after I walked away 5 years ago...BLOCKED, AGAIN, I am a Super Nova Empath 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯.

  • @user-cy9in5ry9c
    @user-cy9in5ry9c Місяць тому

    Preach.🥰🥰🥰

  • @SouthernShuga
    @SouthernShuga Місяць тому

    He called me early this morning.. the moment I started snuggling with this guy I’m getting to know. It was like he could feel my energy dissipating at that very moment and called 😂 when my phone rung I said speaking of the devil.

  • @michellegonzales4812
    @michellegonzales4812 Місяць тому

    I called them out. I don't think the kids were ever for me. They're her kids. I feel like they were all on board with the narc. The whole time from day one.
    I was discarded, but the narc came back around. Then discarded me again. Then back again...but it happened. I found the strength to call them out and I snatched the power grid.! That clown and their minions are probably sitting around smearing me because I discarded them! Lol feels nice. 😊😂

  • @AHSITEL
    @AHSITEL Місяць тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤love ya content ❤❤❤

  • @MomTube-i9w
    @MomTube-i9w Місяць тому +1

    Antisocial personality disorder

  • @zelmaellison4049
    @zelmaellison4049 Місяць тому

    BLACK ⚫️ OUT COMPLETE FOREVER

  • @moonshine2273
    @moonshine2273 Місяць тому +1

    💪🏻🙌

  • @KarenBee-sq4ri
    @KarenBee-sq4ri Місяць тому

    I sure did

  • @delconteeallmyharmon5526
    @delconteeallmyharmon5526 Місяць тому

    I don’t have any issues with Bee have a sweet day.

  • @Atrice-oi4td
    @Atrice-oi4td Місяць тому

    I initiated the break up and it got so nasty and ugly but mentally and emotionally even tho I’ve been no contact for a year I still question my decision and kinda regret sometimes even tho I know I should t

  • @fonzobooker7998
    @fonzobooker7998 Місяць тому

    I hear you

  • @luvbug7179
    @luvbug7179 Місяць тому +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @Atrice-oi4td
    @Atrice-oi4td Місяць тому

    It’s been one year no contact and I keep thinking about the live bombing stages where he did everything I wanted and it gets me sad and regretful and ven tho I know all of the bad and evil things

  • @monicabeadle359
    @monicabeadle359 Місяць тому

    REAL❤

  • @catherinejustin1329
    @catherinejustin1329 Місяць тому

    Kind of like 'mind control' and body snatchers!! I hated that show!!

  • @sylviaamodeo7090
    @sylviaamodeo7090 Місяць тому

    i thank the Good Lord Jesus Every day the Narcissist left before Covid,
    otherwise would have to take care of his sorry ass while working as an Essential Worker
    What a false marriage. Karma is a patient gansta

  • @Shirrin9Tarot
    @Shirrin9Tarot Місяць тому +2

    He doesn't call me. He did 3 times I told him he is a liar and I had no other choice but to believe that he is no one but a liar. Then he never contacted me. IS THAT NORMAL?

    • @mzbarb
      @mzbarb Місяць тому +7

      My ex narc NEVER hoovered me!
      I've gone no contact for 2 months twice and both times, he never hoovered.
      When they don't hoover you, they know that they've lost.
      Their also with their new supply

    • @Shirrin9Tarot
      @Shirrin9Tarot Місяць тому +3

      @@mzbarb 2 other supply that i know of. Thats why i discarded him.

    • @Shirrin9Tarot
      @Shirrin9Tarot Місяць тому +3

      @@mzbarb i am gping to be honest. I still miss him. I still cry . cry a lot. It hurts so much. Its unbearable at times.

    • @NelliLowe
      @NelliLowe Місяць тому

      @@Shirrin9Tarotgirl fight through it give it to Jesus he will help you

    • @cindrickalajanearrington3549
      @cindrickalajanearrington3549 Місяць тому +1

      @@Shirrin9TarotThat’s understandable, but you don’t miss him. You miss who you THOUGHT he was and who he presented himself to be, but he actually was not. Frame the conversation in your mind about him that way. If he cheated on you and other stuff then you don’t miss that so you don’t miss him. You miss who you thought he was. Focus on you and maybe even get into therapy if you need additional support. It works!

  • @charlessmith4526
    @charlessmith4526 Місяць тому +1

    😂

  • @janelle2471
    @janelle2471 Місяць тому

    💯🎯 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @LaTrinaMilton
    @LaTrinaMilton Місяць тому

    👂

  • @kayandjaylove
    @kayandjaylove Місяць тому +2

    So u stop hitting the high note without if u roccckkk with cha girl it don’t hit different

  • @donnienorwood3005
    @donnienorwood3005 Місяць тому

    We know of your expertise in the area of npd... we would like it very much if you would go off script and apply your skills to the infamous... The "Diddy Narcissist"...😂

  • @marilynmonheaux
    @marilynmonheaux Місяць тому

    I read the narcissist for filth and wrote a book about the narc

  • @teresacastanedacastaneda6555
    @teresacastanedacastaneda6555 Місяць тому

    ❤❤❤