Key Takeaways from the Video Chasing vs. Courting - Chasing: Persistently pursuing someone who isn’t reciprocating interest, often resembling stalking. - Examples: Constant texting, showing up where they are, or pressuring them after repeated rejections. - Consequences: Lowers your value, creates discomfort, and damages your image. - Courting: Mutual interest and effort in getting to know each other naturally. - Healthy dynamic: High physical attraction from the man, balanced by low emotional investment at first. --- Key Advice 1. Don’t chase someone uninterested. Step back and let them reach out if they’re genuinely interested. 2. Avoid over-investing emotionally early on; maintain your self-respect and boundaries. 3. Relationships should flow naturally, with both parties contributing to the connection. --- Important Insights - Chasing is counterproductive and unattractive. - Balanced courting fosters genuine attraction and connection. - There’s a fine line between chasing and stalking-be self-aware and respect the other person’s boundaries. --- Key Timestamps 0:00 - Introduction: Chasing vs. Courting. 3:45 - Story illustrating the negative effects of chasing. 9:20 - How to let things happen naturally. 12:30 - Final advice: Focus on mutual effort and attraction.
"There’s a fine line between chasing and stalking" - there's no essential difference between the two, both are counterproductive and unattractive things to do. The rest goes like in the video, good job
This is why when you lose interest in someone it can be helpful to actually tell them. Some will get the hint as you distance yourself. Others are slow to figure it out and need to be told.
women will never tell you. its a defense mechanism. they prefer to have you in the waiting list instead. thats why if a woman take hours to talk you back. and never initiates conversation.... you must leave her
You nailed it. It’s desperate and shows weakness immediately. We’re all human and show signs of this but to do it right away is a major red flag and sign of potential smothering
I used to see a girl at the gym all the time and one day out at local bar she came up to me . We kind of danced got some drinks and hung out after . I already knew I wasn’t interested in her anything serious . The next morning I woke up 30 to 40 messgaes from her having convo with herself and rambling god knows what . She would text me day and night and even show up to the gym when I was there . She even came drunk once and was coming up to me at the gym drunk . She would call non stop . I couldn’t block her cuz this years ago when I had blackberry for street purpose . Shit was a nightmare lol be careful guys some of these girls are mentally not ok
Meet a new girl, get her number, all is great. Send her a first text a couple days later and crickets. Many say to send a follow up text after a week or so. Not me. I never text her again. Women always have their phone on them. If she was really interested, she wouldn't play any BS games with you. Easier for you to move on to the next without ever catching feelings. Don't chase the oasis.
Been there done that. Woman are weird man don’t even stress it. They tend to reach out when you start to forget them and focus on other things but it’s such a daunting game.
Same happened to me recently. Met in person, convo went well, showed interest, when I left she said you have my number text me. I text her next day. She takes hours to respond. Still shoot my shot, takes hours and hours to respond, says she’s busy this week but would love to see me. She will text me if she makes it out that weekend. Never hear from her.
That’s a good point i always forget: women literally are always on their phone 😆 no such thing as not seeing a message from you or being ‘too busy to text back’. Best to let it go and move on to the next.
Also, don't confuse her stringing you along in the friendzone as "interest". If she's actively contacting you but putting up a wall when it comes to romantic stuff, realise she may be just using you as a "nice guy" for emotional support, you gotta be real about what you actually want and communicate that. Nothing more frustrating than being friendzoned
The points mentioned here are mostly true. The more attractive a person you are it's almost a given that others will be more into you than you are in them.
i know this is kinda off-topic, but i kept seeing comments about Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki in videos like this, and i finally decided to read it. honestly, it’s one of those books where you don’t realize how much it’s helping until you start noticing people treating you differently. it’s like the book shows you how to unlock a version of yourself you didn’t even know was there. subtle, but so effective.
Damn….yea I symped for this chick in high school, got married after, life completely ruined quickly…..thankfully I was young and could rebuild and learned never chase and marry these 3o4’s you’ll only wreck your life.
When I was like 17 there was this girl who was absolutely obsessed with me. I was not that interested in her but hooked up with her and that was the worst thing I could have done. She was stalking me and acting absolutely insane. She even tried to overdose and had her stomach pumped from a drug overdose. This was in 1987 and the movie Fatal Attraction was big and in the theatres. It was so ironic cause it was a lot of what I was dealing with as like Micheal Douglas was in Fatal Attraction. lol. Yea I know what it’s like. Years later she hit me up on Facebook and I immediately blocked her
@@Scorned405 yeh, one is bad enough but, I had two different ones. Ruined my H.S. years. When you're younger and don't know what happening, you think that everyone is going to be like that? Some stupid girl can really mess with your head.
Been on both sides and this video nails it! When I was chasing I thought it would showcase how much I cared but it did the opposite and she told me she wish she never had dated me. When I was being chased I regretted meeting her! She sent something to my home for Christmas after breaking off and on and just was a headache! Listen to this advice!
I had a girl who was emotionally attached to me and got offended when I said I wasn’t interested. I ended up blocking her number. She doesn’t know where I live or hang out.
Women were never meant to be chased it’s biologically hardwired into them to run from that because you are prioritizing her over you life mission. It’s also creepy. Never double text, never call twice, and definitely never show up at her work if she doesn’t respond. If she didn’t die or isnt in a coma no response is a response. Just remember when you show weakness women will view you differently and their egos will tell them to ignore you
This is why in the early stages of dating, I don't tell her where I go. And I'm luck my work has a gym so she can't get to me. I still retained some evading skills I have learned lol
Thing is, a lot of women don't like the idea that you're just sexually attracted to them. They want you to like their personality. And how to express your appreciation of their personality without sounding emotionally invested is very tricky.
they break all rules even if they know u will use them for sex if they had genuine desire for u. have seen these many time but these afre rare at the same time
I feel like this is misunderstood a lot…. Asking a girl out isn’t chasing. You need to be assertive and take what you want. Not with women just in general…
Yea exactly men need to pursue women…. But it is different than “chasing” a girl that doesn’t like you as much as you like them. It’s nuanced and I think that’s why a lot of men misunderstand it so much
In the real world, they will expect you to "just get it." You can't expect closure from someone who doesn't want to talk. It's imperative that you learn to take the hint. I chose my words carefully.
@@LFA doesnt everybody live in his own world to a certain extend? I think most people get the hind if the other doesnt respond. they know deep down inside that it makes no sense to contact even if they continue to do so. you can call that weakness and maybe it is immature. but same goes for ghosting. because the other person always leaves the door ajar (whether intentionally or unintentionally) especially for the person who has a strong interest. and therefore ghosting is not only immature but also disrespectful and superficial. everyone has the opportunity to make it clear that there is no interest. a simple NO is enough. but not everyone has the backbone to do so.
I'm in my 50's now and I have to say that, looking back over my 20's and 30's, that I didn't really ask anyone out. Or, chase anyone either.. I hesitated and waited for the perfect opportunity. Most of time it never happened. Back in H.S. , the teen years, girls persude me. Three different times, throughout H.S. , some chic would become infatuated and follow me around (Stalking) and always showing up at the most inopportune times. Embarrassing me in front of (the girl who I was interested in). Freshman year, and nearly half of my sophomore year! Then, had a slight break before this other one started in!! They were good looking and all, but extremely forward. Pushy, and borderline infactuated.. this made me very hesitant to get involved with anyone. I was terrified of being constantly interrupted and spied on... It really caused me to avoid any type of interaction..
All the girls i ever stopped chasing in life, i never heard from any of them again, and im a good looking dude. Just my experiences yall Correction: all the girls i was attracted to that i stopped chasing, never chased back, and so i never heard from them again. The girls i was not attracted to always chased me, but i just wanted away from them
so true. even if age finds you extremely attractive.... if you chase her too much. for a biological reason, she smells desperation and loses respect for you. the "chase" must be mutual. if you are the one that always send the first message, the firat phone call to so something.... she has lost interest in you. let a week pass without talking her.... if she doesnt say anything. let her go... she probably have 2-3 dudes talking to her. its sad but this is how it works
I was dating this girl that i really like, she seem like she wasnt that interest in me and behaving a bit arrogant, so i told her i was going to stop asking her out. Its been two weeks, i dont think shes coming back. What should i do?
You never tell them about it you just made her going cocky on you with that. Just do it, next time. If they still dont react then you know she is busy and gets it elsewhere so its a win win situation and you wont waste your time on her. Sometimes its just not your turn
Move on…. Also don’t communicate that just stop. If a girl isn’t super into you it’s not worth it. If a girl really likes you she will always make time and effort. Don’t out put it ons a pedestal either. Act like a groupie you will get treated like one. So many guys do this. They meet a girl she is interested then the guy totally ruins it by not being laid back and way too needy…. Once the girl likes you and you go out a few times back way off don’t force it
Chasing: - One-Sided Interest: Involves a person liking someone and continually trying to get their attention or affection, despite little or no reciprocation. - Desperation: Chasing lowers your value and makes you seem overly available, needy, or even similar to a stalker in extreme cases. - Negative Dynamics: Often comes off as intrusive, overwhelming, and unappealing. - Example: Texting or calling repeatedly, trying to meet someone despite clear rejection, or always initiating without getting anything in return. Pursuing: - Mutual Interest: Happens when both people like each other and are actively engaging to build a connection. - Natural Flow: Pursuing feels balanced and natural, as both parties are genuinely interested in one another. - Healthy Dynamics: Creates a dynamic where the man maintains high sexual attraction, while the woman pursues emotional connection. - Example: Getting to know someone in a balanced way where efforts are reciprocated and boundaries are respected. Key Takeaway: Chasing is one-sided and often embarrassing, while pursuing is about mutual interest and balanced effort. It’s about allowing things to happen naturally rather than forcing a connection.
i know this isn’t what the video’s about, but i had to mention how i kept seeing Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki in comments everywhere. curiosity got the better of me, and i finally read it. it’s wild how much it changes your mindset and the way you come across to others. it’s not about pretending to be confident-it’s about genuinely building that energy so it shows naturally. definitely worth all the buzz it’s been getting.
this might be a bit unrelated, but i kept seeing Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki popping up in comments everywhere, so i decided to check it out. the book’s all about working on your energy and presence, and it’s way more practical than i expected. after applying what it teaches, i’ve noticed people are more drawn to me, and i feel more confident without trying too hard. it’s been such a low-key but powerful shift
I'll play the devil's advocate on this one. Women in general want men to pursue. Problem is you can't do that without looking like a "weirdo", initially. I've done that with men so I know what thats like. There is a group of "indecisive" females within this who for the love of God, cannot make up their minds. Instead of these men walking away with some honor, they play right into it. I remember when my sister started her business. I told her straight up if a female sports "indecisiveness" that is her problem. Do not waste your time. Charge her. Till this day she has females clients who last min will claim they can't show up after a series of text messages showing otherwise. They'll slander her online. Crazy stuff. You have to have strong boundaries. Males entertain this foolishness. That makes them accustomed to chasing & assuming every woman they come across is that way. Do yourselves a favor and value your time & reputation. The irony is females are "big" on communication. And men are supposed to be "big" their word. Believe actions, not words.
Key Takeaways from the Video
Chasing vs. Courting
- Chasing: Persistently pursuing someone who isn’t reciprocating interest, often resembling stalking.
- Examples: Constant texting, showing up where they are, or pressuring them after repeated rejections.
- Consequences: Lowers your value, creates discomfort, and damages your image.
- Courting: Mutual interest and effort in getting to know each other naturally.
- Healthy dynamic: High physical attraction from the man, balanced by low emotional investment at first.
---
Key Advice
1. Don’t chase someone uninterested. Step back and let them reach out if they’re genuinely interested.
2. Avoid over-investing emotionally early on; maintain your self-respect and boundaries.
3. Relationships should flow naturally, with both parties contributing to the connection.
---
Important Insights
- Chasing is counterproductive and unattractive.
- Balanced courting fosters genuine attraction and connection.
- There’s a fine line between chasing and stalking-be self-aware and respect the other person’s boundaries.
---
Key Timestamps
0:00 - Introduction: Chasing vs. Courting.
3:45 - Story illustrating the negative effects of chasing.
9:20 - How to let things happen naturally.
12:30 - Final advice: Focus on mutual effort and attraction.
thanks, saved me 12 minutes but I may listen to LFA anyhow.
"There’s a fine line between chasing and stalking" - there's no essential difference between the two, both are counterproductive and unattractive things to do. The rest goes like in the video, good job
This is why when you lose interest in someone it can be helpful to actually tell them. Some will get the hint as you distance yourself. Others are slow to figure it out and need to be told.
Even when you tell them directly they don’t listen or don’t hear what you’re saying.
women will never tell you.
its a defense mechanism.
they prefer to have you in the waiting list instead.
thats why if a woman take hours to talk you back. and never initiates conversation....
you must leave her
That is the issue, I'm no dating expert but some girls will interpret distancing as non interest and will chase themselves another man.
You always expect LFA to be the cool dude who is level headed.. he always delivers
too cool
You nailed it. It’s desperate and shows weakness immediately. We’re all human and show signs of this but to do it right away is a major red flag and sign of potential smothering
Men, keep your mind on your money.
They do😁
It's hard to accept that you can't really change what other people think of you beyond a certain point.
Stay busy enough with other things and know she'll either like you or she will not.
I used to see a girl at the gym all the time and one day out at local bar she came up to me . We kind of danced got some drinks and hung out after . I already knew I wasn’t interested in her anything serious . The next morning I woke up 30 to 40 messgaes from her having convo with herself and rambling god knows what . She would text me day and night and even show up to the gym when I was there . She even came drunk once and was coming up to me at the gym drunk . She would call non stop . I couldn’t block her cuz this years ago when I had blackberry for street purpose . Shit was a nightmare lol be careful guys some of these girls are mentally not ok
Chasing used to be called "carrying the torch,' for someone. Society has pathologized this; like it has everything else.
It’s called sympin’.
I’ve learned that lesson the hard way brothers. Don’t chase. She’s gone best thing to do is look inward and get better.
The number of men who will symp after a female has disrespected them is just disgusting.
I didn't know that leaves grew back in the spring. Thanks so much!
spring
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Meet a new girl, get her number, all is great. Send her a first text a couple days later and crickets. Many say to send a follow up text after a week or so. Not me. I never text her again. Women always have their phone on them. If she was really interested, she wouldn't play any BS games with you. Easier for you to move on to the next without ever catching feelings. Don't chase the oasis.
Been there done that. Woman are weird man don’t even stress it. They tend to reach out when you start to forget them and focus on other things but it’s such a daunting game.
Same happened to me recently. Met in person, convo went well, showed interest, when I left she said you have my number text me. I text her next day. She takes hours to respond. Still shoot my shot, takes hours and hours to respond, says she’s busy this week but would love to see me. She will text me if she makes it out that weekend. Never hear from her.
@@jsts22 "...no sweat off my balls... " I like to say...
@@jsts22 My wife always gets back to me within 30 minutes of my last text usually sometimes longer but not hours
That’s a good point i always forget: women literally are always on their phone 😆 no such thing as not seeing a message from you or being ‘too busy to text back’. Best to let it go and move on to the next.
I had a woman "chase" me. She'd follow me around town, go to my work, park outside my house in the street for hours. SCARY.
Imagine how a woman might feel ten times worst. That's why women will test men.
You're the first UA-camr who is brave enough to say it.
After making so many mistakes in my 20s. Your description at the end was very much how it was when I met my wife.
Also, don't confuse her stringing you along in the friendzone as "interest". If she's actively contacting you but putting up a wall when it comes to romantic stuff, realise she may be just using you as a "nice guy" for emotional support, you gotta be real about what you actually want and communicate that. Nothing more frustrating than being friendzoned
Is there any solution for that ?
@@murphy1617end it, walk away, block them.
@@Yarmox 😢😢
fear not the leaves
The points mentioned here are mostly true. The more attractive a person you are it's almost a given that others will be more into you than you are in them.
Whats up brother im actually doing very well out there lately 😎
i know this is kinda off-topic, but i kept seeing comments about Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki in videos like this, and i finally decided to read it. honestly, it’s one of those books where you don’t realize how much it’s helping until you start noticing people treating you differently. it’s like the book shows you how to unlock a version of yourself you didn’t even know was there. subtle, but so effective.
Having had several stalkers in my life, I can totally relate to this!
LFA you shoulda made this video 3 years earlier I really could of used the advice!! now my court date is coming up soon..
I wanted to laugh at first, but guess it's not funny
@angelcare5969 all in good fun bruh
Damn….yea I symped for this chick in high school, got married after, life completely ruined quickly…..thankfully I was young and could rebuild and learned never chase and marry these 3o4’s you’ll only wreck your life.
Great advice 👍🏽💪🏽✌🏽👉🏽🏋🏽♀️thanks
“So fear not” 😄 I like that, brother!
Whats up brothers! 🤙🏻
Good content. My hair stood up when LFA mentioned the gym membership. Wow Stephen King: take notes
When I was like 17 there was this girl who was absolutely obsessed with me. I was not that interested in her but hooked up with her and that was the worst thing I could have done. She was stalking me and acting absolutely insane. She even tried to overdose and had her stomach pumped from a drug overdose. This was in 1987 and the movie Fatal Attraction was big and in the theatres. It was so ironic cause it was a lot of what I was dealing with as like Micheal Douglas was in Fatal Attraction. lol. Yea I know what it’s like. Years later she hit me up on Facebook and I immediately blocked her
@@Scorned405 yeh, one is bad enough but, I had two different ones. Ruined my H.S. years. When you're younger and don't know what happening, you think that everyone is going to be like that? Some stupid girl can really mess with your head.
Been on both sides and this video nails it! When I was chasing I thought it would showcase how much I cared but it did the opposite and she told me she wish she never had dated me. When I was being chased I regretted meeting her! She sent something to my home for Christmas after breaking off and on and just was a headache! Listen to this advice!
I had a girl who was emotionally attached to me and got offended when I said I wasn’t interested. I ended up blocking her number. She doesn’t know where I live or hang out.
they chase me and then pull away after i scare them off
i got a real problem
“Scare them off”
Change your behavior .. step back and analyze what you are doing wrong
Ben stalked, that shit is annoying, big props to LFA for the work he does, Peace and Love Brotha
Women were never meant to be chased it’s biologically hardwired into them to run from that because you are prioritizing her over you life mission. It’s also creepy. Never double text, never call twice, and definitely never show up at her work if she doesn’t respond. If she didn’t die or isnt in a coma no response is a response. Just remember when you show weakness women will view you differently and their egos will tell them to ignore you
This is why in the early stages of dating, I don't tell her where I go. And I'm luck my work has a gym so she can't get to me. I still retained some evading skills I have learned lol
If you have to be desperate for someone, be desperate for God. A man who is desperate for a woman's attention and validation is a sorry sight.
Thing is, a lot of women don't like the idea that you're just sexually attracted to them. They want you to like their personality. And how to express your appreciation of their personality without sounding emotionally invested is very tricky.
I think that was the point big man. She will be motivated to get you to like her more. Understand now?
they break all rules even if they know u will use them for sex if they had genuine desire for u. have seen these many time but these afre rare at the same time
I feel like this is misunderstood a lot…. Asking a girl out isn’t chasing. You need to be assertive and take what you want. Not with women just in general…
Yeah if all men swore off asking women out then very few people would be in relationships today ..
Yea exactly men need to pursue women…. But it is different than “chasing” a girl that doesn’t like you as much as you like them. It’s nuanced and I think that’s why a lot of men misunderstand it so much
Ghosting is immature
In the real world, they will expect you to "just get it." You can't expect closure from someone who doesn't want to talk. It's imperative that you learn to take the hint. I chose my words carefully.
@@LFA doesnt everybody live in his own world to a certain extend? I think most people get the hind if the other doesnt respond. they know deep down inside that it makes no sense to contact even if they continue to do so. you can call that weakness and maybe it is immature. but same goes for ghosting. because the other person always leaves the door ajar (whether intentionally or unintentionally) especially for the person who has a strong interest. and therefore ghosting is not only immature but also disrespectful and superficial. everyone has the opportunity to make it clear that there is no interest. a simple NO is enough. but not everyone has the backbone to do so.
Top man 🎉
I'm in my 50's now and I have to say that, looking back over my 20's and 30's, that I didn't really ask anyone out. Or, chase anyone either.. I hesitated and waited for the perfect opportunity. Most of time it never happened.
Back in H.S. , the teen years, girls persude me. Three different times, throughout H.S. , some chic would become infatuated and follow me around (Stalking) and always showing up at the most inopportune times. Embarrassing me in front of (the girl who I was interested in).
Freshman year, and nearly half of my sophomore year! Then, had a slight break before this other one started in!! They were good looking and all, but extremely forward. Pushy, and borderline infactuated.. this made me very hesitant to get involved with anyone.
I was terrified of being constantly interrupted and spied on... It really caused me to avoid any type of interaction..
So you avoided all relationships? Damn
@brianmeen2158 No, I just never had to initiate. The women I've been with all came on to me.
What if they showed you initial high interest but then you fucked up in some way and it plummeted?
Go to the next
LFA not pregnant , but he always delivers :D
Thanks
Never chase.
All the girls i ever stopped chasing in life, i never heard from any of them again, and im a good looking dude. Just my experiences yall
Correction: all the girls i was attracted to that i stopped chasing, never chased back, and so i never heard from them again.
The girls i was not attracted to always chased me, but i just wanted away from them
Same here except when I went to the Phils.
Not enough country twang when you say INFORMATIVE
When you chase a women of today, you’re a sympboy that’s all.
At first glance, I thought you had an owl as a co-host.
I have an idea for a show. How to identify and handle a woman that expresses interest but is leading you on.
so true. even if age finds you extremely attractive.... if you chase her too much.
for a biological reason, she smells desperation and loses respect for you.
the "chase" must be mutual.
if you are the one that always send the first message, the firat phone call to so something....
she has lost interest in you.
let a week pass without talking her.... if she doesnt say anything.
let her go... she probably have 2-3 dudes talking to her.
its sad but this is how it works
I was dating this girl that i really like, she seem like she wasnt that interest in me and behaving a bit arrogant, so i told her i was going to stop asking her out. Its been two weeks, i dont think shes coming back. What should i do?
You never tell them about it you just made her going cocky on you with that. Just do it, next time. If they still dont react then you know she is busy and gets it elsewhere so its a win win situation and you wont waste your time on her. Sometimes its just not your turn
Delete her number and forget about her.
Move on…. Also don’t communicate that just stop. If a girl isn’t super into you it’s not worth it. If a girl really likes you she will always make time and effort. Don’t out put it ons a pedestal either. Act like a groupie you will get treated like one. So many guys do this. They meet a girl she is interested then the guy totally ruins it by not being laid back and way too needy…. Once the girl likes you and you go out a few times back way off don’t force it
Totally forget about her.
Amen
When you run after them they run away.when you run away from them they chase you. hmmm interesting.😅
Not exactly. When everything is normal there should be no running or chasing.
@LFA i know im just making a joke.
Pursue, not chase
So what's the difference between chasing and pursuing?
Watch the video to find out!
Chasing:
- One-Sided Interest: Involves a person liking someone and continually trying to get their attention or affection, despite little or no reciprocation.
- Desperation: Chasing lowers your value and makes you seem overly available, needy, or even similar to a stalker in extreme cases.
- Negative Dynamics: Often comes off as intrusive, overwhelming, and unappealing.
- Example: Texting or calling repeatedly, trying to meet someone despite clear rejection, or always initiating without getting anything in return.
Pursuing:
- Mutual Interest: Happens when both people like each other and are actively engaging to build a connection.
- Natural Flow: Pursuing feels balanced and natural, as both parties are genuinely interested in one another.
- Healthy Dynamics: Creates a dynamic where the man maintains high sexual attraction, while the woman pursues emotional connection.
- Example: Getting to know someone in a balanced way where efforts are reciprocated and boundaries are respected.
Key Takeaway:
Chasing is one-sided and often embarrassing, while pursuing is about mutual interest and balanced effort. It’s about allowing things to happen naturally rather than forcing a connection.
i know this isn’t what the video’s about, but i had to mention how i kept seeing Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki in comments everywhere. curiosity got the better of me, and i finally read it. it’s wild how much it changes your mindset and the way you come across to others. it’s not about pretending to be confident-it’s about genuinely building that energy so it shows naturally. definitely worth all the buzz it’s been getting.
11:15 she searches the emotionalism
this might be a bit unrelated, but i kept seeing Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki popping up in comments everywhere, so i decided to check it out. the book’s all about working on your energy and presence, and it’s way more practical than i expected. after applying what it teaches, i’ve noticed people are more drawn to me, and i feel more confident without trying too hard. it’s been such a low-key but powerful shift
I'll play the devil's advocate on this one. Women in general want men to pursue. Problem is you can't do that without looking like a "weirdo", initially. I've done that with men so I know what thats like. There is a group of "indecisive" females within this who for the love of God, cannot make up their minds. Instead of these men walking away with some honor, they play right into it. I remember when my sister started her business. I told her straight up if a female sports "indecisiveness" that is her problem. Do not waste your time. Charge her. Till this day she has females clients who last min will claim they can't show up after a series of text messages showing otherwise. They'll slander her online. Crazy stuff. You have to have strong boundaries. Males entertain this foolishness. That makes them accustomed to chasing & assuming every woman they come across is that way. Do yourselves a favor and value your time & reputation. The irony is females are "big" on communication. And men are supposed to be "big" their word. Believe actions, not words.
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Thank you Top G
So damn good to see LFA on my screen again, one love big bro!😎🏜️
What's up brothers!