Sry nobita, but holding back with todays guest is very hard. As it far too much resembels the old ciycle of Violence that leads to violence until all is gone. Just that it is about relationsship here. And the argument with that everyone has toughts and beliefs.... as a german i want to point to our dark chapter of history and say that one should quesiton evil if he sees it. Also: Nobita i dont care wether you look good or ugly in your vids. I watch your video because you are what free journalism stands for in my opinion. And i am quite sure many others think the same. You are one of those men one likes for what he does, not for his looks.
@@tizi087 @The Japan Reporter Agree with you Tizi: Nobita is wonderful for what he shares; his videos and research skills are interesting and worthy of respect. As for the main woman in this, at least she was honest with herself and aware of what she was thinking and doing. Additionally, while this is awful, and I guess she was not completely correct in what ALL the men she was dating wanted, she thinks it is honestly a fare exchange as she is doing what the men in her experience want. Sorry to say, much of that seems to be going on with people. I’m impressed that Nobita managed to be calm in this interview, and managed to express his concerns without anger or pressing too much judgement about the men feeling potentially hurt and the woman potentially getting pregnant or sick. One needs to be that way to develop rapport and get as truthful information as possible.
It all comes around full-circle. No one wants to be the one to "turn the other check" so they just end up recycling and perpetuating the same behaviors they, themselves hate.
Yeah sounds like typical issues of the paternal kind. She'll find out she isn't all that special in America, and is a rank amateur playing the game with born-into-it experts to boot. Hopefully the whole experience opens her eyes and she finally decides to heal from her trauma.
The anonymous woman, while I understand her past experiences, she became exactly like her father and boyfriend in the end. She really lived long enough to see herself become a monster in the end.
The entire activity of hunting and fooling foreign men will lead to nothing beneficial in the long term.. it is somewhat sociopathic behavior that should be corrected. Yes, there are terrible men out there, but I assure you sleeping with men and swindling them for change shows that the value of self is just found in the pockets of others while giving the same men you hate, the very thing that some of them desired in the first place
True, but what does the projection consist of? On ground level it's childhood trauma, inflicted by her dad, and her incapacity to select a good man (with her first bf).
@@wreagfe So what, trauma doesn't give you the right to behave like an asshole. Instead of perpetuating her trauma to others she should seek out a psychologist. Awful and detestable person.
You know what, this is why dating is so messed up these days. Both sexes mess around and in the end, people who are trying to seek genuine relationships get screwed in the middle.
I find that it's just the West. Westerners and people who get involved with them end up this way. Non-Western people don't usually don't this to each other. This Japanese girl is targeting Western men for a reason. I find that Western men treat women this way and extremely toxic women seem to be drawn to them.
@@supman2374 Like I said, Western men, through their deeds and toxic attitude towards women, draw these kind of women. She is one toxic Japanese woman, but in the Western world there are millions of her kind running around. All thanks to Western men.
@@Tanerion Nobody said Japanese people don't cheat. The question is how are they compared to Westerners. Japanese society (Like all Asian Societies) are much more tolerant of the men cheating but have very little tolerance for women cheating. When Japanese men cheat they will rarely abandon their wives, girlfriends, or children. It's always up to the woman if she wants to keep him or not. This is nothing compared to Westerners, where the women cheat without major social consequences. Western men will also use women and abandon them, creating armies of single mothers and causing massive bitterness from Western women. Just look at the 2 major factors that are ruining the West: Feminism and single-motherhood rate. For Example, the single motherhood rate in America is a whopping 25%, in Japan it's barely 5%. This has caused fem!nism to go rampant throughout the West, but fem!nism has no significant movement in Japan (Or Asia for that matter). Western men are largely to blame for the problems in the West and dug their own graves.
She resents foreign men for desiring sex without wanting to be tied down in a committed relationship - so she provides foreign men with sex without making them stay in a committed relationship. Makes sense. 👍
That's the typical expression of Japanese people responding to a situation where Westerners would say "No, that's definitely not the case. You're mistaken."
Very interesting. I will introduce you to an Australian concept/slang - "Wombat". A largely solo animal the Eats, Roots, Shoots and Leaves. Translated it refers to someone who takes a girl out for dinner with the expectation of sex afterward, has sex (his goal) and then runs away ie, Eat, Roots, Shoots and Leaves
Never heard of that one either. However there is many women on those sites looking for a free meal. They accept a once off date than leave after eating never to contact again. Back when i was doing the dating scene a friends girl friend warned me because im a nice guy that it was common. Sure enough it happened to me a couple of times.
so she became part of the "easy asian women" stereotype, she's giving foreign men exactly what they want and then leaving them afterwards? isnt that exactly what said foreign men are doing there? she thinks she's hurting them, when in fact she just fell into the stereotype of the easy asian women herself lol...
@P T The problem is she thinks that's going to be something she can do forever. After the youth fades and many bridges are burned, she will wake up one day and the ride will be over. It's usually a very bleak day, since most who live like that do no set aside their ill-gotten gains for the future. I just hope she doesn't try to have kids to exploit for her selfish ends. I've known a few people over the years who were born to a person like that. They often become the same way or are so broken from their childhood they become antisocial loners. The few who do try to live a normal live still have hangups they struggle to deal with.
She’s an idiot. Unless she’s getting expensive luxury items those guys aren’t really losing anything at all and they already got what they want. I have so many half-white Japanese friends who are fatherless from my childhood. These guys don’t care lol.
She became what she hated and the worst thing is she might actually break someone who would actually care for her. I hope that her perception of the world changes somehow or at the very least that she won't hurt someone who doesn't deserve it. Sad story all in all.
"Break" only if you're a weak simp who tries to buy love with money. This woman is really just one of the basic dangers of dating anywhere. If you're not prepared for people to try to manipulate you, stay away from women.
As soon as she mentioned her experience with her father and first boyfriend I knew it was exactly that experience that triggered this kind of thinking. A normal person in a relatively healthy environment just doesn't go to those depths. This is why I always tell people that have been through similar experiences and come out on the other side cheerful, positive, and kind that they are amazing and strong for that because so many people in this life will suffer abuse and disappointment at the hands of crappy people and turn into exactly what they claim to hate.
There are people who have had worse done to them and came out better people in the end. She's a sociopath using her past as a crutch to justify her behavior. The mask slipped a bit when she said that it was all about money. That shows that she ultimately didn't care what her father or boyfriend did, she values money above all else and found an easy way to get it but duping men.
Or they just shut down on relationships altogether. If you fear losing again, you just stop playing the game. And I think that's what's been happening within the last few years. Guys just aren't falling into any situation that's going to be unbalanced. A coworker told me his granddaughter told him that he needed a girlfriend. He replied " why do I look too happy?!!" That has become a motto for me.
@david7384 as far as the research shows, David is correct. Most bullies and other garbage people are just that. They're not victims in their own right, just assholes.
@@david7384one of they guys who used to bully me, did it because he got bullied and had to take it out on someone. The guy who bullied him was abused by his parents. Hurt people hurt people. It doesn't give them an excuse to keep it going, but it's a straight up fact
While her past was unfortunate, I find her to be a sociopath. This was uncomfortable to watch. There's no end to her "revenge" and in the end she's gonna get hurt the most. Nobita I admire you for putting this on your channel
I don't think she's a sociopath, I think she only got unlucky. Think about it, you live with an abusive father who rap3$ and beat the sht out of your mother whenever u get home from school and u gotta watch her crying not wanting to "do that" with him and she can't leave the father because he's the one paying the bills. And u know your father cheats on your mother too. Live like that for 18 years, or in case of Japan, 21 for women. It will hurt you mentally way too much... She tried to adapt to survive, by thinking "men are psychos, there's no healthy relationship out there, is there?", and then she left her house to live alone but still had doubts about people. Then she tried having a relationship, and baam, she got fooled. Next relationship, she got fooled again. Next one, same but worse. How the hell is she going to have any hopes of finding a healthy relationship now? By not having anyone to set her a good example, I'm not surprised she thinks like that.
Based on what she said about her past, I seriously doubt her upbringing was anywhere near as abusive as my sisters and I endured. I've also been in horrible relationships with cheaters. But I never lost basic human characteristics like empathy and compassion--even for people I don't necessarily like. The anonymous woman was likely born the way she is. She probably inherited psychopathic disorder from her father.
@@yura2424 Not a profession, but sure it isn't new or rare. She'll feel loads of pain because she'll likely never trust anyone. Her fears of nobody being trustworthy will lead to constant suffering, because she's the one causing others suffering and they'll treat her badly for it.
@@yura2424 The "profession" is honest work. Sex for money. It's as honest a work as it comes. This woman is not a prostitute. Prostitutes mostly have honor. This is a sociopath hunting for prey.
“Beware that, when fighting monsters, you yourself do not become a monster... for when you gaze long into the abyss. The abyss gazes also into you.” (Nietzsche)
But, Nieztsche was a self-absorbed misogynist that was the very thing he preached not to be though. Like if Zarathustra was posted on 4chan, he would fit right in with the incels and QAnon people and agree with ridiculously incel things people say like "Whenever a woman sleeps with a man, a part of him stays inside her forever."
A couple things. The more that "gold digger" girl talked about revenge and hatred, the more I felt like "Who hurt this girl? She has serious issues. It's like she's trying to validate her being a terrible person." And then there it was. I hope she gets better, although for now the chances seem slim. She has to be careful in the US though, I'll just leave it at that. A little story, my fellow kendoka went to Kokushikan University for a semester (it's a regular thing here) where he met a girl, they fell in love and started a relationship. They got back to Hungary and the girl became pregnant. It was unplanned, but they were in love so they got married, and I think they moved back to Japan, so there is that. You just have to vet your men or women properly, it's the first rule of dating.
If you meet a person at school, in a hobby club, in a gym, or a church or temple? Chances are they're going to be decent, normal people. Not always, but the chance is overwhelmingly favorable. Meeting at a bar, a dance club, a host or hostess place, or a straight up brothel and you get the sorriest examples of humanity wrapped in blinding glamour. Different places attract different kinds of people. The girl in the video belongs to, and almost exclusively targets men who belong to, the same seedy world she does.
@@Borderose you forgot libraries, maybe school like H.S or college? grocery stores lol. just anywhere that doesnt involve nightclubs, late night bars, strip clubs, late night parties, those kinds of sleezy events.
@@wonder777warrior6 There are sociopaths everywhere, but even foreigners in Japan are more docile; when she prostitutes herself like this to a man who has had negative life experiences of his own to match hers, it will not end well.
This woman is absolutely psychopathic. How does taking "revenge" on other people that have nothing to do with the situations that hurt you or your friends make any sense? She is literally a fictional supervillain.
She is ill, yes. But it doesn't look like she wants to change anything, so the only way to avoid these psychopaths is to bail out the moment they start talking about money.
*sociopathic Psychopaths are born, sociopaths are made. In her case you could guess that she had a bad relationship with her father she never resolved in a healthy way (eg. in therapy).
She's also targeting CEO's who are the literal definition of a psychopath instead of what we would argue as normal people wanting a normal relationship. Seems like a match made in heaven (or hell?)
Sexual predators in other countries deserve far worse treatment. How about going for ur women who actually don't even want to look at u losers. This is why u run to other east asian countries where women are still better.
Nobita is a new generation of journalist that explores real life situations and interviews all kind of people without boundaries and topics which mainstream media would consider taboo. Thank you Nobita-san.
I was stationed at Yokota in Fussa. It is true that there are guys who want to date only Japanese women. They're different from American women. They're a lot less combative, more agreeable, more feminine, gentle, and good hearted. My wife is Japanese and she is amazing. It's also true that some American men are only looking for fun and end up hurting Japanese women. It happens everywhere. I understand why this woman uses men. However, there will come a time where she realizes that she wasted too much time hating men that she failed to find happiness. I was in a similar situation. My American girlfriend cheated on me when I was in Iraq. When I found out, I was crushed. It made me bitter and I didn't trust women. I then PCSed to Japan. When I met my wife, I saw that she was kind, smart, beautiful, and would make a great wife and mother. I realized that I wanted happiness. I let my guard down to take the chance. This year, we celebrated our 10 year anniversary with a trip to Italy together and she is currently in Japan visiting her family. Although there are hurtful people out there, there are also good people. Don't hurt good people because you met a bad one. It only continues a bad cycle.
exactly bro, im now stationed in south korea, and im going to be here a while, i want to get married and have kids, and i want it to be with an asian woman, my first ever asian girl was in college and lets just say after her i knew that my future wife was going to be asian, it was just leagues better than any other american woman i dated before. its a shame this woman is like this, in the end she is only hurting herself. she gives the men what they want and all she gets is some money, when she is 40 plus and no longer attractive she will feel the pain of all this. the min she started talking i knew her relationship with her father had to have been terrible, men! please be good fathers to your daughters you are what she is going to picture, and hold as standard what men are to be like.
the difference is: you didn't actively try to hurt women in "revenge", she on other hand does take "revenge" by hurting people who are completely unrelated to those who hurt her
That lady attracts exactly what she is. Thats how things work. Its a lesson she (and the men) will have to learn, and they’ll keep repeating the situation until they do.
Having heard the other side, that of men, who are expats and think naive, local girls are easy prey and soooo impressed with a little spending, (unlike Western women, who want you to do chores and be equals, apparantly) I can only applaud her self-awareness. As long as these people meet each other, everyone is clear that they are paying for pussy, everyone is a winner. Like in a game of poker, it is just a question of who is bluffing more.
Shameful on both sides -- the foreign men in Japan hunting for sex, and the "gaijin hunters" just taking their money and gifts then ghosting them. Both are unethical. I hope this is not the majority of Western men who visit Japan because if it is, I'm doubly ashamed!
I think it all has to do with how honest people are being with themselves and with others. I had a friend meet a girl in a club, make out with her, take her to the bathroom for.. activities. Then 5 minutes later she was talking with us saying how she was worried he didn't really like her. Hopefully she was just trying to save face... but situations similar to that (not always so fast) are pretty common when you're specifically going to bars/clubs with foreigners. I mean most foreigners by definition aren't sticking around, most of them couldn't even if they wanted to.
well personally speaking I'd want to get married I've definitely matured in what I want out of love. I still feel like a mess as a person but that's for me to figure out and fix on my own.
Well, foreign man here. I have lived in Japan for 19 years and approaching 17 years of marriage to a Japanese woman. Unfortunately, you get guys who want to bone woman wherever they go, they exist. They are the minority. Most of us are looking for love, friendship and partnership. With one special woman, not many. The same applies to the ladies as well mind you. You (anyone who is reading this) needs to understand something, Japanese women (most of them sadly) only care about money and social standing. This is culturally the way they are. I suggest you do not use dating apps/sites and clubs to find your special someone. Those places are LOADED with these kinds of floozies. Way back in 2004 I met my wife at a social outing with fellow language students and a few Japanese friends of theirs. The rest as they say, is history. I am so glad I avoided the crazies! (it helps that I have a moral compass that I will not bend for anyone and that I am an introvert) Well, my father was a sociopath and my mothers broken marriage to him and subsequent divorce did not turn me into a "monster" , it showed me how not to be as a human being! Trauma is a heartless teacher. Just use the negatives as a guidance on how NOT to be! Man, that was long. Sorry.
Unfortunately, it does seem the majority of them just want sex when you see it for yourself in Japan and when you read their conquests in the forums. Western men would brag about how easy it was for them to get dates and score in Japan and that Japanese men were no competition to them.
For real, she's going to be in for one major reality check cause domestic Western men can be a far worse and exponentially more dangerous breed than those that travel. No doubt about it she's a terrible person, but I still don't wish her harm. Just hope she wakes up and sees she's only contributing to the problem and has become what she hates.
And unlike in Japan, she has more competitors as bad as her if not worse. Wahmens are already upset that they are unable to date because #MGTOW, they won't just let her take from what is left of the SIMPs.
I kinda hope she doesn't understand that. Not that I want her dead. but she needs to find her comeuppance. She's a terrible person doing terrible things beacuse one time some people did bad things to her. She's not going to win at the end of the day.
Perhaps the most valuable thing we can do in our lives is connect with another human being openly, honestly, and reciprocally. And perhaps the most surefire way to cause pain is to attempt to do so selfishly, dishonestly, or transactionally.
She is a hero...keep the sexual predators from your western countries locker up in ur own country. Are women in ur country dead that they prowl around like that in other countries?
My assumption is, assuming they were indeed the very wealthy CEO types, that at least most of them knew they were in a purely transactional relationship. This sort of relationship is very common for these types of men. The danger of a woman participating in this sort of thing is that eventually she will meet a man who is dangerous or naive or both, and those sorts of men can really harm a woman.
Seriously sad to hear her (the main gaijin hunter) reasons and methods. But like other people said, when she mentioned her father and boyfriend it all made sense. The sad thing is that she might potentially damage someone who doesn't deserve it, with her behaviour. I married my Japanese wife 10 years ago and we are still as happy as the first day we met so I guess I prove this girl wrong.
Yes, the other lady was pretty rational - she learned and gradually changed her opinion and lost her attraction to gaijin. Thats normal and healthy. The main girl was a psycho.
@@gregohb Hard for me not to sympathize with her, I know a lot of people claim she's a psychopath; but I think it's obvious that she's just abusing groups who has abused her emotionally. As someone who's known men who's been cheated on, many men choose to react the exact same way by getting indirect 'revenge.' It an entirely human responds, which requires to be slighted first to understand
@@nils191 yes, many people have that kind of unhealthy immature response. The red flag in this case, is not that she started dating and was cold hearted to a guy to punish an innocent guy. She has a dedicated plan to hurt people financially and emotionally, she has already enacted her revenge on many men, and she plans to continue it. She is so sick that she has given up plans for any kind of normal life and is married to her anger. At what point does this stop? In fact, when she realizes that she is never satisfied maybe she will take it up to greater extremes of depravity. Its like how people start by torturning animals, and they eventually start killing people. She (and your other friends) need friends or counselors to guide them back to the light, and back to positive productive life.
@@gregohb It's a basic feedback loop, many of those men are 'passport bros,' they come to Japan exclusive for the women. They have money. And continually being exposed to something, while also effectively being rewarded for it (cash, income etc.,) reinforces a justification for self-interested motivation. To reduce this to her behavior is a complete neglect of basic human action and motivation, if she's a psychopath, everyone's a psychopath to put it differently. And yes, it's quite unhealthy. But to say it's sick, that she's responsible, completely ignores how people actually works and decontextualize cause-and-effect from human behavior. She was abused as little, as she said; her friends has been abused my men of a certain stripe. All of these things taken in combination will eventually result in this type of behavior. She's also young, for that matter, so to assume she'll just go out and should do things, just ignore that these problems are not caused in isolation; Japan is incredibly bad with mental health issues; it's not a place to have these type of problems. You're expecting things from someone in a detached manner, which is just not how humans work in the slightest.
@@nils191 you are assuming everything she says is 100% true, that hs is purely a victim. Maybe her mother cheated on her father and thats why he left. And I will bet serious money that when she got into relationships she was not an ideal girlfriend. She almost surely chose a man who reminded her of her father. The big flaw in her story is that guys just interested in sex would not spend $$$$$ on her - they clearly are serious about her to some extent.Foreign guys are less likely to be sugar daddies than Asian guys. It's her sick viewpoint that because they wanted sex, that is all they wanted. The third flaw in this, is that Japanese men abused her (if we can take her story as completely valid) - not foreign men. I suspect that this sick puppy chooses foreigners because they are easier victims, or she is attracted to them but her only path for a relationship is to hurt someone. And lastly, why don't you apply your tolerance to her father and first boyfriend? Her victims will probably recover but she may never recover - and end up a horrible lonely single woman with a heart full of hate instead of a family.
WOW ! That actually makes me sad to the core. I'm grateful she was honest, but I've realized how much some girls and guys ruin it for the honest and kind people
There are other Japanese women like her around, I've known one exactly like her. They somehow have an irrational hatred of foreign men usually after having been consently gang "stuffed" in their past and finding out playing innocent didn't somehow protect them from being sluts then they turn to devils and take revenge on innocent unsuspecting men, usually who are nice upstanding guys with good moral values and sincere good intentions. I've seen this only in Japanese women and not other Asians. It's even worse than just stealing money, much worse, and criminal but i can't talk about it.
I lived in China for several years and honestly, a lot of the men were vile sexpats and awful people. They were only there because they couldn't get work or a partner anywhere else and one of them was hated by all of his colleagues and aggressively bullied the children. The parents liked him because he was 'strict'. On the other hand, there were definitely foreigner chasers. I had a police officer hit on me in a gym, trying to drive me home and add me to Wechat. I didn't do anything with him bc as a cop in China, if he did anything to me there'd be no recourse. I also had people try to scam me, and one taxi driver who kept touching my thigh etc. These weren't tier 1 cities, either, happens all over the place. But most Chinese people were kind to those who tried their best and were good to them, just as in Japan. @@aoeu256
Wow...her blindness in recognizing the irony of her behavior is astonishing. If she doesn't change her view of the world, it's not going to end well for her emotionally. Loneliness and an impenetrable wall of angst is the only thing waiting for her at the end of this road...
Emotionally? I hope she doesn't get killed because she is fooling men every day, even worse now that she wants to move to the US. She'll eventually try to fool the wrong man...
Especially if she is really considering moving to the States and keeping this up, things will not go well for her in the long run, and might even get dangerous, since especially in the US what she is admitting to doing is quite illegal, and fast way to attract the wrong sort of attention from local "operators" or authorities
In some ways, I feel bad for that faceless woman you interviewed. What her father and boyfriend did to her and her mother is wrong. They were bad people. That doesn't change the fact that she's now the villain in the lives of dozens of men. What she is doing is pure evil. She's allowed herself to be consumed by the darkness that affected her. If a White person is mugged by a Black person once, it would be understandable for them to be upset, but still be completely wrong if this incident caused them to become racist towards all Black people. So because *2* men mistreated you in your life, you decide to mistreat *all* men? This woman is a pure hypocrite and every complaint she has about foreign men applies to Japanese men as well. It's a flimsy justification for her to use foreign men for money. It's true that plenty of foreign men are sleazy sexpats who will use Japanese women for sex then vanish. You mean to tell me Japanese men don't use Japanese women just for sex too? As for foreigners not taking relationships with Japanese people seriously, first off, citation needed. Secondly, plenty of Japanese don't take relationships with foreigners seriously either. Maybe they don't take the relationship seriously because they think their foreign significant other is going to leave Japan anyway, so why bother. Or maybe they're the type of Japanese person to treat their foreign significant other more like an accessory to show off than a significant other. Not taking relationships seriously is not a one-way street. And what about the foreigners who take relationships with Japanese people so seriously that they marry, have children, and end up involved in a case of Japanese parental child abduction? An issue the Japanese government still doesn't take seriously enough? But it's all on the foreigners eh? Just as foreign men who are sleazy and sleep around with Japanese women then discard them like trash do a disservice to the reputation of foreigners, this woman is doing a disservice to the reputation of Japanese women. She also falsely claims the vast majority of men only care for sex and falsely claims most women are gold diggers who only care for money. I'm sorry for what happened to her in the past, but this woman is evil.
I totally agree with you 110%! She's way worse than a prostitute or hooker -- she's a huge con-artist that takes advantage of foreigners because they are easier for her to get. I think she mentioned she hates all men, but it's still sad to see her just target a group because her friends had bad experiences with foreigners or something. And she mentioned revenge, but it's not like she's targeting the same exact people/individuals that took advantage of her, her family, or her friends. I feel what she's doing is probably illegal, but she doesn't realize it. Taking a car as a gift is like car theft. Even if most of the guys just wanted sex with her, there could've been some very genuine ones --like omfg giving a girl a car is like as big as a wedding ring or very serious, at least to me lol It makes me really depressed to see humans like her exist. Even just online, I feel a lot of young Japanese girls are similar to her and just want to use foreigners to practice English, which is depressing. I'm fluent in Japanese, but I get ignored online often because they just wanna practice English (if I use a language exchange app or something) It's gotten really really bad nowadays. About 15-20 years ago, there were a lot more friendly Japanese people that made me feel like it was balanced or something. Now it's very one-sided. Or at least from my experiences. Anyhow, I totally agree that she's so evil, it traumatizes me. I've dated some Japanese girls that have randomly blocked me or ghosted me too. At least I never gifted them a car, but it's still a huge shock to get even blocked randomly or something. Makes you lose hope in humanity a bit lol
Thank you very much for interviewing me Nobita san😊✨🙏 It was interesting to look back how differently I think about my own 'preference' (including racial & physical one).😊 Gaijin hunter or no gaijin hunter, I wish everyone finds their love and happiness😊🙏
Were you the 2nd interviewee? I think you are very wise and achieved more self-knowledge by dating foreign men, versus the other woman who exploits men for money. It's true that inter-cultural marriages can be very challenging, especially after the initial "honeymoon" period has passed and all the strange little differences start bubbling to the surface!
Femeninity is Malleable. They are easily manipulated and brainwashed for this very reason. It takes a Woman ONE bad experience with a Man to turn to the Dark Side. Meanwhile it takes Men like 50-100 bad experiences with women to get to the same level
well only fans is full of girls like that but they do it officially and get the money legally... 5mio of those sluts alone on onlyfans. and probably 50 mio in total in the world with all other websites included
Way to stay a professional during this interview. Way to be concerned for another human's well being. Way to be an advocate for us men who are in fact looking for love. 100/10 You are an amazing man.
Looking for love? Are women in ur country dead that u losers from western countries prowl around as predators in east asian country. Shame on sexual predators targeting women in east asian and east europe etc
Do you know why these women are acting like these? Because someone put them in that trauma. Who put them in that trauma? You know who. If you're really concern of other human being, start the change with yourself.
@@Larrythelobster000 men are scared of their own ghost I guess. They don't want women to play the same games they're playing for years. Now they're scared that women can do the same. I don't know if there are still good men
The lesson here, is never buy expensive gifts for women. that's true in every single country on earth. also, there are decent people everywhere, and terrible people everywhere. it's not always easy to tell them apart, and different culture makes it even more difficult.
You're right but I wouldn't say that should be the only message to take away from this video. Yes people should be careful about how they spend their money, but these women seem to have been treated as objects so they've built a expectation around that. Show her you're not in it for sex only, like how she expects, and be more like what Nobita was trying to hint at. Specifically, spend time with her in ways that don't directly lead to sex and in ways that don't directly lead to spending money.
That not buying expensive gifts thing is a very good lesson, one the younger me should have been taught as a teen. It would have saved me a lot of headache in my 20s. It's not even limited to just women. It applies to any potential significant other. After all, if you open with that, eventually, they will expect more and more and become accustomed to it. In the best case, failing to deliver will be a point of conflict that soon leads to separation. In the worst, they will bully you into buying things you can't afford or somehow make the purchases behind your back, forcing you have to clean up the mess. As powerful as the urge to try to impress someone might be, it's important to resist that urge, because when it comes to relationships the goal is to find someone who *loves you* rather than *loves what you can do for them*
@@kenshinag I agree. Me (female) never would accept a very expensive gift from a suitor, unless I knew we both are serious, after dating a long, long time. The best gift you can give anyone is yourself: invest time and interest in the other person, do not treat them as a rental (pay for them and use them).
I used to avoid gaijin hunters when I lived in Osaka for 3 years. They were quite annoying clearly looking for free English lessons or wanted to just look cool. Every girl I dated, including the person who eventually became my wife had no particular interest in learning English. I was already *nearly* fluent before I moved to Japan. Most of my friends in Japan speak almost no English. They are super cool and treated me like a normal friend. To this day, I help them out when they come to the US and whenever I’m in Japan I travel all across the country to meet up with everyone.
i can actually relate. I am pretty much the same way in China. I learned Chinese after i got there and it took me about a year to be able to communicate freely with anyone. It's easier to find local women and local friends when you speak their language. I always felt that it was probably easier for me to learn their language than for them to learn my language...
My buddy since highschool ended up doing 20 years in the Air Force. 10 years in Japan.. even bought a house there. And he married one of the sweetest japanese girls in the world. She wasn't into it for anything else than love. Of course.. he happens to be 6ft6 .. and he said they did get odd looks for that more than anything else.
yeah you can usually smell which women will give you the flirty eyes and all and then turn to the next guy at the table and do the same. you know you can't trust them for 4 minutes so there's no basis for any real relationship there.
The way you edited this video with the back and forth between the contrasting ways of living of these two interviewees, great job man! (Good questions as well 👍)
As a psychologist: The woman who wouldn't show her face shows all the signs of being psychopathetic... the what people nowadays call "gaslighting" is the main indicator here. "I do X because something happened to Y" as if it was some sort of justification for horrible behavior and using "revenge" as a motive to justify it. The way she describes how easy it was for her to take advantage of those men is another good indicator... being able to be this cold and analytical in your approach while emitting a sense of affection that tricks others is very strong in psychopaths: being able to pretend to care when in reality there are alterior motives. Thirdly, she is not showing any signs of regret or sense of having done something wrong... And of course she had "daddy issues" growing up which made her bitter and feel like every man out there is a sexual predator trying to take advantage of women. This girl is a prime example of a toxic psychopath. Anyway, listening to her gave me shivers, if I was to counsel her, I would not be feeling comfortable around her. Sorry for my poor English.
A good analysis of you. Sadly this psychopathic behaviour can be seen often in the west too. I call them feminazis, but you can find such people in other topics as well. The feminazis specifically hide in the feminist movement, because this movement would never admit to their own sexist tendencies or that they need to call sexists amongst them out. Hence giving such bad actors the perfect breeding ground to spread their idiology of hatred. It was my reason for not associating with feminism anymore. They gaslight and justify their hatred actions with what they experienced somewhere else. Not recognizing (unknowingly or even knowingly) that they are punching in the wrong direction, even hurting other women in the process. The anonymous women even blamed women.. just sad to see that.
I don't really know what psychopath is but what you describe sounds accurate. She does not scare me at all because her behavior and motive is pretty easy to detect. The people who scare me to most is the ones very good are pretending on the right side of moral issues. Sometimes I even think they believe it. I came to know a few narcissists and one of them is really good at manipulating people. Narcissists coevolve with the rest of us and they see us as resources. They can spot your weakness by instinct.
Well most Japanese will not freely share their thoughts with just anyone they don't know or trust, the thing is that Japanese have this cultural trait that is distinctly Japanese and from what I read is important it's called Honne and tatemae, private face and public face. This woman is sharing her thoughts in anonymity to protect those around her and herself. She will only share her personal thoughts and her true self to those close to her. She may have sociopathic tendencies but I don't know why you would say psychopathic its not what I see at all and I have been in program to be therapist, so I just disagree on that part. Anyway, when she says she has friends she has some caring inside of her. Psychopaths don't care for anyone but themselves and they really don't have friends either.
It's not that big of a deal. She's right. These guys are delusional thinking that free sex falls from the sky. I have a hard time believing you have all this empathy for sex tourists. Come on. Idk, guys want to be fooled about sex. They have to learn the hard way.
@@working_example I believe the reason why she does not scare you is because you KNOW her motives and intent because she expressed them so freely and clearly. So yes, in this instance I agree it is easy to detect, but this is mainly because we already know what's "wrong" with her as she tells us freely all we need to know (which people generally wouldn't do if it wasn't an interview where they remain anonymous). Now the more interesting case of course is the narcissists that you describe. It is sometimes difficult to distinguish between a narcissist and a sociopath from the outside - often people display elements of both to their surroundings. The interesting thing about those people is, whether they are truly narcissists or sociopaths, as these are true personality disorders, or whether that's just them. It is not always clear and often really difficult to diagnose. Many people who take advantage of others and see their peers as "resources" as you put it, are simply what one could call "an evil person." Whether they are actually mentally "ill" is a different story entirely. Narcissists in particular often suffer from an excessive degree of self-absorption, they often appear overly confident, relying on external forms of validation, while deep down they are deeply insecure, feel a sense of shame and sadness. These are the main drivers of their behavior. It is often not with ill intent and many of them do not necessarily impact others negatively (provided you do not challenge them and stay out of their way). In case of sociopaths, this of course is very different. They usually lack empathy, morals, care for concern for the feelings and needs of other people. Their motivation for taking advantage of others is - one could argue - "worse" than narcissists'. Their weak conscience makes it easier for them to justify antisocial behavior and dodge the negative impacts of their actions like guilt and remorse that "normal" people would experience afterward. Obviously I don't know the person you mentioned, but they do sound more like a narcissist indeed.
That woman is so closed off to any sort of real emotional intimacy that it was just sad watching her. She's missing out on any real emotional connection because she still lets the past run her life. It was really eye-opening to hear someone be so honest but at the same time, I hope she heals later on. She's going to regret it when she's in her 40's and 50's and no one will give her the time of day anymore.
I was thinking the same thing, but I feel it will be difficult for her to change her perspective, since she will not let ppl come close to her, she will think they are there just to take her advantage... But I hope she changes it will be good for her and those around her...
Yes, this was my thought as well, and I find it sadder than the 'preying on rich guys' aspect. Obviously that's sleazy, but I can easily believe what she said about none of those guys wanting a real relationship (they're foreigners in Japan, going home with a girl they just met at a bar ffs; what are the odds they were trying to start a family and put down roots?). But she's wasting her best years consciously trying to hurt other people instead of healing herself.
@jebes909090 it's a matter of perspective to some extent, Instead of saying that hurt people behave in a peculiar manner, some ppl like say hurt ppl need help n support
This is what a person without a moral code looks like. Regardless of her background, she's really a horrible person at heart. I appreciate a little look into the empty soul. It is important for us all to know that there really are people like her out there. I think she won't find it so easy to just disappear from all the guys she uses in the USA.
she definitely has a moral code, she's just out for revenge. A real anime villain story: dark past (sorta) -> yearning for revenge -> revenge by any means necessary
@@aqxbjc5879 More of a caricature of a anime villain. Despite being literally 2D, most anime villains have a more 3 dimensional conception of reality, and more believable reasons to do evil, than this woman.
Lol the look of horror becoming more and more entrenched on his face as the 'guest' was talking......welcome to what western men have to deal with as a standard attitude in western women.
This is the sad reality of dating in general nowadays! Women use sex to get money and men use money to get sex! Whatever happened to falling in love and happiness? 😞
@RYUKA no, you're wrong here , The Internet created opportunities I can meet women all around the world online , before that I was limited at the women around me in my city/job/circle of friends . Now, I play video games with people around the world, and if you look good as a man or have the money, you can date around the world. This created "the paradox of choice" ( search on UA-cam is a short video : The paradox of choice by Barry Schwartz) . PS: I forgot to mention that yes, sometimes even before the internet, some women wanted the money and men the s3x, that's why night walkers existed in the first place .
It's called daddy issues , in Japan girls who had awful relationship with father or no dad usually will do AV or something sexual , in USA the dad not being present usually leads to becoming transgenser or blue hair liberal freak who hates her own race
It would be cool to see a follow up also hopefully she got therapy for trauma that may have happened or she actually found someone to change her thoughts or preferences
Well, in the USA, she’s just an average person 😂. A person I knew told me her friend was popular with foreigners in Japan and she went to study abroad in America, Florida for a year.She assumed she’ll get the same attention as she did in Japan since she was Japanese and can speak English. And she was a 6/10. 3 months after being in the states all that attention went away and she couldn’t find nobody. She ended up going back home to japan. You would think this experience humbled her but she went back to her ways in Japan.😅
Pretty clear these type of Gaijin hunters underestimate: Beauty standards in USA compared to East Asia The standards of American men who aren't losers looking to mess with someone solely because of their heritage And the sheer amount of Asian Americans (who can range from cute to baddies) they're competiting with lmao
You overestimate how attractive the average person is in the USA. Approximately ~40% of the USA population is obese. The fact that she is not obese and actually has a skinny figure will already put her in a position that makes her more attractive than the average person. The only way she would be considered "average" is if she moves to an high-reputation big city where attractive women often flock to - such as Miami, Las Vegas, San Fransisco, Los Angeles, etc.
Japanese American Women are much more attractive to American Men... because they speak decent English it's much easier to achieve communication which is mutually exclusive with a healthy relationship. I feel like the Gaijin going to Japan to party and find girls, are more the type looking for some quick sex, because they know communication will be rough at best... But in the US you're more likely to run into a man who would have communication as more of a requirement for a relationship, and doesn't really value quick sex that highly. It's not that hard to buy sex in the USA, if a camera is recording then it's legal to pay her for sex... But you can't buy a feeling of not being alone, not a lasting one at least. I don't think she will have a hard time finding guys, I just think if she picks a rich guy out of a crowd, there's going to be much less of a chance that particular guy is interested in her. And so she may have to lower her standards substantially than she did when she was in Japan.
Gaijin hunters were the final straw for me to make my first decision to leave Japan. No one I met felt genuinely interested in me as a person. It only took two Japanese girlfriends to realize our ideas of Romance and love are very very different. My fiancé only wanting to meet once a month because she was busy made me understand this was just going to be a financial deal and I wanted no part of it. I ended up staying in Japan 6 more years because I found a Romanian wife there instead. But I totally lost interest in knowing Japanese people on a deeper level despite being fluent just like the other women I realized there is nothing amazing about Japanese girls and the cultural differences were too vast to marry one.
Bad father figure made her beahave as a sociopath/ reverse incel towards men. I wish her that one day she will be able to see that her view about men is twisted because of her lfe experiences.
No, that's psychopathic, not sociopathic. psychopathic is acting without morals and sociopathic is acting without understanding how to interact with people.
wtf is "reverse incel"? Women can be "incel" too. I think you meant misandrist. Also, sociopath? She is a psychopath; she has no remorse without having problem interacting with many foreign men to manipulate them whereas they are aware of the manipulation or not.
Some 18 years ago I traveled to China on my own to learn some Chinese. I ve seen a young american guy who walked with a cute Chinese girl. She wanted him to buy her an expensive camera. He was hesitantly saying.. oh thats a lot of money. She loudly replied: am I not your girlfriend? 😂 that sentence stuck with me... its called the 二奶 system. The second wife sytem.
I never really understood why it's so bad if people approach you just to practice english. You might still become real friends after talking regardless of the reason for why they approached you first.
Because the intention is just "learning English" and not being friends. They only see you as someone that can teach them a language, that's it. They may leave or block you after they've achieved their goal.
The reason why I find all this insincere is... Online gaming is a thing. I practiced my English to perfection since age 8 simply by online gaming. That's it.
I think it's a matter of expectations. If your own countryman approaches you and strikes up a conversation, and starts hanging out with you, that's your friend; you might expect the same to be true in a foreign country, but the reality is that this person could just want something from you (like any average stranger). This means that there are extra steps before you have an actual *friend*.
Yeah, same. Even if they just want to practice English with me, I think that's fun, and I'd be happy to speak with them. Maybe a close friendship can blossom from that and maybe one doesn't, and who cares if it doesn't?
Yikes! I honestly fear for that woman's safety if she plans to do what she does in the US. People do not realize a sense of safety is a premium in this world.
If she plans on continuing her business like this in America, she definitely has to be much more careful. It's not only harder to "disappear" in America, but after having read and watched a lot of true crime, I'm certain some men will be committed to not just 'accepting their fate' if you know what I'm hinting at. In this game there are no winners.
She said she would move to the US, hoped that she knows them Yankees are entirely different breeds! And she should know that in the Yankee land, when you encounter any person, 50% chance they're strapped, locked and loaded with real leads!
@@derubenskanal "The constitutions of most of our States assert that all power is inherent in the people; that... it is their right and duty to be at all times armed." Thomas Jefferson to John Cartwright, June 5, 1824 "But when once a standing army is established in any country, the people lose their liberty" George Mason, Elliot Debates Vol 3. He then further elaborates on the history of his claim before stating that a Pennsylvania governor advised British Parliament to disarm the people so they would be easier to enslave. I carry to defend my home and the people I care about, because I have a duty to protect friend, family, and home from all threats foreign and domestic as laid out by the founding fathers. It is a heavy responsibility, as judgement falls heavy on the person that draws a firearm when it is unneeded. A responsible firearms carrier today would avoid said brawl altogether to avoid the possibility of their opponent reaching for said firearm and being forced to use it.
@@derubenskanal I don't agree at all, and I would advise not using the buzzword "insecure" so lightly, everyone has the right to bear arms and you never know who might pull out the stick on you, the gun is the equalizer.
Gaijin Hunter sounds like a new Anime Netflix release in which cute girls fight giant monsters is a similar but fundamentally different world in 1 or 2 key aspects.
That woman was clearly disillusioned. Men wanting just sex and women just wanting money are stereotypes that got popular on the internet. Everyone wants sex and money, but some people much more than others. She probably got this mindset from hanging around bad men. But she is an adult, so she should try to be more responsible and not blame all men and foreigners for how bad people treated her.
Narcissistic entitlement. She has no responsibility, everything is someone else's fault. She wants bonding (like all narcissists) but it's a game to be played totally in her favor. This is almost cultural in the East where men are viewed purely as human doings still. It's hard to date in the West as a man because passion (looks) is required (for romantic love). But, romantic love is a western concept. It's all utility in the east IMHO, having lived there. Of course, there are exceptions.
Yeah she must have been so full of herself as she said she easily gets men and East Asian women in US are desired there, she doesn't know there's a big chance she could get beaten up there than in Japan.
@@bobbruce4135 There is also the probability of a sociopatic personality disorder. She really sound like one (as well as an extremely naive narcissist). Also, I don't think Eastern people are all like this, having met several ones (and having met several Westerners who are like this).
@@vicente3k yes, because real smart good men who has dignities are not attracted to women like her. She puts herself on a shallow level that's why she attracts shallow men.
6:47 She's not wrong , as someone who loves to go shopping/touristing to Japan it's been a rule to me to avoid Shinjuku area's bar, they're expensive and high chances you'll either get entrapped by either a fellow foreigner, or a gaijin hunter.
The anonymous woman's story is rather sad. Definitely someone who grew up with a trauma, but rather than seek treatment for it she began acting on it instead. Her entire worldview is "hurt or be hurt", she became part of an abuse cycle.
There is a stigma about seeking mental health treatment in Japan (and lot of other countries too), you are expected to resolve the issue without help. While I can see why she that particular path, the saddest part is she never knew other paths were possible due to “we don’t talk about that so it never happened” culture.
Stigma about mental health treatment is the least of her concerns. She has no care in the world about having stigma in being a lowly person of bad character. We all make choices in life with trauma in our past. To choose to hurt others to justify her hurt is pure evil and selfishness. Bad behavior has no excuse, the devil wears Prada.
@@Frogpslm3737 “bad behavior has no excuse” is easy to say when one is in a position that is either easy not to engage in bad behaviors, or is limited by religion or some other morality code. Although, I doubt this woman would like to make excuses- she just does what she wants because she doesn’t care about morality
Starting an online account and taking money from simps would be a much safer and potentially more lucrative option than directly taking money from men like what she did.
@@johnb6861 It's still such a toxic culture though lol it makes me depressed to see how people exploit others online too, like a lot of fake people pretending to be others on snapchat or other sites.
Yeah definitely much safer. But she also did get a car out of the real life approach. Maybe she gets off on the real experience, like there's more thrill in it with the potential danger lol
Interesting and good to know, and I will be more aware of this. I am leaving Japan today. I've been coming to Japan for years to be with a woman I had met in 2017 and have looked for jobs in Japan so I could have a relationship with her and hopefully marry her. Unfortunately she changed her mind about me on this trip. The point is some of us men are serious about romance. Please don't judge all of us negitively.
This channel has pretty good social study content. Well done. By the way, United States welcomes all Gaijin Hunters especially 20+ men level hunters. Also, if you approach men as a hunter, you are going to get the same type of men because you are hunting the same type of men. I hope Gaijin Hunters are 100% accurate all the time, otherwise some guys are going to hurt the wrong way.
I think that there are two very powerful factors at work here: The presence of novelty: Something that one cannot get all of the time, represented by a foreigner and the lure of limited access: The foreigner is just visiting, if you want to have a romance with them, it needs to happen *now* As the foreigner is a visitor, it would be unrealistic to expect them to stay in a long term relationship - it can only be an affair Some people find this favorable, as they do not desire any complications from a long term relationship, and the foreigner wont be around to cause trouble once they go home. I think that the anonymous woman is going to find the game to be different, when she is the foreigner.
Very sad to hear that she had a bad home life and has turned that towards blaming all men. Also I'm sort of nervous about her trying the same tactic here in the U.S. Going all the way to Japan to get a date with a Japanese girl is a good way to filter out a lot of the more unsavory characters from the west, and especially in more rural areas men can tend to be rougher around the edges. Laws and culture are also very different, so if she tries her tactic on the wrong person it could end very badly for her. Hope she is safe and can do some serious healing before it's too late.
She's playing a dangerous game if she tries that here in the US. Make no mistake; there are plenty of simps, yellow fever simps or otherwise. But she may find herself realizing that some prey won't take being hunted lying down.
Going to be harder for her to disappear. In Japan, it's her home, she knows the place better than the foreigner. When she comes to America, she is going to be the foreigner at the disadvantage.
@@jonahdewitt2158 Also, she has more competitors than in her home country. With these wahmens doubling down on non-US women because of passport bros, do you think they will just let her get away with what she plans to? I don't think she can scream "wreecist" and get away with it like BLM.
She blamed all men because Japanese people tend to be very collectivistic. If one or more "representatives" of a "group" fails, the entire group must be punished. That's also more the reason why she did it for her friend as well (part of her "miuchi" or group), instead of sticking with a logic based analysis on individuals instead of a race of people.
I love how increasingly concerned Nobita looked throughout the interview with the anonymous lady. At some point, I think he just wanted to help her see a different, less cynical view of reality. I hope she does.
The Men only want sex and she only wants money. She's a prostitute by definition. There are more Asian prostitutes advertised online than any other race in Australia. You come here to study but end up a hooker or adult masseuse. This is why Western men dont want a serious relationship with you. Because most of you are who#es.
I wouldn't have a problem if someone just wanted to meet up to learn or practice English. Just be upfront about it. Met a woman on a dating app from Mexico who wanted to practice English for a job interview with an international company. We video chatted several times and I asked her interview questions in English. She got the job and we went our separate ways. Was glad to help.
Given that her identity is concealed, yes, she's being honest, but she's still a coward who hides. I suppose you could argue that she does so because if she reveals her face, that'll make it harder to prey on guys for money, but still.
I'd give her points if she were honest about it with her partners, there are women that only care about money but there is a right and a wrong way to go about it, why manipulate men for money when there are men that would willingly accept such a relationship without the need for lying and manipulating, in the end the money isn't as important to her as being a terrible person and getting a sense of revenge for her past using people that had nothing to do with it
That's not honesty. She's proud of being a shitty person. And a coward one at that, hiding her face instead of showing to the world so that more men don't fall prey.
6:36 Damn, even reporter Nobita couldn't hold a straight face by all the bonkers statements the woman made holy shit. EDIT: I hope the interviewed woman gets some help o. realises her manipulative wrongdoings.
I feel sad for the anonymous woman... disgusted too. Not every man wants her for sex, that's ridiculous. Also, her revenge logic doesn't make sense. She's doing what they want, the only thing is they lose a little of money, but that's it. She's so bitter inside that she can't think clearly.
Yeah, I feel sorry for her and disgusted by her as well. Her view of dating is so bleak. If she thinks how she was treated was bad, she's a hypocrite for treating random others the same way. She doesn't seem to have any remorse. I understand her feelings of wanting "revenge," but she's taking it out on the wrong people for it to make sense. She almost seems like a sociopath who's just grasping for excuses to justify her selfish behavior.
She has a prostitutes mentality 100 percent. Secretly wanting to control and punish men all the while getting paid and satisfying her sexual needs simultaneously. It's all a win for her.....until she hits the age barrier and no one pays any attention to her. Then she becomes a bitter old skank with a history. Very sad.
@@mikeballew3207 How about, we call out these men who hurt her to take the accountability and blame instead of just blaming the woman for her actions. How about we approach those men and tell them to stop hurting women and stop hoeing around
I'm on both ends of the spectrum. I am an black American woman that finds East Asian men attractive. But I'm at a huge disadvantage because when Japanese say they're attracted to foreigners, typically they're referring to Caucasians. So I' SOL on that front. But I've also been hunted for English practice when I lived over there. There was one time when I was on the bus coming home from the base when an ojisan made a beeline to me. I was in the back corner of the bus nodding off, so this scared the hell out of me. He was insisting on scheduling lessons with him, and I did my best to let him down gently before I got off at my stop. I genuinely don't think he put it together that approaching a woman like that would make them feel very uncomfortable, foreigner or not. At least I don't think there was malicious intent from him, just ignorant.
I think you still have it good. Southeast Asian people are not treated as foreigners and on some occasions, even if these foreigners say they don't know Japanese.
@@rifqimujahid4907 'still doesn't change the fact that SEA ppl are treated worse (if negative) compared to let's say, westerners (black or white) despite both being non-Japanese. Also, that legendary so-called 'gaijin card' only have 20% effectiveness when used by SEA ppl.
I'll try not to be harsh with the one lady who has been taking advantage of foreign men for money because she thinks they are only out for sex, but she doesn't have a very good focus on relationships...not all men are exclusively for sex. Some may like who they are with and would be considering a long-term relationship. Yes, each to thier own goals and motivations, but someone like that woman does not have a healthy outlook on relationships. Thank you for the video, it was enlightening.
Damn this was really interesting. From the thumbnail I thought the hunters would be people trying to exploit foreigners in some way, and while that may be the case with some people, I'm glad that's not exclusively it. Its interesting to see that some Japanese people really want to meet or date a foreigner in the same way some western people want to interact them. Thanks for doing these videos Nobita, you have some of the best Japan content online
Yeah, men here are used to women acting like she does already, so I don't think it'll be as easy as she thinks. She might get herself killed too if she pisses off the wrong guy. It's a really bad idea all around.
She said she would move to the US, hoped that she knows them Yankees are entirely different breeds! And she should know that in the Yankee land, when you encounter a normal person, 50% chance they're strapped, locked and loaded with real leads!
I think she'll do just fine with that method in USA. Assuming she targets the right guys... Plenty of guys will have a "doesn't matter had sex" attitude about it. Potentially, though, she targets the wrong guy...
I feel sorry for this girl. She clearly got damaged mentally by her dad and her first boyfriend, now she has trust issues, but hides them from herself and spins her world view accordingly. Like, men are bad, so i can be mean to them as much as i want and it's ok. No self reflection, hence no inner growth.
I was stationed in Yokosuka. And as a tall white male, I was pretty popular with Japanese girls. Yes, it's true we definitely play girls. And there are some that are never serious. But there are a lot of serious relationships that do develop. I wasn't really looking for anything serious, so I just played, mostly. What changed me was the girl I was seeing at the time, became my best friend. So instead of just being someone I screwed or played around with, I started laughing with her and getting to know her, when at first, I didn't think I was going to be serious at all. (Crap intentions. I know.) Then one day I was sick so I cancelled our plans , she came over anyway and took care of me. I never experienced that in my life. Needless to say I fell in love. Long story short, We got engaged.
at least you play apart of a role of what she said. most of my white and black american friends that i was close like japanese girls thanks to porn. they think they can do it better than japanese man in sex during guy talk. if other friend that that i am not that close will definitely deny it.
That's what I want to experience. I'm signing up for the Air Force because I want to travel. I want to see as much of the world as I can, expand my education, have a great career, and potentially meet the love of my life.
Some thoughts: 1. It's not wrong to have a type, or initial preference, as long as that preference doesn't blind you to seeing the whole person that you want to date. Neither should it blind you to other people that like you, even if they aren't your preference. People are more than their nationality or genetics. 2. People pick dating and marriage candidates for many reasons. Wealth is one of those reasons, and it's a valid point to consider. It isn't everything, but it's valid nonetheless. You're looking for what you want; wealth might be one of those things. I can respect that. 3. The lady that dated 20+ foreign men-- I'm calling her Gray Widow (because she hasn't killed any one of her dates)-- I understand how being badly treated by men can make a person cynical. I even admire her honesty: she believes in money, and she's willing to say that aloud, at least to Nobita. I just wish she could say that to a man she wants to date for his money. At least the guy should know what he's getting from this transaction: no real strings, no expectations, either of them can leave when the spending gets difficult or when one of them gets bored. Finally, good job, Nobita. There's always something for me to learn from in your interviews.
ah glad you made that point - that was the exact comment I got from a guy who I introduced to someone - she wasn't being straight about wanting a sugar daddy & when I let him know after the fact, it was clear he would have been more than happy to create that kind of relationship if that's really want she wanted - she just needed to say so!
Nothing new. 1968 , I was 7, Navy brat, sasebo, Japan. I tried to learn Japanese, I thought it was cool. However, in the beginning of a number of friendships, it was pretty lopsided until I figured out I was basically a tutor. As time went on, I sorted through and did make sincere friends. I don't remember being bothered by it, especially as time went on. I lived there until 1974. Loved it.
The question is, will she continue to make false assumptions and hurt people who might not deserve it until she's too old to do it anymore, and then realizes she missed her chance at an actual relationship? Or will she do this to someone who CAN track her down and make her life miserable by taking everything and more back from her? She seems to be confident that "she'll never see them again", but that just assumes they lack the skills (or resources) to have her tracked down.
Agreed. She's moving to America, but doesn't realize that pulling that stunt in the U.S. is playing with fire. Wouldn't surprise me in the least if she ends up seriously hurt or worse after messing with the wrong person. But as the say, play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
If her plan is to fool and deceive a lot of men in the US, maybe she may not live long enough to get old, at some point she'll try to fool the wrong man
exactly. She's had a bad relationship with her father and her first boyfriend and then just automatically assumes everyone are the same??? like what... if anything she should be hating japanese men caus her boyfriend and father were japanese, not forigners... even in her dumb and false "logic" there ain't no fucking logic. lol. she's obviously just hungry for money and want a cheap excuse for getting it by basically theft. Decieving someone into giving you things like that is moral theft. she even blatantly stated it herself "I think money is everything". there it is. End of the interview, case closed. She doesnt deserve anyones empathy.
Interesting. I actually had a gentleman from Tokyo ask me for directions in Japanese. Like I was born there. I was honored to speak his language. I felt like a local. Granted. I spent most of my time speaking Japanese out loud to anyone willing to correct me. I had no shame back then. God help me . I miss Japan so much.
The dismay in Nobita’s face hearing this woman explain herself says it all. She’s convinced herself she’s some sort if vigilante for Japanese women, all because the men in her life, starting with the father failed her. Eventually everything she’s done to those men will come back and haunt her. She might even end up losing her opportunities here and may even be forced to go back to Japan. I’m not one to wish anyone ill, so I genuinely do hope she gets a reality check and seeks help.
yea nah she aint gonna do that. people who admit to being bad people see nothing wrong with being like that, actually they see themselves as smarter and better than others for being reckless, cuz they can get their selfish needs met without mental reprecussions. she *TRULY* doesn't care abt these men, like as truly as you could not care abt anything really.
I find it weird that the two formative guys that screwed her over were Japanese so she decides to take it out on foreign sexpats by...giving them the no-strings attached sex she thinks they want anyway. Weird attitude but she's clearly coping with some trauma so whatever.
Yeah. I feel sorry for the fact that she was abused when she was younger. But I don't feel sorry for the person she became as a result of her past suffering. Good lord
I’m not entirely sure if I’m being hunted, but I had an interesting encounter with a sales representative at a retail store. Despite my limited Japanese, I understood her question about whether I was from main island. When I mentioned that I’m a ‘gaijin’ (foreigner) staying in Japan for eight days and traveling around the main island, she didn’t panic like many Japanese might. Instead, she listened attentively. It seems like she is trying to practice her English skills lol
Trust is really hard to come by no matter where you are in the world. You never know if someone truly cares about you and likes you, or just wants to use you and sees you as nothing more than an asset.
“She only targets wealthy looking men” This reminds me of a phrase my Father once told me: Sometimes it’s alright to walk around with holes in your pants
Imagine if you were unlucky enough to end up marrying this girl who hates all men and just wants take all your money, God blessed us by not being wealthy at all.
My dad wore clothes that I would throw away, up until his death at 80 3 years ago. He wore a camo fishing hat he bought at a flea market back in the late 1970's that my daughter would sew up regularly because it was so ragged it was literally falling apart. He drove $1500 junk cars, never once bought a new one. I was always living beyond my means trying not to look as poor as I was. One day I asked him why, and he said because people would feel sorry for him, car repairs and any work he ever needed done around the house was cheap.
Yes, but you know what's more effective: not throwing money on some random hoe. The moment she or he wants you to do that (especially if it is about cash or expensive items) just leave it be. You don't have to look like a homeless, you just have to say "no". Is that really so hard to do?!
If she is meeting foreign men that just want sex than she is looking for the wrong men in the wrong type of places. I also agree with what Bogdan B said, she is not "getting revenge", she is just spreading more hurt through the world. I am a completely heterosexual American male who likes sex, but it is the last and least important thing I look for in a woman. I also do not have sex unless it's with a woman that I'm in a long-term committed relationship/marriage with. She is exactly the type of woman that many decent men all over the world are trying to get away from. I would never be with someone who was such a liar. I'm not trying to be harsh. I'm just being honest and the world today needs a good dose of honesty.
she seems to pretend to be a decent woman, and probably any of us would think she is a sweet innocent girl interested in a real relationship ... right up until she turns off her phone and moves to a new city.
She already told us all the truth, she doesn't want a relationship, all she wants is revenge against all men because she hated her father and boyfriend (both japanese), however she only targets foreign men beacuse they are an easy target and easier to run away.
LOL She feels that what she did isn't a crime and not grounds for arrest and at the same time wants her identity hidden. Give me a break. She's conscious enough to know that it's shameful and wrong and isn't hiding her identity because she feels ashamed; it's so that she remain anoynomous so she can go on doing it to more victims. A classic case of "becoming what you hate.". She definitely deserves some karma in the near future.
@DisealBitches justice will get her but it won't be just being alone with cats. There are rich men who won't take this easy especially when they realize it's systemic and other victims reach out to them.
@@MichaTheLight yeah but she's clever. She knows men are proud and unlikely to admit that a woman scammed them for cash and prizes. That only feeds into her scam. So the scenario that rich foreigners are gonna get together and talk about what they lost to this prostitute is highly unlikely.
12:12 unbelievable... Does she really not know that she'd be ruined if she tried this abroad? (Not to mention it was a miracle she got away with this in Japan at all.)This is going to be a very painful reality check for her and I hope karma teacher her a very good lesson this time! People should see what happends when they treat people like objects. When she goes out of her way to hurt people again everyone will shun her.
Ultimately, if she gets away with this until she becomes old age, she will live her last days very lonely, and will most probably die alone. She clearly doesn't want to marry and if she finds such excuses to manipulate men, she may also find simmilar excuses to manipulate anyone, including her friends, if she has any real friends to begin with.
@@Haunt888 I was very careful of that, no matter how you look at it she treats people like objects. I made sure I would not write anything that would interrupt her if she made a mistake. I do wish she would become a better person and redeem herself though.
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Let's be NOT too harsh on the guest. Everyone has different thoughts and beliefs.
And sorry for my very ugly face!!
You look cool man, don't worry!
Don’t say that about yourself, you’re certainly not ugly!
Sry nobita, but holding back with todays guest is very hard. As it far too much resembels the old ciycle of Violence that leads to violence until all is gone. Just that it is about relationsship here. And the argument with that everyone has toughts and beliefs.... as a german i want to point to our dark chapter of history and say that one should quesiton evil if he sees it.
Also: Nobita i dont care wether you look good or ugly in your vids. I watch your video because you are what free journalism stands for in my opinion. And i am quite sure many others think the same. You are one of those men one likes for what he does, not for his looks.
Your face is fine, man! 🤗
@@tizi087 @The Japan Reporter Agree with you Tizi: Nobita is wonderful for what he shares; his videos and research skills are interesting and worthy of respect.
As for the main woman in this, at least she was honest with herself and aware of what she was thinking and doing. Additionally, while this is awful, and I guess she was not completely correct in what ALL the men she was dating wanted, she thinks it is honestly a fare exchange as she is doing what the men in her experience want. Sorry to say, much of that seems to be going on with people.
I’m impressed that Nobita managed to be calm in this interview, and managed to express his concerns without anger or pressing too much judgement about the men feeling potentially hurt and the woman potentially getting pregnant or sick. One needs to be that way to develop rapport and get as truthful information as possible.
“It doesn’t matter to me, I won’t meet them again.”
She has become the person she truly hates.
She is doing what she loves … it’s no other people’s fault … she simply does things for her own advantage as every narcissistic person does.
Yup, it such a tragedy that so many people who are abused become abusers themselves.
I wouldn't find it weird if she gets nabbed one day
It all comes around full-circle. No one wants to be the one to "turn the other check" so they just end up recycling and perpetuating the same behaviors they, themselves hate.
Yeah sounds like typical issues of the paternal kind.
She'll find out she isn't all that special in America, and is a rank amateur playing the game with born-into-it experts to boot. Hopefully the whole experience opens her eyes and she finally decides to heal from her trauma.
The anonymous woman, while I understand her past experiences, she became exactly like her father and boyfriend in the end. She really lived long enough to see herself become a monster in the end.
Yes she is
"You either die a hero or live long enough to see yourself become the villain."
@@theboivenom4170 damn venom I felt that
But didn't even atone for her wrongdoings nor did she repent, she's damn proud of it. I don't know how Nobita endured this conversation
Kind of ironic, really. In her own way she's become what she despises.
Revenge is when you pay back the person that hurt you. If you hurt someone else that is not revenge.
Yet another example of Japanese using an English word without understanding what it means i.,e., wasei eigo.
The entire activity of hunting and fooling foreign men will lead to nothing beneficial in the long term.. it is somewhat sociopathic behavior that should be corrected. Yes, there are terrible men out there, but I assure you sleeping with men and swindling them for change shows that the value of self is just found in the pockets of others while giving the same men you hate, the very thing that some of them desired in the first place
Perhaps it is merely her adapting to the situation. I wish I could find a way to adapt to the situation in our country. I just feel so inflexible.
It's called doing someone dirty or paying it backward.
its just to save face, she loves money and it is easy money, but then she says its because "opressed" the magic wand of oprresion absolves her sins
The projection is strong with this one.
True, but what does the projection consist of? On ground level it's childhood trauma, inflicted by her dad, and her incapacity to select a good man (with her first bf).
@@wreagfeSo you’re blaming her first bf cheating on her? 🤔
for the streets lol
@@wreagfe So what, trauma doesn't give you the right to behave like an asshole. Instead of perpetuating her trauma to others she should seek out a psychologist. Awful and detestable person.
You know what, this is why dating is so messed up these days. Both sexes mess around and in the end, people who are trying to seek genuine relationships get screwed in the middle.
I find that it's just the West. Westerners and people who get involved with them end up this way. Non-Western people don't usually don't this to each other. This Japanese girl is targeting Western men for a reason. I find that Western men treat women this way and extremely toxic women seem to be drawn to them.
@@deadbutmoving the also main reasons she does something like this is becuz , her 2 friends who got fooled by westerns men. And got impregnated. Damn.
@@supman2374 Like I said, Western men, through their deeds and toxic attitude towards women, draw these kind of women. She is one toxic Japanese woman, but in the Western world there are millions of her kind running around. All thanks to Western men.
@@deadbutmoving Wrong. Cheating is very prevalent in Japan and has been for a long time. Even after marriage.
There are stats you can look up.
@@Tanerion Nobody said Japanese people don't cheat. The question is how are they compared to Westerners. Japanese society (Like all Asian Societies) are much more tolerant of the men cheating but have very little tolerance for women cheating. When Japanese men cheat they will rarely abandon their wives, girlfriends, or children. It's always up to the woman if she wants to keep him or not.
This is nothing compared to Westerners, where the women cheat without major social consequences. Western men will also use women and abandon them, creating armies of single mothers and causing massive bitterness from Western women.
Just look at the 2 major factors that are ruining the West: Feminism and single-motherhood rate. For Example, the single motherhood rate in America is a whopping 25%, in Japan it's barely 5%. This has caused fem!nism to go rampant throughout the West, but fem!nism has no significant movement in Japan (Or Asia for that matter).
Western men are largely to blame for the problems in the West and dug their own graves.
She resents foreign men for desiring sex without wanting to be tied down in a committed relationship - so she provides foreign men with sex without making them stay in a committed relationship. Makes sense. 👍
Women ☕
And herpes.
Is wanting sex bad?
Taking money from people definitely is.
She takes their money. Don’t think they didn’t lose something out of it.
no wonder why woman like will never be respected
Your reaction to her blatantly admitting to being a terrible person is amazing... absolutely amazing.
That's the typical expression of Japanese people responding to a situation where Westerners would say "No, that's definitely not the case. You're mistaken."
Hyala:
You nailed it...!! 🇨🇦
I think Hollywood could make a movie about this girl😂
I have watched some of his videos over the years but this time he was hilarious. I never seen him so animated and visually expressive !
lol that woman is plain evil
Very interesting. I will introduce you to an Australian concept/slang - "Wombat". A largely solo animal the Eats, Roots, Shoots and Leaves. Translated it refers to someone who takes a girl out for dinner with the expectation of sex afterward, has sex (his goal) and then runs away ie, Eat, Roots, Shoots and Leaves
I would call that a "panda" .
I’ve lived in Australia my entire life and not even once have I heard anyone use that slang
Never heard of that one either. However there is many women on those sites looking for a free meal. They accept a once off date than leave after eating never to contact again. Back when i was doing the dating scene a friends girl friend warned me because im a nice guy that it was common. Sure enough it happened to me a couple of times.
Don't hate the playah's, hate the game...
In America we don't have a one-word term for it, instead we call that being "pumped and dumped."
so she became part of the "easy asian women" stereotype, she's giving foreign men exactly what they want and then leaving them afterwards? isnt that exactly what said foreign men are doing there? she thinks she's hurting them, when in fact she just fell into the stereotype of the easy asian women herself lol...
@P T The problem is she thinks that's going to be something she can do forever. After the youth fades and many bridges are burned, she will wake up one day and the ride will be over. It's usually a very bleak day, since most who live like that do no set aside their ill-gotten gains for the future.
I just hope she doesn't try to have kids to exploit for her selfish ends. I've known a few people over the years who were born to a person like that. They often become the same way or are so broken from their childhood they become antisocial loners. The few who do try to live a normal live still have hangups they struggle to deal with.
@P T So, she's a prostitute then.
She’s an idiot. Unless she’s getting expensive luxury items those guys aren’t really losing anything at all and they already got what they want. I have so many half-white Japanese friends who are fatherless from my childhood. These guys don’t care lol.
Yup. That's pretty much what happened
You know what they say, " you don't pay for the act, you pay for them to leave afterward"
She became what she hated and the worst thing is she might actually break someone who would actually care for her. I hope that her perception of the world changes somehow or at the very least that she won't hurt someone who doesn't deserve it. Sad story all in all.
"Break" only if you're a weak simp who tries to buy love with money. This woman is really just one of the basic dangers of dating anywhere. If you're not prepared for people to try to manipulate you, stay away from women.
Oh Boo hoo 🤣
So true. I was very disgusted while I heard all that. As if there weren't women who only want sex with men.
Pin point she must just live for herself and aware every other Japanese girls about this foreign thing
She's gonna get chopped up and burried in the woods by one of her victims some day lol.
As soon as she mentioned her experience with her father and first boyfriend I knew it was exactly that experience that triggered this kind of thinking. A normal person in a relatively healthy environment just doesn't go to those depths. This is why I always tell people that have been through similar experiences and come out on the other side cheerful, positive, and kind that they are amazing and strong for that because so many people in this life will suffer abuse and disappointment at the hands of crappy people and turn into exactly what they claim to hate.
Thought the same thing. I knew there was trauma behind.
There are people who have had worse done to them and came out better people in the end. She's a sociopath using her past as a crutch to justify her behavior. The mask slipped a bit when she said that it was all about money. That shows that she ultimately didn't care what her father or boyfriend did, she values money above all else and found an easy way to get it but duping men.
Yeah as soon as I heard “revenge” i knew it was either her father or past boyfriends that shaped what men are for her
that's why a lot, not all, but quite a few abused victims often become abusers themselves
Or they just shut down on relationships altogether. If you fear losing again, you just stop playing the game. And I think that's what's been happening within the last few years. Guys just aren't falling into any situation that's going to be unbalanced.
A coworker told me his granddaughter told him that he needed a girlfriend. He replied " why do I look too happy?!!" That has become a motto for me.
Hurt people hurt people.
bad people hurt people. stop making excuses
@david7384 as far as the research shows, David is correct. Most bullies and other garbage people are just that. They're not victims in their own right, just assholes.
@@david7384one of they guys who used to bully me, did it because he got bullied and had to take it out on someone. The guy who bullied him was abused by his parents. Hurt people hurt people. It doesn't give them an excuse to keep it going, but it's a straight up fact
@@araragikoyomi99Being hurt in the past doesn't give you the excuse to hurt others, they're assholes who got hurt
@@araragikoyomi99 I was just adding a little onto what you said but I worded it badly
While her past was unfortunate, I find her to be a sociopath. This was uncomfortable to watch. There's no end to her "revenge" and in the end she's gonna get hurt the most. Nobita I admire you for putting this on your channel
Yeah. Nobita shows the real stuff so that the neck beard and otakus won't fall for a potential Venus flytrap disguised as an innocent lotus flower
Yeah she sounds like a real btch lol
I don't think she's a sociopath, I think she only got unlucky. Think about it, you live with an abusive father who rap3$ and beat the sht out of your mother whenever u get home from school and u gotta watch her crying not wanting to "do that" with him and she can't leave the father because he's the one paying the bills. And u know your father cheats on your mother too. Live like that for 18 years, or in case of Japan, 21 for women. It will hurt you mentally way too much...
She tried to adapt to survive, by thinking "men are psychos, there's no healthy relationship out there, is there?", and then she left her house to live alone but still had doubts about people. Then she tried having a relationship, and baam, she got fooled. Next relationship, she got fooled again. Next one, same but worse. How the hell is she going to have any hopes of finding a healthy relationship now? By not having anyone to set her a good example, I'm not surprised she thinks like that.
Based on what she said about her past, I seriously doubt her upbringing was anywhere near as abusive as my sisters and I endured. I've also been in horrible relationships with cheaters. But I never lost basic human characteristics like empathy and compassion--even for people I don't necessarily like. The anonymous woman was likely born the way she is. She probably inherited psychopathic disorder from her father.
Her revenge is also creating victims. These victims eventually want revenge too. An endless circle untill something tragic breaks the loop.
Imagine living life like this. The pain will never stop.
She will regret this life when she eventually hit the wall.
This is a very ancient profession, there is nothing new or rare in this situation. I do not think there is pain, just instincts.
@@yura2424 Not a profession, but sure it isn't new or rare. She'll feel loads of pain because she'll likely never trust anyone. Her fears of nobody being trustworthy will lead to constant suffering, because she's the one causing others suffering and they'll treat her badly for it.
@@yura2424 She's suffering since revenge means internal pain. And she's gonna do that forever, so she's gonna end up hurting a lot forever.
@@yura2424 The "profession" is honest work. Sex for money. It's as honest a work as it comes.
This woman is not a prostitute. Prostitutes mostly have honor.
This is a sociopath hunting for prey.
“Beware that, when fighting monsters, you yourself do not become a monster... for when you gaze long into the abyss. The abyss gazes also into you.” (Nietzsche)
Not the video I expected to see Nietzsche in the comments! 😁
C'mon
@@steemlenn8797 same😆
But, Nieztsche was a self-absorbed misogynist that was the very thing he preached not to be though. Like if Zarathustra was posted on 4chan, he would fit right in with the incels and QAnon people and agree with ridiculously incel things people say like "Whenever a woman sleeps with a man, a part of him stays inside her forever."
That's a great quote.
Reporter-san, your face is priceless every time the gaijin hunter tells her actions and methods to you! 6:04 haha
A couple things. The more that "gold digger" girl talked about revenge and hatred, the more I felt like "Who hurt this girl? She has serious issues. It's like she's trying to validate her being a terrible person." And then there it was. I hope she gets better, although for now the chances seem slim. She has to be careful in the US though, I'll just leave it at that.
A little story, my fellow kendoka went to Kokushikan University for a semester (it's a regular thing here) where he met a girl, they fell in love and started a relationship. They got back to Hungary and the girl became pregnant. It was unplanned, but they were in love so they got married, and I think they moved back to Japan, so there is that. You just have to vet your men or women properly, it's the first rule of dating.
If you meet a person at school, in a hobby club, in a gym, or a church or temple? Chances are they're going to be decent, normal people. Not always, but the chance is overwhelmingly favorable.
Meeting at a bar, a dance club, a host or hostess place, or a straight up brothel and you get the sorriest examples of humanity wrapped in blinding glamour.
Different places attract different kinds of people. The girl in the video belongs to, and almost exclusively targets men who belong to, the same seedy world she does.
“Escorting” may be safe in Japan, but these women can easily disappear if they pick the wrong mark in the US. And no one will care…
@@Borderose you forgot libraries, maybe school like H.S or college? grocery stores lol. just anywhere that doesnt involve nightclubs, late night bars, strip clubs, late night parties, those kinds of sleezy events.
@@astralclub5964 sadly true. theres a lot of sociopaths here in the states. she may be biting more than she can chew if she comes here.
@@wonder777warrior6 There are sociopaths everywhere, but even foreigners in Japan are more docile;
when she prostitutes herself like this to a man who has had negative life experiences of his own to match hers, it will not end well.
This woman is absolutely psychopathic. How does taking "revenge" on other people that have nothing to do with the situations that hurt you or your friends make any sense? She is literally a fictional supervillain.
She is ill, yes. But it doesn't look like she wants to change anything, so the only way to avoid these psychopaths is to bail out the moment they start talking about money.
*sociopathic
Psychopaths are born, sociopaths are made. In her case you could guess that she had a bad relationship with her father she never resolved in a healthy way (eg. in therapy).
@@DoctorStrange01 Even better would be if she spat at me and hit me when she didn't get enough money. What a dream woman.
She's also targeting CEO's who are the literal definition of a psychopath instead of what we would argue as normal people wanting a normal relationship.
Seems like a match made in heaven (or hell?)
Sexual predators in other countries deserve far worse treatment.
How about going for ur women who actually don't even want to look at u losers. This is why u run to other east asian countries where women are still better.
Nobita is a new generation of journalist that explores real life situations and interviews all kind of people without boundaries and topics which mainstream media would consider taboo. Thank you Nobita-san.
I was stationed at Yokota in Fussa. It is true that there are guys who want to date only Japanese women. They're different from American women. They're a lot less combative, more agreeable, more feminine, gentle, and good hearted. My wife is Japanese and she is amazing. It's also true that some American men are only looking for fun and end up hurting Japanese women. It happens everywhere. I understand why this woman uses men. However, there will come a time where she realizes that she wasted too much time hating men that she failed to find happiness. I was in a similar situation. My American girlfriend cheated on me when I was in Iraq. When I found out, I was crushed. It made me bitter and I didn't trust women. I then PCSed to Japan. When I met my wife, I saw that she was kind, smart, beautiful, and would make a great wife and mother. I realized that I wanted happiness. I let my guard down to take the chance. This year, we celebrated our 10 year anniversary with a trip to Italy together and she is currently in Japan visiting her family. Although there are hurtful people out there, there are also good people. Don't hurt good people because you met a bad one. It only continues a bad cycle.
exactly bro, im now stationed in south korea, and im going to be here a while, i want to get married and have kids, and i want it to be with an asian woman, my first ever asian girl was in college and lets just say after her i knew that my future wife was going to be asian, it was just leagues better than any other american woman i dated before. its a shame this woman is like this, in the end she is only hurting herself. she gives the men what they want and all she gets is some money, when she is 40 plus and no longer attractive she will feel the pain of all this. the min she started talking i knew her relationship with her father had to have been terrible, men! please be good fathers to your daughters you are what she is going to picture, and hold as standard what men are to be like.
the difference is: you didn't actively try to hurt women in "revenge", she on other hand does take "revenge" by hurting people who are completely unrelated to those who hurt her
That lady attracts exactly what she is. Thats how things work. Its a lesson she (and the men) will have to learn, and they’ll keep repeating the situation until they do.
But... she's not attracting them, she's hunting them... That's why she's called a gaijin *hunter* and not gaijin *attractor* or gaijin *bait*.
100% agreed.
Apparently she gets off on it
Having heard the other side, that of men, who are expats and think naive, local girls are easy prey and soooo impressed with a little spending, (unlike Western women, who want you to do chores and be equals, apparantly) I can only applaud her self-awareness. As long as these people meet each other, everyone is clear that they are paying for pussy, everyone is a winner. Like in a game of poker, it is just a question of who is bluffing more.
True. Good people needn't worry about those sorts of schemers because they'll never meet
Shameful on both sides -- the foreign men in Japan hunting for sex, and the "gaijin hunters" just taking their money and gifts then ghosting them. Both are unethical. I hope this is not the majority of Western men who visit Japan because if it is, I'm doubly ashamed!
I think it all has to do with how honest people are being with themselves and with others. I had a friend meet a girl in a club, make out with her, take her to the bathroom for.. activities. Then 5 minutes later she was talking with us saying how she was worried he didn't really like her. Hopefully she was just trying to save face... but situations similar to that (not always so fast) are pretty common when you're specifically going to bars/clubs with foreigners. I mean most foreigners by definition aren't sticking around, most of them couldn't even if they wanted to.
well personally speaking I'd want to get married I've definitely matured in what I want out of love. I still feel like a mess as a person but that's for me to figure out and fix on my own.
it is the majority, southeast asia is full of pregnant prostitues whose baby's daddy disappeared
Well, foreign man here.
I have lived in Japan for 19 years and approaching 17 years of marriage to a Japanese woman.
Unfortunately, you get guys who want to bone woman wherever they go, they exist. They are the minority. Most of us are looking for love, friendship and partnership. With one special woman, not many. The same applies to the ladies as well mind you.
You (anyone who is reading this) needs to understand something, Japanese women (most of them sadly) only care about money and social standing. This is culturally the way they are.
I suggest you do not use dating apps/sites and clubs to find your special someone.
Those places are LOADED with these kinds of floozies.
Way back in 2004 I met my wife at a social outing with fellow language students and a few Japanese friends of theirs. The rest as they say, is history.
I am so glad I avoided the crazies! (it helps that I have a moral compass that I will not bend for anyone and that I am an introvert)
Well, my father was a sociopath and my mothers broken marriage to him and subsequent divorce did not turn me into a "monster" , it showed me how not to be as a human being!
Trauma is a heartless teacher. Just use the negatives as a guidance on how NOT to be!
Man, that was long. Sorry.
Unfortunately, it does seem the majority of them just want sex when you see it for yourself in Japan and when you read their conquests in the forums. Western men would brag about how easy it was for them to get dates and score in Japan and that Japanese men were no competition to them.
I hope she understands that in the US her chances of ending up dead in an alley are exponentially higher than in Japan.
For real, she's going to be in for one major reality check cause domestic Western men can be a far worse and exponentially more dangerous breed than those that travel. No doubt about it she's a terrible person, but I still don't wish her harm. Just hope she wakes up and sees she's only contributing to the problem and has become what she hates.
And unlike in Japan, she has more competitors as bad as her if not worse. Wahmens are already upset that they are unable to date because #MGTOW, they won't just let her take from what is left of the SIMPs.
Truth!
Was thinking this exact same thing!
I kinda hope she doesn't understand that. Not that I want her dead. but she needs to find her comeuppance. She's a terrible person doing terrible things beacuse one time some people did bad things to her. She's not going to win at the end of the day.
Perhaps the most valuable thing we can do in our lives is connect with another human being openly, honestly, and reciprocally. And perhaps the most surefire way to cause pain is to attempt to do so selfishly, dishonestly, or transactionally.
I love how shocked and concerned you looked when she was admitting all that stuff.
She is a hero...keep the sexual predators from your western countries locker up in ur own country.
Are women in ur country dead that they prowl around like that in other countries?
Cause he knows she'll eventually try to fool the wrong man
Does she really think that at least some of those foreign guys weren't perfectly aware of her motivation? lol
JApanese Woman: "I'm going to fuck these men for their money with a vengeance!"
The Foreign Men: "That's why I'm here."
Of course they were/are.
My assumption is, assuming they were indeed the very wealthy CEO types, that at least most of them knew they were in a purely transactional relationship. This sort of relationship is very common for these types of men. The danger of a woman participating in this sort of thing is that eventually she will meet a man who is dangerous or naive or both, and those sorts of men can really harm a woman.
@@havokmusicinc Especially if she tries to do it in the U.S.
@@havokmusicinc I think she woefully underestimates the amount of things rich people can do and get away with.
Seriously sad to hear her (the main gaijin hunter) reasons and methods. But like other people said, when she mentioned her father and boyfriend it all made sense. The sad thing is that she might potentially damage someone who doesn't deserve it, with her behaviour. I married my Japanese wife 10 years ago and we are still as happy as the first day we met so I guess I prove this girl wrong.
Yes, the other lady was pretty rational - she learned and gradually changed her opinion and lost her attraction to gaijin. Thats normal and healthy. The main girl was a psycho.
@@gregohb Hard for me not to sympathize with her, I know a lot of people claim she's a psychopath; but I think it's obvious that she's just abusing groups who has abused her emotionally. As someone who's known men who's been cheated on, many men choose to react the exact same way by getting indirect 'revenge.' It an entirely human responds, which requires to be slighted first to understand
@@nils191 yes, many people have that kind of unhealthy immature response. The red flag in this case, is not that she started dating and was cold hearted to a guy to punish an innocent guy. She has a dedicated plan to hurt people financially and emotionally, she has already enacted her revenge on many men, and she plans to continue it. She is so sick that she has given up plans for any kind of normal life and is married to her anger. At what point does this stop? In fact, when she realizes that she is never satisfied maybe she will take it up to greater extremes of depravity. Its like how people start by torturning animals, and they eventually start killing people. She (and your other friends) need friends or counselors to guide them back to the light, and back to positive productive life.
@@gregohb It's a basic feedback loop, many of those men are 'passport bros,' they come to Japan exclusive for the women. They have money. And continually being exposed to something, while also effectively being rewarded for it (cash, income etc.,) reinforces a justification for self-interested motivation. To reduce this to her behavior is a complete neglect of basic human action and motivation, if she's a psychopath, everyone's a psychopath to put it differently.
And yes, it's quite unhealthy. But to say it's sick, that she's responsible, completely ignores how people actually works and decontextualize cause-and-effect from human behavior. She was abused as little, as she said; her friends has been abused my men of a certain stripe. All of these things taken in combination will eventually result in this type of behavior. She's also young, for that matter, so to assume she'll just go out and should do things, just ignore that these problems are not caused in isolation; Japan is incredibly bad with mental health issues; it's not a place to have these type of problems. You're expecting things from someone in a detached manner, which is just not how humans work in the slightest.
@@nils191 you are assuming everything she says is 100% true, that hs is purely a victim. Maybe her mother cheated on her father and thats why he left. And I will bet serious money that when she got into relationships she was not an ideal girlfriend. She almost surely chose a man who reminded her of her father. The big flaw in her story is that guys just interested in sex would not spend $$$$$ on her - they clearly are serious about her to some extent.Foreign guys are less likely to be sugar daddies than Asian guys. It's her sick viewpoint that because they wanted sex, that is all they wanted. The third flaw in this, is that Japanese men abused her (if we can take her story as completely valid) - not foreign men. I suspect that this sick puppy chooses foreigners because they are easier victims, or she is attracted to them but her only path for a relationship is to hurt someone. And lastly, why don't you apply your tolerance to her father and first boyfriend? Her victims will probably recover but she may never recover - and end up a horrible lonely single woman with a heart full of hate instead of a family.
Very professional interview, Nobita-san! Let people speak without colouring the interaction with your own personal bias. Well done
WOW ! That actually makes me sad to the core. I'm grateful she was honest, but I've realized how much some girls and guys ruin it for the honest and kind people
There are other Japanese women like her around, I've known one exactly like her. They somehow have an irrational hatred of foreign men usually after having been consently gang "stuffed" in their past and finding out playing innocent didn't somehow protect them from being sluts then they turn to devils and take revenge on innocent unsuspecting men, usually who are nice upstanding guys with good moral values and sincere good intentions. I've seen this only in Japanese women and not other Asians. It's even worse than just stealing money, much worse, and criminal but i can't talk about it.
these kind of people arent rare in asia and in japan. i saw english bandits everywhere.
@@aoeu256 you sound toxic like her and prob a degen fem.
I lived in China for several years and honestly, a lot of the men were vile sexpats and awful people. They were only there because they couldn't get work or a partner anywhere else and one of them was hated by all of his colleagues and aggressively bullied the children. The parents liked him because he was 'strict'. On the other hand, there were definitely foreigner chasers. I had a police officer hit on me in a gym, trying to drive me home and add me to Wechat. I didn't do anything with him bc as a cop in China, if he did anything to me there'd be no recourse. I also had people try to scam me, and one taxi driver who kept touching my thigh etc. These weren't tier 1 cities, either, happens all over the place. But most Chinese people were kind to those who tried their best and were good to them, just as in Japan. @@aoeu256
Wow...her blindness in recognizing the irony of her behavior is astonishing. If she doesn't change her view of the world, it's not going to end well for her emotionally. Loneliness and an impenetrable wall of angst is the only thing waiting for her at the end of this road...
Emotionally? I hope she doesn't get killed because she is fooling men every day, even worse now that she wants to move to the US. She'll eventually try to fool the wrong man...
It's OK, she will help take care of the growing cat population.
@@chitterlingsrtasty too true...
She is a hypocrite for doing this and that
Especially if she is really considering moving to the States and keeping this up, things will not go well for her in the long run, and might even get dangerous, since especially in the US what she is admitting to doing is quite illegal, and fast way to attract the wrong sort of attention from local "operators" or authorities
In some ways, I feel bad for that faceless woman you interviewed. What her father and boyfriend did to her and her mother is wrong. They were bad people. That doesn't change the fact that she's now the villain in the lives of dozens of men. What she is doing is pure evil. She's allowed herself to be consumed by the darkness that affected her.
If a White person is mugged by a Black person once, it would be understandable for them to be upset, but still be completely wrong if this incident caused them to become racist towards all Black people. So because *2* men mistreated you in your life, you decide to mistreat *all* men?
This woman is a pure hypocrite and every complaint she has about foreign men applies to Japanese men as well. It's a flimsy justification for her to use foreign men for money. It's true that plenty of foreign men are sleazy sexpats who will use Japanese women for sex then vanish. You mean to tell me Japanese men don't use Japanese women just for sex too?
As for foreigners not taking relationships with Japanese people seriously, first off, citation needed. Secondly, plenty of Japanese don't take relationships with foreigners seriously either. Maybe they don't take the relationship seriously because they think their foreign significant other is going to leave Japan anyway, so why bother. Or maybe they're the type of Japanese person to treat their foreign significant other more like an accessory to show off than a significant other. Not taking relationships seriously is not a one-way street.
And what about the foreigners who take relationships with Japanese people so seriously that they marry, have children, and end up involved in a case of Japanese parental child abduction? An issue the Japanese government still doesn't take seriously enough? But it's all on the foreigners eh?
Just as foreign men who are sleazy and sleep around with Japanese women then discard them like trash do a disservice to the reputation of foreigners, this woman is doing a disservice to the reputation of Japanese women. She also falsely claims the vast majority of men only care for sex and falsely claims most women are gold diggers who only care for money.
I'm sorry for what happened to her in the past, but this woman is evil.
I totally agree with you 110%!
She's way worse than a prostitute or hooker -- she's a huge con-artist that takes advantage of foreigners because they are easier for her to get.
I think she mentioned she hates all men, but it's still sad to see her just target a group because her friends had bad experiences with foreigners or something.
And she mentioned revenge, but it's not like she's targeting the same exact people/individuals that took advantage of her, her family, or her friends. I feel what she's doing is probably illegal, but she doesn't realize it.
Taking a car as a gift is like car theft. Even if most of the guys just wanted sex with her, there could've been some very genuine ones --like omfg giving a girl a car is like as big as a wedding ring or very serious, at least to me lol
It makes me really depressed to see humans like her exist.
Even just online, I feel a lot of young Japanese girls are similar to her and just want to use foreigners to practice English, which is depressing. I'm fluent in Japanese, but I get ignored online often because they just wanna practice English (if I use a language exchange app or something)
It's gotten really really bad nowadays. About 15-20 years ago, there were a lot more friendly Japanese people that made me feel like it was balanced or something. Now it's very one-sided. Or at least from my experiences.
Anyhow, I totally agree that she's so evil, it traumatizes me. I've dated some Japanese girls that have randomly blocked me or ghosted me too. At least I never gifted them a car, but it's still a huge shock to get even blocked randomly or something. Makes you lose hope in humanity a bit lol
the ol' Catch 22
She is a very damaged person, I feel pity.
@@El_Xerus I felt pity for the young her, but now it's just disgust. **** her, she's only making the cycle worse
Toxicity attracts her basically, leaving her in a cycle caused by dad issues
"I wanted to get revenge on men who love and leave women, so i decided to start giving them exactly what they want."
Genius.
“There! How do YOU feel just being used for SEX!?!?!”
Thank you very much for interviewing me Nobita san😊✨🙏 It was interesting to look back how differently I think about my own 'preference' (including racial & physical one).😊
Gaijin hunter or no gaijin hunter, I wish everyone finds their love and happiness😊🙏
Were you the 2nd interviewee? I think you are very wise and achieved more self-knowledge by dating foreign men, versus the other woman who exploits men for money. It's true that inter-cultural marriages can be very challenging, especially after the initial "honeymoon" period has passed and all the strange little differences start bubbling to the surface!
@@ChickensAndGardening Nope. She is the first one.
@@ChickensAndGardeningHi! I'm the one who showed my face😊
Lemi san, Nice to see your face, even though this was a very depressing video...
@@keintabakI know..😅 I know but you know there are many women who cares a lot about personality over race/money about man😊😊(like me)😝
the average "my father was a bad guy, so im gonna beleive all men are bad for the rest of my life" type of girl
❤
good excuse for becoming a HO.
Femeninity is Malleable. They are easily manipulated and brainwashed for this very reason.
It takes a Woman ONE bad experience with a Man to turn to the Dark Side. Meanwhile it takes Men like 50-100 bad experiences with women to get to the same level
I'm surprised she't not covered in tattoos
@@yeahboyz9314 She's not covered in tattoos because in japan it's frowned upon. (To put it grossly simply, Tattoo=Yakuza)
Your reaction to the crazy things she said was priceless.😆
It hurts a little because I had similar reactions to one being so shameless.
My reaction was "YABE!"
It was very Japanese.
His reaction at 4:39 when hearing that a girl got impregnated was my favorite.
well only fans is full of girls like that but they do it officially and get the money legally... 5mio of those sluts alone on onlyfans. and probably 50 mio in total in the world with all other websites included
SHE IS NOT BETTER THEN THEM.
Even worst, becouse not only cheating, but also stealing money.
Way to stay a professional during this interview.
Way to be concerned for another human's well being.
Way to be an advocate for us men who are in fact looking for love.
100/10 You are an amazing man.
Looking for love?
Are women in ur country dead that u losers from western countries prowl around as predators in east asian country.
Shame on sexual predators targeting women in east asian and east europe etc
Yes, absolutely a remarkable and perceptive interview! 👍
Do you know why these women are acting like these? Because someone put them in that trauma. Who put them in that trauma? You know who. If you're really concern of other human being, start the change with yourself.
@@Larrythelobster000 men are scared of their own ghost I guess. They don't want women to play the same games they're playing for years. Now they're scared that women can do the same. I don't know if there are still good men
@@keiji433 There's none. Don't get married. They're not worth it. They can't even take accountability
The lesson here, is never buy expensive gifts for women. that's true in every single country on earth.
also, there are decent people everywhere, and terrible people everywhere. it's not always easy to tell them apart, and different culture makes it even more difficult.
You're right but I wouldn't say that should be the only message to take away from this video. Yes people should be careful about how they spend their money, but these women seem to have been treated as objects so they've built a expectation around that.
Show her you're not in it for sex only, like how she expects, and be more like what Nobita was trying to hint at. Specifically, spend time with her in ways that don't directly lead to sex and in ways that don't directly lead to spending money.
Or don't fetishize other cultures
@kenshinag good luck with that thought man
That not buying expensive gifts thing is a very good lesson, one the younger me should have been taught as a teen. It would have saved me a lot of headache in my 20s. It's not even limited to just women. It applies to any potential significant other.
After all, if you open with that, eventually, they will expect more and more and become accustomed to it. In the best case, failing to deliver will be a point of conflict that soon leads to separation. In the worst, they will bully you into buying things you can't afford or somehow make the purchases behind your back, forcing you have to clean up the mess.
As powerful as the urge to try to impress someone might be, it's important to resist that urge, because when it comes to relationships the goal is to find someone who *loves you* rather than *loves what you can do for them*
@@kenshinag I agree. Me (female) never would accept a very expensive gift from a suitor, unless I knew we both are serious, after dating a long, long time.
The best gift you can give anyone is yourself: invest time and interest in the other person, do not treat them as a rental (pay for them and use them).
I used to avoid gaijin hunters when I lived in Osaka for 3 years. They were quite annoying clearly looking for free English lessons or wanted to just look cool. Every girl I dated, including the person who eventually became my wife had no particular interest in learning English. I was already *nearly* fluent before I moved to Japan. Most of my friends in Japan speak almost no English. They are super cool and treated me like a normal friend. To this day, I help them out when they come to the US and whenever I’m in Japan I travel all across the country to meet up with everyone.
Want to pick your brain. Going to move to Japan next year for study!
@@user-ns3iw7tz6c So were you able to avoid Gaijin Hunters by speaking nearly fluent Japanese? :)
i can actually relate. I am pretty much the same way in China. I learned Chinese after i got there and it took me about a year to be able to communicate freely with anyone. It's easier to find local women and local friends when you speak their language. I always felt that it was probably easier for me to learn their language than for them to learn my language...
My buddy since highschool ended up doing 20 years in the Air Force. 10 years in Japan.. even bought a house there. And he married one of the sweetest japanese girls in the world. She wasn't into it for anything else than love. Of course.. he happens to be 6ft6 .. and he said they did get odd looks for that more than anything else.
yeah you can usually smell which women will give you the flirty eyes and all and then turn to the next guy at the table and do the same. you know you can't trust them for 4 minutes so there's no basis for any real relationship there.
The way you edited this video with the back and forth between the contrasting ways of living of these two interviewees, great job man!
(Good questions as well 👍)
As a psychologist: The woman who wouldn't show her face shows all the signs of being psychopathetic... the what people nowadays call "gaslighting" is the main indicator here. "I do X because something happened to Y" as if it was some sort of justification for horrible behavior and using "revenge" as a motive to justify it. The way she describes how easy it was for her to take advantage of those men is another good indicator... being able to be this cold and analytical in your approach while emitting a sense of affection that tricks others is very strong in psychopaths: being able to pretend to care when in reality there are alterior motives.
Thirdly, she is not showing any signs of regret or sense of having done something wrong...
And of course she had "daddy issues" growing up which made her bitter and feel like every man out there is a sexual predator trying to take advantage of women.
This girl is a prime example of a toxic psychopath.
Anyway, listening to her gave me shivers, if I was to counsel her, I would not be feeling comfortable around her.
Sorry for my poor English.
A good analysis of you. Sadly this psychopathic behaviour can be seen often in the west too. I call them feminazis, but you can find such people in other topics as well. The feminazis specifically hide in the feminist movement, because this movement would never admit to their own sexist tendencies or that they need to call sexists amongst them out. Hence giving such bad actors the perfect breeding ground to spread their idiology of hatred. It was my reason for not associating with feminism anymore. They gaslight and justify their hatred actions with what they experienced somewhere else. Not recognizing (unknowingly or even knowingly) that they are punching in the wrong direction, even hurting other women in the process. The anonymous women even blamed women.. just sad to see that.
I don't really know what psychopath is but what you describe sounds accurate. She does not scare me at all because her behavior and motive is pretty easy to detect. The people who scare me to most is the ones very good are pretending on the right side of moral issues. Sometimes I even think they believe it. I came to know a few narcissists and one of them is really good at manipulating people. Narcissists coevolve with the rest of us and they see us as resources. They can spot your weakness by instinct.
Well most Japanese will not freely share their thoughts with just anyone they don't know or trust, the thing is that Japanese have this cultural trait that is distinctly Japanese and from what I read is important it's called Honne and tatemae, private face and public face. This woman is sharing her thoughts in anonymity to protect those around her and herself. She will only share her personal thoughts and her true self to those close to her. She may have sociopathic tendencies but I don't know why you would say psychopathic its not what I see at all and I have been in program to be therapist, so I just disagree on that part. Anyway, when she says she has friends she has some caring inside of her. Psychopaths don't care for anyone but themselves and they really don't have friends either.
It's not that big of a deal. She's right. These guys are delusional thinking that free sex falls from the sky. I have a hard time believing you have all this empathy for sex tourists. Come on.
Idk, guys want to be fooled about sex. They have to learn the hard way.
@@working_example I believe the reason why she does not scare you is because you KNOW her motives and intent because she expressed them so freely and clearly. So yes, in this instance I agree it is easy to detect, but this is mainly because we already know what's "wrong" with her as she tells us freely all we need to know (which people generally wouldn't do if it wasn't an interview where they remain anonymous).
Now the more interesting case of course is the narcissists that you describe. It is sometimes difficult to distinguish between a narcissist and a sociopath from the outside - often people display elements of both to their surroundings. The interesting thing about those people is, whether they are truly narcissists or sociopaths, as these are true personality disorders, or whether that's just them. It is not always clear and often really difficult to diagnose.
Many people who take advantage of others and see their peers as "resources" as you put it, are simply what one could call "an evil person." Whether they are actually mentally "ill" is a different story entirely. Narcissists in particular often suffer from an excessive degree of self-absorption, they often appear overly confident, relying on external forms of validation, while deep down they are deeply insecure, feel a sense of shame and sadness. These are the main drivers of their behavior. It is often not with ill intent and many of them do not necessarily impact others negatively (provided you do not challenge them and stay out of their way).
In case of sociopaths, this of course is very different. They usually lack empathy, morals, care for concern for the feelings and needs of other people. Their motivation for taking advantage of others is - one could argue - "worse" than narcissists'. Their weak conscience makes it easier for them to justify antisocial behavior and dodge the negative impacts of their actions like guilt and remorse that "normal" people would experience afterward.
Obviously I don't know the person you mentioned, but they do sound more like a narcissist indeed.
That woman is so closed off to any sort of real emotional intimacy that it was just sad watching her. She's missing out on any real emotional connection because she still lets the past run her life. It was really eye-opening to hear someone be so honest but at the same time, I hope she heals later on. She's going to regret it when she's in her 40's and 50's and no one will give her the time of day anymore.
I was thinking the same thing, but I feel it will be difficult for her to change her perspective, since she will not let ppl come close to her, she will think they are there just to take her advantage...
But I hope she changes it will be good for her and those around her...
Lol, you act like 90% of western women arent exactly like this woman 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yes, this was my thought as well, and I find it sadder than the 'preying on rich guys' aspect. Obviously that's sleazy, but I can easily believe what she said about none of those guys wanting a real relationship (they're foreigners in Japan, going home with a girl they just met at a bar ffs; what are the odds they were trying to start a family and put down roots?). But she's wasting her best years consciously trying to hurt other people instead of healing herself.
@jebes909090 it's a matter of perspective to some extent,
Instead of saying that hurt people behave in a peculiar manner, some ppl like say hurt ppl need help n support
She a future cat lady...or forever lonely soul. Cant say i feel bad for her.
This is what a person without a moral code looks like. Regardless of her background, she's really a horrible person at heart.
I appreciate a little look into the empty soul. It is important for us all to know that there really are people like her out there. I think she won't find it so easy to just disappear from all the guys she uses in the USA.
dartlhaurel:
Very well said. 🇨🇦
Tbh, she's as empty as those men going to foreign countries to f*ck around.
she definitely has a moral code, she's just out for revenge. A real anime villain story: dark past (sorta) -> yearning for revenge -> revenge by any means necessary
@@aqxbjc5879 More of a caricature of a anime villain. Despite being literally 2D, most anime villains have a more 3 dimensional conception of reality, and more believable reasons to do evil, than this woman.
Looks like she has a moral code.....it's just a shit one lol
Lol the look of horror becoming more and more entrenched on his face as the 'guest' was talking......welcome to what western men have to deal with as a standard attitude in western women.
This is the sad reality of dating in general nowadays!
Women use sex to get money and men use money to get sex!
Whatever happened to falling in love and happiness? 😞
Facts
Like the old saying goes: Love don't live here anymore. I want love too...but it kills me to feel like I'll never find it.
Internet happened ...
@@lexnight8345 ??? this shit existed way before the internet. The internet did nothing wrong about that.
@RYUKA no, you're wrong here , The Internet created opportunities I can meet women all around the world online , before that I was limited at the women around me in my city/job/circle of friends . Now, I play video games with people around the world, and if you look good as a man or have the money, you can date around the world. This created "the paradox of choice" ( search on UA-cam is a short video : The paradox of choice by Barry Schwartz) .
PS: I forgot to mention that yes, sometimes even before the internet, some women wanted the money and men the s3x, that's why night walkers existed in the first place .
Having a bad childhood is pitiful but that is never a reason to justify her scams.
It can end up changing the way a person thinks if they are surrounded by a negative environment 24/7.
It's called daddy issues , in Japan girls who had awful relationship with father or no dad usually will do AV or something sexual , in USA the dad not being present usually leads to becoming transgenser or blue hair liberal freak who hates her own race
She just tells herself that to make her behavior seem justified
I wonder if she even wants an emotional connection with a man at all and if she would regret it in like 20 years time.
@@thestruggler7926 nah she doesn't, when she's very old, she'll stay single and depend on her friends.
It would be cool to see a follow up also hopefully she got therapy for trauma that may have happened or she actually found someone to change her thoughts or preferences
Well, in the USA, she’s just an average person 😂. A person I knew told me her friend was popular with foreigners in Japan and she went to study abroad in America, Florida for a year.She assumed she’ll get the same attention as she did in Japan since she was Japanese and can speak English. And she was a 6/10.
3 months after being in the states all that attention went away and she couldn’t find nobody. She ended up going back home to japan. You would think this experience humbled her but she went back to her ways in Japan.😅
In the US they just assume you're Chinese.
Pretty clear these type of Gaijin hunters underestimate:
Beauty standards in USA compared to East Asia
The standards of American men who aren't losers looking to mess with someone solely because of their heritage
And the sheer amount of Asian Americans (who can range from cute to baddies) they're competiting with lmao
Some women are evil
You overestimate how attractive the average person is in the USA. Approximately ~40% of the USA population is obese. The fact that she is not obese and actually has a skinny figure will already put her in a position that makes her more attractive than the average person. The only way she would be considered "average" is if she moves to an high-reputation big city where attractive women often flock to - such as Miami, Las Vegas, San Fransisco, Los Angeles, etc.
Japanese American Women are much more attractive to American Men... because they speak decent English it's much easier to achieve communication which is mutually exclusive with a healthy relationship.
I feel like the Gaijin going to Japan to party and find girls, are more the type looking for some quick sex, because they know communication will be rough at best... But in the US you're more likely to run into a man who would have communication as more of a requirement for a relationship, and doesn't really value quick sex that highly. It's not that hard to buy sex in the USA, if a camera is recording then it's legal to pay her for sex... But you can't buy a feeling of not being alone, not a lasting one at least.
I don't think she will have a hard time finding guys, I just think if she picks a rich guy out of a crowd, there's going to be much less of a chance that particular guy is interested in her. And so she may have to lower her standards substantially than she did when she was in Japan.
Gaijin hunters were the final straw for me to make my first decision to leave Japan. No one I met felt genuinely interested in me as a person. It only took two Japanese girlfriends to realize our ideas of Romance and love are very very different. My fiancé only wanting to meet once a month because she was busy made me understand this was just going to be a financial deal and I wanted no part of it. I ended up staying in Japan 6 more years because I found a Romanian wife there instead. But I totally lost interest in knowing Japanese people on a deeper level despite being fluent just like the other women I realized there is nothing amazing about Japanese girls and the cultural differences were too vast to marry one.
They too treat their own men like that, and now they are wondering why they are single and lonely at age of 30+
@@Dregomz02 Men are the lonely ones. 😂
@@YUKINO20061988 women too because they can't find the gigachad, plus we cope much better with loneliness than women that need constant attention
@@Dregomz02 Really?😂
@@YUKINO20061988 yes mr simp boy
Bad father figure made her beahave as a sociopath/ reverse incel towards men. I wish her that one day she will be able to see that her view about men is twisted because of her lfe experiences.
No, that's psychopathic, not sociopathic. psychopathic is acting without morals and sociopathic is acting without understanding how to interact with people.
can''t blame the father or men forever. at some point (long past due) one has to take responsibility for their own choices.
Yes, she's not bad. It was a man who made her act bad against her will. 🙄
The word you're looking for is misandrist, not reverse incel.
wtf is "reverse incel"? Women can be "incel" too. I think you meant misandrist. Also, sociopath? She is a psychopath; she has no remorse without having problem interacting with many foreign men to manipulate them whereas they are aware of the manipulation or not.
Some 18 years ago I traveled to China on my own to learn some Chinese. I ve seen a young american guy who walked with a cute Chinese girl. She wanted him to buy her an expensive camera. He was hesitantly saying.. oh thats a lot of money. She loudly replied: am I not your girlfriend? 😂 that sentence stuck with me... its called the 二奶 system. The second wife sytem.
I never really understood why it's so bad if people approach you just to practice english. You might still become real friends after talking regardless of the reason for why they approached you first.
Because the intention is just "learning English" and not being friends. They only see you as someone that can teach them a language, that's it. They may leave or block you after they've achieved their goal.
The reason why I find all this insincere is...
Online gaming is a thing. I practiced my English to perfection since age 8 simply by online gaming.
That's it.
I think it's a matter of expectations. If your own countryman approaches you and strikes up a conversation, and starts hanging out with you, that's your friend; you might expect the same to be true in a foreign country, but the reality is that this person could just want something from you (like any average stranger). This means that there are extra steps before you have an actual *friend*.
I see it as something similar to pretty privilage and I would be really happy for it.
Yeah, same. Even if they just want to practice English with me, I think that's fun, and I'd be happy to speak with them. Maybe a close friendship can blossom from that and maybe one doesn't, and who cares if it doesn't?
If a gaijin hunter wants to learn English, I charge them. My time isn’t free.
They have other ways to pay you...😉
The anonymous one is extreme. When money isn’t the goal, it can be a bargain as well for men who don’t stay long-term, tbh.
@@mms-ew9jr exactly , unshaved bush and H cup!!! 😆
@@IndentureTrustee yoooo!! Lmao!!
Yes! Use them or they will use you.
Yikes! I honestly fear for that woman's safety if she plans to do what she does in the US. People do not realize a sense of safety is a premium in this world.
You already know I smashed that like and subscribe button, extremely interesting content, I might even start learn Japanese again
If she plans on continuing her business like this in America, she definitely has to be much more careful. It's not only harder to "disappear" in America, but after having read and watched a lot of true crime, I'm certain some men will be committed to not just 'accepting their fate' if you know what I'm hinting at. In this game there are no winners.
same thought exactly!!
She said she would move to the US, hoped that she knows them Yankees are entirely different breeds! And she should know that in the Yankee land, when you encounter any person, 50% chance they're strapped, locked and loaded with real leads!
@@khoanguyen-wc8qz Dunno, I prefere the good old fashioned brawl. Carrying guns at all times just screams insecure little tard to me.
@@derubenskanal "The constitutions of most of our States assert that all power is inherent in the people; that... it is their right and duty to be at all times armed." Thomas Jefferson to John Cartwright, June 5, 1824
"But when once a standing army is established in any country, the people lose their liberty" George Mason, Elliot Debates Vol 3. He then further elaborates on the history of his claim before stating that a Pennsylvania governor advised British Parliament to disarm the people so they would be easier to enslave.
I carry to defend my home and the people I care about, because I have a duty to protect friend, family, and home from all threats foreign and domestic as laid out by the founding fathers.
It is a heavy responsibility, as judgement falls heavy on the person that draws a firearm when it is unneeded. A responsible firearms carrier today would avoid said brawl altogether to avoid the possibility of their opponent reaching for said firearm and being forced to use it.
@@derubenskanal I don't agree at all, and I would advise not using the buzzword "insecure" so lightly, everyone has the right to bear arms and you never know who might pull out the stick on you, the gun is the equalizer.
Gaijin Hunter sounds like a new Anime Netflix release in which cute girls fight giant monsters is a similar but fundamentally different world in 1 or 2 key aspects.
That woman was clearly disillusioned. Men wanting just sex and women just wanting money are stereotypes that got popular on the internet. Everyone wants sex and money, but some people much more than others. She probably got this mindset from hanging around bad men. But she is an adult, so she should try to be more responsible and not blame all men and foreigners for how bad people treated her.
Narcissistic entitlement. She has no responsibility, everything is someone else's fault. She wants bonding (like all narcissists) but it's a game to be played totally in her favor. This is almost cultural in the East where men are viewed purely as human doings still. It's hard to date in the West as a man because passion (looks) is required (for romantic love). But, romantic love is a western concept. It's all utility in the east IMHO, having lived there. Of course, there are exceptions.
Yeah she must have been so full of herself as she said she easily gets men and East Asian women in US are desired there, she doesn't know there's a big chance she could get beaten up there than in Japan.
If all the men she has met are "bad men" I fear she's the common denominator here.
@@bobbruce4135 There is also the probability of a sociopatic personality disorder. She really sound like one (as well as an extremely naive narcissist). Also, I don't think Eastern people are all like this, having met several ones (and having met several Westerners who are like this).
@@vicente3k yes, because real smart good men who has dignities are not attracted to women like her. She puts herself on a shallow level that's why she attracts shallow men.
6:47 She's not wrong , as someone who loves to go shopping/touristing to Japan it's been a rule to me to avoid Shinjuku area's bar, they're expensive and high chances you'll either get entrapped by either a fellow foreigner, or a gaijin hunter.
Dude, how much a problem is this gaijin hunting?
The anonymous woman's story is rather sad. Definitely someone who grew up with a trauma, but rather than seek treatment for it she began acting on it instead. Her entire worldview is "hurt or be hurt", she became part of an abuse cycle.
There is a stigma about seeking mental health treatment in Japan (and lot of other countries too), you are expected to resolve the issue without help.
While I can see why she that particular path, the saddest part is she never knew other paths were possible due to “we don’t talk about that so it never happened” culture.
Stigma about mental health treatment is the least of her concerns. She has no care in the world about having stigma in being a lowly person of bad character. We all make choices in life with trauma in our past. To choose to hurt others to justify her hurt is pure evil and selfishness. Bad behavior has no excuse, the devil wears Prada.
@@Frogpslm3737 “bad behavior has no excuse” is easy to say when one is in a position that is either easy not to engage in bad behaviors, or is limited by religion or some other morality code. Although, I doubt this woman would like to make excuses- she just does what she wants because she doesn’t care about morality
Starting an online account and taking money from simps would be a much safer and potentially more lucrative option than directly taking money from men like what she did.
yeah onlyfans do exist lol
@@johnb6861 It's still such a toxic culture though lol it makes me depressed to see how people exploit others online too, like a lot of fake people pretending to be others on snapchat or other sites.
Yeah definitely much safer. But she also did get a car out of the real life approach. Maybe she gets off on the real experience, like there's more thrill in it with the potential danger lol
@@phen-themoogle7651 that's absolutely true. Unfortunately that is the state our society have become.
Dunno. Can she do that without showing her face publicly? Currently only a few people know her, in each instance.
Interesting and good to know, and I will be more aware of this. I am leaving Japan today. I've been coming to Japan for years to be with a woman I had met in 2017 and have looked for jobs in Japan so I could have a relationship with her and hopefully marry her. Unfortunately she changed her mind about me on this trip. The point is some of us men are serious about romance. Please don't judge all of us negitively.
Count yourself lucky.
@@musicfirst5020 I do
Rejection is God's protection.
@@natural_law very true
@@natural_law Amen
This channel has pretty good social study content. Well done. By the way, United States welcomes all Gaijin Hunters especially 20+ men level hunters. Also, if you approach men as a hunter, you are going to get the same type of men because you are hunting the same type of men. I hope Gaijin Hunters are 100% accurate all the time, otherwise some guys are going to hurt the wrong way.
I think that there are two very powerful factors at work here:
The presence of novelty: Something that one cannot get all of the time, represented by a foreigner
and the lure of limited access: The foreigner is just visiting, if you want to have a romance with them, it needs to happen *now*
As the foreigner is a visitor, it would be unrealistic to expect them to stay in a long term relationship - it can only be an affair
Some people find this favorable, as they do not desire any complications from a long term relationship, and the foreigner wont be around to cause trouble once they go home.
I think that the anonymous woman is going to find the game to be different, when she is the foreigner.
Very sad to hear that she had a bad home life and has turned that towards blaming all men. Also I'm sort of nervous about her trying the same tactic here in the U.S. Going all the way to Japan to get a date with a Japanese girl is a good way to filter out a lot of the more unsavory characters from the west, and especially in more rural areas men can tend to be rougher around the edges. Laws and culture are also very different, so if she tries her tactic on the wrong person it could end very badly for her. Hope she is safe and can do some serious healing before it's too late.
She's playing a dangerous game if she tries that here in the US. Make no mistake; there are plenty of simps, yellow fever simps or otherwise. But she may find herself realizing that some prey won't take being hunted lying down.
Going to be harder for her to disappear. In Japan, it's her home, she knows the place better than the foreigner. When she comes to America, she is going to be the foreigner at the disadvantage.
@@jonahdewitt2158 Also, she has more competitors than in her home country. With these wahmens doubling down on non-US women because of passport bros, do you think they will just let her get away with what she plans to? I don't think she can scream "wreecist" and get away with it like BLM.
I hope the men she targets are safe, they don't deserve to get fucked over because of this lady's mental issues.
She blamed all men because Japanese people tend to be very collectivistic. If one or more "representatives" of a "group" fails, the entire group must be punished.
That's also more the reason why she did it for her friend as well (part of her "miuchi" or group), instead of sticking with a logic based analysis on individuals instead of a race of people.
I love how increasingly concerned Nobita looked throughout the interview with the anonymous lady. At some point, I think he just wanted to help her see a different, less cynical view of reality. I hope she does.
It doesn't matter at this point. She's ruined tbh.
The Men only want sex and she only wants money.
She's a prostitute by definition.
There are more Asian prostitutes advertised online than any other race in Australia. You come here to study but end up a hooker or adult masseuse.
This is why Western men dont want a serious relationship with you. Because most of you are who#es.
@@Words-of-encouragement.-. She's a starry eyed pessimist. She needs depression medication more than anything really.
I wouldn't have a problem if someone just wanted to meet up to learn or practice English. Just be upfront about it. Met a woman on a dating app from Mexico who wanted to practice English for a job interview with an international company. We video chatted several times and I asked her interview questions in English. She got the job and we went our separate ways. Was glad to help.
I give her points for honesty with you, this is not an uncommon thing though, just you don't encounter many who will admit it.
Given that her identity is concealed, yes, she's being honest, but she's still a coward who hides. I suppose you could argue that she does so because if she reveals her face, that'll make it harder to prey on guys for money, but still.
I'd give her points if she were honest about it with her partners, there are women that only care about money but there is a right and a wrong way to go about it, why manipulate men for money when there are men that would willingly accept such a relationship without the need for lying and manipulating, in the end the money isn't as important to her as being a terrible person and getting a sense of revenge for her past using people that had nothing to do with it
That's not honesty. She's proud of being a shitty person. And a coward one at that, hiding her face instead of showing to the world so that more men don't fall prey.
6:36 Damn, even reporter Nobita couldn't hold a straight face by all the bonkers statements the woman made holy shit.
EDIT:
I hope the interviewed woman gets some help o. realises her manipulative wrongdoings.
Lmao 😂 his face looked disgusted after some of the statements
I feel sad for the anonymous woman... disgusted too. Not every man wants her for sex, that's ridiculous. Also, her revenge logic doesn't make sense. She's doing what they want, the only thing is they lose a little of money, but that's it. She's so bitter inside that she can't think clearly.
Yeah, I feel sorry for her and disgusted by her as well. Her view of dating is so bleak. If she thinks how she was treated was bad, she's a hypocrite for treating random others the same way. She doesn't seem to have any remorse. I understand her feelings of wanting "revenge," but she's taking it out on the wrong people for it to make sense. She almost seems like a sociopath who's just grasping for excuses to justify her selfish behavior.
She probably end up alone and sad
And her logic is even insane
I guess not all asian are intelligent 🤓
She has a prostitutes mentality 100 percent. Secretly wanting to control and punish men all the while getting paid and satisfying her sexual needs simultaneously. It's all a win for her.....until she hits the age barrier and no one pays any attention to her. Then she becomes a bitter old skank with a history. Very sad.
@@mikeballew3207 How about, we call out these men who hurt her to take the accountability and blame instead of just blaming the woman for her actions. How about we approach those men and tell them to stop hurting women and stop hoeing around
Faceless woman really thinks that she is getting back at foreigners but she's just providing what they want
If she keeps doing these things in the US I don't think it's going to end well.
Nope
Yeah well there is a reason their birthrate is so low.
birth rates are low in all "developed" countries even amongst 2nd generation immigrants
I'm on both ends of the spectrum. I am an black American woman that finds East Asian men attractive. But I'm at a huge disadvantage because when Japanese say they're attracted to foreigners, typically they're referring to Caucasians. So I' SOL on that front.
But I've also been hunted for English practice when I lived over there. There was one time when I was on the bus coming home from the base when an ojisan made a beeline to me. I was in the back corner of the bus nodding off, so this scared the hell out of me. He was insisting on scheduling lessons with him, and I did my best to let him down gently before I got off at my stop. I genuinely don't think he put it together that approaching a woman like that would make them feel very uncomfortable, foreigner or not. At least I don't think there was malicious intent from him, just ignorant.
Don't give up! There are East Asian men who will find you very attractive.
You will eventually find someone.
I think you still have it good. Southeast Asian people are not treated as foreigners and on some occasions, even if these foreigners say they don't know Japanese.
@@rontype1554 japanse are racist toward SEA ppl too lol
@@rifqimujahid4907 'still doesn't change the fact that SEA ppl are treated worse (if negative) compared to let's say, westerners (black or white) despite both being non-Japanese. Also, that legendary so-called 'gaijin card' only have 20% effectiveness when used by SEA ppl.
I'll try not to be harsh with the one lady who has been taking advantage of foreign men for money because she thinks they are only out for sex, but she doesn't have a very good focus on relationships...not all men are exclusively for sex. Some may like who they are with and would be considering a long-term relationship.
Yes, each to thier own goals and motivations, but someone like that woman does not have a healthy outlook on relationships.
Thank you for the video, it was enlightening.
Damn this was really interesting. From the thumbnail I thought the hunters would be people trying to exploit foreigners in some way, and while that may be the case with some people, I'm glad that's not exclusively it. Its interesting to see that some Japanese people really want to meet or date a foreigner in the same way some western people want to interact them. Thanks for doing these videos Nobita, you have some of the best Japan content online
in japan she can do it for being a passive society, but in america... boy i think we all know that her laugh won't have a good ending.
Yeah, men here are used to women acting like she does already, so I don't think it'll be as easy as she thinks. She might get herself killed too if she pisses off the wrong guy. It's a really bad idea all around.
She said she would move to the US, hoped that she knows them Yankees are entirely different breeds! And she should know that in the Yankee land, when you encounter a normal person, 50% chance they're strapped, locked and loaded with real leads!
I think she'll do just fine with that method in USA.
Assuming she targets the right guys...
Plenty of guys will have a "doesn't matter had sex" attitude about it.
Potentially, though, she targets the wrong guy...
This is the exclusive journalism we've come to know and love from Nobita-san. Thank you for sharing this!
I feel sorry for this girl. She clearly got damaged mentally by her dad and her first boyfriend, now she has trust issues, but hides them from herself and spins her world view accordingly. Like, men are bad, so i can be mean to them as much as i want and it's ok. No self reflection, hence no inner growth.
I was stationed in Yokosuka. And as a tall white male, I was pretty popular with Japanese girls.
Yes, it's true we definitely play girls. And there are some that are never serious.
But there are a lot of serious relationships that do develop.
I wasn't really looking for anything serious, so I just played, mostly.
What changed me was the girl I was seeing at the time, became my best friend.
So instead of just being someone I screwed or played around with, I started laughing with her and getting to know her, when at first, I didn't think I was going to be serious at all. (Crap intentions. I know.)
Then one day I was sick so I cancelled our plans , she came over anyway and took care of me. I never experienced that in my life. Needless to say I fell in love.
Long story short, We got engaged.
at least you play apart of a role of what she said. most of my white and black american friends that i was close like japanese girls thanks to porn. they think they can do it better than japanese man in sex during guy talk. if other friend that that i am not that close will definitely deny it.
That's what I want to experience. I'm signing up for the Air Force because I want to travel. I want to see as much of the world as I can, expand my education, have a great career, and potentially meet the love of my life.
Does she know you fucked around and saw women as sex objects? Or are you conveniently keeping that to yourself now that you found a real woman?
This is the antidote... demand commitment, push her on red flags, check her history. It cuts both ways.
Some thoughts:
1. It's not wrong to have a type, or initial preference, as long as that preference doesn't blind you to seeing the whole person that you want to date. Neither should it blind you to other people that like you, even if they aren't your preference. People are more than their nationality or genetics.
2. People pick dating and marriage candidates for many reasons. Wealth is one of those reasons, and it's a valid point to consider. It isn't everything, but it's valid nonetheless. You're looking for what you want; wealth might be one of those things. I can respect that.
3. The lady that dated 20+ foreign men-- I'm calling her Gray Widow (because she hasn't killed any one of her dates)-- I understand how being badly treated by men can make a person cynical. I even admire her honesty: she believes in money, and she's willing to say that aloud, at least to Nobita. I just wish she could say that to a man she wants to date for his money. At least the guy should know what he's getting from this transaction: no real strings, no expectations, either of them can leave when the spending gets difficult or when one of them gets bored.
Finally, good job, Nobita. There's always something for me to learn from in your interviews.
Women can hurt men a lot too, it's not just a man thing.
ah glad you made that point - that was the exact comment I got from a guy who I introduced to someone - she wasn't being straight about wanting a sugar daddy & when I let him know after the fact, it was clear he would have been more than happy to create that kind of relationship if that's really want she wanted - she just needed to say so!
Not sure if this video is about easy foreign men or easy Japanese women tbh .....
yes
Nothing new. 1968 , I was 7, Navy brat, sasebo, Japan. I tried to learn Japanese, I thought it was cool. However, in the beginning of a number of friendships, it was pretty lopsided until I figured out I was basically a tutor. As time went on, I sorted through and did make sincere friends. I don't remember being bothered by it, especially as time went on. I lived there until 1974. Loved it.
The question is, will she continue to make false assumptions and hurt people who might not deserve it until she's too old to do it anymore, and then realizes she missed her chance at an actual relationship? Or will she do this to someone who CAN track her down and make her life miserable by taking everything and more back from her? She seems to be confident that "she'll never see them again", but that just assumes they lack the skills (or resources) to have her tracked down.
Agreed. She's moving to America, but doesn't realize that pulling that stunt in the U.S. is playing with fire. Wouldn't surprise me in the least if she ends up seriously hurt or worse after messing with the wrong person. But as the say, play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
Finding people is easy because everyone has a digital footprint. I specialize in it.
If her plan is to fool and deceive a lot of men in the US, maybe she may not live long enough to get old, at some point she'll try to fool the wrong man
She's just a sad, traumatized woman, someday the karma will bite her in the ass.
Don't let bad events in your life make you follow evil. Learn from them and do what is truly right in life.
exactly. She's had a bad relationship with her father and her first boyfriend and then just automatically assumes everyone are the same??? like what... if anything she should be hating japanese men caus her boyfriend and father were japanese, not forigners... even in her dumb and false "logic" there ain't no fucking logic.
lol. she's obviously just hungry for money and want a cheap excuse for getting it by basically theft. Decieving someone into giving you things like that is moral theft. she even blatantly stated it herself "I think money is everything". there it is.
End of the interview, case closed. She doesnt deserve anyones empathy.
Interesting. I actually had a gentleman from Tokyo ask me for directions in Japanese. Like I was born there. I was honored to speak his language. I felt like a local. Granted. I spent most of my time speaking Japanese out loud to anyone willing to correct me.
I had no shame back then. God help me . I miss Japan so much.
I respect her honesty.
At least towards us... Pretending you are something you are not is the definition of dishonest
@@ch4.hayabusa fair enough. her actions are definitely not moral.
The dismay in Nobita’s face hearing this woman explain herself says it all. She’s convinced herself she’s some sort if vigilante for Japanese women, all because the men in her life, starting with the father failed her. Eventually everything she’s done to those men will come back and haunt her. She might even end up losing her opportunities here and may even be forced to go back to Japan. I’m not one to wish anyone ill, so I genuinely do hope she gets a reality check and seeks help.
yea nah she aint gonna do that. people who admit to being bad people see nothing wrong with being like that, actually they see themselves as smarter and better than others for being reckless, cuz they can get their selfish needs met without mental reprecussions. she *TRULY* doesn't care abt these men, like as truly as you could not care abt anything really.
I find it weird that the two formative guys that screwed her over were Japanese so she decides to take it out on foreign sexpats by...giving them the no-strings attached sex she thinks they want anyway. Weird attitude but she's clearly coping with some trauma so whatever.
I hope she can go back alive to Japan if her plan is to fool and deceive a lot of men in the US
She might even end up dead or gets roped into a trafficking business.
Nah, you can hear she doesn't really believe it, she is clearly trying to convince herself just as much as him
The social psychology behind this issue is fascinating! Arigato for making this video.
Sadly, she's damaged goods. She never learned that two wrongs don't make a right.
Yeah. I feel sorry for the fact that she was abused when she was younger.
But I don't feel sorry for the person she became as a result of her past suffering.
Good lord
Exactly
I’m not entirely sure if I’m being hunted, but I had an interesting encounter with a sales representative at a retail store. Despite my limited Japanese, I understood her question about whether I was from main island. When I mentioned that I’m a ‘gaijin’ (foreigner) staying in Japan for eight days and traveling around the main island, she didn’t panic like many Japanese might. Instead, she listened attentively. It seems like she is trying to practice her English skills lol
Trust is really hard to come by no matter where you are in the world. You never know if someone truly cares about you and likes you, or just wants to use you and sees you as nothing more than an asset.
Wisdom comment found✔
Indeed. Trust is waning on both sides, for men and women.
If you don't start with trust and expect the best, you'll never find someone worthy of trust.
@@Lecrie You're correct. But it's important to not blindly trust others. This is why you have to vet people thoroughly before hand.
I mean, if you're ugly and someone wants to be in a relationship with you, it's because that person really likes you. The good thing about being ugly.
“She only targets wealthy looking men”
This reminds me of a phrase my Father once told me:
Sometimes it’s alright to walk around with holes in your pants
Imagine if you were unlucky enough to end up marrying this girl who hates all men and just wants take all your money, God blessed us by not being wealthy at all.
My dad wore clothes that I would throw away, up until his death at 80 3 years ago. He wore a camo fishing hat he bought at a flea market back in the late 1970's that my daughter would sew up regularly because it was so ragged it was literally falling apart. He drove $1500 junk cars, never once bought a new one. I was always living beyond my means trying not to look as poor as I was. One day I asked him why, and he said because people would feel sorry for him, car repairs and any work he ever needed done around the house was cheap.
Yes, but you know what's more effective: not throwing money on some random hoe. The moment she or he wants you to do that (especially if it is about cash or expensive items) just leave it be. You don't have to look like a homeless, you just have to say "no". Is that really so hard to do?!
your father is a sage man, bro
exactly why I have never and will never flaunt my success
I would suggest the gaijin hunter to not piss off the wrong guy while in the US.
Especially one that will actually sue. Because her competitors aside, she can get away with this because "Listen and believe" and "Believe all women"
That's why you guys must know about body counts vs age when dating a girl, don't matter where you are living at...It says a lot for us dudes
If she is meeting foreign men that just want sex than she is looking for the wrong men in the wrong type of places. I also agree with what Bogdan B said, she is not "getting revenge", she is just spreading more hurt through the world. I am a completely heterosexual American male who likes sex, but it is the last and least important thing I look for in a woman. I also do not have sex unless it's with a woman that I'm in a long-term committed relationship/marriage with. She is exactly the type of woman that many decent men all over the world are trying to get away from. I would never be with someone who was such a liar. I'm not trying to be harsh. I'm just being honest and the world today needs a good dose of honesty.
she seems to pretend to be a decent woman, and probably any of us would think she is a sweet innocent girl interested in a real relationship ... right up until she turns off her phone and moves to a new city.
Also her legs.
She already told us all the truth, she doesn't want a relationship, all she wants is revenge against all men because she hated her father and boyfriend (both japanese), however she only targets foreign men beacuse they are an easy target and easier to run away.
LOL She feels that what she did isn't a crime and not grounds for arrest and at the same time wants her identity hidden. Give me a break. She's conscious enough to know that it's shameful and wrong and isn't hiding her identity because she feels ashamed; it's so that she remain anoynomous so she can go on doing it to more victims. A classic case of "becoming what you hate.". She definitely deserves some karma in the near future.
@DisealBitches justice will get her but it won't be just being alone with cats. There are rich men who won't take this easy especially when they realize it's systemic and other victims reach out to them.
@@MichaTheLight yeah but she's clever. She knows men are proud and unlikely to admit that a woman scammed them for cash and prizes. That only feeds into her scam. So the scenario that rich foreigners are gonna get together and talk about what they lost to this prostitute is highly unlikely.
@DisealBitches ain't nothing wrong with that
No I actually don't think she felt that she's doing anything wrong, that's the scary part.
She might have wanted to remain anonymous so she could continue scamming people without being recognized as that scam girl on UA-cam.
12:12 unbelievable... Does she really not know that she'd be ruined if she tried this abroad? (Not to mention it was a miracle she got away with this in Japan at all.)This is going to be a very painful reality check for her and I hope karma teacher her a very good lesson this time! People should see what happends when they treat people like objects. When she goes out of her way to hurt people again everyone will shun her.
A lesson which she may not be able to use further.
She's probably reading these comments now, she will take note and improve her tactics
Ultimately, if she gets away with this until she becomes old age, she will live her last days very lonely, and will most probably die alone. She clearly doesn't want to marry and if she finds such excuses to manipulate men, she may also find simmilar excuses to manipulate anyone, including her friends, if she has any real friends to begin with.
The irs will investigate this woman too lol 😂
@@Haunt888 I was very careful of that, no matter how you look at it she treats people like objects. I made sure I would not write anything that would interrupt her if she made a mistake. I do wish she would become a better person and redeem herself though.
The expression on his face at 3:05 tho! Hilarious.