They all failed to destroy me. Instead it crystallized my character and identity and caused me to finally develop strong boundaries and to shed people pleasing. I now give to only those that appreciate it and are worthy of my time and effort. God restores and gives wisdom to those seeking him.
These videos are so f****** pathetic, I don't know any bloke that when they've split up with a girlfriend or wife they haven't come after them to destroy them so every woman is a narcissist, we're also let too believe if you get refused and being told no you're a narcissist, because apparently if you get refused from a job you don't get upset and angry wow, this is what we call social engineering, and all these men and women doing these type of videos I wonder what relationship they've got at the moment and if it did go pear-shaped how much of it was there to be blamed for
They are emotional and status murderers. Literally if you survive you have to rebuild so much, its like you come back to life and so few will ever truly know what you've been through. Laws and support services need to change.
@@mountain10 Thats not going to do anything in governments ruled and maintained by narcisists and exploitative corporations in a dystopian oligarchy rappidly stripping the common people of any real power. A world ruled by narcisists is what the rising facism is.
So many people don't survive They literally end up in the grave 🪦 Because the narcissist is so unstable and unpredictable Very dangerous beings I have lived it several times I pray for everyone 🙏🙏
@@Amber-b3g Hey, I hear ya. Just a tidbit... All psychopaths are narcissists but not all narcissists are psychopaths as well as there being different types of narcissists and psychopaths. But both are part of the Cluster B group.
@@salvatorethomas9546 Yes indeed. I have been observing them closely and I am finally seeing their ways. I find it shocking but ultimately liberating. This knowledge has changed my personality. Previously I assumed everyone was fundamentally good. Now I know better. I was open and friendly. Now I have stronger boundaries and I move slowly and carefully with the human species. I genetically prefer my cats !! 🤣🐈⬛🐈⬛🦋 Best wishes to you and all dear souls on this channel healing and learning boundaries 🙏
I lived with one for 37 years. I got out 2 years ago. It was the hardest thing I ever did. I attended suicide 4 times because I just couldn’t live with it anymore. God left me here and my life is better than I ever dreamed. Just get out. Sleeping on a mattress on the floor is better than the abuse.
I had a child with one 13 years ago and it's been straight hell. After she lied and had me arrested when our daughter was 2 years old, she then went to my company picnic and tried to get me fired. She failed at that and then became a prostitute for that very company. After I refused to get back with her she moves back to TX, I moved there to spend time with my daughter. 3 days before last Christmas she moved back to that town in another state. Finally tracked her down and we have a court date in afew days!!!! Pray for me as well smh
Thank You So Very Much For Sharing This I Needed To Hear This I Never In My Life Seen So Much Cruelty And Evilness Until I Met A Malignant Narcissist Destroyed My Self Esteem Self Confidence And Self Worth.Narcissistic Abuse Is Beyond Cruel.Pure Evil.
I just withstood the most vicious abuse, as I was protecting our 12 yo son with my full body envolving him and his father hitting me on and behind my back, just inches from the child. That's how desperate the malignant narc was, because he knew I was on the phone with 911 and the whole thing was recorded. He knew he was getting caught red handed. Still he is denying. I am going to be examined at forensics in an hour. My back is black and blue. And to this moment he still has the nerve to declare to his son that he has no idea what caused mommy's back to be bruised. That's the level of delusion. His own child witnessed mommy protecting him from daddy's beating. Then the police came and then the police handed the boy to mommy. But daddy is the real victim here you know? He is on the verge of a heart attack. Seriously! He is actually in the process of blaming his son for his health condition. Even though he knows the child was there, covered by mommy, and the kid didn't sustain injuries, mommy's back did. Mommy will be undressing for experts in about an hour. Wish me luck. Or don't, the bruises speak for themselves.
God is with you. Faith, trust in God, HE will cover you and protect you. God bless.Akso, be at peace knowing that this community is behind you 💯. 🙏 🙏 🕊 🕊 ❤❤
Thank you all so much. What a wonderful community here. If only we outnumbered them we could really end all wars and make a better, safer, healthier world for our children and ourselves. Godspeed justice. 🙏
My ex came with nothing & left with everything. Divorced over 20 years from his psychopathic self. He escalated to attempted murder, yet I am still here. Only by the grace of GOD! Praying anyone going through it is relieved & grateful to be Alive! In the Beautiful name of JESUS CHRIST✨️ 💜Amen🙏
Yeah, they're not morally above anything, including murder. Poisoning is way more common than people realize. Once you realize their game, it's important people don't accept food or drink from them, especially not a cup of coffee.
You're so right!! They also have to try to justify their treatment of their victims while actively in the relationship. That's when the lies get much worse They know what they're doing the whole time and they know it's wrong. When you break away from them,,they create fiction in their favour.
Left my father and the crazy family behind to live in Thailand for 9 years. He was so obsessed with me, he hired a private detective to find me and still didn’t believe where I had been living, even upon my return. I will never speak to any of them again! The things he and my family are doing are beyond HORRIFIC! Healing now and I know great things are coming for me! Thank you for the work that you do! It helps sooo many!!🙏🙏♥️♥️
my father was a successful man when he married my MN mother. 30 years later he was very depressed. alcoholic and homeless. Such a sweet man. Made me angry to find she actually got a kick out of his destruction. I was the scapegoat and kicked her out of my life 28 years ago and it was the best decision i have ever made..
@@anjou6497 oh yes, it never leaves. What's the hardest and particularly as man is first that people expect you to suck it up and not talk and secondly if you do people cant believe what you would tell them she did and so its easy to be type cast as a liar. Normal people cannot comprehend a mother would do these things to her own child but she never was a mother as her condition doesn't allow her to have whats required. Like empathy, kindness and the ability to love.
Same. I have a 16 year old daughter with mine and she is being used as a pawn and being fed lies. I'm sure it's not healthy but I hate him more than I thought possible for how he has used our child and I guess I'll do my healing in Hell.
Same here, and he still thinks because I gave up my investments and in heritance to him that he should get it all. Even my PTSD won't stop me from exposing his abuse. He took my family assets but the grandchildren lost more than he will be able to cover with lies. He willl never change but he said "I can't stand to see you happy"...... His problem!
Sounds like my MIL. I stopped letting her get to me after my kids were born and hubby keeps her at a distance. Anytime we get together she ignores me. It’s pretty sad to see another adult act like that.
“Deep seated hatred” spot on! You can cut that kind of tension with a knife. I thought things were bad before i started effectively standing up for myself. Boy! It turned up after that but, there’s no doubt now where her allegiances lie. Not with me or our relationship, to say the least. Thank you for pointing this out. People need to hear this 🙏
Thanks for message. Let all negativity sent to me be returned back to sender all Narcissist behavior. . Thanks for deliverance and guidance oh God. Amen
Doesn't matter what the have stolen from you, and a no contact order means nothing. I am in the hated stage. Pounds on my door at 2:00am in the morning. His abuse got worse yet he always said, " I will spend you into homelessness." So, stay with me and take my abuse or I will....
They NEVER let you go - in their minds, they have captured you forever. I broke up with a bad, bad, bad narcissistic girlfriend and I saw her in the supermarket maybe 10-years later. She dissociated - as her eyes went glassy - and her car keys were shaking in her hands like jingle bells. I saw that it could never be over for her.
That's perfect!!! I never realized it like this before but that's what it's all about with them!! Omg, I'm so excited, they're going to hate me so much more in a very short time!!!😂
We need to learn to not only accept but embrace feelings of unpopularity, because that's what the narc is going to do, make it so massive amounts of funds are withdrawn from our self esteem bank accounts.
Not me I'm thriving more than I ever have 4 month's after running a million miles away from her. Just know that you're innocent and all you did wrong was love a demon disguised as a saint grieve, heal and take your life back and let them live in there little personal hell loop.
I’ve had a narcissistic stalker since 2007. Used to be childhood friends. Tried to smear campaign me with my CEO, pres, VP of my company, tried to get into my house, still to this day tries every once in awhile when she gets bored. We are almost 50 years old & it still continues.
Concering the abusive narcissist, nothings more important than him getting caught and scrutinized for all his hidden abuse. I would like a front row seat to at least see a bit of what I went through for that evil narc to taste, process or digest the intensity of feeling the raw pain that he put me through just so mr stupid will get it to know what he did to me.
Good morning, i was happy to see a new one. That's profound, triggering indeed but in a good way. That to me speaks volumes about the colour and tone of why you went through that. Any of you, could be me, you, or anyone else. We're talking emotional harm here. The narcissist can be hard to bag when you tend to show up empathetic, supportive, understanding, you can become ALL IN with somebody else's deep seeded mental health, or personality disorder issues. 🤢Wicked dangerous if you ask me. Anybody who doesn't make some kind of money or have a way to make ends meet can be tricked into thinking you are enough. They just wanna be with you. I mean sure, you will find the type that latches on like a sea lamprey or leach, but more often than not, the egotistical, needy, lying, back stabbing, aggressive, manipulator is doing the bidding. ❤I think these daily messages are like pure medicine, in that they remind us to remain firm. They encourage wellness and definitely help.
Being raised by a narcissist gave me valuable insight, especially on the detrimental consequences of staying in long term relationship with one.I witnessed my mother's the gradual and painful decline at the hands of my father's constant mind games, affairs and betrayals. He has mastered the art of using HER against herself, many people now view her in bad light, and him as faultless and untarnished. She still desperately holds on 45yrs...
I got away from my friend, the "narcissist." Thank goodness! But, I have flashbacks from things they did to me 40 years ago 😮. Now, when do those stop🤔.
Wow. . Thank you. .yes the determination to destroy with the divorce covered every dimension of living reality and the smear extended to all 4 corners of the earth. 27 years after divorce the revenge continues. Increadable venom Because..... With all soull, psyche and mind i have recovered! And recovery goes on. This seems to boomerang himself
I needed this supportive vid of it's my ex is a stalking conman evil foreign narcissist he refuses to let me be in peace he started a smear campaign I'm tired of this man
Sad to say, but that's the exact conclusion that I drew about my now deceased narcissistic father. I took his best shots, and child of his nine who beat him. Only college graduate and the only one with a professional job.
My ex taught me blocking someone's email doesn't really block it, just throws it in the spam file. He went from trying to make me feel like I didn't matter anyways, to trying to guilt me by claiming I destroyed HIS life to trying to convince me police were looking for me because it successfully scared me before. It was actually a good thing because he actually revealed him and his psycho best friend have no idea where I am.
Seven years together & engaged to my male narcissist. i suffered myocardial infarction ( heart attack ) & a stemi ( stent ) . He discarded me ( off course ) & im still alive 🙂
💯 correct.. I pray for their souls in spite of their hate.. it helps me too! I see it for the mental dis-ease that it is.. very sad.. I am no contact that’s the only way to move forward 🙏
She’s spot on. I’m a very stubborn person and god almighty I dug deep to dump the idiot and put myself back together. I turned to god for help (those who don’t believe in god ask the universe for help) 2 years on and 7 new partners later he’s back again now stalking me. Was hoping one of his new partners would encourage him to leave me alone, but no such luck yet.
This happens with a covert narc also. But GOD!!!! Go no contact as soon as possible to break your cognitive dissonance with the narc, set boundaries, pray for delivernce to severe that soul tie, fast, praise & worship, practice gratitude. Your healing is your Superpower.
I know the narc will never stop hunting. Mine has smeared me viciously for years to anyone who’ll listen. I’ve kept meticulous records of traps and provocations set in desperate attempts to get any reaction out of me. She thinks anything happening to me is either all about her or must be disrupted to create chaos. Evil and ugly.
It’s a shame my last comment was deleted. I was making a very good point. Maybe I worded it wrong. Narcissism awareness and actually dealing with this issue would stop a lot of the problems in this country.
I've survived the severe abuse, an attempt to run me over in a parking lot during a custody exchange, the brutal smear campaign, turning my kids against me, and after the abuser had a near fatal heart attack he spent his time in the hospital looking up the name of my one of my relatives on line, to connect one of my kids with my abusive parents that I went no contact with decades ago (due to their severe abuse.) Before he died he wanted to make sure to get at least one more cruel dig in on me. He had no concern for the trauma my kids went through, witnessing the heart attack while they were alone with him, or the aftermath of him being unconscious for a month, and in the hospital and rehab for months. The priority while being in the hospital was making sure my kid was connected with my deeply abusive parents.
His hatred ran deep. It was greater than anything else. It consumed him. He failed to destroy me. The discard. The smear campaign. Alot of people still believe all his lies but you know what? I walked away. I let people go. People I knew for over 20 years. Gone. My home. Gone. I changed jobs. I moved. I removed myself completely from the drama. Andddd...he still hated me and they still talk crap about me. Here I am thriving, loving my family and friends, my career. God has blessed me beyond belief. I have never experienced this much peace in my whole life and I'm 57. It only gets better!! Be strong. Pray. Walk. Start a new hobby. Get therapy. There is a beautiful life out there. Don't allow him/her to take your strength. IT'S YOURS.
This is very true. I was trying so hard to be able to leave quietly but it was impossible because mostly everything in the house was mine. The day I came home with boxes, things took a turn for the very worst. But at this point I had 3 days until the movers arrived. So I just started packing. This man got on the phone and literally made up lies about me. He told people he was in fear of his life because I had a gun. (I'm a licensed carrier). He told people I threatened him, which was a lie. He even called law enforcement and told them the same thing. But they knew it was a lie. He called them 3x, trying to have me arrested. The day before I left, he tried to kill one of my dogs by trying to give him a handful of human prescription meds. The next day, after the movers came and went with all my stuff, as I was pulling out of the driveway, I felt like I was escaping Hell, finally.
I’m pretty sure he hates me. I finally divorced him after 31 yrs. I am in the place we’ve lived in for 20 yrs, a small mobile home I had him sign over to me and receiving court ordered alimony . He also has a criminal protection order against him for 3 yrs for assaulting me. Been divorced a lil over 4 months now
I'm no expert on relationships but I would pretty much conclusively say that anyone that physically assaults you would almost certainly hate you. I became a licensed gun owner when I endured the same thing as you. Keep yourself safe.
She tried but failed and will always fail. Reason why I ran from this horrible relationship. Never thought someone could be so cruel. Being an Empath it would never work with a Narcissist. Mean people suck and it's sad finally knowing who they truly are. Even now after all the cruelty and lies. I still wish her the best.
They tell so many lies that I'm followed daily by the local police, around supermarkets by security and to work. They have people trying to provoke me in the stores trying to prove I'm the problem. I've already moved once, I'm ready to move again but cannot run forever. The pd is convinced that I am the problem because they are so connected. Drones scour the skies at night. It is instance. I moved away from them almost 2 years ago. A little help would be great. All I can do is keep recording but its of little use when the cops think that I am the actual bad guy. Unbelievable.
@@EMTru-999 But leaving the country is dealing with your problem. It's not that you're running away, it's that you're moving out of range of your narcs ability to interfere with you further. Narcissists are generally very lazy & cheap. They're not going to invest much time or money following you abroad just for "supply", they'll instead put their focal point on someone else.
They all failed to destroy me. Instead it crystallized my character and identity and caused me to finally develop strong boundaries and to shed people pleasing. I now give to only those that appreciate it and are worthy of my time and effort. God restores and gives wisdom to those seeking him.
Congratulations! Good Luck and Good Fortune! GOD BLESS YOU!
Your true nature came out in the face of diversity. 🌸
Beautifully put!
Yes!!!❤
So true & well put thank you!
These videos are so f****** pathetic, I don't know any bloke that when they've split up with a girlfriend or wife they haven't come after them to destroy them so every woman is a narcissist, we're also let too believe if you get refused and being told no you're a narcissist, because apparently if you get refused from a job you don't get upset and angry wow, this is what we call social engineering, and all these men and women doing these type of videos I wonder what relationship they've got at the moment and if it did go pear-shaped how much of it was there to be blamed for
I had a lucky escape from the narcissist,l thank God for watching over me 🙏🏼❤
I hope God helps me escape ❤
They are emotional and status murderers. Literally if you survive you have to rebuild so much, its like you come back to life and so few will ever truly know what you've been through. Laws and support services need to change.
Absolutely!!!!! Contact your local representatives and don’t stop exposing!!!
@@mountain10 Thats not going to do anything in governments ruled and maintained by narcisists and exploitative corporations in a dystopian oligarchy rappidly stripping the common people of any real power. A world ruled by narcisists is what the rising facism is.
So many people don't survive
They literally end up in the grave 🪦
Because the narcissist is so unstable and unpredictable
Very dangerous beings
I have lived it several times
I pray for everyone 🙏🙏
I nearly left the world as well.Its the worst experience.Im on my 3rd life
Your happiness kills them. They're cuckoo. Happy making it as public as possible. STOPPED CARING!
They are psychopaths and sick beyond belief 👿☠️👺
Thankyou Jill 🙏💜🌺
@@Amber-b3g
Hey, I hear ya.
Just a tidbit... All psychopaths are narcissists but not all narcissists are psychopaths as well as there being different types of narcissists and psychopaths.
But both are part of the Cluster
B group.
@@salvatorethomas9546 Yes indeed. I have been observing them closely and I am finally seeing their ways. I find it shocking but ultimately liberating. This knowledge has changed my personality. Previously I assumed everyone was fundamentally good. Now I know better. I was open and friendly. Now I have stronger boundaries and I move slowly and carefully with the human species. I genetically prefer my cats !!
🤣🐈⬛🐈⬛🦋
Best wishes to you and all dear souls on this channel healing and learning boundaries 🙏
Yup. It's even more intense for them when you continue to evolve and look better than ever with some gratitude for being pushed to upgrade yourself.
I am living with one since the last 35 yrs.Please pray for me
If you feel that you are in danger or are getting abused, please leave ASAP !
Get out of it!!!! Trust me
Don't waste time, leave that place, coz you life is in danger.. believe me...Base on my experience
I lived with one for 37 years. I got out 2 years ago. It was the hardest thing I ever did. I attended suicide 4 times because I just couldn’t live with it anymore. God left me here and my life is better than I ever dreamed. Just get out. Sleeping on a mattress on the floor is better than the abuse.
I had a child with one 13 years ago and it's been straight hell. After she lied and had me arrested when our daughter was 2 years old, she then went to my company picnic and tried to get me fired. She failed at that and then became a prostitute for that very company. After I refused to get back with her she moves back to TX, I moved there to spend time with my daughter. 3 days before last Christmas she moved back to that town in another state. Finally tracked her down and we have a court date in afew days!!!! Pray for me as well smh
Thank You So Very Much For Sharing This I Needed To Hear This I Never In My Life Seen
So Much Cruelty And Evilness Until I Met A Malignant Narcissist Destroyed My Self Esteem Self Confidence And Self Worth.Narcissistic Abuse Is Beyond Cruel.Pure Evil.
Gain it back because you is victorious in the name of Christ 🙏🏽
@ Thank you 🙏
ALL NARCISSIST ARE DEMON POSSESSED.
These narcissists really can't think straight. It's so sad how simple common sense alludes them
Ah the cruel discard ! Yes I will only prosper for no weapon formed against me will win. Amen
They Failed At Everything ❤🎉
Thanks Jill!
This is so true!! The obsesse is so crazy and it doesn'tmake sense!!!💯💯
THIS IS SPOT ON 🎉
SPOT ON, THEY FAILED, 🗣️ BIG TIME
THANK YOU' LORD' JESUS & FATHER
GLORY TO ALMIGHTY GOD' 💥🌟💥
You will remember the moment you realized that they are crazy.
I just withstood the most vicious abuse, as I was protecting our 12 yo son with my full body envolving him and his father hitting me on and behind my back, just inches from the child. That's how desperate the malignant narc was, because he knew I was on the phone with 911 and the whole thing was recorded. He knew he was getting caught red handed. Still he is denying. I am going to be examined at forensics in an hour. My back is black and blue. And to this moment he still has the nerve to declare to his son that he has no idea what caused mommy's back to be bruised. That's the level of delusion. His own child witnessed mommy protecting him from daddy's beating. Then the police came and then the police handed the boy to mommy. But daddy is the real victim here you know? He is on the verge of a heart attack. Seriously! He is actually in the process of blaming his son for his health condition. Even though he knows the child was there, covered by mommy, and the kid didn't sustain injuries, mommy's back did.
Mommy will be undressing for experts in about an hour. Wish me luck. Or don't, the bruises speak for themselves.
You and your son are going to be victorious in the name of Christ 🙏🏽
God is with you. Faith, trust in God, HE will cover you and protect you. God bless.Akso, be at peace knowing that this community is behind you 💯. 🙏 🙏 🕊 🕊 ❤❤
What a horrible Beast to do that to you,I wish you all the luck and I wish him all the bad luck.God bless you and your child.❤.
What a creep. Hope he gets prosecuted to the fullest.🙏
Thank you all so much. What a wonderful community here. If only we outnumbered them we could really end all wars and make a better, safer, healthier world for our children and ourselves. Godspeed justice. 🙏
As they fail they have taught us the truth of not accepting any dis-respect
🎯
My ex came with nothing & left with everything. Divorced over 20 years from his psychopathic self. He escalated to attempted murder, yet I am still here. Only by the grace of GOD! Praying anyone going through it is relieved & grateful to be Alive! In the Beautiful name of JESUS CHRIST✨️
💜Amen🙏
Zest4life, is he locked up?
Thank God you survived ❤
Yeah, they're not morally above anything, including murder. Poisoning is way more common than people realize. Once you realize their game, it's important people don't accept food or drink from them, especially not a cup of coffee.
They'll pretend there been searching for you. Then act with FAKE concern!??? It's all a sick game they play with you...
💯 correct
Yes a Very sick individual playing games to destroy good people!!!
You're so right!! They also have to try to justify their treatment of their victims while actively in the relationship. That's when the lies get much worse They know what they're doing the whole time and they know it's wrong. When you break away from them,,they create fiction in their favour.
My mother was one, and I never understood why she was trying to destroy my life with malicious gossip about me. Now I know. She was a narcissist.
Your healing journey must be nearing the end , you look amazing , ❤
Left my father and the crazy family behind to live in Thailand for 9 years. He was so obsessed with me, he hired a private detective to find me and still didn’t believe where I had been living, even upon my return. I will never speak to any of them again! The things he and my family are doing are beyond HORRIFIC! Healing now and I know great things are coming for me! Thank you for the work that you do! It helps sooo many!!🙏🙏♥️♥️
my father was a successful man when he married my MN mother. 30 years later he was very depressed. alcoholic and homeless. Such a sweet man. Made me angry to find she actually got a kick out of his destruction. I was the scapegoat and kicked her out of my life 28 years ago and it was the best decision i have ever made..
Yes, being a scapegoat in your family is agony. 🌱☕🧡
@@anjou6497 oh yes, it never leaves. What's the hardest and particularly as man is first that people expect you to suck it up and not talk and secondly if you do people cant believe what you would tell them she did and so its easy to be type cast as a liar. Normal people cannot comprehend a mother would do these things to her own child but she never was a mother as her condition doesn't allow her to have whats required. Like empathy, kindness and the ability to love.
Our bright light shines to reveal their darkness ⭐️⭐️⭐️
I’m in the hatred zone. Have a 10 yr old daughter with her. It’s a special kind of hell.
Same. I have a 16 year old daughter with mine and she is being used as a pawn and being fed lies. I'm sure it's not healthy but I hate him more than I thought possible for how he has used our child and I guess I'll do my healing in Hell.
I am not destroyed .but I felt his intent
Had sow many of them,but i knew my purpose,witch is my child,😢he saved my life not to give up.Thank you
Same here, and he still thinks because I gave up my investments and in heritance to him that he should get it all. Even my PTSD won't stop me from exposing his abuse. He took my family assets but the grandchildren lost more than he will be able to cover with lies. He willl never change but he said "I can't stand to see you happy"...... His problem!
Sounds like my MIL. I stopped letting her get to me after my kids were born and hubby keeps her at a distance. Anytime we get together she ignores me. It’s pretty sad to see another adult act like that.
Now that's motivational. I also take comfort in knowing she will NEVER be happy.
“Deep seated hatred” spot on! You can cut that kind of tension with a knife. I thought things were bad before i started effectively standing up for myself. Boy! It turned up after that but, there’s no doubt now where her allegiances lie. Not with me or our relationship, to say the least.
Thank you for pointing this out. People need to hear this 🙏
Have had their smear campaigns more than once.my ex is out to destroy me where I loose everything
I stay in a "Narracissits" mind forever ever and ever the presence of a empath a "supply" YES! 🙂
Thanks for message. Let all negativity sent to me be returned back to sender all Narcissist behavior. . Thanks for deliverance and guidance oh God. Amen
Doesn't matter what the have stolen from you, and a no contact order means nothing. I am in the hated stage. Pounds on my door at 2:00am in the morning. His abuse got worse yet he always said, " I will spend you into homelessness."
So, stay with me and take my abuse or I will....
When he bangs on the door call the police 🙏🏽
Buy some door camera , they easy and not to expencive ❤
So true!
They NEVER let you go - in their minds, they have captured you forever. I broke up with a bad, bad, bad narcissistic girlfriend and I saw her in the supermarket maybe 10-years later. She dissociated - as her eyes went glassy - and her car keys were shaking in her hands like jingle bells. I saw that it could never be over for her.
And they succeeded at that. Good job. U won.
God love you ❤️🙏🏽
Great information thank you so much and blessings to all of the Narc victims out there, love and light ❤❤❤❤❤
God loves you
Right on point 👉👉👉
That's perfect!!! I never realized it like this before but that's what it's all about with them!! Omg, I'm so excited, they're going to hate me so much more in a very short time!!!😂
We need to learn to not only accept but embrace feelings of unpopularity, because that's what the narc is going to do, make it so massive amounts of funds are withdrawn from our self esteem bank accounts.
Not me I'm thriving more than I ever have 4 month's after running a million miles away from her. Just know that you're innocent and all you did wrong was love a demon disguised as a saint grieve, heal and take your life back and let them live in there little personal hell loop.
If you have survived all three like me ... trust and believe what Jill is saying right here. 🌈
I’ve had a narcissistic stalker since 2007. Used to be childhood friends. Tried to smear campaign me with my CEO, pres, VP of my company, tried to get into my house, still to this day tries every once in awhile when she gets bored. We are almost 50 years old & it still continues.
Concering the abusive narcissist, nothings more important than him getting caught and scrutinized for all his hidden abuse. I would like a front row seat to at least see a bit of what I went through for that evil narc to taste, process or digest the intensity of feeling the raw pain that he put me through just so mr stupid will get it to know what he did to me.
You are victorious in the name of Jesus Christ 🙏🏽
I still have to deal with a divorce but his legal blindness won't go unseen.
Its insane ive walked away from my so called family. Who treat me with hate and contempt...its like there in a cult governed by my mother..
Same here, Kelly 😞
Good morning, i was happy to see a new one. That's profound, triggering indeed but in a good way. That to me speaks volumes about the colour and tone of why you went through that. Any of you, could be me, you, or anyone else. We're talking emotional harm here. The narcissist can be hard to bag when you tend to show up empathetic, supportive, understanding, you can become ALL IN with somebody else's deep seeded mental health, or personality disorder issues. 🤢Wicked dangerous if you ask me. Anybody who doesn't make some kind of money or have a way to make ends meet can be tricked into thinking you are enough. They just wanna be with you. I mean sure, you will find the type that latches on like a sea lamprey or leach, but more often than not, the egotistical, needy, lying, back stabbing, aggressive, manipulator is doing the bidding. ❤I think these daily messages are like pure medicine, in that they remind us to remain firm. They encourage wellness and definitely help.
Being raised by a narcissist gave me valuable insight, especially on the detrimental consequences of staying in long term relationship with one.I witnessed my mother's the gradual and painful decline at the hands of my father's constant mind games, affairs and betrayals. He has mastered the art of using HER against herself, many people now view her in bad light, and him as faultless and untarnished. She still desperately holds on 45yrs...
I suffered for years, i thank the LORD, for His Saving Grace. AMEN!
Destroyed life and spirt. (1) Abuse, (2) cruel discard (3) smear campaign. Deep seeded hatred.
I got away from my friend, the "narcissist." Thank goodness! But, I have flashbacks from things they did to me 40 years ago 😮. Now, when do those stop🤔.
I have started praying about things like this. I don't think a therapist can touch the deepest wounds for me
Wow. . Thank you. .yes the determination to destroy with the divorce covered every dimension of living reality and the smear extended to all 4 corners of the earth. 27 years after divorce the revenge continues. Increadable venom
Because..... With all soull, psyche and mind i have recovered! And recovery goes on. This seems to boomerang himself
So true, I did go through this painful situation with them.
Guao! esto es salvajemente cierto!!!👏👏👏
I needed this supportive vid of it's my ex is a stalking conman evil foreign narcissist he refuses to let me be in peace he started a smear campaign I'm tired of this man
Yes ! Thank you Jill !
Sad to say, but that's the exact conclusion that I drew about my now deceased narcissistic father. I took his best shots, and child of his nine who beat him. Only college graduate and the only one with a professional job.
My ex taught me blocking someone's email doesn't really block it, just throws it in the spam file. He went from trying to make me feel like I didn't matter anyways, to trying to guilt me by claiming I destroyed HIS life to trying to convince me police were looking for me because it successfully scared me before. It was actually a good thing because he actually revealed him and his psycho best friend have no idea where I am.
Seven years together & engaged to my male narcissist. i suffered myocardial infarction ( heart attack ) & a stemi ( stent ) . He discarded me ( off course ) & im still alive 🙂
💯 correct.. I pray for their souls in spite of their hate.. it helps me too! I see it for the mental dis-ease that it is.. very sad.. I am no contact that’s the only way to move forward 🙏
Tahnk you.
Exactly
She’s spot on. I’m a very stubborn person and god almighty I dug deep to dump the idiot and put myself back together. I turned to god for help (those who don’t believe in god ask the universe for help) 2 years on and 7 new partners later he’s back again now stalking me. Was hoping one of his new partners would encourage him to leave me alone, but no such luck yet.
Amen Thank You..
This happens with a covert narc also. But GOD!!!! Go no contact as soon as possible to break your cognitive dissonance with the narc, set boundaries, pray for delivernce to severe that soul tie, fast, praise & worship, practice gratitude. Your healing is your Superpower.
They sometimes try harder finding different strategies!
I'm an ever present reminder to a few people!😅
No weapon formed against me shall prosper.
They won the illusion, but i won the reality.
When someone tells you never go back after you get out, believe them. They are in it to destroy you. Love yourself more.❤
I know the narc will never stop hunting. Mine has smeared me viciously for years to anyone who’ll listen. I’ve kept meticulous records of traps and provocations set in desperate attempts to get any reaction out of me. She thinks anything happening to me is either all about her or must be disrupted to create chaos. Evil and ugly.
It’s a shame my last comment was deleted. I was making a very good point. Maybe I worded it wrong. Narcissism awareness and actually dealing with this issue would stop a lot of the problems in this country.
Thank you father God amen 😊❤
I need help to get away from my abuser. I don’t have a place to go. He owes me money and he is pushing me away. I feel humiliated and hurt.
Oh this is deep deep
No weapon formed against shall prosper
10000%👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
I've survived the severe abuse, an attempt to run me over in a parking lot during a custody exchange, the brutal smear campaign, turning my kids against me, and after the abuser had a near fatal heart attack he spent his time in the hospital looking up the name of my one of my relatives on line, to connect one of my kids with my abusive parents that I went no contact with decades ago (due to their severe abuse.) Before he died he wanted to make sure to get at least one more cruel dig in on me. He had no concern for the trauma my kids went through, witnessing the heart attack while they were alone with him, or the aftermath of him being unconscious for a month, and in the hospital and rehab for months. The priority while being in the hospital was making sure my kid was connected with my deeply abusive parents.
Got stronger, happier.
His hatred ran deep. It was greater than anything else. It consumed him. He failed to destroy me. The discard. The smear campaign. Alot of people still believe all his lies but you know what? I walked away. I let people go. People I knew for over 20 years. Gone. My home. Gone. I changed jobs. I moved. I removed myself completely from the drama. Andddd...he still hated me and they still talk crap about me. Here I am thriving, loving my family and friends, my career. God has blessed me beyond belief. I have never experienced this much peace in my whole life and I'm 57. It only gets better!! Be strong. Pray. Walk. Start a new hobby. Get therapy. There is a beautiful life out there. Don't allow him/her to take your strength. IT'S YOURS.
This is very true. I was trying so hard to be able to leave quietly but it was impossible because mostly everything in the house was mine. The day I came home with boxes, things took a turn for the very worst. But at this point I had 3 days until the movers arrived. So I just started packing. This man got on the phone and literally made up lies about me. He told people he was in fear of his life because I had a gun. (I'm a licensed carrier). He told people I threatened him, which was a lie. He even called law enforcement and told them the same thing. But they knew it was a lie. He called them 3x, trying to have me arrested. The day before I left, he tried to kill one of my dogs by trying to give him a handful of human prescription meds. The next day, after the movers came and went with all my stuff, as I was pulling out of the driveway, I felt like I was escaping Hell, finally.
True! 🙌🏼🌺
True💯%
Truth!
I’m pretty sure he hates me. I finally divorced him after 31 yrs. I am in the place we’ve lived in for 20 yrs, a small mobile home I had him sign over to me and receiving court ordered alimony . He also has a criminal protection order against him for 3 yrs for assaulting me. Been divorced a lil over 4 months now
I'm no expert on relationships but I would pretty much conclusively say that anyone that physically assaults you would almost certainly hate you. I became a licensed gun owner when I endured the same thing as you. Keep yourself safe.
THE GURU😂 THANK YOU SO.MUCH❤😂🎉 HAPPY HOLIDAYS 2924-25
When a Narcissist fail through slander, crulity and triangulation...
They may decide to graduate to Psycopath, beware!
She tried but failed and will always fail. Reason why I ran from this horrible relationship. Never thought someone could be so cruel. Being an Empath it would never work with a Narcissist. Mean people suck and it's sad finally knowing who they truly are. Even now after all the cruelty and lies. I still wish her the best.
That's what they do, guess what you're not going to win God got me covered
They tell so many lies that I'm followed daily by the local police, around supermarkets by security and to work. They have people trying to provoke me in the stores trying to prove I'm the problem. I've already moved once, I'm ready to move again but cannot run forever. The pd is convinced that I am the problem because they are so connected. Drones scour the skies at night. It is instance. I moved away from them almost 2 years ago. A little help would be great. All I can do is keep recording but its of little use when the cops think that I am the actual bad guy. Unbelievable.
I would start planning to leave the country for your peace.
@@Lori1Cor15 Seriously? I don't run away from my problems. I deal with them as they arise.
@@EMTru-999 But leaving the country is dealing with your problem. It's not that you're running away, it's that you're moving out of range of your narcs ability to interfere with you further. Narcissists are generally very lazy & cheap. They're not going to invest much time or money following you abroad just for "supply", they'll instead put their focal point on someone else.
Love yes
Youareright😊baby amen 🙏 😊yesgod 🙏
That’s scary to me
God Above GOD Below good morning we pray GOD is my father ❤️ 🙏🏽Amen
indeed. the female literally runs away when they see me.
He threw himself on the street badly cut he told police it was me ,i am now on charges its costing me a lot of money ,
This was my mother. When her manipulation didn’t work she went on a hate vendetta and spread lies to get revenge to anyone who would listen.
God be the glory
Oh well! Moving on with my life.
He knows he can't. He knows I'm a chosen one and is angry because he knows he can't destroy me. He hates to see me happy and at peace.