I also enjoy being single. I enjoy my peace. Women need to learn to enjoy being single. Because there are so many nuts out there that will definitely force them.
Truth!!! It happened to me., 24 years of marriage down the drain. Well, I will not say down the drain. Because many wonderful things happened during that time as well. The investment yielded a return, it was just not the return that I was expecting or focused on. And even though the investment wasn’t what I was focused on, my return was and is priceless! It was the gift of genuinely loving and knowing myself; Can’t put a price on that! Amazing! Love yourselves ladies!❤️ Almost 9 years single. I am enjoying, developing and loving myself, while teaching others how to do the same!!!! Life is good.. so very thankful. 🙏🏽😇❤️
A side person cannot come into a relationship unless someone in the relationship opens the door. A person that wants to be with their partner won't open the door for side flings. They keep the boundaries to ensure they are not allowing anyone else in their face. While yeah the side chicks/men shouldn't volunteer their services but to be real they don't owe the main relationship any more respect than the person that is committed to it.
@@sharinamccadd7556I think it’s more about the women respecting themselves. Who wants to be a secret ? Or 2nd place? Most married men don’t leave their wives. 🤷🏽♀️
@@wildhearts242they leave if the married woman gives them a reason. For example, husband has been cheating but then wife cheats. Husband may then consider leaving. If she never ‘does what he does’ he may not see a reason to leave. Moral is, if he can still benefit from both parties he will. If he begins to loose, he will retreat until further notice. Men leave women and women leave men.
Once you have a sexual relationship with someone that is automatically become a soul tie! Never the less soul ties can be broken if the person does not want to be a walking step tool to that person, and say enough is enough. Soul ties can be Broken with the Help of God, and the Holy Spirt! Break Every Chain!!
When I was single I met a guy he claimed he was single. As soon as I found out he had a woman on top of that pregnant girl I walked away quickly. He tried and tried to get me back but girl that’s a big hell no. But what’s crazy I wasn’t even upset about it.
So what made you so passionate about this? You seem really really upset. Side chicks are real women but so are wives. Now I understand that sometimes happens because women are lied to. But the women that make me mad Are the ones that know someone is married like you said and they go after him anyway. Because the wife is working, take care of kids, paying bills, cooking and doing things lwives do. She is being the help mate that she was created to be. But the man gets some extra money Then instead of taking his wife out he has money to take his side chick out and pay for her shopping and her nails and whatever else she wants. I don’t hate on anybody but once you find out you’re the side chick you really have to move on.
Side chicks should not be with people in relationships. People in relationships should leave when they are being cheated on. People should not cheat on significant others.
This is a never ending argument. Some women/men tend to include blame to the third party but let's think about this: You met someone and you liked them but deep inside something was telling you "this person is not the one" you didn't listen and proceeded to matrimony. Or you got married and because of past bad relationships you basically sabotaged your own marriage. Or maybe the two of you or one of you are just too young or immature, etc. Before you say "I do" know who you are, make sure emotionally you are whole, that way you see a no no coming way before they open their mouth.
I heard some women will know about the main chick but they don’t care. All because Betty Wright said I rather have a little man instead than nothing at all. Bih a lie.
Can you phrase it as "I have a side dick" rather than being a side chick? It shows that you didn't choose the man but that he chose you and labelled you
They become side chicks cuzz they would rather share a married man than date a normal single man. These women want to date out of their league. But Kevin wants to blame the men
He's not lying it happened to me a guy I worked with. Ik I'm a hard shell to crack and I said I'd never be with anyone else's man. He even invited me to his house whom he shared with his wife. I was with him for 8mos and our coworker finally told me he was married. So nah it's not a lie most men are lying, cheating, manipulative bastards.
I would rather cry by myself than to give my energy to vampires.
That’s a word
Exactly, I prefer remaining married to Jesus. Life never gets boring and all my desires come true ☺️❤️🙏🏾
It's called a soul tie most people dont see it coming til it's late in the relationship.But Kev is on point with his message
Oh no way woww this legit
I also enjoy being single. I enjoy my peace. Women need to learn to enjoy being single. Because there are so many nuts out there that will definitely force them.
When you said they strike on that lonely day when you're weak.. I died laughing 😭🤣🤣🤣 it's so true.. men will wait you out.
Truth!!! It happened to me., 24 years of marriage down the drain. Well, I will not say down the drain. Because many wonderful things happened during that time as well.
The investment yielded a return, it was just not the return that I was expecting or focused on.
And even though the investment wasn’t what I was focused on, my return was and is priceless!
It was the gift of genuinely loving and knowing myself; Can’t put a price on that! Amazing!
Love yourselves ladies!❤️ Almost 9 years single. I am enjoying, developing and loving myself, while teaching others how to do the same!!!!
Life is good.. so very thankful.
🙏🏽😇❤️
A side person cannot come into a relationship unless someone in the relationship opens the door. A person that wants to be with their partner won't open the door for side flings. They keep the boundaries to ensure they are not allowing anyone else in their face. While yeah the side chicks/men shouldn't volunteer their services but to be real they don't owe the main relationship any more respect than the person that is committed to it.
I agree, if he don't respect his own relationship why should the women.
@@sharinamccadd7556I think it’s more about the women respecting themselves. Who wants to be a secret ? Or 2nd place? Most married men don’t leave their wives. 🤷🏽♀️
Shit yes they do, I hear lots of stories where the Man leaves. But I understand.
@@wildhearts242they leave if the married woman gives them a reason. For example, husband has been cheating but then wife cheats. Husband may then consider leaving. If she never ‘does what he does’ he may not see a reason to leave.
Moral is, if he can still benefit from both parties he will. If he begins to loose, he will retreat until further notice. Men leave women and women leave men.
This message is on point bro I been at this table till I got my senses
I was really hurt when i found out. Never looking back, no thank you.
The big brother I never had 😢
lol...tear drops out of ur eye and into your ear...sounds llike experience
one more finger movement. Lol!
Not the tear drop in the ear 😂 wow the accuracy!
People need to have more self respect and self love.
Oh you preaching on this one!
Please come out with a book!
Desperation is unattractive....
No it never feels right you start to feel sick. Happiest when single 💃🏽I already tried all the wrong men. If he's not right good bye.
The days of morals and value in oneself need to return. That is to God himself.
Once you have a sexual relationship with someone that is automatically become a soul tie! Never the less soul ties can be broken if the person does not want to be a walking step tool to that person, and say enough is enough. Soul ties can be Broken with the Help of God, and the Holy Spirt! Break Every Chain!!
When I was single I met a guy he claimed he was single. As soon as I found out he had a woman on top of that pregnant girl I walked away quickly. He tried and tried to get me back but girl that’s a big hell no. But what’s crazy I wasn’t even upset about it.
Yellow part on his wife beater lmbo
This is for weak women. A mature woman knows this already. You can’t fool every woman and those women who becomes a side chick weak AF.
Mizpah!!!!! Haven't heard that in several years!!!!! Thanks for the reminder, Kev!!!!
So what made you so passionate about this? You seem really really upset. Side chicks are real women but so are wives. Now I understand that sometimes happens because women are lied to. But the women that make me mad Are the ones that know someone is married like you said and they go after him anyway. Because the wife is working, take care of kids, paying bills, cooking and doing things lwives do. She is being the help mate that she was created to be. But the man gets some extra money Then instead of taking his wife out he has money to take his side chick out and pay for her shopping and her nails and whatever else she wants. I don’t hate on anybody but once you find out you’re the side chick you really have to move on.
Side chicks should not be with people in relationships. People in relationships should leave when they are being cheated on. People should not cheat on significant others.
This is a never ending argument. Some women/men tend to include blame to the third party but let's think about this: You met someone and you liked them but deep inside something was telling you "this person is not the one" you didn't listen and proceeded to matrimony. Or you got married and because of past bad relationships you basically sabotaged your own marriage. Or maybe the two of you or one of you are just too young or immature, etc. Before you say "I do" know who you are, make sure emotionally you are whole, that way you see a no no coming way before they open their mouth.
100% Facts!
😂😂😂😂😂😂 c'mon in 🤦🏾♀️
The truth teller aka Kevin. I love your videos. You're funny as eva. I hate when people drive and go live tho.
Not the finger hole lol 😆
FACTS!
I took psy sexual, check. Even spit has germs, get the book and look at the diseases. Thank GOD I ❤ myself
It never goes away
Lol U are right
This is so true omg 😳
Mrs Jody the wife-in-law
Call out Kev!!!
I heard some women will know about the main chick but they don’t care. All because Betty Wright said I rather have a little man instead than nothing at all. Bih a lie.
Yep 👍
Isaiah 4:1
My man cheat and i catch him with evidence but he will deny until with his straight face and come up with a story that does not make sense.
Teal talk loneliness is a motherfuc@@@@
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I became a sidechick by choice i have a man as well helps our sex life we love it
2 Words: Blue Waffle
That's called swingers!!
isnt that being a swinger if everyone agrees
Can you phrase it as "I have a side dick" rather than being a side chick? It shows that you didn't choose the man but that he chose you and labelled you
They become side chicks cuzz they would rather share a married man than date a normal single man. These women want to date out of their league. But Kevin wants to blame the men
He's not lying it happened to me a guy I worked with. Ik I'm a hard shell to crack and I said I'd never be with anyone else's man. He even invited me to his house whom he shared with his wife. I was with him for 8mos and our coworker finally told me he was married. So nah it's not a lie most men are lying, cheating, manipulative bastards.
So the men shouldn’t share the blame?
Cherise Davidson - the men don’t see it as a problem. So no. They’re not going to do anything about it
A cheating man is not out of any woman's league ..he's trash !