The second he knows you really care about him he will start to Play you. Not answering your calls and texts staying out late and picking fights to leave knowing your gonna cry and do whatever to keep him. Drop him No contact the second he starts to switch up. Don't fight or cry for him go into ice mode ladies. 💯
You can always pretend to care about him early to watch him switch up early and then get him out of here early. Or better yet, just charge him for every interaction and then when he doesn't want to pay anymore you block him.
Seriously!!! Celibacy is much easier than all the precautions being prescribed about hypervigilance, prenups, hidden accounts, psychiatric dates....OMG!!! No one's son is worth all that BS; count me out!
Im married, and I believe this. Some women believe that just because they are married, they are fine. History has proven otherwise. Aleays have your own resources and a Plan B. Have a pre-nup, dont mix finances and dont have kids unless are prepared to deal with that person for 20 yrs and raising your kid alone.
Actually, it's the opposite: to stay single & celibate is not for the weak! It's takes a lot of willpower to turn against societal expectations of dating/marriage!😏😒😏😒
For some people. Unfortunately there are many people who can’t stand to be with themselves. Who need attention or validation from others to have a good time. Those who can’t sit and watch a movie alone will definitely struggle to stay single. But for the ones of us who love hanging out with ourselves and we are our own best friends, it’s very easy to stay single. I’d take the occasional uncomfortable “when are you gonna find someone” conversations any day over a tumultuous relationship where you have to stress everyday making sure you’re good enough for the person you’re with.
I can hardly call them men if they switch up its lame, boring, and ridiculous if there that unhappy don't get into a relationship in the first place. I dont understand why they keep pushing family's on women when they're broke. It's very hard for me not to flip out on men like this because you know they don't care about you if they were in a good place and they could support themselves they wouldn't give you a chance they would walk right by you like they didn't see you. So don't trust any of them even the ones that are really consistent they might blind side you too.
I don't understand what the point is though. Like yes, always be prepared for what is likely, but why on earth would you engage and invest in the first place when you don't have to? This doesn't sound like a good time to me. It is stressful and just a burden to always keep in the back of your mind. So I'm going to continue to stay single 🫡✨️ There is so much peace and happiness in this life I've built for myself, and it's only getting better with time. I get asked out quite a bit, but I just say no. Like I don't understand why people act like you have to fight a losing battle or enter a stupid game in the first place. You can choose peace, lmao!
You like the fake mask he put on. He don't exist. The person you see now is the real him. Keep looking at the real him so you can snap out of the spell he put you under!
Why do you still like him? What makes him so great in your eyes? I ask because its fsr too easy to convince us as women to "like/fall in love" with men, all they have to do is give us a few compliments, make us feel "special" and give a few nice/romantic gestures and we're hooked. Women view nen through the kens of this fairytale, Prince Charming image instead of seeing males for who they actually are.
@Sasha-zl1xr I agree. Not sure. Bad attachment style. Very physically attracted to him. Loneliness. Takes a lot for me to fall for someone. He made me feel sooo good. I have to get over him though 🙂
@@vicm5272 Thank you for your honesty, you can do it! I've been there myself, so this is in no way me speaking as if I did better. We're often in a very vulnerable state or broken down to a vulnerable state and this is what most males prey on.
I ran into too many men that have been marroed 10plus years that are waiting for the chance to leave their wives.
Wives have no idea.
I believe it
I believe it too, we must always stay vigilant👀
That perfect opportunity they're waiting for is when she falls sick.
The second he knows you really care about him he will start to Play you. Not answering your calls and texts staying out late and picking fights to leave knowing your gonna cry and do whatever to keep him. Drop him No contact the second he starts to switch up. Don't fight or cry for him go into ice mode ladies. 💯
Yesss!! I messed up and I gave too much love energy and I know he felt that then, he switched up fast and I had to block and delete. 😂😅
You can always pretend to care about him early to watch him switch up early and then get him out of here early. Or better yet, just charge him for every interaction and then when he doesn't want to pay anymore you block him.
Stay single and decenter men
💯🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾💪🏾
4B all the way.
Seriously!!! Celibacy is much easier than all the precautions being prescribed about hypervigilance, prenups, hidden accounts, psychiatric dates....OMG!!! No one's son is worth all that BS; count me out!
Married woman, here, and she's right. We've seen and heard from way too many women that have had men switch up on them and trap them.
Im married, and I believe this. Some women believe that just because they are married, they are fine. History has proven otherwise. Aleays have your own resources and a Plan B. Have a pre-nup, dont mix finances and dont have kids unless are prepared to deal with that person for 20 yrs and raising your kid alone.
Exactly 💯🎯
Exactly! 💯💯
That's exactly right
I agree.
Same advice my dad taught me in my teenage years.
All teenaged girls should see this. Share it.
I’ve had this mentality since before I even knew what a boyfriend or husband was. My father taught me.
Even if u date or marry, you have to move and plan like you're single or could be at any moment. May as well be 4B cuz that math don't add up!
I agree. And always keep a hidden bank account💯
Best advice ❤❤
Dr Jeckell and Mister Hyde in every single one....your so taken back 😮
Yup!💯🧐
Yeah it's a mind bomb.
He provoked me for narcissistic supply, I cussed his mother and sister out 😂
Hope he likes that.
Actually, it's the opposite: to stay single & celibate is not for the weak! It's takes a lot of willpower to turn against societal expectations of dating/marriage!😏😒😏😒
100%
Really? Wasn’t for me. Was literally born that way and ignored the dumb dumbs.
@@magnarcreed3801 👍🏾🙌🏾💯
For some people. Unfortunately there are many people who can’t stand to be with themselves. Who need attention or validation from others to have a good time. Those who can’t sit and watch a movie alone will definitely struggle to stay single. But for the ones of us who love hanging out with ourselves and we are our own best friends, it’s very easy to stay single. I’d take the occasional uncomfortable “when are you gonna find someone” conversations any day over a tumultuous relationship where you have to stress everyday making sure you’re good enough for the person you’re with.
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These people could just get friends. Or be platonic partners with other women.
It’s just a fact of life .. I just take it as just be prepared, it’s not a negative thinking , it’s just being prepared when they start the shit.
The spiritual whistleblower will tell it to you straight every time!
I say It's better 2 be safe than sorry, but u can play yourself as gullible.🧐💯
I can hardly call them men if they switch up its lame, boring, and ridiculous if there that unhappy don't get into a relationship in the first place. I dont understand why they keep pushing family's on women when they're broke.
It's very hard for me not to flip out on men like this because you know they don't care about you if they were in a good place and they could support themselves they wouldn't give you a chance they would walk right by you like they didn't see you. So don't trust any of them even the ones that are really consistent they might blind side you too.
I don't understand what the point is though. Like yes, always be prepared for what is likely, but why on earth would you engage and invest in the first place when you don't have to? This doesn't sound like a good time to me. It is stressful and just a burden to always keep in the back of your mind. So I'm going to continue to stay single 🫡✨️ There is so much peace and happiness in this life I've built for myself, and it's only getting better with time. I get asked out quite a bit, but I just say no. Like I don't understand why people act like you have to fight a losing battle or enter a stupid game in the first place. You can choose peace, lmao!
😅 yep she's correct. 💯
A man did this to me at work 😢. I was honestly shocked and suffered high anxiety levels. It was cruel but damn i still like him 😔
You like the fake mask he put on. He don't exist. The person you see now is the real him. Keep looking at the real him so you can snap out of the spell he put you under!
Why do you still like him? What makes him so great in your eyes? I ask because its fsr too easy to convince us as women to "like/fall in love" with men, all they have to do is give us a few compliments, make us feel "special" and give a few nice/romantic gestures and we're hooked. Women view nen through the kens of this fairytale, Prince Charming image instead of seeing males for who they actually are.
@Sasha-zl1xr I agree. Not sure. Bad attachment style. Very physically attracted to him. Loneliness. Takes a lot for me to fall for someone. He made me feel sooo good. I have to get over him though 🙂
@@vicm5272 Thank you for your honesty, you can do it! I've been there myself, so this is in no way me speaking as if I did better. We're often in a very vulnerable state or broken down to a vulnerable state and this is what most males prey on.
@@vicm5272 Been there, stay strong. It's not worth losing your self respect and dignity over.
Be careful posting her, she has her own UA-cam channel. She could copyright you up