How to Live with Someone You Don't Like - People You Don't Like - Monica Gupta

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  • Опубліковано 10 січ 2025

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  • @stefenawillson263
    @stefenawillson263 4 роки тому +16

    I got maried in 2013 for 5years there was lot of problems in the hous ,i was not knwing how to handle the situation, nw it was great for me to handle life after watching ur videos ,i feel like god sent angel to teach me

  • @vandanachaudhary1851
    @vandanachaudhary1851 5 років тому +73

    Hello mam..mai yhi krti hu ..Avoid krti hu situation ko..Kyuki mere sanskar aise nhi hai..Hm sirf apne behaviour ko control kr skte hai..Kisi aur ke nhi..Par bura tb lgta hai jb samne wala muhh pe taunt marta hai..Aur fir khud normal ho jata hai..Vo gussa hmare andar reh jata hai..

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  5 років тому +1

      ua-cam.com/video/vUNa4QndOs4/v-deo.html

    • @darshitabhatia9668
      @darshitabhatia9668 5 років тому +15

      Same condition vandana ji.or jab husband b support na kare na samjhe vo b inlows k sath milke aisa kare to ek wife kaha jaye frasted hoti rahe

    • @monikadhiman7246
      @monikadhiman7246 5 років тому +3

      Same here yr ..Koi solution hi nhi hai ..

    • @sunillohar1803
      @sunillohar1803 5 років тому +1

      Mere sath bhi yhi hota he

    • @darshitabhatia9668
      @darshitabhatia9668 4 роки тому +2

      Same mere sath hota hai

  • @PramilaSana
    @PramilaSana 3 роки тому +12

    Thank you mam, I got my answers.. 😊.. No Reaction, no negativity, be happy and busy with self...

  • @crochetarte
    @crochetarte 5 років тому +21

    मैम जी सच में आपकी सारी वीडियो.... खुद में बेमिसाल ही होती हैं.... और आपका ये प्रयास काफी सराहनीय है़ 👌👌👌👌👍👍👍👍👏👏👏👏आपकी वजह से ही मैम जी कई लोगों के सम्बन्ध अपने परिवार से अच्छे हुए हैं l मैम जी अब मैं किसी को भी गलत नहीं समझती ,सबका अपना-अपना स्वभाव होता है़ ,पर हाँ हमें अपनी तरफ से सिर्फ अच्छा ही करना चाहिए ,सच में जब से आपसे जुड़ी हूँ मैम जी, सोच ही बदल गयी है़, मैं ये सोचती हूँ ,कोई भी इन्सान बुरा नहीं होता बस उनकी सोच हमसे अलग होती है़ ,परिस्थितियाँ ही किसी को बुरा या अच्छा बनाती हैं ,नापसंद इन्सान नहीं होते, उनकी आदतें होती हैं ,हम अपने अच्छे व्यवहार से ,किसी की भी सोच को ,बदल भी सकते हैं ,है़ ना मैम जी ,बेहतरीन वीडियो के लिए सस्नेह धन्यवाद मैम जी l🤗🤗😍😍❤

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  5 років тому +2

      बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद😊😊

  • @krishnapandey8238
    @krishnapandey8238 4 роки тому +3

    Mere sath me bhi bahut aisa hota tha par maine yahi tarika sahi samjha sab kuchh sahi karne k liye ki jaha jaruri ho vaha boliye aur jis jagah jarurat na ho chup rahna sikhiye .. kai bar chup rahna aur khud par dhyan dena bahut sari problems ko tal deti hai 😌💐

  • @sitamohapatra5062
    @sitamohapatra5062 3 роки тому +1

    Mind ko change kar dia mam..I love soo much mam.. my mother

  • @AnuSharma-er7wq
    @AnuSharma-er7wq 11 місяців тому +2

    aaj jaise hi phone uthaya aap ki ye video sbse uper thi ,aisa lga ki bhagwan ne mere mn ki baat aap ke dwara smjhai thanks

  • @vandanarana6164
    @vandanarana6164 5 років тому +2

    Fair point. I would say you have always expectations from your close one, the one you love the most or you do not want to lose and which is fine. You cannot expect something from the strangers. If you are living in joint family it's rude if you are not talking to that person or you hate them . Instead you can talk to them and try to build on that relation. Understand what that person expect from you and act accordingly and then they will also understand you. In relations I think one should not give up though you can restrict your limits how much talk is needed as per the behaviour of that person ? One day that person will realise and will definitely talk and have strong relation with you. Be positive and do not get affected by the situation. Sometimes you may feel low but that's okay everything is not permanent.

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  5 років тому

      Thanks Vandana Rana 🙏🏻🙂

  • @divyarajpoot9262
    @divyarajpoot9262 5 років тому +3

    Very good video mam jab bhi man negative thought ki taraf jata h to aapki video drkh leti hu bahut positivity milti h aap bahut aacha samjatr ho mam thank u aapki voice hi itni pyari h ki aapko sun kar hi bahut accha lagta h mam

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  5 років тому

      Thanks divya rajpoot 🙏🏻🙂💐

  • @ashishchaudhary3021
    @ashishchaudhary3021 4 роки тому +1

    Bhut badiya mam...aapki baat karne ka teeka dil chu jata h ..main aapki baton ko apnane ki koshish karti hun🙏 thanks for your precious view

  • @nswastika9925
    @nswastika9925 5 років тому +8

    Thank you for this 🙂 we shouldn't keep our expectations..

  • @vinodraghuvanshi5452
    @vinodraghuvanshi5452 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you bhat acche se aap sehjta se smjhate h aap ki

  • @gyandeepkkr7439
    @gyandeepkkr7439 5 років тому +1

    मेरा जीवन तो सत्संग ने बदला को पहले किसी के भी सत्संग से नहीं बदला था
    साधना tv 7:30pm से 8:30pm
    और बुक जीने की राह ने बहुत प्रेरणा दी

  • @MoinShaikh-y8w
    @MoinShaikh-y8w 9 місяців тому +2

    Masha Allah i will try

  • @vaishnavijadhav5632
    @vaishnavijadhav5632 Рік тому +1

    Thank you aap ke video bahut helpful hai ❤️

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  Рік тому

      Thanks @vaishnavijadhav5632 🙏🏻🙂

  • @anvitasengal8601
    @anvitasengal8601 3 роки тому +2

    i show this first time and aapki salah bhi suni ek gharme rehnevali but ma'am galti na ho expect bhi na kare aur badi bat simpali normal behaviour ke bavjud vo to hamare satha bura karne ka jid rakhe hue hote he tab bahot hurt hota he

  • @RiyaBaby-c7w
    @RiyaBaby-c7w Рік тому +1

    Sahi bat hai mam abse bhot kuch sikne ko mila

  • @navjotsingh5267
    @navjotsingh5267 5 років тому +4

    Nice video 👍but zindgi muskil tab ho jati h jab hamri life k design aur log layty h.😊

  • @nishimogha0022
    @nishimogha0022 4 роки тому +1

    Really... respectfully talk kre and always happens feel kren.... thanks ma'am 🙏 your talking style soooooo nice ❤️💯

  • @manjupandey7471
    @manjupandey7471 5 років тому +1

    बहुत सुंदर प्रेरणा लेने वाली लाइन धन्यवाद

  • @lkumar6541
    @lkumar6541 5 років тому +2

    Very nice mam. Aapke sabhi video bahut ache hote hai.thank u so much

  • @beautyfood7029
    @beautyfood7029 4 роки тому +2

    thank u mam...apki vdo pehle hi dekh leti to mere liye bhut achha hota

  • @happygirl9837
    @happygirl9837 5 років тому +1

    Aap ki har baat bahot pyari our dill ko chhu jane wali hoti hai

  • @rashmisharma7206
    @rashmisharma7206 3 роки тому +2

    Thanks for the video👍 I follow your tips always 🙂

  • @sonusingh-ht6gk
    @sonusingh-ht6gk 5 років тому +7

    Mam aap aur aapki baten dono great h

  • @preetikaaroa5951
    @preetikaaroa5951 5 років тому +1

    Hooo mam ,kaise ho,bhut suljhe hue h aap, main newly married hu,jab bhi mujhe koi prblm aati ha,i to mujhe aapa hi channel hi milta h solutions ke liye. Thanks mam for guiding to evey lady to handle the situations....

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  5 років тому +1

      हमेशा खुश रहिए... 💐🍫👍🙂

  • @darpanbeautycreation5136
    @darpanbeautycreation5136 5 років тому +1

    Bahuttt badiya mam.waise m sabkooo pasand karti hu.bcz m janti hu ki har insan m kuch burai h to usme bahut achaaiii bi hoyi h. Bus hume najariya change karne ki jarurat h.or sub log mujhey bi pasand kartey hn.😚😘 thanks mam.

  • @mohanlaldwivedi8824
    @mohanlaldwivedi8824 2 роки тому +2

    *मानव पसंद नहीं करते लेकिन ईश्वर पसंद करता है
    तभी वह अपना चमत्कारी ज्ञान प्रदान करते हैं जो मानव पसंद नहीं करते वह ईश्वर के चमत्कारी ज्ञान प्राप्त नही कर पाते हैं*
    *धन्यवाद*

  • @sunitamehmi2376
    @sunitamehmi2376 3 роки тому +1

    Your guidance is best. Ì saw your video carefully. You are great adviser. You are very nice and so sweet.

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  3 роки тому

      Thanks sunita mehmi 🙏🏻🙂

  • @alkadevi5413
    @alkadevi5413 5 років тому

    nice topic mam,aise logon se aksar pala pad jata hai,chehre pe smile rkhte hain or dil me jahar bhar ke baithe rhte hain,aise log kab humri life me kya kar deng pata v nhi chalta hai😣😣😔😔

  • @jaishreeshukla5763
    @jaishreeshukla5763 5 років тому +3

    Ap bhut achhi h, har topic pe solutions deti h, u r great mem

  • @jaishreeshukla5763
    @jaishreeshukla5763 5 років тому +1

    Apke smjhane k tarika bhut behtrin h

  • @pinkykumari-jd7uw
    @pinkykumari-jd7uw 5 років тому +6

    Mere husband.meri mother in law and sister in law bahut hi achhe h maim..humari arrange marriage h fir bhi MERI life me koi interfere Nahi karta..MERI family bahut hi achhe h maim...Mai god ko thanks krti hu etni achhi family k liye...aise family sabhi ko mile........I love my family..

  • @harshikanaryani8502
    @harshikanaryani8502 4 роки тому +1

    Ap achha OR shi bolti h AK ak bat shi h

  • @PreetiSharma-cg9nq
    @PreetiSharma-cg9nq 3 роки тому +2

    Thank u so much mam🙂 mai b pariwar mai expectation nhi rakhuge kise se b khud ko change kruge....

  • @AshokKhatri-ql2rg
    @AshokKhatri-ql2rg Рік тому

    Mem aap ka last poit bhutan man ko tesele mili àj mepersan tha ise bat ko leker thanks

  • @sheikhmunisar6269
    @sheikhmunisar6269 3 роки тому +1

    Listening to your vedios gives me inspiration all the time.thanks a lot maam

  • @renunegi7585
    @renunegi7585 3 роки тому +1

    👌👌👌👌👌bhut achcha mam

  • @Anjalikumariright
    @Anjalikumariright 3 роки тому

    Ji hn mem bilkul sahi baat hai

  • @poonamnaveen4990
    @poonamnaveen4990 3 роки тому +1

    Bilkul sahi, apne ko hi badlna hota hai other wise aadmi marr bhi saktaa hai.. 😔😔🙏

  • @shyamgupta6577
    @shyamgupta6577 9 місяців тому

    Good video. Thanks

  • @narendrakumarnayak2805
    @narendrakumarnayak2805 2 роки тому +1

    Very nice mam🙏🥰

  • @simplyvidya6680
    @simplyvidya6680 5 років тому +7

    Better be patient in joint family and pray 🙏 for it that's it simple

  • @sunithakoyanazar5249
    @sunithakoyanazar5249 3 роки тому

    Thanku

  • @madhumalayadav858
    @madhumalayadav858 5 років тому +6

    Thank u so much...for such a helpful vedio.

  • @JioJeevan
    @JioJeevan 5 років тому +2

    Really your videos are very inspirational.

  • @mavshahswbwbvee2721
    @mavshahswbwbvee2721 4 роки тому +1

    Monicaji
    Good morning 🙏
    Happy women's day 👍
    Nice video

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  4 роки тому

      बहुत बहुत शुक्रिया😊👍💐

  • @DK-fi7vq
    @DK-fi7vq 4 роки тому +1

    Mam your videos r awesome & har saas buri nahi hoti aur har bahu achhi nahi hoti pehle ke time mostly saas buri hoti thi but this time mostly bahu buri hoti hai

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  4 роки тому

      अरे??

    • @DK-fi7vq
      @DK-fi7vq 4 роки тому +1

      @@MonicaGupta kuch videos mam bahu par bhi banao jo ghar pe ghar barbaad kar rahi hai paiso ke liye

  • @kalidaskhupte20
    @kalidaskhupte20 3 роки тому

    Its complicated & exuasting

  • @advocatesumanraj6764
    @advocatesumanraj6764 4 роки тому +1

    Bahut jbrdst solution dete ho ji ap Waav Osm thought

  • @poonambodra9532
    @poonambodra9532 4 роки тому +1

    Very very thankful mam

  • @MLRecord_10
    @MLRecord_10 3 роки тому

    So good topic,,, aaj logo k passions bhut kam ho gy hai.. Har baat par jagra,,,,,, Mantilty bhut kamjor ho gai hai,,, ese topic bhut jaroori hai.... Good job👍

  • @naziamk11
    @naziamk11 3 роки тому

    Yes right advice.

  • @eizioauditor1567
    @eizioauditor1567 5 років тому +5

    Mam your voice and way of talking are very sweet

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  5 років тому +1

      🙏🏻🙂

    • @neetudhawan1572
      @neetudhawan1572 4 роки тому

      @@MonicaGupta 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭👸🤴👩‍🦳👨‍🦳

  • @dr.mohandansena932
    @dr.mohandansena932 3 роки тому

    Aapki baat karne ka tarika bahut Achcha hai

  • @champaklaljoshi5650
    @champaklaljoshi5650 4 роки тому +1

    Very nice

  • @vikasyadavyadav7057
    @vikasyadavyadav7057 8 місяців тому +1

    Thanku ma'am

  • @priyankaupadhyay1314
    @priyankaupadhyay1314 4 роки тому

    Really apne man hlka kr diya

  • @raghubirsingh1850
    @raghubirsingh1850 5 років тому +1

    Respected madam really you are great your presentation is very excellent. I am thankful to you for your precious words and very informative video. Your every video is very useful and better than the other one. If you wouldn't mind I will say that your voice is also very sweet and it directly impress to everyone. God bless you and your family

  • @kushil123
    @kushil123 4 роки тому +2

    Very nice video mam👍

  • @shrutichaturvedi8367
    @shrutichaturvedi8367 5 років тому +3

    Y dislike any1? Bachpan mai kase ladte the fir dosti.. B innocent 😌😌😃

  • @indravadanbhaipatel2434
    @indravadanbhaipatel2434 4 роки тому +1

    Very nice.

  • @ManoramaaSharma951
    @ManoramaaSharma951 5 років тому +5

    Mam your words give me strength..😇

  • @kusumnial9447
    @kusumnial9447 4 роки тому +2

    Love you mam,thank you so much

  • @ranudubey8042
    @ranudubey8042 5 років тому +1

    Nice vedio mam. Very helpful for me

  • @shaliniuniyal5957
    @shaliniuniyal5957 5 років тому +1

    Nice talk, but very hard topic to solve😊

  • @radhakaushik486
    @radhakaushik486 5 років тому +1

    Thanku so much very useful information mem...

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  5 років тому

      🙏🏻🙂

    • @docspk
      @docspk 5 років тому +1

      Thanks for sharing
      If possible add spiritual value

  • @rambasnett6890
    @rambasnett6890 4 роки тому +1

    Good Job maam👍

  • @durgeshgupta3215
    @durgeshgupta3215 3 роки тому

    Veri nice mam thanku

  • @gokengeyi3306
    @gokengeyi3306 5 років тому +1

    I really love your videos monicaji....🤗🤗

  • @scotchthedog1
    @scotchthedog1 5 років тому +3

    Hello mam...good morning...nice information mam....👍👏👏

  • @shwetarastogi1340
    @shwetarastogi1340 5 років тому +2

    Maam agar koi apke sath rahta hai or wo hamesha negative baat karta hai, apke samne aap hi ke bare me indirect way me baat kare to aise insan ko kaise handle kare. Kaise usko avoide kare. Or kya is sab ke baad hume kabhi uske kam ana chahiye?

  • @nikkisagar2952
    @nikkisagar2952 5 років тому +2

    Thanks mam aapki video me hamesha dekhti hu. aap bahut hi suljhi hui lady hai. Meri mother nahi hai. Or aap sabhi rishto ke baare me kitna acha samjhati ho.

  • @umavas8262
    @umavas8262 3 роки тому

    Thank you ma'am

  • @souravkumarpati4241
    @souravkumarpati4241 5 років тому +7

    Talking style and voice both are cute maam 😊🙏👏

  • @Sonal-jr5ok
    @Sonal-jr5ok 3 роки тому

    Mam u r too good

  • @meghnapandey359
    @meghnapandey359 5 років тому +1

    Correct mam .. mai b aisa hi karti hu...

  • @ArvindKumar-or1uj
    @ArvindKumar-or1uj 4 роки тому +1

    Mam aap achhi videos bnati h thanks

  • @nandanilakhera7551
    @nandanilakhera7551 3 роки тому

    Thank you mam aap bahut acche Se Samjhe aati ho

  • @syedmuzammi2881
    @syedmuzammi2881 5 років тому +1

    Ma'am mere liye a video awsom hai thku

  • @myselfqueen5646
    @myselfqueen5646 4 роки тому

    Thank you mam bahut dension hai Ghar mein reshto se

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  4 роки тому

      क्या हुआ ?

    • @myselfqueen5646
      @myselfqueen5646 4 роки тому

      @@MonicaGupta madam Hindi me Roman English me bolo

  • @ritumonideuri3611
    @ritumonideuri3611 5 років тому +1

    thanx

  • @vinaybhardwaj9778
    @vinaybhardwaj9778 5 років тому +1

    Mam very nicely explained.

  • @sanjanakumar1148
    @sanjanakumar1148 3 роки тому +3

    How to deal with the hurt you face from cruel in laws who speak ill and wrong about you?. Hum chup toh ho jayenge par usse jo dukh hoga wo kahan le kar jayenmam?

  • @juhitapadar6042
    @juhitapadar6042 5 років тому +3

    Good information Ma'am ✨
    😍😘🤗👌👌👍👏👏🙏🙏🙏💕❤️💖💟❣️💞💝

  • @healthpharmaandupdates1182
    @healthpharmaandupdates1182 2 роки тому

    Madam, kindly answer,which Mike do u use for recording while making UA-cam videos.

  • @sanjaykadam8083
    @sanjaykadam8083 2 роки тому

    Nice clip

  • @ansh8042
    @ansh8042 4 роки тому

    Maim aapne kaha ki hame Apne face pe smile rakhni chahiye....par smile jb hm apne face par rakhte h to logo ko y lagta h ki hm normal h .... Sb kuch thik h.. to wo apni galtiyan nai thik krte...

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  4 роки тому

      तो आप क्या चाहती हैं ??

  • @raghubirsingh1850
    @raghubirsingh1850 5 років тому +2

    Really madam you are doing a great job for society

  • @talentshow77
    @talentshow77 3 роки тому +1

    Exactly ❤️❤️

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  3 роки тому

      Thanks Ravi Sharma 🙏🏻🙂

  • @harshitasingh6033
    @harshitasingh6033 5 років тому +2

    Hello mame....mai jb bhi aapki vdo dekhti hun to mujhe bhut energy milti h...thank u so much mame

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  5 років тому

      Thanks Harshita Singh 🙏🏻🙂

  • @poojajain4026
    @poojajain4026 5 років тому +1

    Bohat ache he video mam

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  5 років тому

      Thanks Pooja Jain 🙏🏻🙂

  • @PriyaMSinghYoutuber
    @PriyaMSinghYoutuber 5 років тому +1

    Thanks mem..., Apke videos Dekh Kar Mene APNI sasu ma ko samjaya .. bahut pyar SE to mem really vo man BHI gayi aur unhone mujhe suit pehnne ki BHI parmission de Di...so ..me apki bahut Thank full Hoo....love you mem....😘😘😘😘🤗

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  5 років тому +1

      अरे वाह !! ये हुई ना बात... उन्हें मेरी नमस्ते बोलिएगा...

    • @PriyaMSinghYoutuber
      @PriyaMSinghYoutuber 5 років тому

      Ji mem....🙏

    • @ranjeetaprasad3113
      @ranjeetaprasad3113 4 роки тому

      Ye aapki choice h kya pehne kya nai ye saas aur pati se poochne ki jarurat hi nahi,kyunki saas aur pati aapse pooch ke thode na pehanta hai

  • @happygirl9837
    @happygirl9837 5 років тому

    Mujhe lagta hai ki sabse achhe se bat karte hai our mujhse koi baat nahi karte matlab koi bhi baat sheyar nahi karte

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  5 років тому

      आपको ऐसा किसलिए लगता है...

  • @mickytheking
    @mickytheking 5 років тому +1

    Mam mujhe apki video nhi mil rahi h jisme tha ki "kisi k kaam ko kaise mana Kare " uska link ap bej dijiye

  • @siddhjain4160
    @siddhjain4160 5 років тому +1

    Very nice video mam thanks

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  5 років тому

      Thanks Jyoti Jain 🙏🏻🙂

    • @soumyasamarpitasamal984
      @soumyasamarpitasamal984 5 років тому

      Thanks mam

    • @siddhjain4160
      @siddhjain4160 5 років тому

      @@MonicaGupta wow mam aap ne mujay reply kiya bahut acha laga main Thailand bangkok se hu aap ka har video dekhti hu

  • @mandeepsingh3570
    @mandeepsingh3570 5 років тому +1

    Didi tuhada bohut-bohut dhnbad videos bohut vdia hundi h m ik laddy h

  • @neelambharti1983
    @neelambharti1983 5 років тому +4

    Hello mam. THANKS GIVING 🌹 greetings just a little bit late. Thank you from the bottom of my heart 💓. Aapki vajeh se life bahut positive ho gayi hai.🙏 Mam Mai aapke videos regularly dekhti Hoon. Aap ek family member ki tareh lagti Hain Jo her baat ko itni achhi tareh se samjhati Hain. Beech me jub Aap hansti Hain to mood or bhi achha ho jata hai..May God bless you mam.🙏

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  5 років тому

      शुक्रिया नीलम💐

  • @indugaria6285
    @indugaria6285 5 років тому +1

    Hello mam ! u r right apne ko hi change karna chayie but sab kuch Kar ke Dekh liya Apne ko change bhi, chup bhi rhe ke Dekh liye ache se BAAT bhi karke Dekha but jab samne wala hi bilkul badlene ko tiyaar na ho or Raat din Ghar Ka mahool kharab Kar rha rha ho to kya kare

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  5 років тому +1

      फिर आपको जल्द से जल्द घर के बडे बुजुर्गो से सलाह लेकर इसका हल निकालना ही चाहिए...