She is. She think she’s grown. She didn’t tell Karma anything else wrong about her mother is doing wrong but the daughter attitude is saying she’s grown even before 18 of age. What are you talking about? A lot of parents raised their kids good and their kids just turn out F’d up. So stop with the bull 💩. A lot of these grown azz kids ended up dead because they think they grown. Check the damn stories out for yourself. Look at how old these kids be that turned up dead and how old their children are. They wanna be grown and chooses the wrong path and end up in bad situations. The mom attitude is vicious and disgusting but the daughter is too damn fast and grown. My husband and I would never give up on our children and talk to them in any way and our children would never speak and do bad things and talk to us and their father the way she does her own mother. They both need help bad.
@@PLEASURE_MeMe That’s not how parenting works. If your child is showing behaviors that you don’t agree with, there’s another problem as well. Maybe it wasn’t brought up on the show but there’s something else here. The mother is super cold from something. You don’t get to call your children names and cause more trauma because they disappointed you. Everyone you love will disappoint you at some point. Your goal as a parent is to teach them to be self sustaining functioning adults. This girl is not and that’s on the parents. The more parents refuse to see they did anything wrong, the more children will walk away and leave their parents. The fight isn’t whos right. The fight is to raise your children properly. Kicking out minors on the street is NOT raising your child properly.
@@PLEASURE_MeMe just because the daughter didn't bring anything to light doesn't mean there's nothing there. That baby has been hurt at some point in her young life to be acting this way.
@@louisadway1856 you are absolutely right abuse is abuse and people don't understand that they think when you say abuse you talking about hitting someone and that's it noooo there is verbal abuse, physical abuse, mental abuse & more.
Boundaries and rules are fine. Telling your child you don’t like her, hate her or that she’s a b*tch, is NOT FINE. Putting her out on the street is all fun and games until she gets trafficked or found in a ditch. This is a jealous, spiteful woman. She taught her daughter who to be, spoke down to her growing up and stopped being loving and affectionate. This woman is deplorable, and a terrible example of a mother.
thats debatable its clear her mom loves her even when the girl was asked she couldn't even say no to that question she just shook her head, i understand the way she talked to her that part was not right at all but it's clear that lil girl is fast asf n disrespectful she built that animosity by her actions now its woe is me when she gets the reaction. she not jealous for telling her to dress like a lady thats what she NEEDS to be doing especially since shes a "CHILD" shes doing drugs having sex and running the streets but yall giving backlash to the mom? at some point her being a child wont be the excuse no more she'll just be a fuked up adult.
@@dannysalzer770 you’re so simple-minded. How can you misinterpret all of the words so gravely? You’re a real piece of garbage if you think calling a child a btch and not nurturing them is okay, just to then turn around and wonder why rebelling is happening. People like you are why there are so many sociopaths being raised in the world.
If she wasn't runnin the streets, breaking the rules, being disrespectful, stayed in school, did the right things in life......Mom wouldn't act like that. Karamo is King Enabler and most of these comments supporting this young lady is disgusting
How do y’all expect this child to respect a parent that cusses her out, calls her out of her name, calls her sleazy, says she doesn’t like her, abandons her on the street & doesn’t care about her whereabouts? Y’all have to remember, children don’t just act out for no reason. There’s usually a deeper psychological or emotional something going on for a child to act out in destructive ways. Unless that child is causing bodily harm to you or other people in their household, why do you throw them out? Why not get them some help? Why not you get help so you can have the right tools to cope & deal with the situation?
Exactly. I don’t think her daughter was pulling from thin air when she called her mom jealous. Eventually you get told you’re “bad” enough you start believing it.
It takes a village with certain children. A lot of kids didn’t need a village. My husband and I our children are fine. Never disrespected us, never missed curfew I mean nothing. Some kids just require certain punishments. Being damn grown isn’t it and talking to your child this way is just terrible. They both need help.
@@PLEASURE_MeMeI agree, they both need help. Where the eff is dad? I see both perspectives and both have wronged each other. Cases like this aren’t quite so cut and dry.
@@willybeama1 I AGREE! I pray they both could work things out because a daughter needs her mom and I’m for sure mom loves and need her daughter as well. I think mom is a bit jealous of her daughter though. The daughter needs her father also. The mom should try to also reach out to dad. I don’t think I remember Karamo asking about her dad. And thanks for the positive feedback. GOD BLESS YOU 🙏🏻💞🙏🏻
@@PLEASURE_MeMe ok talking to your child this way isn’t acceptable but the child disrespects the mom yall gotta understand it’s not easy raising a disrespectful teen she acts grown let her be grown and go out in the real world and she’ll regret it and thank her mom later in life dang i really messed up yall tryna take that girl side why are you 18 in the liquor store my 17 years of living I never walked in a life store im not perfect but im being a child that I am
Mom has to be patient. Our children have a lot of peer pressure. How you address your child is key. Counseling maybe a needed answer. Love is kind, patient. Praying for God's guidance will be your avenue to a family on the same page.
You don’t get to give up and throw your child away because of behavior. You love them and teach them what’s right period. I feel for the daughter and hope she chooses the right paths in life.
nah i dont care if you my child if you want to act grown go be that dont pull the im a child card when you didnt have that mindset when you where doing that bs and im 17 thats the crazy thing and at 15 you know right from wrong its cool for you to stay out past time but when i put you out past time im wrong???
@@egujuga I bet your mom doesn't even treat you as this mom treats her daughter so your view is not only biased being 17, but extremely privileged with you having a decent mother.
@@scottrogue946 setting boundaries does not mean kicking ur child out with nowhere to go. It means getting them help and the resources they need. Your child is apart of you.
i could agree to that but child or not there consequences behind ur actions if u can do drugs have sex run the streets and skip school you should be able to handle standing on your own since shes moving like she is... i hate how yall judging the reactions n not the actions that caused it..
When her daughter came back with some alcohol she shoulda walked her back to the ABC store to return it then spoke to the Manager about her daughter. You get carded here in VA.
See that’s some intellectual parenting and good advice. She didn’t even try to correct the behavior she just blames the behavior on “ur not what I want you to be” instead of trying to speak life into her duaghter in who she can be. These kids rn are going through something even me as 33 y.o can’t understand. They are getting so many truths about the lies their parents were told. And the parents don’t want to walk on that journey with them. It’s the same thing that happened in the generation prior. The only difference is kids back then didn’t have a voice… and without voice u have no options.
@@blackice112 Honestly I could jump on Mom like Karamo did. Her daughter is seeking love from her Mom that she refuses to give then to put her out on the street? Yelling at her and calling her a btch doesn’t make anyone’s life better…Mom was trying to hurt her because her daughter hurt/disappointed her. I just wanna get an update on them.
The mother created this dynamic between the two of them. I not saying the daughter is a saint but to be honest she's probably drinking to numb the pain of her mother's abuse and rejection.
I immediately thought this because I was like “oh that’s weird to want alcohol when you’re with your mom and you know she won’t like it.” But then I realized they are probably sharing a room in a hotel, or at least have to be spending considerably more time than usual together for this trip. She probably felt like she needed an escape, or just was curious to test the boundaries to see if her mom would give her a more caring and parental reaction.
For a mother to say, NO, when asked does she care about her daughter's whereabouts when she puts her out, is crazy. I'm a father and first of all, I wouldn't put my young daughter or son on the street knowing how cruel and dangerous this world is. I was that father that stood right under the stairs of the park sliding board just in case they fell while climbing to the top. That's how deep my concern would be. Not saying her daughter's behavior is right but don't give up and say you don't care, try a different approach, maybe be more loving, make time to spend and talk with her.
Before she even said no I said she didn’t care. Some “mothers” just had a baby, they don’t have motherly nurturing attributes 😢 deff to a child that mirrors what they lack
@@Deni-dz2zono she pushed her daughter to this point she admitted she doesn't like her daughter because she isn't like her. Considering that her calling her child out her name, calling her sleazy, kicking her out, cussing her out, telling her on a regular basis you don't like her, etc. I understand completely why shawty doesn't want to talk to her mother. With a mother like this who needs enemies
Her daughter is so beautiful ❤ the dynamic of their relationship reminds of me and my mom. I still remember the cruel things she said and it felt entirely rooted in jealousy (& is).
And btw if you have children and expect to never have conflict with your child about anything is pure DELUSION. A parents job is to TEACH their child how to behave and be a productive adult in society. If that sounds too hard DO NOT have children. Or you will be like this ☝🏽 mother kicking their child out when things get too hard. That girl uses drinking and smoking as a coping mechanism for getting kicked out and sleeping the streets. And anybody that defends the mother I pray for your kids.
I can see her daughter wants her mum's love that why her daughter acting out like that she is full of anger and sadness her mum has closed herself off and it's sad I hope her daughter finds the sunshine to uplift her life and goes back to school and dose well with her life.
putting your child out on the streets will ruin their lives! could set you back years if not forever shout out to Karmo for helping this young lady God got her period!
Calling her names will tear her down even more my mom did the same since a child and at 36 it still effects me, and the daughter needs some correcting as well she doing too much..buying alcohol and coming to drink under mom anyway was disrespectful..but together they can fix it, dont give up on her
What I appreciate the MOST in this segment is how you showed up for the young lady in a way her mother’s ego and “I’m the adult” Pride wouldn’t allow her to. None of the daughter’s behavior is acceptable. But mistakes from your kid don’t mean you abandon them. She needs therapy BADLY!
@@diannawalden5470 they do, but the daughter was clearly more open to even having an honest conversation and taking accountability to me…and she’s only 18. The mother needs help first so she can help her daughter. But I agree, they both need counseling.
I don't know if I agree with "none of the daughters behavior is acceptable" part, like ofc some of her behavior isn't good... But given how this mom speaks to her the daughter has ever right to return it. If you call your daughter names, she's going to do it back. Respect is a two way street for all people no matter how old they are. Kids repeat the behaviors their parents have, so if your kid is disrespectful...that means you're also a disrespectful person because the kid can only learn it from you. (Sometimes there's other people outside of the parents that cause the behavior, like if they're hanging around the wrong people. But it's obvious that's not the case with these two)
@@fallenbee the behavior I’m referring to is not her attitude. I’m talking about an 18 year old buying alcohol and selling drugs. Sneaking out, trying to break back into her mom’s house after curfew…that doesn’t excuse her mom’s behavior at all!!! But two things can be true at the same time. None of her behavior is ok, while understanding that a lot of her actions are mirrored from her own mother.
stop kicking your daughter out and give her some tools, are you crazy mom? so much can happen to her out there.. and she really needs you to be a good strong mom...
but when she leaves and stays out willingly its ok and the mother should deal with it?? you can stay out as long as you feel but when i put you out for as long as i feel im wrong she can willingly leave but wrong if the mother puts her out its cool until it doesnt benefit you anymore then you run back home to the same parent you disrespected
@@egujuga you shouldn't think like that man God Forbid if something like this happens to you and like he said your child ends up assaulted or even dead you are gonna be crying your eyes out trying to figure out why couldn't my child come to me about that or crying losing your mind at her funeral and being broken
That is easy to say when you are not living with or dealing with an out of control child. There is no one to help and you get overwhelmed. It is so easy to call someone a bad mom when you are not living on day in her life
They don't care. My mom told me, "You need to learn how to survive like I did". She shamed me for staying with friends by comparing her journey to mine. Saying she never stayed with anyone. Which was a lie. My grandma let her stay, in which she said, "But it was only for two weeks and I left". Mind you, she got housing through section 8, so it was easy for her in the 90s. I was 17 years old, homeless, staying with strangers who I met through a friend. I was taken advantage of by a 37 year old man, in which my mom shamed me for too. I was homeless again @24 and my mom said I needed to figure out what to do with my life. That I needed to get a mental evaluation to get help because I couldn't figure out how to survive. I got my own apartment in my 30s and she wanted me to send pictures as proof.🤦🏽♀️ I ended up having a suicidal mental breakdown last year and again, she wasn't supportive. Yet, she says she loves me, and she says she prays to God that we can work on our relationship 🤦🏽♀️ These mothers are a different breed.
They don't care. My mom told me, "You need to learn how to survive like I did". She shamed me for staying with friends by comparing her journey to mine. Saying she never stayed with anyone. Which was a lie. My grandma let her stay, in which she said, "But it was only for two weeks and I left". Mind you, she got housing through section 8, so it was easy for her in the 90s. I was 17 years old, homeless, staying with strangers who I met through a friend. I was taken advantage of by a 37 year old man, in which my mom shamed me for too. I was homeless again @24 and my mom said I needed to figure out what to do with my life. That I needed to get a mental evaluation to get help because I couldn't figure out how to survive. I got my own apartment in my 30s and she wanted me to send pictures as proof.🤦🏽♀️ I ended up having a suicidal mental breakdown last year and again, she wasn't supportive. Yet, she says she loves me, and she says she prays to God that we can work on our relationship 🤦🏽♀️ These mothers are a different breed.
she pissed me clean off. how is that you feel your child needs to respect you more and open up to when you tell them that you cant stand them and don’t like them. and then on too of that say they wanna run the streets but then are the reason they’re living there likeee make it make sense.
The mother's a hypocrite.there is an old phrase in the English language. you can't have your cake and eat it too you can't tell your daughter don't be respectful and then you call her the b word like what in the name of garbage is this . Some people are not meant to be parents if you can't look after them don't have kids then it's not rocket science Having kids requires commitment, love, discipline , direction. And what i have heard this mother isn't showing those things
I remember being 18 and “grown” still living in my mother’s house… many times she told me to watch my curfew… well one day I came home at 3 am, when I say this lady opened the smallest crack in the door and said “ go back to where you were” I was shook!!!needless to say I was not late anymore for my curfew !!!
@@BxByDoll927 because if you’re worried about your child being outside at a certain time and they come home late. you lock them out of the house…makes so much sense. Scold them and let them inside
Ok, the mother shouldn't be calling the daughter out her name that's MENTAL AND VERBAL ABUSE...Now, seems to me the daughter wants to be grown and do what she wants to do... which is DRINK SALE DRUGS AND SMOKE WEED smh I've been raising my niece since birth, she's now 16yrs and I'll be damned if I tolerate some mess like that. My son who's 24 yrs old ..NOPE I DONT HAVE THESE TYPE OF PROBLEMS 💯💯 parent's make the mistake of being their kids friend SMH kids need structure and discipline and NO I DONT MEAN PHYSICAL👍🏼 OH, and Karamo clowned the mama at the end " we got your daughter"❤❤❤
Yes he did... Try having a disrespectful child in your home, especially a female at 18 who thinks she's grown. Been there done that. What the mom is saying I have felt and I'm not proud but it's real. All we want is for our kids to grow up and be better than all right. The struggle shouldn't be at home; save it for the streets. I feel both of them, but her mother's intentions for growth, safety, and future are not unfounded 😢
I agree totally agree. Honor thy mother and thy father! My house my rules period. Yes the mom can correct her language but other than that I’m on mom side
@@Vixiegaxchagirl that verse is for parents that deserve respect. The Bible says spare the rod spoil the child but do not provoke the child to anger. The Bible also speaks on parental abuse. Get the thought out of your head that a woman who willingly put her CHILD into the streets is someone you should be siding with. If you still want to side with someone willing to put their child out and down simply cuz they are upset you don’t need to have children at all
She should.nt be drinking and selling drugs,if she is,but if her mother is calling her a bitch,she dont like her,not worried when she on the streets,that kid is turning to things to make herself feel good..she.s crying out to be loved by her mother...Mother is wrong!!😅
You absolutely can do what you want, but your Mother doesn't have to be a part of it. Your mother doesn't have to accept you being bad, being disrespectful, coming in late or ANYTHING else for that matter!
@@angelacarter3283 you have to know her mother influenced that behaviour as well. When she start calling her child's name and stuff. The bad things her daughter does could be the coping mechanisms. It's not right but she can't help it. Look where she was supposed to live at and the person that was supposed to aspire at.
I think it’s clear that the source of this toxicity is the mother’s behaviour. No competent and good parent calls their child these kinds of names. Most likely with a better parent she would be teachable. She’s not outrageously badly behaved manyyyy teenagers go through this stage and actual competent parents get them out the other end and they end up good
And how is throwing them out onto the streets going to help them? If you truly love your children, you will not readily give up on them. You will keep trying to make them change course - and the best way to do that is to continue to love them, guide them and afford them shelter. You're a parent for life, not for eighteen years. Respect has to be learnt before it can be given. That mother shows no respect for her daughter on camera; one can only imagine what she's like at home. How could she have taught respect to her daughter?
Sometimes children think they know more than the parent. My daughter blatantly disrespected me and my household, told me point blank what she would not do, dropped out of school, hanging with boys, and the list goes on. She tried to run my household and we had 2 physical fights where she struck the first blow. I sent her to her father, she begged to come back, I brought her back, and she did the same things on day 1. Her life is in shambles today. She just had baby number 4 against my advise, no job, no man, and no means and I still help her. She has been her own worst enemy and sometimes children have to suffer the consequences of their own actions.
But what signs of her struggling did you miss? Children dont just do this without someone teaching them. Was it the tv? Their friends? Other adults around them? You? You are solely responsible for the outcome of your child. Check yourself
“You say she’s not old enough to drink, but you think she’s old enough to sleep in the streets” this is why I love karamo! People love picking when to parent smh
He gagged tf out of her right there! Cuz if she started kicking her out at 15 to sleep on the streets and not care about where she is…why care that she’s 18 and drinking?? Crazy mixed signals
Raising kids in America must be the hardest and wildest shit ever, lol you mean to tell me someone has a curfew of 12am and they still break it. She is disrespectful in every way and the mother of course is at a breaking point thus name calling. If you still wanna live under a parent's roof, you better abide by the rules. If the rules dont work for you then kick rocks! These kids be spoiled as shit, and it crazy how everyone is seeing everything wrong with the mother and nothing wrong with the daughter wtf.
And the daughter also admitted herself that her mom is overprotective. Is she was such a bad mom why would she be overprotective. She wants to do as she please and everyone is taking her side. Calling her beautiful, pretty etc… I think that’s part of the problem, she is too full of herself. Her mom is just tired.
I watched this entire episode and that young lady was dead wrong and is moving too fast. Yes her mother needs to speak to her better. However that young lady needs to realize she’s a fresh 18 who is very beautiful and men will prey on her. Your mother is not jealous of you she lacks the skills to teach you a better way to conduct yourself. Sounds like the streets will teach her.
@@dayum_mi the daughter said she was an over protective mom. I’m guessing she 18 and feels like she old enough to do much more than she was allowed. I had parents the same way so I understand. Her mom kicking her out and calling her names and leaving her abandoned in another state isn’t going to help. The mother is quite literally letting her child run the streets.
No, disrespect. She can do all that but not under your roof. True. I just wouldnt deal with her grown and disrespectfulness. But i wouldnt be calling her out her name, though.
This child is mirroring back to this lady what she has put into her. All of the language that the mom used against this young lady was heartbreaking. The young lady admitted what her faults were. Now it’s on the Mom to put aside whatever it is that she’s got against her own child, and mother her child. I’m saying child because 18 for two whole days is still a baby. I hope they can get some resolution because this was just something else to watch.
Thank you. The lack of intelligence in the comments is astounding. Kids act out for a reason. Parents need to start taking accountability and acknowledging they’re parenting their kids wrong.
This was extensive sad to watch. As a mother of 2, my second born is my daughter whom I am so thankful and blessed to have sometimes tests me and my patience is a zero with hr at times but I love her, I want to support her, I want to show her how to be a woman and become the individual she is. She is 14yrs old. These last 3yrs have been nothing but a test for us both and yes, I don't agree with the choices she sometime have made but she is my child. I am her mother. We need to mother, support, model, and display the right character, moral, integrity and mature skills and knowledge to break generational cycles of ABUSE!. I really hope this young lady is on her journey of healing and prosperity!.
That daughter is disrespectful. She couldn't live in my house, after 18. Pointing at her mother, smoking, drinking, and calling her mother bruh. I wouldn't deal with it.
Right...I been through it first hand people have alot to say judging took mines to counseling, church, in school activities as well as out of school activities and mines still said mom i know all u taught me I still wanna go my own way ...very disrespectful. I let my grown daughter over 20 bk in 3 times got worse she even joined sis in the crap. My sister, her father and my mother all let her stay with them she still wouldn't follow their rules n got put out . Sometimes it's not the parent it's the choices that the ones make the have to suffer their consequences Let go! Tough love pray for them n let God deal with them 💯
As a mother of 3. When your children disrepects you even when you have done everything for them. Its like a stab in the heart. Bad enough people in the world try to tear you down. Yes. I would rather you get away from me then keep hurting me. Family or not!!!
I'm Team Daughter. Here's why....Although I don't agree with allowing your children to do whatever they want to do, I feel it is the PARENT'S RESPONSIBILTY to be more creative and flexible when dealing with their offspring. She is the leader in that household, so she should implement certain solutions to help her tribe. The Mother has many more years of experience to work with. Therefore, she can get several steps ahead of the daughter's thinking and help the situation from a higher point of view. Of course it's not easy, but it's her responsibility. Resorting to acting just as bad as the teen WILL DEFINITELY NOT help the situation that I'm sure she wants a resolution to. Teens are learning and they are going to go through temptations and tough chapters in their lives. Its called LEARNING. That involves falling down and getting back up. It's not some glorified rainbow glitter journey. Noone would want ANYONE teaching them in a way that is demeaning. I don't care how old you are. This harsh parenting is like trying to fill a black hole BUT only widening the gap. I can tell the Daughter is disrespectful, but certainly not THAT unreasonable. I can feel her vibes. That Daughter is NOT hell on wheels! She is a bit misguided during this phase of her life, but her Mother is VERY ILL equipped to guide her through this stage. Her Mother is selfish and can't see beyond her own limited perspectives. She is very closed minded. This is what I see.
The Federal Law, The Juvenile Act, states that a minor child must obey the reasonable request of their parent(s). If she’s caught with alcohol at the hotel that your show is paying for, then your show is liable. If you’re not in the house on or before curfew as a minor then there are consequences and being locked out and having the police called on you could be two of them. Now that’s she’s 18, her mother is no longer responsible nor accountable for her actions and the law will back mother up.
Nah shawty way too grown. Idc she is growing up too fast! Yes, the mother does need to learn how to speak with her, and handle things better. But, the daughter madd disrespectful, the way she dressed and them tattoos/ piercings.. not giving 18, it’s giving 21+.
I live in Barbados in the Caibbean. It is against the law to put our children out as minors. The young lady is also on drugs. They both need councelling.
@@terenon49when you kick someone out, call them names like you not they child and abandon them in a whole other state, and you just turned 18 off she gonna feel like she her own person cs her mom already said she don’t like her. Idk how y’all not seeing fault in the mother
@@AskAuntyBridisagree did you hear when both mom and Karamo stated mom grew up and a strict environment. The daughter wants to do what she wants like she said she is a different person from her mother and wants to behave in that manner.
Daughter is beautiful reminds me of my daughter hope she finds her path in life all the best parents have to respect kids the same way they're looking for respect
I'm with the momma,..she can go to a shelter. So what she came on stage and admitted her wrongs.. has she stopped her disrespectful behavior. This little girl knows she's doing wrong and want to still come in her moms house and wild out. Get out go to shelter. To grown behind.
I feel for this mother and her frustration. She's clearly tired and daughter has never made it easy, so I get being over it. You can't do whatever you want and disrespect this woman, but then play the child card because you want to be taken care of. That just isn't gonna fly, so if you want to be grown you have to do it all the way. Otherwise stay in a child's place and stop biting the hand that LITERALLY feeds you
Exactly karamo in some cases make these children feel it is right what they are doing,and not giving the parents the support needed,that mother looks like she trys her very best and that child want to do what she want to do
I my son is 40 now and he has never disrespect me. Because I started him out knowing that I'm the mom and you are the child. I'm not your friend I'm your mom now that he's 40 we are great friends but still with the respect of knowing that I'm still the parent. We respect each other.
I was brought up very strictly but I never imposed that on my son. He was always able to talk to me to tell me things I didn't really want to hear but I would rather that than him not. He was a terror but never ever did he not know he had a safe place to come back to was always there. She is not a mother.
I understand both sides… I didn’t even have a mom my father raised me. I have two teenagers and they have called me names and so disrespectful at times. I have broke my back for my kids and sometimes it’s not enough. My son is almost 18 and I have called the cops on him because you will not act like you are going to do anything to me or my kids. These kids are not the kids of the past I would Never!!! Either I call the cops or end up in jail hurting them because they are past disrespectful…. It’s hard dealing with it especially when as a child I never did anything of the sort and I had a very traumatic childhood and I still obeyed idk 🤷♀️…
I wholeheartedly agree!! These are not the same kidssssss. I would HAVE NEVER. My son is 28, he could have never survived in my household being disrespectful. I was hard af on him. And it paid off!
Seems like there was no sympathy nor support FOR the mother, Hopefully, the daughter won't use the fact that NOBODY was on the mother's side against her
That’s true but I think it’s because the daughter was ready and willing to get the help. The daughter acknowledged her wrong doings and her flaws- the mother did not. I hope they work it out, but sometimes it doesn’t work like that
I understand where the mama coming from. If she say she grown let her get out on her own. She can't act grown but still be treated like a child. Both are disrespectful but the mama repsonding to whats being given to her. Now that the streets raising her she wants to go back home but with the same attitude. That lady deserves peace in her house. She right if she not willing to change then dont come back 👏👏 just because she had her dont mean she has to kiss her ssa. Thriw the textbook out the window. That's real life.
Karamo dropped the ball on this episode. Huge thumbs DOWN. This was completely one sided. YES The daughter should be able to dress how she pleases BUT she is consciously choosing to sell drugs in her mother’s house!!! The daughter is 18 years old ; therefore, she is a woman. What is wrong with her getting her own apartment and selling from her own place, if that is HER lifestyle???? I’m just baffled as to why Karamo would think that is acceptable behavior!! No one can change people. All of us must WANT to change . The daughter needs to mature and grow into a phenomenal woman but she will never grow and mature if the mother allows her to say because it sends a message that “selling drugs in my house is ok”. They both need healing and some times it starts with SPACE , living apart at least temporarily. Space is healthy and it can bring out the best qualities in people, no one ever knows until they actually try it . It is a great first step that the daughter has taken accountability. I respect her a lot because people don’t always admit their own wrong doings. So, she has sssooo much potential to grow out of this lifestyle/“phase”.However, the mother should NOT have to accept selling drugs in her own house !! The daughter has to be willing to give that up . I mean she is putting BOTH of them in danger by her actions.
I’m sorry I’m on the mother side. If she’s grown enough to disrespect her mother, sell drugs, get drunk, not following the rules and not going to school, then, yes she can stay outside of the house. That’s part of being an adult. Choices..,
@@Shlbizzy_21 Are you sure she learned that from her mother? You give a child everything except a mind. I am sure you heard the mother said, the things her daughter is doing she has never done those things, if you was listening. The only thing I don't agree with the mother is calling her names, that is not appropriate. Kids learn from the company they keep and when they cannot get what they want.
Great mom she's being a parent most of y'all wants your parents to be friends no it doesn't work that way when she gets grown and have kids she will see
A 5 year old will say they’re grown up enough to make decisions and throw tantrums, and we as adults know that’s a behaviour they need to learn and be educated away from with love and boundaries. A teenager is just in another phase of that - our brains aren’t even fully developed until our mid twenties. Yes, teenage behaviour is challenging, but meeting it with abusive language and behaviour is never going to change it for the better. Respect is a two way street.
Are they sisters or mother and daughter. They need some serious counseling. I don't care how much my daughter gets on my nerves I would never turn her out to the streets 18 is not grown I hope she goes back to school and change her ways
It’s never ok for a parent to call their child a Bitch it’s sad she keep telling her mom you don’t like me the mom is really mentally abusing her daughter then putting her out in the streets is sad my heart really goes out to the daughter
These comment are INSANITY, the fact that yall are agreeing with the mom proves why we have so many issues ESPECIALLY mental health issue within our community. The daughter was willing to work on their relationship, she knows what she has done wrong and she’s taking accountability..therefore what exactly are yall agreeing with the mom for??? Sidenote: the fact that yall think you can tell the THERAPIST what’s right and wrong is absolutely hilarious. If u disagree with a person that does this line of work for a living YOU’RE THE PROBLEM
@@Flustered_Potato right like are we crazy!!! She disrespectful and acting grown she needs to go be grown. That is huge flag. The mother did not condone it and drink with her. Yet the audience and him said the mother is the problem??? Blowing my mind
@@courtney4808 The mom is PART of the problem. How does she expect her child to respect her when she’s calls her daughter out of her name, says she doesn’t like her, abandons her in another state, & says she doesn’t care about her whereabouts? To expect respect when she treats her child that way is not right. Meanwhile, at least the daughter had the courage to admit that she’s disrespectful, doesn’t listen, and has destructive behaviors. It seems like she at least WANTS to change. Like Karamo said at the end, they need to meet each other halfway.
Karamo you drop the ball on this. I was a foster parent and especially the sweet innocent ones will play the crap out of anyone. No it’s not right what the mom said but it’s facts. You can love someone deeply but hate their nasty ways. I felt when she said why care when she does not care. Everyone keep blaming the mother like what…… how dare the mother demand respect, set boundaries, and not be her child friend by allowing her to drink alcohol the night before the show!!!! Y’all are crazy. I feel bad for parents dam if do dam if you don’t. You can raise them in the best possible way and kids will turn out however
id call the cops too and if she called she should know she is wrong as well and now you want to pull the im a child card like be fr you didnt have that mindset do all those adult activities
I definitely agree with what you’re saying but consider the fact that there may be a reason why she’s drinking and being unruly . If she’s continuously being kicked out you think she’ll stop being unruly or it’ll accelerate more . The mom isn’t helping the problem
She just turned 18. My question is how did the mom parent or treat the daughter during her childhood? There's a reason her daughter has turned to drugs, dresses a certain way (not saying it's bad), or is disrespectful. You can't stand her behavior but that behavior came from somewhere and as a parent you didn't properly guide your kid to the correct behavior. The mom sounds immature and may be slightly jealous and has probably always felt this way. The young lady KEPT saying the mom don't like her, that didn't just start. The mother is the problem and social services should have been called each time she called the police and kicked that girl out
Exactly cus it’s not fair to the parents who don’t do anything and then they get into a gang they look for the son or daughter and the parents get killed the child wanted to do what they want but
This is one I don’t agree with fully. No name calling definitely but bypassing the legal issues with drugs and buying liquor.. HELL NO. Mama ain’t gonna have to call the cops.. she is gonna get herself locked up or unalived. I’m not letting a drug dealer live in my house.. my child or not. If you can sale in the streets you can live there as well. You can come home when you ready to change your life.
I knew about a local girl in my area who’s mom locked her out of the house, and because the girl had nowhere to stay - she ended with someone who had bad intentions. She was sex trafficked and later died. There’s a way to reprimand the whole curfew thing without putting your child in harm’s way. It makes no sense to get mad at your kid for not being home when you want them to, and then push them even further into the trouble/problems you want them to avoid. When you decide you wanna stop parenting and push your kid away, something in these streets will always be eager to pick them up!
THANK YOU KARAMON!!!! she’s 18 and a Young Woman and Beautiful IM SURPRISED WHEN HER MOM SAID “SELLIN” that SHE AINT SAID “SELLIN HER BODY” BECAUSE A LOt OF YOUNG GIRLS WHOS MOTHERS KICK THEM TO THE STREETS GO THAT ROUTE/OR RUN AWAYS! IM SURPRISED SHES NOT PREGNANT OR HAD A TEEN BABY, MOM UNDERSTAND YOU DID A GOOD JOB WHILE SHE WAS YOUNG BUT NOW SHES GETTING OLDER AND WHAT THE OLD FOLKS SAID WAS DISRESPECTFUL AND FAST AND GROWN AND HOW THEY PUNISHED ECT (IS NOT IT/AND TIMES HAVE CHANGED/AND STATS EVEN SHOW IT). *IN MY OWN HOME* I REMEMBER WHEN PEOPLE USE TO LOOK AT ME AND MY 3 KIDZ RELATIONSHIP AND HOW I PARENT AND HAVE SUMIN TO SAY) but THEY NOT LOOKING INTO THEY OWN HOUSEHOLD! MY 14 year old son HONOR ROLL AND HAVE BEEN HONORED A FEW TIMES FROM THE CITY OF SAN francisco. HONOR ROLL FROM HIS SCHOOL SINCE 1st grade AND AFRICAN AMERICAN HONORS, HE HAS HAD OPPORTUNITIES AT THE MAYORS OFFICE ECT. MY DAUGHTER WHO IS 10 HONOR ROLL STUDENT 1ST GRADE AND SHE WINS DANCE CONTEST/BEST HALLOWEEN CUSTOMS/SHE DOES GYMNASTICS AND VERY POPULAR AT SCHOOL… MY YOUNGEST WHO IS 6 1st grade HAS SOME COORDINATION ISSUES BUT IS VERY MATURE, SWEET, and CAN TELL YOU WHAT WHERE AND HOW AND WHEN IN THE STORY OVER OTHER STUDENTS!!!!! I WAS A 15 year old RUN AWAY (BEEN THERE DONE THAT) had my 1st child at 18. I ALLOWED MY CHILDREN TO BE THEM AND DEVELOPED AN OPEN SPACE AND DIDNT DISCIPLINE OR CORRECT THEM OUT LOUD TO EMBARRASS THEM/ I MAKE IT MY MISSON TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH THE TEACHERS, I TELL THEM BEFORE GOING IN SOMEWHERE WHAT THE SITUATION IS AND I DONT LIE TO THEM I JUST KEEP IT AGE APPROPRIATE (((ON PURPOSE))) because my own mother did not do these things so i wanted to see IF IT WOULD WORK. so far SO GOOD
no karmo u chewed the mom out while allowing the CHILD to get a pass that's not right i agree with the mom and i see her heart she had good intentions and want a better relationship with her child, now i don't agree with how she handled situations and her choice of words when she was mad but lets not just point the finger at the reaction lets look at the actions that caused it too. if that lil girl can run the streets, have s3x with grown men, dress promiscuously, smoke weed, and disrespect her mother wishes when shes trying to get her to change her ways, she DESERVES to be put out if she has the mind to do those things she should have the mind to create a stable life for herself outside of her mother. i really hate how you bypassed all that n targeted the mom i knew from the moment that girl started talking she was fast n up to no good (like many youths are these days) i could also tell she probably with whatever grown ass man when she gets put out so that staying on the street bit was for sympathy.
I am with the mother on this one. This girl is doing way too much and will likely later in life realize her behavior is messed up. All the mother wants from her is to behave, be respectful, dress appropriately for her age, not drink, not smoke, etc. The girl wants to be a rebel and wants to constantly be disrespectful.
I'd say the same thing...if you can break my curfew, then go back to where you were in breaking the curfew!!! Life isnt always about doing what you want to do!!! She will see in time what her mother was talking about. Just before the show the daughter was still showing disrespect to the WHOLE process!!!! In a city she knows nothing about. Girl! What does it take???! Karamo where are the boundaries for the child?
Exactly!!! You then the kid dies now ppl wnana cal u a bad parent you done ur job some parents don’t do there job. But calling her a bitch is wrong but she needs to fine a man that will put up with her shit and keep it moving some men will deal with that and some won’t. Samething with the men they wanna be babies having babies with women and not taking care of them or dating women disrespecting them as well. U know there’s men that r with women making them suffer cus they couldn’t control there parents? So they figure if I can get a women I’ll control her cus I couldn’t get my way and the women be putting up with that like what?
This young lady is so beautiful and very intelligent, all she needs is the RIGHT person in her life to give her healthy guidance and assurance. Baby girl keep your head on straight, finish school and be great with or without your mother's blessing
This girl isn't acting like this for no reason. Her mom does nothing but constantly break her daughter down and call her ugly names.
She is. She think she’s grown. She didn’t tell Karma anything else wrong about her mother is doing wrong but the daughter attitude is saying she’s grown even before 18 of age. What are you talking about? A lot of parents raised their kids good and their kids just turn out F’d up. So stop with the bull 💩. A lot of these grown azz kids ended up dead because they think they grown. Check the damn stories out for yourself. Look at how old these kids be that turned up dead and how old their children are. They wanna be grown and chooses the wrong path and end up in bad situations. The mom attitude is vicious and disgusting but the daughter is too damn fast and grown. My husband and I would never give up on our children and talk to them in any way and our children would never speak and do bad things and talk to us and their father the way she does her own mother. They both need help bad.
@@PLEASURE_MeMe That’s not how parenting works. If your child is showing behaviors that you don’t agree with, there’s another problem as well. Maybe it wasn’t brought up on the show but there’s something else here. The mother is super cold from something. You don’t get to call your children names and cause more trauma because they disappointed you. Everyone you love will disappoint you at some point. Your goal as a parent is to teach them to be self sustaining functioning adults. This girl is not and that’s on the parents. The more parents refuse to see they did anything wrong, the more children will walk away and leave their parents. The fight isn’t whos right. The fight is to raise your children properly. Kicking out minors on the street is NOT raising your child properly.
@@PLEASURE_MeMe just because the daughter didn't bring anything to light doesn't mean there's nothing there. That baby has been hurt at some point in her young life to be acting this way.
SHE'S ACTING LIKE THIS BECAUSE SHE'S SHE A PIECE OF CRAP....SHE'S HARD HEADED AND ODN'T WANT TO LISTEN. SHE NEEDS TO BE IN HER OWN PLACE.
@@louisadway1856 you are absolutely right abuse is abuse and people don't understand that they think when you say abuse you talking about hitting someone and that's it noooo there is verbal abuse, physical abuse, mental abuse & more.
Boundaries and rules are fine. Telling your child you don’t like her, hate her or that she’s a b*tch, is NOT FINE. Putting her out on the street is all fun and games until she gets trafficked or found in a ditch. This is a jealous, spiteful woman. She taught her daughter who to be, spoke down to her growing up and stopped being loving and affectionate. This woman is deplorable, and a terrible example of a mother.
thats debatable its clear her mom loves her even when the girl was asked she couldn't even say no to that question she just shook her head, i understand the way she talked to her that part was not right at all but it's clear that lil girl is fast asf n disrespectful she built that animosity by her actions now its woe is me when she gets the reaction. she not jealous for telling her to dress like a lady thats what she NEEDS to be doing especially since shes a "CHILD" shes doing drugs having sex and running the streets but yall giving backlash to the mom? at some point her being a child wont be the excuse no more she'll just be a fuked up adult.
I agree. I would never put my daughter on the streets in harms way 😢
The way people treat daughters is crazy tbh.
@@dannysalzer770 you’re so simple-minded. How can you misinterpret all of the words so gravely? You’re a real piece of garbage if you think calling a child a btch and not nurturing them is okay, just to then turn around and wonder why rebelling is happening. People like you are why there are so many sociopaths being raised in the world.
@@dannysalzer770 🗑️ 🗑️
“I don’t like her bc she’s nothing like me” girl, what? 😂
My mama said we’re nothing alike 😂 and acts just like this lady, in a more passive aggressive way. I think both her and this lady are mentally ill
Definitely give mean girl to her own daughter
literally it’s definitely a jealousy issue 😂
She talking about the behaviour @@chaysemariie
@@africansister I read it as behavior as well but I can easily see how her statement can be interpreted differently.
These later episodes you can literally SEE the frustration in Kuramo's eyes. It really hurts to watch a mother talk to her child like this.
He’s been looking drained lately with some of the guest. This one takes the cake for the entire year.
He really does
@@monitricelashe1139 literally. His sweaters keep me sane …with K around I know the world has hope.
💯😞
I came here to say this. Some of these folks drain ME. He is the consummate professional, but you can tell when he wants to cuss.
I'd drink and smoke too if that was my mom 😂
If she wasn't runnin the streets, breaking the rules, being disrespectful, stayed in school, did the right things in life......Mom wouldn't act like that. Karamo is King Enabler and most of these comments supporting this young lady is disgusting
She hiding her pain too 😢
right😂😂
It's always the abusive parents 😂😂😂😂
Right! She stressed me tf out 😂
The daughter is crying out for her mother’s love in so many ways, but the mother doesn’t want to see it.
Yea exactly
That mother being careless atp
How do y’all expect this child to respect a parent that cusses her out, calls her out of her name, calls her sleazy, says she doesn’t like her, abandons her on the street & doesn’t care about her whereabouts?
Y’all have to remember, children don’t just act out for no reason. There’s usually a deeper psychological or emotional something going on for a child to act out in destructive ways.
Unless that child is causing bodily harm to you or other people in their household, why do you throw them out? Why not get them some help? Why not you get help so you can have the right tools to cope & deal with the situation?
Exactly. I don’t think her daughter was pulling from thin air when she called her mom jealous. Eventually you get told you’re “bad” enough you start believing it.
@@gabe5518exactly why I made a promise to myself and future kids to never just call them bad. That’s creating a nasty personality trait FOR them
My family informed the police about my father's long-term abusive behaviour towards me, which had been ongoing for decades.
This is why it takes a village. Call someone safe and trustworthy to intervene. Grandma, Auntie, Neighbor! DAD!? Not the police.
It takes a village with certain children. A lot of kids didn’t need a village. My husband and I our children are fine. Never disrespected us, never missed curfew I mean nothing. Some kids just require certain punishments. Being damn grown isn’t it and talking to your child this way is just terrible. They both need help.
@@PLEASURE_MeMeI agree, they both need help. Where the eff is dad? I see both perspectives and both have wronged each other. Cases like this aren’t quite so cut and dry.
@@willybeama1 I AGREE! I pray they both could work things out because a daughter needs her mom and I’m for sure mom loves and need her daughter as well. I think mom is a bit jealous of her daughter though. The daughter needs her father also. The mom should try to also reach out to dad. I don’t think I remember Karamo asking about her dad. And thanks for the positive feedback. GOD BLESS YOU 🙏🏻💞🙏🏻
@@PLEASURE_MeMe ok talking to your child this way isn’t acceptable but the child disrespects the mom yall gotta understand it’s not easy raising a disrespectful teen she acts grown let her be grown and go out in the real world and she’ll regret it and thank her mom later in life dang i really messed up yall tryna take that girl side why are you 18 in the liquor store my 17 years of living I never walked in a life store im not perfect but im being a child that I am
Mom has to be patient. Our children have a lot of peer pressure. How you address your child is key. Counseling maybe a needed answer. Love is kind, patient. Praying for God's guidance will be your avenue to a family on the same page.
Why would she be calling her own daughter the B word?
Exactly then gonna tell Karamo she wants her daughter to open up more. These parents really need trippin and wonder why kids act how they do
She is, she just "can't/shouldn't" say it because she's her mother, but she definitely gives that off
It's sad what some mothers will say to their children but then want them to behave properly. I hope they receive counseling
Mother's do this.. My mom use to call everything under the sun when I was a child
@@owla2237 damn I feel sorry for you, that's definitely not normal.
Was it me or was Karamo tearing up at the end 😢this was so heart breaking to watch
I am actually going through the same thing but in my 20’s😞, also my sister …
@@ddqxueen 🙏🙏🙏
@@ddqxueenmay God bless and guide both of u ❤️
Yes because he has spoke about how he hurt his own sons.
So he can relate and he knows the remedy.
As a mother, it's about growing in parenting with your child.
@@AshleyBrown-ec3vn 🤣🤣
That part!!!! I just had this realization with my own son. You gotta have real conversations not just a bunch of nonsense
@@zeewal515what's funny
That part!
Yea exactly
You don’t get to give up and throw your child away because of behavior. You love them and teach them what’s right period. I feel for the daughter and hope she chooses the right paths in life.
nah i dont care if you my child if you want to act grown go be that dont pull the im a child card when you didnt have that mindset when you where doing that bs and im 17 thats the crazy thing and at 15 you know right from wrong its cool for you to stay out past time but when i put you out past time im wrong???
@@egujuga I bet your mom doesn't even treat you as this mom treats her daughter so your view is not only biased being 17, but extremely privileged with you having a decent mother.
You also have to set boundaries. Y’all will let your kids walk all over you 😂
@@scottrogue946 setting boundaries does not mean kicking ur child out with nowhere to go. It means getting them help and the resources they need. Your child is apart of you.
i could agree to that but child or not there consequences behind ur actions if u can do drugs have sex run the streets and skip school you should be able to handle standing on your own since shes moving like she is... i hate how yall judging the reactions n not the actions that caused it..
Mom is beyond wrong calling her daughter a btch. I don’t care how mad she was.
exactly!
She’s fucking acting like one
WTF 🤬
When her daughter came back with some alcohol she shoulda walked her back to the ABC store to return it then spoke to the Manager about her daughter.
You get carded here in VA.
well she couldnt cuz she left the state LOL! 🕵♂🕵♂
See that’s some intellectual parenting and good advice. She didn’t even try to correct the behavior she just blames the behavior on “ur not what I want you to be” instead of trying to speak life into her duaghter in who she can be. These kids rn are going through something even me as 33 y.o can’t understand. They are getting so many truths about the lies their parents were told. And the parents don’t want to walk on that journey with them. It’s the same thing that happened in the generation prior. The only difference is kids back then didn’t have a voice… and without voice u have no options.
@@blackice112 Honestly I could jump on Mom like Karamo did. Her daughter is seeking love from her Mom that she refuses to give then to put her out on the street? Yelling at her and calling her a btch doesn’t make anyone’s life better…Mom was trying to hurt her because her daughter hurt/disappointed her.
I just wanna get an update on them.
Agreed
The mother created this dynamic between the two of them. I not saying the daughter is a saint but to be honest she's probably drinking to numb the pain of her mother's abuse and rejection.
I immediately thought this because I was like “oh that’s weird to want alcohol when you’re with your mom and you know she won’t like it.” But then I realized they are probably sharing a room in a hotel, or at least have to be spending considerably more time than usual together for this trip. She probably felt like she needed an escape, or just was curious to test the boundaries to see if her mom would give her a more caring and parental reaction.
Yea that's true cause that the only reason she would do drugs since her mother has done a lot of stuff to her
@@bestbeatboxer_alive that's usually how it works. But they can never see that.
For a mother to say, NO, when asked does she care about her daughter's whereabouts when she puts her out, is crazy. I'm a father and first of all, I wouldn't put my young daughter or son on the street knowing how cruel and dangerous this world is. I was that father that stood right under the stairs of the park sliding board just in case they fell while climbing to the top. That's how deep my concern would be. Not saying her daughter's behavior is right but don't give up and say you don't care, try a different approach, maybe be more loving, make time to spend and talk with her.
Before she even said no I said she didn’t care. Some “mothers” just had a baby, they don’t have motherly nurturing attributes 😢 deff to a child that mirrors what they lack
Mad knowledge and wisdom YOU just dropped King 👑. ✌🏾
Her daughter pushed her to this point.
@@Deni-dz2zono she pushed her daughter to this point she admitted she doesn't like her daughter because she isn't like her. Considering that her calling her child out her name, calling her sleazy, kicking her out, cussing her out, telling her on a regular basis you don't like her, etc. I understand completely why shawty doesn't want to talk to her mother. With a mother like this who needs enemies
Her daughter is so beautiful ❤ the dynamic of their relationship reminds of me and my mom. I still remember the cruel things she said and it felt entirely rooted in jealousy (& is).
And btw if you have children and expect to never have conflict with your child about anything is pure DELUSION. A parents job is to TEACH their child how to behave and be a productive adult in society. If that sounds too hard DO NOT have children. Or you will be like this ☝🏽 mother kicking their child out when things get too hard. That girl uses drinking and smoking as a coping mechanism for getting kicked out and sleeping the streets. And anybody that defends the mother I pray for your kids.
I can see her daughter wants her mum's love that why her daughter acting out like that she is full of anger and sadness her mum has closed herself off and it's sad I hope her daughter finds the sunshine to uplift her life and goes back to school and dose well with her life.
The sweater Karamo!! 🤌🏽
Can't front. White & gray joint 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💫
Yea he's been coming through since he ditched the suits 💚
putting your child out on the streets will ruin their lives! could set you back years if not forever shout out to Karmo for helping this young lady God got her period!
@@MariaRose_88 You can have her arrested, put her in some type of bootcamp, or send her to a group home.
Calling her names will tear her down even more my mom did the same since a child and at 36 it still effects me, and the daughter needs some correcting as well she doing too much..buying alcohol and coming to drink under mom anyway was disrespectful..but together they can fix it, dont give up on her
Well said ❤️🩹 LeshaFBaby ❗💯
What I appreciate the MOST in this segment is how you showed up for the young lady in a way her mother’s ego and “I’m the adult” Pride wouldn’t allow her to. None of the daughter’s behavior is acceptable. But mistakes from your kid don’t mean you abandon them. She needs therapy BADLY!
They both need therapy 😢
@@diannawalden5470 they do, but the daughter was clearly more open to even having an honest conversation and taking accountability to me…and she’s only 18. The mother needs help first so she can help her daughter. But I agree, they both need counseling.
I don't know if I agree with "none of the daughters behavior is acceptable" part, like ofc some of her behavior isn't good... But given how this mom speaks to her the daughter has ever right to return it. If you call your daughter names, she's going to do it back. Respect is a two way street for all people no matter how old they are.
Kids repeat the behaviors their parents have, so if your kid is disrespectful...that means you're also a disrespectful person because the kid can only learn it from you. (Sometimes there's other people outside of the parents that cause the behavior, like if they're hanging around the wrong people. But it's obvious that's not the case with these two)
@@fallenbee the behavior I’m referring to is not her attitude. I’m talking about an 18 year old buying alcohol and selling drugs. Sneaking out, trying to break back into her mom’s house after curfew…that doesn’t excuse her mom’s behavior at all!!! But two things can be true at the same time. None of her behavior is ok, while understanding that a lot of her actions are mirrored from her own mother.
stop kicking your daughter out and give her some tools, are you crazy mom? so much can happen to her out there.. and she really needs you to be a good strong mom...
but when she leaves and stays out willingly its ok and the mother should deal with it?? you can stay out as long as you feel but when i put you out for as long as i feel im wrong she can willingly leave but wrong if the mother puts her out its cool until it doesnt benefit you anymore then you run back home to the same parent you disrespected
@@egujuga you shouldn't think like that man God Forbid if something like this happens to you and like he said your child ends up assaulted or even dead you are gonna be crying your eyes out trying to figure out why couldn't my child come to me about that or crying losing your mind at her funeral and being broken
That is easy to say when you are not living with or dealing with an out of control child. There is no one to help and you get overwhelmed. It is so easy to call someone a bad mom when you are not living on day in her life
They don't care. My mom told me, "You need to learn how to survive like I did". She shamed me for staying with friends by comparing her journey to mine. Saying she never stayed with anyone. Which was a lie. My grandma let her stay, in which she said, "But it was only for two weeks and I left". Mind you, she got housing through section 8, so it was easy for her in the 90s. I was 17 years old, homeless, staying with strangers who I met through a friend. I was taken advantage of by a 37 year old man, in which my mom shamed me for too. I was homeless again @24 and my mom said I needed to figure out what to do with my life. That I needed to get a mental evaluation to get help because I couldn't figure out how to survive. I got my own apartment in my 30s and she wanted me to send pictures as proof.🤦🏽♀️
I ended up having a suicidal mental breakdown last year and again, she wasn't supportive. Yet, she says she loves me, and she says she prays to God that we can work on our relationship 🤦🏽♀️
These mothers are a different breed.
They don't care. My mom told me, "You need to learn how to survive like I did". She shamed me for staying with friends by comparing her journey to mine. Saying she never stayed with anyone. Which was a lie. My grandma let her stay, in which she said, "But it was only for two weeks and I left". Mind you, she got housing through section 8, so it was easy for her in the 90s. I was 17 years old, homeless, staying with strangers who I met through a friend. I was taken advantage of by a 37 year old man, in which my mom shamed me for too. I was homeless again @24 and my mom said I needed to figure out what to do with my life. That I needed to get a mental evaluation to get help because I couldn't figure out how to survive. I got my own apartment in my 30s and she wanted me to send pictures as proof.🤦🏽♀️
I ended up having a suicidal mental breakdown last year and again, she wasn't supportive. Yet, she says she loves me, and she says she prays to God that we can work on our relationship 🤦🏽♀️
These mothers are a different breed.
So much pain between the two of them.
she pissed me clean off. how is that you feel your child needs to respect you more and open up to when you tell them that you cant stand them and don’t like them. and then on too of that say they wanna run the streets but then are the reason they’re living there likeee make it make sense.
Mom is frustrated with her daughters behavior.
And that's her job to correct it and she's not doing that, she suffers form no emotional intelligence
All parents gets frustrated with their children it's literally part of the job
But its not a real job that you can quit.. some parents dont get that
The Mum helped create her daughters behaviour
You don’t call your kids out their name ….
7:12 Karamo ATE THAT ONE THING!!!
I know right!!!!!
LMAOOO BC I WAS WAITING FOR IT
He ended her whole point there And she smiled like it was funny too slow to get Karamo’s point
The mother's a hypocrite.there is an old phrase in the English language. you can't have your cake and eat it too you can't tell your daughter don't be respectful and then you call her the b word like what in the name of garbage is this .
Some people are not meant to be parents if you can't look after them don't have kids then it's not rocket science
Having kids requires commitment, love, discipline , direction. And what i have heard this mother isn't showing those things
I remember being 18 and “grown” still living in my mother’s house… many times she told me to watch my curfew… well one day I came home at 3 am, when I say this lady opened the smallest crack in the door and said “ go back to where you were” I was shook!!!needless to say I was not late anymore for my curfew !!!
Shoot I would’ve had me an emergency entry plan 😂
😂😂😂@BxByDoll927 I was born in the 80's.... I'd have had to make up a very good story and EVEN THEN 🫣
@@BxByDoll927 because if you’re worried about your child being outside at a certain time and they come home late. you lock them out of the house…makes so much sense. Scold them and let them inside
@@bigche9122 that’s why u have a backup plan bcs everyone is gon fuck up at some point
@@bigche9122and when it happens again then what? Respect your parents rules or leave
BAYBEEEEE I LOVE ME SOME KARAMO because he will respectfully humble you and set you straight
Ok, the mother shouldn't be calling the daughter out her name that's MENTAL AND VERBAL ABUSE...Now, seems to me the daughter wants to be grown and do what she wants to do... which is DRINK SALE DRUGS AND SMOKE WEED smh I've been raising my niece since birth, she's now 16yrs and I'll be damned if I tolerate some mess like that. My son who's 24 yrs old ..NOPE I DONT HAVE THESE TYPE OF PROBLEMS 💯💯 parent's make the mistake of being their kids friend SMH kids need structure and discipline and NO I DONT MEAN PHYSICAL👍🏼 OH, and Karamo clowned the mama at the end " we got your daughter"❤❤❤
Yes he did... Try having a disrespectful child in your home, especially a female at 18 who thinks she's grown. Been there done that. What the mom is saying I have felt and I'm not proud but it's real. All we want is for our kids to grow up and be better than all right. The struggle shouldn't be at home; save it for the streets. I feel both of them, but her mother's intentions for growth, safety, and future are not unfounded 😢
This lady is not her kids friend. She is lashing out because her mother has not shown her the love and nurturing she is craving
She can admit to it but it’s pointless if she don’t change her actions
I'm sorry for all those who have teenagers to deal with, I really don't tolerate disrespect. If she's a child she better act like one.
Thank you. Agree 1000%
I agree totally agree. Honor thy mother and thy father! My house my rules period. Yes the mom can correct her language but other than that I’m on mom side
@@Vixiegaxchagirl that verse is for parents that deserve respect. The Bible says spare the rod spoil the child but do not provoke the child to anger. The Bible also speaks on parental abuse. Get the thought out of your head that a woman who willingly put her CHILD into the streets is someone you should be siding with. If you still want to side with someone willing to put their child out and down simply cuz they are upset you don’t need to have children at all
@@Vixiegaxcha Please, never ever have children
The daughter kept saying she's grown and grown people live in their own homes
Period
@@lamishabryant9943 PERIOD !!!
She should.nt be drinking and selling drugs,if she is,but if her mother is calling her a bitch,she dont like her,not worried when she on the streets,that kid is turning to things to make herself feel good..she.s crying out to be loved by her mother...Mother is wrong!!😅
If you were getting kicked out at 15, I’m pretty sure you would feel like you gotta grow up fast too
@@lamishabryant9943 She’s grown NOW as in 18 years old. She wasn’t grown at 15 years old.
You absolutely can do what you want, but your Mother doesn't have to be a part of it. Your mother doesn't have to accept you being bad, being disrespectful, coming in late or ANYTHING else for that matter!
@@angelacarter3283 you have to know her mother influenced that behaviour as well. When she start calling her child's name and stuff. The bad things her daughter does could be the coping mechanisms. It's not right but she can't help it. Look where she was supposed to live at and the person that was supposed to aspire at.
I think it’s clear that the source of this toxicity is the mother’s behaviour. No competent and good parent calls their child these kinds of names. Most likely with a better parent she would be teachable. She’s not outrageously badly behaved manyyyy teenagers go through this stage and actual competent parents get them out the other end and they end up good
And how is throwing them out onto the streets going to help them? If you truly love your children, you will not readily give up on them. You will keep trying to make them change course - and the best way to do that is to continue to love them, guide them and afford them shelter. You're a parent for life, not for eighteen years. Respect has to be learnt before it can be given. That mother shows no respect for her daughter on camera; one can only imagine what she's like at home. How could she have taught respect to her daughter?
Sometimes children think they know more than the parent. My daughter blatantly disrespected me and my household, told me point blank what she would not do, dropped out of school, hanging with boys, and the list goes on. She tried to run my household and we had 2 physical fights where she struck the first blow. I sent her to her father, she begged to come back, I brought her back, and she did the same things on day 1. Her life is in shambles today. She just had baby number 4 against my advise, no job, no man, and no means and I still help her. She has been her own worst enemy and sometimes children have to suffer the consequences of their own actions.
Yep!!!!
You are absolutely correct!
@@kimdean1079 that part 💯
😢wow!, praying for you
But what signs of her struggling did you miss? Children dont just do this without someone teaching them. Was it the tv? Their friends? Other adults around them? You?
You are solely responsible for the outcome of your child. Check yourself
“You say she’s not old enough to drink, but you think she’s old enough to sleep in the streets” this is why I love karamo! People love picking when to parent smh
He gagged tf out of her right there! Cuz if she started kicking her out at 15 to sleep on the streets and not care about where she is…why care that she’s 18 and drinking?? Crazy mixed signals
Yea I need a karamo anonymous meeting Im here 30 secs after posting lovee him
Karamoholics Unite! Lol
@@divinity6482 naw fr. Ngl tho some episodes be one sided
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Raising kids in America must be the hardest and wildest shit ever, lol you mean to tell me someone has a curfew of 12am and they still break it. She is disrespectful in every way and the mother of course is at a breaking point thus name calling. If you still wanna live under a parent's roof, you better abide by the rules. If the rules dont work for you then kick rocks! These kids be spoiled as shit, and it crazy how everyone is seeing everything wrong with the mother and nothing wrong with the daughter wtf.
Because they following up behind that fanboy host, mother supposed to sit there and take the shit and like it.
And the daughter also admitted herself that her mom is overprotective. Is she was such a bad mom why would she be overprotective. She wants to do as she please and everyone is taking her side. Calling her beautiful, pretty etc… I think that’s part of the problem, she is too full of herself. Her mom is just tired.
I watched this entire episode and that young lady was dead wrong and is moving too fast. Yes her mother needs to speak to her better. However that young lady needs to realize she’s a fresh 18 who is very beautiful and men will prey on her. Your mother is not jealous of you she lacks the skills to teach you a better way to conduct yourself. Sounds like the streets will teach her.
@@dayum_mi usually there is a reason why kids move too fast.
@@dayum_mi the daughter said she was an over protective mom. I’m guessing she 18 and feels like she old enough to do much more than she was allowed. I had parents the same way so I understand. Her mom kicking her out and calling her names and leaving her abandoned in another state isn’t going to help. The mother is quite literally letting her child run the streets.
Ppl need to stop using that child card even teenagers do that they’ll fuck a grown ass man then wanna use the im a child card like no
They move too fast because they are stupid and believe their friends. @@ruweydaa5710
No, disrespect. She can do all that but not under your roof. True. I just wouldnt deal with her grown and disrespectfulness. But i wouldnt be calling her out her name, though.
Exactly. Stand her ground but don't call her out her name.
Agreed
I get the mom point of view because being disrespectful by you’re child is painful, that daughter is not an angel
I can’t stop looking at the mom’s neck. lol.
@@janna7249 Right! What is that about?
@@Tflyisme😅
thick neck
This child is mirroring back to this lady what she has put into her. All of the language that the mom used against this young lady was heartbreaking. The young lady admitted what her faults were. Now it’s on the Mom to put aside whatever it is that she’s got against her own child, and mother her child. I’m saying child because 18 for two whole days is still a baby. I hope they can get some resolution because this was just something else to watch.
Yes! This is the result of her mothers actions. Mostly kids are misbehaving because its the only way to get attention
Thank you. The lack of intelligence in the comments is astounding. Kids act out for a reason. Parents need to start taking accountability and acknowledging they’re parenting their kids wrong.
@@theadrenalizedartist6843 chill Ik the girl in real life we was just on ft talking about it
How is she bold enough to think her mom was gonna get her liquor 😂😂😂😂
This was extensive sad to watch. As a mother of 2, my second born is my daughter whom I am so thankful and blessed to have sometimes tests me and my patience is a zero with hr at times but I love her, I want to support her, I want to show her how to be a woman and become the individual she is. She is 14yrs old. These last 3yrs have been nothing but a test for us both and yes, I don't agree with the choices she sometime have made but she is my child. I am her mother. We need to mother, support, model, and display the right character, moral, integrity and mature skills and knowledge to break generational cycles of ABUSE!. I really hope this young lady is on her journey of healing and prosperity!.
That daughter is disrespectful. She couldn't live in my house, after 18. Pointing at her mother, smoking, drinking, and calling her mother bruh. I wouldn't deal with it.
Why are the audience clapping
@@collinsugonnalawrence7113 because they don’t have common sense
Drones
They are prompted to clap, even when Karamo stops them, it’s a person right there who prompts 90% of the audience
@@user-fb6ti9hi9r well the promoter is full of lack of common sense
All this advice until it happen in your home
Right...I been through it first hand people have alot to say judging took mines to counseling, church, in school activities as well as out of school activities and mines still said mom i know all u taught me I still wanna go my own way ...very disrespectful. I let my grown daughter over 20 bk in 3 times got worse she even joined sis in the crap. My sister, her father and my mother all let her stay with them she still wouldn't follow their rules n got put out . Sometimes it's not the parent it's the choices that the ones make the have to suffer their consequences
Let go! Tough love pray for them n let God deal with them 💯
I love Karamo so much! On my Waze app I have his voice for navigation and I get so excited to drive around to his soothing voice!
i have it too lol eases my driving anxiety
I did not know the waze app has voice change feature ❤
As a mother of 3. When your children disrepects you even when you have done everything for them. Its like a stab in the heart. Bad enough people in the world try to tear you down. Yes. I would rather you get away from me then keep hurting me. Family or not!!!
I'm Team Daughter.
Here's why....Although I don't agree with allowing your children to do whatever they want to do, I feel it is the PARENT'S RESPONSIBILTY to be more creative and flexible when dealing with their offspring. She is the leader in that household, so she should implement certain solutions to help her tribe. The Mother has many more years of experience to work with. Therefore, she can get several steps ahead of the daughter's thinking and help the situation from a higher point of view. Of course it's not easy, but it's her responsibility. Resorting to acting just as bad as the teen WILL DEFINITELY NOT help the situation that I'm sure she wants a resolution to. Teens are learning and they are going to go through temptations and tough chapters in their lives. Its called LEARNING. That involves falling down and getting back up. It's not some glorified rainbow glitter journey. Noone would want ANYONE teaching them in a way that is demeaning. I don't care how old you are. This harsh parenting is like trying to fill a black hole BUT only widening the gap.
I can tell the Daughter is disrespectful, but certainly not THAT unreasonable. I can feel her vibes. That Daughter is NOT hell on wheels! She is a bit misguided during this phase of her life, but her Mother is VERY ILL equipped to guide her through this stage. Her Mother is selfish and can't see beyond her own limited perspectives. She is very closed minded. This is what I see.
6:25, you can tell Karamo was disappointed and upset abt the mom's behavior.
The Federal Law, The Juvenile Act, states that a minor child must obey the reasonable request of their parent(s). If she’s caught with alcohol at the hotel that your show is paying for, then your show is liable. If you’re not in the house on or before curfew as a minor then there are consequences and being locked out and having the police called on you could be two of them. Now that’s she’s 18, her mother is no longer responsible nor accountable for her actions and the law will back mother up.
This is just so sad. The mother’s inability to understand the magnitude of her actions is even sadder.
Nah shawty way too grown. Idc she is growing up too fast! Yes, the mother does need to learn how to speak with her, and handle things better. But, the daughter madd disrespectful, the way she dressed and them tattoos/ piercings.. not giving 18, it’s giving 21+.
I live in Barbados in the Caibbean. It is against the law to put our children out as minors.
The young lady is also on drugs. They both need councelling.
She's copping because of her mom she would stop if her mom would be different.
Everybody in the comments blaming the girl. But who raised her? She's a product of her upbringing. The mother is completely at fault here!
She’s not completely at fault. The daughter said herself that she’s her own person which means her actions are hers to be accountable for.
@@terenon49 The daughter is just doing what she's been modeled to do by her mother
@@terenon49when you kick someone out, call them names like you not they child and abandon them in a whole other state, and you just turned 18 off she gonna feel like she her own person cs her mom already said she don’t like her. Idk how y’all not seeing fault in the mother
@@AskAuntyBridisagree did you hear when both mom and Karamo stated mom grew up and a strict environment. The daughter wants to do what she wants like she said she is a different person from her mother and wants to behave in that manner.
Exactly 👏👏 these comments are heartbreaking
Daughter is beautiful reminds me of my daughter hope she finds her path in life all the best parents have to respect kids the same way they're looking for respect
SHE IS NOT A CHILD!
Nope i got kicked out for less than
Yes she is.
Oh, but she is mentally and emotionally. Otherwise she'd be more respectful and take more responsibility for her actions
@@diannawalden5470 sad dysfunctional relationship
She is still a teen.
I'm with the momma,..she can go to a shelter. So what she came on stage and admitted her wrongs.. has she stopped her disrespectful behavior. This little girl knows she's doing wrong and want to still come in her moms house and wild out. Get out go to shelter. To grown behind.
I feel for this mother and her frustration. She's clearly tired and daughter has never made it easy, so I get being over it. You can't do whatever you want and disrespect this woman, but then play the child card because you want to be taken care of. That just isn't gonna fly, so if you want to be grown you have to do it all the way. Otherwise stay in a child's place and stop biting the hand that LITERALLY feeds you
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Exactly karamo in some cases make these children feel it is right what they are doing,and not giving the parents the support needed,that mother looks like she trys her very best and that child want to do what she want to do
Mom shouldn’t complain about the daughter not opening up to her when she says she doesn’t like her, calls her sleazy, & calls her out of her name.
@@Flustered_Potato okay but did she lie?
@@l0rdapophisthe daughter is crazy the mom is wrong for being mean calling her a bitch but she’s causing the mom problems
I my son is 40 now and he has never disrespect me. Because I started him out knowing that I'm the mom and you are the child. I'm not your friend I'm your mom now that he's 40 we are great friends but still with the respect of knowing that I'm still the parent. We respect each other.
I was brought up very strictly but I never imposed that on my son. He was always able to talk to me to tell me things I didn't really want to hear but I would rather that than him not. He was a terror but never ever did he not know he had a safe place to come back to was always there. She is not a mother.
I never had a safe space. I make sure my son knows and feels he has a safe space at home no matter what
I understand both sides… I didn’t even have a mom my father raised me. I have two teenagers and they have called me names and so disrespectful at times. I have broke my back for my kids and sometimes it’s not enough. My son is almost 18 and I have called the cops on him because you will not act like you are going to do anything to me or my kids. These kids are not the kids of the past I would Never!!! Either I call the cops or end up in jail hurting them because they are past disrespectful…. It’s hard dealing with it especially when as a child I never did anything of the sort and I had a very traumatic childhood and I still obeyed idk 🤷♀️…
I wholeheartedly agree!! These are not the same kidssssss. I would HAVE NEVER. My son is 28, he could have never survived in my household being disrespectful. I was hard af on him. And it paid off!
Seems like there was no sympathy nor support FOR the mother, Hopefully, the daughter won't use the fact that NOBODY was on the mother's side against her
That’s true but I think it’s because the daughter was ready and willing to get the help. The daughter acknowledged her wrong doings and her flaws- the mother did not. I hope they work it out, but sometimes it doesn’t work like that
@@Shestheman013 you have a point
A lot of these kids be disrespectful even if the parents are doing everything right by them.
I understand where the mama coming from. If she say she grown let her get out on her own. She can't act grown but still be treated like a child. Both are disrespectful but the mama repsonding to whats being given to her. Now that the streets raising her she wants to go back home but with the same attitude. That lady deserves peace in her house. She right if she not willing to change then dont come back 👏👏 just because she had her dont mean she has to kiss her ssa. Thriw the textbook out the window. That's real life.
This is crazy! The mother is so stuck up and seems like she really don’t give a damn. Her daughter is BEAUTIFUL! Smh. I’m praying for them
Basically she should deal with the disrespect because she's her child get the hell out of here
No! She should be a parent and treat and train her up in the way she should go.
Karamo dropped the ball on this episode. Huge thumbs DOWN. This was completely one sided. YES The daughter should be able to dress how she pleases BUT she is consciously choosing to sell drugs in her mother’s house!!! The daughter is 18 years old ; therefore, she is a woman. What is wrong with her getting her own apartment and selling from her own place, if that is HER lifestyle???? I’m just baffled as to why Karamo would think that is acceptable behavior!!
No one can change people.
All of us must WANT to change . The daughter needs to mature and grow into a phenomenal woman but she will never grow and mature if the mother allows her to say because it sends a message that “selling drugs in my house is ok”. They both need healing and some times it starts with SPACE , living apart at least temporarily. Space is healthy and it can bring out the best qualities in people, no one ever knows until they actually try it . It is a great first step that the daughter has taken accountability. I respect her a lot because people don’t always admit their own wrong doings. So, she has sssooo much potential to grow out of this lifestyle/“phase”.However, the mother should NOT have to accept selling drugs in her own house !! The daughter has to be willing to give that up . I mean she is putting BOTH of them in danger by her actions.
I’m sorry I’m on the mother side. If she’s grown enough to disrespect her mother, sell drugs, get drunk, not following the rules and not going to school, then, yes she can stay outside of the house. That’s part of being an adult. Choices..,
Exactly!!!
You support abandonment then? You're heartless
She's not shes doing what she learned form her mom, kids learned what they live, yall kill me blaming every else but the parents
@@Shlbizzy_21 Are you sure she learned that from her mother? You give a child everything except a mind. I am sure you heard the mother said, the things her daughter is doing she has never done those things, if you was listening. The only thing I don't agree with the mother is calling her names, that is not appropriate. Kids learn from the company they keep and when they cannot get what they want.
That part
Great mom she's being a parent most of y'all wants your parents to be friends no it doesn't work that way when she gets grown and have kids she will see
A 5 year old will say they’re grown up enough to make decisions and throw tantrums, and we as adults know that’s a behaviour they need to learn and be educated away from with love and boundaries. A teenager is just in another phase of that - our brains aren’t even fully developed until our mid twenties. Yes, teenage behaviour is challenging, but meeting it with abusive language and behaviour is never going to change it for the better. Respect is a two way street.
Are they sisters or mother and daughter. They need some serious counseling. I don't care how much my daughter gets on my nerves I would never turn her out to the streets 18 is not grown I hope she goes back to school and change her ways
It’s never ok for a parent to call their child a Bitch it’s sad she keep telling her mom you don’t like me the mom is really mentally abusing her daughter then putting her out in the streets is sad my heart really goes out to the daughter
She wants to be treated like a child, but doesn't want to act like one.
Exactly.
These comment are INSANITY, the fact that yall are agreeing with the mom proves why we have so many issues ESPECIALLY mental health issue within our community. The daughter was willing to work on their relationship, she knows what she has done wrong and she’s taking accountability..therefore what exactly are yall agreeing with the mom for???
Sidenote: the fact that yall think you can tell the THERAPIST what’s right and wrong is absolutely hilarious. If u disagree with a person that does this line of work for a living YOU’RE THE PROBLEM
So getting alcohol the night before and mom should not respond?
Exactly!!! It's honestly disgustingly sad how many agree with the mom who is clearly the problem. I'm so happy karamo spoke on it 👏
@@courtney4808The audience, Karamo, & the comment section agrees that the daughter getting alcohol was not appropriate.
@@Flustered_Potato right like are we crazy!!! She disrespectful and acting grown she needs to go be grown. That is huge flag. The mother did not condone it and drink with her. Yet the audience and him said the mother is the problem??? Blowing my mind
@@courtney4808 The mom is PART of the problem. How does she expect her child to respect her when she’s calls her daughter out of her name, says she doesn’t like her, abandons her in another state, & says she doesn’t care about her whereabouts? To expect respect when she treats her child that way is not right.
Meanwhile, at least the daughter had the courage to admit that she’s disrespectful, doesn’t listen, and has destructive behaviors. It seems like she at least WANTS to change.
Like Karamo said at the end, they need to meet each other halfway.
Karamo you drop the ball on this. I was a foster parent and especially the sweet innocent ones will play the crap out of anyone. No it’s not right what the mom said but it’s facts. You can love someone deeply but hate their nasty ways. I felt when she said why care when she does not care. Everyone keep blaming the mother like what…… how dare the mother demand respect, set boundaries, and not be her child friend by allowing her to drink alcohol the night before the show!!!! Y’all are crazy. I feel bad for parents dam if do dam if you don’t. You can raise them in the best possible way and kids will turn out however
Y’all crazy I’m with the mother. This child think she grown she needs to go be grown
Karamo finna change your daughter’s life, Sorry to this Mom! To the Daughter girl if this don’t make you go hard, I don’t know what!
Nah karamo I'm understanding the mom's frustration that teen is way off the charts drinking and being unruly nah man
id call the cops too and if she called she should know she is wrong as well and now you want to pull the im a child card like be fr you didnt have that mindset do all those adult activities
I definitely agree with what you’re saying but consider the fact that there may be a reason why she’s drinking and being unruly . If she’s continuously being kicked out you think she’ll stop being unruly or it’ll accelerate more . The mom isn’t helping the problem
That's what teen that's called rebelling, u clearly forgot what it was like to be a teen and yall don't like kids and it shows
@egujugapupfh7543 shes a teen, that's what they do, do u forget what it was like to be a teen, tf is wrong with u people
I agree Karamo is off. That girl is a terror. Her mom is tired. But mom can only blame herself. She raised her into being that beautiful person
She just turned 18. My question is how did the mom parent or treat the daughter during her childhood? There's a reason her daughter has turned to drugs, dresses a certain way (not saying it's bad), or is disrespectful. You can't stand her behavior but that behavior came from somewhere and as a parent you didn't properly guide your kid to the correct behavior. The mom sounds immature and may be slightly jealous and has probably always felt this way. The young lady KEPT saying the mom don't like her, that didn't just start. The mother is the problem and social services should have been called each time she called the police and kicked that girl out
I dont agree that this is all the mother's fault. They both need to learn how to talk to each other.
Yellow hat is my whole mood 9:41
Hands and serving face and all
I'm with mom. These kids are crazy. You want to do you, do it at YOUR house.
Exactly cus it’s not fair to the parents who don’t do anything and then they get into a gang they look for the son or daughter and the parents get killed the child wanted to do what they want but
There’s something chronically wrong with the mother daughter relationships today it’s really sad to see
True.
This is one I don’t agree with fully. No name calling definitely but bypassing the legal issues with drugs and buying liquor.. HELL NO. Mama ain’t gonna have to call the cops.. she is gonna get herself locked up or unalived. I’m not letting a drug dealer live in my house.. my child or not. If you can sale in the streets you can live there as well. You can come home when you ready to change your life.
I knew about a local girl in my area who’s mom locked her out of the house, and because the girl had nowhere to stay - she ended with someone who had bad intentions. She was sex trafficked and later died. There’s a way to reprimand the whole curfew thing without putting your child in harm’s way. It makes no sense to get mad at your kid for not being home when you want them to, and then push them even further into the trouble/problems you want them to avoid.
When you decide you wanna stop parenting and push your kid away, something in these streets will always be eager to pick them up!
That daughter is disrespectful, don't let that pretty face fool y'all.
Buying alcohol at 18? The audacity!!
Some people don’t need to be having kids period!!! That lady is a mess
But u don’t know what’s going on at homs
THANK YOU KARAMON!!!!
she’s 18 and a Young Woman and Beautiful IM SURPRISED WHEN HER MOM SAID “SELLIN” that SHE AINT SAID “SELLIN HER BODY” BECAUSE A LOt OF YOUNG GIRLS WHOS MOTHERS KICK THEM TO THE STREETS GO THAT ROUTE/OR RUN AWAYS! IM SURPRISED SHES NOT PREGNANT OR HAD A TEEN BABY, MOM UNDERSTAND YOU DID A GOOD JOB WHILE SHE WAS YOUNG BUT NOW SHES GETTING OLDER AND WHAT THE OLD FOLKS SAID WAS DISRESPECTFUL AND FAST AND GROWN AND HOW THEY PUNISHED ECT (IS NOT IT/AND TIMES HAVE CHANGED/AND STATS EVEN SHOW IT).
*IN MY OWN HOME* I REMEMBER WHEN PEOPLE USE TO LOOK AT ME AND MY 3 KIDZ RELATIONSHIP AND HOW I PARENT AND HAVE SUMIN TO SAY) but THEY NOT LOOKING INTO THEY OWN HOUSEHOLD! MY 14 year old son HONOR ROLL AND HAVE BEEN HONORED A FEW TIMES FROM THE CITY OF SAN francisco. HONOR ROLL FROM HIS SCHOOL SINCE 1st grade AND AFRICAN AMERICAN HONORS, HE HAS HAD OPPORTUNITIES AT THE MAYORS OFFICE ECT. MY DAUGHTER WHO IS 10 HONOR ROLL STUDENT 1ST GRADE AND SHE WINS DANCE CONTEST/BEST HALLOWEEN CUSTOMS/SHE DOES GYMNASTICS AND VERY POPULAR AT SCHOOL… MY YOUNGEST WHO IS 6 1st grade HAS SOME COORDINATION ISSUES BUT IS VERY MATURE, SWEET, and CAN TELL YOU WHAT WHERE AND HOW AND WHEN IN THE STORY OVER OTHER STUDENTS!!!!! I WAS A 15 year old RUN AWAY (BEEN THERE DONE THAT) had my 1st child at 18. I ALLOWED MY CHILDREN TO BE THEM AND DEVELOPED AN OPEN SPACE AND DIDNT DISCIPLINE OR CORRECT THEM OUT LOUD TO EMBARRASS THEM/ I MAKE IT MY MISSON TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH THE TEACHERS, I TELL THEM BEFORE GOING IN SOMEWHERE WHAT THE SITUATION IS AND I DONT LIE TO THEM I JUST KEEP IT AGE APPROPRIATE (((ON PURPOSE))) because my own mother did not do these things so i wanted to see IF IT WOULD WORK. so far SO GOOD
no karmo u chewed the mom out while allowing the CHILD to get a pass that's not right i agree with the mom and i see her heart she had good intentions and want a better relationship with her child, now i don't agree with how she handled situations and her choice of words when she was mad but lets not just point the finger at the reaction lets look at the actions that caused it too. if that lil girl can run the streets, have s3x with grown men, dress promiscuously, smoke weed, and disrespect her mother wishes when shes trying to get her to change her ways, she DESERVES to be put out if she has the mind to do those things she should have the mind to create a stable life for herself outside of her mother. i really hate how you bypassed all that n targeted the mom i knew from the moment that girl started talking she was fast n up to no good (like many youths are these days) i could also tell she probably with whatever grown ass man when she gets put out so that staying on the street bit was for sympathy.
Exactly she not staying in no streets. She just did not say that grown man name
I love how karamo speaks from the heart you can see he is fighting back tears it's so real with him id love to meet him I need help myself
I am with the mother on this one. This girl is doing way too much and will likely later in life realize her behavior is messed up. All the mother wants from her is to behave, be respectful, dress appropriately for her age, not drink, not smoke, etc. The girl wants to be a rebel and wants to constantly be disrespectful.
Right she disrespectful
Agreed 💯💯
I LOOve how karamo always offers additional support ❤
I'd say the same thing...if you can break my curfew, then go back to where you were in breaking the curfew!!! Life isnt always about doing what you want to do!!! She will see in time what her mother was talking about. Just before the show the daughter was still showing disrespect to the WHOLE process!!!! In a city she knows nothing about. Girl! What does it take???! Karamo where are the boundaries for the child?
Exactly!!! You then the kid dies now ppl wnana cal u a bad parent you done ur job some parents don’t do there job. But calling her a bitch is wrong but she needs to fine a man that will put up with her shit and keep it moving some men will deal with that and some won’t. Samething with the men they wanna be babies having babies with women and not taking care of them or dating women disrespecting them as well. U know there’s men that r with women making them suffer cus they couldn’t control there parents? So they figure if I can get a women I’ll control her cus I couldn’t get my way and the women be putting up with that like what?
This young lady is so beautiful and very intelligent, all she needs is the RIGHT person in her life to give her healthy guidance and assurance. Baby girl keep your head on straight, finish school and be great with or without your mother's blessing