They are the only men visible to women, so that is all they see. They won't hear us decry that behaviour because they find that behaviour hot and attractive (dark triad traits). I was told I have a bias because all I've met is bad girls and I just need to meet a good girl ( coming from a woman who was friend zoning me ) but when all these girls come from different walks of life and different levels of status but they are all the same, vapid, empty, devoid of life and honor.
I agree with most of what you say and I think society and the world is currently undergoing a huge paradigm shift. We need to stay strong and hope for better days. I can relate to the binge drinking and general nihilism pre pandemic it was around that time I pretty much quit drinking because the party scene pretty much shut down and many of my favorite places to drink went out of business. So I guess that’s one positive to come from the global shut down.
Dr. Orion got really popular recently. In his therapy practice, he said most men just wanted to be treated with kindess and respect, and most of all just not be hated... it's crazy that it's gotten this far, where dudes are happy just to not be hated for existing...
For most men "temptations of flesh" are not about power, its more of to anesthetize horror of existence. When all in my life was well I was disciplined, fit, ate healthy never drinked or smoked and never undestood people with bad habits and addictions. When SHTF I was a wreck, im slowly going back relising that me destroying myself only makes thigs worse bu slowly. And its not easy, because life hurts. Ironicaly its protestant pastors who preach humility get all the action as figures of respect and authority with their local cult of personality.
Exactly why I stopped attending churches. It's just a weird cult of personality with a lot of these people. I can honestly say I have met better Christians homeless and getting into fights
Yeah. It’s all systematically on purpose. With the birth of the internet and access to information, the playing field started leveling out. “Hard work beats talent, when talent doesn’t work hard”. If you got talent AND you work hard, they gotta phase you out. Men make change.
There is nothing worse than badly mixed audio when I'm trying to fall asleep - suddenly some fucker starts yelling or plays a clip of people having their home bombed or whatever... fuck, so hard to find the perfect thing to fall asleep to. I find Robert Sephr good but... he only has 2 playlists and one of them is like all 350 videos so it never stops!
You’re totally correct, I believe. A very small group of rich men have had institutional power for as long as civilization has existed, but the vast majority of men have never had any type of power. Sure, they had the “privilege” of dominating their wives and children for thousands of years(and currently still in many parts of the world), but I do not believe men want this “privilege” or that they enjoy it in any sense. I mean, it’s gotta suck to grow up in a society that conditions you to believe that you must abuse your wife and children, and that it’s for their own good. That the survival of your family is completely on you, because you have to be the one that makes all the money, and you also have to go home at the end of the day and treat those closest to you like they are your property. There’s nothing natural about this. And sure, we can say that men didn’t have to dominate their families, and that they chose to be that way, but such a belief portrays very little understanding of how the human psyche operates. We are all products of our circumstances, and for thousands and thousands of years, boys were forced to deny their humanity, their sensitivity and their innate empathy in favor of being “real men” who took care of business and did what was best for their families. I feel so much compassion for the males of our species. I certainly feel compassion for the females too, but girls and women have never been forced to the extent boys and men have to deny our humanity. We have always been socially permitted, to some extent at least, to feel our feelings and care deeply for others. I know that was kind of off topic, but I think lack of power is very linked to denial of our humanity, because our humanity IS our power. And if a boy got lucky and had parents who didn’t force him to completely repress his humanity, there was a good chance he’d never feel like he’s the way he’s supposed to be. A boy with parents who nurture his humanity becomes a total outcast in a society full of men whose parents were petrified of theirs.
Coast to Coast brings back a lot of memories. Midnight in the Desert with Art Bell if you want the OG of Coast to Coast AM after he left the show due to issues with the station and George Noory. They are archived on youtube.
holy crap, all those bands you listed are the exact bands i grew up on, i was part of the 90s 2000s plastic mcjesus era, going to christian book stores, church summer camps, friday night bible studies. disciple is a great band, great guitar work, switchfoot has songs i still play on guitar for fun. great video, good talk.
Funny, I also recently started listening to coast to coast am as background noise. Last year I went down the bigfoot podcast rabbit hole 😆. It's probably bullshit, but a fun rabbit hole to explore.
I'm not sure that women prefer their men to not be white. At least in my experience some of my black or asian friends who struggle to date like to mention the JBW (just be white) theory in regards to dating. However I'm not completely sure
@@raymond_sycamore So it would come on in my area before Coast to Coast. I used to listen to lots of AM back in the day. The show was absolutely hilarious. It was a fake talk show, and Phil would play the host and also pretend to be a ridiculous guest on the phone. He would switch back and forth and have a 3 way conversation with just 2 people, it was brilliant. So it was like a talk radio show just trolling callers who would call in because they were angry at whatever ridiculous idea the guest was proposing. Check it out, its hilarious. Phil was also a voice actor on King of the Hill sometimes.
"I don't want it to do camera." 😂 That's how I talk to my phone sometimes! On a serious note, I'm glad you no longer drink, brother. I don't drink 🍺 anymore either. And I give all the credit to Jesus. Not theology, not religion, not even Christianity. But Jesus Christ of Nazareth! ✝️ He does all the work and wants us to rest in that.
Man... this video hits home. Im nowhere near articulate enough to put what im feeling into words... but this video hit me hard. Im glad im not alone. I feel like an observer just watching all of this craziness.
wtf so many comments :D thank god i have somehow a purpose that’s making me completely fulfilled and happy. it’s 7/10 delusional tho :D and nothing makes me change it.
@@raymond_sycamore i was about to write a comment there too. i did not send it but i hope nick gets treated well^^ "society that conditions men to dominate their wife but we actually dont want to" going to watch it*
I enjoy your videos, but this is a defeatist attitude and weak. A lot of men that feel this way have a very rigid definition of their ideal partner. Many want a conventionally beautiful partner, but are not willing to be conventionally attractive or look the part. You also say “women don’t look at me in the street” - like man, you’re gonna have to have some level of reality. What makes you so great that they should gawk at you in the street? Also you have agency…. Moreover. It’s important to note that you swear off living in a big metropolitan city Center. While you state the benefits, one of the consequences you must live with is a significantly smaller dating pool, job market, etc.
He's not talking about being gawked at. He is talking about how if you are under a certain ratio of attractiveness now, women actively turn their eyes away from you and try to avoid you. Women get the 'ick' and then will avoid men who seem to give them that 'ick'. This is the phenomena he is describing... not a savage lust for action, he literally just wants people to acknowledge he exists and respect him. Have you ever had strangers literally bump carts into your hip or walk into you despite looking in your general area? We have. I also shower and groom daily and would consider myself a 6/10 on a looks chart especially with the fact I have a full, thick head of hair that I comb and trim on the regular at 33. I'm no longer looking for a female partner, I procreated and did my duty to my bloodline and humankind already in my twenties, I just want to be acknowledged for what I do.
@@Rexhunterj Once again - if you want conventionally attractive women to notice you, you need your looks to align to theirs. I'm talking about how you dress, groom, etc. There is a certain level of conformity that's required. You need to accept that dating is a game, there are rules. This video and your comment read like a child who is unhappy with the rules, so you stopped playing. It's lame... And I repeat, these problems are only exacerbated by living in small counties. A choice you made, and if this is some kind of revelation to you, then you're naive.
Thanks!
Ian! Thank you sir!
"Most men live a life of quiet desperation" is a quote that always sticks with me.
It's painfully true.
Henry David Thoreau, "On Walden Pond"
The truth is this world is temporary, and there is nothing in it that can satisfy.
No better way to put it honestly.
I hope you find Christ... He is the ultimate purpose in this life.
@@bobcobb158😂😂🤣🤣
@@bobcobb158 Christ is just a symbol to help you heal a wound that ultimately only you can heal.
Precisely. The “patriarchy” that has been written and talked about for generations is an extremely small subset of men that exist in a time and place.
AKA Old white conservative boomers
They are the only men visible to women, so that is all they see.
They won't hear us decry that behaviour because they find that behaviour hot and attractive (dark triad traits).
I was told I have a bias because all I've met is bad girls and I just need to meet a good girl ( coming from a woman who was friend zoning me ) but when all these girls come from different walks of life and different levels of status but they are all the same, vapid, empty, devoid of life and honor.
@@GenZealousmore so the old rich dudes on the Titanic
@@samuelmmmk181 No, those were the ones they wanted to get rid of. Look at who cancelled their trip at the last minute.
@@GenZealous Only those that wear tiny hats.
I was living in my truck 12 or so years ago and for 8 months straight I listened to Coast to Coast to go to sleep.
I agree with most of what you say and I think society and the world is currently undergoing a huge paradigm shift. We need to stay strong and hope for better days. I can relate to the binge drinking and general nihilism pre pandemic it was around that time I pretty much quit drinking because the party scene pretty much shut down and many of my favorite places to drink went out of business. So I guess that’s one positive to come from the global shut down.
Men dont want to be given anything, we want to belong somewhere. Where is that?
Chuck E. Cheese?
The vagina?
It's in the place we create for ourselves. Lead and others will follow when they want to.
Mars
Dr. Orion got really popular recently. In his therapy practice, he said most men just wanted to be treated with kindess and respect, and most of all just not be hated...
it's crazy that it's gotten this far, where dudes are happy just to not be hated for existing...
For most men "temptations of flesh" are not about power, its more of to anesthetize horror of existence.
When all in my life was well I was disciplined, fit, ate healthy never drinked or smoked and never undestood people with bad habits and addictions. When SHTF I was a wreck, im slowly going back relising that me destroying myself only makes thigs worse bu slowly. And its not easy, because life hurts.
Ironicaly its protestant pastors who preach humility get all the action as figures of respect and authority with their local cult of personality.
I agree most successful evangelical pastors cultivate a cult around their personal image.
@@raymond_sycamore100 percent
Exactly why I stopped attending churches. It's just a weird cult of personality with a lot of these people. I can honestly say I have met better Christians homeless and getting into fights
The only power a man will ever have is over his own thoughts and actions.
and nobody cares about those
@@raymond_sycamore I care about mine, and that's enough for me.
You are so right! Love you channel!
@@Melsedey855 thank you for being here
Thanks for the upload. Enjoyed hanging out in your Live! Looking forward to more.
Edit: true watchers will know the Focus Trick 📸
@@Allplussomeminus thank you for watching the whole thing 😉
Look for old Bill Cooper radio shows. Chilling stuff.
We are clearly living through a well planned agenda.
Yeah. It’s all systematically on purpose. With the birth of the internet and access to information, the playing field started leveling out. “Hard work beats talent, when talent doesn’t work hard”. If you got talent AND you work hard, they gotta phase you out. Men make change.
There is nothing worse than badly mixed audio when I'm trying to fall asleep - suddenly some fucker starts yelling or plays a clip of people having their home bombed or whatever... fuck, so hard to find the perfect thing to fall asleep to. I find Robert Sephr good but... he only has 2 playlists and one of them is like all 350 videos so it never stops!
Advertisements are often the worst, high pitched loud shit
Great vid, i like these long form videos i listen to them when i jog.
Thanks for being here, good workout!
You’re totally correct, I believe. A very small group of rich men have had institutional power for as long as civilization has existed, but the vast majority of men have never had any type of power. Sure, they had the “privilege” of dominating their wives and children for thousands of years(and currently still in many parts of the world), but I do not believe men want this “privilege” or that they enjoy it in any sense. I mean, it’s gotta suck to grow up in a society that conditions you to believe that you must abuse your wife and children, and that it’s for their own good. That the survival of your family is completely on you, because you have to be the one that makes all the money, and you also have to go home at the end of the day and treat those closest to you like they are your property. There’s nothing natural about this. And sure, we can say that men didn’t have to dominate their families, and that they chose to be that way, but such a belief portrays very little understanding of how the human psyche operates. We are all products of our circumstances, and for thousands and thousands of years, boys were forced to deny their humanity, their sensitivity and their innate empathy in favor of being “real men” who took care of business and did what was best for their families. I feel so much compassion for the males of our species. I certainly feel compassion for the females too, but girls and women have never been forced to the extent boys and men have to deny our humanity. We have always been socially permitted, to some extent at least, to feel our feelings and care deeply for others. I know that was kind of off topic, but I think lack of power is very linked to denial of our humanity, because our humanity IS our power. And if a boy got lucky and had parents who didn’t force him to completely repress his humanity, there was a good chance he’d never feel like he’s the way he’s supposed to be. A boy with parents who nurture his humanity becomes a total outcast in a society full of men whose parents were petrified of theirs.
Coast to Coast brings back a lot of memories.
Midnight in the Desert with Art Bell if you want the OG of Coast to Coast AM after he left the show due to issues with the station and George Noory.
They are archived on youtube.
Yep, I watch those too.
I enjoyed the one-minute-long live search struggle. 😁
I appreciate you.
You better build yourself a little brick patio for that chair. don’t put patio furniture on grass. I don’t care if it’s 3’x3’ you deserve a patio
holy crap, all those bands you listed are the exact bands i grew up on, i was part of the 90s 2000s plastic mcjesus era, going to christian book stores, church summer camps, friday night bible studies. disciple is a great band, great guitar work, switchfoot has songs i still play on guitar for fun. great video, good talk.
Yeah, I was scene before it was a scene.
Funny, I also recently started listening to coast to coast am as background noise.
Last year I went down the bigfoot podcast rabbit hole 😆. It's probably bullshit, but a fun rabbit hole to explore.
where do you find the old re-runs on coast to coast?
UA-cam
haha, I do the same, Coast to Coast, but with Art Bell
I vacillate between the two.
Not if you educate yourself and every person you come into contact with.
bahahhahahhaa don't make me laugh.... oh wait, you're serious
I'm not sure that women prefer their men to not be white. At least in my experience some of my black or asian friends who struggle to date like to mention the JBW (just be white) theory in regards to dating. However I'm not completely sure
ever listen to the hour of the time
No I have not. What is it?
@@raymond_sycamore Bill Cooper podcasts, from the 80's and 90's
@@richardraymond7775 thank you for the recommendations
Excellent content!
Raymond , do you remember the Phil Hendrie show? You and I have had similar paths because I know almost all of your references
No, I have never heard of it
@@raymond_sycamore So it would come on in my area before Coast to Coast. I used to listen to lots of AM back in the day. The show was absolutely hilarious. It was a fake talk show, and Phil would play the host and also pretend to be a ridiculous guest on the phone. He would switch back and forth and have a 3 way conversation with just 2 people, it was brilliant. So it was like a talk radio show just trolling callers who would call in because they were angry at whatever ridiculous idea the guest was proposing. Check it out, its hilarious. Phil was also a voice actor on King of the Hill sometimes.
"I don't want it to do camera." 😂 That's how I talk to my phone sometimes!
On a serious note, I'm glad you no longer drink, brother. I don't drink 🍺 anymore either. And I give all the credit to Jesus. Not theology, not religion, not even Christianity. But Jesus Christ of Nazareth! ✝️ He does all the work and wants us to rest in that.
Hi Raymond, have you ever considered dating outside your race? You should give it a try, you might have more luck 😊👍
Everyone knows white women are the best looking. It’s a harsh truth
There has been little interest from any women, honestly.
@@Stryv4Prfctn white women are the best looking and everyone knows it. But everyone should stay with their own race.
@@swagdonor2357 Im a white dude but i find black women to be the best looking imo.
@@Invisitatus that’s interesting. The majority of people in the world favor the white ones. Why is attractive about them to you?
Man... this video hits home. Im nowhere near articulate enough to put what im feeling into words... but this video hit me hard. Im glad im not alone. I feel like an observer just watching all of this craziness.
wtf so many comments :D
thank god i have somehow a purpose that’s making me completely fulfilled and happy.
it’s 7/10 delusional tho :D and nothing makes me change it.
@@realmcafee scroll down to the one by “Katie and nick,” it’s a real doozie. I’m going to make a video about it
@@raymond_sycamore i was about to write a comment there too. i did not send it but i hope nick gets treated well^^
"society that conditions men to dominate their wife but we actually dont want to"
going to watch it*
u don't even have the power to grow hair lmao
You got a tiny penis
@22:08 "Women should keep silent."
Huh?
I was making point related to 1 Timothy 2:12.
Reminds me that the Japanese kanji for "noisy" is the kanji for "woman" written x3 lol.
I enjoy your videos, but this is a defeatist attitude and weak.
A lot of men that feel this way have a very rigid definition of their ideal partner. Many want a conventionally beautiful partner, but are not willing to be conventionally attractive or look the part. You also say “women don’t look at me in the street” - like man, you’re gonna have to have some level of reality. What makes you so great that they should gawk at you in the street? Also you have agency….
Moreover. It’s important to note that you swear off living in a big metropolitan city Center. While you state the benefits, one of the consequences you must live with is a significantly smaller dating pool, job market, etc.
He's not talking about being gawked at.
He is talking about how if you are under a certain ratio of attractiveness now, women actively turn their eyes away from you and try to avoid you.
Women get the 'ick' and then will avoid men who seem to give them that 'ick'.
This is the phenomena he is describing... not a savage lust for action, he literally just wants people to acknowledge he exists and respect him.
Have you ever had strangers literally bump carts into your hip or walk into you despite looking in your general area? We have. I also shower and groom daily and would consider myself a 6/10 on a looks chart especially with the fact I have a full, thick head of hair that I comb and trim on the regular at 33. I'm no longer looking for a female partner, I procreated and did my duty to my bloodline and humankind already in my twenties, I just want to be acknowledged for what I do.
@@Rexhunterj Once again - if you want conventionally attractive women to notice you, you need your looks to align to theirs. I'm talking about how you dress, groom, etc. There is a certain level of conformity that's required. You need to accept that dating is a game, there are rules. This video and your comment read like a child who is unhappy with the rules, so you stopped playing. It's lame...
And I repeat, these problems are only exacerbated by living in small counties. A choice you made, and if this is some kind of revelation to you, then you're naive.
@@heistkids Grooming and dressing have nothing to do with it. People can't magically grow facial bones or hair or height.
@@Invisitatus this is a loser mindset. Point blank period
@@heistkids Reality hurts, but you can either face it head on like a MAN, or you can run away like a coward as you're doing.