Stop being too nice and people pleasing | Learn how to say no

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  • Опубліковано 25 лис 2024

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  • @ConsciousMatters
    @ConsciousMatters  Рік тому +1

    Do you catch yourself being too nice instead of just being kind while maintaining healthy boundaries to protect your own well-being?

  • @kitkat4329
    @kitkat4329 Рік тому +5

    Your message is spot on. I was always very nice, but without boundaries and felt like a doormat. I changed everything this year. I don’t fix people anymore. I started my own business, let go of a one-sided relationship, and I stopped people pleasing. I’m still kind to everyone I meet, but with boundaries. I have never felt so good about my new life, and so many positive things and people have been coming my way. Thank you for your video. It helps solidify what has taken me so long to figure out.

    • @ConsciousMatters
      @ConsciousMatters  Рік тому

      Thank you KitKat! I’m so glad my video solidified your new perspective on life and setting up boundaries. It means a lot to me. Haha I definitely resonate with the “I don’t fix ppl anymore”
      It looks like you did a full 180 and a lot of inner work. Great job! And congrats on launching your own business 👏 Keep on doing you!

  • @NaturalzMuah
    @NaturalzMuah Рік тому +3

    Girl keep speaking the truth, the minute you say “no” others start taking offense. Love the quote.

    • @ConsciousMatters
      @ConsciousMatters  Рік тому +1

      I 💯 appreciate that, thank you Neeks! Yes, we definitely have to not take their offense personally and keep moving in our truth.

  • @tarieret
    @tarieret 5 місяців тому

    Thank you for these videos, they are super helpful 💐💕

    • @ConsciousMatters
      @ConsciousMatters  2 місяці тому

      Glad you they speak to you and helping you in your journey 🙌 Thanks for watching!

  • @sunnylight5753
    @sunnylight5753 Рік тому +1

    👍🏼❤️True.

  • @maryfraraccio2572
    @maryfraraccio2572 Рік тому +1

    First off, come on, really? I don't think anyone can be too nice. Really? I'll be back and let you know what I think after I watch the video. See you then. Thank you so much for your genuine authenticity and selflessness. I appreciate the advice and time you put into your work here. Your so nice and pleasantly polite and at the same time your not one bit phony nice, or waste fully nice. I enjoyed watching your video a lot and am surprised how much. My Granny used to have a plaque on her wall that says love thine enemy it will drive them crazy. It's rightly spoken too. My neighbor is always telling me , i am too nice. I always tell her that I don't see how anyone can be too nice and I genuinely mean it. How ever if she were a better listener she'd also know that I'm a smart ass and a bit overly humorous too. Any way you are nice înd refreshing to listen to so I leave my comments with a thumbs up and look forward to listening to more of your videos. Good work and great skills always pays off in the end. I wish you the best. Congratulations this is one time I don't mind being won over. You did some hard work too. It shows. Thanks again and keep it up there's tens of good in you and your a great role model. Even for an old Granny's fanny like me. Lol. Oh yeah, I'm going to forward this on to my neighbor friend. I think she'll value your work as well. I don't subscribe to everything i watch, or everyone i watch but your well on your way after i see some more of your good work. God's blessings to you and here's to your great contributions to others. Thank you little lady.

    • @ConsciousMatters
      @ConsciousMatters  Рік тому

      I’m glad watching this video shifted your perspective and that you came back with renewed feedback.
      You’re so welcome! My hard work is well paid off with comments such as yours. Thank you Mary for spreading the message by sharing this video and for all of your wishes and kind thoughtful supportive words, I’m grateful for them and happy to count you as a new subscriber. Take good care of yourself ✨ Oh and you’re definitely funny 😅

  • @danielleamerson8654
    @danielleamerson8654 Рік тому

    Yep

  • @surveyman1
    @surveyman1 2 місяці тому

    Get rid of the FAT. Wow. A little edit could be much more concise and verbally smooth. Get a video and have someone audit and edit for you.
    😮

    • @ConsciousMatters
      @ConsciousMatters  2 місяці тому

      Online bullying is not a cute look, it shows weakness. Wishing you a lot of healing and to free yourself from all this hate within you 🙌