One Year on Antidepressants | Things I Wish I Knew

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  • @ElaineSharon358
    @ElaineSharon358 Рік тому +2

    I have been on anti depressants for years and I think they have helped me so much. I am so glad you are doing better. There is no shame in seeking medication for helping you along in your journey. I think it takes a strong person to know when they need some extra help. I loved the reference like a “blanket” when describing how meds can help. I am a longtime fan and enjoy your videos. You are a beautiful soul and wish you all the best from Warner Robins Georgia USA 🇺🇸 ❤️

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому

      This almost made me cry. Thank YOU. It is comments like this that make me want to keep going, and you have given me that gift. Sending a hug your way. 🧡

  • @jameswilloughby5240
    @jameswilloughby5240 Рік тому +2

    Very good and clear video. Having myself being on antidepressants for numerous years now, which they enable me to function and clear the grey cloud looming over me.
    Enjoy the summer and sun down in Brighton which I'm sure will help you

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому +1

      Bless your heart - I know what you mean about the grey clouds. Look after yourself. 🧡

  • @Barbara.Barany
    @Barbara.Barany Рік тому +3

    Thanks for this video! I myself have always had general anxiety but I was classified as “an introvert child” and “sensitive” because the term “anxiety” was non-existent in society and mental health issues were stigmatized and equivalent with craziness - and I am a young European woman so it was not that long ago 🙃 When I reached the age of 25 my general anxiety developed into depression and due to that I was unable to eat, I was unable to work, unable to enjoy life or be around people my family included. That’s when my Mom brought me to a psychiatrist and I remember I thought nobody on Earth would be able to sort out my life. The doc, bless him, prescribed me immediately an antidepressant and we started a 10-session long cognitive therapy. This combo made miracles to me. It was the best period in my life! I felt empowered, happy, curious, open, chatty with people (meee the introvert, imagine 😅), my eating habits got normalized, I felt like I was the happiest protagonist of my life. I have been taking antidepressant ever since. I tried to stop taking in 2 times but both times I returned to my anxious state that I remember so clearly from my childhood so I happily and voluntarily went back to taking it again. After the second attempt I got totally convinced that for me this is going to be a life-time thing and I don’t mind it at all!
    I am even eager to break down the stigma and I openly speak about it at work too.
    I tell to everyone that for me this is like insuline for someone with diabetes. I need to take it to be OK. It is not my choice, it is facts. My body is unable to keep enough serotonine on its own thus it needs medical help to do it. Just like someone whose body is not able to produce enough insuline. Should anyone suffer when there is medical help? Absolutely not.
    Let’s normalize mental health as part of body issues. Our head is part of out body, why let it suffer alone while taking care of other parts?
    Much love ❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому +2

      I adore this comment, as usual Barbara. Thank you for giving us such a special insight into this - and giving your opinion too. You're such a wonderful human, and such a valued member of this community. Thank you for being, and for being here. 🧡

    • @Barbara.Barany
      @Barbara.Barany Рік тому

      @@IamBecca 🧡🧡

  • @valentinacardona173
    @valentinacardona173 Рік тому

    I think I have dealt with depression for many years but I was just medically diagnosed with both depression and anxiety 7 months ago . I went to psychiatrist first but have been on psycologist therapy only , I still feel very bad and I never rule out taking antidepressants .
    Mental health is such a huge deal so getting help is so important , I’m glad you are doing it and you’re very brave because of it. Thank you for talking about this .

  • @catherinebornemisa
    @catherinebornemisa Рік тому

    I have been taking antidepressants and panic meds for about 25 years. I began having panic attacks and started seeing a psychologist who told me that I have probably been suffering from depression my entire life. I was not a happy child, didn't have a wonderful childhood. It was scary to me because my father has an explosive personality. I will probably always take them and that's ok. I had to increase my dosage when the Pandemic began, i found it very stressful as I am an essential worker. I felt very vulnerable at the time. It's better now. I appreciate you sharing this part of your life with us!
    Also, I have cousins who live in Brighton! 😁❤️

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому +1

      Oh my goodness, thank you so much for sharing this with us - I know I speak for the rest of us here in the comments when I say this is so valuable. I am glad to hear you're feeling a bit better now - and thank you, again. 🧡

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому +1

      Also - small world!!! I hope they like living here too! 🧡

    • @catherinebornemisa
      @catherinebornemisa Рік тому

      @@IamBecca they certainly do. My cousin sings in an American Bluegrass band called Hatfull of Rain. They play small venues in and around the area. Her name is Chloe Overton, just in case you see an ad up somewhere, you should check them out! ☺️

  • @davidp2888
    @davidp2888 Рік тому +2

    I took an antidepressant for about 4 months and had a very bad experience. I spoke with two of my doctors and they were very helpful and supportive. I’m off of it now and I feel so much better.
    Thank you for sharing another facet of your journey, Becca. You’re a beacon of light and inspiration for me. Stay lovely. 🧡
    End of credits fam! Cold tea is 😒

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much for sharing your experience, David. It is so important to hear all sorts of different perspectives - I am so glad you shared yours. I am grateful for you. 🧡
      Also POST CREDIT FAM!!! And yeah... It wasn't nice. 🧡

  • @Lovelysoulgirl1984
    @Lovelysoulgirl1984 Рік тому +3

    I’ve been on Zoloft for 4 months and they have changed my life for the better. I have never felt so level headed in my life. So far my experience has been good. I tried 2 different brands that didn’t work but this one seems to be the winner 😊

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому +1

      I am so so so glad you are feeling better in yourself. Sending you a gentle hug and hope this continues. 🧡

  • @BlakeAudenPoetry
    @BlakeAudenPoetry Рік тому +4

    These videos are really important. Well done, Bec 💙💙

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому

      Thank you so much, always! 🧡

  • @vegarddlmo2298
    @vegarddlmo2298 Рік тому

    Thank you for this Becca,ive been on them for some time now,and thankfully they seem to help,as you said,it felt like something i should be able to "fix" myself,but...i needed them.As always,when you make a video it just seems like you talk about things that feels like it "hits" me,you are truly amazing,thank you for being you

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому

      I'm so glad I can help, even in the smallest way, to feel like someone gets you. Thank you for sharing your experience with me - you're a legend. 🧡

  • @willowwinkle
    @willowwinkle Рік тому +1

    I took antidepressants for a period of time during a really difficult period and I was really resistant to it at first (because of stigmas). Finding the right medication can be difficult (and they do have side-effects) but I feel like they helped me gain the inner tools and mental wellbeing to create a life free of the debilitating depression i used to experience once I stopped taking the meds. The more people talk about these topics and share that mental wellness is not a thing to be ashamed of, the more those old stigmas will die. Thanks for this beautiful video as always! So appreciate you! 🤗 #end of credits fam

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much for sharing this! I love hearing different opinions, and its great to have a place that feels safe enough to talk about it. And I love the hash tag!!!! 🧡🧡🧡

  • @Radictor44
    @Radictor44 Рік тому +1

    You're a wonderful person Becca. I think you're navigating life just fine :) this is good information for everybody so thank you for sharing.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому

      Aww thank you so so much, that means a lot. 🧡

  • @dianejasinski593
    @dianejasinski593 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your journey with anti deppresants,I have started taking them and I have been on them for about a year now,they are really helping me,I was a complete mess when I first started taking them,I woke up in the middle of the night and I was crying non stop and just feeling like crap,when I started taking them it took a few weeks for them to start helping me and so far I'm doing good ,Good luck to you Always,take care Becca ❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому +1

      Oh Diane, I am so glad to hear they are helping you. Thank you so much for being here and for sharing - you're a legend. 🧡

    • @dianejasinski593
      @dianejasinski593 Рік тому

      @@IamBecca I love you Becca❤

  • @josettefrizzle532
    @josettefrizzle532 Рік тому +1

    I agree with everything you said. Antidepressants have really helped me, but I did have to try a few before finding the right fit for me. I also attend therapy, since I concur the cbt (cognitive behaviour therapy) + antidepressants are the best combo to alleviate depression and anxiety. Thank you for discussing this topic as it connects to your experience. ❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому +1

      This made my heart so happy, I am really glad you have found a balance that works for you. Thank YOU for giving me a safe space to talk about these things. Sending hugs. 🧡

  • @danlowe3491
    @danlowe3491 Рік тому +1

    Great for you to get a vid out on this subject :) ... As a long time sufferer of mental health these videos show us all that we are not alone in this battle. Like Becca says, there are a lot of these medications and finding the right one for you can take time. I was originally on Sertraline 100mg which worked for me at the time. I have since been moved onto Venlafaxine 75mg which is an SNRI which works on 2 separate parts of the brain unlike many other anti depressants which work on only one part. Im sort of used to them but i must stress there are certain side affects which go with pretty much all these medications, so stick with it and have an acceptance that these will come and go. Here if anyone wants any help or advice :) And thanks again Becca, your videos relate to so much of what i live through :) X

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому +1

      Dan, as usual your comment is so perfectly worded and lovely. Thank you so much for sharing this information with us and being such a wonderful member of this community. I couldn't do it without you. Sending so much love your way, always.🧡

  • @tondah
    @tondah Рік тому +2

    I’ve been on an anxiety medicine for 15 years. It helps me to stay balanced. I don’t think I could do without it 🥰🥰

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому

      I am so glad you have found something that works for you lovely. Sending hugs your way. 🧡

  • @dianerose8316
    @dianerose8316 Рік тому +1

    It's like being on meds for RA, what works for me may not work for someone else. I was on antidepressants for a cpl of years and they helped some but... What really worked for me was a therapist telling me I wouldn't die without my then husband. How right she was! ❤ Stay strong, Becca. 💕

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому +1

      I am so glad to hear that therapy worked for you! This is brilliant news, thank you so much for sharing this with us. 🧡

  • @MaryleaMemaw
    @MaryleaMemaw Рік тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your journey on antidepressants. They have been on my life journey for well over 30 years. In the beginning I took one because I needed help keeping focused at work. I kept going off and on with that one because I did feel a stigma, especially because I was involved in a church that believed a person shouldn't need medical intervention for mood disorders. I think I tried various ones during that time. Then I was really struggling with many things on my plate. I was then advised by a disability Judge that I needed to go to a psychiatrist. I did that for about 15 years. He was basically the prescription writer. I was never really encouraged to supplement with counseling. Then one day in 2018 I stopped taking my medication cold turkey (don't do this!). I did fairly well for almost 2 years. I was my Mom's caregiver for almost 10 years. Near the end of her life it got to the point that the doc wanted her on an antidepressant (she was in her 90s) but she refused so I said I would go on one. I did well with the exception that I was irritated/yelling at my Mom but no one else. I stopped taking that one. She died about 5 months later. After that I definitely needed to be on one because all I was doing was crying. That one was probably the best one I ever took as it helped with mood and sleeping. Then I was advised by my neurologist that that particular one was not safe for "older" people so I reluctantly weaned off of that so my last pill was October 30, 2022! So I haven't been on an antidepressant for almost 6 months and mood wise I think I have been doing well. It is a process. It doesn't have to be your identity. If there are particular things you are dealing with I would think counseling would help. For me it always felt like it was a chemical disorder with my body but not particular things that I felt talking with someone about would help. I know this is long but I guess it is to say "Take one day at a time"! 🥰🥰

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому +1

      Oh my goodness. Thank you for this, thank you thank you. This is such a wonderful comment - I am so grateful to have been able to read this. 🧡

  • @always4peach687
    @always4peach687 Рік тому

    I admire you for making this video 😍 thank you for sharing my dear 💓

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому

      Thank YOU for being here. 🧡

  • @kurtismuzio7436
    @kurtismuzio7436 Рік тому +2

    Nothing worse then cold tea 😅. Great video Becca. Antidepressants can be such a personal experience. My own with them really isn't great. But they can make all the difference to someone else.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому

      Especially when you're expecting it to be warm - hahah!!! They really are so personal - I have heard such mixed opinions. 🧡

    • @Barbara.Barany
      @Barbara.Barany Рік тому

      It’s so great to see you accept that it might work for someone else even though it didn’t for you. This is the attitude that will help break down the stigma around it 😊

  • @nazgulone
    @nazgulone 4 місяці тому

    Great vid , thanks😊

  • @OtterSkull
    @OtterSkull Рік тому

    Oh wow, sorry you had to go through all the negative stigma of taking medication.
    The thing is that it does work and sometimes people need that extra push to help them get better.
    It's awesome that they worked so well for you and that you gave them the the time they needed to kick in properly.
    I was lucky I was in an environment that didn't judge me for taking them, and honestly no one should, its great that you just brushed off the comments from people calling you crazy.
    I think I said this before on another video but exercise has helped me a lot with mental health, I do recommend it to anyone reading this, get out there and find an activity that elevates your heartbeat and that you enjoy, that you wouldn't mind trying for a month (it's important it doesn't feel like a chore) could be dancing, taking long walks, running, a sport, do it for at least half an hour five days a week and you might be surprised when you look back and the changes it made with your overall mood.
    In my case it turned into something that I really do kinda need 😅 I find it fun... At the very least it's a good habit to have, right? I'm sure my doctor won't be concerned with this "addiction" at least 😂
    End of credits fam!
    Take care everybody.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому +1

      I LOVE THIS COMMENT!!!!! Thank you so much for sharing this, it has made me feel so motivated (just what I needed on a Monday morning!!!) you are an inspiration, thank you for sharing this with us.
      POST CREDIT FAM HUGS TOO! 🧡

    • @OtterSkull
      @OtterSkull Рік тому

      @@IamBecca Oh! Thanks for saying that! Hope you'll have a nice day!

  • @pennypopit
    @pennypopit Рік тому +1

    I have been on antidepressants eight years but I take them for major pain relief which people seem to forget that they can be used for that

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому

      I completely forgot about this - so thank you so much for sharing this!! You're so right. I am glad they help you in the way you need them to. 🧡

  • @b25364
    @b25364 Рік тому

    Great video Becca.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому

      Thank you always. 🧡

  • @Lushy260
    @Lushy260 Рік тому +1

    Love your videos, your so pretty!!!!!

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому +1

      Owwww thank you so so much, I needed this! 🧡

  • @nohana2003
    @nohana2003 Рік тому

    I'm avoiding antidepressants for years now... and I'm struggling with ups and downs... but medication makes mee feel worse most of the time and I tried a lot of different meds. I felt soooo tired and like I was drugged up. Traumatherapy was very useful for me, and accepting this will be "a thing" for me for the rest of my life, it's not going to disappear I just have to know how to deal with it.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому +1

      I really hope you find something that works for you. Life is a crazy journey. Sending so much love. 🧡

  • @darlenew1981
    @darlenew1981 Рік тому

    I applaud those who realize they need help, seek it out and get on any medications they need to. Too many times people are made to feel bad and like they're crazy just because they're on antidepressants. Would someone look at you funny if you were taking a Tylenol for a headache? No, because it's accepted as being "normal."
    P.S. I'm an end of credits fam too! 🙂🧡

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому

      You're always so lovely - and this is such an important comment. I bet lots of people find comfort in it - so thank you so so much for always sharing. Oh and... END OF CREDITS FAM!!! 🧡🧡🧡

    • @darlenew1981
      @darlenew1981 Рік тому

      @@IamBecca Aww. Thank you for the lovely compliment and you're welcome! Have a wonderful day!

  • @tumbleweedmoon777
    @tumbleweedmoon777 Рік тому

    Love your videos. God's Blessings and love

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому

      Lotta love to you. 🧡

  • @rpierce7004
    @rpierce7004 Рік тому +1

    Because I have lost all respect for the pharmaceutical companies in the past two years, and I had a cousin on these which is made him worse in many ways, I am skeptical. However you clearly are doing well, looking healthy and I hope happy. I would hope that you realize that these drugs many times are synthetic versions of natural plants and herbs. If you decide to try going off them in the future maybe you in the meantime can study some of the natural things nature gave us and maybe your transition will be to these instead. Love finding your channel last week. ❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much for being here and for sharing your journey and the journey of your loved ones. I wish I could find natural remedies - and I am hoping to investigate more! I am really into using plants and nature for healing. Any advice would be great! So much love, thank you for being here. 🧡

  • @LybraArt13
    @LybraArt13 Рік тому

    I finally after almost 40 years of life taking them. I felt loopy t first. But I am also in therapy.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому

      I hope you manage to find something that works for you - you should be so proud of yourself for trying to find a better life. You're wonderful. 🧡

  • @SavinelliMike
    @SavinelliMike Рік тому +3

    They’ve saved my life and I’ve had to accept I’ll be on them for life, but frustratingly the only persisting side effect is my willy won’t work properly 😂😭 Kick a man while he’s down!

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому +1

      Oh my god 😂 win some you lose some! 😂

    • @SavinelliMike
      @SavinelliMike Рік тому

      @@IamBecca Definitely! Worth it, though. Much better mental space now than I have been in years. Towards the end of 2022 was particularly bad. Hope you're well :)

    • @ot9523
      @ot9523 Рік тому

      😂😂😂

  • @Ginabina76
    @Ginabina76 Рік тому

    2 things I hate about these meds...
    Playing the "medication game"
    Definitely the stigma
    However, in my case they worked great for my mental health, not so much in any other area. Had lots of the side effects worse being the weight gain. Spent a long time finding the "right one" for me. It is definitely a trial and error and sometimes it takes time but it can be wonderful especially coupled with therapy and patience 💙💙💙

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому

      This is such an important comment - I forgot to mention side effects so thank you so much for bringing that to our attention. I hope others read this and take note. Sending hugs and hope you're okay. 🧡

  • @cloverHp
    @cloverHp Рік тому

    Becca can cure anything: maybe your interests ; review and reveal the findings

  • @dcworld1076
    @dcworld1076 Рік тому

    post credits fam here

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому +1

      POST CREDIT FAM!!!!!!!!! 🧡

  • @janinerutherford3062
    @janinerutherford3062 Рік тому

    🫶🧡🧡🧡

  • @Me3iane
    @Me3iane Рік тому

    Hey Becca,
    I have been taking anti depressants since 2018 i take Fluoxitine 20 mg and last year i went up to 30mg. It has helped me so much and there is a lot of things i can say about the medication that i am happy to share with if anyone is interested just comment below and i will take any questions although i am not a medical licensed person i only know from experience. Take care becca and anyone who is reading this 🩷🫶🏻

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  Рік тому +1

      I love this! And thank you for being such a lovely member of this community. Sending massive hugs and so glad you are in a better place now. 🧡