DO NOT FALL IN LOVE WITH A THAI BAR GIRL IN PATTAYA - VOL 109

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  • Опубліковано 15 вер 2024
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 440

  • @kiwia8271
    @kiwia8271 2 роки тому +57

    DON'T, fall in love with any girl, from ANY WHERE, stay single guys, they are ALL short time only.

    • @rodhurst5831
      @rodhurst5831 2 роки тому +11

      They are never yours, just you turn 😂.

    • @xpusostomos
      @xpusostomos 2 роки тому +1

      Or long time... but not too long.

    • @kiwia8271
      @kiwia8271 2 роки тому +1

      @@xpusostomos 24hrs max.

    • @gadgetimpulse3833
      @gadgetimpulse3833 2 роки тому +4

      @@kiwia8271 I say 72 hrs is enough

    • @RealSerie26
      @RealSerie26 4 місяці тому

      The juice ain't worth the squeeze.

  • @jackshaw9637
    @jackshaw9637 Рік тому +8

    I have been married to a Thai girl 20 years. I reside in Thailand with her. It's been great. Learn the culture, and learn the language.

  • @NubianRider
    @NubianRider 2 роки тому +14

    As an older man, I know this for a fact: Men are gullible fools, and the biggest, most gullible fool is an old man who desperately wants to be loved. But when true loves do occur, then life takes on a whole new and different meaning.

    • @ThailandBound
      @ThailandBound  2 роки тому +1

      What about the gullible young man who I've seen get scammed in Pattaya and I have seen many

    • @NubianRider
      @NubianRider 2 роки тому +1

      @@silverfox6883 , when every woman you met leaves you, at some point you gotta ask yourself, "what the frak is wrong with me?"
      -And that's real talk.

    • @xpusostomos
      @xpusostomos 2 роки тому

      True love? It feels like you're on the road to disaster already. Am I wrong?

  • @SV-kr9fu
    @SV-kr9fu 2 роки тому +10

    "Joob, joob....Tee Ruk!!!"
    "You so handsome. Can you help me buy a buffalo for my mom?"

  • @jakespooz4562
    @jakespooz4562 3 роки тому +8

    Had a friend in Pattaya who passed away recently at 77 years old, had a seven year old son and a 35 year old Thai go-go bar girl wife...she now has a condo in Pattaya and a home in Surin.

    • @rodhurst5831
      @rodhurst5831 2 роки тому +3

      and he got what he wanted in his last chapter of life, a win win for all.

    • @SV-kr9fu
      @SV-kr9fu 2 роки тому

      Keeping the Thai economy going 🤣

  • @chrismiles8297
    @chrismiles8297 3 роки тому +18

    Wow..Marrying a freelancer is a huge gamble.
    I don't think I would be able to sleep at night if she was my wife.
    But good luck to him if it works.

  • @evilchaperone
    @evilchaperone 2 роки тому +11

    She really loves me, she really does. Bahahaha. Until your bank account is drained.

  • @gobills9550
    @gobills9550 2 роки тому +6

    Love hearing these stories. Just reminds me the 5 months staying in the Philippines and Thailand. Was the best time I've had in my life. Can't wait until I do it again.

    • @Skubae
      @Skubae 2 роки тому

      How much did it cost to travel to Thailand from Philippines

    • @xpusostomos
      @xpusostomos 2 роки тому

      Used to be cheap to take the "shaggers express" from Clark to Pattaya. But I think the aircraft routes are still recovering.

  • @Bighandful
    @Bighandful 3 роки тому +10

    The moral of the story is..relationships in thailand is like gambling...only bet what your willing to lose..and enjoy the challenge

  • @thonatim5321
    @thonatim5321 3 роки тому +13

    Hell, I fall in love every single night in Pattaya. I wake up the next day and do it all over again. So I disagree with the OP. It is perfectly fine to fall in love with a bar girl but only for 24 hours.

  • @sails3538
    @sails3538 3 роки тому +3

    I brought a friend from Canada to Pattaya. A week before leaving I told him I was worried for him. That he did not have street smarts or enough experience with woman and that he would fall in love with a bar girl. He asured me he would be fine.
    Arriving in Pattaya..... he lasted 7 days.... one week and he was in love. Its been 7 yrs now and they are still together. He went in to partnership with a few other westerners on a bar in soi7 Jomtien ....... because you can't take the bar out the girl.......
    Oh... she is a very nice girl by the way. He hit gold.

  • @iomtilt
    @iomtilt 3 роки тому +4

    Thanks for the stories Peter & all who have written in. I really feel for the guy in the first story.
    🇹🇭🇬🇧👍

  • @keithmorris7362
    @keithmorris7362 3 роки тому +36

    Wow, becoming a dad again at retirement age.... good luck to him 😂

    • @markknopflerisnot
      @markknopflerisnot 3 роки тому +3

      Quite a common sight here in Thailand and it goes along with the territory of the age [in]appropriate relationship......a grandad with his one or two year old child is a strange look

    • @davidgiles5030
      @davidgiles5030 3 роки тому

      My girlfriend was pregnant and I would have been a new Dad at 60. To be honest I was thrilled. Unfortunately she miscarried at 5 months.

    • @keithmorris7362
      @keithmorris7362 3 роки тому

      @@davidgiles5030 such sad news, I’m sorry for your loss

    • @nonenone4461
      @nonenone4461 2 роки тому

      You are supposed to do this. You think it is a bad thing because of your awful experiences in the Western World. Most men in this "tragic" situation are very happy with it. It comes from being allowed to be a man...husband and father with someone who actually loves you.
      This is perhaps the most important reason to stay the hell out of Pattaya.
      This is a very difficult concept for Western men to grasp. You can literally do better. And you should.

    • @markknopflerisnot
      @markknopflerisnot 2 роки тому

      @@nonenone4461 ......no reasonable person would deny this basic premis, the sticking point and most controversial part relates to "bar-girls-Pattaya" and "someone who actually loves you"

  • @xpusostomos
    @xpusostomos 2 роки тому +6

    Plenty of the bar girls are "good girls", (depending on your definition of good). The main problem with marrying them, is not that they are bar girls, it's that you have nothing in common with them. And unlike regular women, you don't need to hitch your wagon to them to enjoy their company, so... don't.

  • @paulhoskin3286
    @paulhoskin3286 3 роки тому +7

    Never give a bar girl your heart .because eventually she will break it

    • @effewe2
      @effewe2 3 роки тому

      @@mjlane1705 LOL

  • @JE-gy4ew
    @JE-gy4ew 3 роки тому +5

    She got as much as she possibly could. UK husband, child, financial support in perpetuity and either divorce settlement or inheritance.

    • @t8027
      @t8027 3 роки тому +1

      Exactly

  • @gazooedphil8294
    @gazooedphil8294 3 роки тому +6

    Those were excellent stories. They are the kind of stories I love to listen to at the bars I frequent. I am hoping at least one of them is still open after this pandemic so I can catch up to a year and a half of missed tales concerning the damned, the crazies, the lucky, the ones with the I.Q. of a broken brick I call my friends and finally the three actual almost fully intelligent friends. ( Well 2 1/2 really....one guy is really short.) I miss them....however I really miss seeing women on a daily basis even more. I hope catastrophic sagging hasn't damaged any of them. My apologies, I've been thinking out loud again.
    Once again thank you for the entertaining stories.

    • @ThailandBound
      @ThailandBound  3 роки тому +1

      I think we all pretty much feel the same right now...

  • @MrWaterbugdesign
    @MrWaterbugdesign 3 роки тому +7

    On the rebound in Thailand. Yeah, that's going to go well. Bar girls are completely honest. They're working in a bar to make money. How can dudes be so dense? They provide the girlfriend experience and they do it very well. Men aren't "taken" for money, they give it. But they're still humans.

  • @gkprivate433
    @gkprivate433 3 роки тому +8

    there is nothing wrong with falling in love. Just keep that other bulge in your pants under control... you know, your wallet

  • @Dj.slothy
    @Dj.slothy 3 роки тому +16

    Remember guys don’t get married 😂

    • @iomtilt
      @iomtilt 3 роки тому +6

      If only you had given me this advice 20 years ago, before I married my fat, bipolar English ex wife, you could have saved me a fortune.

  • @blackbolt1013
    @blackbolt1013 3 роки тому +4

    "Night in shining armor" great story hopefully his magical experience continues . I think subconsciously we want to meet that type of working lady in Thailand . However a baby in my 60's is a bridge to far.
    I barely survived having my kids in my 20's. Great Stories take care.

    • @ThailandBound
      @ThailandBound  3 роки тому +1

      Hope to see you in the stream 9pm UK time (Sunday) not Sat

  • @marcosteffano
    @marcosteffano 3 роки тому +3

    I met my wife 9 yrs ago and have been happily married for 6 yrs.shes turned my life around and I drink once a week and we have to be together 24 hrs a day.my tip is find one near your age as I’ve seen so many problems and heard these stories a 100 times.

    • @ThailandBound
      @ThailandBound  3 роки тому

      Yes there are many success stories also. Good to hear

    • @firstmkb
      @firstmkb 3 роки тому

      My Wife 2.0 is 19 years younger, and treats me better than version 1.0 could. Pay attention to what you want AND need.

  • @jackshaw9637
    @jackshaw9637 Рік тому +3

    If a bar girl scams you, or rips you off, that's on you. Don't feel you owe her anything. And learn to say no.

  • @derrickadamski9319
    @derrickadamski9319 4 місяці тому +1

    Love all Your Stories..!! Keep up the Good Work 👍..!!!

  • @winstonburton5396
    @winstonburton5396 3 роки тому +3

    I loved the first story. I'm in Thailand for 2 years n have met all the wrong girls though I don't ever visit any bars.

  • @titi7776
    @titi7776 Рік тому +5

    Bargirls and freelancers, worst places to look for genuine love. Ok for vacations only and go back home.

  • @Oldfogey2014
    @Oldfogey2014 3 роки тому +5

    Love the stories...great music at the end...it's a master stroke!

  • @kalantube
    @kalantube 2 роки тому +4

    On the contrary, you can totally be in love with a Thai Bar Girl, if she's the one who pays for your drink all the time.

  • @leejones3219
    @leejones3219 2 роки тому +5

    Sometimes being retired military and Police I have a build in BS Detector. Thanks.

  • @randmayfield5695
    @randmayfield5695 3 роки тому +8

    In Thailand you never loose your girl, just your turn. Lol

    • @silvero6182
      @silvero6182 3 роки тому

      You mean in Pattaya or Phuket. Anywhere else in Thailand you won't. 2 different worlds

    • @randmayfield5695
      @randmayfield5695 3 роки тому

      @@silvero6182 If you say so. Chang Mai could go on your list and Bangkok too. Some people just get lucky and find a good mate no matter where they are.

  • @willrichardson5880
    @willrichardson5880 2 роки тому +3

    Married to a girl who worked in bar in 13/2 Pattaya, actually there's quite a lot out of the same bar in long term relationships with foreign men , maybe we just got lucky or you just dont hear about the sucessful stories much. Anyway good advice especially if someone is going to tackle a go-go girl.

    • @Josh-rn1em
      @Josh-rn1em 2 роки тому +2

      How long have you been together? If she's spending your money by buying too much food then she's using you. Can you say no to this girl? It's not unheard of. But so many men say they're a success story. But two years later they're angry and resentful of Thais because it all went to crap. Don't ignore red flags. But it's your journey. Hope it works out.

    • @xpusostomos
      @xpusostomos 2 роки тому +1

      Guys imagine that it always goes to crap because the girl flew off. But what about all the times the guy realises she's an empty headed pretty face who is boring?

  • @danthescrapper815
    @danthescrapper815 3 роки тому +4

    Great stories but to be fair some girls you meet in the bars can be genuine and i did on many travels to Bangkok have ladies where i didn't need to pay anything in regards to overnight stays that continued into the next day etc which is normal..... I eventually bought one of those ladies back to Australia on a tourist visa and we got married on 16 july 2010...it is now 2021 and we have a 4yr old son Damien and a 7yrs son Dominic and still remain happily married to this date.

    • @ThailandBound
      @ThailandBound  3 роки тому +1

      Well done what you say is true but in the tiny minority not the majority.

  • @dickyhoey
    @dickyhoey 3 роки тому +1

    Another bunch of amusing stories. Keep them coming Peter. Cheers.

  • @bootney66
    @bootney66 2 роки тому +8

    The diamond in the tooth would have turned me off! 😃

  • @gurufabbes1
    @gurufabbes1 3 роки тому +2

    Hey Peter! Thanks for the new set of stories. Good job on the cameo of Nat's cartoon.

  • @walthercanis424
    @walthercanis424 2 роки тому +5

    There are millions of stories like that :-) Sorry for all who fall into the beautiful-girl-trap! On the end there is left some bitter taste and lots of money gone (if not all savings)

  • @davetherave1729
    @davetherave1729 3 роки тому +2

    Hey Peter great stories. Just looking at those pictures in the background gives me the travel icth!! I would love to travel to Thailand now, pattaya, beach, sun. Sadly though I don't think it will be back to normal till 2023 or 2024. No one wants to travel to Thailand and go through all these ridiculous restrictions.

  • @VideoAssociates
    @VideoAssociates 2 роки тому +6

    Theres a category of regular thai women looking for marriage straight up, to be just as cautious of or more so than bar girls... Will escalate their needs/demmands far quicker than a western guy might imagine

    • @towaritch
      @towaritch 2 роки тому

      That's what some Western guys call " having traditional values" I guess

    • @xpusostomos
      @xpusostomos 2 роки тому

      Regardless of whether their needs escalate, what you saw in her at first will wear off.

  • @Donjkoontz
    @Donjkoontz 3 роки тому +4

    Damn. Aussie Thai girlfriend showing the red flags and he still married her…

  • @maximusextreme3725
    @maximusextreme3725 3 роки тому +3

    Guys, get the snippy snip before going to frolic with the pay for play ladies!

  • @tatts_with_traps
    @tatts_with_traps 3 роки тому +5

    Still knocking kids out at 60 what a gangster😎😎😂😂💪💪

  • @adrianbaker3218
    @adrianbaker3218 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks for the story’s Peter made my day as were in lockdown again in Sydney keep Um coming champ your a top man

  • @lindamaye3626
    @lindamaye3626 3 роки тому +5

    So, she stole a million baht from him to give to her brother, and he stayed with her!? My hamster is smarter than this poor sucker!

  • @grammarofficerkrupke4398
    @grammarofficerkrupke4398 3 роки тому +3

    2:13 "Why not look around and just pick the prettiest one in the bar?" *Rookie mistake.*

  • @DAVIDALD49
    @DAVIDALD49 3 роки тому +1

    Peter thanks for sharing your knowledge on these videos. Wisdom comes with experience. :)

  • @TheRealFeechLaManna
    @TheRealFeechLaManna 2 роки тому +7

    If you are okay with paying for the life you would never have without the Thai girl, then what's the problem? Chicks at home will cost you too. The problem is that these guys get caught slipping, they are blinded by emotion despite knowing better. So, don't slip and pay the bill, you had great..female attention and care..far beyond anything you could dream of at home, while it lasted, and you paid for the fun, fair enough, and that's that. Move on, citizen. Anyway that is how I see it.

    • @ThailandBound
      @ThailandBound  2 роки тому +1

      These stories are not about me personally, they are sent in from other people

    • @TheRealFeechLaManna
      @TheRealFeechLaManna 2 роки тому

      @@ThailandBound Oh I know, I did not mean 'you' as in 'you', but in as to whoever might be angry at Thai girls taking what they can get.

    • @ThailandBound
      @ThailandBound  2 роки тому

      Ok got it

    • @xpusostomos
      @xpusostomos 2 роки тому

      The solution is to go home, work hard, go to Thailand permanently with a new GF every day.

  • @HOV4N
    @HOV4N 3 роки тому +4

    Fall in love with the food.. not the chicks. Just have fun! 😎

  • @andrewmair7371
    @andrewmair7371 2 роки тому +3

    “Marrying a Freelancer…” 😆😂🤣😹😁🤣😂😆 -OK Peter, continue…☝️😐💀😸

  • @edwardv1219
    @edwardv1219 3 роки тому +3

    Great stories again. On that first one I must have said “hell no” half a dozen times.

    • @chrisk1489
      @chrisk1489 3 роки тому

      Yup me too, she has a diamond in her mouth lol.

  • @robertburnett5561
    @robertburnett5561 3 роки тому +3

    Thailand is fun. Up to you.

    • @davetherave1729
      @davetherave1729 3 роки тому

      Not fun anymore. Won't be the same till 2024/2025.

  • @wezza60
    @wezza60 3 роки тому +1

    The first story, so lovely, hope he is reunited with jit and their daughter soon as my missus and I are hoping to catch up with family soon.

  • @jnyavdull2953
    @jnyavdull2953 2 роки тому +2

    Absolutely true,the best idea is only to make love as many as you can,no restrictions....if you fall in love with any one of them, especially to a freelancer...sooner or later you might be a victim of false love.and broken hearted too.

  • @cwfqayin
    @cwfqayin 3 роки тому +7

    Please be happy to be a walking ATM, otherwise why did you guys come here in the first place???

    • @somekindaguy100
      @somekindaguy100 2 роки тому +2

      Beaches ,good food ,gym and relaxing and at first I thought to be in Thailand because of the locals but I found a lot of them to be racist and yes it's all about the money .That's why I come to beautiful Thailand in the first place but Thais think we are all the same same .Wrong

    • @cwfqayin
      @cwfqayin 2 роки тому

      @@somekindaguy100 Some lucky guys get some middle class or "hi-so" girls and get happy. Some get urrr..... a girl,. may be a bit poor, but still with good hearts. Other than that, some become walking ATM or walking visa printing machine. You know what I mean right?
      In conclusion I think you all can find decent girls, but do not fall to a kind of girl that always trap "FARANG" between her boobs and milk you to build her parent's house.

  • @xpusostomos
    @xpusostomos 2 роки тому +4

    Story #2.... very toxic relationship. I can't be with a girl again that jealous, it's too much stress.

  • @shanehansen3705
    @shanehansen3705 3 роки тому +3

    3rd visit to Thailand sht my first visit 200 bhat for the bus to Pattaya from BKK only 1400 for a taxi does the guy need someone to hold his hand and the ID isn't to keep an eye on her incase of him it's to keep an eye on her

  • @tompekarna
    @tompekarna 10 місяців тому +2

    So, story #1 The Brit was 65 years old. Jit was (guessing here) 25 or so. That's a sizable gap, 40 years. When she is 40 the Brit will be 80, that sounds like the end of the road .

    • @ThailandBound
      @ThailandBound  10 місяців тому +1

      What's a Brit?

    • @tompekarna
      @tompekarna 10 місяців тому

      United Kingdom citizen (British)

    • @ThailandBound
      @ThailandBound  10 місяців тому

      I've heard of a kiwi and the poem but not a Brit

    • @randmayfield5695
      @randmayfield5695 5 днів тому

      In Pattya it's common to see old men in there 60-80's walking around with these firecracker hot 20+ Thai ladies plus a few small children in tow. I found it very interesting. I've been going over for three months a year (low season) since 2004. My strategy has always been to hang out a the food courts and let it be known that I am looking for an older companion. I've had great luck doing this. I have found that if you treat them well and have fun with them it can be a wonderful experience. Don't be cheap and be up front with them about the marriage thing. I don't want to get married to anybody. I've been all over Thailand . I met one in Cambodia that was 44 and absolutely beautiful. She shared a har dressing stall at the local market and heard through her partner that I was going to sihanoukville and asked me if she could go. I was with her six years until covid then she just disappeared and no one knew where she went or what happened to her.
      She was my soul mate because we got along so well. That's life.

  • @peterpreen6031
    @peterpreen6031 3 роки тому +5

    they are only after ONE thing ... your MONEY

  • @johnsain
    @johnsain 2 роки тому +8

    Is he 100% certain that is his baby?

    • @scottfranco1962
      @scottfranco1962 Рік тому +2

      Reallly cruel. I was thinking the same thing.

  • @davidjames3126
    @davidjames3126 2 роки тому +2

    That first was great...many cultural differences yet for the most part similare to the west in the 1950's .

  • @chrisk1489
    @chrisk1489 3 роки тому +4

    She has a diamond in her dental work! Sounds like a great girl to take home to mom lol

  • @MS-ql8ek
    @MS-ql8ek 3 роки тому +1

    I know a few people from America that already went to Thailand and came back already

  • @Litewiz
    @Litewiz 3 роки тому +2

    Cant wait until travel restrictions are lifted and I can visit this beautiful land....and go on a rampage.

  • @dimitriosfromgreece4227
    @dimitriosfromgreece4227 3 роки тому +2

    Thanks for the video ❤

  • @margra99
    @margra99 3 роки тому +1

    When going to Pattaya from the Airport walk down to bottom level and get the bus for 130 baht. If you must get taxi go to the official taxi rank where the taxis are controlled. (cannot remember but about 1500 - 2000 baht). You can get taxis from departures or the ground floor and haggle. (about 1000 baht plus tolls).

    • @ThailandBound
      @ThailandBound  3 роки тому +2

      The buses difficult for most people as they normally have quite a bit of luggage with them personally I go up to the departures level and catch a taxi from there are

  • @ChinaAl
    @ChinaAl 3 роки тому +1

    This is much better than the older talking head videos.

  • @stevenjustice8258
    @stevenjustice8258 3 роки тому +2

    19:43 songthaew...two rows...offical name of the baht bus.

  • @smite5135
    @smite5135 2 роки тому +1

    Becoming a dad at retirement age and not having a retirement visa for long stay for visiting his daughter in Thailand is not due the pandemic. The borders of Thailand have been opened for expats since October 2020 and so does the UK. If he‘s not willing or able to take his wife to the UK for whatever reason, he shouldn’t blame the pandemic not seeing his daughter for two years.

  • @jackshaw9637
    @jackshaw9637 Рік тому +1

    Fall in love all you want...just understand what comes with the deal.
    *you marry her family as well
    *she gets a fixed allowance
    *don't negotiate with her

  • @jasenwright1178
    @jasenwright1178 3 роки тому +5

    Pay for play and get away!!

  • @SS-mf5bz
    @SS-mf5bz 3 роки тому +1

    Am in the same boat I feel his pain I have a 2 and half year old son I miss him so so much in thailamd

    • @ThailandBound
      @ThailandBound  3 роки тому

      Yes mate it's tough on many people at the moment

  • @conrantanchau53
    @conrantanchau53 3 роки тому

    Hi Peter.....Thank You very much for another fine VDO !

  • @silvero6182
    @silvero6182 3 роки тому +5

    The 1st guy is blaming pandemic for not being able to return. Rubbish: I got back in Dec 2020. COE, 2w quarantine and done. If he really wanted he'd be in Thailand in August 2020

  • @timtwardy6603
    @timtwardy6603 3 роки тому +2

    Another nice story

  • @octaviantavi491
    @octaviantavi491 3 роки тому +4

    we, farangs are like walking ITM,s for Thais, don,t forget that!

    • @mudluk9107
      @mudluk9107 3 роки тому +1

      Really my wife works hard and never asks for a hand out. Maybe your hanging with the wrong ones ?

    • @ThailandBound
      @ThailandBound  3 роки тому +1

      Mudluk: As I always say, "These girls are not normal Thai girls they are bar-girls and GoGo dancers"

    • @ThailandBound
      @ThailandBound  3 роки тому +2

      OCTAVIAN TAVI: You mean "ATM's" right?

    • @octaviantavi491
      @octaviantavi491 3 роки тому

      @@ThailandBound Yes

    • @twentyrothmans7308
      @twentyrothmans7308 3 роки тому +2

      Try being poor - really poor.
      It's not as though they are pickpocketing or violently robbing you.
      All this bargirl stuff isn't my cup of tea but I can understand farang who go there and spend money to feel young and wanted.
      The take home message is to spend what you want to, and no more. Everyone's happy.
      I would also not tar all Thais with the same brush.
      The noble, humble, hard-working and friendly Thais I meet when I am there (frequently) don't deserve that.
      I feel very sorry for you if you have not experienced the friendship and hospitality of these wonderful people.

  • @stephaniecoggins733
    @stephaniecoggins733 Рік тому +2

    I would love to see a traditional thie marriage ceremony 💞

  • @mrgee7059
    @mrgee7059 3 роки тому

    Really great, entertaining stories! I enjoy hearing them.

  • @JaiDii-Thai-
    @JaiDii-Thai- 2 роки тому +10

    1. Every farang says: my gf is different.
    2. Never step into anything longer then a few days.
    3. It's all A GAME, A WONDERFULL ILLUSION !!!!
    4.you are the boss of your money,... You loose some?...your own fault, and hopefully a 1 time good lesson to never forget!!!
    5. Why looking for love, in world's largest playground?!?! Where girls are everywhere!!
    6. Enjoy, play along... Keep low profile,.. it's unbelievable at first. But it's for generations there how they treat farangs! Better then a gun!! So, i respect the girls a lot... But just try to understand them!!!.... They come from another 'world'. They look for opportunities just like we do in Europe! But they are smarter, and enjoy life!
    7. They ALL say: Me no like Thai man!! Hahaha. Sure.... But they all have one, or tomboy
    8. Keep it fun, they give you a feeling like it's for real. They should ask 5000bath a day!!
    9. In a disco, talking and giving hope to a girl... And say, goodnight.. is playing them. And get turn ugly.
    10. Find a good guesthouse, like rinnaphat place 3rd road. Keep it just for you!! Or you get stalked.... Of worse, like me once... Followed by a brother and almost stabbed!!
    11. Nothing wrong being cheap charlie!!! You can retire with 200.000€ and daytrade during daytime...i was 35 and lived 5years from 2011 there...but visa runs just got a nightmare...if i got a permit for life, i never left!!
    12. It's an illusion!!! But hey, is western life, and marriage not a nightmare?!?! Life is a game!! Be wise, adapt and try to see through Thai eyes!! Empathie.. and their not all golddiggers... Some are happy with just enough to pay their kids school, and taking care!! If it's too good to be true, it isn't true!!!! I was 35 and had a gf of 35, for 6 months only.... She was really heartbroken!! Stopped 'working' , keeping trying... But we ended as good friends seeing each other in insomnia she paying me drinks!!! So, there are good ones!!
    13. After 1 year, the entire city knows who you are. From mouth to mouth.
    14. Facebook and other social crap, is their agenda!!! Don't fall for that!! I HEARED the craziest stories how they trick you!!!
    15. Even farang, but for sure Thai.... Can't be trusted with your money!! Don't fall for the opening bar trap! Goes without saying...
    16. It were my best 5 years on a scooter!! Instead of a bmw in Belgium. A suitcase is all you need to be happy in life in Pattaya... But find something extra like daytrading, because even a gogo gets boring... But i miss the nights waking up at 3 going fresh to a disco... Picking up who had their money allready... And were looking for an extra. Best deals are made in the morning... Around 4... They all change strategy, and are less focused on money...

    • @dariusvlogs3634
      @dariusvlogs3634 Рік тому +2

      the last point is the best, nothing beats it haha.

    • @JaiDii-Thai-
      @JaiDii-Thai- Рік тому +1

      @@dariusvlogs3634 hey, it's been a while this reply..... But it's true!! Anyone that lives a few years in Pattaya, and doesn't even need to be a sex addict, as i personally hated it to lie in bed till afternoon, and get stuck with this nice peace of ass in the morning, that didn't look the same in afternoon 🤣.
      But it's what I did, after a few years.... As you learn... With many mistakes too. Finally you'll discover the right way to get the best out of it.
      On 1 side , more girls then you think, know you... This because they talk... You're not as stupid anymore as a fresh guy, what they like. But still, best bargains.... Once you get bored with bars and tourists spending like idiots... You'll find a good way to live relaxed, and also be usefull, like i did with daytrading... And once it got dark, i went to bed... They broadcast the latest movies.... It's like north Korea, but in a good way. That says FU the west 😂,... and don't care about downloading and even using it on mainstream tele.
      At night, you wake up.... And sleepdrunk you get 1 drink, and have a look... You'll never ever be alone!!! In the end you'll enjoy the moments on your own even...
      Oh boy, do I regret ever wasting this life!! And returning.
      Now i don't have enough cash to return without financial complete worries...
      But, once you have 200k euro,.... You can retire if you're smart! And follow your own way...
      Good luck 🤞 enjoy !!

    • @vusilanga3833
      @vusilanga3833 Рік тому

      ​@@JaiDii-Thai- what do you trade if I may ask? Im hoping to get to into the forex space .
      Its impressive that you managed to retire 30 years earlier than most folks!!

    • @RealSerie26
      @RealSerie26 4 місяці тому

      5,000/day? It better be the equivalent of Miss Universe.

  • @stigparow8141
    @stigparow8141 2 роки тому +1

    Liked the Mike Bollinger story ,he was a carracter.knew him for meny years,soi 22 is not the same anymore.
    Good news is "ampa" his wife lives in the states now and sold the beauty shop

  • @electricdreams1616
    @electricdreams1616 2 роки тому +4

    If you are single and pay for sex then that's a lot better than having drunk sex with somebody you can barely remember the next morning. I'd rather be picky and choose my partner while sober. At least the encounter will be memorable and probably work out cheaper than getting wasted over the duration of the night

    • @xpusostomos
      @xpusostomos 2 роки тому

      Drunk.... sober..... I can't say that I'm against either one!

  • @patrickcoyne1145
    @patrickcoyne1145 3 роки тому +3

    Just normal 2 week millionare stories
    That will never change
    No money no Honey 555

    • @sinjersable
      @sinjersable 3 роки тому +1

      Dang Patrick, you're so original!

  • @tman5634
    @tman5634 3 роки тому +3

    We here it many times, a guy says 'my bar girl gf is different'
    I wonder what % actually turn out to be so?

    • @jasenwright1178
      @jasenwright1178 3 роки тому +2

      None! They are all stealing lying chats shits!! Beware! Pay for play and get away!

    • @Jay-vr9ir
      @Jay-vr9ir 3 роки тому +1

      @@jasenwright1178 YES !!!!!!!!!!

    • @firstmkb
      @firstmkb 3 роки тому

      How much do you think any woman enjoys living in a bar trying to scam money for a living?
      Easier to take good care of one guy than to look for new ones every night.

  • @STEADY599
    @STEADY599 3 роки тому +4

    Those stories when the gullible guy gets ripped off on his arrival in Bangkok remind me of Frank Spencer in Some Mothers do Av Em. Now that would have made a funny episode if he'd have turned up in Thailand!

    • @ThailandBound
      @ThailandBound  3 роки тому

      The cogs are turning Ed... I've got a live stream Sunday night I'll make sure I give you a good mention mate

  • @novak4594
    @novak4594 2 роки тому

    Great stories Peter. First story, hope old mate gets back to Thailand soon with his wife and daughter.

  • @marzbitenhaussen
    @marzbitenhaussen 3 роки тому +2

    it is baffling that old dudes fall for this, g-sus these girls are working, so if you get into a shitty situation it is all your fault

  • @davidshirley7712
    @davidshirley7712 2 роки тому +1

    2 comments on the first story first Isaan is a region not a province second in England its immigration that check entry visa status not customs..

    • @ThailandBound
      @ThailandBound  2 роки тому +4

      David, your not watching CCN or the BBC, just enjoy the stories for what they are, if I was as concerned about details as much as you I would have researched them. My videos are entertainment, not News!

  • @thommoeuth6118
    @thommoeuth6118 3 роки тому +2

    A couple dude's on Facebook sponsored their Thai bar girlfriends to visit them in their countries during this difficult times. 2 of them girls even have a onlyfan account and still active on. Depends on the bar girls and dudes

  • @ronald3921
    @ronald3921 5 місяців тому

    Good writing in the second story, and funny

  • @apollofernandes9656
    @apollofernandes9656 3 роки тому +3

    Know the right free lancer with heart and good character will some time work. It worked for me. Have to take a chance.

    • @JetBen555
      @JetBen555 3 роки тому +3

      That's terrible advice, it may have worked for you and maybe 2 other guys in the world but for every 3 of you, there is thousands of men who get scammed by bar girl every year. Go to Pattaya to have fun but if you want a long relationship with a Thai woman, just go with a regular Thai woman from BKK or the surrounding area.

    • @ThailandBound
      @ThailandBound  3 роки тому

      His, not mine

    • @robertburnett5561
      @robertburnett5561 3 роки тому

      Scammed in Thailand with much fun. Or scammed by a western woman with days of horror. Anyway, there are more bar girl success stories than you think.

    • @JetBen555
      @JetBen555 3 роки тому +1

      @@robertburnett5561 Why would you wife up a 304 anyway ? Doesn't matter where she come from. They all got ran through more than the Holland tunnel... what's wrong with you.

    • @tman5634
      @tman5634 3 роки тому +1

      @@JetBen555
      I agree with you & said the same in comments, but many reply that they want the convenience of a bar girl (prostitute).
      Each to their own, but it's never been for me. I have no interest in going where 100's + other guys have been.
      I've found it easy enough to meet & be with a decent & normal working Thai if I want.

  • @billiam4835
    @billiam4835 3 роки тому +8

    Leave the bar girl.. don't fall in love with a Thai woman... period

    • @ThailandBound
      @ThailandBound  3 роки тому +4

      Thai women are ok, I have friends who are married to them and have families! It's the bar girls and go go dancers you shouldn't get into a relationship with.

    • @derekmichael5329
      @derekmichael5329 2 роки тому +1

      Married 7 years now and my Thai wife and I aee very happy 😊

  • @sconna4951
    @sconna4951 6 місяців тому

    Love all your stories

  • @markfromct2
    @markfromct2 3 роки тому +1

    Some personal advice. If you go there (or any foreign country) don't get drunk and keep you head about you. PEACE

  • @sodapopcurtis7396
    @sodapopcurtis7396 3 роки тому +1

    think the guy who said the joiner fee was a good investment is mistaken it for the hotel policy where most of them require the guest to leave their id until they leave..that actually helps protect tourist from crazies or things that may go bad

    • @gkprivate433
      @gkprivate433 3 роки тому +3

      leaving ID at the desk to me, seemed like a fantastic process and well organized and worked. Once I took a girl back to my hotel, Eastiny Place as I recall. I had stayed there once or twice over the years. The desk clerk took the ID looked it over and said, "Sorry mister can not". I asked why not? Wondering if they changed the guest policy, or maybe this girl was a known problem or was banned from the hotel for some reason. So I asked again what is the problem? The clerk said can not take this person. I was puzzled. Then the clerk showed me the ID and it showed that the girl was a guy! Wow was I fooled. I looked at the ID, looked over my prospective guest. I said thank you to the clerk. I felt a bit bad for the person. I mean he/she may have been a good person and was being stigmatized by the acts of others. So I gave her/him motorbike taxi fair for his/her time and went on with my evening.

    • @sodapopcurtis7396
      @sodapopcurtis7396 3 роки тому

      @@gkprivate433 yeah I love the policy and you don't have to pay a joiner fee for your guest to leave the id

  • @sianorouzi5528
    @sianorouzi5528 3 роки тому +3

    Thanks for the stories.
    In first story the beautiful bar girl was honest saying that she only wanted the guy for his money. No feeling at all. . As a result, he end up with a woman who was not that attractive or desirable. At some point he wanted to get rid of her because of her look. However, at retirement age he did not have that much options or choices, so he settled with ugly one who is going to stick with him for the rest of his life. The moral of story is : Get an ugly woman. She will loves you for who you are, not for your money. It doesn’t matter if she is a bar girl or average Thai woman. Ugly chicks never leave a men whom they think they’re hot or superior to themselves. That is not only in Thailand. It is universal value.
    The question is if the man wants to stay with such a woman?

    • @Jay-vr9ir
      @Jay-vr9ir 3 роки тому

      BINGO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @firstmkb
      @firstmkb 3 роки тому

      There was a comedy routine about that, about 80 years ago…
      Costello claims “You should marry a homely girl instead of a pretty one.”
      Abbott asks “Why?”
      Costello tells him, “A pretty girl is likely to run away with somebody else.”
      Abbott objects, “But a homely girl can run off too!”
      Costello laughs “Yeah, but who cares?”

    • @sianorouzi5528
      @sianorouzi5528 3 роки тому

      @@firstmkb
      Ha..ha..ha
      That was really funny. It cracked me up.

  • @briancattani5109
    @briancattani5109 2 роки тому +4

    1st story. Of course not all of anything is bad but to seriously date a bar girl is russian roulet with 5 bullets out of 6 in the chamber. My wife and I know one that we have tried to help and she is truly a nice honest person but put a drink in her and away she goes.

    • @wheresthegovernance4350
      @wheresthegovernance4350 2 роки тому +2

      2 questions? What's her number and what's her drink of choice? 😎😎😎

    • @franco7928
      @franco7928 2 роки тому

      @@wheresthegovernance4350 lol 😂😂

    • @xpusostomos
      @xpusostomos 2 роки тому

      You know one? Wow, that's definitive then.

  • @kiwimcozzie5431
    @kiwimcozzie5431 3 роки тому +3

    Hilarious- why get married? Dont buy bufallo if milk is free!!

  • @lesliesims1260
    @lesliesims1260 3 роки тому

    And I thought I was the jealous type!
    I love these stories Peter!

  • @randmayfield5695
    @randmayfield5695 5 днів тому

    Sixty-five? Married twice? That's Pattya alright.

  • @thetribal697
    @thetribal697 3 роки тому +5

    Family Life with a Hooker!?? Good luck with That

    • @vitocorleone8323
      @vitocorleone8323 3 роки тому

      I once saw a vid of some farang and his Thai hooker "girlfriend" fighting in a Mall and the farang actually climbed on a ledge and threatened to jump because she threatened to "break up" with him.

  • @manuelalayo511
    @manuelalayo511 Рік тому +4

    There is nothing wrong with free lancers. They are probably more honest than bar girls!!!

    • @ThailandBound
      @ThailandBound  Рік тому +4

      Where are you getting your information from because it's just not true, Unlike the bar girls there is no accountability and no fall back if something goes wrong

    • @manuelalayo511
      @manuelalayo511 Рік тому +1

      OK. Peter. You are right 👉

    • @manuelalayo511
      @manuelalayo511 Рік тому +2

      Thumbs up Peter. Thanks mate!!! However, when I open my night club in Pattaya you have to be there!!!

    • @ThailandBound
      @ThailandBound  Рік тому +2

      I don't do night clubs these days at 62, they are just too much for me mate.

    • @johndean4765
      @johndean4765 Рік тому

      Manuelalayo don't be fooled I heard that free lancers are often that because they have been sacked from a club for misbehaving.

  • @robertgrey6101
    @robertgrey6101 3 роки тому +1

    Story 2: This EMPHASISES the old ssying: There is a fool born every minute.
    Readers should take my advice IF the Limo service kiosk is still operating at the new airport.
    Fixed price to your hotel. NO stuff ups. I get this service from the airport to my hotel in BKK. All you have to do is show your passport, your hotel booking from your travel agent, pay the fee, into the Limo, NO double up, NO rip off.
    OR, get your accommodation to pick you up with explicit instructions on where to meet at the A / Port.
    NO hassles, NO heart burn, NOTHING to worry about.
    Yes, fools rush in where ANGELS fear to tread.