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  • Опубліковано 26 жов 2024
  • BRIDEGROOM gives an intensely personal edge to the ongoing debate over the legal rights of same-sex couples. Interviews, photos and video footage all testify to the uncommon connection that drew together Shane Bitney Crone and Tom Bridegroom. For six years they remained united despite extreme challenges from both family and society, until a tragic accident tears apart their dreams. Now one must fight to be recognized as his soulmate's legitimate counterpart.
    "This is really, on one level, a wonderful, sad, heartbreaking yet exhilarating and life affirming story, and on another level, it's a story about our nation's struggle to make one more step in forming a more perfect union, for which marriage is both the symbol and substance," said Former President Bill Clinton of the film.
    BRIDEGROOM won the Audience Awards for Best Documentary at the 2013 Tribeca Film Festival, the 2013 Toronto Inside Out Festival and the 2013 Little Rock Film Festival as well as Outstanding Documentary Feature at the 2013 Outfest in LA. Most recently it won Best Documentary at the GLAAD Media Awards. It made its television debut on the Oprah Winfrey Network and is now available on Netflix and iTunes.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 571

  • @gordonw924
    @gordonw924 8 років тому +34

    Just watched the movie. Im a 55 year old man that just came out. This gave me hope to be happy again. Thank you.

    • @fayis4everlove
      @fayis4everlove 8 років тому

      55? not bad! Also grats on coming out my good sir

    • @dave4702
      @dave4702 6 років тому +1

      50 and just came out. Exhilarating, terrifying, greatest sense of complete freedom I have ever felt. Just met a guy....,. Don't know where is going........ and the ride is surreal......

  • @5620701215
    @5620701215 10 років тому +20

    I've seen the movie on Netflix and have always ignored it. Until today I decided to give it a try. I started to watch it and I imidiedtly started to cry. This story is amazing. Shane you remind me of myself on how some day there is some one out there for me. Also I get panic attacks too, which made me think there's some one who goes through the same thing. This documentury is the best I've seen. God bless you and family. You really had me ball my eyes out.

  • @RiotTheRedFox
    @RiotTheRedFox 11 років тому +5

    I found this on netflix and had to look up a preview and now i'm crying. what have i done.

  • @adamcarter271
    @adamcarter271 9 років тому +11

    It's amazing how fast you can cry in 2 and a half minutes. What you and Tom had was beautiful.

    • @andrew.johnson1991
      @andrew.johnson1991 Рік тому

      If you think that was difficult you should watch the entire video.! I have seen it numerous times and still cry like it’s the first time seeing it. Such a beautiful but sad story

    • @rollydoucet8909
      @rollydoucet8909 Рік тому

      @@andrew.johnson1991 I only saw the full video last night. I remember hearing about the tragedy and Tom's family denying Shane attending the funeral, but after watching the film last night, I was brought to tears, almost as if I'd known the boys personally.

  • @angelxmalditah97
    @angelxmalditah97 10 років тому +6

    Bridesgroom is probably the best documentary that I have ever watched. I saw this and watched the trailer, and a tear already fell. I just finished the film and it's almost 7am here now and I'm still bawling my eyes out. I had to pause every now and then becausenI can't focus, my eyes are cloudy and my tissue ran out. I felt how Alex felt, you know. She said she wished she was the one who fell and not Tom. I'm devastated, but If just by watching this I already feel like this, I can only imagine how Shane felt at the time. I will pray for all of you and I hope that Tom's parents will find peace with the truth. I know this has happened almost 2 years ago, but stay strong. You will meet Tom again in due time.

  • @bendunn7861
    @bendunn7861 10 років тому +3

    I just finished watching bridegroom i was crying the whole time it opens your eyes and makes you see how quick someone can be taken away from you. You can never overuse i love you.

  • @allisonaubin3657
    @allisonaubin3657 9 років тому +13

    Hi Shane. I live in Vancouver Canada. I saw your original video last year and have never stop thinking about you. I'm crying now as I type this. I finally got the courage to watch your documentary. I can't even imagine then pain you are going threw. I will never in my life ever forget your story. If there's one person I could meet in this world it would be you. I would want to just hold you in my arms telling you how sorry I am for your loss. No one should ever have to go threw that. Never loosing someone is bad enough, but the way you did is cruel and unfathomable. I sickens me on how Toms family has treated you. Gay or not. They should be ashamed of themselves for doing that. They true are the ones to be ashamed of. Not you not Tom. You two were true to who you are and how you felt. I only wish I could find the love you too had. It truly is once in a life time that I believe. Sure you will gain strength and move forward. But it will never be the same of course. I pray your able to open your heart again and that Tom may send you someone in his place to share your life with. To finish what you started. I know he would want you to be happy and not alone. I truly believe everything happens for a reason. I can't figure out why the bad things happen sometimes but I have to put faith in that good has to come of it. And it looks like a lot of good has happend since his passing. It bothers me to see these hate posts about your story. Cause if it was a man and women story society would be more excepting of it. I say BULLSHIT! Sorry but we all know its true. Even though you don't know me you have touched me heart in so so so many ways. Thank you so much for being strong enough to share your story. I now for myself I couldn't do it. I'm a tough girl with a thick skin but this would of destroyed me. Not that it matters but I am a straight female and I'm still crying as I write this post. I pray above and beyond my own needs that you find true love again. And when you do that you are able to share it with us again. I'm sure you get thousands of replys but I truly hope you read mine. Cause I mean every word I'm saying. All my love to you and your family. Tap Tap Tap xo

  • @kristinajewel8423
    @kristinajewel8423 9 років тому +3

    Your relationship conquered boundaries whether you realize it or not... your relationship was exactly what each of us search for each day of our lives! It was and is breathtaking to behold in what was captured just within this documentary, but also within every movie clip and photograph! Thank you for sharing such a precious piece of your soul!

  • @RandyR
    @RandyR 9 років тому +6

    I finally saw the complete movie while I had a chance on my own. Cried my way through most of it. My ex was murdered so I know what it feels like to never know what happened.. I admire you for hanging in there through all the pain. I am dealing with four deaths myself but they died various ways. Watching my dad die in front of me 26 months ago has thrown my world upside down and nothing will ever be the same. Much like when beautiful Tom sadly passed away. Trying to let the narrow minded world now that love and lost is the same no matter one's sexual preference. My deepest condolences. I had a very hard time watching the movie but finally made it though. You are a strong person in trying to turn immense pain into something good. Like my trying to help others on line deal with grief, recovery and emotional issues. I have had five deaths over the last three years plus more losses. I know what it is to cry nearly every day but at least it helps me to stay sober and keeps me from having a breakdown.

  • @VPaulikas
    @VPaulikas 8 років тому +4

    Schane,
    Just saw this movie. What a sad story. We can not stop our tears. ❤️😢😢😢 We wish you to be strong. We are with you.
    Victor&Dennis (Lithuania&Netherlands)

  • @PiwowarX3
    @PiwowarX3 11 років тому +2

    I just got done watching your documentary. My boyfriend saved me from losing myself and if I ever lost him I know I could not be alive a second without him. I remember your video you posted to UA-cam on the anniversary of Tom's death. Your video was only less then a month old. I was going through a horrible time and your video made me cry so much and not only helped me open my eyes more but relieved a lot of the pain I was going through. I couldn't thank you enough for sharing your story

  • @geoffcutler
    @geoffcutler 8 років тому +5

    You must watch the full documentary. Most moving film I've ever watched.

  • @karlijnmerle1991
    @karlijnmerle1991 8 років тому +4

    I have watched BRIDEGROOM this evening and can't stop thinking about it. Thank you Shane, for sharing this story, for showing your love, for showing Tom to us all and most of all thank you, for showing us the love you had for each other.

  • @jerrycarlson8968
    @jerrycarlson8968 10 років тому +6

    I'm on the verge of tears. This is so heartbreaking. It's so wrong what he had to go through.

  • @washingtonluizantunes580
    @washingtonluizantunes580 9 років тому +5

    (I am Brazilian and I think my English is a little bad by then I'm sorry but I think probably this text is not 100% cohesive)
    Hello, Mr. Shane. I'm here to say thank you. I am stunned by this documentary. This story moved me very much and I know that those who see it will stop and reflect. You really touched my heart. I saw that suffered much in its infancy and really amazed me how there is so much intolerance of homosexuals even in the USA. I think you're being a real hero by both able to release the sense of shame which affects many gay and to be part of movements that we represent. Good thing there warriors like you. Another thing that occurred to me is that I do not know how but inexplicable things happen and I'm willing to believe a theory that helps me a lot but do not know if is certain: Whenever the time comes to someone from I try not nurture that sense of loss we have. I try to think that the person was play something else. This thought comforts me sometimes but I do not know if it's right. In the end, I want you to know that helped me a lot with this documentary alarmed me because of how our struggle is complicated because I thought that elsewhere was more welcome by the family and even the society around us. I wish from the bottom of my heart all the happiness that may exist and that you never lose courage and cunning who won with this life experience.

  • @COLLINJELLIS
    @COLLINJELLIS 10 років тому +6

    I have to hold back tears every time I look at this. I wish you the best. I ready cannot type anymore, this is too much for me and I haven't even begun to experience what you felt. I'm glad that you're strong enough to handle this the best possible way. Thank you for turning such a horrible experience into a way to help billions of people. Thank you.

  • @jgaczorek
    @jgaczorek 10 років тому +1

    I haven't watched the documentary yet but the trailer already made my heart drop. You are a beautiful and inspirational person! This movie definitely should make everyone stop for a moment and be grateful for the people and things they have in their lives right now. Thank you for being able to share your story and inspire those who watch your documentary

  • @clairecastles
    @clairecastles 10 років тому +2

    I have just finished watching this documentary and it completely blew me away. I cannot begin to imagine the pain of losing the person I love, let alone not having my part in their life acknowledged legally and by their family. Shane, I think you are so brave for making this film. I know that it will never make up for what you have lost, but I believe your story will touch people and help to change minds and, hopefully, laws, around the world. I'm sharing this among my circles in Northern Ireland (the only part of the UK where same sex marriage is still illegal) in the hope that it will help to address prejudice there too.

  • @DJWhovian
    @DJWhovian 9 років тому +10

    This documentary was fantastic and made me cry so much! Will it be released outside the US, I live in the UK and would love to have copy of it.

    • @cindawinda1
      @cindawinda1 9 років тому +1

      +DJWhovian If you have Netflix, its on there in every country :)

    • @DJWhovian
      @DJWhovian 9 років тому +1

      Yeah. Might sound old fashioned but do still like to have a physical copies but have used Netflix to watch it again.

    • @devilambrose
      @devilambrose 8 років тому

      DVD avaliable on EBAY, just brought one.

  • @ThijsvanDijk89
    @ThijsvanDijk89 10 років тому +1

    Dear Shane, thank you for sharing your story with us. My boyfriend and I watched your movie just now and we were both in tears. God bless you and your family and keep strong and thanks again for sharing!

  • @celestinomolina2475
    @celestinomolina2475 9 років тому +6

    I'm watching this movie now 2015 and it tears my heart.. I feel so sad for Shane.. I wish Tom still alive so they can continue there journey together.. I cried a lot in this movie. I have a boyfriend now and I don't like this thing to be happened.. It moves me so much.. Still crying now..😢😢😢

  • @kennedysexton3679
    @kennedysexton3679 9 років тому +3

    I watched this with my boyfriend. It was very emotional, I cried allot. It made me think about losing my boyfriend, I would be a wreck. And Shane not being invited to the funeral, made me cry even harder. And the end, when you went to his grave. I loved this movie.

  • @neilmurray498
    @neilmurray498 10 років тому +1

    Just found your memorial vid on here, watched it and I have spent the last 3 hours researching who you and Tom are on google. WOW. This is so touching, i'm moved!! It takes alot to have something actually impact me emotionally and by god you have. I'm from Ireland abd it's still very much backward here but watching your story has inspired me to make a change. Peace out ♥

  • @yushigo12
    @yushigo12 10 років тому +4

    Since last year I was waiting for this movie to play on our country... When I can't wait about it anymore so I download it last 2 weeks. I just watch this movie this morning for 28th times. And I kept crying. I always with I had a love like this. The story will touch your heart. The documentary is extraordinary. You will feel the pain, and the love in this movie, and this movie will make you believe in true love...
    #equalloveequalrights

  • @stephaniejones3979
    @stephaniejones3979 7 років тому +1

    Hi, I discovered your story and your movie 2 days ago.
    I'm 41 now and It happened exactly the same to me in 2014 here in Italy. I married my husband in New York, but when he suddenly died at 31 in 2014 I was nobody here in Italy. I've lost the love of my life with no recognitions. Now, since this year, gay families are recognized in Italy, but not at that time!
    Thank you for let me feeling less alone. I'm fighting here as well, with no peace, but with hope.

  • @cgrdz
    @cgrdz 11 років тому +4

    I have watched the documentary three times and my mind tells me that it is going to be ok for Shane but I just can't explain it to my heart. I have cried a lot and miss Tom like I would miss a family member. Thank you for sharing your story and for letting us love you and Tom.

  • @jjmarie3472
    @jjmarie3472 11 років тому +6

    Ugh, I'm from the same town Tom was from and it's sad to say that I was not shocked at all to see how his family was. Almost everyone here is like that. Very ignorant, judgmental and close minded. I just hope that you don't think we are all that way. I didn't know Tom personally but from watching your videos and the documentary I can tell that he had a beautiful soul! I cant imagine how I would feel losing my husband.. I am so sorry Shane ; /

  • @jjbrewis
    @jjbrewis 11 років тому

    Just finished watching the film. I never comment on UA-cam but I feel compelled to say how important and compelling this film is. I'm shocked and inspired. You have an amazing triumphant heart, Shane.

    • @jonm3511
      @jonm3511 11 років тому

      Great film, but super sad story!! He's s well spoken gent.

  • @rhondapettyjohn7294
    @rhondapettyjohn7294 10 років тому +1

    I just finished watching this on Netflix and it was absolutely beautiful. I'm so sorry for your loss. Tom seems like he was a pretty cool guy. I hope you, your family/friends, and his family find peace even if it's in you all's own way. Don't give up.

  • @jcsfx710
    @jcsfx710 11 років тому +3

    OMG i just saw your movie and i'm still watching the credits and my tears are falling... you and tom are an inspiration to us all, and makes realize that while i'm still here breathing i need to make sure that everyone knows what my wishes are in case of anything happening to me. love your movie, and i'm so very sorry for your loss. it's on netflix right now in case anyone wants to watch it, is a must if you're gay in a relationship. Bravo! Shane you made Tom very proud.. :)

  • @megsj341
    @megsj341 9 років тому +1

    I just watched this documentary and I have to say, i am so sorry for your loss, but thank you so much for sharing your story.

  • @ChandreyeeJohnson
    @ChandreyeeJohnson 10 років тому +3

    I just finished watching this #bridegroommovie . I ran across it in Redbox and the cover said a lot so I ended up getting it. My heart goes out to you Shane as well as to anyone else who has had to endure the mistreatment that society and family hands out for being 'different'. "Sorry" from a perfect stranger never gives real solace to the pain felt (I can't even begin to imagine).
    I live in Utah and last Friday, same sex marriage was legalized in Utah. It came as quite a shock to pretty much everyone. There's been a frenzy of marriages ever since. Last time I read an article (last night--I am working a grave right now), over 700 licenses have been issued. Four emergency stays have been denied thus far and while the state is trying to fight against this legalization, I sure hope that they lose and that it is permanently legal here. I've supported at least the gay/lesbian community (due to being extremely sheltered, I didn't even know about all the other differences until a couple years ago) ever since I was in jr high and had a best friend whom I had a huge crush on. I finally got the courage to ask him on a date (he was super shy, or so I thought) and he smiled and told me that he was flattered, but that he was gay. That was my first experience with it.We talked alot about it and when I found out how abrasive his family was against the gay community, I was upset by it. He was so afraid to tell his parents about himself. I left that school due to a trail of foster homes, but I've never forgotten him and I'm glad that he opened my eyes. I'm not sure what to do in order to be heard or to try and put it out there for more people to stop fighting against it. Hoping to figure that out.
    My love and support goes out to all.
    #equal #humanrights

    • @namjoonssexybrain1679
      @namjoonssexybrain1679 10 років тому

      Honestly just posting comments like this really does help. A person reading these can tell when someone puts thought and emotion to their comments, and you sound pretty awesome to me and I didn't actually know about Utah, which made me smile. So you helped this pansexual dude a little bit.

  • @Grillchips
    @Grillchips 10 років тому +1

    Just saw the movie! Wishing you all the strength and love in your continued life!

  • @stevequinn9617
    @stevequinn9617 4 роки тому +1

    Just found this today and although I cried through most of it I loved it. You 2 were meant to be. 💜

  • @rogerluiscwb
    @rogerluiscwb 10 років тому +1

    One of the most beautiful and emotional movie that I ever seen. Deeply! Touching! Heartbreaking!!

  • @Jordan1000
    @Jordan1000 11 років тому

    I'm so glad you've finally managed to get this documentary completed. Well done!

  • @cheeks889
    @cheeks889 10 років тому +1

    Honestly this documentary is so beautiful..... I cried so much and it touched me in so many ways. Thank you for this Shane ... Thank you for sharing your story. You inspire me to stay true to myself and love until my last breath . Love is power.

  • @chickiluvslucy75
    @chickiluvslucy75 10 років тому +3

    I saw this movie last night and I started crying in the first 2mins... Its such a moving story of love.. It doesnt matter if your gay, straight, bi.. You are who you are... I loved this for many reasons, one being we should all be so lucky to find a love like both these guys have.. One that I hope I will have.. God says love one another as you would love yourself. No where does he say, but only if its with the opposite sex or same race as you.. God loves us all.. Btw I am not a religious person. But I do know that...

  • @ConsciousCreations11
    @ConsciousCreations11 9 років тому +3

    I just saw your movie and I am deeply touched. I'm SO so so sorry for your loss. Two beautiful humans who deserved a long life together, but cut so short. I do believe that everything happens for a reason, as hard as that is to realise when you are living in it. Just remember what you are doing is a great thing, keeping your love alive, the spirit of love alive, helping to expand people's narrow-mindedness, one-box-fits-all mindset, never forget that, so keep doing what you are doing with your head held high. Love Is Love. I truly hope that one day soon all people can be married, if that is what they desire. Love is Love, One Love. Love & Light to you, your family and friends, but most especially to Tom's family because they really need it the most, as you said so perfectly, "... he was the monument to you." ... and what an amazing person he was as are you xxx Shine Bright #equality

  • @dougt66
    @dougt66 11 років тому +2

    I just watched this documentry. I rented through redbox. I didnt know I was going to watch one of the greatest stories ever. Tom and shane I love you. You are my ROMEOS. Shane im so sorry for your lose and thank you for letting me experience that love u had/have for each other. XOXOX

  • @hernanmatias1428
    @hernanmatias1428 10 років тому +8

    Dear Shane: I am absolutely sure that God sends angels with specific missions to help us with our lives. Tom was yours. He was sent to help you forget all the sadness of your childhood and get you to smile again. He taught you how to love another one in body and soul, and that the only thing that really matters in live is to be happy. Sadly, once his mission was completed, he returned to his creator, leaving you a handfull of sweet memories to help you go on with your live. Go on with it, and never forget that your angel will be waiting for you at the end of the road. So keep on smiling because two souls who were made for each other will melt together someday.

  • @colorlessrainbow8269
    @colorlessrainbow8269 10 років тому

    This story still touches me to this day. I've watched the documentary several times. My girlfriend and I now have a habit of knocking on an object three times, instead of just saying the words "I love you" because actions mean more than words..

  • @Lilleybugglane
    @Lilleybugglane 11 років тому

    Hi Shane... I just watched your docu on OWN... it was really FABULOUS! Thank you for opening your heart up to us all...

  • @Lopezia88
    @Lopezia88 10 років тому +1

    Just finished watching the movie and I simply cannot...I am a sobbing mess right now. My heart goes out to you, Shane. If you're reading this, I hope you know that you've deeply impacted hundreds of thousands of people with your story and Tom will always live through you. His vibrant spirit and loving personality would be soo soo proud of you for fighting for LGBT rights and marriage equality. I have been in a loving relationship for 2 years with my boyfriend and your story hit very close to home. I can't even begin to imagine what you've gone through. I pray and hope that each day gets a little bit easier to cope with your loss. You are a hero to Tom and all of us in our community. -Ivan Lopez of Virginia

  • @juliorojas5796
    @juliorojas5796 11 років тому

    Thanks for sharing your story. I was very moved with the BrideGroom trailer. I am looking forward to watching it on 10/27.

  • @johnjonen1725
    @johnjonen1725 2 роки тому +1

    Shane, I just watched your movie… I’m so happy you and Tom experienced true love and happiness together even if for such a short time. I have had so many crushes on straight male friends I meet over my live but never found a Tom. Still hoping a Tom will come into my live for I am still in the closet and just getting by through life without true love that I long for someday. I hope you’re doing well… this film really helped and opened up my mind.

  • @Shaheen164
    @Shaheen164 11 років тому

    simply a beautiful film, and i am so happy that your story is getting out there. i know so many people whos views on the fight for Equal Rights who's views have changed due to the UA-cam clip, and i know so many more hearts will be opened because of this film. thank you for opening up your heart and your soul to us all. EQUAL RIGHTS IS HUMAN RIGHTS

  • @HE-tb8kw
    @HE-tb8kw 10 років тому +6

    cried in this trailer now i have to watch the movie its seems very good!

  • @laurakinney3366
    @laurakinney3366 9 років тому +7

    Did she just said: I wish it were me at 1:22
    I am crying so hard. It nearly kills me.
    It is just not fair...

  • @kimdethful45
    @kimdethful45 10 років тому +1

    I loved this documentary so much! Made my heart break into pieces and my eyes hurt from crying. No one should be denied of their love. You two shared love that was more powerful then anything Shakespeare could imagine. A love more powerful then Romeo and Juliet's. Love this and wish you all the best.

  • @corwinex1
    @corwinex1 11 років тому +1

    Just watched the film and I am deeply moved! You have touched my heart and my life and may God bless you always Shane!

  • @adrianrodriguezoficial
    @adrianrodriguezoficial 10 років тому +1

    Wow… I can't imagine but am very thankful for share this.

  • @georgepapageorgiou7166
    @georgepapageorgiou7166 3 роки тому +1

    Last time I cried this much was when I lost the love of my life too. My heart goes out to everyone who has to deal with this themselves. Love you all xox

  • @rogerhall6450
    @rogerhall6450 3 роки тому +1

    I watched the movie. I had a mix of emotions. You and Tom were a wonderful couple! 💓
    It's the kind of Love everyone hopes to find.
    Shane, I hope you find peace.

  • @candicelemley6134
    @candicelemley6134 11 років тому

    So amazing. I am so proud to have been a part of tgis...I couldn't contribute much but I HAD to help get this story out!

  • @lauradin2040
    @lauradin2040 10 років тому +1

    Amazing film/documentary ......i watched all your videos on youtube last year and then seen you bday on imdb and was like i know that name from somewhere and seen you had a film out so i got it and watChed it ....and what a story ....sooo sorry for everything you been through ...:( but amazing to see people spreading the love when so many people hate :) good luck in the future ;)

  • @jeremytan5297
    @jeremytan5297 10 років тому +1

    I just watched and I teared up a little. Just wanna stay , stay strong Shane. You have our full support. And I really do hope you'll be able to find your other half again soon . We love you !

  • @hendrikjanssen2250
    @hendrikjanssen2250 10 років тому +2

    I've seen "It could happen to you" 1 1/2 years ago and I still can't believe of what has happened. I hope you can reach many people with your story...
    Also, which song is used in 1:32+ ?

  • @rosiecheeksss
    @rosiecheeksss 10 років тому +1

    I really want to see this movie. But the real reason I wanted to put this comment, is because I was listening to the song you had in your It Could Be You video and I just started crying. I cannot stand thinking of this happening to anyone. All you wanted to do was love him. You dont deserve this. I dont care what it takes. I will make sure that everyone can marry who they love. I don't care about getting arrested for protests, i dont care. Nobody deserves this. You are not bad, you are not sinful, you are not disgusting, you are amazing and strong and you love who you love. And if god is some angry man sitting in heaven, judging everyone for their mistakes and/or differences, saying you cant be who you are and that your not 'perfect' so you cant be in heaven, well, then I'm glad I don't believe. There is no excuse. This should not have happened. Your story is such an inspiration. I'm so glad I found the movie, and decided to do some research. I know none of us (commentors, subscribers, etc) could ever fill that love void you have after Tom, but we love you. And I will hold this story in my heart forever as a reminder of how hard life can be, and how unfair, and how you have to keep fighting for what you believe in. I'm so sorry for how unhuman people can be.

  • @drewwman720
    @drewwman720 10 років тому +2

    When I saw this movie on Netflix I cried myself to sleep. I decided to show all my friends and family this movie. I know when they see it their opinions will change and hopefully this happens all over the world. Seeing you smile on Will and Rj's channel shep689 made me so happy that I watched the video 5 times. I'd love to see more videos of you. #ShaneShouldVlog2014. You have inspired me in so many ways. Best wishes and thank you.

  • @angelitowR
    @angelitowR 10 років тому +1

    I'm not sure if I could handle this movie. I just cried watching the trailer, I don't want to imagine if I watch it.

  • @user-us5cv2ou1z
    @user-us5cv2ou1z 11 років тому +3

    i just watched this on netflix , and i see there are thousands supporting you . im proud of you im ashamed of America im ashamed we live in a country where this is allowed and everyday through my words and my actions i will do all i can to change that. but on a deeper note while watching i was in tears your such a beautiful soul such an amazing person and strong to share this story with the world. so as a fellow human being i love you . you will be whole again and i pray for you . may Tom's parents hearts be unhardened and understand what they have done are are doing by shunning you , but even if they dont God loves you God knows you and NO ONE can change that.
    Love,
    Niecee X

  • @forumcafe.coffeehomemadeca8038
    @forumcafe.coffeehomemadeca8038 7 років тому +1

    Just seen your film, SAD. Xxx

  • @danielcastro6035
    @danielcastro6035 10 років тому +1

    Simplemente genial, excelente documental, gran amor, gran historia, la amè. Gracias por compartirla

  • @RandyR
    @RandyR 9 років тому

    I finally got to watch your video' It could happen to you' and it has. As well as this movie and I spent most of the time in tears. I am dealing with five deaths now so you have my deepest compassion and understanding. You will have good days and bad days. Will be going to the cemetery on Father's day. Not looking to it. Bless you for hanging in there and trying to stay strong.

  • @chrismic4835
    @chrismic4835 11 років тому

    Jus saw your story and wanted to send my thoughts to you. Terribly sorry what happened and I hope you are doing ok. How wonderful it is you are doing what you're doing!! Stay awesome. Hugs from Belgium

  • @beccyiebell5603
    @beccyiebell5603 11 років тому

    I was ushering a showing of this a few weeks ago. It was the best movie I've ever seen. Whole theater was crying. I hope one day I have a relationship like y'all.

  • @InicianteExperiente
    @InicianteExperiente 10 років тому +5

    Chorei demais vendo esse documentário!

  • @puppylove1865
    @puppylove1865 10 років тому +1

    after watching this, my heart had been down for days.. cried for many times.. love is equal

  • @lorenrags7853
    @lorenrags7853 11 років тому +1

    I am so moved by your story and the love that you shared with Tom.

  • @megm663
    @megm663 11 років тому

    How do I watch this? I saw a preview on TV but missed the airing of it and im really interested in seeing it!! I mean where do I find it? I searched online but its not saying anything helpful! Is it on dvd or something? It says its initial release was in April 2013.

  • @DontSigh
    @DontSigh 11 років тому

    You know it's tragic when the trailer has you in tears. I can't even imagine.

  • @demetriadevonne8596
    @demetriadevonne8596 10 років тому +1

    I saw the youtube video and im very sorry for your loss :'( this had me in tears, good luck for the future and u and tom are always in my thoughts xx stay strong shane x

  • @AbbyRose90
    @AbbyRose90 10 років тому +1

    I had no idea this had been made into a documentary, Tragic yet beautiful.

  • @cool-xr2gl
    @cool-xr2gl 10 років тому +1

    I seen your youtube video the other day, "it could happen to you" and it literally made me cry. It sends out a powerful message about equality and acceptance that will change the life of so many people, your story gives me hope in life and the confidence to stand up for what I believe in. I wish to have the love u and tom had for one another one day. I just ordered Bridegroom on dvd yesterday and I can't wait for it to come in the mail so I can see it.

  • @tigger71004
    @tigger71004 11 років тому +1

    I just watched Bridegroom today on Netflix...cried my eyes out...I'm so sorry...

  • @wilbready
    @wilbready 11 років тому

    Thank you Shane and Tom for sharing your story! My partner and I have taken steps in our relationship to ensure this does NOT happen to us. You have made us realize how short life is and how important love is! thank you!

  • @fhiNkme
    @fhiNkme 11 років тому

    just finish watching this movie and now tears just keep falling down my eyes. It's simply a beautiful love story of two people who wanted to be open and accepted. Beautiful yet tragic. After getting attached with their love story, i realized how much i loved my partner. And us being gay and loving each other is the best thing in the world. Their will be another angel, heaven sent from above for you Shane but i know Tom will now be your guardian angel. Prince Charming turn into an Angel. Thanks for sharing your story, it will never be forgotten.

  • @90scoolll
    @90scoolll 11 років тому

    I'm glad that this story has reach the media and switched it into a movie, and this is an inspiration for all kinds of people, everyone must watch it to learn what love is, I hope this movie will teach people that what love is, what love means, and I hope that this movie will help to erase a lot of homophobia from many society...I live in middle east and there is an Arabic channel who shows American movies for 24/7, I will ask them to show this movie and I hope they'll accept my asking.

  • @Robobear295
    @Robobear295 10 років тому +2

    I am so sorry for your loss. I truly felt the love that you and Tim had. Your relationship strikes close to my own relationship. You have taught me so much with your story. Love is what matters and love is so strong that it is a human thing, not a gay thing or a str8 thing.
    Thank you so much for letting us into your world. I wish happiness and most of all, lots of love for the future.

  • @spanicfan007
    @spanicfan007 11 років тому

    Awesome trailer.Cried my eyes out.
    It's been more than a year since I saw the video and I'm still full of impressions.
    R.I.P Tom,never met you,but I love you.And Shane,you are such an awesome man!

  • @addictee55
    @addictee55 11 років тому

    I cried all the way through this. I have a gay son with a partner of twelve years.I adore them both. I cannot imagine ever turning my back on either one of them. Thank you for sharing this. You both took advantage of what you had for such a short time. My thoughts are always with you. This story made such a huge impact on me and my many online friends. May you find happiness in the future.

  • @982sarah
    @982sarah 11 років тому +2

    demi bought me here. I want to watch. It looks so inspiring

  • @yoyolu7376
    @yoyolu7376 11 років тому +1

    shane, thanks a lot for sharing us this story about you and tom, and i'm really impressed by your love and sorry for the tragedy. I sincerely admire your courage and pretty sure you will make things change. in china, although this documentary can't be watched in cinema, i will try to buy the DVD to support. R.I.P. tom! and take care of yourself!

  • @donjuans66
    @donjuans66 11 років тому

    It was AWESOME. One to watch. The Journey, The Struggles, The Love, The Understanding, The Tragedy, The Extreme Cruelty and then The Acceptance and COURAGE of Shane to share this story. The Word became a better place because of this story. Thank You Shane. Hugs. I lost someone too!!!!

  • @marionmamoru4925
    @marionmamoru4925 10 років тому

    I just saw the documentary...and it was so heartbreaking :'((( I cried a lot. I'm lesbian so I understand how difficult it can be to be different from others. Though I've never experienced such a hard times as you have. You really are an inspiration for all of us to fight for what's right! Thank you from the bottom of my heart for making this documentary. There are no words that could describe the feelings I had while watching it....
    My heart goes out to you... and to Tom...
    Love from Czech republic...

  • @luiscamargo5736
    @luiscamargo5736 11 років тому +1

    Hi Shane,
    Is one best documentary. It touched me so much that I just can't stop crying. I texted everyone family and friend that I love them so much, especially an ex. He was my first and haven't been in a relationship after him. Although, we live in the same city we don't talk as much. But I let him know that I still love him.
    On the other hand, I'm still fighting for the love I want from my parents, I've came out many years ago when I was 20 and now I'm 28, yet they do not accept it and won't ever. But I still live my life the way I am and they'll have to accept it if they want me to me happy...
    Omg, I can't stop crying.
    Take care Shane.

  • @iluvmusic2234
    @iluvmusic2234 11 років тому

    i would love to see this movie.. where can i buy it?

  • @yulunwu2455
    @yulunwu2455 11 років тому

    i just saw your film. It's touching and amazing, I cried hardly. You guys give me hope and courage to accept who i am. good bless for you.

  • @ButterflyEffect3258
    @ButterflyEffect3258 10 років тому +1

    Thanks for standing up for people like us. Coming from a small town i know how it feels....Stay strong

  • @amoriahosetriwy
    @amoriahosetriwy 10 років тому

    it's amazing how much this 2 min and 30 second trailer,made me cry so much

  • @kellercruse4133
    @kellercruse4133 10 років тому +1

    As a gay male, watching this got me in tears, I wish i could find someone like Shane did. They were the perfect couple that you dont see today. This movie is the best movie ive ever watched and i am showing it to my friends so they can see true meaning of love!!!!!

  • @kellynaz9256
    @kellynaz9256 10 років тому +1

    How can a trailer make me cry?!!?!!

  • @OcculiMortis
    @OcculiMortis 10 років тому +1

    I just got done watching BRIDEGROOM. It was so amazing. My heart goes out to you. I just can not stop crying. Btw, you should do something with that TAP TAP TAP.

  • @shadowartgirl11
    @shadowartgirl11 10 років тому +1

    please let me know when it comes out

  • @rodrigocasanova5892
    @rodrigocasanova5892 11 років тому +1

    You're story was so sad, I cried when I watched it. I'm so sorry for you're lost. You guys looked so happy. You're guys loved was real.

  • @snackykiller
    @snackykiller 11 років тому +2

    OMG, this is a must watch Documentary/Movie , that's all i can say.

  • @UniCorn-ed3rc
    @UniCorn-ed3rc 11 років тому

    I have never cried so hard before. This is one of the most heart-breaking and beautiful stories. We're right here with you fighting for equality! I'm so sorry you both had to go through this.

  • @nitam1104
    @nitam1104 10 років тому +1

    I just watched this on netflix and i loooved it. I've never cried during a documentary before. Watch it!!

  • @eunri27
    @eunri27 10 років тому

    I don't know what to say. It's super sad. I'm glad I found this. Be strong and thank you for sharing this to us.