Dating As An Asexual Be Like...😅

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  • Опубліковано 10 лис 2024

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  • @AmySalazar-r1x
    @AmySalazar-r1x 2 місяці тому +125

    Me as ace-demiro: “Well, kinda, but also not really and also maybe, and probably not”
    💜💚🤍🩶🖤

    • @owli-wankenobi3727
      @owli-wankenobi3727 2 місяці тому +5

      Me as an oriented aroace (demialterous) that wants a qpr:

    • @jacquelinejanicki
      @jacquelinejanicki 2 місяці тому +4

      ace demiro too :)

    • @yelloworange241
      @yelloworange241 2 місяці тому +3

      Yup, me being (definitely) Aro, Ace & (probably) Aego & Orchid. Oh the irony of it! 😏

  • @markanstrom2981
    @markanstrom2981 2 місяці тому +110

    I'm ace, aro, and one of the most introverted people I know. As far as conventional dating goes, I have little to offer a partner, and it's not what I'm interested in anyway.
    What I do want is to increase my circle of adopted family. People to take trips with, have holiday meals with, do favors for, and be able to count on for support in the long term. But how do you ask for *that*?

    • @flowerinantarctica
      @flowerinantarctica 2 місяці тому +2

      realest thing I've ever read

    • @deathguitarist12
      @deathguitarist12 2 місяці тому +4

      I am pretty much the same, if I ever figure it out I'll let you know. It kind of is a lot to deal with

    • @kimdlacrem
      @kimdlacrem 2 місяці тому

      👋 Hi, you're so sweet ty for commenting 😊

  • @I_Willenbrock_I
    @I_Willenbrock_I 2 місяці тому +21

    Relatable.
    Although im over "wanting to be in a relationship".

  • @Rachel.2
    @Rachel.2 2 місяці тому +23

    It's really a thing to think about 😭

  • @AssemblerGuy
    @AssemblerGuy 2 місяці тому +43

    We just connect via the friendship channel, and hope for things to happen on the visual/aesthetic, the noetic and perhaps a few more channels. Split attraction model at work.

    • @MangoTamtam
      @MangoTamtam 2 місяці тому

      What is the noetic channel?

    • @AssemblerGuy
      @AssemblerGuy 2 місяці тому +2

      @@MangoTamtam Noetic attraction is attraction to someone's mind; how they think; attraction to smarts.

  • @the_padrone
    @the_padrone 2 місяці тому +12

    This is me to a tee!

  • @Coolsauce-l9i
    @Coolsauce-l9i 2 місяці тому +10

    Like being ace usually mean you feel little to no sexual attraction but may still feel romantic attraction which means if you wanted you could still date ppl

    • @arurora5474
      @arurora5474 2 місяці тому +2

      this would be true if most people didn't think a date is solidified into a relationship after a seggsual interaction... or more, I don't even know tbh I don't understand dating.

  • @narthdragon2237
    @narthdragon2237 2 місяці тому +10

    I’m still on the asexual scale. I have no idea where but I’m also a romantic so yeah I’m just trying to sit here trying to figure out if I’m sexually attracted to someone or aesthetically, ha ha ha ha

  • @IAmShadowfire
    @IAmShadowfire 2 місяці тому +3

    That actually kinda hits hard

  • @sorrowXart
    @sorrowXart 2 місяці тому +3

    I put myself out there and all i get is men saying they're the same then expect me to sleep with them? 😅 ~repulsed noises~

  • @BlueMoonFoxi
    @BlueMoonFoxi 2 місяці тому +6

    as a cupioromantic aroace.. this is true

  • @BlueMoonFoxi
    @BlueMoonFoxi 2 місяці тому +5

    also i love your hair its actually so awesome

  • @PerrySkyePhoenix
    @PerrySkyePhoenix 2 місяці тому +2

    Sounds exactly like me!

  • @REMspEEDfreaxx
    @REMspEEDfreaxx 2 місяці тому +2

    R E A L!!!😭😭😭😭 this is so me, WTF?!!

  • @MangoTamtam
    @MangoTamtam 2 місяці тому +1

    This is so true!

  • @Zoe.Phoenix
    @Zoe.Phoenix 2 місяці тому +1

    I SENT THIS TO ALL MY FRIENDS! holy crap do I ever relate to this as someone who just got broken up with a couple weeks ago! I was dating my best friend and now i just cry myself to sleep playing video games as I have no best friend and no GF ...

  • @HotDogTimeMachine385
    @HotDogTimeMachine385 2 місяці тому +1

    I love the audio xD

  • @Mulluns
    @Mulluns 2 місяці тому +1

    I just say I am self partnered.

  • @xtrff2024
    @xtrff2024 2 місяці тому +2

    Me as aro ace: no tks and no tks. 😂

  • @yelloworange241
    @yelloworange241 2 місяці тому +6

    Oh the paradox of being an Asexual! 🥹 🖤🩶🤍💜

  • @Dbug16
    @Dbug16 2 місяці тому +1

    Yess Relatable 😭

  • @AlloftheGoodNamesAreTaken
    @AlloftheGoodNamesAreTaken 2 місяці тому +1

    Relatable.

  • @missthingo.o3839
    @missthingo.o3839 Місяць тому

    you look amazing!!!

  • @Jockwardia
    @Jockwardia 2 місяці тому +1

    Yes! We cry. Not date.

  • @titichartay7216
    @titichartay7216 2 місяці тому +2

    Surely an asexual is not interested in an emotionally intimate relationship - but are open to friendships with many people that do not involve intense intimacy ?

    • @MiddleAgedMartianDog
      @MiddleAgedMartianDog 2 місяці тому +1

      Depends on the kind of a-spec flavour. Also many types of intense intimacy that are not sex.

    • @Iker-m6z
      @Iker-m6z 2 місяці тому

      I'm an asexual, and I really want an emotionally intimate, romantic relationship! Just without the sex bit, that's all /pos

    • @minngael
      @minngael 2 місяці тому

      Emotional intimacy is much broader than sex. Most allosexual people I know, esp women have multiple emotionally intimate friendships ( including relatives) that are nonsexual.

  • @REALBeezle
    @REALBeezle 2 місяці тому +8

    qpr?

  • @morgan_drui
    @morgan_drui 2 місяці тому

    I’m weird I’m okay with not having sex but I enjoy it

  • @coppertones7093
    @coppertones7093 2 місяці тому

    go on adventures with them

  • @mrjoker3665
    @mrjoker3665 2 місяці тому +1

    🖤🩶🤍💜 👑

  • @ingridsantana706
    @ingridsantana706 2 місяці тому

    🥲