vlog: I got bangs + opening up about chronic illness

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  • @_tooblue4you
    @_tooblue4you 3 роки тому +170

    THE BANGS OMG SUCH A LOOK

    • @laurendsuz
      @laurendsuz 3 роки тому

      my favorite hairstyle of hers! it's giving me Dakota Johnson/Zoey Deschanel vibes

  • @sara27255
    @sara27255 3 роки тому +3

    This hair 😭😭😭😭 so so cute omg

  • @madebyymira
    @madebyymira 3 роки тому +66

    i have a chronic illness that i developed my first year of college - lots of frustration around misdiagnoses, stigmas, and overall being sick at 21. thanks lindsey for always being so transparent and making me feel a little less alone

  • @maryamzainal5419
    @maryamzainal5419 3 роки тому +2

    I have a chronic illness as well, it’s call functional dyspepsia and so I get rlly bad stomach pains that are similar to gastritis but aren’t dangerous bc they’re just my nerves being sensitive. It sucks, I can’t eat foods that are spicy, make me gassy or have caffeine and I have to eat 5-6 times a day to manage and prevent the pain. I take my meds as and when but some days I just can’t do anything. It’s also stress and anxiety related so I have to take care of my mental health in order to take care of my physical illness. Thank you for opening up about your chronic illness, being young and suffering from these things isn’t very relatable to other people. I really appreciate this and feel seen.

  • @daniellecucci3808
    @daniellecucci3808 3 роки тому +15

    “dealing with doctors that don’t always listen to you and not having answers” lindsey :( i relate to this so much as someone who also struggles with being chronically ill and anxiety. thanks for always being vulnerable and opening up difficult conversations.

  • @SOxITxGOES
    @SOxITxGOES 3 роки тому +2

    I have narcolepsy and a nerve disorder that causes chronic pain and occasional paralysis in my legs. I have been dealing with these issues since I was 15 and I am 23 now. It is so annoying to not have the energy that everyone else seems to have. And I always find myself saying, “I just have nothing left to give” just like you said!!! It’s also hard to appear normal and healthy but to have these challenges. I feel like I get a lot of judgment because I look fine. I’m always so self conscious that people will just think I am lazy. Ahhhhh it sucks!

  • @daliam4675
    @daliam4675 3 роки тому +6

    I have an autoimmune disease called Ulcerative colitis for about 10 years now and I 100% feel you when it comes to not being listened to and being frustrated! Hang in there Lindsey :)

  • @maceyfalls9773
    @maceyfalls9773 3 роки тому +3

    love the hair! bangs are sooo cute!

  • @alicehobbi1768
    @alicehobbi1768 3 роки тому +3

    I got diagnosed with Celiac disease just a month ago and I also hate eating gluten-free, but I am adjusting to that lifestyle! I'm already a vegetarian, so adding another restriction was difficult. However as much as I don't like eating gluten-free, it did help with my symptoms. I know how much it sucks to have an auto-immune disease take control of your life, so best of luck to you!

  • @madbakes86
    @madbakes86 3 роки тому +8

    I have rheumatoid arthritis and can totally relate to doing things you shouldn't because you want to have fun and feel normal. Chronic illness can be so isolating between sitting out the fun activities and cancelling plans because I just feel so fatigued. Thanks for sharing.

  • @bekkkabby
    @bekkkabby 3 роки тому +11

    the BANGS! you look stunning. also your previous videos about therapy are what finally pushed me to try it for myself. TRULY lifechanging. learning coping skills to deal with anxiety and facing trauma head on has made the world of a difference in my day to day life. if anyone is considering therapy I encourage u to give it a try just once!!

  • @madelinemcgrath7919
    @madelinemcgrath7919 3 роки тому +3

    i have a chronic illness as well. i struggle with chronic stomach pain along with ibs. basically my body sees food as something harmful when it enters my body and sends / creates pain signals for no reason. i can def relate with you when you talked about not getting answers from drs, people not being able to relate, and eating being distressing and seeming restrictive. sending positive vibes your way

  • @ximenareyna2237
    @ximenareyna2237 3 роки тому +39

    Your voice has always been so calming you would be a great podcast host if that’s something you’re interested in 😊

  • @alexb.3279
    @alexb.3279 3 роки тому +19

    Thank you so so much for talking about your chronic illness!! I've had a chronic illness since I was 13 years old (I'm 21 now). Invisible illnesses are still so misunderstood. It can feel very lonely and exhausting. Thank you for helping me feel less alone 🤎 I hope you find some relief soon 🤎

    • @lindseyrem
      @lindseyrem  3 роки тому

      Thank you. Appreciate you!!

  • @random4everify
    @random4everify 3 роки тому +24

    thank you for talking about your chronic illness! i've lived with an autoimmune condition since I was 13 and i know no one else in my life who has any chronic illness to this day so i still feel very isolated in my experiences even as an adult. although i know there are others out there going through similar things i just have never had the chance to talk about it with anyone who truly gets it. i completely get how you feel and i hope you feel better soon!

  • @fionafalcone3441
    @fionafalcone3441 3 роки тому +2

    I recently developed chronic hives & after finally receiving my first Xolair injection (medication that controls them) & seeing them go down, I literally went one day without minding my triggers - drank a fermented soda and took a slightly warm bath - and BOOM! Hives back. Also had a couple drinks on my birthday (alcohol is a big no) and felt my whole body burning within hours. It‘s a blessing that the restrictions work, but it also sucks bc you can’t let up even for a day if you want to feel “normal.” Sending all my love ✨🌟

  • @janine7384
    @janine7384 3 роки тому +4

    I'm lactose intolerant so I know somewhat how you feel. For me, it's hard to be perceived as "difficult" with friends/partners/wait staff when it's not something I chose and the temptation is always there to just do what's easier and more fun and eat what I want. It's a real burden, and one of the reasons I stopped being vegetarian. I still don't eat red meat often, but I just really need some other way to give myself more options and pleasure. BUT I'm happy for you that you live in LA and there are so many options! I can't imagine what it must be like in a smaller city.

  • @mimtime
    @mimtime 3 роки тому +7

    I really appreciate how transparent you are with your health experiences! I also have Hashimoto’s and have coeliac, so I feel you on the gluten free diet stuff. It’s hard and can feel very isolating to struggle with invisible illnesses. Hearing about someone else like yourself going through the same motions makes me feel a lil less alone though ☺️ I hope this flare up clears up for you soon! x

  • @loganalu
    @loganalu 3 роки тому +28

    totally understand how difficult it is to live with a chronic illness. I have an extremely misdiagnosed “rare” syndrome called slipping rib syndrome (it’s as painful as it sounds.. lol) and it can be so isolating and frustrating to feel like no one truly understands. brave and important of you to speak up about chronic illness, as many people don’t realize it isn’t just “old people” who get sick. 🧡 sending you positive vibes for good health & happiness xx

    • @lilacue118
      @lilacue118 3 роки тому

      Hello, but that heals in a few weeks right?

    • @loganalu
      @loganalu 3 роки тому

      @@lilacue118 slipping rib syndrome doesn’t heal at all unless you get surgery. I had 3 surgeries in the last year to repair my ribs.

    • @lilacue118
      @lilacue118 3 роки тому

      @@loganalu oh no. Are you better now? What are your symptoms??

    • @loganalu
      @loganalu 3 роки тому +3

      @@lilacue118 the symptoms are very different for each person but normally involve a clicking/popping feeling in the ribcage, terrible upper back and shoulder pain, constant muscle tension, headaches, nausea / vomiting, etc. it’s a really painful condition

  • @alainnnah
    @alainnnah 3 роки тому +2

    omg, i have hashimotos! i’m so shook to hear an influencer talk about it 🥺 i was just diagnosed a week ago and i am so excited for treatment. i am so excited to feel normal

  • @ashleyduysen7490
    @ashleyduysen7490 3 роки тому +4

    I also have a chronic illness (ehlers danlos syndrome & POTS) and it is so refreshing hearing you talk about fatigue & doctors.
    There is always an ebb and flow to how you're feeling physically, so remember to take care of yourself in this season because there will be a season when you feel "normal" again soon. Embrace your body & what it's telling you. Thank you for sharing xxx

    • @johanabi
      @johanabi 3 роки тому

      I feel the same way! I also have eds and pots and somehow it's always comforting when people say they can understand those experiences in some capacity. I am sad that others also have health struggles, but after such a long road to diagnosis i do take comfort in knowing i'm not alone. when influencers talk about it, it feels like it might influence people who watch them to be a bit more compassionate to things like fatigue, sick days, dietary restrictions, etc

  • @christinak5661
    @christinak5661 3 роки тому +4

    thank you for sharing about your autoimmune disease, I have sjogrens which no one really knows about and it’s such a struggle. no one really gets what you’re going through when it’s not something they can physically see. it’s really nice knowing someone else can relate, i hope you start feeling better

  • @emanuelascollo8546
    @emanuelascollo8546 3 роки тому +15

    I've been hoping you would open up! I have celiac disease (permanently gluten free- the worst). Please please continue to share if you're comfortable- really makes me feel less alone. Sending love

  • @perksofstef
    @perksofstef 3 роки тому +9

    The BANGS!!!! i’m obsessed, they look so good

  • @jjademariee
    @jjademariee 3 роки тому +8

    Hi Lindsey! Thank you so much for being open and talking about living with a chronic illness, i also have an autoimmune disease and it’s really comforting to see someone also taking it easy and doing realistic things during the days when dealing with fatigue or discomfort. Some days it gets really hard to do things. I hope this flare up passes soon for you! also, love the bangs!

  • @Kate-qc9zt
    @Kate-qc9zt 3 роки тому +11

    thank you so much for being open about your experience with hashimoto's. i got diagnosed with it last year and i've struggled a ton both physically and emotionally with getting used to it and adapting to all the changes i've had to make in my everyday life. tbh its been kind of draining but just hearing about it from someone elses perspective feels like a breath of fresh air, really appreciate it ♥

  • @mckaylaworld
    @mckaylaworld 3 роки тому +2

    Thanks for sharing about your story. I have battled chronic health issues since I was 19, it definitely has been a learning experience to know how much I have to nurture my body.

  • @AnaJulia-lg3ts
    @AnaJulia-lg3ts 3 роки тому +3

    GIRL THE BANGS 🔥
    Adiós

  • @nzfairytopia9229
    @nzfairytopia9229 3 роки тому +1

    I just discovered your UA-cam channel and also recently found out I have an autoimmune disease called Adults Stills Disease so it’s been very terrifying for me. I’m so in love with your personality and vibes, and I never realised there are other people out there in the comment section going through the same feelings of isolation and struggles! Sending all my love to everyone 🥰😭🙏🏻

  • @mirenafonseca8551
    @mirenafonseca8551 3 роки тому +2

    I just want to say I absolutely love all you videos and content you put out - you are my favorite content creator by far and it has been so amazing to watch your journey and growth!! Can't wait to see where life takes you!!

    • @lindseyrem
      @lindseyrem  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you so much 😭💓

  • @valentinadibastiano5881
    @valentinadibastiano5881 3 роки тому +1

    I felt without energy today struggling with my chronic illness which is a huge lactose intolerance, and with anxiety too. I saw your video and i felt your company and that its ok not to push myself that hard when im not okay, thanks!!

  • @aannamilenaa
    @aannamilenaa 3 роки тому +21

    I have Hashimoto’s too and it feels good to hear someone talk about their experiences with it as well

  • @Angiez.
    @Angiez. 3 роки тому +5

    Love your bangs! I really hope you start to feel better soon💖

  • @maddieschad6373
    @maddieschad6373 3 роки тому +1

    thank you for talking about your chronic illness. i am currently going through symptoms that could be an indicator of one but of course it could be so many things. it’s really nice to be able to relate to somebody.

  • @CassidyJane7
    @CassidyJane7 3 роки тому +6

    i totally feel u on the gluten free diet it’s so frustrating and very isolating from others when food should be a form of connection! i just started seeing a dietian and i recommend it, it really helps!!

  • @alexasunshine83
    @alexasunshine83 3 роки тому +35

    Very much feel you with the gluten stuff! What I would do to not have to be gluten free 😭

  • @ElianaKioukis
    @ElianaKioukis 3 роки тому +10

    You look like Zooey Deschanel now with your new haircut! So cute I love how it turned out 🤍

    • @kmichel2797
      @kmichel2797 3 роки тому

      Yes!! I was thinking that the whole time lol especially in the clip with the glasses!

  • @kirstnmorrison
    @kirstnmorrison 3 роки тому +1

    omg the bangs!!! they look so good

  • @olivialupton1113
    @olivialupton1113 3 роки тому +1

    The bangs are so good!!!! They make ur eyes POP

  • @meellerr
    @meellerr 3 роки тому +2

    I have hashimoto's too! It's such a struggle to give myself grace and validity for my condition and occasional flare ups. I appreciate you bringing light to giving yourself time and care when you experience a flare up. I also can absolutely relate to the struggles with relationships with food pre and post diagnosis. I love cooking and baking. And while I can control what I do at home, it makes going out such a hassle and burden on both myself and, I fear, my partner.
    Thank you again for speaking candidly about this and I hope you feel better!

  • @caitlinjohnson7161
    @caitlinjohnson7161 3 роки тому +4

    my boyfriend's brother has hashimotos! his dietary restrictions are super extreme (no gluten, dairy, soy, corn, sometimes nightshades?) and he's struggled with food for years now. i've never met another person who has it so it's cool to see it represented online :)

  • @hannahmay11
    @hannahmay11 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much for the chronic illness chat, means so much 💓

  • @SummerLovesGlitter
    @SummerLovesGlitter 3 роки тому +1

    I struggle with hyperthyroidism. Also tinnitus due to a medication. :( life has been really hard lately for me.. learning medication tools and I got a self care workbook to fill out at night. Just over all showing myself compassion during flare ups are important. Just know that your body is trying it's best, and so are you.

  • @findingcathy_1561
    @findingcathy_1561 3 роки тому +1

    Omg the bangs are beautiful!!! You are glowing!!

  • @kyleegomez1419
    @kyleegomez1419 3 роки тому

    your hair looks soooo good 🤍🤍🤍🤍😭 hope your days get better with time 🤎

  • @gabrielaniero8265
    @gabrielaniero8265 3 роки тому +3

    already told you on Instagram, but the bangs suits you so well! also I hope you get some time to reenergize and rest! you got this ✨ also, I always love your outfits, those beige pants are stunning

  • @hikakorc143
    @hikakorc143 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much for sharing about your Hashimoto diagnosis..., I really understand what you talk around your feelings for cutting back on gluten... although i know you do not ask for advice, but I would encourage you to seek for a "HAES informed (Health At Every Size) dietitian!, who might be able to work with your issue with a lot of flexibility and less stress around gluten!

  • @RazzleRed543
    @RazzleRed543 3 роки тому +1

    I hope you feel better soon!

  • @rochelledsouza1250
    @rochelledsouza1250 3 роки тому +7

    Having food restrictions of any kind is so tough because you can no longer eat intuitively and it really affects how you see and think about food and creates a divide between food you used to enjoy :(

  • @veronikahnovonty
    @veronikahnovonty 3 роки тому

    THE BANGS & overall haircut!! YES, girl. SO good!!

  • @melindadupuis
    @melindadupuis 3 роки тому +3

    You were made for bangs 😍😍

  • @emiliaburgos5404
    @emiliaburgos5404 3 роки тому +2

    The new haircut looks beautiful 💕 Hope you feel better soo 💙

  • @melindadupuis
    @melindadupuis 3 роки тому +3

    Where is that cream sweater from when you’re filling your sage cart 😭

    • @lindseyrem
      @lindseyrem  3 роки тому

      The chunky cardigan from Everlane

  • @laurenperry2705
    @laurenperry2705 3 роки тому +1

    you always look so incredible with bangs!

  • @caras4766
    @caras4766 Рік тому

    I realize this is a very old video (been catching up on your older content!) but wanted to say thank you so much for sharing about your chronic illness and relationship with food. I’m also chronically ill and for over a year now have been having to eat nothing but a tiny selection of foods (fish, chicken, eggs, a few veggies, and some fats like ghee and olive oil). It’s emotionally so difficult because I had a healthy and joyful relationship with food before I got ill, and now it’s become such a source of fear and restriction and anxiety. Food plays such n important role in our lives - it brings comfort, pleasure, plays a part in our traditions and rituals and relationships with other people, has cultural significance etc To live on such a restricted diet feels like such a big loss. It’s also tough because, as you’ve spoken to here wrt restriction, it feels like I’m actively harming myself by eating in such a rigid way, it feels unkind to myself on a mental/emotional level, but physically my body literally can’t tolerate anything else so I have no choice. It’s really difficult to grapple with.

    • @lindseyrem
      @lindseyrem  Рік тому

      You put into words so many of my own feelings about it. Glad I can help in any way ❤️‍🩹

    • @caras4766
      @caras4766 Рік тому

      @@lindseyrem Thank you for replying Lindsey! I’m glad my words resonated with you.

  • @coppeweb
    @coppeweb 3 роки тому +1

    your bangs look amazing! i feel like they are just in time for fall. i hope you feel better soon!

  • @zaeveitch4911
    @zaeveitch4911 3 роки тому +2

    To say I’m in love with your hair is an understatement

  • @itsbingbing
    @itsbingbing 3 роки тому +2

    Well done on you for going to target, my autoimmune disease makes me feel tired all the time too, I love going out but can’t stay out for long now :(

  • @Patatube
    @Patatube 3 роки тому +1

    you look GORGEOUS lindsey!!

  • @BeautyWithBrooke1
    @BeautyWithBrooke1 3 роки тому

    Girl these thick bangs are it for you! love them

  • @michellemeiner
    @michellemeiner 3 роки тому

    THE BANGS ARE SUCH A LOOK!

  • @dudatsimoes
    @dudatsimoes 3 роки тому

    YOU LOOK SO GOOD WITH THE BANGS OH MY GOD

  • @melissacho
    @melissacho 3 роки тому

    your bangs look so good. your new place looks so good. this video was really good.

  • @butterfly-kb4cn
    @butterfly-kb4cn 3 роки тому

    I also have suffered from Hashimoto’s for years didn’t know why I had chronic hives until I was tested. I know when I eat soy or gluten it wreaks havoc on me. Hope your feeling better and your not alone.

  • @nahlabobo6075
    @nahlabobo6075 3 роки тому +1

    the bangs looks so good

  • @Maha-dn6eh
    @Maha-dn6eh 3 роки тому

    i feel so much better after this video, idk why but it was so good and real

  • @laine.b
    @laine.b 3 роки тому

    I really feel you with the struggle of being gluten free, I have a gluten intolerance and it really sucks. I was vegan for a little while before I had to go gluten free for my health and had a really hard time feeling like my diet was so restricted, now I don’t give myself such strict labels. The difference between making food choices because you want to and making food choices because you have to is a really difficult one, it caused me a lot of stress just thinking about going places and not having anything safe to eat, and then when the gluten free choice was not vegan it gave me a lot of guilt to eat it which I never want in relation to food. Thanks for speaking up about this stuff Lindsey, it is nice to feel not so alone in our experiences!!

  • @ashleymelo1924
    @ashleymelo1924 3 роки тому +1

    I feeeeeeel for you on gluten
    I have PCOS and I’ve been doing so well and feeling less bloated and then I kept at it w the pastries and the area I live in it’s rare to ever see gluten free options when dining out so it really caught up to me and I haven’t been as consistent with my multivitamins and blahhh my body is definitely feeling it rn

  • @MultiPriscilla09
    @MultiPriscilla09 3 роки тому

    The bangs suit you so well!!!

  • @meghannnn96
    @meghannnn96 3 роки тому

    you were made to have bangs!!!! they look so good!

  • @ttoonniipp
    @ttoonniipp 3 роки тому

    Yesss the bangs were a great decision! You look so effortlessly cool Lindsey 🤍🌻😛👯‍♀️✌🏼

  • @crista3543
    @crista3543 3 роки тому +1

    The bangs and color look great!

  • @skylerpennock6439
    @skylerpennock6439 3 роки тому

    can I just say, I LOVE your new hair! so cute and 70's!

  • @Lena-fv3wr
    @Lena-fv3wr 3 роки тому

    ur bangs with your glasses, sooo pretty!!!
    much love from berlin xx 🍒

  • @EmilyTooT1
    @EmilyTooT1 3 роки тому

    the bangs look so good on you!!

  • @shannon5950
    @shannon5950 3 роки тому

    The bangs look nice and your hair seems nice and healthy, cute look!

  • @MicaelaHoo
    @MicaelaHoo 3 роки тому +2

    Loooove your bangs. They are so perfect for fall! I always wondered about your chronic illness. I have Hashimoto's too as well as chronic Lyme disease, mold, parasites, and Candida. It's actually what gave impetus for me to start my mom and my clean skincare brand, Drifter Organics. So much love for you sharing. Let's normalize the opening up about the dialogue of invisible illnesses.

    • @madebyymira
      @madebyymira 3 роки тому

      i have lyme too, so frustrating as i have yet to find an effective treatment for it :(

    • @MicaelaHoo
      @MicaelaHoo 3 роки тому

      @@madebyymira Do you see a LLMD?

    • @MicaelaHoo
      @MicaelaHoo 3 роки тому

      Also, Lindsey, where is your black crossbody bag from in your Target outfit?

    • @madebyymira
      @madebyymira 3 роки тому +1

      @@MicaelaHoo yes i do, i’ve been on antibiotics, herbal supplements and tinctures, etc and nothing has worked. how about you?

  • @JasmineGiggles
    @JasmineGiggles 3 роки тому

    Your bangs are so cute!!

  • @jazzgirlie
    @jazzgirlie 3 роки тому

    The bangs are incredible!!!

  • @Thesamanthapelayo
    @Thesamanthapelayo 3 роки тому

    Wait I love THE BANGS!!! They perfectly frame your face. so cute

  • @marilena3373
    @marilena3373 3 роки тому

    i LOVE your new hairstyle, it looks so amazing on you! 🥰

  • @audreyberries
    @audreyberries 3 роки тому

    You look radiant, Lindsey!

  • @stephaniepadilla3397
    @stephaniepadilla3397 3 роки тому

    That new haircut looks BOMB 💣

  • @julialutz22
    @julialutz22 3 роки тому +1

    I LOVE THE BANGS

  • @심정연-i7r
    @심정연-i7r 3 роки тому

    wow you look great with the bangs !!

  • @rochellesuddens5710
    @rochellesuddens5710 3 роки тому +1

    Hope the flare eases soon.Autoimmune diseases suck.

  • @tania7699
    @tania7699 3 роки тому

    your new haircut looks so good on you! you look so so pretty :)♡

  • @lifeoflainebut
    @lifeoflainebut 3 роки тому +2

    i have celiac & i soooo relate to all the gf stuff!! so frustrating and so unfair

  • @karlkh
    @karlkh 3 роки тому

    your new hair looks amazing omg !!!!

  • @KarinaGomez
    @KarinaGomez 3 роки тому

    Thank you for opening up with us Lindsey 💕 btw, where is your cute mug from?

  • @ohio_nights
    @ohio_nights 3 роки тому

    Another spoonie here! I have endometriosis. Solidarity & love to everyone out there 💜💜

  • @paige4054
    @paige4054 3 роки тому +1

    Hi Linds. ❤️ Just wanted to say I totally understand how you feel. I have celiac disease and the stress that comes with eating strictly gluten-free is real. Having days when you’re frustrated about the situation you are in is normal. Highly recommend you look into seeing a registered dietitian who can really understand the illness and give you evidence-based nutrition advice. Sending you a big hug!

  • @Rozberry2
    @Rozberry2 3 роки тому

    I absolutely love this hairstyle on you!!

  • @celcoop
    @celcoop 3 роки тому +1

    Bangs suit you so well omg

  • @ItsLindaMichelle
    @ItsLindaMichelle 3 роки тому +1

    I know exactly how you feel. I have hashimoto’s and celiac. I didn’t chose to be gluten free my health did. Makes eating out so damn stressful 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @slefievero5336
    @slefievero5336 3 роки тому

    U go girl

  • @inesrolavitoria
    @inesrolavitoria 3 роки тому

    omggggg i have to comment. U LOOK SO GOOD WITH BANGS!!!!

  • @federicatorrente9121
    @federicatorrente9121 3 роки тому

    omg you look beautiful with bangs!! I love them!

  • @MihikaDhule
    @MihikaDhule 3 роки тому

    The bangs look so good!!

  • @lucym954
    @lucym954 3 роки тому

    Your hair looks so good!!!