Spouse In Limerence with SOMEONE ELSE? - 3 Do’s and Don’ts if YOUR Spouse is Infatuated with Someone

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 15 лис 2024

КОМЕНТАРІ • 153

  • @MarriageHelper
    @MarriageHelper  3 роки тому +10

    Learn more about Limerence in our Save My Marriage Course:
    marriagehelper.com/product/save-my-marriage/
    This course consists of 12 videos that tell you exactly what to do to help you save your marriage.
    We truly hope to see you on our next marriage helper support call guided by one of our coaches!
    Blessings,
    Marriage Helper

  • @TM_Stone
    @TM_Stone 3 роки тому +62

    It's just incredible the disrespect nowadays. The people whining about Dr. Beam getting to the point have either low attention spans or haven't gone through this. Trust me, you want to listen to every word this man has to say plus nobody is tying you to a chair to listen.

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring back my ex permanent he can also help you.......

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      Whats""app him👇👇

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      ±2348170575769⏯️⏯️?????????♠️💖💔👶

    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 роки тому +2

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..

    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 роки тому

      Whatsappin him 👍☝️🤘👍🤝

  • @kentuckyjustice1408
    @kentuckyjustice1408 3 роки тому +58

    My wife said "I love you, you treat me better than anyone ever has and you give me everything I want; I'm leaving you." When I spoke with our family physician and a practicing psychologist (that I know and trust), telling them of her recent behavior changes (& personal medical changes), they said she's in crisis and to get her in to see somebody, suggesting a gynecologist would be the best first contact. My wife says she's not seeing anyone because there's nothing wrong with her, yet she exhibits textbook examples of a person in a midlife crisis, including a total 180° turn on everything in her life. I'd love to see a video about how to deal with that demon. I'm watching helplessly while I lose the love of my life and my best friend.

    • @organicita602
      @organicita602 3 роки тому +6

      Sending positive energy your ay Kentucky. So sorry you are going through this and hoping you are n a better position with your own healing from this damage.

    • @daddydiesel8991
      @daddydiesel8991 3 роки тому +8

      Going through the same. I hope everything works out for you.

    • @martiemyers2374
      @martiemyers2374 3 роки тому +1

      What do you mean by medical changes? Like her psychological stressors are causing physical problems?

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring back my ex permanent he can also help you.......

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      Whats""app him👇

  • @anthonyanaletto8482
    @anthonyanaletto8482 3 роки тому +12

    Wife almost did everything right. She tried to educate me but I had already decided this was limerence and did my own research. I found all the good and very little bad in it. She also would say things about my LO in attempts to hurt me and get me to react to her. She did the best she could with what I gave her to work with.

  • @stephaniegordon834
    @stephaniegordon834 10 місяців тому +3

    Yes I'd like to see a video about your partner going through a midlife crisis affair and being in limerence with the affair partner

  • @Johnmiller-hp4mt
    @Johnmiller-hp4mt 3 роки тому +10

    I'm really excited about this one....... I was expecting a little more than that

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  3 роки тому +9

      We are only scratching the surface when it comes to limerence. We will actually be recording an ENTIRE COURSE diving into the little details surrounding limerence! We will definitely let you know once it's finished if you are interested in learning more about limerence!
      Thank you,
      Marriage Helper

    • @Johnmiller-hp4mt
      @Johnmiller-hp4mt 3 роки тому

      @@MarriageHelper 👍

    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..

    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 роки тому

      Whatsappin him 👍☝️🤘👍🤝

  • @NewmNetwork
    @NewmNetwork 4 дні тому

    What if your spouse is in line range with someone that you can’t see/doesn’t exist? My friends spouse believes she is in love with a spiritual being. Her entire focus is on this being, that she fills the house with pictures of what she thinks the being looks like. She also talks with this being out loud and spiritually during meditation. He feels he is co scantly competing with something he can’t see! But he tolerates it because they have a child.

  • @MrJtonic
    @MrJtonic 3 роки тому +10

    wish this came out earlier i feel like i did all the wrong things so far

    • @rosegimbert6213
      @rosegimbert6213 3 роки тому +1

      Do not let anyone come in between you and your relationship goal. Get them back to you and make their love strong like the ocean

    • @rosegimbert6213
      @rosegimbert6213 3 роки тому

      I can connect you to someone who helped me attract my ex partner back to me after separation

    • @rosegimbert6213
      @rosegimbert6213 3 роки тому

      What.xap

    • @rosegimbert6213
      @rosegimbert6213 3 роки тому

      + 2348119132200

    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..

  • @markcampbell5293
    @markcampbell5293 Рік тому

    Amen, Dr Beam...way down the timeline myself, 10 years, But u R right on in more aspects than Just limrence.

  • @RAsVault
    @RAsVault 2 роки тому +22

    I know this channel tries its best to save marriages. I respect that. But they also assume that the marriage was a perfect match from the wedding. Sometimes people marry too young, in a rush, under pressure from family, etc.. Sometimes it's not even an affair partner. It's just that people grow up and grow apart and change their minds about what they want for their life. Limerance might also serve for self realization. To force people to stay together can also result in dysfunction, resentment and hold them back from a better life--for the both parties.

    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 роки тому +3

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..

    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 роки тому

      十2348170575769♻️♻️🎦🚻识你..

    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 роки тому

      Whatsappin him 👍☝️🤘👍🤝

    • @christianmagno984
      @christianmagno984 2 роки тому

      RAsVault you are a marxist! When you marry you are married forever! It's a promise! Who broke that promise commite betrayal and betrayal must be punished by death penalty.

    • @ToFishTeacher
      @ToFishTeacher Рік тому +4

      Sounds like you're in limerence!

  • @afiyatorres3676
    @afiyatorres3676 2 роки тому +3

    I find your videos interesting thanks for sharing. Is there any other info you give me. I am a housewife in Guyana .

  • @puppychow
    @puppychow Рік тому

    Amazing video sir. Thank you

  • @marleneazevedo1101
    @marleneazevedo1101 3 роки тому +20

    Does limerance only apply to affairs? My husband got into a serious relationship with a woman as soon as I moved out of the house. He has changed soo much, I don't even recognize him anymore.

    • @anthonyanaletto8482
      @anthonyanaletto8482 3 роки тому +4

      It does not. You can have limerence with a significant other. I had it in one form or another for 15 years with my wife.

    • @jeanetteoneil4562
      @jeanetteoneil4562 2 роки тому +5

      How could a grown up find someone that quickly? Either he was already seeing her or it was an affair that was moved in as a live-in. Limerance is experienced by some many times. Then they have the big one that takes them down. That is what happened to me.

    • @marleneazevedo1101
      @marleneazevedo1101 2 роки тому +5

      @@jeanetteoneil4562 he started seeing her, if i can guess, around June or July 2020. I moved out in September. I just don't understand how this relationship take off so fast. Within months they were planning on having a baby and getting married. Lucky, that hasnt happened yet.

    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..

    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 роки тому

      Whatsappin him 👍☝️🤘👍🤝

  • @jaytee1194
    @jaytee1194 3 роки тому +12

    My husband is in this confused state. He said he loves me and he also cant let this other woman go. We live in Australia and cant come to the workshop. How do we get the help we need.

    • @lirettezky99
      @lirettezky99 3 роки тому +2

      They do it online

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  3 роки тому +3

      Jay we actually do the workshop online! We will be returning to in-person workshops when it is safe to do so, but the online workshops have proven to have the same success rate. Dr. Joe Beam himself said that there are MORE benefits to attending online, rather than in-person because of different factors like saving money on travel expenses.
      Feel free to check out these resources to learn more about the workshop!
      marriagehelper.com/workshops/
      Workshop Dates:
      marriagehelper.com/calendar-marriage-workshops-seminars/
      Workshop Attendee Testimonials:
      ua-cam.com/play/PLdkl7uIm4ofjZFBpPemnvGwUG5c2GlqRM.html
      Let us know if you have any questions!
      Also, if you'd like to chat with one of our team members to go through the details (it's free to talk to them), then you can follow this easy call scheduling link!
      your.marriagehelper.com/meetings/marriagehelper/connect
      Blessings,
      Marriage Helper

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring back my ex permanent he can also help you.......

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      Whats""app him👇👇

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      ±2348170575769⏯️⏯️?????????♠️💖💔👶

  • @joannemiele3058
    @joannemiele3058 2 роки тому +5

    When are you going to say what limerance is

    • @allthingshigh
      @allthingshigh 2 роки тому +2

      Look up Narcissism. Narcissism and limerence go hand in hand like Godzilla and King Kong.

  • @efthimios
    @efthimios 3 роки тому +10

    My wife had affair i never imagined this -it’s been two years now since they were active and things are worse now she acts like she’s missing out and brings up divorce / the ap apparently started dating someone else and it made her angry it seems - I’m not sure if she is talking to him and they are planning a reunite and she’s sabotaging our marriage again or if she’s just generally angrily bc he’s with someone else now -

    • @jackdeniston59
      @jackdeniston59 3 роки тому +4

      She is gone. She left. Look to doing things you want to. Stay in the house though, she has to leave.

    • @rosegimbert6213
      @rosegimbert6213 3 роки тому

      Do not let anyone come in between you and your relationship goal. Get them back to you and make their love strong like the ocean

    • @rosegimbert6213
      @rosegimbert6213 3 роки тому

      I can connect you to someone who helped me attract my ex partner back to me after separation

    • @rosegimbert6213
      @rosegimbert6213 3 роки тому

      What.xap

    • @rosegimbert6213
      @rosegimbert6213 3 роки тому

      + 2348119132200

  • @jaworks1987
    @jaworks1987 3 роки тому +5

    my wife is currently under meds coz she has depression and now in lemerence with someone else and she kicked me out.

    • @ruthokpere4344
      @ruthokpere4344 3 роки тому

      My dear if you seriously want to recover our relationship/get ex back or a specific person.

    • @ruthokpere4344
      @ruthokpere4344 3 роки тому

      Mr Muduguru is the best when it comes to recovery relationship, he recover mine and he can also help you.

    • @ruthokpere4344
      @ruthokpere4344 3 роки тому

      ±2348119132200⏭⏭
      WHAR'SAP HIM.

    • @tyetr9853
      @tyetr9853 2 роки тому

      Update us

    • @vedinthorn
      @vedinthorn Рік тому

      The one thing about my situation is that I was never going to be kicked out. Even if she wanted to kick me out I was just going to keep coming home. It's my house, too. She has no legal right to make me leave.

  • @triciamaevillacampa3696
    @triciamaevillacampa3696 2 роки тому +4

    I had an online affair for a month I'm trying to reconnect with my husband again . It's hard
    I don't know 😪 I need help

    • @FlawleZ31
      @FlawleZ31 2 роки тому +2

      How is it going now?

    • @Fisva
      @Fisva Рік тому

      How did it go?

  • @raijopullan3606
    @raijopullan3606 2 роки тому +4

    My x and I have children now she is relationship with a rich guy cos I went broke in buisness and also jobless due to pandemic, what should I do

    • @bbarnett7667
      @bbarnett7667 2 роки тому

      Rebuild by focusing on you. Hopefully you will heal and no longer yearn for someone who walked out because things got tough for you.

    • @tyetr9853
      @tyetr9853 2 роки тому

      Update us

    • @whodinijonas6411
      @whodinijonas6411 Рік тому

      Rebuild yourself and make her regret her choice

    • @tyetr9853
      @tyetr9853 Рік тому

      Give us an update will you

    • @vedinthorn
      @vedinthorn Рік тому

      If she's hypergamous by nature, that's a pretty normal thing for women. Doesn't make it right, though. It depends on why she left exactly. Did she worry about providing for the children and herself? Demonstrate that she has nothing to fear. Did she leave because she just wants a high cost lifestyle? She's gone. Was it due to limerence and it just happened that the person was rich? She may fall out of that soon if not already.
      There are thousands of factors to consider.

  • @w4447
    @w4447 Рік тому +8

    this guy must be the professor of doormat university. No maybe he's the dean.

    • @stavokg
      @stavokg 5 місяців тому +1

      This is very funny

    • @Gotoworkkk
      @Gotoworkkk Місяць тому

      Lol😂!!

  • @j.james.s.2412
    @j.james.s.2412 11 місяців тому

    Nope. Not sarcasm, hadn't heard the word limerence prior to searching what I did.

  • @iamtroll8334
    @iamtroll8334 Рік тому

    Does the workshop have video counseling as well or in person counseling?

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  Рік тому

      Hey I AM TROLL, thank you for showing interest in our Workshops! We offer a couples online and in-person workshop as well as a Solo Spouse workshop in case your spouse is unwilling to attend. You can learn more about our workshops by following this link directly! If anything works to save your marriage, this will. marriagehelper.com/workshops/

    • @iamtroll8334
      @iamtroll8334 Рік тому

      @@MarriageHelper thank you so much!

  • @Gotoworkkk
    @Gotoworkkk Місяць тому

    Limerence aka falling in love…

  • @nancydrew5
    @nancydrew5 4 місяці тому +1

    When people are deeply infatuated with their spouses. It's called being in love. When spouses fall out of love with each other and fall deeply for others, it's called limerence.

  • @voulapetrakos8336
    @voulapetrakos8336 3 роки тому +4

    Are u kidding me my husband is ivolvrd with our sons mother naw! been married for 47 years to this man and have 6grown children!!!0

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring back my ex permanent he can also help you.......

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      Whats""app him👇

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      ±2348170575769⏯️⏯️?????????♠️💖💔👶

    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..

    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 роки тому

      十2348170575769♻️♻️🎦🚻识你..

  • @shrodingerscat4191
    @shrodingerscat4191 4 місяці тому

    What is the point?
    There is no point

  • @christianegreller-winkler710
    @christianegreller-winkler710 2 роки тому +1

    How do I apply for the workshop. I stand for my marriage, but he is confused.. Also do to the fact of limerence. I currently work on my pies, committed to forgiveness, and also smart contacts.

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  2 роки тому +1

      Hey Christiane Greller-Winkler, thank you for showing interest in our Workshops! We offer a couples online and in-person workshop as well as a Solo Spouse workshop in case your spouse is unwilling to attend. You can learn more about our workshops by following this link directly! If anything works to save your marriage, this will. marriagehelper.com/workshops/

    • @tyetr9853
      @tyetr9853 2 роки тому

      Update us

    • @Gotoworkkk
      @Gotoworkkk Місяць тому

      He doesn’t want counseling… He doesn’t want you.

  • @JackieMoss
    @JackieMoss Рік тому +4

    totally annoying. not my type of advice or counseling.

  • @AbdouAzizMané-v5z
    @AbdouAzizMané-v5z Рік тому +2

    Dans tout circonstances je me suis déjà pris mes responsabilités à m'engage à mes propres engagements et si je que ce n'est pas vraie et réel je me désengage à mes propres intentions et je vie ma vie à ce qui me compatible à ma vie c'est tout je dis merci

  • @nories8193
    @nories8193 2 роки тому +7

    Get to the point!

  • @FatouMane-t3k
    @FatouMane-t3k Рік тому

    Monsieur s' il vous plaît arrêter vos abus ok

  • @shanneajones9421
    @shanneajones9421 3 роки тому +8

    You take to long to get to the point at hand

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring back my ex permanent he can also help you.......

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      Whats""app him👇👇

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      ±2348170575769⏯️⏯️?????????♠️💖💔👶

    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..

    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 роки тому

      十2348170575769♻️♻️🎦🚻识你..

  • @TJ-kk5zf
    @TJ-kk5zf 3 роки тому +10

    get to the point!

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring back my ex permanent he can also help you.......

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      Whats""app him👇👇

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      ±2348170575769⏯️⏯️?????????♠️💖💔👶

    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..

    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 роки тому

      十2348170575769♻️♻️🎦🚻识你..

  • @ggjj999
    @ggjj999 3 роки тому +5

    Get to the point!!!