Some chicks want a bit of an asshole. They live for the drama a bit, they want to fix them. It is what it is. Not my thing, but there really are all sorts out there
Hey, Gunnar: the skinny dude might have given her something that's a dumb gift from the perspective of "what would please her a lot", but it's a really meaningful one for HIM to give up, because it's the proof of one of his proudest accomplishments. So... It's a really vulnerable thing to give up for him. In other words: he might be kind of a dumb tool, but he's a genuine dumb tool that truly values her, which shows that he cares. That's why she liked the gift. He's like... Being romantic in the way Homer Simpson is being romantic with Marge, which weirdly works.
obviously idk anyone in this series, but her laughing while wiping away her tears and letting him hug her is what did it for me. i think she knew what it meant to him. :)
thank u, it is exactly like homer and marge. lacking the social awareness to know that’s not actually romantic but truly believing with his heart of hearts that it is, so it actually ends up being romantic. like watching a bow legged deer
@@von...it's really not that deep of an analysis. she is making logical claims based on facial reactions, behavior, and dialogue. in fact we should stop calling analysis like this "einstein level". while she is damn right about what she said, i think more people in society should strive towards being as socially observant, thoughtful, and aware of theory of mind when approaching romantic relationships. let us not put this type of analysis on a pedestal. we should strive to make this the norm.
@@von...i also want to add, sometimes gunnar comes off as intentionally obtuse. either he is not paying attention or being disingenuous about how he perceives things. the whole spiel about "people always crying in church" shows me how ignorant he is. i have worked at a Colombian church for several years. everyone is not "crying". it is mostly silent contemplation and introspection. only an idiotic frat douche like this would belittle the significance of religious experiences and religious dialogue. he sounds like a douchy aetheist who
Honestly, the skinny guy + the chubbier girl have the best chance at a successful relationship in my opinion. He's trying to fit in with other guys by being toxic because he's probably been put down because of his body all his life but he's like the only one that genuiely seems to have empathy for his girlfriend, to be attached to her and to see her like an equal in this room.
As someone who likes big girls myself, I can say I made a similar mistake years ago and it was innocent much like his was... he was basically being cornered by these clowns when it all came out initially. My takeaway from my situation was "if you have no issue *with* it you can never make an issue *of* it"... Never use numbers, and recognize it as something you embrace about her.... not overtly so, as this is just as wrong, but make it good and clear one good time that you love all of her and leave it the hell alone. When she gets insecure about it, a simple "Remember?" works for me. In my case I love a bit of extra fluff on a chick... it's soft and feels like I'm actually holding on to something... it's the "Barbie Body" that I find disgusting lol 🤷♂️ Maybe a better way to put this is... "there's always someone who will like what you have" Edit: That said, he blew it with the blow up doll comment... but I also know how guys can drag that kind of shit out of someone in a group by themselves... and women should never try to play innocent there... d1
yeah, it's very clear that he was provoked about his girl at the table, he didn't bring it up himself. and being the scrawniest guy in the room, he tried to make an attempt to fit in by making some comments that wouldn't fly. truth be told, aside from the whole 'blow up doll' thing, he responded to the situation pretty neutral. he said he never asked what her weight is, because he clearly accepts her for who she is, otherwise they wouldn't be together. but because there's cameras and money involved, the other guys were like "you need to hold yourself accountable bro" making him think it's significantly worse than it actually is, and he couldn't get the words out properly in therapy. she said herself it was the first time she heard about that sort of thing from him, which further proves that peace was disrupted from someone outside, not from him. for the sake of tv drama, his situation is getting scaled up on par with the secret girlfriend of 6 years, despite him making some of the best positive movement on the show
Aw that's actually really wholesome. He definitely has the most potential so far and seems like he just needed some soul searching, and understanding of his partners emotions. Seeing some of the where are they nows of some of the other ones (tiger woods 31 month affair) I'm glad at least one turned out for the better.
@@SketchUT article by “The Cinemaholic” back on 9/14/23. First article that should pop up if you search “tool academy season 1 where are they now”…. “After the show ended, it seems that his life took a dramatic turn as he got more involved with his church. He started dating his now-wife, Laura Douglas, in 2012, got engaged in March 2016, and married in July 2016. Currently, Josh is working as a pastor for a Church named Calvary Cairns, where he often leads the worship with his wife.”
I'm glad that she dumped Celebrity. The fact that he didn't seem to care that much and immediately went out to party afterwards is pretty telling that he never took their relationship that seriously. She made the right choice.
Just the idea that he calls himself "celebrity" makes him a total used dbag. Dude is a total loser. This goes for the others that don't think naming themselves some ridiculous bullshit for everyone to call them isn't absolutely "tool" 🙄
i actually thought that the bowling certificate gift was a good one. i understand how it seems self absorbed, but i took it as him sacrificing something that is really important to him and symbolizes his commitment to bowling over his relationship. maybe i fell for the bait but i thought it wasnt that bad
I viewed it as him basically putting his legacy, something he values, into her hands. Which is cheesy but does show a lot of trust and commitment. Because if she left him, she could just take that with her.
She's a real therapist, and my wife said she has a book called "Re-Tool Your Relationship: How to Fix the One You're With," and was married to a member of the rock band, The Monkees.
I think they got like that because it was kind of bs they let another girl take the place. Dude should've been booted. It's absurd they let him switch out gfs.
I love that Celebrity regressed completely off screen over the course of 1 episode. Went from renouncing his alter ego to openly admitting he isn't ready to change and won't. And also he blows chunks, but dude LIE! It's for 100k just say you are trying to change at least my god haha
I swear, he's gasl!ghting them all, by saying all this, he's making his girl believe he's willing to be honest how he is and how he needs to change and might potentially change in the right environment
20:40 Therapists actually recommended punching bags and gloves as a way to cope with anger that could make you physically violent. It’s used as a healthy alternative to beating a person or solid object (typically walls/doors) without protection and breaking your hand. You’re also doing an exercise; which is good for your body.
@AmoraFaas what an ignorant take lol. It's an exercise. If they hurt someone else then they were already a violent person before they exercised. I cut down trees and chop wood as my exercise occasionally. Am I actually training to become am axe murderer?
Don’t some places have rage rooms? I remember as a kid going to this grief group counseling kind of thing and while I never got to go in it I saw there was a rage room with a punching bag. Probably for the A of DABDA
josh giving ashley the bowling thing makes sense i feel like lol. she's always felt like he prioritizes bowling over her, so he gave it to her to prove that he cares more about HER than about his bowling scores. it's actually kinda sweet :') and also i feel like they have the biggest chance of surviving in real life bc he seems to actually care about her
Therapists- especially when dealing with patients that have anger issues or are violent- often advocate for healthy ways to channel their frustration through ketharsis, like using a punching bag, going to a break room or getting into boxing
I don’t think violent people should learn how to fight! I think a lot of therapists agree. You need to work on the mental of it not learn how to be better at what is destructive.
I actually kind of bought the first guy’s story. I mean he doesn’t seem like he has the capability to fake real sad emotions like that.. those tears were real bro. Respect for being a man and being honest, even if you still suck and aren’t redeemed
People do that all the time it is called self sabotage. Bro I have even dated a self saboteur. We were teens and he would say he doesn't deserve me and stuff then go and break up with me or something and be distant. People do this in many ways but I agree with you. He seemed to acknowledge it, now to see if he changes.
Lmao none of that was good, it's called self sabotage and its a manipulation tactic. That's also why he split it up into 3. He wanted to truly make her feel like she needs to fix him because he's just that broken.
14:04 I actually get it. She knows the bowling thing is important to him, so she understands giving it to her means he'll put as much effort into their relationship as he did that near-perfect game.
That is the most insane mindset I've ever heard in my life. "Ah yes, in order to show my commitment to you, I give you my highest bowling score award and that apparently means that I'm gonna make you as high of a priority as bowling". You have a toxic mindset lmao, please fix it before you get in a relationship. What he did was completely selfish, and she was so hurt by that point she was just doing anything to cope. They're still together by the way...like most of these couples
@@tortellinifettuccine Um, yeah... I think you misunderstood what I was saying. All I did was compare the effort he puts into bowling with the effort he should put into the relationship. I never said anything about demonstrating commitment this way. This is merely symbolic for them. Let me give you an example from my own relationship. I've been happily married for 6 years and with my husband for 13 years total. The worst fight we ever got into was around the time he went to his friend's bachelor party in Florida. I won't get into details, but I was hurt by something he did (wasn't cheating or anything like that). I was about to call off our engagement, I was so mad though. Anyway, he ended up bringing a cast iron crocodile home as a souvenir and afterwards, we talked everything out and forgave each other- I too needed forgiveness for how I reacted. Now we display that crocodile prominently in our living room as a reminder to us both that our relationship will always stay strong as iron and that we should always be ready to forgive each other when we are fighting or being selfish. That is our symbol. No one else gets it- the crocodile doesn't exactly go with our mid-century modern decor- but it has a deeper meaning for us. I believe the same is true for them and the bowling scores. As outsiders, we don't have to get it. But if it means something for them in the privacy of their relationship, that's all that matters. I'm glad to hear they're still together. I always root for true love and forgiveness! Moral of the story: every relationship is unique and relationships can be complicated. But that doesn't mean we need to give up on them when things get hard. Sometimes, we just need to practice compassion, selflessness, and forgiveness... just like one has to practice bowling to get good at it. That is maturity. And that's definitely not toxic. 😉
Damnnnnnn, she was following through with them punches. If he is causing her to get that upset, they need to break up. For her own health. I would bet a good bit of these guys are literally emotionally abusive, if not physically.
@@xsoultillerx I love how you think her being Tiger Wood's mistress years before show even aired is supposed to be a gotcha for why she doesn't deserve sympathy.
"I have to man up and show my feminine side." Also, since that guy had the bowling trophy he must have brought it with him before he knew this moment would come.
@14:14 common Gunnar, I thought you'd understand whats going on. He is obsessed with bowling, he took that stupid thing on the trip. Its likely his favourite possession. Its like when your cat drops a dead mouse at your feet.
That's not...lmao dude you have a incredibly toxic mindset my God. You would do great on this show. That was the most selfish thing he could have possibly done. She was so heartbroken at that point she didn't know how to react, it was just cope.
cmon, the bowling placard was actually pretty big - it probably means something to him, and giving it up probably meant something to her too not sure exactly *what* it all means, but it definitely means *somethin*
I bowl, that was a 299 game. I've seen one 300 rally irl, the guy got a 299. The entire bowling alley is electric watching someone go for a perfect game during league play. It's like watching magic when you yourself know how hard it is to do. She might not know the particulars of the skill set but she knows his dedication to the sport, and one doesn't casually happen upon a 299. I personally thought it was a super sweet, deeply personal gesture considering it was a point of contention in their relationship. I wish everyone recognized it as such. 😢
As a bowler thats a big deal! He had to have worked really hard to get that 11 in a row. I cried when my ex gave me his 300 ring. In the bowling world its a big deal 😅
Not finished yet but of course Celebrity regressed. He loves attention and is doing this on TV, he is going to put on a show. They put him in an environment where he might think his regular behaviour thrives rather than a more isolated scenario. He’s a bad bf but he’s also setup for failure by being on the show
this episode was honeslty wholesome, i loved seeing the guys finally emotionally connect, and seeing the tuff dude being convinced to sell some cookies by his homie was great. Amazing show.
I litterally clapped when she dumped him. Also, I disagree: that therapist seems to know what she's doing and was encouraging her to express her healthy anger in a safe way. Women are always seen as "crazy bitches" by our patriarchal society when they express healthy anger, yet if they allowed themselves to feel their anger more often, they would realize they deserve way better than these tools and stop being wayyyyy to patient and tolerant with them.
Violence isn't healthy anger. Like he says, imagine a guy getting angry, beating the crap out of a punching bag, turning to his gf, and saying, "I wish that was you." Absolutely insane.
@@Eeeeerissssswell it's not a guy. male violence is easily accepted cause it's so common. seeing a man punching that bag may seem as there's a big chance a woman can happen to be in the punching bag place. the woman punching the bag is just learning to show her anger in general (yes she can think of a bag as her bf but we all know there's a small chance she'll actually beatt him up)
Using punching bags in therapy sessions was used for years. For people who feel incapable of getting physical;Even when their life depends on it. And unfortunately it's mostly women.
@@cinnamonbits26 This seems like the most plausible and reasonable view of it. Decision paralysis, especially in times of emergency is likely a huge issue, that might stem from a traumatic childhood, or just an upbringing of violence never being an option, like women, or particularly physically fragile or timid men etc. What follows is a rant, not rly aimed at whoever I @'ed, but I get generally frustrated with generalizations, or careless characterizations and the fucking boogeyman that is Patriarchy. It's exactly like the matrix for the red pill guys, or the Masons of previous generations. Some shadowy bullshit, that you conveniently can't define, or limit but use as an excuse for everything you've been told and think is wrong in the world. Women aren't seen as "crazy" when they express healthy anger, they're seen as crazy when they key a fucking car, or throw clothes out the window, and change locks seemingly unprovoked, because neither party in that relationship communicates properly AT ALL. I really dislike that generalization of all women as "crazy bitches" because in my experience, it's very specific behavior that gets you labeled as Crazy, and they're almost always coupled together with some type of diagnosis that goes untreated. Keying cars, changing locks, throwing clothes on the porch, snooping through phones, freaking out over the dude glancing at another girl. That's generally the type of behavior that I, and those around me colloquially recognize as a "crazy" woman, your boogeyman of a nonexistent patriarchy has got nothing to do with it. Male domestic violence is a much bigger issue than anyone probably realizes, but because of the lack of proper coping mechanisms and boundaries, or just general self care that men are taught, the only solution they come up with, is to bottle it all inside. I don't believe that men and women have the same need to vent, but that doesn't mean that men can survive not venting at all.
I agree on the blaming patriarchy part but saying women don't get called crazy bitches for expressing reasonable anger in reasonable ways is just wrong. It happens all the time. Honestly, in general, the shit middle aged men get away with just thoughtlessly doing every day that a woman would never without being called crazy or a cunt is just a shit ton. Blaming the "patriarchy" for every shitty Stereotype is bs but so is just straight up denying that there's differemces between how women and men are treated for the same bullshit coping.
It really feels like the only two who aren't massive pieces of shit are Matsu and bowling guy. And frankly, those two seem fine, with some legitimate relationship issues that they'll probably be able to work through.
@@heresJohnny73 Yeah he clearly doesn't value the women he has sex with and somehow has stayed with her despite how much he supposedly needs sex? That means he for sure feels SOMETHING for her. I hope he can grow and change fo the better
"hur hur it's just his bowling score" The trophy means a lot to him and he gave it up for her. He put one of his most prized possessions in her hands, the value comes from the sentiment. I think you'll find he's the kind of guy who doesn't let anyone touch his trophies.
the problem with the humility challenge is that it's just hazing at this point, like it's no different than when the guys thought were parading for mr.Awesome especially since they can change it to "kick me for a dollar since kicking is what I'm good at"
The guy gave that thing to her and to him it's like a TEAM JACKET or Super Bowl Ring... VERY important to him... out of all the couples I hope they win 😂
Celebrities face when she was punching that punching bag you could read the thought process he was having, by the look on his face was “damn I didn’t know my bitch could throw hands” I Like how all the therapy sessions with the Bulletproof vest showed was that they could’ve skipped all this embarrassing shit by just going to a therapist together instead of waiting until they’re being forced
the claim of "we can fix him" is incredibly funny considering the entire conceit of the show is "kick off the worst dude at the end of every episode" The people who would have the most work to do are just kicked to the curb early and the ones that were already at a decent place to start out with may get help, or not because it is a game show where the contestants are financially motivated to at least _pretend_ to improve. So really its a test to see who is the best actor, admittedly that does seem to be a hard task for this group who seem to have a compulsive urge to to be cunts out in the open. But at the same time, a decent number of them are definitely manipulators so they would probably accel at pretending to get better but not really.
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It's because they feel insecure and weak in their relationships, so bullying helps them feel better about themselves. Like, "I know my relationship is crap, but at least im not my boyfriend's second choice." That's my theory.
I think it was their way of trying to show loyalty to the first girl, who they bonded with first. Aida showed up and acted accusatory towards her off the bat, even though she had no idea about the cheating and he’s the one who betrayed her trust. It took them a bit to adjust and give her a chance after that. Of course, their mean girl behavior wasn’t okay, but they are human and I think it was their own way of trying to stand with their new friend who got totally screwed and replaced. The guys on this show have been forgiven for so much behavior that was way more concerning. I think the women also deserve a reasonable degree of understanding, empathy, and grace.
I think they're projecting onto her. Like she's the other woman to them. Theyre projecting every girl their men have cheated w onto this one girl. Girls can be mean to eachother. And this esp thrives in these mysogonystic environments. That is why a big part of feminism is girls supporting girls and not blaming them for the actions of their male partners. Back in this day especially absolutely women were cut throat. My mom was incredibly mean and judgemental of other women. Still is. Fat shamed me quite a few times. And she also is someone who defends men constantly even after all men have done to her and me in our lives. Its really sad. These girls are halfway there. Theyre attacking the new girl out of loyalty to the girl from before. The next step would be confronting the fact that the man is in the wrong and we shouldn't blame other women for the actions of our partners.
How is letting people hit you or take pictures to sell cookies good, but doing backflips to sell cookies is bad. If I could backflip I’d do it in the cookie challenge too
The taking pictures is good cause he's letting people take pictures of this guy in a tutu The letting people hit you I less agree with its him saying I'm strong and I can prove it The flipping is hey look at me I'm cool look at these flips
Maybe I'm looking too much into it, but I kinda understand why it was sweet that he gave her his bowling award thing. Think about it this way: a trophy is a physical representation of your accomplishments, and are heavely associated with ego. When he gave his trophy away, it was like saying "I don't care anymore about my bowling skills, I don't need the physical manifestation of that, what I need is your love".
12:55 They have been busting everyone with camera footage all over the place. He was smart to confess those things right away before the show writers messed him up. Thats a genius move if I ever saw one.
38:28 bowling was his number 1 passion while she was his 3rd. If you get a trophy or plaque winning big for doing your passion, that award is going to mean a lot to you. I saw it as hime hiving it to her was saying "babe, i want you to have my most prized possession i dont need it anbymore i have you" or something similar.just my opinion, feom a 51 yr old woman. I know if i gave away the thing i loved the most to the person i lived the most it would mean something. Its saying he's choosing her now, putting *her* 1st 💜
Well the clown "Mega" (I'm assuming this means "make em gag anyway") obviously has no idea he only has one mother.. yet he's going on about his "moms" 🤣🤣🤣
That boxing thing is quite normal. A good outlet for anger! When i Was in a psychward they hat one too. Even a Sun Light Therapie wich is basicaly u sitting infront if a big Lamp .
Regarding crying on demand, as a failed Quentin Tarantino wannabe, I can tell you the easiest way to produce tears on set is to stare into the overhead lights. Just stare at your lights without blinking and the tears will flow easier my man. Failing that if you can discreetly pluck a few noise hairs, that'll do in a pinch too. Cheers.
I used to be able to cry on demand when I was younger...then I grew up and saw messed up stuff and now no matter what I can't cry unless I'm in a serious situation or mood. Not even for family members passing, it's so scary honestly, I just feel like my soul died.
I mean Aida did come out of nowhere after they may have connected with Jamie (?). Maybe they felt the need to protect her, or think that this shouldn’t be allowed in the competition (since money is at stake). Plus, I think Aida had one rude first line about taking Jamie’s spot. First impressions can really impact people. Not defending them, but I feel like that is their rationale for the bullying. But once they realized she wasn’t planted, they lightened up. Maybe they felt like Aida was given a second chance when they both should have been kicked off.
I was sad when claim to fame ended but this show is pretty good as well. I don't watch the live stream but do enjoy watching the comments roll by lol Nothing like an evening with Gunnar and some trashy reality tv
As a crazy bitch myself, getting her to use the punching bag is really helpful and smart, its actually been recommended for me to use when im emotionally disregulated, it helps to expend a lot of pent up emotional energy in a healthy way. Theres an emotional regulation skill called TIPP in which intense excericise is proven to really help people strugling emotionally and to help get someone out of a crisis by getting your heart and breathing rate to level out. Its good for men, women and enbys, too!
2:25 it's not about appearing the most reasonable or fixed. He wants to "hold him accountable" because it will cause a big rift between him and his girl. Potentially getting him eliminated. Strategic
5:15 for anybody who needs to hear it.... It's about progression not perfection. You will never be perfect. As long as you are making progress toward who and what you want to be you are doing right.
Important points: - I watched this on MTV original lmao and it was actually manoflex or whatever that unlocked the memory for me - you’re hilarious and I love you - tyvm
I’m so invested 😂 I love your added commentary and if you didn’t plan ahead of time you ended up missing episodes so I haven’t seen a lot of these episodes ❤
This is really a hard watch. Idk if any of this is scripted or what not, but I genuinely feel for these women. To be told from your boyfriend that he was “chatting with the guys” dissing your looks, weight and talking about how you are in bed badly.. that’s just hurtful. Especially on television
I don't understand how you can find out your BF has a WHOLE OTHER girlfriend and just be like "I can fix him" lol
Sunk cost fallacy.
@@joinsideke100%. She even said it when she arrived. She didn't want to leave after all the years she's invested
She wants a cut of that 100k, and minor fame on a niche reality show.
Some chicks want a bit of an asshole. They live for the drama a bit, they want to fix them. It is what it is. Not my thing, but there really are all sorts out there
100k on the line.
Hey, Gunnar: the skinny dude might have given her something that's a dumb gift from the perspective of "what would please her a lot", but it's a really meaningful one for HIM to give up, because it's the proof of one of his proudest accomplishments. So... It's a really vulnerable thing to give up for him. In other words: he might be kind of a dumb tool, but he's a genuine dumb tool that truly values her, which shows that he cares. That's why she liked the gift. He's like... Being romantic in the way Homer Simpson is being romantic with Marge, which weirdly works.
obviously idk anyone in this series, but her laughing while wiping away her tears and letting him hug her is what did it for me. i think she knew what it meant to him. :)
social IQ Einstein in the comments, bc damn you're right
thank u, it is exactly like homer and marge. lacking the social awareness to know that’s not actually romantic but truly believing with his heart of hearts that it is, so it actually ends up being romantic. like watching a bow legged deer
@@von...it's really not that deep of an analysis. she is making logical claims based on facial reactions, behavior, and dialogue. in fact we should stop calling analysis like this "einstein level". while she is damn right about what she said, i think more people in society should strive towards being as socially observant, thoughtful, and aware of theory of mind when approaching romantic relationships. let us not put this type of analysis on a pedestal. we should strive to make this the norm.
@@von...i also want to add, sometimes gunnar comes off as intentionally obtuse. either he is not paying attention or being disingenuous about how he perceives things. the whole spiel about "people always crying in church" shows me how ignorant he is. i have worked at a Colombian church for several years. everyone is not "crying". it is mostly silent contemplation and introspection. only an idiotic frat douche like this would belittle the significance of religious experiences and religious dialogue. he sounds like a douchy aetheist who
Honestly, the skinny guy + the chubbier girl have the best chance at a successful relationship in my opinion. He's trying to fit in with other guys by being toxic because he's probably been put down because of his body all his life but he's like the only one that genuiely seems to have empathy for his girlfriend, to be attached to her and to see her like an equal in this room.
As someone who likes big girls myself, I can say I made a similar mistake years ago and it was innocent much like his was... he was basically being cornered by these clowns when it all came out initially.
My takeaway from my situation was "if you have no issue *with* it you can never make an issue *of* it"... Never use numbers, and recognize it as something you embrace about her.... not overtly so, as this is just as wrong, but make it good and clear one good time that you love all of her and leave it the hell alone.
When she gets insecure about it, a simple "Remember?" works for me.
In my case I love a bit of extra fluff on a chick... it's soft and feels like I'm actually holding on to something... it's the "Barbie Body" that I find disgusting lol 🤷♂️
Maybe a better way to put this is... "there's always someone who will like what you have"
Edit: That said, he blew it with the blow up doll comment... but I also know how guys can drag that kind of shit out of someone in a group by themselves... and women should never try to play innocent there... d1
he also turned down the makeup girl
yeah, it's very clear that he was provoked about his girl at the table, he didn't bring it up himself. and being the scrawniest guy in the room, he tried to make an attempt to fit in by making some comments that wouldn't fly. truth be told, aside from the whole 'blow up doll' thing, he responded to the situation pretty neutral. he said he never asked what her weight is, because he clearly accepts her for who she is, otherwise they wouldn't be together. but because there's cameras and money involved, the other guys were like "you need to hold yourself accountable bro" making him think it's significantly worse than it actually is, and he couldn't get the words out properly in therapy. she said herself it was the first time she heard about that sort of thing from him, which further proves that peace was disrupted from someone outside, not from him.
for the sake of tv drama, his situation is getting scaled up on par with the secret girlfriend of 6 years, despite him making some of the best positive movement on the show
He won the season I believe
@@MadScientist267dick jokes would be a fine rebuttal if men only talked about pussy. But they don't. They nit pick e v e r y t h I n g
UPDATE: Ashley and the tiny guy (who likes bowling) are still happily together :)
Aw that's actually really wholesome. He definitely has the most potential so far and seems like he just needed some soul searching, and understanding of his partners emotions.
Seeing some of the where are they nows of some of the other ones (tiger woods 31 month affair) I'm glad at least one turned out for the better.
awww, that makes sense tho cuz he seemed most keen on opening up and chose to be honest with her
No they aren’t lol. He’s married to another woman and is a pastor now
@@vance9090sources? For either claim? I’m curious what’s actually real (YT won’t allow links tho, just so anyone knows lol)
@@SketchUT article by “The Cinemaholic” back on 9/14/23. First article that should pop up if you search “tool academy season 1 where are they now”….
“After the show ended, it seems that his life took a dramatic turn as he got more involved with his church. He started dating his now-wife, Laura Douglas, in 2012, got engaged in March 2016, and married in July 2016. Currently, Josh is working as a pastor for a Church named Calvary Cairns, where he often leads the worship with his wife.”
I'm glad that she dumped Celebrity. The fact that he didn't seem to care that much and immediately went out to party afterwards is pretty telling that he never took their relationship that seriously. She made the right choice.
Just the idea that he calls himself "celebrity" makes him a total used dbag. Dude is a total loser.
This goes for the others that don't think naming themselves some ridiculous bullshit for everyone to call them isn't absolutely "tool" 🙄
His reaction sounded like a cope-out tbh... I wouldn't be surprised if he drank/partied his feelings away
@@purrgundyprobably not he gave zero shits
He was just too much of a coward to do it himself
She went on to be a pretty gross pornstar before she quit because of hiv.
i actually thought that the bowling certificate gift was a good one. i understand how it seems self absorbed, but i took it as him sacrificing something that is really important to him and symbolizes his commitment to bowling over his relationship. maybe i fell for the bait but i thought it wasnt that bad
I viewed it as him basically putting his legacy, something he values, into her hands. Which is cheesy but does show a lot of trust and commitment. Because if she left him, she could just take that with her.
I agree. It's his Stanley Cup.
I completely agree with you. I can kinda see why Gunnar thought differently.
Maybe it was the delivery, he was so serious and than smiled like he was showing off
He was the least toolish of the group really
My dyslexic ass read Matsuflex as “Meat Soufflé” and I’ll never look at him the same again
This made me laugh so hard 😭
@@josiea.3855 welcome to my life
I wish I had the whit youre on
As a fellow dyslexic I'm glad I'm not the only one 🤝
That also would be a good male stripper name
She's a real therapist, and my wife said she has a book called "Re-Tool Your Relationship: How to Fix the One You're With," and was married to a member of the rock band, The Monkees.
the cuts to the high school style bullying that the gfs do is INSANE 💀
It’s giving jealousy and mean girl energy. No wonder they are with tools, they ALL are insecure 😟 hoping they can all heal!
Apple doesnt fall far from the tree
I didn’t even do that shit in highschool. It’s just so mean
Really shows that some of them deserve these tools.
I think they got like that because it was kind of bs they let another girl take the place. Dude should've been booted. It's absurd they let him switch out gfs.
I love that Celebrity regressed completely off screen over the course of 1 episode. Went from renouncing his alter ego to openly admitting he isn't ready to change and won't. And also he blows chunks, but dude LIE! It's for 100k just say you are trying to change at least my god haha
I swear, he's gasl!ghting them all, by saying all this, he's making his girl believe he's willing to be honest how he is and how he needs to change and might potentially change in the right environment
If he lasted the distance going by Clarence then that would be legitimately impressive.
You are an inspiration to children [aspiring to be alphas] everywhere.
I mean id go back to Celebrity too if my name was clarence 😂 (Joking obviously he’s definitely manipulative and not the best person)
@@cowboykodak2907 fr what kind of name is that😭
20:40
Therapists actually recommended punching bags and gloves as a way to cope with anger that could make you physically violent. It’s used as a healthy alternative to beating a person or solid object (typically walls/doors) without protection and breaking your hand. You’re also doing an exercise; which is good for your body.
No they don't, bc going through the motions of violence leads to violence.
@AmoraFaas what an ignorant take lol.
It's an exercise. If they hurt someone else then they were already a violent person before they exercised.
I cut down trees and chop wood as my exercise occasionally. Am I actually training to become am axe murderer?
Don’t some places have rage rooms? I remember as a kid going to this grief group counseling kind of thing and while I never got to go in it I saw there was a rage room with a punching bag. Probably for the A of DABDA
Abusive people abuse because they decided to abuse.
If angry was the only issue, they would be like that with every person in their lives.
This therapist has major Sith vibes: "Hate him! Hate him!" She wanted to say "Yes Cameron, give in to the hate. Do it."
"Now turn and beat him"
I said wtf is she palpatine at that part too. "Do it, give in to the dark side" lol
Yep I literally put on my Palpatine voice and said "Let the hate flow through you!"
Do IT
You really made me laugh when you said "i hope they bring out a third girlfriend." That would have been hilarious.
Gunnar giving me a dose of what it feels like to watch something as its coming out... instead of just binging
josh giving ashley the bowling thing makes sense i feel like lol. she's always felt like he prioritizes bowling over her, so he gave it to her to prove that he cares more about HER than about his bowling scores. it's actually kinda sweet :') and also i feel like they have the biggest chance of surviving in real life bc he seems to actually care about her
Ah yes so doing a selfish act is apparently selfless in your eyes? Lmao I know for a fact you'd make a great contestant on the show.
@@tortellinifettuccine oml it’s so funny to hear this from a deletelawz stan lmaoooo
As a 40 yr old married man, i'm way more into this trainwreck than i have any right to be. gw gunnar
Ha! Also married and turning 40 this year and I'm also way more into this than I should be 😅
Right there with you bud 😂
As a 16 year old who's never been in a relationship I'm taking notes on what not to do LOL
I love mega standing up for his mom who wasn’t even dissed just brought up for a nonsensical insult
Therapists- especially when dealing with patients that have anger issues or are violent- often advocate for healthy ways to channel their frustration through ketharsis, like using a punching bag, going to a break room or getting into boxing
Catharsis*
Not meant as a diss, legit had me questioning if that was the spelling so I had to double check. 😅
I don’t think violent people should learn how to fight! I think a lot of therapists agree. You need to work on the mental of it not learn how to be better at what is destructive.
I went to a rage room recently, it was so cathartic and therapeutic it was awesome
@@jessicadavis3989 You're not a therapist, so what you *think* is irrelevant on the matter
@@onyx081 how do you know I’m not!?
I actually kind of bought the first guy’s story. I mean he doesn’t seem like he has the capability to fake real sad emotions like that.. those tears were real bro. Respect for being a man and being honest, even if you still suck and aren’t redeemed
People do that all the time it is called self sabotage. Bro I have even dated a self saboteur. We were teens and he would say he doesn't deserve me and stuff then go and break up with me or something and be distant. People do this in many ways but I agree with you. He seemed to acknowledge it, now to see if he changes.
Yeah I don’t think his brain fires fast enough for that to not have been genuine
@@pandaninja_19is it self sabotage or is it that he wants to get laid and is too much of a little b*tch to tell you he doesn't really like you lol
Lmao none of that was good, it's called self sabotage and its a manipulation tactic. That's also why he split it up into 3. He wanted to truly make her feel like she needs to fix him because he's just that broken.
Gunnar punching the boxingbag is actually a thing helped me with anger control a lot
Yeah I was gonna say I'd imagine this type of therapy is probably great for some people, being able to talk but also punch it out
Hitting things is the opposite of controlling your anger. You found an outlet for it but aren’t controlling it
You mean *punching bag?
Boxing bag? 🤣
@@collinwiniarski4703Actually that's exactly what that is... it's called a "healthy release". Sit down 🙄
At risk wife beater behavior
14:04 I actually get it. She knows the bowling thing is important to him, so she understands giving it to her means he'll put as much effort into their relationship as he did that near-perfect game.
That is the most insane mindset I've ever heard in my life. "Ah yes, in order to show my commitment to you, I give you my highest bowling score award and that apparently means that I'm gonna make you as high of a priority as bowling". You have a toxic mindset lmao, please fix it before you get in a relationship. What he did was completely selfish, and she was so hurt by that point she was just doing anything to cope. They're still together by the way...like most of these couples
@@tortellinifettuccine Um, yeah... I think you misunderstood what I was saying. All I did was compare the effort he puts into bowling with the effort he should put into the relationship. I never said anything about demonstrating commitment this way. This is merely symbolic for them.
Let me give you an example from my own relationship. I've been happily married for 6 years and with my husband for 13 years total. The worst fight we ever got into was around the time he went to his friend's bachelor party in Florida. I won't get into details, but I was hurt by something he did (wasn't cheating or anything like that). I was about to call off our engagement, I was so mad though. Anyway, he ended up bringing a cast iron crocodile home as a souvenir and afterwards, we talked everything out and forgave each other- I too needed forgiveness for how I reacted.
Now we display that crocodile prominently in our living room as a reminder to us both that our relationship will always stay strong as iron and that we should always be ready to forgive each other when we are fighting or being selfish. That is our symbol. No one else gets it- the crocodile doesn't exactly go with our mid-century modern decor- but it has a deeper meaning for us. I believe the same is true for them and the bowling scores. As outsiders, we don't have to get it. But if it means something for them in the privacy of their relationship, that's all that matters. I'm glad to hear they're still together. I always root for true love and forgiveness!
Moral of the story: every relationship is unique and relationships can be complicated. But that doesn't mean we need to give up on them when things get hard. Sometimes, we just need to practice compassion, selflessness, and forgiveness... just like one has to practice bowling to get good at it. That is maturity. And that's definitely not toxic. 😉
These women need the therapy for staying with these men and thinking there is anything there truly worth salvaging.
Damnnnnnn, she was following through with them punches. If he is causing her to get that upset, they need to break up. For her own health. I would bet a good bit of these guys are literally emotionally abusive, if not physically.
Sean said they hadnt had sex in three weeks, implying that he was still seeing her aswell as the other poor girl
well considering that the other girl was tiger woods's mistress i wouldn't say she was as innocent.
@@xsoultillerx I love how you think her being Tiger Wood's mistress years before show even aired is supposed to be a gotcha for why she doesn't deserve sympathy.
I dont think thats what he's saying? Lmao he said she wasn't innocent, not that she dosent deserve sympathy...@@bling-tut
"I have to man up and show my feminine side."
Also, since that guy had the bowling trophy he must have brought it with him before he knew this moment would come.
The bowling awards gotta be super important if he brought it on the show with him 😭
@14:14 common Gunnar, I thought you'd understand whats going on. He is obsessed with bowling, he took that stupid thing on the trip. Its likely his favourite possession. Its like when your cat drops a dead mouse at your feet.
That's not...lmao dude you have a incredibly toxic mindset my God. You would do great on this show. That was the most selfish thing he could have possibly done. She was so heartbroken at that point she didn't know how to react, it was just cope.
@@tortellinifettuccine are you artistic?
Gunnar you need to buy the rights to Tool Academy and host a reboot of it pronto.
God yes! How much do we need to fundraiser to make this happen?
cmon, the bowling placard was actually pretty big - it probably means something to him, and giving it up probably meant something to her too
not sure exactly *what* it all means, but it definitely means *somethin*
I bowl, that was a 299 game. I've seen one 300 rally irl, the guy got a 299. The entire bowling alley is electric watching someone go for a perfect game during league play. It's like watching magic when you yourself know how hard it is to do. She might not know the particulars of the skill set but she knows his dedication to the sport, and one doesn't casually happen upon a 299. I personally thought it was a super sweet, deeply personal gesture considering it was a point of contention in their relationship. I wish everyone recognized it as such. 😢
As a bowler thats a big deal! He had to have worked really hard to get that 11 in a row. I cried when my ex gave me his 300 ring. In the bowling world its a big deal 😅
I lost it at the"he's thinking and that's awesome" bit. Holy shit that was funny😂
Not finished yet but of course Celebrity regressed. He loves attention and is doing this on TV, he is going to put on a show. They put him in an environment where he might think his regular behaviour thrives rather than a more isolated scenario. He’s a bad bf but he’s also setup for failure by being on the show
this episode was honeslty wholesome, i loved seeing the guys finally emotionally connect, and seeing the tuff dude being convinced to sell some cookies by his homie was great. Amazing show.
Rob with the eye bandaid and the bulletproof vest looks like he's about to tell me "no Russian" after I get off an elevator
Never in my life have I said "DUMP HIM" so many times
Edit: thank God finally someone on this show made a mentally sound decision
Watching a TV show with Gunnar will always hit different hehe
I love seeing these show up in my feed. Highly enjoyable commentary Gunnar. Keep cranking these out
love how all these 30 year old dudes just realized other people are insecure lmaoooo
I litterally clapped when she dumped him. Also, I disagree: that therapist seems to know what she's doing and was encouraging her to express her healthy anger in a safe way. Women are always seen as "crazy bitches" by our patriarchal society when they express healthy anger, yet if they allowed themselves to feel their anger more often, they would realize they deserve way better than these tools and stop being wayyyyy to patient and tolerant with them.
Violence isn't healthy anger. Like he says, imagine a guy getting angry, beating the crap out of a punching bag, turning to his gf, and saying, "I wish that was you." Absolutely insane.
@@Eeeeerissssswell it's not a guy. male violence is easily accepted cause it's so common. seeing a man punching that bag may seem as there's a big chance a woman can happen to be in the punching bag place. the woman punching the bag is just learning to show her anger in general (yes she can think of a bag as her bf but we all know there's a small chance she'll actually beatt him up)
Using punching bags in therapy sessions was used for years. For people who feel incapable of getting physical;Even when their life depends on it. And unfortunately it's mostly women.
@@cinnamonbits26 This seems like the most plausible and reasonable view of it. Decision paralysis, especially in times of emergency is likely a huge issue, that might stem from a traumatic childhood, or just an upbringing of violence never being an option, like women, or particularly physically fragile or timid men etc.
What follows is a rant, not rly aimed at whoever I @'ed, but I get generally frustrated with generalizations, or careless characterizations and the fucking boogeyman that is Patriarchy. It's exactly like the matrix for the red pill guys, or the Masons of previous generations. Some shadowy bullshit, that you conveniently can't define, or limit but use as an excuse for everything you've been told and think is wrong in the world.
Women aren't seen as "crazy" when they express healthy anger, they're seen as crazy when they key a fucking car, or throw clothes out the window, and change locks seemingly unprovoked, because neither party in that relationship communicates properly AT ALL.
I really dislike that generalization of all women as "crazy bitches" because in my experience, it's very specific behavior that gets you labeled as Crazy, and they're almost always coupled together with some type of diagnosis that goes untreated. Keying cars, changing locks, throwing clothes on the porch, snooping through phones, freaking out over the dude glancing at another girl. That's generally the type of behavior that I, and those around me colloquially recognize as a "crazy" woman, your boogeyman of a nonexistent patriarchy has got nothing to do with it.
Male domestic violence is a much bigger issue than anyone probably realizes, but because of the lack of proper coping mechanisms and boundaries, or just general self care that men are taught, the only solution they come up with, is to bottle it all inside.
I don't believe that men and women have the same need to vent, but that doesn't mean that men can survive not venting at all.
I agree on the blaming patriarchy part but saying women don't get called crazy bitches for expressing reasonable anger in reasonable ways is just wrong. It happens all the time.
Honestly, in general, the shit middle aged men get away with just thoughtlessly doing every day that a woman would never without being called crazy or a cunt is just a shit ton.
Blaming the "patriarchy" for every shitty Stereotype is bs but so is just straight up denying that there's differemces between how women and men are treated for the same bullshit coping.
Waiting for the therapist to go full Diana.
These tools are selling cookies. Identify the seller known as "Celebrity" and take them out.
Good luck,47.
Whoever said "elimination" was a safe process?
"That's ones of the targets 47, in that tutu"
Fuck now i wanna buy hitman 3. I have 2 and one but it's not the same I've already played each map a million times.
NGL... Those were pretty legit swings by the girl... VERY surprising...
Compare that to what the dudes taking pot shots on the tool were doing.
Yeah, impressive follow through!
It really feels like the only two who aren't massive pieces of shit are Matsu and bowling guy. And frankly, those two seem fine, with some legitimate relationship issues that they'll probably be able to work through.
I kinda feel like the fact that Matsu has never had sex with her is like a good sign it's hard to explain
@@heresJohnny73 Yeah he clearly doesn't value the women he has sex with and somehow has stayed with her despite how much he supposedly needs sex? That means he for sure feels SOMETHING for her. I hope he can grow and change fo the better
spoilers, pretty sure bowling guy got married to his girlfriend(IIRC from another comment so don't quote me on this)
@@Fluff_Noodlesno, I bet it is just because she cooks and cleans for him and he has sex elsewhere
I love imagining the retelling of how the fight escalated. “ he said he could sell more cookies than my mom and I just lost my shit!” 💀💀😂
Did...did they point guns at them off screen after the vest went on? Cause the first guy looked like he was being aimed at.
The bowling storyline might just be the best part
"hur hur it's just his bowling score"
The trophy means a lot to him and he gave it up for her. He put one of his most prized possessions in her hands, the value comes from the sentiment. I think you'll find he's the kind of guy who doesn't let anyone touch his trophies.
the problem with the humility challenge is that it's just hazing at this point, like it's no different than when the guys thought were parading for mr.Awesome especially since they can change it to "kick me for a dollar since kicking is what I'm good at"
WHOA WHOA Pump the breaks. That was NOT just a "highest bowling score"
That dude had a framed certificate of a 299. that is a near perfect game.
"The gang gives frank an intervention". They all showed up drink. Hahaha
The guy gave that thing to her and to him it's like a TEAM JACKET or Super Bowl Ring... VERY important to him... out of all the couples I hope they win 😂
Celebrities face when she was punching that punching bag you could read the thought process he was having, by the look on his face was “damn I didn’t know my bitch could throw hands” I Like how all the therapy sessions with the Bulletproof vest showed was that they could’ve skipped all this embarrassing shit by just going to a therapist together instead of waiting until they’re being forced
the claim of "we can fix him" is incredibly funny considering the entire conceit of the show is "kick off the worst dude at the end of every episode"
The people who would have the most work to do are just kicked to the curb early and the ones that were already at a decent place to start out with may get help, or not because it is a game show where the contestants are financially motivated to at least _pretend_ to improve. So really its a test to see who is the best actor, admittedly that does seem to be a hard task for this group who seem to have a compulsive urge to to be cunts out in the open. But at the same time, a decent number of them are definitely manipulators so they would probably accel at pretending to get better but not really.
My favourite series to watch someone else watch
we gotta hold him a cannibal
binged p much all ur vids and now its kinda surreal seeing u still uploading! keep going ur gonna hit the algorythym soon and ur so lovable! great work editor aswell great shit lads
they literally sold cookies for badges theyre actually just doing like scouts programmes they built beds did woodwork
Im surpried the tool's didnt go, ' OOOOH Lets smell them fangers boooooi!!!" When he walked thru that door. Lmfao
I love that he thought Cameron was gonna go home with him 😂😂😂 He thought she was that stupid and that's fucked itself.
Thank you gunnar. this has made my workday much better.
Seeing the girls making fun of Aida makes me feel better about the relationships they were in
tools with tools
Yeah literally the first chance they had to be toxic they went all in on bullying the odd one out just because she didn't start off in the house.
It's because they feel insecure and weak in their relationships, so bullying helps them feel better about themselves. Like, "I know my relationship is crap, but at least im not my boyfriend's second choice." That's my theory.
I think it was their way of trying to show loyalty to the first girl, who they bonded with first. Aida showed up and acted accusatory towards her off the bat, even though she had no idea about the cheating and he’s the one who betrayed her trust. It took them a bit to adjust and give her a chance after that.
Of course, their mean girl behavior wasn’t okay, but they are human and I think it was their own way of trying to stand with their new friend who got totally screwed and replaced. The guys on this show have been forgiven for so much behavior that was way more concerning. I think the women also deserve a reasonable degree of understanding, empathy, and grace.
I think they're projecting onto her. Like she's the other woman to them. Theyre projecting every girl their men have cheated w onto this one girl.
Girls can be mean to eachother. And this esp thrives in these mysogonystic environments. That is why a big part of feminism is girls supporting girls and not blaming them for the actions of their male partners. Back in this day especially absolutely women were cut throat.
My mom was incredibly mean and judgemental of other women. Still is. Fat shamed me quite a few times. And she also is someone who defends men constantly even after all men have done to her and me in our lives. Its really sad.
These girls are halfway there. Theyre attacking the new girl out of loyalty to the girl from before. The next step would be confronting the fact that the man is in the wrong and we shouldn't blame other women for the actions of our partners.
Imagine being Jamie and watching this episode
Dude the absolute betrayal I can’t even
I despise reality trash but I'm all for this
How is letting people hit you or take pictures to sell cookies good, but doing backflips to sell cookies is bad. If I could backflip I’d do it in the cookie challenge too
The taking pictures is good cause he's letting people take pictures of this guy in a tutu
The letting people hit you I less agree with its him saying I'm strong and I can prove it
The flipping is hey look at me I'm cool look at these flips
This therapist sounds like a sith trying to turn someone to the dark side
"Hate him, hate him" 😂
LMFAOOOOO! The way Shawn was 'being honest', then looked out of the top of his head like he was trying to see their reactions.
The blonde ones hair caught me so off guard looking like my old dead possum timerson 😨😰
Maybe I'm looking too much into it, but I kinda understand why it was sweet that he gave her his bowling award thing.
Think about it this way: a trophy is a physical representation of your accomplishments, and are heavely associated with ego. When he gave his trophy away, it was like saying "I don't care anymore about my bowling skills, I don't need the physical manifestation of that, what I need is your love".
AGREED, like seriously that is an insanely important item to him, it's not about the item itself, it's about the emotions attached to it
Clarence was going to stay the same regardless of everything.He just thought ping ponging was a good strategy.
Josh giving his bowling certificate was meaningful. It's like his Stanley cup.
12:55 They have been busting everyone with camera footage all over the place. He was smart to confess those things right away before the show writers messed him up. Thats a genius move if I ever saw one.
I am having so much fun watching this show "with" y'all.
It's like your drug dealer telling you you need to get off drugs and find God, while at his crackhouse weighing a bag.
Gunnar’s bang bang rant impersonating Shawn was fucking hilarious.
love the chat saying you pissed on your phone lmaooo
38:28 bowling was his number 1 passion while she was his 3rd. If you get a trophy or plaque winning big for doing your passion, that award is going to mean a lot to you. I saw it as hime hiving it to her was saying "babe, i want you to have my most prized possession i dont need it anbymore i have you" or something similar.just my opinion, feom a 51 yr old woman. I know if i gave away the thing i loved the most to the person i lived the most it would mean something. Its saying he's choosing her now, putting *her* 1st 💜
God gunnar is such a himbo. Honestly makes watching these videos more fun
Just what I needed lol I been wondering what these tools been up to 😅
Well the clown "Mega" (I'm assuming this means "make em gag anyway") obviously has no idea he only has one mother.. yet he's going on about his "moms" 🤣🤣🤣
@@MadScientist267well maybe he was adopted by lesbian, it would explain why he's so fruity
@@MadScientist267not out of the question he has multiple women in his upbringing he views as being his mother.
The framed bowling score. I can't.
That boxing thing is quite normal. A good outlet for anger! When i Was in a psychward they hat one too. Even a Sun Light Therapie wich is basicaly u sitting infront if a big Lamp .
That's pretty cool honestly, good outlet
Regarding crying on demand, as a failed Quentin Tarantino wannabe, I can tell you the easiest way to produce tears on set is to stare into the overhead lights. Just stare at your lights without blinking and the tears will flow easier my man. Failing that if you can discreetly pluck a few noise hairs, that'll do in a pinch too. Cheers.
I used to be able to cry on demand when I was younger...then I grew up and saw messed up stuff and now no matter what I can't cry unless I'm in a serious situation or mood. Not even for family members passing, it's so scary honestly, I just feel like my soul died.
i love the chat “he’s just a frog” lmao “switch ida back w the other girl now” haha zingers
need to show funny chat comments more!
Their little tool boy scout vests are so funny to me lol
Finally a girl that dumped the freaking tool, I was starting to lose hope
He's thinking about things.. And that's awesome. LMFAOOOOO
This is legitimately one of the funniest shows on TV
I mean Aida did come out of nowhere after they may have connected with Jamie (?). Maybe they felt the need to protect her, or think that this shouldn’t be allowed in the competition (since money is at stake). Plus, I think Aida had one rude first line about taking Jamie’s spot. First impressions can really impact people. Not defending them, but I feel like that is their rationale for the bullying. But once they realized she wasn’t planted, they lightened up.
Maybe they felt like Aida was given a second chance when they both should have been kicked off.
His face when she was punching that punching bag was too funny. I got to say, I kind of loved it! 🤣
I was sad when claim to fame ended but this show is pretty good as well. I don't watch the live stream but do enjoy watching the comments roll by lol Nothing like an evening with Gunnar and some trashy reality tv
As a crazy bitch myself, getting her to use the punching bag is really helpful and smart, its actually been recommended for me to use when im emotionally disregulated, it helps to expend a lot of pent up emotional energy in a healthy way. Theres an emotional regulation skill called TIPP in which intense excericise is proven to really help people strugling emotionally and to help get someone out of a crisis by getting your heart and breathing rate to level out. Its good for men, women and enbys, too!
I use my TIPP skills to this day!!
fucking love this lil mini vod series bruh can't wait for the next one
Was waiting for this. I somehow sensed that this video was coming. Thanks Gunnar!
"I did a complete 360 degree turn..."
2:25 it's not about appearing the most reasonable or fixed. He wants to "hold him accountable" because it will cause a big rift between him and his girl. Potentially getting him eliminated. Strategic
5:15 for anybody who needs to hear it.... It's about progression not perfection. You will never be perfect. As long as you are making progress toward who and what you want to be you are doing right.
Important points:
- I watched this on MTV original lmao and it was actually manoflex or whatever that unlocked the memory for me
- you’re hilarious and I love you
- tyvm
I’m so invested 😂 I love your added commentary and if you didn’t plan ahead of time you ended up missing episodes so I haven’t seen a lot of these episodes ❤
This is really a hard watch. Idk if any of this is scripted or what not, but I genuinely feel for these women. To be told from your boyfriend that he was “chatting with the guys” dissing your looks, weight and talking about how you are in bed badly.. that’s just hurtful. Especially on television
Agreed, but honestly i think he's genuinely sorry, he def has alot to make up for
That at about 33 minutes was really mature and funny at the same time lol.
"You can even spar, the odds are live in Vegas right now. Cameron, Vegas has you as a 3 to 1 underdog. How does that make you feel."
“He kinda looks like a ninja” 😂😂😂
Just to defend the therapist; the punching bag is actually a thing xD