To the first point, Ladies please don't share your body with a man who is not your husband. Wait until marriage. When you're sleeping with men who are not in covenant with you (aka your Husband) you're signing yourself up for spiritual warfare. Please honor your body and have self control. Otherwise you'll be trapped in soul ties . Good moral character and high integrity is what's MOST important. Jesus ❤'s you & so do I.
So true I had 2 Ex husbands wanted OPEN marriage. (one marriage was over 25 years and other one was 3 years) And if I refused to do this as decent Christian woman....both disliked me and showed it. I got divorced both times. Sometimes things happen beyond your control
You’re 100% correct. My boyfriend is a high valued man and he agrees with all of your signs. He gives me $300 to get my nails done. He tells me to tip my tech $100. He loves that I am consistent with my looks, hair, nails, and how I dress. I just turned 49, buy guys in their 20s and 30s give me attention. Women and men think I’m in my 30s. When my boyfriend sees me, I’m always the right character. Whatever the appropriate time, I love dressing up and role playing with my man. Sex is amazing. I can cook for my family but I have a housekeeper. I give him massages in a candle lit room in an lingerie. We are in a committed relationship. I was single for 7 years before meeting each other. We’re both successful entrepreneurs but we both know our masculine and feminine role. That’s key!
I will only be impressed AFTER he actually walks you down the aisle and put a ring on it. A boyfriend and a husband are two distinctly different categories. Anyone can have a boyfriend. Not everyone will have a husband.💥
Men once sexually fulfillment, that could be a topic of itself Of course they do and women do also But with reality and common sense, you have to know how far that’s go’s some men want sex every time they see a woman Is more than just say they want it without showing some type of sensitivity compassion towards the lady their wife You just can’t come in the door and say let’s get it on , the man that taken or her husband that take her out on dates are not just coming up to her and her and hugging her and say he love her without wanting sex every time. She’s taken care of your kids some a working taking care of the house. Make sure it’s nice and comfortable and a lot of men don’t have gratitude. They look at that something is she have to do and she doesn’t. But as I said, that first part could be a conversation a platform office on I’m quite sure this is gonna be very What are young man that’s person in this you’re taking a bit too long to get to the subject But keep doing what you’re doing I’m out
Ooooh I feel that “You don’t have to do everything. He wants it done. He didn’t say YOU had to do it.” I totally agree. I delegate when possible. Put it in the budget and let your man know it’s getting done. Period. ❤
Yeah, this is goood! All qualities I have and continue to further grow. Your content is so needed. This is the type of messaging that’s needed now more than ever. New subby here! Amen to that prayer! May the great men and great women find each other🙏🏾!
New subscriber 👋 love your shit!!! 42:24 -> recap of 1-5 (sexual fulfillment; recreational companionship; looking good for ya man; domestic support, admiration. 42:39 -> be his peace and 47:27 -> your feminine softness (but you’re not a pushover). By the way, I master event planning this -> 29:50 and I have the best daughter-in-law and this is her -> 33:29 my son has the best wife of all time and I love how she loves him! Amen for this message. 🙏🏾
Thank you for this. Your delivery makes women like myself so eager to fulfill these requirements and be our man's peace. You also speak from a position of authority being a married man and a man of faith (though, im Muslim). Thanks once again.
I am a 64 year woman and all the things you mentioned was what my Auntie told me who was married over 50 years. Clean House. Show love and care. Keep his laundry right. Sex. Cook. Pray together. Church You on point 😊
Thank you for this. It’s so difficult to find grounded and trustworthy content on this topic. I saw a video of yours a year or so ago but didn’t remember your name and couldn’t find you again. I’m so glad UA-cam recommended this video to me today. Subscribed.
Thanks for your confidence. Media has a big influence but there are far more women of class who are self-confident, soft and elegant than not. They are all around us daily. We must highlight them more to change the narrative and false perception. 🙏🏾
Maybe if men were more masculine it would allow women to be softer. If I have to do everything including ask for the date make the reservation and pay half.. we’ll there you go.
Thank you this is one of the most comprehensive videos I have ever seen I like how you put this together. My favorite part is how when a man wants his woman to look good he hast to give her sometimes the time and also the financial means to look well thank you for this video. I am definitely taking notes.
Where is what women want? It always what men want. Even magazines have articles about what men want. What men want is not wrong, but mostly, it has always been what men want.
That's the greatest or one of the greatest reward that a woman can give to her man, which is a home cooked or ensure a meal is provided for him. Right, and the man should be able to reciprocate in some kind of way for the woman too.❤
For number one; this goes both ways. Was married and last 3 years no sex, not on my account. This was due to not taking care of his body and not exercising. What really sucked was there were things he could have done but was too selfish to do.
Dr Tartt, I just love that I read a comment from a woman as I was looking at the show that you are a part of, Brother Mann, love your mind, I am so greafull for you as well, thank you for spending the time, to help us, as women, 🙏
I just came across your channel for the first time. I just subscribed.! You’re the bomb. Everything you said let me know that you are “woke” as a man. I like the fact that you think about things needed when you and your wife have guests and so forth. You show that you care about every aspect and not just sit around watching TV and playing video games waiting on her to stress herself out doing everything. God bless you, your wife and family🙂🙌🏾🔥
Amazing!! First time I have heard this in a True transparent straight talk, down to earth real man. I know you have a special woman and family. I am a widow and these are my values. I know that I am this type of a woman and I now believe that there is someone else for me to share God's love in this flesh who will appreciate me. Thanks we need this, especially in our black communities. God Bless!!! So thankful for this podcast. It is Jesus speaking through you brother. This is so positive, loving and direct!! ❤ 🙏
This was a beautiful presentation on what men wants/how 2 people should work together. I definitely will be tuning in often /also practicing the tips given to enhance marriage. Simply Beautiful!
Fantastic, direct, grown up and honest advice! Be respectful, Polite, have clear communication, Loving, Look after your men ladies but love yourself too!❤Happily tuned in from across the pond in the UK 🇬🇧 Keep up the great work! Sending blessings & peace to everyone! 👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Dr. tart Keep it coming with great resources .I love these interactions and what i have been learning here in your channel. Thank you and may you and your family continue to be abundantly blessed.
I was cracking up on your enthusiasm for the bread basket and organization! This is the kind of talk that I like to hear. It sounds like a great appreciation for your wife and the home she has created. Appreciate this!
I’m new and a supporter. Great info. I’m in a one year relationship and we have wonderful communication skills. Looking forward to the future with my Boo ❤
Dr. Tartt!..I discovered you when you were on the Hardley Initiated podcast!. You were on point with these tips!….. I’m in my 50’s and feel like giving up this dating game. It’s so frustrating!…You had me rolling when you were talking about Beyoncé and the Towel warmers!
I just came across your you tubes and I love them. You and the Mrs. are lovely. You have me laughing and you give gems that I am looking forward to use with my future husband. Thank you Sir
This is great. I want to note for the men... the woman surgeon you described coming home after a 13hr shift and situations like that are not always as it seems. Sometimes it's not that she loves or doesn't love him enough to do that, rather that she already enjoys cooking which allows her to not feel like it's more work but more recreation. On another note, some women do it because they were taught to and it may actually stress them but they are quiet about that extra stress cuz of the love they have. Other times some men simply demand it and make the woman feel guilty for not doing it. A flipped example is like the wife always expecting or wanting the hubby to rub her feet, give her pillow talk/communication... The man who is naturally affectionate and communicative will have zero problems in this area with his woman. He will rub feet and talk and listen and read his woman MUCH better than the man who feels obligated to do it. These men may all love their women but for many men, affection (especially rubbing feet) and healthy tender communication simply feels like work and struggle in those areas with their women. So it's like this with women and domestic or sexual/other things that men want. A lot of the ways we behave and things we may or may not provide in relationships often have to do with our upbringing so those discussions could be a way to see what type of spouse you'll have.
Recreation partner is not new. In my youth, I dated a guy that love golf but I hated it, but I never let him know it😅.Another guy I dated love fishing but I wanted to learn to fish...enjoyed it. This is sacrifice folks. I love doing new activities anyway, whether with or without a companion.
That is funny that you didn’t let him know but is shows your dedication to willingness to sacrifice for others. Hopefully, you got the same thing in return.
I love trying doing new things with a partner. I enjoy golf, travel and all the things. I don’t enjoy football and some other sports. I may be down to watch here and there but don’t want the expectation of going to games and such. At 42, I’m just not into faking interest in certain things.
You are so funny 😂😂 I love when you conclude a hilarious and entertaining tangent with “well, I’m not gonna go off on a tangent y’all” 😂😂😂 you are doing an amazing job and I mean all of the above in the most positive way ever. It’s so fun to watch!
That was a-m-a-z-i-n-g! Wow! Thank you Dr. Tartt. I have taken careful notes. Will be re watching this and checking your other videos.God bless you and your beautiful family!
First time watching Dr. Tartt! This information, very informative. Just celebrated my 54th birthday, and I would like to say that I gave love a try ONLINE, many years ago and it was the worse relationship I ever had in my life. Without diving into too many specifics, let me drop this nugget of knowledge. In regards to Advice #1....spot on for most men, until age and health plays a factor. Most women over 40, our drive goes from 0 to Audubon, as we get older. Some men, because of their age and health, bottoms out, which is why I enjoy dating younger, healthy, non-Homer Simpson looking men! 💯❤🤗❤
Kat, thanks for sharing! Don’t let one man steal your hope for a true man but screen longer because the next time will be sensitive and matter. Also, yes, get yourself a man with some juice in the tank 💪🏾
@@DRTARTT1 😅😅😅 Right! Because I married one who's tank was empty!!! And he never told me until after we got married. Judge annulled the marriage to the minister. Body carved out like the Grand Canyon, spiritual celibate almost 10 years, I'm good and got you. Blessings to your channel. ❤️🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗❤️
…Enjoyed your straight talk IMMENSELY!!! I will be sharing. As a pastor, I will definitely be sharing. Blessssssssings to you and your beautiful wife and family.♥️
The man creates the atmosphere in which his woman can thrive and become his peace. If he brings the structure that allows her to feel safe, peace will ensue.
Yup. A lot of men where I am from have bellies as big as 3-6 months pregnant and their wives with flat stomachs. They forget women are visual creatures as well.
Dr T, I be loving your energy. Thank you so much for this. I could listen to you talk all day. Grateful that your and your wife are living a good example to share with the rest of us. God bless you both and your ministry.
Hello just seeing your videos, so imformative. I love your confidence and how you explain everything so well, beautiful personality and down to earth, we need more men like you, take care no.
This is such a wonderful list and done in such a healthy way. We ladies should definitely be doing this. I think something to add would be your thoughts on the difference between what a boyfriend gets vs a husband and the need for discussions around it. I love that you are a Black men experienced in this area and teaching it in a relatable way that is also healing. We need more of you. I’m subscribed!
This is what’s up !! I love it ! Lord I’m believing you to send me a husband that will appreciate and cherish the gifts and talents that you bestowed upon me amen
My husbands softball buddies wonder how he got me ! I am into and agree with all of this !! I wish my husband felt the way you do. He has fallen way off and doesn’t care on any level.
Time to stop being stepped on. If he's slacking, match that energy because he's using you. His "buddies" know he's trash which is why they're wondering "how he got with you." Your husband played you. Stop letting him do that.
Maaaaaaaaaaannn! I enjoyed this. Thank you so much. I was taught all these things by the old heads back in the day. Unfortunately, I have friends who were not and the quality of men they attract reveal that. They call me boujee (lol), but the type of men I attract are the type of men I desire. I love your lists and appreciate the men being honest, especially about how sex is a priority. We need to know these things. Thank you.
I just came across your video just now very interesting. I am a life and relationship coach and I agree with a lot of what you’re saying but not everything 😊 I really enjoyed the show.
This is great information. For peace both parties should bring peace. If the man brings peace, the peace reciprocate. Some men are too toxic. They take peace away
You had me laughing doctor when you said "That was a stupid idea, and then baby that was fun !" That sounded like something I would be thinking Lol. You should be on tv, you're very smart and funny at the same time !
Sexual fulfillment is certainly important to men because it is how many men nest feel love (physical touch). This should not be confused with lust. Great comment!
@@DRTARTT1 my view would be slightly different because anything outside of marriage is lust. The majority of the people that probably watched this are not married and that’s a part of the reason why so many people are not wanting to get married because they can get all of the goodies without any sacrifice and commitment. Too many people get confused in their emotions because they are engaging in sex and they think that that is so much more important than anything else. These are my thoughts and observations as a person who’s been married, and is also been single for a while. This is not to take away from the fact that sex should be important in a marriage to both. God forbid you were not able to have sex because of a health concern there are many more things that you would appreciate your wife for and that would be even more important. I just don’t think they should’ve been number one on the list.
First my ex said that I was coming on to strong and then when I stoped he complained that I fell off, this confused me, and the ex before that said I wanted to much affection, this all has broken my sprit.
I hope your bathroom floors are heated but I know they are if not what a great addition to go along with the heated robe and towel rack! Peace ☮️ and Love 💗
Good info. I am secure woman in my personality but I am not that secure in my looks. I have had few men in my life but get bored with me after awhile and want to use me. years ago I learned i tried to care for everyone in the family but me. It does make a point look good for your man
To the first point, Ladies please don't share your body with a man who is not your husband. Wait until marriage. When you're sleeping with men who are not in covenant with you (aka your Husband) you're signing yourself up for spiritual warfare. Please honor your body and have self control. Otherwise you'll be trapped in soul ties . Good moral character and high integrity is what's MOST important. Jesus ❤'s you & so do I.
So true I had 2 Ex husbands wanted OPEN marriage. (one marriage was over 25 years and other one was 3 years) And if I refused to do this as decent Christian woman....both disliked me and showed it. I got divorced both times. Sometimes things happen beyond your control
Amen!
Yes❤
Such great advice & I love the way you framed it!
So true ❤
Thanks for the list!🙏🏻
1.Sexual satisfaction
2.Recreation
3.Attractiveness
4.Domestic Support
5.Admiration
6.Peace
7.Softness
You’re 100% correct. My boyfriend is a high valued man and he agrees with all of your signs. He gives me $300 to get my nails done. He tells me to tip my tech $100. He loves that I am consistent with my looks, hair, nails, and how I dress. I just turned 49, buy guys in their 20s and 30s give me attention. Women and men think I’m in my 30s. When my boyfriend sees me, I’m always the right character. Whatever the appropriate time, I love dressing up and role playing with my man. Sex is amazing. I can cook for my family but I have a housekeeper. I give him massages in a candle lit room in an lingerie. We are in a committed relationship. I was single for 7 years before meeting each other. We’re both successful entrepreneurs but we both know our masculine and feminine role. That’s key!
I love it!
I pray that your boyfriend proposes to you one day.
I will only be impressed AFTER he actually walks you down the aisle and put a ring on it. A boyfriend and a husband are two distinctly different categories. Anyone can have a boyfriend. Not everyone will have a husband.💥
Boyfriend🥱
First a ring dear
Finally, someone who is genuine AND direct. No 30-minute intros. I enjoyed your channel. Now a subscriber.
Thank you
Bring Peace ☮️ and Love💗
You are funny!!
We need to be each other's peace. We have to look to God to help us both with this.🙏😊
🌷 Yes. We did this for over 25 years until God called him home. Grateful.
We need respectful platforms that engage in healthy conversations. 🙏
Yes we do! I appreciate him having this platform. I love watching him give great advice on Porshia's talk show in Atlanta.
Men once sexually fulfillment, that could be a topic of itself
Of course they do and women do also
But with reality and common sense, you have to know how far that’s go’s some men want sex every time they see a woman
Is more than just say they want it without showing some type of sensitivity compassion towards the lady their wife
You just can’t come in the door and say let’s get it on , the man that taken or her husband that take her out on dates are not just coming up to her and her and hugging her and say he love her without wanting sex every time. She’s taken care of your kids some a working taking care of the house. Make sure it’s nice and comfortable and a lot of men don’t have gratitude. They look at that something is she have to do and she doesn’t.
But as I said, that first part could be a conversation a platform office on
I’m quite sure this is gonna be very
What are young man that’s person in this you’re taking a bit too long to get to the subject
But keep doing what you’re doing I’m out
@@LindaJohnson-tt8fuTrue! But you were too kind!
Ooooh I feel that “You don’t have to do everything. He wants it done. He didn’t say YOU had to do it.” I totally agree. I delegate when possible. Put it in the budget and let your man know it’s getting done. Period. ❤
For sure! Stand up when you say that lol.
Love the realness, the humor, the simplicity and the blunt nature. Great job!
Yeah, this is goood! All qualities I have and continue to further grow. Your content is so needed. This is the type of messaging that’s needed now more than ever. New subby here! Amen to that prayer! May the great men and great women find each other🙏🏾!
Thank you!
🙏🏽🫶🏾🕊
I stumble upon this . This is real grown up. Real talk, honest truth ❤ it.
Thank you. Comments like these make it all worth the effort.
I’m here for Dr. Tartt’s energy and enthusiasm! Love the message!
I so appreciate it! Let me know what content and questions you want me to cover too. God Bless!
New subscriber 👋 love your shit!!!
42:24 -> recap of 1-5 (sexual fulfillment; recreational companionship; looking good for ya man; domestic support, admiration. 42:39 -> be his peace and 47:27 -> your feminine softness (but you’re not a pushover).
By the way, I master event planning this -> 29:50 and I have the best daughter-in-law and this is her -> 33:29 my son has the best wife of all time and I love how she loves him!
Amen for this message. 🙏🏾
Thank you my sister
@@DRTARTT1 my pleasure 😇
So refreshing to hear what GOOD men want… enjoy your truthful, lighthearted conversation😅
Thank you for this. Your delivery makes women like myself so eager to fulfill these requirements and be our man's peace. You also speak from a position of authority being a married man and a man of faith (though, im Muslim). Thanks once again.
Thanks for the over the top kind feedback!
I am a 64 year woman and all the things you mentioned was what my Auntie told me who was married over 50 years. Clean House. Show love and care. Keep his laundry right. Sex. Cook. Pray together. Church You on point 😊
You are a great presenter! You keep me engaged. Your content is exciting and you interact with your audience very well. You’re crazy in a good way.
Wow Joy. Thank you for the incredibly kind compliment. You don’t know how much it warmed my heart. Thank you. 🙏🏾
Yes, the way I keep my home is FIRST, keep it clean, a meal cooked and my scented plug-Ins to give cozy vibes! ❤❤
Thank you for this. It’s so difficult to find grounded and trustworthy content on this topic. I saw a video of yours a year or so ago but didn’t remember your name and couldn’t find you again. I’m so glad UA-cam recommended this video to me today. Subscribed.
He's right in everything. It seems young women these days are losing their femininity. Softness, self confidence and elegance are rare these days.
Thanks for your confidence. Media has a big influence but there are far more women of class who are self-confident, soft and elegant than not. They are all around us daily. We must highlight them more to change the narrative and false perception. 🙏🏾
Because they are not taught how to act like a lady. While past generations were taught
Maybe if men were more masculine it would allow women to be softer. If I have to do everything including ask for the date make the reservation and pay half.. we’ll there you go.
Why would women be soft when men are not masculine?
A strong message from a high Quality Man 🎉.."Dont judge the cuisine before its Served"🎉🎉🎉🎉100% Dr
Love your chat and the details you provided, great reminders 😍 and your great energy and personality 😊
Thank you for the kind words. 🙏🏾
Thank you this is one of the most comprehensive videos I have ever seen I like how you put this together. My favorite part is how when a man wants his woman to look good he hast to give her sometimes the time and also the financial means to look well thank you for this video. I am definitely taking notes.
Thank you!
Where is what women want?
It always what men want. Even magazines have articles about what men want. What men want is not wrong, but mostly, it has always been what men want.
That's the greatest or one of the greatest reward that a woman can give to her man, which is a home cooked or ensure a meal is provided for him. Right, and the man should be able to reciprocate in some kind of way for the woman too.❤
Great tips and advice, thanks Dr. Tartt. SN: You and Tony Gaskins should tour together, it would be explosive and game changing.
That would be cool!
For number one; this goes both ways. Was married and last 3 years no sex, not on my account. This was due to not taking care of his body and not exercising. What really sucked was there were things he could have done but was too selfish to do.
Dr Tartt, I just love that I read a comment from a woman as I was looking at the show that you are a part of, Brother Mann, love your mind, I am so greafull for you as well, thank you for spending the time, to help us, as women, 🙏
You are very welcome. Let me know what other topics you would like for me to focus on as well, Caroline.
I just came across your channel for the first time. I just subscribed.! You’re the bomb. Everything you said let me know that you are “woke” as a man. I like the fact that you think about things needed when you and your wife have guests and so forth. You show that you care about every aspect and not just sit around watching TV and playing video games waiting on her to stress herself out doing everything. God bless you, your wife and family🙂🙌🏾🔥
Amazing!! First time I have heard this in a True transparent straight talk, down to earth real man. I know you have a special woman and family. I am a widow and these are my values. I know that I am this type of a woman and I now believe that there is someone else for me to share God's love in this flesh who will appreciate me. Thanks we need this, especially in our black communities. God Bless!!! So thankful for this podcast. It is Jesus speaking through you brother. This is so positive, loving and direct!! ❤ 🙏
This was a beautiful presentation on what men wants/how 2 people should work together. I definitely will be tuning in often /also practicing the tips given to enhance marriage.
Simply Beautiful!
A bidet
Fantastic, direct, grown up and honest advice! Be respectful, Polite, have clear communication, Loving, Look after your men ladies but love yourself too!❤Happily tuned in from across the pond in the UK 🇬🇧 Keep up the great work! Sending blessings & peace to everyone! 👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Found you through Hardly Initiated. So glad to find these platforms where real grown folks engage. ❤
You’re a wonderful man. I pray that more men understand the assistance you give to your wife to make both of your lives easier and fun
Great content. I love peaceness, fun, uplifting, and giving grace.
Dr. tart Keep it coming with great resources .I love these interactions and what i have been learning here in your channel. Thank you and may you and your family continue to be abundantly blessed.
I was cracking up on your enthusiasm for the bread basket and organization! This is the kind of talk that I like to hear. It sounds like a great appreciation for your wife and the home she has created. Appreciate this!
I’m new and a supporter. Great info. I’m in a one year relationship and we have wonderful communication skills. Looking forward to the future with my Boo ❤
Dr. Tartt!..I discovered you when you were on the Hardley Initiated podcast!. You were on point with these tips!….. I’m in my 50’s and feel like giving up this dating game. It’s so frustrating!…You had me rolling when you were talking about Beyoncé and the Towel warmers!
You are 1000% right about the option of not having to work and a man having money🎉
Dr. Tartt, I am new to your channel and really enjoyed this video. Thanks for sharing. God bless 🙏🏼
Thank you so much 🙏🏾
I just came across your you tubes and I love them. You and the Mrs. are lovely. You have me laughing and you give gems that I am looking forward to use with my future husband. Thank you Sir
Thank you!
This my first video I’ve watched and I instantly subscribed to your channel ❤
Thank you, Whitney
Glad Dr. R.C Blakes posted this.
This is great. I want to note for the men... the woman surgeon you described coming home after a 13hr shift and situations like that are not always as it seems. Sometimes it's not that she loves or doesn't love him enough to do that, rather that she already enjoys cooking which allows her to not feel like it's more work but more recreation.
On another note, some women do it because they were taught to and it may actually stress them but they are quiet about that extra stress cuz of the love they have. Other times some men simply demand it and make the woman feel guilty for not doing it.
A flipped example is like the wife always expecting or wanting the hubby to rub her feet, give her pillow talk/communication... The man who is naturally affectionate and communicative will have zero problems in this area with his woman. He will rub feet and talk and listen and read his woman MUCH better than the man who feels obligated to do it. These men may all love their women but for many men, affection (especially rubbing feet) and healthy tender communication simply feels like work and struggle in those areas with their women.
So it's like this with women and domestic or sexual/other things that men want. A lot of the ways we behave and things we may or may not provide in relationships often have to do with our upbringing so those discussions could be a way to see what type of spouse you'll have.
Recreation partner is not new. In my youth, I dated a guy that love golf but I hated it, but I never let him know it😅.Another guy I dated love fishing but I wanted to learn to fish...enjoyed it.
This is sacrifice folks.
I love doing new activities anyway, whether with or without a companion.
That is funny that you didn’t let him know but is shows your dedication to willingness to sacrifice for others. Hopefully, you got the same thing in return.
I love trying doing new things with a partner. I enjoy golf, travel and all the things. I don’t enjoy football and some other sports. I may be down to watch here and there but don’t want the expectation of going to games and such. At 42, I’m just not into faking interest in certain things.
First time listening…I enjoyed. Waiting for the right one. Just subscribed 😊
Your content is rare. Im grateful to have come across this channel 💕. God bless you Sir, keep it coming. We need the transparency 🙏🏾
You are so funny 😂😂 I love when you conclude a hilarious and entertaining tangent with “well, I’m not gonna go off on a tangent y’all” 😂😂😂 you are doing an amazing job and I mean all of the above in the most positive way ever. It’s so fun to watch!
Thank you! This truly makes me smile. Your words are powerful!
That was a-m-a-z-i-n-g! Wow! Thank you Dr. Tartt. I have taken careful notes. Will be re watching this and checking your other videos.God bless you and your beautiful family!
New subscriber here. I came directly to your channel after seeing you on Hardly Initiated! Love the candor❤
Most men just want some good cookies, a good homemade meal and peace of mind☺️💓💯
Whew! I’m tired just thinking about doing all this. Nevermind I’ll just stay single. Sounds like a nightmare 😂
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Step up. You're doing most of this for your pets
@@Peaceful-rv1tb exactly why I don’t have pets 🤣🤣🤣 I’m not doing all that for no man or no other dogs 😂
First time watching Dr. Tartt! This information, very informative. Just celebrated my 54th birthday, and I would like to say that I gave love a try ONLINE, many years ago and it was the worse relationship I ever had in my life. Without diving into too many specifics, let me drop this nugget of knowledge. In regards to Advice #1....spot on for most men, until age and health plays a factor. Most women over 40, our drive goes from 0 to Audubon, as we get older. Some men, because of their age and health, bottoms out, which is why I enjoy dating younger, healthy, non-Homer Simpson looking men! 💯❤🤗❤
Kat, thanks for sharing! Don’t let one man steal your hope for a true man but screen longer because the next time will be sensitive and matter. Also, yes, get yourself a man with some juice in the tank 💪🏾
@@DRTARTT1 😅😅😅 Right! Because I married one who's tank was empty!!! And he never told me until after we got married. Judge annulled the marriage to the minister. Body carved out like the Grand Canyon, spiritual celibate almost 10 years, I'm good and got you. Blessings to your channel. ❤️🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗❤️
@@katbrooks4462NOT HOMER SIMPSON!!! 😩
…Enjoyed your straight talk IMMENSELY!!!
I will be sharing. As a pastor, I will definitely be sharing. Blessssssssings to you and your beautiful wife and family.♥️
The man creates the atmosphere in which his woman can thrive and become his peace. If he brings the structure that allows her to feel safe, peace will ensue.
This is good! However, men please keep up w/yourself as well. That is attractive to women as well!
For sure!
Yes, and they need to stop "testing" women by trying to have sex with women they don't want. It's sick.
Yup. A lot of men where I am from have bellies as big as 3-6 months pregnant and their wives with flat stomachs. They forget women are visual creatures as well.
@@aliciasandy2042precisely
True
Dr T, I be loving your energy. Thank you so much for this. I could listen to you talk all day. Grateful that your and your wife are living a good example to share with the rest of us. God bless you both and your ministry.
Hello just seeing your videos, so imformative. I love your confidence and how you explain everything so well, beautiful personality and down to earth, we need more men like you, take care no.
Thank you! I needed to hear that. Such beautiful words.
Thank you so much! I first met you on Hardly Initiated Platform!
This live is a whole different level!💯‼️I needed this Thanks so much! BLESSINGS
I’m in the right place. I’m so glad I discovered your channel
This is such a wonderful list and done in such a healthy way. We ladies should definitely be doing this.
I think something to add would be your thoughts on the difference between what a boyfriend gets vs a husband and the need for discussions around it.
I love that you are a Black men experienced in this area and teaching it in a relatable way that is also healing. We need more of you. I’m subscribed!
I agree ...I touch hom and I know he is very happy.
This is what’s up !! I love it ! Lord I’m believing you to send me a husband that will appreciate and cherish the gifts and talents that you bestowed upon me amen
The list is amazing. My favorite is can you keep home. Keeping a home is my passion and I’m single.
Right. Home is so important to happiness and what a gift to have someone who is talented in making it feel warm.
@@DRTARTT1 yes your hone is your sanctuary. It’s very important. Women are the temperatures of the environment.
Does anyone know what chargers are?! 😂 nice for a man to appreciate all the little details we women put our hearts and souls into!
I married up. What can I say? 😂
You got me laughing 😂. "Imma b 80 w a two-year-old."
Hey, I need help around here while you are laughing.
I love everything about this message! *Subscribed*
Thanks Dr. Tartt for the seven qualities for men. I appreciate your content.
New Subscriber! Thank you for being so kind to us❤
Great men that’s the key
My husbands softball buddies wonder how he got me ! I am into and agree with all of this !!
I wish my husband felt the way you do. He has fallen way off and doesn’t care on any level.
Time to stop being stepped on. If he's slacking, match that energy because he's using you. His "buddies" know he's trash which is why they're wondering "how he got with you." Your husband played you. Stop letting him do that.
Amen. It’s also great that healthy habits kinda snuck into every point.
Thank you, Doc, nuff love and blessings 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲
Maaaaaaaaaaannn! I enjoyed this. Thank you so much. I was taught all these things by the old heads back in the day. Unfortunately, I have friends who were not and the quality of men they attract reveal that. They call me boujee (lol), but the type of men I attract are the type of men I desire. I love your lists and appreciate the men being honest, especially about how sex is a priority. We need to know these things. Thank you.
I just came across your video just now very interesting. I am a life and relationship coach and I agree with a lot of what you’re saying but not everything 😊 I really enjoyed the show.
This is great information. For peace both parties should bring peace. If the man brings peace, the peace reciprocate. Some men are too toxic. They take peace away
This is so good, direct and humorous.❤
I tripped out when he was describing home life with charges, guest towels, cutlery, bread baskets, etc 😆🤣🤣🤣
New Subscriber. Thank you so much 💗
Love the valuable pointers...thank you!
This was fun to listen to. Thanks!
This is sooooo good!! I didn’t realize the things that could be annoying. Wow
You had me laughing doctor when you said "That was a stupid idea, and then baby that was fun !" That sounded like something I would be thinking Lol. You should be on tv, you're very smart and funny at the same time !
You have to start with the right man first. This point is major!!!
So very true!
I’m so READY to do ALL this for my Future Husband!! EXACTLY
I’m digging this continent. New subscriber effective today.
Welcome aboard!
New subscriber, Watching from Bangkok. (I'm black ha ha) This was great.
Wow. Thank you.
Oh my I am so glad your video popped up. You have a new subscriber 😅.
This was great information. Thank you.
Thank you,great advice for men and women.
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with Publix! Publix is an experience, I love shopping there when I’m in the South. ❤
For sure!
Can’t believe sex was #1 on this list!!! so many more things that are important and I hope we’re talking about marriage
Sexual fulfillment is certainly important to men because it is how many men nest feel love (physical touch). This should not be confused with lust. Great comment!
@@DRTARTT1 my view would be slightly different because anything outside of marriage is lust. The majority of the people that probably watched this are not married and that’s a part of the reason why so many people are not wanting to get married because they can get all of the goodies without any sacrifice and commitment.
Too many people get confused in their emotions because they are engaging in sex and they think that that is so much more important than anything else. These are my thoughts and observations as a person who’s been married, and is also been single for a while.
This is not to take away from the fact that sex should be important in a marriage to both.
God forbid you were not able to have sex because of a health concern there are many more things that you would appreciate your wife for and that would be even more important. I just don’t think they should’ve been number one on the list.
First my ex said that I was coming on to strong and then when I stoped he complained that I fell off, this confused me, and the ex before that said I wanted to much affection, this all has broken my sprit.
Am feeling you 😉❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾 thank you learning alot
I dont how i found your channel. But love it. Ty
Ty, I’m glad you are here and you are welcome to make suggestions on content you want to see. God Bless.
I hope your bathroom floors are heated but I know they are if not what a great addition to go along with the heated robe and towel rack!
Peace ☮️ and Love 💗
Nothing like a great woman/wife to make a home.
This is AMAZING!!!! Thank you
Thank you!
Good info. I am secure woman in my personality but I am not that secure in my looks. I have had few men in my life but get bored with me after awhile and want to use me. years ago I learned i tried to care for everyone in the family but me. It does make a point look good for your man
Yaassssss teacher appreciation 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I am new to the group and single and i look forward to a great husband. You are totally correct. 😊