God's Plan For Your Love Life: 10 Steps To Finding Your Spouse

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  • Опубліковано 10 вер 2024
  • God's Plan For Your Love Life: 10 Steps To Finding Your Spouse
    Welcome to our enlightening video where we blend contemporary relationship insights with timeless biblical wisdom to guide you on your journey to finding your future spouse. Today, we explore "How God Guides You to Your Future Spouse," offering practical steps and biblical insights for your relationship journey.
    The video discusses how to combine God's teachings on dating and marriage with practical steps.
    It explores the confusion of waiting for God to present the right person versus using practical strategies like online dating.
    The importance of being authentic and addressing personal issues before entering a relationship is emphasized.
    Taking initiative, setting a timeline, and being prepared are highlighted as necessary steps.
    The video suggests that learning often happens while taking action rather than solely through preparation.
    10 Steps To Finding Your Spouse:
    1️⃣ Self-Confidence and Identity: Discover the importance of building self-confidence and understanding your self-worth, resonating with Psalm 139:14's affirmation of our unique creation by God.
    2️⃣ Be Approachable: Learn the significance of being open and friendly in your quest for love, drawing inspiration from relationship wisdom and Proverbs 18:24.
    3️⃣ Authenticity: Uncover the power of authenticity in relationships, as emphasized by relationship experts and the Bible (Matthew 23:25-26).
    4️⃣ Communication Skills: Explore the role of effective communication in building strong relationships, with wisdom from James 1:19.
    5️⃣ Respect and Kindness: Understand the significance of respect and kindness in interactions, as highlighted in Ephesians 4:32.
    6️⃣ Setting Boundaries: Learn about the importance of setting healthy boundaries in dating, a principle supported by relationship guidance and 1 Corinthians 6:18.
    7️⃣ Taking Initiative: Get inspired to take initiative in your love life, with encouragement from relationship advice and guidance from Proverbs 16:3.
    8️⃣ Being Positive and Fun: Discover the benefits of maintaining a positive and fun attitude in dating, as suggested in Proverbs 17:22.
    9️⃣ Patience: Embrace the virtue of patience in your dating journey, reflecting on Ecclesiastes 3:1's teaching that there is a time for everything.
    🔟 Trust God's Plan: Strengthen your faith in God's plan for your relationships, as echoed in Jeremiah 29:11 and the wisdom of trusting divine timing.
    🙏 Check out our coaching program, The Ring Formula (www.ringformul...) which coaches professional women to date confidently, gain quality dates so you enjoy future commitment and marriage with results in two months without the stress of figuring out modern dating alone and without results.
    ✨ Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more inspiring content! Drop your thoughts and experiences in the comments below and let's grow together in love and faith.
    #KingdomSpouse #God #FutureSpouse #Jesus #Christianman #Godlyman #Love #GodIsLove #GodlyDating101 #GodlyRelationships #ChristianRelationships #trending

КОМЕНТАРІ • 95

  • @andreajorden1706
    @andreajorden1706 8 місяців тому +24

    Today's message really resonates with me as I try to live my life as a Proverbs 31 woman by the Fruits of the Spirit. It really takes mustard seed faith to know that someone will choose me one day. Thank u once again for lifting my spirits after a recent ghosting/benching situation. I deserve & expect nothing but God's best chosen future spouse in 2024!

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 місяців тому +2

      This warms my heart to be able to encourage. God is able!

  • @candycoatedreams
    @candycoatedreams 8 місяців тому +7

    Thank you for this. You're hilarious 😂. I have a goal of finding my husband in 2024. Might sound a little ambitious, but faith moves mountains and I'm full of it.👩🏾‍❤️‍👨🏾

    • @Kiki-AndBeyond
      @Kiki-AndBeyond 7 місяців тому

      I stand in agreement with you. Nothing is too big for God!

  • @trellisthomas1275
    @trellisthomas1275 8 місяців тому +4

    Absolutely !!! The connection has to be spiritual above else! and My Husband must compliment my purpose and I his.

    • @staywell7217
      @staywell7217 8 місяців тому

      I always say the exact same thing. Thank you, for your comment.

  • @iamtoniadcoleman1879
    @iamtoniadcoleman1879 8 місяців тому +8

    I am definitely a sapiosexual!!! I love a Beautiful mind. I find it just as irresistibly attractive as kindness, gentleness and humility!

  • @jaquelahardin1
    @jaquelahardin1 8 місяців тому +4

    Dr. Tartt, thank you for the message. I really needed to hear this because I am believing in God for a husband and I just don’t know what to do at times. Your videos really help me to look at dating from a different perspective.

  • @rickblackgirlmindset
    @rickblackgirlmindset 8 місяців тому +8

    Dr.Tartt thank you for this one with the biblical insights it resonates. You're funny and definitely a motivator. Many blessings to you and your family.

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 місяців тому

      Thanks so much!

  • @user-hr1in6jj4c
    @user-hr1in6jj4c 8 місяців тому +5

    Another timely , encouraging message ! Your practical , down to earth messages , priceless ! Thank you for all you do, and may God enlarge your territory! Definitely a good listen ! Blessings to you and your family

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 місяців тому

      Thank you so much! This means a lot and I am praying for balance and enlarged territory too. Thank you for your kindness and love. 🙏🏾

  • @ladyd5871
    @ladyd5871 8 місяців тому +2

    This was Awesome! Thank you so much for pouring your heart out! I’m excited about what God is doing relationally in 2024!

  • @giftsonyou501
    @giftsonyou501 8 місяців тому +4

    Free to choose.

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 місяців тому

      Right! God gives us free will!

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Місяць тому

    God really looks at my heart

  • @kjenkins3939
    @kjenkins3939 8 місяців тому +4

    This is one of the best conversations we’ve had Dr Tartt!!! Can this be included in the next round of Ring Formula? Thank you!!

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 місяців тому +1

      You ask for it, you got it! Happy Holidays!

  • @christinerahming-vx8nc
    @christinerahming-vx8nc 8 місяців тому +2

    Awesome content on dating!! I truly appreciate your teaching.

  • @karendougdeengokool9259
    @karendougdeengokool9259 7 місяців тому

    Dr. Tartt, I truly enjoy your videos. God bless your work, your ministry and your family. Your observations and points are so real and genuine. Absolutely excellent.

  • @cherylpopeclark6411
    @cherylpopeclark6411 8 місяців тому +1

    I paused and created my list! I asked my daughter for a couple of things to get me going. That was funny. 😆

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Місяць тому

    I need more self confidence and self identity 🆔

  • @rashadsternes
    @rashadsternes 7 місяців тому +1

    Self Confidence Psalms 139:14
    Be Approachable Psalms 18:24
    Authenticity Matthew 23:25-26
    Communication Skills James 1:19
    Respect & Kindness Ephesians 4:32
    Setting Boundaries Luke 29
    Boundover your Body 1 Corinthians 6:18
    Take Initiative & Find a wife (Be Active)
    Positive & Fun (Believer of the Word)
    Be Patient & Trust in God’s Timing

  • @CBtalks8554
    @CBtalks8554 8 місяців тому +4

    I really appreciate this message of hope. Trusting God as I place myself in a position to be found..❤❤❤❤❤

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 місяців тому +2

      Yes, imagine your future husband feeling like you and wishing you would make it possible to have a conversation.

    • @CBtalks8554
      @CBtalks8554 8 місяців тому

      @@DRTARTT1 I'm sensing it after 29 years as a widow the healing journey from domestic abuse has given me hope for a Beautiful Purpose partner in life to find me.
      💕🙏💕

  • @bonitamcneill3256
    @bonitamcneill3256 8 місяців тому +1

    I am going to go out more Dr Tartt!

  • @bonitamcneill3256
    @bonitamcneill3256 8 місяців тому

    Yes the real person because we are trying to get to know each other.

  • @wpooh6181
    @wpooh6181 8 місяців тому +1

    I saw you for the first time on Mann TV with David on his men's health editions and found your approach in teaching important information uniquely interesting. You could be a force and I will leave it right there! I love your approach and your teaching style. Keep up the excellent work that you are doing. God is making a shift in the universe! for sure!

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 місяців тому +2

      You are for sure an anointed Believer! I so needed to hear this and it convicted me even more. Validation from those close to God matters a lot. Thank you. 🙏🏾

    • @wpooh6181
      @wpooh6181 8 місяців тому

      No thank you! @@DRTARTT1

    • @MariamaKabba-zy9yu
      @MariamaKabba-zy9yu 8 місяців тому

      It’s a very good to have the confidence to talk to someone. I had someone l liked a lot he made an attempt to kiss me one day it l was fasting. I slowly turned him down by only informing him that I was fasting and did not give him any other words. I regret not saying much because I did not have that opportunity again.

  • @lorinakers7934
    @lorinakers7934 8 місяців тому +1

    Good message Dr. Tartt. I Will commit to creating a profile. Thank you

  • @sherry9928
    @sherry9928 Місяць тому

    Good morning and God bless you 😊

  • @melcro8104
    @melcro8104 8 місяців тому +1

    Dr you are good we need you in these churches in the home right away

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 місяців тому

      God is able! Thank you for the kind words.

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Місяць тому

    I was so easy going when l was young

  • @donnaspencer3969
    @donnaspencer3969 8 місяців тому +1

    Excellent content. Very practical techniques and tips. Looking forward to trying them. Love how you and your wife share information. Its a blessing.

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you, Donna.

  • @laandreaellis268
    @laandreaellis268 8 місяців тому +2

    This blessed my soul ❤

  • @bonitamcneill3256
    @bonitamcneill3256 8 місяців тому

    So true Dr Tartt! I just want to have some talks and laugh! No pressure!

  • @jamienl207
    @jamienl207 8 місяців тому +1

    Chargrilled oysters are my favorite ❤️

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 місяців тому

      Yes Lawd! I had them for New Year’s Eve!

  • @fruitsarelife7073
    @fruitsarelife7073 8 місяців тому +1

    Could you make a video on when it’s better to break up with a boyfriend? Even If it was long term. It’s a long distance relationship. I find myself in a cycle of wanting to end it but ending up continue and try again, just to be dissapointed again and wanting to break up.
    Please could you give ultimate „red flags“.

  • @barbarathomas5647
    @barbarathomas5647 8 місяців тому +1

    I love your seminars! ❤

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you!

  • @bonitamcneill3256
    @bonitamcneill3256 8 місяців тому

    Thank you Dr Tartt bc I run from negativity

  • @bobbiemichaelsNyc86
    @bobbiemichaelsNyc86 8 місяців тому +1

    This was so helpful. Thank you

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 місяців тому

      Always can count on you, Bobbie!

  • @reginacooks2310
    @reginacooks2310 8 місяців тому

    Very informative and encouraging. Thank you.

  • @bonitamcneill3256
    @bonitamcneill3256 8 місяців тому

    Thank you! I am looking for fruit!

  • @barefoothippies
    @barefoothippies 8 місяців тому +2

    ❤❤❤ amazing message. thank you!

    • @phyllissimpson2078
      @phyllissimpson2078 8 місяців тому

      Very insightful. Thanks for sharing, and applying scripture. Amen.

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Місяць тому

    I think it's better to be single l do get lonely sometimes

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Місяць тому

    Im trying to educate flourish but its hard sometimes

  • @giftsonyou501
    @giftsonyou501 8 місяців тому

    So true conversation. Get to know each other.

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Місяць тому

    I have been in toxic situations relationship before

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Місяць тому

    I do need to try to be respectful kind l do fall short sometimes of the glory of god when l know better l have been keeping my legs closed lately

  • @shemireyahlilly5521
    @shemireyahlilly5521 8 місяців тому

    Dr. Tartt this is good!

  • @Sadeleh
    @Sadeleh 8 місяців тому

    Great teaching!
    I have a question about transparency..so im stepping into the dating process after a long time, and having a dating profile is one way for me as well. If I’m getting to know more than one men at the same time, should i tell them about it and how long is it appropriate to do that? Like how do guys feel about women dating multiple men (not having sex ofc) or should i keep it to myself once i see which one i like the best and have the best compatibility with before going to a deeper level of getting to know each other?
    Thank you for this video and have a blessed year of 2024 😊

  • @melissawiley3688
    @melissawiley3688 8 місяців тому +1

    Love this ❤🎉

  • @jd869
    @jd869 8 місяців тому +1

    This was really, really good❤

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 місяців тому

      Thank you. 🙏🏾

  • @giftsonyou501
    @giftsonyou501 8 місяців тому

    Yes be real be you.

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Місяць тому

    I wonder 🤔 when am going to settle for a healthy relationship l have been in unhealthy toxic relationships before and it was crazy some things didn't serve me it was just lust a fling that didn't last long

  • @joanrajaballey8852
    @joanrajaballey8852 8 місяців тому

    Amazing advice !

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Місяць тому

    Maybe all find my tribe one day

  • @bonitamcneill3256
    @bonitamcneill3256 8 місяців тому

    A profile! I use your info and some just look at pictures so I say next

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Місяць тому

    Its like l got one foot in church one foot in tge crazy world culture 😮

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Місяць тому

    Please pray for me l gotta have oral facial surgery

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Місяць тому

    I don't think am ready for a relationship 😔 l do get lonely sometimes

  • @bonitamcneill3256
    @bonitamcneill3256 8 місяців тому

    This is good

  • @dtpbach
    @dtpbach 8 місяців тому +1

    19:44 better keep preaching !!!!!!

  • @trellisthomas1275
    @trellisthomas1275 8 місяців тому

    i didn't know my Godfidence was so desirable.

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Місяць тому

    I'm use to dealing with punk's but now am in my 40s

  • @giftsonyou501
    @giftsonyou501 8 місяців тому

    That right not about their money.

  • @gc2137
    @gc2137 8 місяців тому +2

    Sorry but as Christians we're not supposed to be finding spouses in clubs. The Bible says we are to shun the appearance of evil.
    Rahab was Jesus' ancestor, not contemporary. He met people where they were for the purpose of saving lives, not finding a spouse.

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 місяців тому +3

      God allows us to find imperfect people everywhere. Right? There is nothing wrong with dancing and having a good time. Now you know neither of us has lived a perfect life (tone-humor), so let’s not judge and celebrate getting better and better and doing life together righteously. 😀

  • @dtpbach
    @dtpbach 8 місяців тому +4

    17:19 sapiosexuals rock!!!

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Місяць тому

    God children wants us free he really doesn't like his children in bondage

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Місяць тому

    Im doing little bit better

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Місяць тому

    Some people love Jesus

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Місяць тому

    I feel like my works are in vain

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Місяць тому

    Im ugly cute don't know what's going on lol

  • @trellisthomas1275
    @trellisthomas1275 8 місяців тому +2

    wipe the dust off your feet and leave

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 місяців тому

      Right. We have to do the same with negativity, past hurt, insecurity, etc. We need community to do that.

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Місяць тому

    The culture hated Jesus Christ