Non binary here. GenX. I am attracted to women. I had a row with my band over this when they started talking about how all this was a new thing. I felt like I should have been a girl when I was 6. That was in 1979. Not a new thing. Naturally I didn't share these thoughts in fear of ostracization.
You do you, I have no problem with that but what does it feel like to be a woman. I have no idea. I am a woman, I have female genitalia, can get pregnant and give birth and have breasts I can feed an infant from. And then? What? No woman I know can say what it is to feel like a woman because after the biological stuff what does female mean. Femininity is what? A yoke around the neck, we are ‘caring’. So most of the caring is pushed onto us. If we don’t sufficiently ‘care’ are we not feminine enough. I can’t speak for men but maybe the masculine ‘go getter provider’ is a burden around their necks. If gender after biological difference is recognised as a social construct then the ‘I feel like a woman, my feminine side … ‘ and all the rest is just confirming that social construct. I can offer my name, that’s all.
@@pamelahall280Those are very good questions, and ones that I have asked myself over many years. I do not think that a response in text, would come close to answering the points that you have raised, or my take upon them. I think that I will need to talk about it in future videos. I have a few other videos in mind to make first, but 'What is feminity to me' might be a better way of answering. My release schedule is very slow, due to disabilities and health conditions that I have. But this is now on my list of videos to make. Thank you for taking the time to watch my video and comment on it.
@@pamelahall280 I'm not sure I understand the intent of your statement Pamela. It sounds like your suffering from sort of disphoria? Not knowing who you are, or how you feel. Have you talked to anyone about this? Because help exists, and I'm sure some one would like to listen to your issues and help you work this out...
Non binary here. GenX. I am attracted to women. I had a row with my band over this when they started talking about how all this was a new thing. I felt like I should have been a girl when I was 6. That was in 1979. Not a new thing. Naturally I didn't share these thoughts in fear of ostracization.
Thanks for sharing Doug. :)
You need psychological help.
Love the song,
What did you write it with?
Thank you!
Probably a version of Magix Music Maker. I created it about 15 years ago.
@@TheSnowdogsShortsAhhh... nice.
You do you, I have no problem with that but what does it feel like to be a woman. I have no idea. I am a woman, I have female genitalia, can get pregnant and give birth and have breasts I can feed an infant from. And then? What? No woman I know can say what it is to feel like a woman because after the biological stuff what does female mean. Femininity is what? A yoke around the neck, we are ‘caring’. So most of the caring is pushed onto us. If we don’t sufficiently ‘care’ are we not feminine enough. I can’t speak for men but maybe the masculine ‘go getter provider’ is a burden around their necks. If gender after biological difference is recognised as a social construct then the ‘I feel like a woman, my feminine side … ‘ and all the rest is just confirming that social construct. I can offer my name, that’s all.
@@pamelahall280Those are very good questions, and ones that I have asked myself over many years.
I do not think that a response in text, would come close to answering the points that you have raised, or my take upon them.
I think that I will need to talk about it in future videos.
I have a few other videos in mind to make first, but 'What is feminity to me' might be a better way of answering.
My release schedule is very slow, due to disabilities and health conditions that I have. But this is now on my list of videos to make.
Thank you for taking the time to watch my video and comment on it.
@@pamelahall280 I'm not sure I understand the intent of your statement Pamela.
It sounds like your suffering from sort of disphoria? Not knowing who you are, or how you feel.
Have you talked to anyone about this? Because help exists, and I'm sure some one would like to listen to your issues and help you work this out...