Husband on Wife: ‘I am Controlling, Somebody Has to Control Her’

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 215

  • @catrionamurray1381
    @catrionamurray1381 4 місяці тому +90

    I reckon he’s impotent. His ‘refusal’ to be intimate with her is a huge smokescreen to hide the fact that he actually can’t be.

    • @pumpkinslice1811
      @pumpkinslice1811 4 місяці тому +12

      Disgusting he'd rather hurt her and mentally abuse her to save his own ego rather than just tell her the truth.

    • @jonihalder2029
      @jonihalder2029 4 місяці тому +1

      And, why or how could you ever want to be intimate with this moron who degrades, devalues you?

    • @amycurtis535
      @amycurtis535 3 місяці тому

      I think he’s secretly gay. They’re always angry with the wife and women in general.

    • @AmirahJoy
      @AmirahJoy 3 місяці тому +2

      Yep

    • @irideaunicorn1620
      @irideaunicorn1620 3 місяці тому +5

      Or rooting for the other team

  • @pumpkinslice1811
    @pumpkinslice1811 4 місяці тому +168

    She needs to leave this POS and get full custody of the kids before he starts doing the same thing to his daughters!

    • @melindalancaster9648
      @melindalancaster9648 4 місяці тому +3

      Yesssss

    • @mariahoulihan9483
      @mariahoulihan9483 4 місяці тому

      yes.. but he is ALREADY doing it to the girls.. awful man.

    • @MeadeFatLoss
      @MeadeFatLoss 4 місяці тому

      I'm sure she's no angel.

    • @mom2jsh
      @mom2jsh 3 місяці тому

      @@MeadeFatLoss, if she were she damn sure wouldn't be with this POS!

    • @swimfast724
      @swimfast724 3 дні тому

      Yes so true. Honestly he's already doing that, saying to his daughter, pointing at a picture of a model in a magazine "wouldn't you like mommy to look like that?" That's so disgusting. She's going to have serious body issues

  • @alaynaherman
    @alaynaherman 4 місяці тому +40

    This is the most insecure man I’ve ever seen in my life. He reflects his insecurities onto her because he clearly is unhappy with himself and wants to bring her down with him. He is the definition of a narcissist.

  • @Pa-we1lw
    @Pa-we1lw 4 місяці тому +78

    She needs to run and get a good lawyer. Save those notes girl, and get a female judge.

  • @d8bn
    @d8bn 4 місяці тому +67

    So simple - divorce. Divorce. So simple.

  • @gwmpsp420
    @gwmpsp420 4 місяці тому +69

    “It’s the way your family raises you.” Did they raise him to be an AH?

    • @bakerwannabe4435
      @bakerwannabe4435 3 місяці тому +1

      Ummmm yes, most likely, he was raised in this kind of atmosphere….full of abuse.

  • @cupcakejustice2037
    @cupcakejustice2037 4 місяці тому +108

    I am running as fast as i can if my husband treat me like this man.

    • @pumpkinslice1811
      @pumpkinslice1811 4 місяці тому +4

      @robg1358 Oh yeah this guy totally cares about his wife so much 🙄

    • @kaelynn4744
      @kaelynn4744 4 місяці тому +4

      No way this started after marriage, he was like this before as well

    • @MyFungal
      @MyFungal 4 місяці тому +3

      But can't control himself I bet 18 century way of thinking

    • @anneshirley9560
      @anneshirley9560 3 місяці тому +1

      If your husband is this guy, he wouldn't be able to catch you. 🤣🤣

    • @user-xq3od4vk9n
      @user-xq3od4vk9n 25 днів тому

      This man would never have made it to the point of being my husband.

  • @Jessica-rf7lv
    @Jessica-rf7lv 4 місяці тому +78

    "She don't know". Did city boy ever have an English class?

    • @debbielowe5496
      @debbielowe5496 4 місяці тому +5

      I laughed out loud when he said that! Wow!

    • @TessT101
      @TessT101 3 місяці тому +1

      First thing I thought! English/grammar not his strong suit

    • @swimfast724
      @swimfast724 3 дні тому

      Lolololol 😂😂😂😂

  • @sherryburr2090
    @sherryburr2090 4 місяці тому +19

    Please leave this man now ,you are worth more .this man will never change ,never!!!!!

  • @jokendrick2124
    @jokendrick2124 4 місяці тому +50

    This aired in 2008. Would like to know if they stayed together. Hoping she left to save herself and the kids from his behavior.

    • @VideoFanatic02
      @VideoFanatic02 4 місяці тому +25

      No they split up in 2010. She commented on another video on here.

  • @toniemcfadden296
    @toniemcfadden296 4 місяці тому +139

    Who cares if she sits, she's a Mom.. what a disgusting husband

    • @erinmccutcheon3751
      @erinmccutcheon3751 4 місяці тому +7

      She needs to rest.

    • @pumpkinslice1811
      @pumpkinslice1811 4 місяці тому

      @robg1358 lol no woman is marrying you.

    • @chestercopperpot5277
      @chestercopperpot5277 25 днів тому

      She's such a cute pretty blonde with pretty blue eyes. I would treat her like gold. Some people don't know what they have.

  • @cleliaparnell8743
    @cleliaparnell8743 4 місяці тому +64

    Ladies, this charming and fit man is available! Any takers?? I thought NOT!!

  • @marleenbartley3069
    @marleenbartley3069 3 місяці тому +8

    This lady needs to RUN FOR HER LIFE!
    RUN TO PROTECT HER CHILDREN!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @rubywilliamson9013
    @rubywilliamson9013 4 місяці тому +91

    What a jerk

  • @seadragon1456
    @seadragon1456 4 місяці тому +33

    Old fashion regarding housework but doesn’t provide old fashion money for his family? He needs her to work a full time job because his old fashion salary isn’t enough.
    Dang.

    • @jonihalder2029
      @jonihalder2029 4 місяці тому +6

      Yah and then complain because she doesn’t do enough to please him! So she works FT, raises 2 daughters and is expected to cook, clean and so on!!!

  • @MsClemmons
    @MsClemmons 4 місяці тому +75

    This fool really think he is a damn prize 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @beckybrowand2614
    @beckybrowand2614 4 місяці тому +65

    It is best for both of them and kids to divorce

  • @andriesagilbert9232
    @andriesagilbert9232 3 місяці тому +8

    We were friends with a couple whose marraige was exactly like this. In the end he left his wife of 36 years, for another woman. He drove his children away. His eldest son commited suicide, her daughter cut ties with him and his blue eyed boy left and changed his name. For guys like this, the only thing that matters, are themselves.

    • @bakerwannabe4435
      @bakerwannabe4435 3 місяці тому

      That’s awful. I’m curious as to why you remained friends with a couple like this when he was so abusive.

  • @MyHeart1955
    @MyHeart1955 4 місяці тому +37

    He doesn’t get Dr Phil’s sarcasm. Wow

  • @jmallett6081
    @jmallett6081 4 місяці тому +10

    He treats her like a servant, not a wife. Yet doesn't servant get a salary. She works for free, yet has no freedom whatsoever. I can guarantee you that he will not help his wife around the house the way he says. Didn't he just say that it is a woman's job to clean the house? Even if she does everything he says, I doubt he appreciates what she does, he enjoys talking down to her. The reason he does not give her an allowance is because she would save some of that money and get out of there. He makes it where she doesn't have the money to do anything with her life, so she is stuck with him ordering her around. He has got to be one of the most toxic men around, a narcissist.

  • @kayleec4404
    @kayleec4404 4 місяці тому +19

    The expletives I have screamed watching this 🤬 NEVER should anyone put up with this

  • @classicalgas8297
    @classicalgas8297 4 місяці тому +11

    Let's not forget her body has birthed two children! A woman's body will never be the same after the second baby! This makes me so upset!🤬👊🏻

  • @patcatlab5832
    @patcatlab5832 4 місяці тому +24

    Lady you left school a long time ago why do you let this man treat you like a child 😂😂

    • @maryp4579
      @maryp4579 4 місяці тому +1

      Abuse like that typically starts slow and builds - like the boiling frog analogy. And now that they have a child, she's trying to keep the family together like many do rather than seeing there's more harm by staying. I hope she has left.

  • @PatriotafVenise
    @PatriotafVenise 4 місяці тому +31

    One solution- DIVORCE 😅

  • @helgaherbstreit5102
    @helgaherbstreit5102 4 місяці тому +13

    Run girl, Run to life and to live.

  • @RO-zn9co
    @RO-zn9co 3 місяці тому +2

    He doesn't even give her money to spend on herself. What a cheapskate. Typical controlling narcissist.

  • @gena7359
    @gena7359 3 місяці тому +4

    She needs to divorce him and go to therapy, avoid relationships for several years

  • @patriciaanndemello4652
    @patriciaanndemello4652 3 місяці тому +6

    Please lady. Divorce this Narcissist.

  • @BraveInRibbons
    @BraveInRibbons 4 місяці тому +6

    RUN! DON'T WALK!!

  • @user-jn3ld2fm4q
    @user-jn3ld2fm4q 4 місяці тому +5

    How can anyone live with him....I'd be fighting

  • @AnimatedBlast
    @AnimatedBlast 3 місяці тому +3

    She should leave him, take the kids, take the money.

  • @robertalernet2199
    @robertalernet2199 4 місяці тому +12

    She should tell him he needs to lose WEIGHT.

  • @carlintaylor3229
    @carlintaylor3229 4 місяці тому +21

    Clearly who😮raised you failed to teach this guy it's not the 1950s anymore pull your own weight

  • @janebaker4912
    @janebaker4912 4 місяці тому +7

    Divorce is a great thing sometimes.

  • @tejwickliffe1697
    @tejwickliffe1697 4 місяці тому +6

    😮 wow. This man has portrayed himself as a SOB and is so undeserving of his family. Truly.

  • @Phyllyps-Levine
    @Phyllyps-Levine 4 місяці тому +7

    They need to be on Judge Judy getting a divorce.

  • @wandaclark5020
    @wandaclark5020 4 місяці тому +12

    Its 2024 update needed

  • @punkylynneramone1981
    @punkylynneramone1981 4 місяці тому +8

    I would have told him to get bent and do it all himself if he didn't like how I do things. I had a husband similar to him. Ive broken glasses out of anger, threw him my rag and told him do it your fn self if you don't like how i do things. He treated me like I was a complete and total idiot and didn't know how to clean even though i cleaned for a living in a hospital and at Walmart. We've been divorced now for a few years now and his onto his next victim to abuse.

  • @shanebracken8358
    @shanebracken8358 4 місяці тому +5

    The way how he treats her… Digusting!!! >:(
    Horrible Person!!!

  • @dmbindallas
    @dmbindallas 4 місяці тому +4

    This guy really isn’t doing himself any favors

  • @miriam4091
    @miriam4091 3 місяці тому +2

    She is getting very depressed and it will get worse. Time to get out & feel better

  • @lauralarkin2221
    @lauralarkin2221 4 місяці тому +10

    Classic abuser who will never change. Run lady!

  • @tracigodlef8103
    @tracigodlef8103 4 місяці тому +9

    Narcissistic

  • @katarina3711
    @katarina3711 4 місяці тому +4

    “There’s a lot of things she don’t know”
    😂 apparently the English language isn’t something HE knows

  • @dillionrose2782
    @dillionrose2782 3 місяці тому +1

    He wanted to merry someone without a mind...he didn't merry for love....he wanted a care taker....

  • @chandrarajman1725
    @chandrarajman1725 4 місяці тому +4

    If a man who brings you down so much kick his arse and move out

  • @deniseborchardt4491
    @deniseborchardt4491 4 місяці тому +2

    He is insecure in himself to project on her. Narcissist,...... She is so beat down she doesn't stand up for herself. Also, you get to a point to not engage the narcissist anymore. Where are they today?

  • @KM-xm1jr
    @KM-xm1jr 3 місяці тому

    It is way more damaging for her kids to see their mom being treated this way than to divorce.

  • @swimfast724
    @swimfast724 3 дні тому +1

    People say "stay together it's better for the kids" and as a Christian I'm saying staying together is hurting, maybe abusive to their children. Saying to his daughter, pointing at a picture of a model in a magazine "wouldn't you like mommy to look like that?" That's so disgusting. She's going to have serious body issues

  • @tinaguffey1965
    @tinaguffey1965 4 місяці тому +3

    DIVORCE…. He’s no prize. He needs to drop a few pounds himself.

  • @Echo-tk8pz
    @Echo-tk8pz 3 місяці тому +5

    Hubby looks fat to me😂

  • @katiegorman9110
    @katiegorman9110 4 місяці тому +3

    Why did he even marry her if he dislikes her so damn much?! I hope she runs for the hills...

  • @Ashley-es4cq
    @Ashley-es4cq 4 місяці тому +32

    He wants a traditional women yet he’s not a traditional man. He’s abusive, controlling, and an arrogant husband.
    She DESERVES better. MUCH better!

    • @mariannehavisham8323
      @mariannehavisham8323 4 місяці тому

      What about that is not traditional?

    • @Taelyr
      @Taelyr 4 місяці тому +6

      @@mariannehavisham8323traditional men even in the 50’s didn’t talk to their wives like this.

    • @DolphinsPlayingInAquaMoonlight
      @DolphinsPlayingInAquaMoonlight 4 місяці тому

      @@Taelyr Many did. Women had it awful in the 50s. No freedom whatsoever. Many men were abusive and no one stopped it. It was "normal".

    • @Umeshukitsune
      @Umeshukitsune 3 місяці тому +1

      She works full time so he's not providing.

  • @damamae950
    @damamae950 3 місяці тому +1

    "She don't know" what a superior human I am.....

  • @richellegill8442
    @richellegill8442 4 місяці тому +5

    Is this real!? C'mon... She is just sitting there taking this!? Nope. Especially if I had a daughter in the house. I would never let someone talk to me like this

    • @bakerwannabe4435
      @bakerwannabe4435 3 місяці тому +1

      He’s beaten her down in every way over the years. I hope she gets help. If she does, one day she will look back and wonder why she stayed so long but I imagine that it’s very difficult to get out of the bed every morning, knowing you have to deal with that abusive SOB every day. There are organizations for DV that will help her. I hope she tries to get help.

  • @chesspunk489
    @chesspunk489 4 місяці тому +5

    I bet there are skidmarks in his laundry.

  • @jacobalfonso25
    @jacobalfonso25 Місяць тому +1

    That is just awful that she has to sell her things in order to buy things she needs. And and treat her like a slave is just so horrible.

  • @Shopgirl1
    @Shopgirl1 3 місяці тому +1

    He’s so unhappy with himself he’s taking it out on her!!!!

  • @CharlesHuckelbery
    @CharlesHuckelbery 4 місяці тому +3

    Say goodbye to the guy. The wife should leave and find someone who will appreciate and care for her.

  • @susansams1027
    @susansams1027 3 місяці тому +2

    Divorce him NOW!!!

  • @golnaz.shoush
    @golnaz.shoush 4 місяці тому +4

    He is sick

  • @ericworley4361
    @ericworley4361 3 місяці тому +1

    The whole using photos of half naked women as a screensaver with the intention of motivating her to lose weight is incredibly telling. He just automatically believes that she will experience that hurtful moment of seeing the image and think "Ok so i dont want to experience this pain any further, so i guess i better just change to suit his demands so he wont intentionally hurt me like this again." He just assumes that, because he is just so inherently valuable and desireable and important, of course she will be automatically inclined to solve the problem in a way that will please him. He never even considers the other ways she could avoid being hurt by it, such as either ceasing to be interested in his happiness or satisfaction and withdrawing, numbing herself out and finding false fulfillment by engaging in even more destructive eating habits or some other addiction like process, or by simply removing herself from the situations entirely and divorcing him.

  • @fire12731
    @fire12731 4 місяці тому +4

    This guy is Prince Charming 🙄🙄what a jerk

  • @celinesrodriguez9491
    @celinesrodriguez9491 4 місяці тому +4

    She needs to file for divorce

  • @mvc0623
    @mvc0623 3 місяці тому +1

    That man is not a husband .... she should divorce him. Than to be a fake "complete family" ... damn!

  • @erinhoney4880
    @erinhoney4880 4 місяці тому +3

    Please tell me she left him?❤

  • @heathercloete7450
    @heathercloete7450 3 місяці тому +2

    He has not got a clue.

  • @Mary13477
    @Mary13477 4 місяці тому +3

    Narcissist

  • @burlingwillow7140
    @burlingwillow7140 14 днів тому +1

    He’s a big arse bully ! And she takes it .

  • @golnaz.shoush
    @golnaz.shoush 4 місяці тому +2

    She really need to divorce 😢

  • @boppingbetweenworlds8309
    @boppingbetweenworlds8309 4 місяці тому +3

    Are these actors? No way some guy is this doucey and can take himself seriously.

  • @shilohivy4590
    @shilohivy4590 3 місяці тому +1

    Absolutely not

  • @rbwkn
    @rbwkn 3 місяці тому

    I bet if she left him she'd feel so much better, lose weight and gain her confidence. These videos make me so grateful for a loving husband.

  • @chelek1439
    @chelek1439 3 місяці тому

    I had a guy tell me that on my days off I can do the cooking for the wk (he was off work by 3, I worked til 6)& take care of the house. He said he would take care of the cars. I said u don't think I can drive to a dealership? I also said I'm not a maid u can stay in ur house & I'll stay in mine. Needless to say we're no longer together

  • @rachelreid8621
    @rachelreid8621 3 місяці тому +1

    My God. Was he like this before they got married?

  • @mq6389
    @mq6389 4 місяці тому +5

    I feel like this isn’t real …

  • @aliceschmid9697
    @aliceschmid9697 2 місяці тому +1

    Does she give him all her paycheck? Why does she have to sell stuff to get things she needs?

  • @janeclayton151
    @janeclayton151 3 місяці тому

    Remember people, you have a choice. Your Choice should be don't let anyone control you or your agency.

  • @sarahodonnell6957
    @sarahodonnell6957 4 місяці тому +1

    If he truly loved her……………..❤️

  • @hannahhernandez2819
    @hannahhernandez2819 4 місяці тому +2

    He need to meet a Jamaica girl he will see who he leaving a list for 😅😅

  • @marie_FKH
    @marie_FKH 4 місяці тому

    She needs to leave. He is literally teaching their daughters and mom is guilty too of accepting such behavior. He should be teaching his girls through actions to them and their mother what it looks like when a man unconditionally loves a woman and his family. And what respect looks like he has none not for them and certainly not for himself by the looks of him.

  • @alejasalido303
    @alejasalido303 3 місяці тому +1

    Those are actors no real.

  • @Nurse_Kathy
    @Nurse_Kathy 4 місяці тому +3

    I honestly wonder if this is real…these two are reality show trolls. Guys that are REALLY like this would never go on Dr. Phil.

    • @user-gj1pq5zm4l
      @user-gj1pq5zm4l 4 місяці тому +1

      I have never heard of show trolls before, but if that’s what these two are, I’d be surprised. She seems so honestly depressed that it’s hard to believe she’s acting. And he seems so clueless to what Dr. Phil is saying (even Phil’s sarcasm goes over his head) ,that I think he’s fully into himself and fully real. Unfortunately! . I’d like to hear what happened after this.

  • @MrHihihihihi19
    @MrHihihihihi19 4 місяці тому +4

    Yup on my bed they get pushed on the floor just saying lol

  • @cecilyholland5871
    @cecilyholland5871 4 місяці тому +1

    Give him 24 hours with me. If he thinks she doesn’t listen ect ect he’d get a rude shock here.

  • @janinecox256
    @janinecox256 3 місяці тому

    If he knows so much, she should leave on a spa day and leave the kids and the list with him and he will cry uncle in an hour!

  • @tracigodlef8103
    @tracigodlef8103 4 місяці тому +3

    That's not a marriage. ATall dķ

  • @julielucia3930
    @julielucia3930 3 місяці тому +2

    Where can we watch the full episode?

  • @tejeshrimahajan3954
    @tejeshrimahajan3954 3 місяці тому +1

    I can understand he wants stuff done around the house according to his way. But, maybe he is not putting across the thought in the correct manner 😮

    • @deannarounds3295
      @deannarounds3295 2 місяці тому

      Or since they both work he could come home and DO things the way he wants.

  • @DarlingNikki1984529
    @DarlingNikki1984529 3 місяці тому +1

    OMG I followed this video over from another one and I hate him even more! How is that possible? Do it your damn self, Rick.

  • @angelanderson9515
    @angelanderson9515 4 місяці тому +1

    Wow. This guy reminds me of my ex a lot.

  • @LouiseWitkowski-bq8cu
    @LouiseWitkowski-bq8cu 4 місяці тому +1

    With kids involved, no question. Leave now

    • @MeadeFatLoss
      @MeadeFatLoss 4 місяці тому +1

      No that would be a terrible idea.

    • @VideoFanatic02
      @VideoFanatic02 4 місяці тому

      @@MeadeFatLoss No.

    • @MeadeFatLoss
      @MeadeFatLoss 4 місяці тому

      @@VideoFanatic02 yes it would be.

    • @VideoFanatic02
      @VideoFanatic02 4 місяці тому

      @@MeadeFatLoss What? To leave him? It would be a great idea as he is a jerk.

    • @MeadeFatLoss
      @MeadeFatLoss 4 місяці тому

      @@VideoFanatic02 think of the children. They would be without a father.

  • @opallynch4815
    @opallynch4815 3 місяці тому

    Batman is a narcissistic and that woman is worse for staying with him and being treated like that

  • @suzanneking6693
    @suzanneking6693 3 місяці тому +2

    Has he looked in the mirror lately?!

  • @sherryburr2090
    @sherryburr2090 4 місяці тому +1

    Your kids are so damaged already

  • @laurenleclaire9512
    @laurenleclaire9512 3 місяці тому

    DIVORCE NOW

  • @schreehowarth9936
    @schreehowarth9936 3 місяці тому

    Run 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ he's a control freck...

  • @lanchparty
    @lanchparty 3 місяці тому

    He’s a jerk, but if she doesn’t work outside of the home, keeping the house is her job. He’s a real piece of work though.

    • @danacamp5437
      @danacamp5437 3 місяці тому +1

      She works full time just like him.

    • @lanchparty
      @lanchparty 3 місяці тому

      @@danacamp5437 Oh, heck no! Split those duties! What a turd.

  • @spacetimetuberose6543
    @spacetimetuberose6543 4 місяці тому +2

    Plz give update

  • @rabidturnip78
    @rabidturnip78 4 місяці тому +1

    Are both of these people real or...blobs of marshmallows