My husband is an ESFJ, from his qualities which I find very attractive and admirable: 1. Very traditional at times and family-oriented 2. Charismatic and playful with children as a medical doctor who runs his own clinic 3. Understanding, awesome with empathy
Love high Fe people! They understand that vibes are important things, while other low Fe type including me tend to ignore or destroy the vibes sometimes without realizing it 😅😅
My husband is an ESFJ, from his qualities which I find very attractive and admirable: 1. Very traditional at times and family-oriented 2. Charismatic and playful with children as a medical doctor who runs his own clinic 3. Understanding, awesome with empathy. Also very generous, loving and kind whenever capable
In some schools of thought, Ti / Fi are introverted judging cognitive functions that have to do with self accountability & responsibility. While Fe / Te are extraverted judging cognitive functions related to group accountability & responsibility. Thus, Ti has to do with self accountability and making sure things make sense to you and discerning what you think of things, and letting the group take care of itself.
There are two ways to center Fe: either as an observer of the group or as a part of the group. Both provide insight into the group, but only one can also accurately incorporate the thoughts and feelings of the Fe user. In my experience, immature Fe users can default into the former category, resulting in a kind of sidekick or outside observer / host rather than an integrated part of the group. Healthy use of Ti allows the Fe user to create a mental framework that allows the Ti user to see themselves as just as valuable, but not more than any other in the group, so the Fe user can factor their personal thoughts and feelings into the group.
Maybe a better wording would be like: «I struggle with sticking to or creating logical principles I really believe in and being consistent within those, because I instead want to please others and make them feel good in the moment».
It's really interesting that the traditional view is that they are last place in their heads but in real life I have not experienced this with them. They know how to take care of themselves and I have learnt some good lessons watching how they look after themselves.
You're blessed to have met mature ESFJ'S in your life or have very developed Ti When I was younger, I would do things or attend events or say things just to make others happy to replace my own happiness or needs. In social events, I'd make sure everyone I met felt good around me, even if I didn't feel good or felt anti-social. Also, as a people pleaser I would feel horrible when someone didn't like me for no reason or felt depreciated....this is what I meant by "last place" in my head
@@RetroXRicardo I think people pleasing is a completely separate issue lots of people struggle with that regardless of type. I struggled with that for a really long time
My husband is an ESFJ, from his qualities which I find very attractive and admirable: 1. Very traditional at times and family-oriented 2. Charismatic and playful with children as a medical doctor who runs his own clinic 3. Understanding, awesome with empathy. Also very generous, loving and kind whenever capable.
My husband is an ESFJ, from his qualities which I find very attractive and admirable:
1. Very traditional at times and family-oriented
2. Charismatic and playful with children as a medical doctor who runs his own clinic
3. Understanding, awesome with empathy
bro literally said 🤗
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Lmao double wave 😆 👐
That says ESFJ enuff for me
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This was so much fun! Makes my Fe very happy to help. You're the best Joyce! 🤗
If I had any doubts Ricardo, they are now gone lol Definitely an ESFJ 😂😂
Haha, I always thought so too! 🤗
Love high Fe people! They understand that vibes are important things, while other low Fe type including me tend to ignore or destroy the vibes sometimes without realizing it 😅😅
Who cares
Such a delightful video! Beautifully articulated. Ricardo reminds me a lot of my ESFJ friend. ❤
My husband is an ESFJ, from his qualities which I find very attractive and admirable:
1. Very traditional at times and family-oriented
2. Charismatic and playful with children as a medical doctor who runs his own clinic
3. Understanding, awesome with empathy.
Also very generous, loving and kind whenever capable
I'm an esfj too and I love this! Please keep going with all the other types too can't wait to see them!!
Just look at his expressions. They is how typical Fe doms express
Engaging & informative short! I am curious how Fe & Ti placements work for someone with a cluster B personality disorder (e.g. narcissism). 🤔
The Fe entrance is so true !
He might be ENFP also or ENFJ. I think the nf types can also be really bubbly like that
I was typed as an ENFJ in a few tests. My "S" sensing and "N" intuition are getting very close as I got older 👍
A colleague of mine, absolutely.
this sounds like my friend lol
Hey can you do it for Te doms?
I'm sure it's coming
I don't get what's Ti got to do with own needs?
In some schools of thought, Ti / Fi are introverted judging cognitive functions that have to do with self accountability & responsibility. While Fe / Te are extraverted judging cognitive functions related to group accountability & responsibility. Thus, Ti has to do with self accountability and making sure things make sense to you and discerning what you think of things, and letting the group take care of itself.
There are two ways to center Fe: either as an observer of the group or as a part of the group. Both provide insight into the group, but only one can also accurately incorporate the thoughts and feelings of the Fe user. In my experience, immature Fe users can default into the former category, resulting in a kind of sidekick or outside observer / host rather than an integrated part of the group. Healthy use of Ti allows the Fe user to create a mental framework that allows the Ti user to see themselves as just as valuable, but not more than any other in the group, so the Fe user can factor their personal thoughts and feelings into the group.
Maybe a better wording would be like: «I struggle with sticking to or creating logical principles I really believe in and being consistent within those, because I instead want to please others and make them feel good in the moment».
I’M AN ESFJ TOO!! :3 WE’RE SO NICE AND COOL
Awesome! Go ESFJ team! 👊👊👊
Is that from Ti?
Ti is my 4th function as an ESFJ. So it's Fe, Si, Ne and then (Ti)
It's really interesting that the traditional view is that they are last place in their heads but in real life I have not experienced this with them. They know how to take care of themselves and I have learnt some good lessons watching how they look after themselves.
You're blessed to have met mature ESFJ'S in your life or have very developed Ti
When I was younger, I would do things or attend events or say things just to make others happy to replace my own happiness or needs. In social events, I'd make sure everyone I met felt good around me, even if I didn't feel good or felt anti-social.
Also, as a people pleaser I would feel horrible when someone didn't like me for no reason or felt depreciated....this is what I meant by "last place" in my head
@@ItsmesmileyfaceExactly!
@@RetroXRicardo I think people pleasing is a completely separate issue lots of people struggle with that regardless of type. I struggled with that for a really long time
My husband is an ESFJ, from his qualities which I find very attractive and admirable:
1. Very traditional at times and family-oriented
2. Charismatic and playful with children as a medical doctor who runs his own clinic
3. Understanding, awesome with empathy.
Also very generous, loving and kind whenever capable.