The Dark Side of NoFap | How Lakshman Conquered Indrajit
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- Опубліковано 6 бер 2019
- In today's video, I speak on the tumultuous, mercurial, rage-like traits that can unfold on this discipline, and the potential pitfalls of the amount of bravado a personality can take on after a period of cultivating sexual energy. In particular, there is a parallel to draw from a Hindu narrative.
Keep the rage. But make it a serene rage.
Nikhil
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/ nrajapandey
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Hallaa by Amit Trivedi
• Hallaa | Lyrical Audio...
Day 11: I killed Thanos
@Kevin Louey He went for the balls
day 12: i lifted the multiverse
😲
In day 9 I actually felt like super saiyan...true
Day 20:i killed darkseid
Me: *Begins to relate to said extraordinary anger.
Captain Sinbad: This doesn't apply if you have like a 4 day streak or something.
My 6 hour streak: oh...
That sounds more like resentment and envy rather than primal lust and primal wrath. There's a difference.
4 days in and I’m trying to choose between sinking my fingers into the Earth & ripping it in half, and calling all the prostitutes. All. Of. Them.
Mac Tireliath underrated comment
I’m 17 and I feel much more aggressive just after 3 days
lol
Mike Tyson NoFapped for 5 years and this explains everything.
Mike tyson was crazy. He nofapped himself into psychosis and rage.
Did he have sex though?
prudence fitzenstein nope
You’re an idiot, he didn’t no fap for 5 years, he didn’t have sex for 5 years there’s a difference
Cocaine explains alot too
Dark side of no fap: you can go super Saiyan at any moment
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CarbonBeast 😂 lol 😂
true
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Indeed.
After a long period of NoFap, a thief broke into my house.
And I ended up breaking 2 fingers on my right hand from the earth-shaking punches that I gave to that man's skull.
Probably gave him brain injuries, I never knew.
I'm on day 46 of hardmode nofap & I can easily admit that the rage is real.
R u watching lots of tv/UA-cam/video games? I noticed if I consume a lot of media while doing no fap I get really irritable/emotional/angry u should try a media fast you'll become a lot happier the stimulation of stuff like UA-cam and tv is unheard of but u don't really notice it when your fapping because your numb but once u stop fapping it can become upsetting
@@Bushey4545 thats the main problem, stimulations when are lessens cure thatt!
Playing God of war helps some anger lol
@@Bushey4545 depends on what you watch. Useful information seems to be calming. I prefer bushcraft videos.
Hardmode is the problem. Its better to do taoist semen retention, when you fap but don't ejaculate, you experience one orgasm that neutralises the rage and frustration
The Dark Side of the Force is a pathway to many abilities some consider to be unnatural.
hahahaha
I love this !!!
@@renegarcia7011 Did you ever hear the tragedy of Darth Plagueis the wise?
@ThisNerd Talks You will not stop me, Darth Vader will become more powerful than either of us!
*Dies ROTFLing* 😂🤣😭💀⚰👻
The insomnia thing is real. Hitting my longest streak in quite some time and lately I’ve been waking up around 3am with a ton of restlessness. Need more outlets. The energy build up is real.
Yes. I have been experiencing the same thing for 5 months and restlessness, anxiety and panic feeling doesn't leave me alone. How can i get rid of them?((
Try working out with higher intensity, meditating longer or in different styles, start a new hobby that challenges your brain like reading or learning a language. Really just do what you can to exhaust yourself with healthy outlets.
Go to gym or practice martial arts
Excercise harshly
Take up swimming 🏊
Semen = veerya (In sanskrit).. Veer + ya = veerya.. Veer = warrior, ya = Just a sound after almost every sanskrit word.. Veerya simply means which makes you fearless warrior.. You conserve so much energy that whatever you do, you put some extra energy into it knowingly or unknowingly.. It makes you more angry, more needy, more strong, everything is more.. Unless and until you learn to control your mind and your senses through meditation or yoga..
Interesting, so if we pair NoFap with mindful meditation etc we will be able to channel the new energy appropriately without it intensifying other emotions/instincts?
@@colepeltier8472 Exactly..!
Yes I feel like this power has a lot of yang and you have to balance it with yin. Meditation, yoga, music, hell crying if necessary
so we need to be medicated and suppress our emotions? hmm maybe that's a sign that celibacy is wrong and unnatural. Porn addictions is problematic but so is abstinence.
@@Oldheadontheblock No need for medication, you need to meditate to channel your Veerya (semen) into Ojas (vigour). I think you might have misread "meditation" as "medication" but it could also be that OP's edited comment said "medication" originally.
Nonetheless, celibacy is neither wrong nor unnatural, just esoteric and needs a great deal of self-awareness and watchfulness over one's body and mind.
As a hindu trying to practice brahmacharya, it's so nice to know that there are other Indian-(Americans?Canadians?) like you who are taking a hindu approach to a modern problem of pornography/nofap. Love our heritage. Cheers brotha.
Indian-American. I likewise am happy to see that there are others like me
no your heritage is trash, mine beter
Religion is utter bullshit and Hinduism is one of the shittier ones
@@TheUnique69able True
@@TheUnique69able, do you know the real name of Hinduism??!!
Even Shaktiman was a brahmachari. 😜😜😜
haha no doubt
Mukesh khanna is still brahmchari.
He had taken oath in mahabharat but following in real life
Hahahaha.....
@@MMaheshThakur seriously
That dude was so angry all the time that he could fly any moment while making weird sex sounds. With ofcourse his finger up in the sky.
Day 600 of nofap:- *BRING ME THANOSSSSSSS!!!!*
Yes
Why bro what is this behaviour
@@shrithanosmaharaj8679 yo bro how are you❤️
So.. You can't even resist seeing thanos 😂. Come on man... Thanos ain't that sexy.
Thank you brother had laugh after a while 😂🙏🏼
Everything has a dark side. Even poison is medicine depending on time, place and the quantity
Meditation and rage while on Nofap is like hippy combat: peace, love and heavy artillery. 😁
I'm a big fan of hippy aggression
+ weed + intermediate fasting, plant based diet, cold shower = supreme
@@designnchoice7952 - weed
@@jagosevatarion8822 who takes weed ?!😂😂😂
@@manusingh2507 lots of degenerates takes weed. Weed makes you weak and stupid.
It feels so great to see your channel growing everyday...
TRUE!
The anger feels nice. I felt deprived of energy for years, and doing nofap has been an immense source of motivation and strength.
Rather than simply calling it rage, I think it's helpful to qualify it more as something like a warrior's energy. You'll notice that it tries to conquer or dominate, but becomes destructive when idle and undisciplined. Just as a warrior needs training to turn raw physical prowess into martial ability, so the mind must train this energy, honing aggression into ambition.
I think it's more of calibration. Your coming out of the fog and just like alcoholics you are gonna have withdrawals. The rush of aggressiveness is like the fever that an alcoholic has when quitting cold turkey.
@@eldirtyfaygo5395 No because it never goes away. If it's a withdrawal, it should go away with time but it always stays with you. You can ask about this from monk who never ejaculated in his life and he will answer the same
Ever since I started nofap, I get deeper sleeps. Also, my body wakes up within 5 hours of sleep, not feeling tired but with an eagerness to go and hit the gym. It's unbelievable for me since I never believed I can do without at least 7 hours of sleep.
PS- I'm on no fap since 1.5 months now.
Good for you. I can't beak the loop!
Interesting. I'm a Christian and I noticed in the Bible they also mention meditating on God daily as an important daily practice. For most Christians it's rote practice but if done correctly, it really impacts how you view life
@Quarantine mushroom Joshua 1:8 "This Book of the Law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate in it day and night, that you may observe to do according to all that is written in it. For then you will make your way prosperous, and then you will have good success."
Yeah Lord Jesus also practised Bhramachya ( Celibacy)
Dont try to appropriate Meditation now!!!! Meditation is an entirely Hindu/Eastern cocept
@@mghector2059 Meditation is literally in the Bible. It's a bit different from Hindu meditation. And don't accuse me of appropriating meditation. I'm Indian too, I've studied meditation as part of my culture and I meditate on God's word as an Indian Christian.
@@mghector2059 if you’re a christian the. you are actually commanded to meditate
6 hours no fap I can see through walls and move objects with my mind.
😅
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That's amazing! How did you go so long?
What are you moving right now?
🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂
The way you say what up king makes me feel almost royal lol
haha great
yeahh , you are actually right man , because i don't really get angry normally , but once when i am angry , i become the GOD OF DEATH .
plz reply me on messenger !!!
Kira??
I still love This animated Ramayana first watched in cartoon network
😁yeah
My only issue is the portrayal of Rama with light skin.
@@honest_bishop5905 doesn't matter
Day 936: I ascended into the 3rd heaven with the Creator himself. I’m channeling this message through another highly spiritual human whose on day 528.
3rd heaven people use face book. Interesting.
Your study is very deep. God bless you. Jay Shree Ram
Thank you, Jai Shri Ram
Jai*
Harnessing the rage is key. One weekend my friends came to visit me and we were going out and my habits slipped for just a day. But as the weekend progressed, I became very impatient with their BS and laziness around my apartment. Just their inability to do their own dishes or clean up after themselves made me soo angry for no reason.
Thank you for making me aware to this inner rage that we need to consistently control!
Thank you for speaking on balance on this journey. I mostly hear about people feeling like a boss, like the world is theirs to take. But I can see how they’ve overlooked the fact that balance is important. Thanks for bringing this up. Keep up the good work!
Just a thought, the anger energy must be put in some physical activity (gym etc) to get a win win circumstance.
Put it into learning martial arts. Someone pisses you off at the bar? Knock them out with a single punch. Security guard has something to say now? Knock them out too. Fuck it... This far might as well knock out everyone else in the bar...
@@user-zm5sk4ht9c Pathetic. One slap is enough.
@ZAHID HASAN try meditating and breathing practice ..I never felt that way.I was aggresive but after starting to retain my semen i feel like a flying bird light and free .Free from any type of mental burden.
But before that, what makes us angry? What is that in the semen?
W711 seems like a video refference to slap
The only problem I'm having with this life is that I look down on people who do not follow a similar belief.
Same with me 😶🤣🤣🙄
Whew WHOOO eiy ewiey who! The horses mouth speacks and i am vindicated. 🐎🐴📢 Right when this no fap thing started, i knew it would lead to this. The same old cultish crap from the past having another go at it. Humanity learns nothing. Do you ever wonder why there are only three big magor religions in the world, or just two if you're frank about it? It couldn't of all just been super convincing theological arguments. Sexual supression leads to bad bad things jimmies. XD
@@thedarkmaster4747 thats a freudian lie to make people live degenerate lives
You sound like the type of person that revels in any excuse to feel "better" than others.
Fix that first. You have bigger problems than nofap.
@@urphakeandgey6308 I am aware and I do hope that you're also aware that by talking in the manner that you're talking right now kind of places you in the same place.
gautama budha , swami vivekananda, and many other people ...have a peaceful mind .. so its all in mind...no fap is amazing ...but the anger the frustation you are talking about can be controlled
yes but they were meditating ceaselessly through all their actions
@@CaptainSinbad You can mediate without sitting at a place. Just focus on what you are doing try to do it best in shortest time possible.
@@CaptainSinbad Lakshmana used to get very angry. But I don't think Hanumana or Bheeshma got so angry often.
@Space Cowboy yeah thug life 🤣
@@pallabbiswas947 Bhishma killed 10,000 soldiers each day for 10 days in the war. He was unstoppable in the battlefield.
Thank you. I love you brotha! My life is changing everyday. I was a drug addicted and I needed that high to live. Now I've found it through this discipline. It's kind of scary on how similar the feelings are. I now see my sexual release as wasted energy. I used to let girls I liked control a part of who I was but now they have nothing I want. I love women. I love everyone. The ego wants to take but the heart wants to give.
The way he told Ramayan in English was awesome
Day 31 , Punched a wall out of anger today
Now, angry on my fist for getting broken...
Been 6 months how's it going ?
@@alqualonde2998 on off 👀
@@BadassBobY not a bad thing. Anger is a real problem and some people won't be able to overcome it. İf you are doing it for quality of life i would suggest you combine it with dopamine detox and fap with a regular interval.
Dopamine detox is basically no fap but for a day of the week you abandon all your sources of pleasure. And on the other days you try to limit it so you lower your dopamine tolerance. İt helps you enjoy more things and thus also helps with the anger. Hope this helps
Edit of course preferably regular interval is calculated at weeks lol
@@alqualonde2998 yeah bro, Trying nofap, failing but have learnt quite a lot from past failures, started working out daily And some other self improvement stuff
@@alqualonde2998 thanks a lot 😍
Dude you just reminded me of the Ramayana anime movie. I haven't seen it in many, many years. I loved it as a kid.
@Politically WOKE Hindus Islam is the best
@Politically WOKE Hindus how so?
@Accidental Genius *not killing
Thank you for the clarity. I've definitely felt a lot of anger if I slack off with my diciplines through this journey. I now see why
Why does he sound like neo in matrix
Because of no fap.He is becoming the One.
@@Giorgos579 😆😆😆🔥🔥🔥daamnnnnn
Lol
@@Giorgos579 the no fap profecy!
Let's hope he didn't take the red pill...
100% true...if you pursue no fap then meditation is necessary or else you will be so stressed out and always gets angry. Well said💯
Makes sense. It's exactly why I've killed the MGTOW community. Today is my 60-day anniversary. Yes I have extreme aggression on no fap and have been working on dealing with it. The cultivation is the part I haven't yet figured out. There are yoga postures that can help, channeling it into the kundalini? I will be discussing this soon.
Damage by hurting people's feelings is really common with nofap rage...I have also been curt with people in daily life. Wow, the serene rage is something I also feel I have gotten down to an extent. I don't believe in removing my rage. I think it is beneficial to men when channeled.
YogiOabs the rage is a mans edge and greatest asset when directed along the proper lines. Not surprised at all that you’re at 60 days. The proper postures can make a huge difference. Headstands for instance.
YogiOabs i think you’ve done an excellent job of communicating serene rage. It’s funny that someone like EI would call it unstable. You’re not unstable, just charged
@@CaptainSinbad Haha, he went on a slanderous rampage. It was bait I guess. But it's what happens to everyone, they get slandered when there is an opportunity. Yes I've heard these inversion postures can help. I've felt pretty good lately actually, and I will try the headstands, thank you.
I would really suggest doing your homework before dabbling with Kundalini. It's not advisable to raise it just because you can, with a couple of postures. In traditional Tantra, there is a lot of prep work that goes into it - purification and balancing of the Tattwas, Gunas and Kleshas come before any kind of energy work. Otherwise, it would be akin to blowing air into a balloon that is designed to pop immediately. The west always want quick fixes to everything, don't let that carry over to this.
@@CaptainSinbad Brother, i have a problem. Im literally masturbating or humping my matras while sleeping/half sleeping. Is this normal?
Really needed this!
I'm a very calm, serene guy normally, and after discovering this whole topic i tried it for a month. I found so many benefits especially with my creative juices (im a musician&composer)
BUT i got into more arguments with family and 'almost' fights playing sports than ever before! Luckily my gf calmed me down which coincided with her fertile period (as we're currently ttc)
Back onto it tomorrow...
Thanks for the advice & help
Today was the first day I really slacked on my daily routine while on retention and no wayyy. I lashed out at everybody today. Thank you for highlighting how important it is to follow my routine and transmute my energy! This is why I subscribed!
Nikel, awesome context man. Really good explanation and breakdown of the example of Ramayan! I'm hindu myself although have been agnostic but it's time for me to explore more of my culture and use its good knowledge for betterment of my self.
bro had to comment. discovered your videos a while back and i'm noticing changes as you go. congrats your energy and charisma levels are off the charts on this one. the anger is perhaps your energy hitting the manipura chakra and releasing pent up anger as well giving you space (less tolerance for BS). It'll subside soon, or more accurately, the intensity will remain and increase, you'll just be able to control it better and the anger will turn to quiet confidence.
No fap made me too overpowered now I have to nerf myself everyday
😂😂😂😂 zoinks
This shit killed me💀💀💀
The devs should definitely patch this
LMFAAAAOOOO
This man is intensely likable, it's in his eyes and facial expressions and the way they are congruent with the loftiness of his thinking.
For me it seems like it is pure emotion over strictly anger or rage. Over time it just causes all things joy, sadness whatever to become more powerful.
This is pretty much exactly what I'm going through.. haha wow. The build up keeps me up at night, and in the day I'm cranky and short tempered, the cycle only seems to be broken when I break nofap. But now definitely going to give meditation a shot. Thank you for this video King!
Melatonin at night brah. You’re welcome.
@@avilla7934 What is that? isn't that the color of the skin? lol
Erioch Stomp melanin is the pigment in cells but melatonin is a...ermmm Idk what it is bro just take it trust me
What building up my guy. You're not suppose to masturbate.
Day 93: when I start to walk, I don't move. I'm moving Earth beneath my feet.
I think it's awesome you are putting this info out there. Countless people talk about the fact that they are doing nofap and they just mean they are not masturbating or having sex. They haven't even heard about transmuting the energy, which is so dangerous. This happens with so many different things. People hear about something new and jump on it without doing any research and totally missing the point. I hope more people watch this video.
Earned yourself a new subscriber with this video. I love branching out and broadening/deepening understanding of these ideas through different cultures. Also cool to hear someone be able to pronounce the Hindu characters and words properly haha, adds a little more weight to these stories compared to my attempts to read them
haha awesome man, thanks for watching
24 days nofap, in the past week I’ve started to notice my manliness back. I can almost feel my testosterone coming back.
first last congrats man all the best to you cheers keep pushing and fighting hard.
So u were gay before
😃💪🏻💪🏻
Bud,How old are u? I am on 25th day and going though hell.
your videos are always on point. Im feeling this immense anger even though I work out to exhaustion. I can feel the energy still there. And being angry gets me even more angry cause i couldn't control myself
Perhaps chastening the local heathen would help quell thy righteous holy fury? XD
I thought no fap just brought some peace of mind. This is way deeper than I expected. You're also teaching me stuff about Hinduism that even my Hindu parents proabably didn't know.
Isn't it interesting that metaphors and myth reveal a lot more than just objective scientific explanations about the human psyche and experience?
@Jon Boner Facts don't influence as much as stories with beautiful metaphors and great lessons do. We are a story loving animals. That's how we as a civilization work.
Really like how you tied the NoFap anger in with the hindu stories, always a fan when Jordan Peterson ties in with mythological things.
A different book that does a great job of mixing life lessons with mythological stories is called Iron John by Robert Bly. Fucking incredible book. You can't see a video about it on my channel because I didn't make one but my lord is it a good book. Highly recommend
I'll check it out man. Thanks for the recommendation.
One of my favorite books on Masculinity.
Memeorandum of Understanding lol
Hindus have many mythological story but Ramayan and Mahabharat is our history not mythology
@@MMaheshThakur Mythology*
Excuse me, Queen here 👸🏾 who loves your posts!
Plz go away 🏃 we r no fappers don't distract us... 😌😌😣😣😖
dont ugh you are risking my 15 days of nofap
@@ravikumar-sr6sz i don't know why but your emojies are cute
@@ravikumar-sr6sz ahahahahhaa right
@@ravikumar-sr6sz hilarious 😂😂
Definitely a quality video on the topic with some concentrated and useful information, very much appreciated!
Aayu, Teju, Balam, Veerya, I can imagine how much serious research you are doing.
That’s interesting. I always thought it to be frustration, but yea it makes a lot sense.
Another beautiful video and perspective, Nikhil. Thank you for sharing.
thank you man, once again
I LOVE the Ramayan! Its one of my favorite stories! Thanks for combining that with brilliant modern and traditional wisdom, made this fun to watch
I'm looking through your videos and they're all so damn good, I literally can't wait to watch them all.
I don't know, I've been on the nofap train since early January and I don't have any issues with anger. my biggest annoyance is recurring lewd thoughts from my past porn addiction, but I feel it's slowly getting better. but if seems to be cyclical, two weeks of serenity and two weeks of intense sexual frustration... still, this is the most transformative thing I've ever experienced, it's like I'm discovering life again!
Words of Wisdom- "don't make me angry, you don't want to see me angry"- Bruce Banner Incredule Hulk. Haha just joking buddy! Great video
Dude! Hulk WAS a brahmachari too!
On day 56 now and the past few weeks, I'm actually experiencing this rage or aggression mentioned in this video. I've always been a non-confrontational type of person and anger has always had a negative connotation to it. It's associated with losing control and etc. But, this rage I'm currently experiencing is something else. It's like having this Tiger within you that you can set out to attack anyone who messes with you. And at the same time, there's a calm like zen that comes with this aggression. Like you can seem calm one moment and go ape shit crazy the next. In a good way that is. Haha. Love this channel man. It really helped me a lot on this journey. :D
Well put. It’s not typical rage. The tiger apology is good
Hey Tiger, Did u find any benefits?
I could relate what you're saying to what is going on in my life. Thanks Sinbad. Beautiful narrative aptly added a meaning to the topic!
Moss Zhimo awesome, thank you for watching
Thanks Nikhil ! These are my favorites videos on your chanel :) ! I've been practicing for two months and we clearly need more ressources on brahmacharya on youtube. By the way what's the name of this anime ? It seems really cool :)
thanks man -- I'll be sure to touch back on this topic more frequently. The movie is awesome. Rama: Prince of Ayodha
Thank you 🙏🏼 !
@Godavari Joshi you are god damn right
You are awesome dude! And has been a real mentor to me . Have failed so many times, cursed myself but now I am back again, currently on 6th day, which at some point of time just seemed impossible.
Have started my own hindi UA-cam channel on nofap to get connected to other nofap brothers to be accountable to myself and those who connect with me, because I believe walking the same journey in a team does pay off.
With whatsoever experience I have, I can proudly say Nofap is the best thing that has happened to me.
Yeah man. I agree with what you said because I had an episode of rage and aggression at the job to a higher up while on NOFAP. Meditation has helped me out a lot but I’ve realized that I’m much more aggressive in many aspects than I was before. Before watching this video I was concerned with the future because I didn’t know what issues could arise if I don’t tackled the aggression issues now and nip it in the butt. Thanks my dude
Beautiful n v honest advice backed with great ancient knowledge ..
Sadhna n disciplines are the keys.
Keep it up nikhil bro
Cool Stories...very inspiring...Thx for sharing , Nikhil. What Annals do contain these tales ? Best wishes, go for it !
These stories come from the Ramayan and the Mahabhaarat
Use your anger, harness your rage!
More than a year nofap..
Don't forget Bhishma Pitamah from the Mahabharata storyline and obviously Lord Parshuram !
Edit: you had mentioned about Bhishma Pitamah, which I saw later. My bad!
Although, Lord Hanuman was always an ascetic and never had an uncontrolled outburst, nor did he had any lust, atleast none is mentioned about him in the Ramayana. We need to separate these things in terms of bringing it to conscious mind and also of the transfusion of it via yogic practices. What I mean is "Not Ejaculating" is just the start to the path of brahmacharya/Sanyasa and should not be seen as the same as christian version of celebacy. Over time, with practices, physical and metaphysical in nature, the person mentally also gives up the sexual aspect or "kaama".
We also need to differentiate b/w Sanyasa and Brahmacharya as Sanyasa is someone who had gone to the "Grihatha" ashram and later left it or gave it up. A brahmachaari is who has never indulged in sexual activities of any kind and is actively practicing ways of focusing his energy on other aspects of life for his growth...in Lord Hanuman's case, devotion to Lord Ram. Lord Hanuman was trained by none other than Lord Surya and Lord Shiva himself in his childhood and hence there was no scope of "lust" as by the time he became an adult, he already was in control of not only his body, but also his mind because of the metaphysical training involved(including Yoga-Not the physical bendy-bend aspect but the kundalini energy aspect and also definitely physically intensive activities which transformed his energy from the start itself and that is why he is revered so much).
In my case, the anger you talk about turns into self-confidence. In this situation, I am not afraid of anything. I often make decisions that bring real changes in my life at these times.
+ I also think that it is this rage effect that boxers look for when they 'no fap' before a fight.
The dark side of which you speak, I call it the spartan spirit ahou ahou ahou
Using google translate btw^^
Amazing video Be Blessed by the DIVINE!
Please keep making more of these Vids caption, you're the only reason I've been able to embark on this beautiful journey. 💐Much love.
Your channel came across my feed. Love your work ! It’s great to see more Western-Indians in the airwaves.
It is sorely needed in our time.
I grew up Irish Catholic. I still am. However, decades of judo, introduced me into Zen Buddhism and ultimately Hinduism. I read the Gita by Ramakrishnan. It is a profound work to say the least. To this day still has a profound effect on my life.
Your video reminded of that just now.
Peace brother !
John Knight geeta is from epic mahabharat. It is just tiny part. If u wanna dive in ocean then read veda vedanta and upnished. All western scientist read it but never gave credit.
NoFap from January 1, 2019 to today April 26, 2019 here.
TA Videos how about today?
just no fap?...is sex is ok too?....pls kindly explain...semen retention does not only include no fap but . no sex too?
Kingtot Pogs semen should only be used to Produce babies
@@woawolf ..wow... you mean to say... you only have to have sex if you want to have a baby..sex is an amazing gift to a married couple so why we should refarain from having sex?..i think i can't live without it...
@@conjit09 sex is ok
The most angry and fearsome warrior PARASHURAM was also a strict celibate....
I do not know about Parashuram, I'll look into him!
@CAPTAIN SINBAD
PARASHURAM WAS PITAMAH BHISMAH's gurudev...
Love hearing about these stories. Thank you my brother. You gained a new subscriber.
Agree entirely, sankalpa + sadhana. Excellent points raised, all the best
Thank you for your good insights into NoFap! Even though I am a Christian pastor, I glean a lot of wise nuggets of knowledge from you and your Hindu worldview. Your advice has really helped me a lot in my own spiritual journey as well. God is surely great! I’d be curious to hear your response sometime to readings in Christian literature like in the Bible on semen retention or St. Augustine’s “Confessions” where he prays to God for continence (which is like bramacharya), which only comes by divine grace. I hope God may grant your wish to be a leading actor, especially it be cool if you played a Catholic celibate priest in a Hollywood movie like in Roland Joffé’s “The Mission” or Martin Scorcese’s “Silence.” Blessings to you man!
thanks for sharing your thoughts man. After doing some research, I'm going to address the the concept of brahmacharya in Christian teachings.
Captain Sinbad, and I would love to hear more sometime about your meditation techniques 🧘🏻♂️!
Awesome video dude. I would just love to add that, there seems to be multiple factors as to why the rage can manifest. One part of it is purely coming from the 'frustration' aspect, the withdrawing from sexual pleasures and the neurotransmitter and hormone changes that go along with that. So essentially, driven purely by the biological changes. But what also comes into the mix is the person themselves, their level of egoic identification (as you mentioned, meditation helps reverse that) and their shadow aspects.
For example, if you have repressed anger from events earlier in your life, you could be unknowingly medicating (by relaxing and calming energy) with fapping. And without that, the repressed anger rises to the surface and is explosive. It's then good to look at what this is revealing to you. What is the fapping covering up which could potentially be dealt with and processed?
I remember years ago, a woman I had hopes for was messing around with our arrangements and being really flakey and effectively rejecting me whilst I was like 60 days into NoFap, and I felt unduly angry toward her. But at the end of the day, it said more about me than it did about her. Yes, she was being unappreciative of me, and effectively quite rude. But did it have to bother me? No. I obviously was still attached to the idea of being accepted and that was my attachment and therefore my problem. I had to let that go.
So you're so right. Regular meditation, grounding and centering yourself is so important and although I've brought it up in videos I should probably highlight it more. So thanks for bringing this to light :)
thanks for making all those excellent points. I can relate to being angry with a woman while retaining.
How dis u let go of this idea of attachment????...i m on this journey nd same thing happened to me today...nd it has happened before also...can it be childhood fear of abandonment or lack of self esteem...it seems temporary ..but looks like it is there and cones up from time to time..a sort of sense of neglect.
Very very good video man !
You are one inspiring man.
Thanks a lot !
Good lecture on Vital Force and its handling - it is like driving a strong Tank with good Driver abilities - that is the message.
Dude, I literally had an anger episode today. So much rage, thank you
Everytime you talk about rage , I can literally see it in your eyes
NoFap caused me to burst out in anger at a coworker, never in my whole life have I done that before. It definitely scared me so thank you for making this video and clearing this topic up. Looks like I need to focus on consistent meditation/pranayama
Just half way through this, but stopping to write my comment. This is so beautiful. Please make more of such videos that draw motivation from the great wisdom of Hinduism. Thanks for an Indian brother based in Japan.
I think the word you are looking for is intensity. I've been doing sadhana from Sadhguru and when I was on a 6 month streak, there was an intensity. The intensity could be directed to piercing into reality in a more fundamental way where I saw acceptance, love, nothingness as the nature of reality. Intensity and abandon or dispassion are better words than rage and apathy. 🙏
Is this shambhavi?
Very beautiful video bro. Using dharmic teaching to help understand the issues at hand that we mortals face when enticed by Maya. 🙏
thanks a lot man
Brilliant take on anger! Such things happened when my streak ran over 350 days. My anger crumbled one day when I came across this - 'Tolerating ignorance is the last tapasya (penance)'
It's crazy that you mention this rage, times I've been past 20 days if something were to piss me off I can feel the change in the atmosphere I'd even step back and notice how odd it was
Huh...upon my own meditations, I’ve discovered many shorter timelines than the one I’m currently running directly as a result of having never married. So yeah, long life.
I’ve also eschewed Saturday nights out, after blazing up, to binge-learn multiple subjects such as zero point energy, Jacksonian economics, the star Eta Carinae, and string theory.
Eh, you Hindus might be onto something
I'd love to hear more stories like that
Bro that’s crazy, NoFap is something I’ve been practicing for over 2 years. And just recently I’ve experience a new breakthrough to include a tremendous amount of energy. Unfortunately I went drinking and got into a pit of rage that I’ve never felt before. And I had a gut feeling the next day that it was from my practice of NoFAP and pursuit to making myself a better version is what put me in that position to not know how to handle this new energy. Either way no got hurt and I’m loving the process. Highly recommend finding a hobbies that are both physical and creative as both energies are being stimulated by going through this journey
One of the best channels I have ever subscribed. Your videos are very beneficial to me as I AM practicing brhamachariya for more than 6 months. Love you brother.......
Please do a video about doing Nofap and being in a relationship.
man i never been in a relationship but been on nofap for 214 days first 90 days were storms in brain, like depression, sudden anger, anxiety, urge to cry,urge to fap ,sleepy,tired these problem will occur which are common,these may effect a relationship, better talk to your partner about noFAp and tell her you may go thrugh these mental stages because this is an addiction she have to accept your moodswings , actually noFAP is also test for your partner too she is worth it or not!if she pass this test marry her bro : )
This would help me also! been with this girl for a lil bit over a month and she knows about my addiction. She told me she wants to help me get through this, I just keep relapsing :\
Souhardya Dutta do you will find a balance eventually?
@@me-me-me-me-me didnt understand what?
How is this even possible. Thinking and seeing women you like will generate desire of talking to them, talking to them will give birth to desire of touching them, touching women will generate desire of having sed with them. Abstinence is only answer. @captainsinbad
Thanks brother! You're changing lives.
My questions are
1. "Do we have to be vegan/vegetarian to practice Bramhacharya? "
2. "While meditating shall we exercise law of attraction (like visualising our goals) or just plain mediation (minimum wandering of thoughts)?"
i wont say im an expert but personally i'ld say :
1. not necessary.
2. yeah thats powerful. do it
more easy with vegan i think but ask shiva
being vegetarian makes the journey easier! I would recommend visualizing after your meditation is over
@@dersaureapfel Nope. Protein is very essential for the body.
@@CaptainSinbad sir Dont little bhramacharya can not be practiced by a non veg eater clearly to say a flesh eater why non veg we are non flesh eater the vegetarians
Thanks for this wonderful warning. I try to remember this always. Thanks a lot.
Hey brother, this could not have come at a better time for myself. I have struggled with immense anger towards coworkers for the past 4-5 months, not realizing that this energy had to go somewhere else. I would find the smallest thing that someone said and get so caught up in it that it would make me aggressive, bitter, and this would completely ruin my productivity. This has shed a light on what you teach and discuss, and working out and working on my business will be my transmutation. Thank you for this insight!