Girls Body Language When They Like You

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    Learn how to read a woman's body language signs that reveal if she likes you or not...
    Hey there! It's your girl, Anna, back with more juicy content on all things dating and self-improvement. Have you ever found yourself on the edge of making a move, but you held back because you just couldn't tell if she was into you? Trust me, you're not alone. So many guys have been there, standing on the precipice of uncertainty, nerves jangling. And let's be real-it can be downright scary, right? The thought of misreading a girl's signals and the possible face-palm moment that could follow is enough to make any guy think twice before stepping up. And that, my friends, could mean missing out on some potentially life-altering opportunities.
    That's why today's video is a game-changer! Deciphering between friendly chit-chat and flirty vibes can be like navigating a minefield. But guess what? We're about to crack that code. We're going to lift the veil on the enigmatic world of women's body language. With plenty of interesting facts sprinkled in. Because when it comes to the dance of love, actions can echo like a roar while words may merely whisper. And oh boy, do women have a secret language of subtle cues that speaks volumes about their feelings.
    From twirling her hair, to keeping you in her sightline, to leaning ever-so-subtly in your direction, a woman's body language can be a powerful narrator of her emotions and intentions. These cues can give you a read on how she feels about you, even before a single word leaves her lips.
    And trust me, you'll want to hang around until the very end of this video where I'll unveil the most crucial sign to watch for. But before we get going, if you’re new here please press that red button to subscribe to the channel and comment “I’ve subscribed” so I can thank you!
    Now, strap in and prepare for a deep dive into the fascinating sea of non-verbal cues. Let's unlock this treasure chest together, shall we?
    #Dating #Crush #Flirting #bodylanguage
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    If so, then today's video is PERFECT for you. You'll be able to use the information from today's dating advice video to tackle any problems you may be facing with the scenarios mentioned above.
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  • @Joyanima
    @Joyanima  2 місяці тому +2

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  • @VolatilisAzure
    @VolatilisAzure Рік тому +688

    As a guy I don't recommend seeking relationships with a woman where you work. the risk is NOT worth the reward

    • @ddome1991
      @ddome1991 Рік тому +42

      Well, I can confirm that! After a breakup it's going to be damn hard, especially if you're having a hard time dealing with the situation.

    • @jowensblack48
      @jowensblack48 Рік тому +81

      Get over it when you work somewhere long enough you aren’t going to get along with everyone. It’s all what you make of it. The reward could be more worth than the job ever was.

    • @VolatilisAzure
      @VolatilisAzure Рік тому +78

      @jowensblack48 get real, when you have office relationships you risk your job and your career. Women will quickly report you to HR, have you fired, and black listed from furthering your career. Seen it time and time again. NEVER DATE WHERE YOU WORK.

    • @brightonbryantamangani6226
      @brightonbryantamangani6226 Рік тому +11

      I will agree with and I regret it

    • @emotionalsupport
      @emotionalsupport Рік тому +15

      As a guy I agree...because you doofuses are ruining it for the one guy who the girls actually want.

  • @louiep702
    @louiep702 Рік тому +386

    It’s hard when she’s just a really nice person to everyone

    • @MidnightMark12
      @MidnightMark12 Рік тому

      ...you mean like at a Mormon revival, or something?
      Single daughters to single mothers aren't nice to anyone unless they think that there is something in it for them. They learn this in divorce court from their single mothers.
      If she doesn't have a recent picture of her with her father, she is a defect, and you should run before the tears stop flowing when you ask he for one.

    • @samusranzer
      @samusranzer Рік тому +53

      Or when she just has it in her personality. I've met women who would tease every guy, not necesarily bc she liked them, but because she was like that 🤷‍♂

    • @MidnightMark12
      @MidnightMark12 Рік тому

      @@samusranzer
      She has a single mother and does not have recent pictures of her with her father. These 304s learn this sort of gaslighting from their divorcee screech-owl mothers, scum of the earth that they are.
      It's not like this sort of thing just falls from the sky, but the apple never falls far from the tree.
      Capiche?

    • @MidnightMark12
      @MidnightMark12 Рік тому +2

      @@ViWiHH
      How old?
      ...British?

    • @hleloG
      @hleloG Рік тому +1

      @@MidnightMark12 🗿

  • @disgruntledconservativevet1798
    @disgruntledconservativevet1798 10 місяців тому +158

    As a divorced man I don’t recommend a relationship with a woman until the court system changes. Never enter into a contract with a woman if she gets rewarded to break it.

    • @wop2784
      @wop2784 7 місяців тому +3

      marriage or relationship

    • @Xenomorphasized
      @Xenomorphasized 6 місяців тому +5

      I think this is subconciously why I only pursue short term relationships. I'm genuinely terrified what might happen to me if I get married. But I suppose I'm hoping by the time I fall in love the legal system surrounding marriage get's overhauled.

    • @evorider3689
      @evorider3689 6 місяців тому

      @@Xenomorphasized It will never be overhauled! The crooked people within the crooked system are making a ton of money, and will prevent the system from ever being changed! watch the movie " divorce corp" !

    • @robertmaybeth3434
      @robertmaybeth3434 5 місяців тому +1

      @@Xenomorphasized Your instincts are completely correct about this, Xenomorph. Marriage offers not one thing to a man he cannot get without it except legitimacy for your children. And that is really the only good reason for it to still exist - especially for the wealthy men among us. For an average schmo like me, all it did was guaranty I would owe my ex wife 5 figures when I kicked her to the curb.

    • @Xenomorphasized
      @Xenomorphasized 5 місяців тому +4

      @@robertmaybeth3434 As an average schmo myself I considered just having children with the woman I eventually fall in love with without getting married, since in my country illegitimate children are treated identically in the eyes of the law and society thankfully (that's assuming I fall for a woman who would actually be ok with that lol). But then it occurred to me that if illegitimate children are treated identically by the courts then any legal binding between my partner and I would still heavily favour her if children are in the picture.
      I guess marriage and children just isn't going to work for me, even if a big part of me does want it.
      P.S. I hope your doing alright though man, I've heard horror stories about people in your situation.

  • @apseudonym
    @apseudonym Рік тому +49

    here are some things I do around him that I don't do around other men: run my hands through my hair, bite my lip, touch my face and neck, straighten my clothing, play with my necklace, use a softer voice, smile whenever he comes close to me, give him compliments on his ability (he really likes this), and ask him for help and advice, often about things I already know but I just want to be near him or hear his voice. I am quieter when he is around because he calms my chaotic energy. he responds by running his hands through his hair, giving intense and prolonged eye contact, keeping his eye on me when I'm not looking at him, getting closer to me physically, exuding protective vibes, facing his whole body towards me when we're talking (my body is usually turned to the side), mirroring my body language, initiating "accidental" touches like when we are handing objects to each other, and just being very gentle, which he is all the time but more so with me. we are coworkers, and we are trying not to let other people catch on that we like each other.

    • @4MyTube4Ever
      @4MyTube4Ever Рік тому +5

      i had same sittuation and we didnt get together cuz it was hard to communicate with her and i was trying to get us to speak and to get to the point what we gonna do..... and she left the work and we had small fight for a stupid thing last day of the work ignored each other for 12 hours she didnt even want to speak with me she came to me hugged me intensly with additional squuiz and said it was nice knowing you. and she went...
      and there she went and the rest are just a great memories i have from us.
      work on it girl.... if you will wait for him too long it might slip away.. :/ dont be like me mad for not pushing slightly more to see where it would lead us..

    • @davidhenningson4782
      @davidhenningson4782 Рік тому +6

      @@4MyTube4Ever strike while the iron is hot. Life is short... we all have memories of the one that got away.
      In time though you'll meet someone where it all clicks and comes together.
      Success is the point where opportunity meets preparedness.
      If you have one but not the other you will only experience regret for what could have been. Live in the present so that you remain open to the opportunities that become available snd you'll be better prepared when they do arrive.

    • @rosssmith9870
      @rosssmith9870 Рік тому +8

      Your coworkers are not blind and stupid. They already know. In a work environment the male may be reluctant to proceed beyond a certain point due to the possibility of being reported to HR. If he's not married and you're interested and you think he's interested then you should make the first move, not wait on him. Try asking him to lunch instead of pretending you're in a romance novel.

  • @IaconDawnshire
    @IaconDawnshire Рік тому +86

    Girls need to quit with the body language and just be up front with us by telling us directly. "I like you."

    • @brianwaller7383
      @brianwaller7383 Рік тому +18

      Even if you read all the signs she’ll just ghost you anyway

    • @lem3579
      @lem3579 Рік тому +20

      r I hate doing research on their behavior like if they're some wild animals or some shit 😂😂

    • @derekspence7241
      @derekspence7241 8 місяців тому +8

      They don’t want to risk rejection by saying it. Even if there is a 1% risk lol

    • @IkaikaArnado
      @IkaikaArnado 8 місяців тому

      They don't know half the time. The guy gotta reinforce it.

    • @sionefolau1509
      @sionefolau1509 8 місяців тому +2

      Body language is a movement of parts of your body in certain ways but you have no idea that you’re giving away what in your mind through movements

  • @PaulMiller54
    @PaulMiller54 Рік тому +169

    I wasn't sure about her vibes but then she helped clear things up by pulling out her bear spray ...

  • @brianbrino4310
    @brianbrino4310 Рік тому +10

    Awesome Anna, I never miss any of your hints discovering one or two but also testing my experience as a way of testing myself! Blessings and lots of love and light to you always!❤❤❤

  • @bryanmccallum4614
    @bryanmccallum4614 Рік тому +26

    This was very helpful!
    I noticed these in a girl that I met Friday night as I have known her for a while. It has been 4 months since the last time we seen each other. This really clears the air for me ! Thank you Joyanima!

  • @nateo200
    @nateo200 Рік тому +36

    I could go on and on about body language but my favorite overall sign is seeing and otherwise reserved or serious women turn into a little girl around the guy she likes....and when you are that guy and you see that and you get the butterflies? The greatest feeling in the world!

    • @MidnightMark12
      @MidnightMark12 Рік тому +5

      This is quite common in Manilla, where the girls are cute, feminine, giggly, and adorable.
      In the west, they are aloud, mean, insulting, and embarrassing.

    • @JamesRobertson-fh1cs
      @JamesRobertson-fh1cs Рік тому +4

      @@MidnightMark12 And overweight land whales..

    • @MidnightMark12
      @MidnightMark12 Рік тому +2

      @@JamesRobertson-fh1cs
      Yes indeed.
      *big, loud, mean, insulting, and embarrassing.

    • @davebellamy4867
      @davebellamy4867 9 місяців тому +1

      Fetch me a bucket!😂🤮

    • @penguinman1000
      @penguinman1000 4 місяці тому

      We men, don't get butterflies.

  • @elementaleighteight
    @elementaleighteight Рік тому +42

    Me: high functioning autistic. 32 yrs of social retardation. Then i suddenly caught on to how women communicate. I learned near the rest in several months. 34 yrs old now. All the women at work adore me and none have me.women follow me at the grocery store. I'm 5'7 and probably an 8/10 at best. Confidence brothers.calm and cool. Be one of the gals from time to time and the rest of the time a silent monolith of intelligence/strength and eye flirting them to death. Never individually call out a woman but very occasionally and very noticeably. The rest of the time yell into the open about..whatever. All the women Will listen and it's extremely effective to speak to all of them at once and none of them.make them chase you my brethren

    • @MidnightMark12
      @MidnightMark12 Рік тому +9

      @@josecfdc3240
      You must have missed that first line there, 'buddy'.

    • @rosssmith9870
      @rosssmith9870 Рік тому +4

      Congratulations, you have made it to the friend zone. A person is rich and rewarded when they have friends. If you're looking for a possible serious relationship maybe try seeking out an autistic female who would be struggling with the same social environment situations as you. Good luck.

    • @MidnightMark12
      @MidnightMark12 Рік тому +4

      @@rosssmith9870
      That's the 'No Divorce Zone'.
      Let some simp take the 'starter husband' depreciation hit.
      She'll be on Tinder soon enough.

    • @Agent.Wadsworth
      @Agent.Wadsworth 8 місяців тому

      If you got it all figured out, go start a pick up channel

    • @tagomago2178
      @tagomago2178 7 місяців тому

      That`s one of the nicest things I`ve ever read

  • @donaldwillis6297
    @donaldwillis6297 10 місяців тому +22

    Experienced older men know all these subtle cues. What’s stopping us from responding to those cues is younger women are shallow, superficial, and immature. Some men can handle the immaturity, but we have no time for shallow, superficial women. Be there, done that.
    Older men love to flirt, just as much as women. Last thing, women cause drama. Older men hate drama.

    • @LWRC
      @LWRC 9 місяців тому +1

      Just over look all that nonsense! Just take her back to the crib and tap her and be done with it!!! Stop all the excuses and drama of what they do or don't do!!!

  • @stevenhoughton1406
    @stevenhoughton1406 Рік тому +27

    I went out with my wife last week and we bumped into an old friend and my wife was constantly playing with her hair while talking to him. It drove me mad because she hadn't touched her hair all night except when she was talking to this guy.

    • @rosssmith9870
      @rosssmith9870 Рік тому +9

      I've been married 27 years. Your wife knows how to push your buttons. LOL

    • @SemeshkoV
      @SemeshkoV 5 місяців тому +5

      She knows you well it seems. Perhaps repay the favour? What's that, a cute waitress you say... allow your eyes to follow her along the isle. This will drive your wife nuts

    • @vaibhav_aryan28
      @vaibhav_aryan28 4 місяці тому +2

      😂😂

    • @petroleumlife928
      @petroleumlife928 3 місяці тому +1

      😂😂😂😂

    • @duncanhills526
      @duncanhills526 3 місяці тому

      Shave her head

  • @danmyname
    @danmyname 10 місяців тому +20

    Ha...my friend has been giving me mixed body language, I decided to go all in now or never. I asked her if we can be friends with benefits and she said no 😂

  • @MrTripleXXX
    @MrTripleXXX Рік тому +78

    It's a bit different if the girl is shy. I used to have an extremely shy girlfriend and she was much too shy to show signals like this.
    Shy or socially awkward girls tend to AVOID looking at you if they like you.
    I got a question though. I know a girl who shows these signs to literally EVERY guy who isn't a complete stranger to her. Very confusing. Was at a party with this girl and she was touchy touchy, leaning in close but I noticed she did it with the other guys too.

    • @dimex3362
      @dimex3362 11 місяців тому

      She’s just a flirt/tease.. or she’s super horny and ready to take anyone she can get to bed her.

    • @sicksteenwolves5318
      @sicksteenwolves5318 10 місяців тому +55

      She’s for the streets

    • @johnlewismusicc
      @johnlewismusicc 10 місяців тому

      FAM@@sicksteenwolves5318

    • @bringer-of-change
      @bringer-of-change 9 місяців тому +15

      I know a girl like that too. She sleeps with those guys dude lol.

    • @ichigotheg.o.a.t
      @ichigotheg.o.a.t 8 місяців тому

      Yes, she is promiscuous, more than likely, don't trust it, don't do it.

  • @ganis9679
    @ganis9679 3 місяці тому +1

    Hi from Cali 👋🏼. Recently came across your channel. Thanks for sharing these interesting, helpful, insightful videos! I try to watch out for subtle signs like these and things the ladies do and like from guys, having been clueless in the past lol. You tell it like it is and keep it engaging/lively. Good stuff. Stay blessed and be well 🙏🏽.

  • @benwelch4076
    @benwelch4076 Рік тому +18

    Now this is gold, especially for us 'dense' guys. Had to watch twice. Cheers all.

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  Рік тому +1

      Glad to hear you found it helpful! Good luck!

  • @genechronister7085
    @genechronister7085 Рік тому +21

    Her eyes! A portal to her soul! Awesome vid!

  • @MrakdNadvladar
    @MrakdNadvladar Рік тому +10

    Thank you Anna😊I feel like I'm learning more and more each vid🎉🎉😊A Ray of sunshine on a cloudy day. ❤❤

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  Рік тому +3

      Love to hear when people are learning lots of great things from the videos!

  • @Tam-lv1mp
    @Tam-lv1mp Рік тому +12

    Maybe girls stare at me because I’m just that spectacularly ugly.

    • @mikailibnsap
      @mikailibnsap 10 місяців тому +1

      That was what I thought all the time for me

  • @sweatilaa5325
    @sweatilaa5325 Рік тому +75

    As someone who is a little bit autistic, body language can be extremely confusing and difficult to read at times... usually I just think that I'm over analyzing someone's body language since I don't really understand it at times and just move on, especially when it's from someone I really like, never knew these things were anything to look out for

    • @MountainManEriksReactions
      @MountainManEriksReactions 11 місяців тому +5

      I can relate to that! I'm autistic as well!

    • @muscleman369
      @muscleman369 11 місяців тому +5

      Don't overthink it. Just learn it with patience, and it will start to become easier to pick up on. I've missed alot of connections being doubtful but that's not a bad thing it's a learning experience. I could of turned out a bad storm if I knew this at that time. Second guessing yourself and hesitating can be the biggest obstacles. If you like her and she's talking with you don't wait until Christmas to ask her somewhere, it can literally be anything. Getting told no is only verbal sound if you don't let it get to you. Regret of not knowing will stick with you for a long time my friend. Take the chance for an experience.

    • @sweatilaa5325
      @sweatilaa5325 11 місяців тому +2

      ​@@muscleman369 Thank you for the encouragement and advice, king.
      About a year ago we reconnected after maybe 5-6 years apart and I've come to realize that I fear losing her (again) more than potentially being rejected. I've worked security at several big events, almost drowned, actually died twice, and never been afraid or even worried, but asking her out is somehow terrifying. But we are both going out doing some very mundane things together on Wednesday, plan on telling her that I really enjoy spending time with her and that I'd really like to keep on doing it. Though knowing me it will be even less elegant due to stress... :)
      Regardless if I've misread her eagerness to help me out at the office with things I don't really need to help with, her always being there with encouragement or a much needed piece of advice, our chats about absolutely nothing, and general gut feeling I have of her being interested in me as well, regardless if I've misread all of that, at least I'll know and be able to move on and get closure.

    • @DeepEnd-sm3uw
      @DeepEnd-sm3uw 11 місяців тому +3

      Damn I have a high functioning 10yr autistic son . I hope the dating game not cruel for him the way things are

    • @noyb12345
      @noyb12345 11 місяців тому +2

      ​@@DeepEnd-sm3uw just prepare him for the worst because unfortunately some don't care if you're autistic.

  • @bryanmccallum4614
    @bryanmccallum4614 Рік тому +9

    Wow this was a perfect video. Thing's that I was not aware of ! I've seen similar videos but this one really gets to the point. Thank you Joyanima! This helps my confusion. I would like to see more like this ?

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  Рік тому +2

      So glad to hear that! There's some deeper dives on body language coming soon!

  • @john76411
    @john76411 5 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for this so when I see these signs, I can run away as fast as possible

  • @andrewrivera190
    @andrewrivera190 6 місяців тому +6

    It’s never so simple. I was rejected by a girl I later found out, had feelings for me. She was a more logical person and basically deemed that despite the fact she found me attractive couldn’t see a long term relationship with me working out. She would blush when I saw her, play with her hair, and laugh at what I would say. She had this mindset that feelings make a person weaker. It’s a very bizarre dynamic to be caught up in.

    • @n2skcmo
      @n2skcmo 5 місяців тому

      Typically female logic

    • @Josh-zn7bx
      @Josh-zn7bx 3 місяці тому

      She sounds like Cptsd/personality disorder, they cant handle their own minds and weakness and project it onto you

  • @user-sr6bg4ip6e
    @user-sr6bg4ip6e 10 місяців тому

    That touch thing works this girl always seems to touch me when ever she is in arms reach sometimes I don't realize she is there until she makes the touch and she does this a lot this is a girl I normally do not think of as attractive but I for some reason cannot wait to see her or talk to her

  • @007REAPER007
    @007REAPER007 Рік тому +7

    Womens body language is so subjective specially if the girl is naturally very flirty or very nice, I knew a girl who would jump in my arms when ever she saw me but she never had any interest in a romantic relationship, my friend used to have a GF who used to look at me all the time when she thought no one was looking but had zero interest in me, she ended up cheating on my friend with several people, either she was sizing me up to cheat with (I highly doubt) or I was just that ugly to her like when you drive by an Accident on the road, some people cant help but look loll.

  • @BrandonQueen-fe4rx
    @BrandonQueen-fe4rx 12 днів тому

    I subscribed

  • @richardpoole1949
    @richardpoole1949 7 місяців тому

    I think if you work together and you both love it, like a Garden nursery, or interior decorating, go for it.

  • @k2dae142
    @k2dae142 Рік тому +6

    If you at work and she makes sure she gotta say "hi" to you all the time and each time she sees you..

    • @Swwatter
      @Swwatter Рік тому +4

      Not particularly mate. I've worked in airlines, most of the ladies said hi to me all the time because they were (mostly) nice. I currently work in operating theatres and I am forever being stopped by the nurses for a conversation because they are (mostly) nice women. The one I'm taking out tonight for a date, her saying "hi" to me all the time was much the same as everyone else. That wasn't a good indicator of her crushing on me.
      The indicators were much like what this video said. I was spotting her looking at me when I was talking to others, especially other young attractive nurses. When we talked, she'd close the personal space very quickly if we were standing. She never pulled away if I was talking softly in her ear to her about things worth keeping quiet about. I taught her a little hand shake which she'd go out of her way to do with me if I was around. She laughed with me a lot more than any other bloke I observed her with. Although she is a reserved, introverted woman, her body language would open up completely when she speaks to me. And, the kicker, although she had to cancel the date twice (because nurses are a different breed with their shifts and their lives) she actively sought me out to reschedule (to tonight). We talk on the phone for long periods.
      In conclusion, her saying hi all the time by itself is not an indicator of attraction. That alone says almost nothing other than she's a nice woman.

  • @smferreiro2610
    @smferreiro2610 Рік тому +4

    Great video!
    I love the careful setup.

  • @manos-oliveriversen2112
    @manos-oliveriversen2112 Рік тому +13

    Attention, gentleman, a word of notice! I totally understand Anna's good intentions. But, as someone who has been 53 years in the friendzone and suddenly is being hunted by flocks of women, many of which with we want completely different things, even if a lady shows us that she wants us - subtly insinuating it or directly saying it out loud - chances are that not every woman might be for us. Also, please be aware that subtle signs can be easily misread: An open body language might just mean self-confidence. That she is an open book might just be her character. Playing with her hair might just reveal discomfort or nervousness. And touching others is a very common thing with the ladies here in Greece, without insinuating anything sexual. I have been through all this. So, I have found my peace of mind through a simple solution: Food! And no, I will not go into more details, because otherwise it is like a fisherman giving away the secrets of fishing. And then no fish will bite anymore.

    • @Swwatter
      @Swwatter Рік тому +3

      Imagine thinking cooking food is attractive to women is the biggest secret ever 😂😂😂 you're 53 mate, you have about 25 years of life left, your secret getting out won't affect the world in the slightest nor will it affect your potential future "mates" mate.

    • @manos-oliveriversen2112
      @manos-oliveriversen2112 Рік тому +5

      @@Swwatter Well, cooking food does attract the ladies, no doubt. But I was not talking about that. I was talking about sorting out whether a lady is proper for you or not in terms of food. As I stated above, even though boys and girls cannot and are not supposed to be "just friends", not every boy is for every girl and every girl for every boy. I am talking about sorting out whether you are the sharing the same core with a certain lady, whether you are walking on a common path.

    • @Swwatter
      @Swwatter Рік тому

      @@manos-oliveriversen2112 aah, that's absolutely correct. I apologise for not understanding what you meant on the first pass.
      Her hobbies and interests in a relationship don't matter. Neither does her favourite food. What does matter if you share the same values, as you've pointed out. Does she share the same world view, idealogical views, the desire to start a family? Then she's potentially the type for you. If not, then she's not.
      Thank you for clarifying your knowledge. I hope you find (or have found) a partner worthy for you 💪

    • @manos-oliveriversen2112
      @manos-oliveriversen2112 Рік тому +4

      @@Swwatter You are on a good way, but I am not quite sure you fully understood me. Actually, having the same hobbies and interests do matter. If you are, for instance, all into business and she is all about arts (or vice versa) will not help you understand each other very much. Both of you need someone to share the same spirit, to be able to tell you "that what you did is good, but if you add this and that, you might improve the possibility of getting across the message you want to convey." (And mean it.) You both need someone to help each other evolve. The point is, all too often we do not realise that we have a message for each other. I am talking about the subconscious SIGNS that the one or the other person is right for you. After decades of being approached by flaky ladies, fake profiles on Facebook, people where an alarm went on in my mind as soon as I met them, people that all the signs of the universe showed that they were karmic for me but decided to make their life with someone else, I decided to rearrange my priorities and decide whether a lady is for me or not depending on whether I see her eating the same food as I do. (And I am not talking about eating the same food on a date. I am talking about chance encounters.)

    • @Beantastrophe
      @Beantastrophe Рік тому

      I don't think Chicken Shawarma with extra Tahini will help her rid herself of the dreadful definitely getting raped feeling.

  • @TheMilitaryandPolitics1553
    @TheMilitaryandPolitics1553 10 місяців тому

    Thanks for the help, I am into my classmate and I have seen signs you have mentioned in her. I think she likes me but she's kind of shy to admit it.

  • @jonathanbowles2577
    @jonathanbowles2577 9 місяців тому

    Good morning Anna. A very good video. Body Langauge is a mine field. I always try to keep Good eye contact, let the other person speak first. I have tried my hardest to Understand how a woman thinks and behaves. I really feel it is so much better to friends with someone, than try to come on to them. I am a Gentleman. I Truely Respect and have complete Honor with women that meet. I am Single and very Happy with myself. But who knows??

    • @Arvidje
      @Arvidje 7 місяців тому

      Make humor and live in the present with her. When she give off more sign proceed and lead further. When lacking this, u will get nowhere unfortunately

  • @Joyanima
    @Joyanima  Рік тому +68

    Which body language tip do you find most useful?

    • @markchristopher420
      @markchristopher420 Рік тому

      🤔 Hard to pick just one! They tend to
      intertwine in real time, so *ALL* these
      excellent points you make are crucial...
      😊 Thanks ever so much for all of your
      smashing advice, Anna! You're amazing!

    • @srprice2383
      @srprice2383 Рік тому +4

      The body language I use is Y.M.C.A. It does NOTHING.

    • @srprice2383
      @srprice2383 Рік тому +10

      I always ignored girls when they kept looking. I was annoyed. I thought they were looking because they thought I was weird. I always ignored them. Seriously. I also had dates that wanted to stay in my bed. I let them but I never made advances in case they thought I was a pervert. I missed out. I'm nearly 49 now. Too late. And I have long term illness. When I was young I grew up thinking girls thought sex was dirty and nice girls didn't do it. I didn't want to look filthy so I never tried it on.

    • @IndyCrewInNYC
      @IndyCrewInNYC Рік тому +3

      Eye contact and especially leaning in. You see it all the times with couples in pictures.

    • @srprice2383
      @srprice2383 Рік тому +7

      Eye contact. Girls are weird about people touching their eyes I found.

  • @abouthisbiz4330
    @abouthisbiz4330 Рік тому +11

    Dont fall for it fellas. The problem is these videos are not giving you the full context. These ladies are trying to set you up for ultimate failure and possible expulsion and or fired.

    • @CarlosGarcia-tv4rk
      @CarlosGarcia-tv4rk Рік тому +3

      Yup they play games

    • @abouthisbiz4330
      @abouthisbiz4330 Рік тому +1

      @@CarlosGarcia-tv4rk the ones that make these type videos never say how they know it means they like you. They just say if she does it thats what it means. But how do they know that, wheres the proof. Also their definition of "like" is much different than mine.

    • @CarlosGarcia-tv4rk
      @CarlosGarcia-tv4rk Рік тому +2

      @@abouthisbiz4330 true "like" is different than being interested

    • @wolfnoggin2165
      @wolfnoggin2165 8 місяців тому

      Nah bro, the trick is that a girl has to do three or more of this behaviors at the moment you are interacting with her in order for you to know if she is attracted to you or not. If she is doing one behavior and that’s it… then don’t reach to the conclusion that she is attracted to you… that’s the trick

  • @themanfromvolantis
    @themanfromvolantis Рік тому +7

    As an autistic male, i ALWAYS, without exception get it wrong.
    Either i think she wants to date me when she doesn't, or worse still, i think she isn't interested, only to discover, years later that, "oh yeah, everyone knew she fancied you. We just assumed you were gay when you weren't interested"
    Me - But.... I didn't... I thought...

  • @tipslm7252
    @tipslm7252 Рік тому +9

    Nice video excellent tips loved those two plants🌿

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  Рік тому +3

      The plants appreciate the compliments!

  • @TerreHauteRemoteGoat
    @TerreHauteRemoteGoat 11 місяців тому +1

    Leaning in while wearing something low cut is an even stronger cue.

  • @TheArrow1987
    @TheArrow1987 9 місяців тому +3

    I like videos like this because I know I simply don't want and need love relationship, I never did. Might be because I'm autistic even though I know there are some autistic people who want relationships. But I never felt the desire for it.
    I'm thankful I am that way because it means I would never go on a date with someone, means no stress no pressure, no anxiety because of a certain person. I love to be on my own at home, here I am safe and comfortable, and no one can disturb me or doing something bad to me. Also, so far I was never even able to make friends, but I realized years ago it's simply not worth it for me.
    I think this is where having autism even helps, as I don'T need others around me to keep myself occupied, I never even feel bored or lonely. I should be thankful for that and I am. I think I'm just not made for having friends. Keeping friendships alive might be much too hard for me and would cause too much mental stress and anxiety in me.

  • @kingkanoworldmedia4389
    @kingkanoworldmedia4389 Рік тому +6

    This one girl I NOW like, is because of her smile. Even with or without those stupid masks, her eyes light up widen and her smile grows so wide, no joke. Because she works at a fast food, she does not touch her hair at all, but those smiles, make me smile and now she smiles even more. I finally got her to remove her mask, since they are not required, and I saw she was shy and or hiding. She had all of these excuses not to remove it, then after complimenting her smile, it was gone. her excuses was I am tired of getting pimples LOL yeah, sure. Now she is more open and laughing with me. There is more, but I am careful because she is shy

    • @Unknown19595
      @Unknown19595 10 місяців тому +1

      If only girls would do the same for us guys but nope you need be attractive to get there attention.

  • @solrosenberg6728
    @solrosenberg6728 Рік тому +1

    A gesture I frequently find with eye contact is a bright smile with their hand out when they walk up to my car!!.....$$$

  • @piotrtoborek2442
    @piotrtoborek2442 Рік тому

    Not subscribed, but left a like and a comment as a sign of apreciation 😉
    Thank You 😊

  • @Immovableobject91
    @Immovableobject91 5 місяців тому +2

    Every time I see videos like this, it reinforces the fact that nobody is into me. It is what it is. Lmao

  • @saulroot1337
    @saulroot1337 11 місяців тому +1

    Its simple really
    They always let you know and if your confused? Then they really isn't much point in pursuing?
    Today i went to a fund raising day and the women doing the face painting was beautiful ❤️
    I got my face painted?
    Good Move .
    She asked if i was single and i replied yes ?
    When she finished i left ...
    10 minutes later she came over and asked if i would like to meet up next weekend.
    We swapped numbers ..
    No confusion there is they ...

  • @DarrenBocksnick
    @DarrenBocksnick Рік тому +2

    Enlightened empowerment never sounded or looked so beautifully articulate….

  • @paulau7981
    @paulau7981 Рік тому +5

    It always turns out they were just being friendly

  • @dhscsa
    @dhscsa Рік тому +10

    Just proves women aren't interested in me. I've learned to accept it

  • @bradmossman7201
    @bradmossman7201 8 місяців тому

    Two times with women who are of interest today. Unfortunately both married. The second one was, “Save me!” I have known her for 49 years. Not a passing acquaintance.

  • @scottfowler5244
    @scottfowler5244 Рік тому +10

    I love your accent. ❤

  • @user-lk6os6ge3k
    @user-lk6os6ge3k 8 місяців тому

    i really enjoyed this vid it really helps us man/boys but theres some girls that will watch this and will make sure not to fdo any of these thing even if she does like the guy shes talking to so its REALLY hard to know if some people like you

  • @tucomalanga82
    @tucomalanga82 4 місяці тому

    I'm a mature male and at work this attractive young lady started just talking to me and straight out flirting, well I ask her for her phone number and she said that it would bring her complications. Well I immediately apologized and said to her that I thought she was single and that was why I ask for her phone but she never answered. Two weeks later at work we accidentally touched hands and I noticed that her eyes dilated well me also and my heart was running lol , but she also came closer to me and it was a magical moment.

  • @christian94stefon
    @christian94stefon 10 місяців тому

    Thank you this is very helpful thank you

  • @Cade805
    @Cade805 11 місяців тому +2

    I love the random ps4 in the background 😂

  • @ilalong257
    @ilalong257 Рік тому +3

    Thanks Joyanima

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  Рік тому +1

      You're super welcome! Thank you for watching and commenting 😊

  • @danniet9375
    @danniet9375 6 місяців тому

    This is very helpful, as I'm not very good at this kind of stuff 😅 I subscribed btw.

  • @charleshenderson1174
    @charleshenderson1174 Рік тому

    Thanks beautiful Anna.

  • @dimex3362
    @dimex3362 11 місяців тому +2

    One thing I don’t like about channels like these is they don’t give examples of what they are saying. Just saying eye contact means nothing unless you show the kinds of eye contact to look for… as an easy example to give.

  • @richardpauly1635
    @richardpauly1635 Рік тому

    Yup enjoy life

  • @oddindian1
    @oddindian1 Рік тому +3

    When you physically touch someone there is a download of information physiologically. There are many articles about how primates reinforce communal behavior. This promotes and reinforces survivability and ensures tribal cohesion. This is true of mammals that are communal.

  • @JOHN-ei2tn
    @JOHN-ei2tn 4 місяці тому

    Appreciate you!
    Having Actual actors displaying your words , would have been more interesting .

  • @peterhansen5096
    @peterhansen5096 11 місяців тому +1

    There is a girl who works in a shopping center where I live and she often stares at me. There has been some other things like observing me (it often feels like she's trying to analyze me/figure me out). She reacts if I react to a sms as if she's wondering "What's happening? What did the read on his phone?" Here's the thing that confuses me the most and which I've never experienced before: if you catch someone staring at you, that someone would likely look away right away. Most people do that. However...this same girl has remained eye contact with me for a few seconds when I look back at her (catching her in the act) before finally looking away. What does that mean? Is it because she's self-assured and not prone to being shy? Is she trying to show me some interest by keeping that eye contact? Like I said I cant figure her out. She is obviously aware that I am aware and it feels like there's this weird ping-pong thing between her and me. Maybe it's just her personality and maybe she does the same to other people. However...she acts a bit odd whenever she seems me and something is definitely going on

    • @grantwerner7332
      @grantwerner7332 10 місяців тому

      Well if you just go there a lot and she starts to notice you, maybe she thinks you're stocking her. Same thing happened to me. A girl kept coming into where I work multiple times a week for months, then one day I just mean mugged the fuck out of her and I never saw her again.

    • @SilkySouth
      @SilkySouth 9 місяців тому

      ​@@grantwerner7332that doesn't sound quite right

    • @Arvidje
      @Arvidje 7 місяців тому

      That looking thing will only get very attractive guys. They make long eyes contact or stare to the attractive person. If u behave normal. That means u should also get these signs from almost every other woman. If not , more likely she don’t trust or feels u are danger or behave improperly

  • @PhillipplaistedPlaisted-qu7nc
    @PhillipplaistedPlaisted-qu7nc 7 днів тому

    Female magic get in our heads like black magic lol 😀

  • @Byronofcrypto
    @Byronofcrypto 10 місяців тому

    You are so smart and friendly and skilled in making high quality content.

  • @danielwicaksana4601
    @danielwicaksana4601 Рік тому

    she did most of these things when we're in the same place, but rarely reply to my texts. even over the weekend 😕

    • @Delta3068
      @Delta3068 Рік тому +1

      Not worth chasing this. You made your move but she may have other thoughts. So drop this one and look somewhere else.

  • @strongbow217
    @strongbow217 Рік тому +4

    Her body language was pretty clear she ran as fast as she could down the street away from me

    • @ViWiHH
      @ViWiHH Рік тому

      Some are avoiding because they are afraid you might realize

  • @SuperTerminator50
    @SuperTerminator50 3 місяці тому

    You are certainly a Good communicator 😊...

  • @danadane2501
    @danadane2501 Рік тому

    I had to pause simply to acknowledge the words "precipice of uncertainty". I'm putting that one in the verbal artillery vault.

  • @hugodufour1320
    @hugodufour1320 10 місяців тому

    Thanks you for all this stuff =D

  • @adaptivegamer9905
    @adaptivegamer9905 10 місяців тому

    The girl I’m. Taking to is SO SHY I mean like a timid mouse! I have no idea if she likes me or not, she’s very timid but she’ll come up to talk to me all the time, smiles and talks with me more than anyone else, but she’s not the touchy type or anything. I’m so confused I’ve never messed around with a girl this shy idk what she’s comfortable with 😭

    • @Arvidje
      @Arvidje 7 місяців тому

      Before she come to u to talk or u spot her at distance looking at u , she will have romantic interest

  • @garrettwilson2626
    @garrettwilson2626 3 місяці тому

    There's this girl at my job that im interested in. See, we work at a restaurant. She works jn front of house, i work in the back (dishroom). She's a busser, so she clears tables and brings the tubs back to the dishroom. It is then that we'll make slight conversation before she heads back out. Every time i come into work and we see each other, she has a huge smile on her face followed by an almost flirty "heyyy". She always maintains eye contact whenever we talk, shes laughed at little jokes i make when they arent really "laughable" i guess lol.
    Bottom line is, i like her. Shes cute, friendly, good sense of humor, and above all, a hard worker.
    Now, i wouldnt say im ready for a relationship. Theres a few things in my life that im working on straightening out before i go the dating route.
    In the meantime, i only just wanna talk to her. Get to know her. Preferably outside of work.
    The problem? I don't know how or when to approach this. Then again, i could very well be overthinking this entire thing and she's probably just really polite. I have so many questions and so little answers.
    Last thing i wanna do is throw myself at her and ruin my possible chances. Or worse, make her uncomfortable.
    Any advice would help tremendously 🙏.

  • @danielkelley7548
    @danielkelley7548 9 місяців тому

    Great content

  • @Gonzeaux7
    @Gonzeaux7 Рік тому +3

    I subscribed. On a different note you are beautiful and I love the accent

  • @TreAloisio
    @TreAloisio 9 місяців тому

    Just subscribed!

  • @wairuatapu6783
    @wairuatapu6783 11 місяців тому +2

    I like your content it is helpful.
    Here is a suggestion, add some images to your advice so we can see and analyse to understand you. Men are visual creatures whereas many women are audible.
    You are talking to us in a way women interact, add pictures to your communication methods and you will get thru to a mans psyche.
    Learn some Midjourney and some ai skills and your offerings will take on a whole new dimension and be received with high praises too.

  • @thenorm2094
    @thenorm2094 10 днів тому

    As a guy going through divorce do not get remarried

  • @barnardvandermerwe3808
    @barnardvandermerwe3808 Рік тому +1

    Just Subscribed!

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  Рік тому +1

      That's so super thankyou!

  • @jimlockhart5632
    @jimlockhart5632 Рік тому +6

    I need you as a wing girl Anna!

  • @niallsmith9432
    @niallsmith9432 Рік тому +10

    Great info as always❤

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  Рік тому +3

      Thank you! Really appreciate the support!

  • @whitebathroomguy
    @whitebathroomguy 11 місяців тому +1

    Im a body mechanic..😂😂😂

  • @scottfowler5244
    @scottfowler5244 Рік тому

    I've subscribed !! 😊

  • @mrwizzardknight
    @mrwizzardknight 10 місяців тому +1

    I honestly think I’ve got more chance of winning a fencing competition than I have ever dating a girl of my dreams! 😜 And I haven’t got much chance of winning that either! :( Last year I never won a single fight at that competition! I’m THAT bad! And I’ve been fencing for 13 years! :(

  • @jenniferliman6670
    @jenniferliman6670 5 місяців тому +1

    Hi Joyanima, i have this woman who gave me signals that she likes me. But then, when i msg her, she replied in negative vibes. When we meet, i can see she is nervous and awkward. What should i do? Thanks

  • @Mike.jta64
    @Mike.jta64 11 місяців тому

    Well I asked for it, I got it, more input. ❤

  • @larrydavisflysite
    @larrydavisflysite Рік тому +1

    I totally love your words. You are so impressive :)

    • @larrydavisflysite
      @larrydavisflysite 10 місяців тому

      I would be a lucky winner if I could take you out to dinner and just listen to you being you :) do you have so many amazing, personality qualities, and your natural beauty. You are so easy to fall in love with.
      :)

  • @youbetcha6880
    @youbetcha6880 Рік тому +3

    Most women are so subtlely into me--if at all--that I totally miss it. Or, rarely, she's awkwardly into me. The most awkward woman into me? The woman I had never seen before who came up to me in the bar, took the drink out of my hand, grabbed both my wrists, and tried dragging me to the dance floor. And there was no dance music playing. She never got the dance from me.

    • @youbetcha6880
      @youbetcha6880 Рік тому

      I had another woman several times at the school pub in university blatantly stare at me until one time she found an excuse to talk to me and insist that we dance. I didn't want to dance, and she wouldn't take no for an answer. Well, the dance was short and awkward, and she never talked to me again. You know, ladies, not everyone's into dancing. It was do painful! She kept saying, "Look at me in the eyes!" No thanks.

    • @IaconDawnshire
      @IaconDawnshire Рік тому

      @@youbetcha6880 man that would be so uncomfortable if you were on the spectrum

    • @Swwatter
      @Swwatter Рік тому +3

      ​@@youbetcha6880 sounds like you're a really fun guy 😂

    • @SaurabhKumar-ee4cb
      @SaurabhKumar-ee4cb 9 місяців тому +1

      @@youbetcha6880what’s wrong with looking into eyes though 🦸‍♂️

    • @Arvidje
      @Arvidje 7 місяців тому

      @@youbetcha6880 u could just i am not in the mood for a dance but only in the mood for a kiss .. u drag her..

  • @Lagin693
    @Lagin693 Рік тому

    All these body languages I spotted but never shotted my shot 😂😂😂

  • @sholonator92
    @sholonator92 9 місяців тому

    I was sitting in my desk talking to this girl at work, she was standing facing me, and while she was listening she squatted down to my eye level. This has happened a few times. I know shes attracted to me but, what exactely does this mean???

  • @ciltire445
    @ciltire445 8 місяців тому

    There is this girl in my school she keeps looking at me every day when im passing by and when she is with her friends while she is talking to them she keeps glancing at me multiple times , i then waive and smile and so does she , one day thou me and my freind went outside of school and his female freind was running after us so this girl who keeps looking at me followed this girl and came outside to make sure if she was talking to me and then once she find out she was talking to my freind she went back in. Any tip what her intentions are ?

  • @user-jh1uj8dv3u
    @user-jh1uj8dv3u 7 місяців тому

    Good advices! R u from UK?

  • @samc7312
    @samc7312 5 місяців тому +1

    I’m a woman and I like a guy. But I only have #1 sign when I’m around him and the rest of signs I don’t have.

  • @jamescarr3777
    @jamescarr3777 Рік тому +1

    I’VE SUBSCRIBED because I like the way you are such a smarty pants!

  • @justinbarhorst5531
    @justinbarhorst5531 9 місяців тому

    Leaning in I know women that do that when they just want to hear things in the room because it is loud.

  • @Dyerking1
    @Dyerking1 Місяць тому +1

    😶‍🌫️ I subscribed

  • @user-lk6os6ge3k
    @user-lk6os6ge3k 8 місяців тому

    i have subscribed; i love your advice SOOO much but yoi should talk more about what YOUNG people can do with a girl that doesnt involve for example a car.

  • @l.tjustonsenack
    @l.tjustonsenack Рік тому

    the thing u said about eye contact is vary true but its vary rare for any girl to stare Longley at u for example if u ramain eye contact u will never no if she ever liked u to begin with alot of things can easily break a guys eye lock with a girl well she may maintain prefect eye contact with a guy the guy can can easly disacted from her gaze so this easier for girls then it is for guys gay girls probably get along better then a guy wood with a girl whare r somethings only girls will understand and somethings only guys will understand

  • @lemuelfranks2013
    @lemuelfranks2013 Рік тому

    Love it,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

  • @internetcontrolunit1
    @internetcontrolunit1 6 місяців тому

    not always the case

    • @internetcontrolunit1
      @internetcontrolunit1 6 місяців тому

      seen every thing listed and lets just say they sung for the same team

  • @COMtnPilot
    @COMtnPilot Рік тому +3

    OK … I have a scenario for ya! There’s a woman that I see on a regular basis who works at a store I frequent. We have locked eyes a few times, but the majority of the time she tends to ignore me, and will not look at me. This is somewhat confusing! I would love to approach and maybe even ask her out ( no visible ring on her finger), but I am somewhat reluctant to do so. Any suggestions?

    • @sepehradonis6959
      @sepehradonis6959 Рік тому +1

      I missed so many girls by not approaching. You either get rejected or not. Approach her if you really feel mutual attraction

    • @George-hs2zm
      @George-hs2zm 9 місяців тому

      Yep been there loads of times. Put your pride on the shelf and go for it. Go into it with an attitude of abundance, ie if she blows you out there's loads more out there. Too many guys crush on just one girl and it limits their options massively plus when she turns them down, it's literally the end of their world. If she does knock you back, when you do eventually find someone then go in that store with the new girlfriend and watch her reaction.

    • @malcomdavila
      @malcomdavila 7 місяців тому

      You’ll regret it for your whole life

  • @r.h.7633
    @r.h.7633 10 місяців тому +1

    Do you have tips for perfectionists who demand a load from themselves but couldn't ask a girl out due to thoughts of being substandard for that girl? I have a really hard time approaching a girl I like, I just shut down. She's a colleague of mine and brief chat is okay but I am unable to ask her out no matter how hard I push myself. These words seem to be locked somewhere.

    • @brucemattingly6476
      @brucemattingly6476 9 місяців тому +2

      Ok, I'm not a pro like Anna, but here are my insights.
      - Women are just people, a work in progress, not perfect, so don't put them on pedestal.
      - Women like men that are confident... So focus on your strengths, also working out and weight training will build physique, your confidence, release all kinds of great hormones, will calm you down, and will make you feel good about youself... In a word, confident..!
      - Then sometime during a conversation where you're both relaxed just say "we should grab a bite to eat sometime" and watch her reaction..! If she shows negative body language or flat out says no, then you know where she stands without actually, and formally, asking her out.
      Hope this helps..! Anna, please chime in..! 😃

    • @r.h.7633
      @r.h.7633 9 місяців тому +1

      @@brucemattingly6476 Hot dayum! Your first line got me off guard completely. That's an angle I never saw before. I'm always putting everyone else before me, on pedestal because I have a huge amount of respect on other people. I put you on pedestal and have no problem with it. I believe I was japanese in my previous life. But it seems like it's too much and I have to start respecting myself. So your next suggestions are definitely in place. Awesome way to start a day, Thank you! God bless you!

  • @canyonproductions7683
    @canyonproductions7683 4 місяці тому

    You speak well