She claimed to be scared of him yet, when he broke up with her, she was free to go but literally begged him to take her back. She just couldn't get over the fact that he was moving on without her. Just sad.
She also said something along the lines of "Watching him die was so painful". It sounded as if she felt uncomfortable to hear the noises and seeing a pool of blood when he was slowly dying. How could he make her go through that? What a cruel and heartless mindset she has !
"I gave him the nose job he wanted." That statement has had me shook up since the first time I heard it! One sick and evil woman!! She killed him because she couldn't have him. It's so tragic. Ryan was such a young and handsome man with so much going for him. RIP
Totally agree. I'm not even into dudes & thought hmmm very handsome too! lol Reminds me of Jake in the movie "Sixteen Candles". He looked alot like Clint Eastwood's actor son too. Clearly he was also very bright & on his way, just a terrible choice of gf. But clearly he realized his error & was moving on. And yet that psycho was having NONE of it. For all her lies & slandering him just to evade responsibility, she deserves eternal damnation UNDER the jail. As if senselessly ending his life how she did wasn't bad enough? I seriously doubt he ever said & did those things. Like sure he did, & that's why you were so hellbent on staying w/him huh??? For the no orgasms w/the dude says it's YOUR fault & nobody else will ever want you!? Ok sure! What a nut job is clearly obvious just from the interrogation room. I mean WOW. But most damning evidence of all to seal her fate? That text to her friend about shooting him at the range & make it look an accident. Ok gotcha! So, clearly premeditated & her not getting life no parole for 1st degree murder is such an insulting perversion of justice for him & his family.. Here's hoping every day in prison is an absolutely miserable existence for her she deserves it!
Tamara Mares - You’re so Right. I have to wonder, IF ANY, of the Negativity She elaborated, about Ryan, held, any truth, whatsoever, since, She wanted so desperately too keep Him in her life. If Ryan, had all, these terrible flaws, then why not just move on, and let Him date this new girl, he clearly has been speaking, and setting up dates with⁉️ The reason is, it was RYAN THAT WANTED OUT. That Is, the reason HE IS DRAD TODAY. There was, No argument, NO ASSAULT, at least, NOT FROM RYAN 😤 This was 100 % M U R D E R. It was SHE, whom MURDERED RYAN IN COLD BLOOD, because HE WANTED NOTHING TO DO WITH HER.
WHEN I HEARD THAT SHE GAVE HIM A NOSE JOB, I FELL IN LOVE WITH HER. WHEN I SAW HER SCARED SWEET LITTLE TOES, I HAD AN ORGASM FOR HER. I HOPE RYAN ENJOYED STARING INTO SHAYA'S EYES WHILE SHE WIGGLED HER TOES AND SLOWLY SQUEEZED THE TRIGGER, KNOWING THAT THOSE 6 ANGRY BULLETS CAN'T FOR SHAYNA'S FINGER TO GIVE THE ORDER OF DEATH. I LOVE YOU SHAYNA AND YOUR TOES, FACE, AND SINGING VOICE ALWAYS MAKES ME WANT TO ORGASM. GOD I WANT TO PLANT A LITTLE HILLBILLY IN YOUR BELLY. RON
The similarities to Jodi Arias are so obvious. This is disgraceful. Not only did she take this young man’s life, but she also tried to tarnish him. She should never get out of prison. My heart breaks for his family.
No. When a women thinks she will get away like so many women do but ends up with a heavy sentence... It is awesome. Sad he had to die but shocking part is she was held accountable.
Most families would rather not even have to deal with the trial, let alone continue to deal with it years, even decades, down the line. Harboring ill will toward someone for having hurt you isn't the revenge people imagine it to be. Holding a grudge is literally bad for one's health, both mentally & physically. It's effectively poison that prevents your wound from ever healing. The family has suffered enough, don't wish them more years of suffering. The best thing you could hope for them would be that they reach a point of no longer caring what happens to her, good or bad. Let something else get in the way of her parole attempts & let the family forget she even exists.
@@JJ-yc2sv what irresponsible thinking. If she ever got out, it would be a public disservice. She was cold blooded, cold hearted, no remorse. I bet she wouldn’t hesitate to do it again.
@@mikehunt7360 You clearly didn't even read the entire comment, yet you think you're in some position to judge my "thinking"? When did I say that she should get out? If you'd bothered to read before responding, you'd see that I implied the very opposite. It's your own assumptions that are "irresponsible." Learn to read better.
@@JJ-yc2sv Please, please, pleeease take that BS elsewhere🙏🏽The family is probably destroyed, it's up to THEM to work out how they want to move on, how they want to get engaged and involved, they probably have therapists and people who know them best who will hopefully guide them through the process, it's not to you to tell them on social media what's good for their physical or mental health. Some people might want to ignore her existence but many will try to hold her accountable in memory of the victim and to protect others from her evil, and it might be their path to healing, it doesn't mean it's hate or grudge. And even if it was, it's OK, they're entitled to all these emotions for as long as they need to. In fine, stay out of it and don't play UA-cam psychologist. There are hundreds of ways to deal with grief and turn your anger, rage or grudge into something else. I find it disturbing how you people with good intentions, borderline shame people who don't express emotions and deal with trauma how you'd expect. Wishing that this woman gets to remain behind bars as long as possible, is clearly a matter of public safety, its not wishing more pain on the family if ever they decide to protect the community, it might even give them a sense of purpose like the hundreds of families of victims of shootings advocating for school safety, it doesn't put them in more pain as far as I know. Again, I don't doubt your good intentions, but often good intentions come with an underlying condescending tone. Just let them be, and wish them strength and comfort. Period.
@@JJ-yc2sv The loved ones of a murder victim never forget the murderer exists - by default they're behind every memory because they're the reason there's only a memory left. Even after anger and need for revenge have dissipated, there can still be a normal sense of justice that demands the entire sentence should be served - and loved ones who feel that way will not count on 'something else getting in the way of parole'. Not to mention what others here are saying - she's a stone cold psychopath and capable of doing it to someone else.
I was married to a woman who was on the verge of doing this as I made my way to my truck I had a feeling a turned in time to see her raise my shotgun and lucky me it was too heavy and as she raised it it went off and hit the floor I ran and disarmed her took my gun. put it in the truck and was gone . But remembering back I ignored the early signs before we got married she was very jealous of my family , my friends and really anyone I spoke with for more than a minute later she would hide voice activated tape recorders around the house and I would find them in weird places I hope for her new husband's sake she's not as possessive as she was with me I should have listened to my grandmother after she spent 4 hours talking to her the first time Granny told me Babe she's crazy.
@@BeaIEngio its not that easy for a man. If he did that she would have claimed self defence and it would have ended badly for him. Trust me, for you it's easy as that, not for us.
The only way to "leave" someone with BPD is to orchestrate it such that they are convinced THEY are leaving you. I know to normies that sounds crazy but they ARE crazy. Psychologically they cannot bear being left/abandoned. I mean look at Jodi Arias. She's the poster child.
Clearly Ryan charmed her & made promises he had no intention of keeping Then discarded her when his curiosity was satisfied Men follow this pattern frequently In this case the lady was mentally unstable. Unfortunately he paid for his selfishness with his life
Haven't you realize that laws don't apply equally to everyone? If a particular group gets more favorable treatment, that is because they have some level of power over the system.
This makes me terrified to date. You don’t know what people are capable of until it’s too late. She cannot ever be released as the jury suggested! RIP RYAN
my thought But before 2012, when they've met (not sure, how long they were dating) I didn't felt it this way. The dating scene was so much better... and psychopathic reactions of people were so much in lesser extend , than now.
Of course she should be released. It was in fact a crime of passion. That was obvious, and it is a legally accepted mitigating factor in cases like this. She should have been charged with voluntary manslaughter--or at the very least received a lesser sentence. The life sentence was totally harsh and totally wrong.
@@richardernsberger5692 I hope you wouldnt say that if someone you loved was killed by this sadistic, evil murderer. It would be better for society if people who wanted the law to take it easy on evil, did a few months in prison themselves, lol.
Crime of passion is the heat of the moment u made a emotional decision that bish glad she killed him she's talking about it like she's talking about a night out@@richardernsberger5692
It is not complicated. In the same way men kill women who leave them, jealous women may kill men who leave them. Watch her original police interview. She truly thought she would get away with it. Why people try to make basic cruel human behaviour complicated is getting very boring. Sometimes things just are what they seem.
I agree. All the names that are being attached to these people in this day and age. BPD, various types of narcissism etc as if this explains it. 20 years ago we just called them plain phyco or evil. Nothing has changed.
I was the victim of a lot of childhood trauma and there was a time in my life that I would have overwhelming feelings of not being willing to allow people to hurt me or use me and get away with it. Thank God I got healing and did not end up in her shoes and I learned how to take responsibility for my emotions. It's amazing what trauma can lead to.
She should never ever get out of prison ! She took a life for her narcissistic selfish jealousy over Ryan wanting to date other women. She could not control him to love her.
I just wanted to put him out of his misery. If you say that you had to shoot him because of self defense. What's with the extra bullets thats ultimately killed him?
It's incredibly common for people to be killed with their own guns. The best defense against that is simply to not own one as it significantly reduces the chances you'll be a victim of a gun crime.
I had a coworker who went "baby voice" mode whenever she was on the phone with her father or husband. I was shocked and had to do a double take the first time I heard her cause it was a 180 change from her professional voice 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@yelizaveta1278 Yeah, those are the only two male members of her family I heard her talking with. She may have acted the same with other male relatives/friends, I don't know.
Male and female relationships have always surprised me: good men hook up with bad women and good women hook up with bad men. I've always wondered about this
This entire interview is chilling! She’s just so clueless of the impression she is giving off. This is like watching the naughty kid in school confessing and laughing to the head teacher that they slashed their tyres.
She couldn’t stand the fact he was moving on, she purposely went there to confront him & killed him. No remorse. She enjoyed the full attention of LE, making out she was the victim not the criminal, by portraying her ex in the worst way. Putting 6 bullets in him, lot of built up hate there, if she couldn’t have him no one else would either. Enjoy your new life.
This is a terrifying story. You never really know who you are bringing into your life, do you? (I hope she is not released from jail…she displayed no remorse.)
So many toxic relationships exists nowadays....watch your friends and their relationships please.....you never know what's brewing till you care enough. RIP
As I watched and listened to Shanya describe how she shot and killed Ryan and how many times she shot him to take him out of his misery and why instead of calling for help that he perhaps would have survived, sent chills up and down by spine. Ryan knew first hand what we as an audience didn't find out until he was murdered was just how superficial Shanya was and how she would rather kill someone in cold blood than let them break up with her bc after all how would that look to all their friends and family? Shanya found what she felt was the perfect match with and up and coming attorney from a great family and how all that would serve her well, so she killed him rather than cut losses and walk away with some dignity, instead she made up a not so fabulous lie about Ryan attacking her to make others hate him as much as she did in that moment and to also help her not face a murder charge. The mind is a horrific thing to let run away with outrageous delusions.
It disgusts me how she made excuses about putting him out of his misery. SHE WAS HIS MISERY ! If she had really been threatened, she could have gotten away after the first shot, but she didn't want any proof or witnesses to surface to show her up for what she was.
She's sick, that was not an option for her, whatever her issues are it comes down to mental defect of some kind, it won't go away and she will not get better
The chilling and shocking part is how calm she is while describing the events and how she killed him. She didn't flinch. Detective do not need to ask questions. Case and Point !!!
Would have been a lot cooler if he, you know, did anything at all to keep the innocent man alive. I always get annoyed at comments like this. Stop sucking off an impotent imaginary fiend and bring yourself down to reality.
So Ryan was sitting in the chair with table in front of him before he died. How was that even a threat to her? Laughing, singing and dancing after you killed someone is unbelievable! 😳 Shame on you Hubers!
@@Abena1709 Sadly, nothing goes beyond bad parenting - it can cause everything you've ever seen, and historians have ever seen. It's bizarre that parents aren't dragged to court when their children do things like this, a clear sign of an immature judicial system.
Yes it plays a huge role. Nowadays parents don't invest in their children (except by giving them "stuff"... they don't invest on their character) . Our upbringing has a profound impact on how we behave later, our concept of good and bad, self-accountability, empathy, etc. After university I decided to stay home and take care of my kids, personally I think it's the best I can do, and should do. Trying my best, leaving the rest to Allah (just the arabic word for God). Take care everyone and let's take care of these little humans, they need us so much, let's teach them how to be GREAT human beings who benefit society and the world (even animals and the environments), this is what my family taught me and hope I can teach it to my kids. The world is going mad, let's stay steadfast and strong :)
This is just so sad and disgusting at the same time!! For her to make jokes and laugh is sickening!! She took the life of someone's Son, brother and friend!! I hope she NEVER sees the light of day again!! Prayers for his family... 🙏
Her statements on the stand about Mr Poston's attitudes and behaviors are absurd. After she lies, each time, she shifts her eyes to see if the lie is being swallowed. Glad she's gone from the public now.
She brought the worst out in him, he wasn’t a violent man he unfortunately got involved with a emotionally unhinged women who drove him to lose his sane equilibrium. It was her insecurities and jealousy that caused it. She was obsessed, if she couldn’t have him nobody can.
@@OlgaSmirnova1 well yeah the crime has been done, you think hes gonna come back to life or what? And also doesnt matter if she gets parole in 2032 her life is basically done, she would be near 45 even if she was to get her life back together she will be hated everywhere she goes, cant get a job, self pity, depression etc and she will be already in her 50-60s what a dump of a life honestly. Her life is over
Wow, it’s just like the arias case. Pure evil. So sorry for the loss of your son. He accomplishes a lot in his short time, and He is your angel. Praying for your family, 10 years later.
@@Dollgrl1....💯% Jodi Arias 2.0....Imagine dating both these women at the same time....Maybe they'll kill each other❓️ And the dude walks away unharmed 🫣😬❓️
Gun advocates never aim a loaded gun at anyone. That is one of the common sense rules that even children who learn to use guns safely learns first. She denigrated this poor man's life so many times in this case. So glad the cops saw through her story.
Who cares about HER emotional state?! JUST IMAGINE RYANS EMOTIONAL STATE realising he is dying! I have Borderline personality disorder, but I don’t go shooting my boyfriends!
Same. She deserves to rot in jail. Her showing “good behaviour” in jail will never bring him back to his family. I doubt she can behave anyway considering that high level of selfishness and lack of self reflection but I hope that the parole board consider this when making their decision. You cannot undo taking a life.
How can you keep shooting, OMG! he wasn't a sick animal that needed put down! And I would never be that heartless! I hope she gets help. Seriously, thank goodness she will not have children and as sad as it is Ryan is resting in peace. I am so sorry to his family. 🙏
I'm sick and tired of women claim of fake victimhood because the murder they have committed....I remember when I seen this on Dateline..it showed her when she was left in a room..she looked and knew the camera was there 🤔🤔
Superficial? She sounds more like a combination of infantile and sociopathic. That girly voice, posing and childish way of speaking as she describes his agony as if it were just a game is terrifying. And during first 10 minutes she changed the details of her story at least five times. It was always only about her! Poor Ryan and his family.
You only need to look in his eyes in most of the photos. Especially the latest ones. He had wanted out for some time. He didn't want to hurt her by being more direct. Not his fault. She was mentally, still a child.
Being more direct and taking a tough stance with her may have saved his life. Sometimes you can't and shouldn't be nice, not when it comes to breaking up with someone like shayna.
She was 21 years old, of course she was likely to be immature to a basically 30 yr old. I don't know what he was thinking in getting with a woman that much younger.
Wait. So she eligible for parole on 2032!!!!!! 🤔 When she was sentence in 2018 that's only 14 years plus time serve which is about 7 years or so. That's not justice at all she'll be around 43 years old still living life and possibly kill someone else. She should got lift without the possiblity for parole
Her confession is a prosecutors dream. The officers didn't have to ask a single question
yep. she blah blah blahed her way into permanent confinement. happy days!
She was talking to the cop like she was her best friend.
@@haintedhouse2990😂😂
She claimed to be scared of him yet, when he broke up with her, she was free to go but literally begged him to take her back. She just couldn't get over the fact that he was moving on without her. Just sad.
A true sign of a sociopath!
True 💯
Fact.
“Put him out of his misery”?? She CAUSED his misery.
She also said something along the lines of "Watching him die was so painful". It sounded as if she felt uncomfortable to hear the noises and seeing a pool of blood when he was slowly dying. How could he make her go through that? What a cruel and heartless mindset she has !
Way she talked tell She one that if she don't get what she wants She's going to No end get it .
Every woman does. But she just put him out again 😘
She really meant, end my misery, by deleting him.
She WAS HIS MISERY
“I gave him the nose job he always wanted “has given me the chills since the first time I heard her make that sentiments ,and still does!!
"I gave him the nose job he wanted." That statement has had me shook up since the first time I heard it! One sick and evil woman!! She killed him because she couldn't have him. It's so tragic. Ryan was such a young and handsome man with so much going for him. RIP
So sad R.I.P.
Totally agree. I'm not even into dudes & thought hmmm very handsome too! lol Reminds me of Jake in the movie "Sixteen Candles". He looked alot like Clint Eastwood's actor son too.
Clearly he was also very bright & on his way, just a terrible choice of gf. But clearly he realized his error & was moving on.
And yet that psycho was having NONE of it. For all her lies & slandering him just to evade responsibility, she deserves eternal damnation UNDER the jail. As if senselessly ending his life how she did wasn't bad enough? I seriously doubt he ever said & did those things. Like sure he did, & that's why you were so hellbent on staying w/him huh??? For the no orgasms w/the dude says it's YOUR fault & nobody else will ever want you!? Ok sure!
What a nut job is clearly obvious just from the interrogation room. I mean WOW. But most damning evidence of all to seal her fate? That text to her friend about shooting him at the range & make it look an accident. Ok gotcha!
So, clearly premeditated & her not getting life no parole for 1st degree murder is such an insulting perversion of justice for him & his family.. Here's hoping every day in prison is an absolutely miserable existence for her she deserves it!
Tamara Mares - You’re so Right.
I have to wonder, IF ANY, of the Negativity She elaborated, about Ryan, held, any truth, whatsoever, since, She wanted so desperately too keep Him in her life.
If Ryan, had all, these terrible flaws, then why not just move on, and let Him date this new girl, he clearly has been speaking, and setting up dates with⁉️
The reason is, it was RYAN THAT WANTED OUT.
That Is, the reason HE IS DRAD TODAY.
There was, No argument, NO ASSAULT, at least, NOT FROM RYAN 😤
This was 100 % M U R D E R.
It was SHE, whom MURDERED RYAN IN COLD BLOOD, because HE WANTED NOTHING TO DO WITH HER.
She sure did give him that nose job lol
Meh..he was a scum bag lawyer..
"I gave him the nose job he wanted." is a lock her up for life one-liner.
I can’t believe she said that! Wow
WHEN I HEARD THAT SHE
GAVE HIM A NOSE JOB,
I FELL IN LOVE WITH HER.
WHEN I SAW HER SCARED
SWEET LITTLE TOES, I
HAD AN ORGASM FOR HER.
I HOPE RYAN ENJOYED STARING INTO SHAYA'S EYES WHILE SHE WIGGLED
HER TOES AND SLOWLY
SQUEEZED THE TRIGGER,
KNOWING THAT THOSE 6
ANGRY BULLETS CAN'T FOR
SHAYNA'S FINGER TO GIVE
THE ORDER OF DEATH.
I LOVE YOU SHAYNA AND
YOUR TOES, FACE, AND SINGING VOICE ALWAYS
MAKES ME WANT TO
ORGASM. GOD I WANT TO
PLANT A LITTLE HILLBILLY
IN YOUR BELLY. RON
Ice water runs through her veins...The worst kind of super scary person, this one.
And you still don’t have him
Only way she gets away if the judge disallows her statements to police.
The similarities to Jodi Arias are so obvious. This is disgraceful. Not only did she take this young man’s life, but she also tried to tarnish him. She should never get out of prison. My heart breaks for his family.
Interesting, I think the similarity is of Amber Heard
@@naomibeery8098 true, but Jodi Arias killed Travis Alexander. Luckily, Johnny Depp is still alive.
Women always try to tarnish their victims dead or not
Ακριβώς έτσι και πολύ κακή γυναίκα
Spot on !!! Especially the whisper talking and singing, etc.
Sad part she actually thought she was going to get away with murder 😪
No. When a women thinks she will get away like so many women do but ends up with a heavy sentence... It is awesome. Sad he had to die but shocking part is she was held accountable.
What a shallow, inhuman woman - I hope her victim's family is around to fight against any and every attempt she ever
makes to get paroled.
Most families would rather not even have to deal with the trial, let alone continue to deal with it years, even decades, down the line. Harboring ill will toward someone for having hurt you isn't the revenge people imagine it to be. Holding a grudge is literally bad for one's health, both mentally & physically. It's effectively poison that prevents your wound from ever healing. The family has suffered enough, don't wish them more years of suffering. The best thing you could hope for them would be that they reach a point of no longer caring what happens to her, good or bad. Let something else get in the way of her parole attempts & let the family forget she even exists.
@@JJ-yc2sv what irresponsible thinking. If she ever got out, it would be a public disservice. She was cold blooded, cold hearted, no remorse. I bet she wouldn’t hesitate to do it again.
@@mikehunt7360
You clearly didn't even read the entire comment, yet you think you're in some position to judge my "thinking"? When did I say that she should get out? If you'd bothered to read before responding, you'd see that I implied the very opposite. It's your own assumptions that are "irresponsible." Learn to read better.
@@JJ-yc2sv Please, please, pleeease take that BS elsewhere🙏🏽The family is probably destroyed, it's up to THEM to work out how they want to move on, how they want to get engaged and involved, they probably have therapists and people who know them best who will hopefully guide them through the process, it's not to you to tell them on social media what's good for their physical or mental health. Some people might want to ignore her existence but many will try to hold her accountable in memory of the victim and to protect others from her evil, and it might be their path to healing, it doesn't mean it's hate or grudge. And even if it was, it's OK, they're entitled to all these emotions for as long as they need to.
In fine, stay out of it and don't play UA-cam psychologist. There are hundreds of ways to deal with grief and turn your anger, rage or grudge into something else. I find it disturbing how you people with good intentions, borderline shame people who don't express emotions and deal with trauma how you'd expect. Wishing that this woman gets to remain behind bars as long as possible, is clearly a matter of public safety, its not wishing more pain on the family if ever they decide to protect the community, it might even give them a sense of purpose like the hundreds of families of victims of shootings advocating for school safety, it doesn't put them in more pain as far as I know.
Again, I don't doubt your good intentions, but often good intentions come with an underlying condescending tone. Just let them be, and wish them strength and comfort. Period.
@@JJ-yc2sv The loved ones of a murder victim never forget the murderer exists - by default they're behind every memory because they're the reason there's only a memory left. Even after anger and need for revenge have dissipated, there can still be a normal sense of justice that demands the entire sentence should be served - and loved ones who feel that way will not count on 'something else getting in the way of parole'. Not to mention what others here are saying - she's a stone cold psychopath and capable of doing it to someone else.
Over Jealousy is a dangerous illness
She’s a terrible person, awful liar and acts like a child. It’s like every word she speaks is fabricated. Disturbing.
There's a reason women and children are often grouped into one category
@@geprekbento7543and men alike
She was very immature. I don't blame him for not wanting to be with her. He was a young man moving up in the real adult world. So sad.
disturbingly cra cra
It bothers me that people keep trying to make excuses for her behavior. She killed him because he didn't want to be with her anymore.
Do people try and make excuses for her ? Don’t know, just asking.
JODI ARIAS TWIN🤦🏽♀️
@@alisondawson5116 Yep that is what the person who made this comment is saying smart guy
I was married to a woman who was on the verge of doing this as I made my way to my truck I had a feeling a turned in time to see her raise my shotgun and lucky me it was too heavy and as she raised it it went off and hit the floor I ran and disarmed her took my gun. put it in the truck and was gone . But remembering back I ignored the early signs before we got married she was very jealous of my family , my friends and really anyone I spoke with for more than a minute later she would hide voice activated tape recorders around the house and I would find them in weird places I hope for her new husband's sake she's not as possessive as she was with me I should have listened to my grandmother after she spent 4 hours talking to her the first time Granny told me Babe she's crazy.
You didn't have her arrested for attempted murder??
Glad you got out of that
I'm sorry that happened to you OP.
@@BeaIEngio its not that easy for a man. If he did that she would have claimed self defence and it would have ended badly for him. Trust me, for you it's easy as that, not for us.
Wow omg that is nuts....wow glad u are ok wow.
Wow,being in the presence of this evil woman must be nerve wrecking. Glad she was held accountable.
She’s getting out on parole
Dating this defective individual must have been horrible, and then to be stalked when he wanted to end the relationship...poor Ryan.
She was born in the wrong time she a wife from the western cowboy movies
@@whiplash6992 What?? She would have made a terrible western cowboy wife lol
The only way to "leave" someone with BPD is to orchestrate it such that they are convinced THEY are leaving you. I know to normies that sounds crazy but they ARE crazy. Psychologically they cannot bear being left/abandoned. I mean look at Jodi Arias. She's the poster child.
Clearly Ryan charmed her & made promises he had no intention of keeping Then discarded her when his curiosity was satisfied
Men follow this pattern frequently
In this case the lady was mentally unstable. Unfortunately he paid for his selfishness with his life
@@RK-su4hs Sometimes that happens. That didn't happen in this case.
I have BPD and I completely understand the desperation that comes with losing someone that you want, but I have NEVER thought on hurting my partners..
She should NEVER get out of prison! She is nuts
Well she's gonna be still young when she gets out 38 years that is very young she will be still able to have kids.
Haven't you realize that laws don't apply equally to everyone? If a particular group gets more favorable treatment, that is because they have some level of power over the system.
@@janessaortez5065 no shes not getting out at 38, shes only eligible for parole in 2032...we dont know if shes actually getting it.
@SputnikSweetheart she won't get out as long as the family keeps coming for the parole hearings
AS LONG AS HER AND JODI DON'T SHARE A CELL BECAUSE LORDDDDD🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️😩😩
She was in a state of euphoria. That's spooky watching her. It shows you never know who you allow to share your life with.
He says she just killed her boyfriend and she immediately went into self defense mode that's about as guilty as it gets.
Women always do and say this same 💩 when they murder their husbands/boyfriends etc
This makes me terrified to date. You don’t know what people are capable of until it’s too late. She cannot ever be released as the jury suggested! RIP RYAN
my thought
But before 2012, when they've met (not sure, how long they were dating) I didn't felt it this way. The dating scene was so much better... and psychopathic reactions of people were so much in lesser extend , than now.
Then she married a transgender woman in a jail house ceremony. What a weirdo.
Of course she should be released. It was in fact a crime of passion. That was obvious, and it is a legally accepted mitigating factor in cases like this. She should have been charged with voluntary manslaughter--or at the very least received a lesser sentence. The life sentence was totally harsh and totally wrong.
@@richardernsberger5692 I hope you wouldnt say that if someone you loved was killed by this sadistic, evil murderer. It would be better for society if people who wanted the law to take it easy on evil, did a few months in prison themselves, lol.
Crime of passion is the heat of the moment u made a emotional decision that bish glad she killed him she's talking about it like she's talking about a night out@@richardernsberger5692
It is not complicated. In the same way men kill women who leave them, jealous women may kill men who leave them. Watch her original police interview. She truly thought she would get away with it. Why people try to make basic cruel human behaviour complicated is getting very boring. Sometimes things just are what they seem.
I couldn't agree more
The problem is that it's a women so it needs to be complicated if it was a man it would be easy to assest he's a monster thats equality for you
BPD isn't about jealousy. It's about an existential fear/dread of abandonment.
I agree. All the names that are being attached to these people in this day and age. BPD, various types of narcissism etc as if this explains it. 20 years ago we just called them plain phyco or evil. Nothing has changed.
100 percent
I was the victim of a lot of childhood trauma and there was a time in my life that I would have overwhelming feelings of not being willing to allow people to hurt me or use me and get away with it. Thank God I got healing and did not end up in her shoes and I learned how to take responsibility for my emotions. It's amazing what trauma can lead to.
Her dancing and happiness and pride words” I did it! “ just makes me sick to my stomach RIP Ryan, my heart is 💔💔💔💔😭😭😭😭😭😭….
I know right! She is just pure evil and cold blooded murdered
She should never ever get out of prison ! She took a life for her narcissistic selfish jealousy over Ryan wanting to date other women. She could not control him to love her.
"It was painful to watch him die" imagine how he felt
I just wanted to put him out of his misery. If you say that you had to shoot him because of self defense. What's with the extra bullets thats ultimately killed him?
Or his family knowing she took the time to think instead trying to get him help.b
His eyes look so sad in those pictures with her.
Leaving a loaded weapon sitting around is never a good idea. The only person that should ever know where your weapon is hidden is you.
It's incredibly common for people to be killed with their own guns. The best defense against that is simply to not own one as it significantly reduces the chances you'll be a victim of a gun crime.
@@abebuckingham8198 it’s better to have one and not need to use it than to need it and not have it!
@@MmaFan34 The best indicator that you'll be a victim of gun violence is gun ownership. It's always safer not to have one.
@@MmaFan34 💯
@@abebuckingham8198 its common for dogs to attack people. We need to get rid of all the dogs.
RIP Ryan. Taken too soon. So tragic for him and his family. She should be in prison for her whole life.
And she will be, thank Goodness.
@@rafalIL29, Hopefully, but it stated she will be eligible for parole in 2032. (see the 20:52 mark)
She thought she could get away with killing him by explaining her way out in baby voice 😏 DISGUSTING!!!
That voice… couldn’t stand listening to her whine untruths. Depraved. Sad loss of human life. RIP.
So many women love to use that baby voice. It is so annoying.
I had a coworker who went "baby voice" mode whenever she was on the phone with her father or husband. I was shocked and had to do a double take the first time I heard her cause it was a 180 change from her professional voice 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@V.E.R.O. just them? Yeah that's kinda creepy 🥴
@@yelizaveta1278 Yeah, those are the only two male members of her family I heard her talking with. She may have acted the same with other male relatives/friends, I don't know.
So unfortunate that Ryan got involved with someone as unstable as Shayna. She should stay incarcerated for a very long time.
Male and female relationships have always surprised me: good men hook up with bad women and good women hook up with bad men. I've always wondered about this
Some of these women are selling babies
Forever
She’s probably out already
@@sdanzey6962 she was sentenced to life in prison.
This entire interview is chilling! She’s just so clueless of the impression she is giving off.
This is like watching the naughty kid in school confessing and laughing to the head teacher that they slashed their tyres.
SAME THING JODI DID
She couldn’t stand the fact he was moving on, she purposely went there to confront him & killed him. No remorse. She enjoyed the full attention of LE, making out she was the victim not the criminal, by portraying her ex in the worst way. Putting 6 bullets in him, lot of built up hate there, if she couldn’t have him no one else would either. Enjoy your new life.
This is a terrifying story. You never really know who you are bringing into your life, do you? (I hope she is not released from jail…she displayed no remorse.)
I have borderline personality disorder and I don't think she has it, she's a psychopath. That's no BPD.
It was extremely obvious just from her talking to the police that it was not self defense...
She was too young and immature, he had no business being with her...
So many toxic relationships exists nowadays....watch your friends and their relationships please.....you never know what's brewing till you care enough. RIP
The sad part is that a lot of the time, they don't listen
Wow, overturned! That juror deserves prison time.
As I watched and listened to Shanya describe how she shot and killed Ryan and how many times she shot him to take him out of his misery and why instead of calling for help that he perhaps would have survived, sent chills up and down by spine. Ryan knew first hand what we as an audience didn't find out until he was murdered was just how superficial Shanya was and how she would rather kill someone in cold blood than let them break up with her bc after all how would that look to all their friends and family? Shanya found what she felt was the perfect match with and up and coming attorney from a great family and how all that would serve her well, so she killed him rather than cut losses and walk away with some dignity, instead she made up a not so fabulous lie about Ryan attacking her to make others hate him as much as she did in that moment and to also help her not face a murder charge. The mind is a horrific thing to let run away with outrageous delusions.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, Brigitte.
It disgusts me how she made excuses about putting him out of his misery. SHE WAS HIS MISERY !
If she had really been threatened, she could have gotten away after the first shot, but she didn't want any proof or witnesses to surface to show her up for what she was.
I must agree with you it actually made me shake listening to how she shot him 6 times literally shake
@Dom Gesvalli Killing him seemed to give her great pleasure. Men and woman every where need to be aware some ppl are not what they appear to be.
You can just see it in his eyes….he wasn’t happy at all, he looked terrified 😢
I was just about to say this! He looked scared in the pics with her
if he threw you around and beat you as bad as you say, where are the bruises?
Exactly 👍
Take the time to learn all you can about sociopaths. And when you have one enter your life, don't just walk away, but run.
Amen.
@@JuliaShalomJordanI don’t know how I got here, but this is very eye opening! By the way- you’re so beautiful 😅
@@imanollaynez2950 ur so cute with this comment you left for her...hope u both doin ok now😄😄
She is truly evil
Wrong. She’s cute.
You mean a woman....I'll let myself out.
She is basically AOC and a lot of powerful people
@@hiddengem9742 how so
@@ericB3444 She killed her boss because he fired her.
talk about a Self Centered person and this is one right here. Never let her out of Prison. she is a danger to anyone that gets close to her
Yup.🫣
Her eye contact is creepy asf😳
Tell us your guilty without saying it.....
Why couldn't she have let him go, and moved on with her life, instead of taking his?
She's sick, that was not an option for her, whatever her issues are it comes down to mental defect of some kind, it won't go away and she will not get better
She brings new meaning to the term "piece of work."
The chilling and shocking part is how calm she is while describing the events and how she killed him. She didn't flinch. Detective do not need to ask questions. Case and Point !!!
Am I not pretty enough? Ummmm it’s not always about looks honey. In my experience, the prettiest girls don’t know how to deal with rejection 😒😒
This is so sad. May the Lord bring comfort and healing to both of these families.
Amen
Would have been a lot cooler if he, you know, did anything at all to keep the innocent man alive.
I always get annoyed at comments like this. Stop sucking off an impotent imaginary fiend and bring yourself down to reality.
At least the jury got this one right.
There are a lot of them psychopaths out there! They can be your neighbor 🤷🏾♂️
Yes, or a doctor or nurse 😟
@@Moonstone115 Or a Car washer or A Sandwich maker
@@Moonstone115 spot on
Even sleeping right next to you. ✌️
Or in your comment section
Wow. Something very wrong with her.
So Ryan was sitting in the chair with table in front of him before he died. How was that even a threat to her? Laughing, singing and dancing after you killed someone is unbelievable! 😳 Shame on you Hubers!
How do you even avoid dating people like this?
This is the result of bad parenting- she’s clearly used to everyone fawning over her & getting away with every bit of bad behaviour.
This goes beyond bad parenting.
@@Abena1709 Sadly, nothing goes beyond bad parenting - it can cause everything you've ever seen, and historians have ever seen. It's bizarre that parents aren't dragged to court when their children do things like this, a clear sign of an immature judicial system.
@@gessie agreed parents need to be charged & accountable for who they raise . We’d have less freaking loons like this one ☝🏽
@@nancydrew1102 no.. no they don’t. Its almost like people have their own free will, thinking and actions. Crazy concept right?
Yes it plays a huge role. Nowadays parents don't invest in their children (except by giving them "stuff"... they don't invest on their character) . Our upbringing has a profound impact on how we behave later, our concept of good and bad, self-accountability, empathy, etc. After university I decided to stay home and take care of my kids, personally I think it's the best I can do, and should do. Trying my best, leaving the rest to Allah (just the arabic word for God). Take care everyone and let's take care of these little humans, they need us so much, let's teach them how to be GREAT human beings who benefit society and the world (even animals and the environments), this is what my family taught me and hope I can teach it to my kids. The world is going mad, let's stay steadfast and strong :)
Jealousy is always the cruest emotion that causes the most violence in relationships .without Jealousy disagreements would be more easily resolved .
From the moment she said the word disarray I knew she planned it...
The moment I heard hervoice I know she is a cold blooded murderer
This is just so sad and disgusting at the same time!! For her to make jokes and laugh is sickening!! She took the life of someone's Son, brother and friend!! I hope she NEVER sees the light of day again!! Prayers for his family... 🙏
I suffer from bpd and I have trouble with my emotions but I don't act like her at all. She knew what she was doing
Her statements on the stand about Mr Poston's attitudes and behaviors are absurd. After she lies, each time, she shifts her eyes to see if the lie is being swallowed. Glad she's gone from the public now.
How could she ever be eligible for parole? She should rot in jail for the rest of her life. Till this day, she still have no remorse for what she did.
She could be out in 9 years 😢
Doubt she will be granted parole.
She brought the worst out in him, he wasn’t a violent man he unfortunately got involved with a emotionally unhinged women who drove him to lose his sane equilibrium. It was her insecurities and jealousy that caused it. She was obsessed, if she couldn’t have him nobody can.
Going from 40 yrs to a life sentence, I bet that was a surprise!
She is pure evil! She thought she was going to get away with it.
Was her meal ticket running out?
She got life… Well done.
That girl needs more than life in penitentiary!!!! PHYSICO therapy !!! Probably Won't help tho
She should get death....life for life. NO JUSTICE
Really? He lost his life and she got Life, do you think that’s Justice?
Yeah but she can get parole in 2032. That's crazy.
@@OlgaSmirnova1 well yeah the crime has been done, you think hes gonna come back to life or what? And also doesnt matter if she gets parole in 2032 her life is basically done, she would be near 45 even if she was to get her life back together she will be hated everywhere she goes, cant get a job, self pity, depression etc and she will be already in her 50-60s what a dump of a life honestly. Her life is over
This could have been Amber…Depp was lucky to get out when he did!
That's true!
I totally agree, I’ve always thought Johnny was lucky to be alive. Amber and her friends very scary people.
Agreed 💯
I agree
Depp is fine and can contribute painting penises in blood on lampshades with his finger don't worry
Her voice COMPLETELY changed when she said his name to the dispatcher. Evil.
She lived right across the bridge from me. Glad I never encountered her
All she cares about herself so shelfish
Wow, it’s just like the arias case. Pure evil. So sorry for the loss of your son. He accomplishes a lot in his short time, and He is your angel. Praying for your family, 10 years later.
This is probably one of the most unbelievable things I have ever heard. I am beyond shocked!
This case reminds me of Jodi Arias the singing and the dancing everything
I was thinking the same thing. Hope they both rot.
👏 Yes I just said the same days later ! I’m just reading comments on this post now . She’s exactly like Jodi !
@@Dollgrl1....💯% Jodi Arias 2.0....Imagine dating both these women at the same time....Maybe they'll kill each other❓️ And the dude walks away unharmed 🫣😬❓️
You can tell in all the pictures he took with her, he was not happy. Had alot of sadness in his eyes.
12:00 I don’t think he said any of these things. I believe this is how she feels about herself.
100 % agree!
Yup, especially since he upgraded when he went to the beauty queen
Lock her up far far away and throw away the key!😬
She's insane
Most people are insane, they just fear doing bad stuff,, the law restrains most people
No, she knows the difference.
Gun advocates never aim a loaded gun at anyone. That is one of the common sense rules that even children who learn to use guns safely learns first. She denigrated this poor man's life so many times in this case. So glad the cops saw through her story.
Who cares about HER emotional state?! JUST IMAGINE RYANS EMOTIONAL STATE realising he is dying!
I have Borderline personality disorder, but I don’t go shooting my boyfriends!
I’m so glad someone else thought this
Absolutely ♥️
And the fact she said he made noise "like a bear" made me upset with her even more
Ummm, you haven't shot any of your boyfriends........ yet. Please get some help before someone gets hurt.
Same. She deserves to rot in jail. Her showing “good behaviour” in jail will never bring him back to his family. I doubt she can behave anyway considering that high level of selfishness and lack of self reflection but I hope that the parole board consider this when making their decision.
You cannot undo taking a life.
How can you keep shooting, OMG! he wasn't a sick animal that needed put down! And I would never be that heartless! I hope she gets help. Seriously, thank goodness she will not have children and as sad as it is Ryan is resting in peace. I am so sorry to his family. 🙏
From 40 years to a life sentence. Nice.
I remember this ONLY because of what she said about “ gave him the nose job he wanted “.
Same it’s the audacity for me😮
She completely lost contact with reality. She’s living in a fantasy world within her head.
Maybe she was sick and nobody help her................................
she thought she would really get away with this murder SMH
Very fishy, she should have gotten life-in-prison-without-parole, fullstop.
I'm sick and tired of women claim of fake victimhood because the murder they have committed....I remember when I seen this on Dateline..it showed her when she was left in a room..she looked and knew the camera was there 🤔🤔
Sicko.
Interesting how some criminals only cries when they know they're going to jail, but not when they actually KILL
Jodi Arias 2.0. Chilling
Superficial? She sounds more like a combination of infantile and sociopathic. That girly voice, posing and childish way of speaking as she describes his agony as if it were just a game is terrifying. And during first 10 minutes she changed the details of her story at least five times. It was always only about her!
Poor Ryan and his family.
You only need to look in his eyes in most of the photos. Especially the latest ones. He had wanted out for some time. He didn't want to hurt her by being more direct. Not his fault. She was mentally, still a child.
I noticed the photos too. He did not look truly happy with her
She was mentally an evil, narcissistic psycho. Anyone with a child like character would never do what she did.
@@brandyjohn have you qualifications to back your statement? Spoiled, entitled child. Like so many in the US and you wonder why this happens?
Being more direct and taking a tough stance with her may have saved his life. Sometimes you can't and shouldn't be nice, not when it comes to breaking up with someone like shayna.
She was 21 years old, of course she was likely to be immature to a basically 30 yr old. I don't know what he was thinking in getting with a woman that much younger.
Wait. So she eligible for parole on 2032!!!!!! 🤔 When she was sentence in 2018 that's only 14 years plus time serve which is about 7 years or so. That's not justice at all she'll be around 43 years old still living life and possibly kill someone else. She should got lift without the possiblity for parole
Give her the chair.
I thought the same
I agree....and forget to wet the sponge.
Men are victims too 💜
she can saying anything because he is not here to defend himself she is guilty
6 shots in self-defense???? This woman is crazy.
If she was a cop she'd be hailed as a hero
@@thetruthisonlyperspective4872 How so? there has to be a reason for self defense and cops also have body cams so your comment is invalid
A horrible tragedy. Prayers for his family and friends.🙏💔
That affect is. . . So off. Wow.
I've never seen evil until now. No words.
Many prayers for Ryan's family having to carry this unclosable burden,,, a true life sentence 🙏 : for both families.