“CORNY” Black Men Explain How They Overcame Rejection of Black Women!

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  • @wokequil9423
    @wokequil9423 Рік тому +230

    I remember in grade school(2000s) a teacher heard kids saying I like "weird white" music. The teacher pulled me to the side and ask what I was in my CD player. She was shocked to see it was Miles Davis's Beetches Brew. That's when I learned that blackness has nothing to do with being black it's about being a living black stereotype. .

    • @mlspeopleshoulddateeachoth6940
      @mlspeopleshoulddateeachoth6940 Рік тому +1

      That is some of the most ignorant shit I ever heard. Miles Davis is OG black music

    • @Alvan81
      @Alvan81 Рік тому +53

      I used to listen to Jimi Hendrix, and some old Blues music, same problem!

    • @brianbyers5400
      @brianbyers5400 Рік тому +47

      @WokeQuil, good grief, some of our people are incredibely stupid. Beeches Brew was one of Miles Davis's best albums! Kind of Blue was his best. This album is the best jazz album ever! Sorry, I went on a tangent!

    • @ghostofhallownest5300
      @ghostofhallownest5300 Рік тому

      For them to look down on what is actually black culture and call it white is mindblowing to say the least. Jazz and blues is not black now!? Wtf and where are these lost fools hailing from so I can give them a history lesson!? 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @ghosttemplar6989
      @ghosttemplar6989 Рік тому +34

      I got called "white boy" for listening to Alternative Rock like Linkin Park and Korn.

  • @milesfriend1043
    @milesfriend1043 Рік тому +209

    Other races of women see the potential in the good black men

    • @blacknight88
      @blacknight88 Рік тому +35

      Some how black women cant

    • @shonchesney8363
      @shonchesney8363 Рік тому +6

      Other races don't understand or know the black plight or the trauma that black men have caused black women. Black men have a bad reputation of being terrible dads.

    • @DeeboX-vv8ji
      @DeeboX-vv8ji Рік тому +18

      @@shonchesney8363 with all the social media... they're starting to catch on.

    • @jd1ify
      @jd1ify Рік тому +19

      @@shonchesney8363
      Funny how they don’t understand but can respect black men still!
      It’s interesting especially when he’s not a thug they respect him well

    • @tonyj9203
      @tonyj9203 Рік тому +19

      🤦🏾 But, this is what trips me out. These same brothers get hated on when seen with another ethnicity.

  • @anthonyharrison7728
    @anthonyharrison7728 Рік тому +152

    I was also considered "Corny", "Nerdy" and "Acting White" or "Lame" back in high school... mostly by black women...it's all good though.. most of those ladies became single mothers who got fat and some got stuck in abusive and violent relationships. So I didn't really miss out on much

    • @mcole442
      @mcole442 Рік тому

      75% of BW don't want happiness; they want DRAMA and CHAOS 👈

    • @LawlessGaming13
      @LawlessGaming13 Рік тому +19

      I call it poetic justice. 😂

    • @hansolodolo92
      @hansolodolo92 Рік тому +23

      Girl cheated and left me for a “pookie” in high school. Guess who was in my dm’s last month😂😂😂 last boyfriend she had profile pic was him with tattoos on his face holding a gun at the cam😂😂😂 a grown ass teenager, guessing I won 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @zeidmuhammad8206
      @zeidmuhammad8206 Рік тому +2

      Experienced the same thing, we were spared 🙌🙌

    • @mdtisthebest6249
      @mdtisthebest6249 11 місяців тому +1

      I wouldn’t wish that on anyone bruh

  • @bluefig797
    @bluefig797 Рік тому +75

    The dangerous situation is those black women choosing the “corny” black men when they really want the thuggish men. Eventually they will cheat on that man and ruin his life.

    • @kingr.a.4067
      @kingr.a.4067 Рік тому +23

      The so-called corny black men are supposed to reject women who prefer thugs currently or in their past.

    • @lifncar28
      @lifncar28 Рік тому +4

      "you are not the father" smh

    • @johndasilva2686
      @johndasilva2686 4 місяці тому +1

      If a ratchet woman can cheat then so can the nerd.

    • @damianholmes3049
      @damianholmes3049 2 місяці тому +2

      @@johndasilva2686wrong mindset. The nerd has too much to lose by being petty to prove a point to a chick that obviously didn’t give a f*** about him. Be wise and let that pain fuel his greatness.

  • @shadex3736
    @shadex3736 Рік тому +75

    I went to high school in both Nigeria and the US. I noticed that in Nigeria, the girls go for the smart boys...this pushes boys to study harder but in the states, it was the opposite, I have been called a nerd because I was answering all the questions and scoring high in my test. The girls go for the jocks and class clowns. The blacks student made fun of my accent, asking dumb questions about "Africa" but the non-blacks treated me better.

    • @dred9174
      @dred9174 Рік тому

      The only BW I've ever been on dates with weren't even born in America they were transfer students or people who moved over here. American BW just aren't interested in educated men.

  • @martywilliams8927
    @martywilliams8927 Рік тому +68

    Like BGS IBMOR said: "disrespect is the black woman's love language.."

    • @srobearl
      @srobearl Рік тому +10

      This is very true. Even in relationships, they view disrespect to us as a duty.

    • @nathaniel3867
      @nathaniel3867 6 місяців тому +4

      @@srobearlthat’s why you leave them behind. The shaming tactics ain’t gonna work

  • @Lordparable
    @Lordparable Рік тому +146

    We can’t force attraction, if Bw want their stereotypes in their men let them seek it. They just need to keep our name out of their mouth afterwards

    • @dred9174
      @dred9174 Рік тому +2

      Unfortunately they don't they're upset that Plan B is leaving the country.

    • @Lordparable
      @Lordparable Рік тому +3

      @@dred9174 like make it make sense 💀

    • @dred9174
      @dred9174 Рік тому +34

      @@Lordparable I can't but what we can do is let these women know what we think of them. They aren't going to friend zone/ignore us throughout their prime to try and get us to play stepdad to Pookies Thuglets. Passport up and go foreign,✈️✈️✈️

    • @coldhardtruth333
      @coldhardtruth333 Рік тому

      Where did you get that from?

    • @DeeboX-vv8ji
      @DeeboX-vv8ji Рік тому +3

      Thank you!

  • @coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13
    @coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13 Рік тому +89

    They hate MBJ because is a good man and they know that he would be the better person in any real relationship. They love guys like Future because they get to say that they are the better person in those situations. They can’t do that with someone like MBJ so they find ways to hate him.

    • @redphoenix0910
      @redphoenix0910 Рік тому +12

      Facts. Women like the one you mentioned need someone just as screwed up as her.

    • @rockfresh5359
      @rockfresh5359 Рік тому

      They need someone to blame for they're Choices so they go get the dummb street uneducated bm ‼️💯

    • @SheedLordBear
      @SheedLordBear Рік тому +2

      💯

    • @c____89
      @c____89 Рік тому +4

      Yep spot on. It’s power, envy, jealousy, and subjugation

    • @nathaniel3867
      @nathaniel3867 6 місяців тому

      Man I always had my suspicions guess I’m right

  • @black_saga
    @black_saga Рік тому +183

    They weren't rejected. They were spared.

    • @joek4492
      @joek4492 Рік тому +22

      Wow. Excellent Comment

    • @DefiesAllStereotypes
      @DefiesAllStereotypes Рік тому +10

      Facts

    • @mcole442
      @mcole442 Рік тому +31

      The REJECTION was God's PROTECTION 👈.

    • @coldhardtruth333
      @coldhardtruth333 Рік тому

      Please they were rejected ... Don't be stupid ..

    • @The_House_Velaryon
      @The_House_Velaryon Рік тому

      LOL i always think of how black men were "not allowed" to be priests in the Mormon religion. They were spared being used as props to perpetuate the racist garbage that is the Latter Day Saints.

  • @gordonallen9095
    @gordonallen9095 9 місяців тому +30

    Bottom line: the so called "nerds" and "lames." are the guys and girls at the 10 and 20 year high school reunions who pull up in luxury and sports cars, expensively dressed, and are either skilled professionals, high level movers and shakers where they work, are successful business owners, or independently wealthy. It's not how you start out, it's how you end up....

    • @CrisisCoreMC
      @CrisisCoreMC 6 місяців тому +7

      “Beat it chick” hours 😂

    • @nathaniel3867
      @nathaniel3867 6 місяців тому +2

      @@CrisisCoreMCLol I’m thinking of that meme in my head G 🤣🤣

  • @shawn_and_one
    @shawn_and_one Рік тому +28

    Black America love their street dudes and tough guys. Women decide the direction of the culture based on the men they select.

  • @wazamanikurudi9649
    @wazamanikurudi9649 Рік тому +27

    Michael B Jordan was never a nerd, he just did not display black dysfunctionalism what these women get turned on by. We got options from south east asia to africa to south america. The conversation with black western women is over.

  • @youngw1ze
    @youngw1ze 4 місяці тому +7

    I had a friend from highschool a BW ask me why I was married to a WW...I asked her if she remembered me being a nerd back in the day and was invisible to most girls in our school....BW didn't start checking for me until I was in college...

  • @Noir_Nouveau
    @Noir_Nouveau Рік тому +31

    I really lucked up finding my wife who is a black woman, she found valued my values, I never had to be cool I just had to me.

  • @Bigmanstyling101
    @Bigmanstyling101 Рік тому +31

    I've said it before and I'll say it again black women are terrible scouts for seeing potential.

    • @c____89
      @c____89 Рік тому +10

      But they love to say they see the potential in men 😂😂

    • @islandgurl4927
      @islandgurl4927 Рік тому +1

      Maybe they just don't see it in you. It may just be those bm who just don't have it.

    • @Bigmanstyling101
      @Bigmanstyling101 Рік тому

      @@islandgurl4927 Michael B Jordan, Marques Brownlee, Mike Colter , Tiger Woods,Omari Hardwick , these are just a few names and the list goes on and on . Every single one of them labeled as corny by black women for pursuing a passion . But as soon as they became successful the same black women complain .
      My question to you is why can't you be honest about this and just admit black women in the west have terrible mate selection skills .
      The numbers and data don't lie

    • @michealdominic7788
      @michealdominic7788 Рік тому +6

      They don’t have any potential themselves lmfao 😂 how do you expect them to see anything ?

  • @darkseidofapokolips9796
    @darkseidofapokolips9796 Рік тому +91

    I figured out BW weren’t for me based on data I collected from my own life. To set the stage… I had 3 black girlfriends ranging from 2013 to 2015. They were all terrible people. I moved to Europe after the last break up and only messed with Italian women until 2017 when I moved to Florida. Met a BW who seemed like a good candidate. Took her to a local comedy club and on the way out, she flirted with a comedian. Not even a successful one, just some local Pookie. Never called her back.
    Moved to Atlanta in 2021 when I got out of the military. I was 27. I decided to find a woman and settle down since I got a good career and I’m not going to move again.
    Met three women at the gym. One black, one Filipina, and one Vietnamese. I took all of them out the same week. Black girl went first. I proposed Pappadeax, and she countered with Atlanta fish market (expensive). Then on the date she kept saying rude things like “you sound white”, lame, and corny. I told her the date was over and asked for the check. Then she demanded that I pay for it. I always pay for the first date, but she didn’t know that. She hit me up several days later and I ignored her.
    Took the Filipina out and she proposed a Mexican restaurant. Had a great time, it wasn’t expensive, she brought me a gift (tub of pre-workout), and she offered to pay half. I payed the whole thing, but the offer instantly made her girlfriend material.
    Took out the Vietnamese girl and she proposed a sushi place. Had a good time and she didn’t say anything ignorant or rude to me. Bill came and she offered to pay the whole thing since she actually asked me out. I declined and paid it. Once again, she didn’t know that I always pay. Now we’re on the verge of getting married.
    This was basically an unintentional experiment. I would never date a BW again, and I support BM rejecting BW as a whole. As a group, as a whole… they’re garbage 🗑

    • @blacknight88
      @blacknight88 Рік тому +26

      Very sad that you experienced that from the women who supposed to be for you . Most BW see me as a piece of trash to be discarded . Other races of women usually treated me nicer even if she wasn't interested . Rejection hurts those young black men

    • @server2307
      @server2307 Рік тому

      It's their mentality that makes them trash, so it makes sense why they normally deal with the most degenerates of the community. I mean when other races of women shun men like that its because nothing good come from them, but according to black women, these types of dudes are considered real men, the builders that's why we have over 60 percent of black men with no children, guess who making all the bastards in the community, those same men bw claim are real men. It makes sense, they all share the same loser. We must come to the conclusion and understand that yes they are trash, to think a man with an education, can speak proper English, can present himself in a respectable manner and have variety in music, taste, and everything and can tell the difference between his @$$ vs his elbow is considered corny, just tells you these women are idiots, they are stupid beyond measure and as responsible men, we have no business prorecreating, giving our valuable time and effort to these women. Their mentality and culture they promote is sick!. Be yo self black man, you listen rock music, punk, pop, disco, what ever be and do what makes you be you. These women have zero say in anything towards us because they are beneath us!

    • @dmvnative6102
      @dmvnative6102 Рік тому

      Your not the only one bro....I no longer even want them in my face. Keep dating and mating with pookie. I'm not their last resort.

    • @donquantum1615
      @donquantum1615 Рік тому +11

      my long time friend banned Bet in his house, ( with the help of the church on saturdays)... his sons all have advanced degrees, get fast promotions, and sadly black women don't find interest in them.

    • @nonyabiz12
      @nonyabiz12 Рік тому

      It's the westernized mindset that's trash. Women should be appreciative of any restaurant when a man takes them on a date.
      In this society our women are taught that their worth depends on how much money they can get men to blow on them which by default ruins them.

  • @Xprezzionsable
    @Xprezzionsable Рік тому +32

    It's sad that a valuable and good black man can't get any Respect, only our community... but go on BW and complain about how just other folks treat BM..

  • @reginaldeverett4228
    @reginaldeverett4228 Рік тому +18

    I love the order of this panel! You can actually hear what they are saying. No overtalking and it's an intelligent conversation that people can actually learn from. Kudos to the moderator!

    • @turdferguson7105
      @turdferguson7105 Рік тому +5

      What happens when adults with emotions in check handle it.

    • @lifncar28
      @lifncar28 Рік тому +7

      Facts. Educated black folks with sense. No one is trying to outdo the other.

  • @cedricliggins7528
    @cedricliggins7528 Рік тому +20

    To be fair and balanced the toxicity in the black community cuts both ways. When Gabby Douglas won a gold medal in gymnastics a sport that we are hardly represented in other black women criticized how her hair looked instead of focusing on her accomplishment of winning a gold medal. No wonder so many of our best and brightest leave the community and never return.

    • @DestroAzureDx
      @DestroAzureDx 2 місяці тому

      Yes but the key word being black women not black men.
      Many black men will call black male nerds lame to prop up what they belive and thier own ego and accomplishments with women but when black men or women accomplish something it is almost always black women tearing them down

  • @frederickbartholomew6290
    @frederickbartholomew6290 Рік тому +16

    This is prevalent through out the black community.

  • @nelyybeats2517
    @nelyybeats2517 Рік тому +30

    When you have culture of women who look up to Lori Harvey and everything else in between, i truly dont blame black men for checking out, yeah you may say its not all of them but i truly cant tell tbh.

  • @flyingrocket3879
    @flyingrocket3879 Рік тому +35

    A revenge is to be rich black and out of her league by 35 as a man.
    Some guy will friend zone this type of black woman. Because they remember what it was like 18 to 25.

    • @michealdominic7788
      @michealdominic7788 Рік тому

      @The Passionate Dahlia what about his comment suggest he needs healing or is hurt? Y’all blaq kweenz love projecting what your weave azzes need instead, also revenge is part of men’s nature don’t dish out what you can’t take back kween, so try again 👩🏿‍🦳🥰

    • @michealdominic7788
      @michealdominic7788 Рік тому

      All guys should friendzone he’ll stay far away from blaq women as a whole they have no benefits to you

    • @kenzo2152
      @kenzo2152 Рік тому

      @The Passionate Dahlia Revenge is the mission it’s out time to speak out and have a voice for once

    • @clockehvac1240
      @clockehvac1240 Рік тому +2

      ​@@kenzo2152exactly black women hold onto trauma up until they expire. But tell us to get healing and she even used the word bruh. That's hella disqualified when women say bruh

  • @a.greywolfe4056
    @a.greywolfe4056 Рік тому +53

    The white girls, spanish girls and asian girls all were friendly whenever I approached them and sometimes they approached me. Whereas my black women almost never had a friendly demeanor when I approached, looking at me like they were some sort of a queen and I was a dirty peasant. PLUS, they NEVER EVER approached me. So I stopped trying!!!
    Now that I make 6 figures, am 6' tall AND I work out 3-5x a week to maintain a muscular physique, have a decent home and nice car, they are all mad when they see me with non-black women who is reaping the benefits of a 'non thug' prosperous black man.
    I won't ever go back, that is how bad it was for me.

    • @blacknight88
      @blacknight88 Рік тому +10

      Once you go non black dey don't want yo azz back

    • @TheSupremeDunk
      @TheSupremeDunk Рік тому +1

      @@blacknight88 Actually it's the opposite.....Once you go non-black they want you more than ever! Nothing turns a black woman on more than a black man with a white or Latina woman

    • @petegis6643
      @petegis6643 Рік тому +3

      I understand. Do your thing. Nuff blessing

    • @michealdominic7788
      @michealdominic7788 Рік тому +2

      Pls don’t referring to that group of women as « your women » you invoking curses on yourself

  • @chronometa
    @chronometa Рік тому +15

    As a 38yr old blk man in the Midwest. I really dont care. But ive ran into cool blk women and terrible ones just like any other race.

  • @47shadows76
    @47shadows76 Рік тому +10

    Wow...we all saying the same thing lol 😆.
    It scares me that so many BW think we don't exist.

  • @renaldohaywood6506
    @renaldohaywood6506 Рік тому +13

    This is facts I've been called corny or white most of my life. I went to college got my BA going back to get my masters and I'm starting to be really accomplished going into my mid 30's. My daughter is biracial and its because my whole life I got ghosted and called a white boy. Till this day I still get that type of energy cause I never was involved in the streets.

  • @BlondeGangProduction
    @BlondeGangProduction Рік тому +56

    You could really do a census on this topic 😂 we all got a story that made us either go rogue or focus on our selves harder.. boys are raised to treat women like gold but girls aren’t taught how to treat us well

  • @tmo7777
    @tmo7777 Рік тому +10

    Black Women get their chance to land A Brother but spend to much time Playing Hard To Get and being Combative Difficult, and Stubborn.

  • @ghosttemplar6989
    @ghosttemplar6989 Рік тому +29

    If you watch anime, play video games, listening to music that isn't hip hop sometimes, have an interest in things like science. Alot and I mean alot of Black men have experience it from black men and women alike the look at you and treat you like an outcast or call you "why you acting so white" like mf I literally grew up Ice Cube, Snoop dogg, Tupac, Biggie, and New Edition 90's black baby prime. So you can't have any interest outside the norm. Like what was said we aren't saying we won't date black women like damn they won't even give guys like that a chance. So what do we do if we can't get women here we got somewhere else it's not nothing new I'm 31 and experience it and I wouldn't be suprised if older gentlemen have experienced it to when they were young.

  • @Cedric-Cortez
    @Cedric-Cortez Рік тому +18

    I want to know what kind of guy is considered not corny. We already know what is considered corny, someone that does what is right. Make them give us examples of not corny. Will we get a bunch of rappers, actors and such? Street guys? Or what? I’m curious.

    • @donquantum1615
      @donquantum1615 Рік тому

      Modern society has removed rites of passage for boys to become recognized as men... so too many females are left to primitive signals of alpha males tendencies like "rebellious behaviour" (criminals)(verbally abusive)(manipulative)(shady) as an alpha leading trait. this is all it is... get any woman and trip out like a fool over some thing simple like a messed up order at a restuarant... watch her like you more.

    • @c____89
      @c____89 Рік тому +5

      Not corny - manager at McDonalds, fry cook, ex con (winning), aspiring rapper (70 failed mixtapes), drug dealer (not the rich one - dime bag), drug user (need a guy high on molly to eat that dilapidated 🐈‍⬛), bus rider, robber, scammer, openly bisexual man, closeted gay man, tattoo man, married man (winning), mama’s boy, etc. Those are all non- lame examples.

    • @LouisianaGoon337
      @LouisianaGoon337 8 місяців тому +1

      A thug

  • @xocolatl3682
    @xocolatl3682 Рік тому +17

    You’re not black men they can control that’s the problem. You don’t engage in domestic drama and ignorance so they can control you via law enforcement. You don’t rock designer clothing associated with gang politics to appease them. You don’t allow your self to live under the structure of their homes and provide a lifestyle for you. Your mentality is sound and action cannot be manipulated by their emotions. You are not a consumer of products they find attractive for hyper sexualized primitive black males ( EX: skinny jeans/sagging ). The list goes on.

  • @BjtheLawyer_
    @BjtheLawyer_ Рік тому +15

    I wouldn’t call MBJ a late bloomer. He been acting at a high level since he was like 13 lol. I just think personality wise doesn’t mesh well with what most bw like! Point blank!

  • @KeemDaDream568
    @KeemDaDream568 Рік тому +10

    I agree heavily with the last brother. I don't believe we should out right seek to date non black women. We should seek to date women whose interest and values best align with ours, regardless of their race. Me personally I will always prefer black woman above all though.

  • @ericr.2138
    @ericr.2138 6 місяців тому +5

    I'm 48 and watched how Black females started caring more about how cool the guy than other traits. I was usually the smartest Black boy in class. I'm also 5'6" and have manners. I am from Harlem but was raised to see the pitfalls of the hood.

  • @djhyperkid86
    @djhyperkid86 5 місяців тому +4

    Funny thing, is I was called corny for being a nerd, but a lot of people didn't understand that my upbringing was deep in the hood. I just didn't let that define me. My dad who was in that life even taught me to know how conduct yourself in all environments. He taught me about how we historically have been conditioned to reject what is beneficial to us. I used to catch hell from bw throughout my life for just existing and being myself. Stay true to you and bumb the ones who try to change you to fit their perception.

  • @Bohemianbiker1k
    @Bohemianbiker1k Рік тому +8

    Builders of civilization call corny, I think these women are corny for that

  • @gregserenade6653
    @gregserenade6653 Рік тому +5

    all the responsible men out there who got their sh*t together need to understand that it is a blessing for toxic women to consider you as 'corny'. you've been spared A WHOLE LOT of drama and trauma. Keep on being excellent, the women worthy of your excellence will find you. 🛫🛫✈✈

  • @Deno4000
    @Deno4000 Рік тому +5

    This is really a big problem in the black community. Most of these nerds will go on to be doctors,lawyers, engineers,congressmen etc…

  • @Anti_degeneracy1
    @Anti_degeneracy1 Рік тому +13

    There is nothing more corny than wearing a wig

    • @islandgurl4927
      @islandgurl4927 Рік тому

      So corny for men to notice what is on a woman's head. Considering now black men are getting weaves and hair pieces these days.

    • @tupactargaryen
      @tupactargaryen Рік тому +1

      @@islandgurl4927 Lol, the only BM getting weaves are apart of the 🏳‍🌈 community.

    • @michealdominic7788
      @michealdominic7788 Рік тому

      Nah Brittany rennet dosent really fit the blaq women stereotype

  • @MGrose407
    @MGrose407 Рік тому +16

    If you want to still date black women…go to Africa!!

    • @The_House_Velaryon
      @The_House_Velaryon Рік тому

      Duly noted!

    • @michealdominic7788
      @michealdominic7788 Рік тому

      Lmfao 😂

    • @xv900
      @xv900 4 місяці тому

      No thanks. Y’all are bitter and don’t provide nor protect. Y’all women reject y’all for a reason.

  • @redpillsuccess5975
    @redpillsuccess5975 Рік тому +11

    I grew up tall and atheletic 6'3 played ball. I never had a problem getting women, But I wasn't getting the really attractive women I wanted. I grew up in a rough neighborhood in a rough city (Bmore) in the height of the drug era. All the women in HS, and college wanted the drug dealers, I even started to sell 🪴. I was a broker college student, I couldn't compete with guys in college pulling up in Range Rovers, and Benzes.

  • @brianfreckles8542
    @brianfreckles8542 Рік тому +9

    Sad part is Caribbean women are starting to adapt this "no corny man" mindset too. It used to be that it was attractive to date a geek in the Caribbean community- that's why that community was on par with Asians and whites financially, now they are looking for swag too just like America black wom3n

  • @Alvan81
    @Alvan81 Рік тому +19

    The one Brother uncovered part of the issue, in his own question.
    I disagree that you're a "late bloomer" if you bloom after HS! 😂 Most people who "mature" or peak in HS, _burn out too soon,_ or never fully _mature._ Some cultures/people recognize this and "place their bets accordingly". 😁
    Otoh, if you dont have any goals past HS, or don't even expect to live much longer ..🤷🏾‍♂️ HS success becomes the "prize".

  • @chiefdrumo6642
    @chiefdrumo6642 Рік тому +9

    Key point that was brought up: Masculine women looking for Hyper masculine men.

    • @islandgurl4927
      @islandgurl4927 Рік тому +1

      Unfortunately, many black men still look over feminine black women.

    • @psygnale
      @psygnale Рік тому +1

      @@islandgurl4927
      The fact that the entire SYSBM/passport bro culture literally CENTERS around interacting with >feminine< >submissive< >traditional< women proves that your statement is born of willful ignorance AT BEST.
      Most men here have watched for decades as supposedly “nerdy” or “feminine” women whine about being rejected by men.
      Truth is, just like anytime women complain about “men”, its only an extremely small minority of men you’re referring to…
      …the top “select” men YOU want
      The rest of us literally don’t exist to you.
      Literally no different than all these “body positive” (read: morbidly obese) women who flat out refuse to even consider dating an overweight man.
      So please, spare us the gaslighting, we saw through that nonsense decades ago.
      EDIT: and don’t think we haven’t noticed you trolling these comments section with your contrarian BS either. We see that too.

    • @myronbourne6937
      @myronbourne6937 Рік тому +4

      ​@@islandgurl4927 No, they're not.

    • @michealdominic7788
      @michealdominic7788 Рік тому

      @@islandgurl4927 no such thing as “feminine black women”

    • @userp67qjsbanwi
      @userp67qjsbanwi 4 місяці тому

      ​@@michealdominic7788and there's no such thing as a masculine black man. Your point???

  • @petegis6643
    @petegis6643 Рік тому +4

    BROTHERS BEEN TRAVELING
    FOR YEARS. 2023 THEY CALLED IT PASSPORT BROs AND KINGS. I'VE TRAVEL FOR 20 YRS.

  • @bluejay9968
    @bluejay9968 Рік тому +7

    I'm in the same situation. I'm told I'm very attractive, but I'm nerdy. Blk women prefer hood guys and will use a guy with money. Michael B. Jordan wasn't a nerd but wasn't the cool hood guy.

    • @michealdominic7788
      @michealdominic7788 Рік тому +2

      And yet he upgraded

    • @dnice6120
      @dnice6120 9 місяців тому +3

      You're right and then when those guys leave them pregnant, wore out and broke, they have the audacity to look for good black men, that works, have a home, bank account, car and educated to come ad rescue them. They are not worth the time spent to speak to them.

  • @Black_Hart134
    @Black_Hart134 Рік тому +2

    This is how I know I’m continuing to grow mentally, I was just called corny last week and it threw me off because in my mind I’m like what am I doing that could consider me as corny, but at the end of the day I am who I am and I’m proud of it.

  • @dred9174
    @dred9174 Рік тому +12

    Michael B Jordan can date whoever he wants most black men aren't going to judge him especially the educated lames who were overlooked because we weren't interested in the streets.

  • @Chester-mz2ep
    @Chester-mz2ep 6 місяців тому +4

    The only black girls that I could ever form a connection with where ones that where also called "too white", its kinda crazy that this is a uniform thing for black dudes that are just normal, cause I wouldn't call myself a "nerd", I have black friends that lean more into the stereotypes, its really just the women lol, the culture as really messed some of them up. Also as someone that was born in Africa and moved to Canada at age 4, I can tell you this is almost entirely exclusive to African Americans, again, the culture as really messed some people up.

  • @bambam9690
    @bambam9690 Рік тому +8

    The issue is this.. little girls stayed in the house all day watching music videos and hood movies.
    The little boys were outside in reality.
    Our young girls were indoctrinated with television garbage and today, the dynamic of relationships are suffering for it. The standards our women are holding our men to are strictly from entertainment. They never saw that type of lifestyle off television. Period.

  • @ericr.2138
    @ericr.2138 6 місяців тому +1

    I was also in the military, and this DEFINITELY opened my eyes to American BLACK WOMEN AND THEIR ATTITUDES. NOT ALL BUT, A LOT.

  • @endlessthespokesperson6876
    @endlessthespokesperson6876 Рік тому +8

    🇿🇦 This was great.💪🏾💯🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 I hope to watch part 2. Your channel is really helpful. Trust me 🤞🏽

    • @themarathoncontinues4211
      @themarathoncontinues4211 Рік тому

      This affects South Africa bro?

    • @endlessthespokesperson6876
      @endlessthespokesperson6876 Рік тому

      @@themarathoncontinues4211 Yeah. Believe it or not 🤔 the morden times are affecting us as South Africa🇿🇦

    • @themarathoncontinues4211
      @themarathoncontinues4211 Рік тому

      @@endlessthespokesperson6876 I’m speaking on these black man/black women dynamics specifically tho.
      I understand globally dating is changing, but are u expected to conform to American BM stereotypes?

    • @endlessthespokesperson6876
      @endlessthespokesperson6876 Рік тому +2

      @@themarathoncontinues4211 🇿🇦It's the same shit women of today want a top high earning man. There's even a thing called "girlfriend allowance" which is ridiculous. Black women emasculate black men over here 🤔

    • @myronbourne6937
      @myronbourne6937 Рік тому

      ​@The Marathon Continues South Africa is a western country

  • @motownlee3765
    @motownlee3765 Рік тому +1

    I'm from Detroit and I feel the kids here are going to have to work threw all these things I'm hearing you guys talk about. good show

  • @adrianjuarez1162
    @adrianjuarez1162 8 місяців тому +3

    The 7th caller has probably heard the term corny used differently like lame or boring thats cap. I am a Hispanic and I love all races but black women are low on my list that mouth won’t work for me. I really find it disgusting the abuse black men get from black women and the fact that education is shunned in the community please keep safe and stay happy guys 💪🏻💪🏻.

  • @frankstruthers7137
    @frankstruthers7137 Рік тому +3

    Appreciated not tolerated! 🤷🏼‍♂️

  • @FunNHonesty
    @FunNHonesty Рік тому +2

    Shout out to the natural Kelly Rowland for bettering the community with productive conversations

  • @LutherMahoney
    @LutherMahoney Рік тому +1

    Coach D summed all of this up perfectly.

  • @VR-gs9hd
    @VR-gs9hd Рік тому +3

    @ 10:05, it's essentially the story of Joseph in the Bible, after being sold to Egypt by his own jealous brothers, only to later be blessed while they needed his help during a famine.

  • @Speakinurmynd
    @Speakinurmynd Рік тому +11

    I find it disingenuous when PPB detractors say "If your lame here your lame there" or "All women are the same, if you cant get a women in america, you cant get a woman overseas". Yes at their core/base level all women are the same, they want protection and provision, but what these people arent taking into account is culture! Cultures around the world are different than in america, especially black culture, outside of our music, most people in other countries arent really familiar with black american culture, what we've come to see as normal (growing up without a father) is an alien concept to alot of people in other countries. If women in other countries dont subscribe to american culture, do you really think they know what the terms "Lame" and "Corny" mean? Those are negative terms placed on men in america, but are just regular everyday guy in other countries/cultures, thats my guess anyway, but somebody who dates and/or is married a woman overseas can correct me if im wrong!

    • @ConsciousRebel85
      @ConsciousRebel85 Рік тому +2

      They're just using SIGN language. Most black people don't want the PPB to leave the plantation.

    • @islandgurl4927
      @islandgurl4927 Рік тому

      @@ConsciousRebel85 And then there some who don't care regardless.

    • @myronbourne6937
      @myronbourne6937 Рік тому

      Facts

  • @dred9174
    @dred9174 Рік тому +5

    Most of the PPB have gotten with women of African descent.

    • @islandgurl4927
      @islandgurl4927 Рік тому

      Not really. Many ppb are not looking to go to Africa. Many say the D.R. and/or Brazil, Philippines.

    • @myronbourne6937
      @myronbourne6937 Рік тому +2

      ​@@islandgurl4927 It's none of your business either way

  • @dexburwell
    @dexburwell Рік тому +5

    Me: attractive guy. mixed race( like stray cat offspring) . did band (music) , art/painting (canvas),futbol (soccer), baseball. Loved black women- they didn’t seem to like me- mehhh. Many other women found me interesting tho. no social media or friends- Sigma Male 🤷🏽‍♂️

  • @marcfrancois8789
    @marcfrancois8789 Рік тому +5

    Here’s the thing, the UPSTANDING black man has never delt with the disrespect and irresponsible behavior of the pookie. Pookie Joe Biden calling Micheal B Jordan corny is literally a pookie attacking an upstanding just lok it happens in high schools and beyond.

  • @nizolehompashe766
    @nizolehompashe766 Рік тому +3

    BM want BW to love and accept them, is that too much to ask we are of the same race. When they say their preference is wyte it's bcoz they feel rejection from their own BW but now it seems as if it is BW who r rejected by BM 🤷

  • @kennywhateva6279
    @kennywhateva6279 Рік тому +4

    It’s crazy they trying to call Michael B Jordan corny… wow .. Rich ..Handsome.. and successful.. just throw the woman away.. we need to start over .. all you got to say about him is he corny.. smh.. this is a case of .. we gotta find some-than .. let’s praise Lori Harvey who famous for nothing .. and call Michael B Jordan corny .. 😂😂😂 fucking crazy.. then they wonder why when the Dave Chapelle’s Wesley Snipes Tay Diggs of the world get famous they pay black woman no mind ..

  • @doublecuppin20
    @doublecuppin20 Рік тому +4

    I did not know that Johnathan majors photoshoot was "One piece" inspired. Hands down the best anime.

    • @47shadows76
      @47shadows76 Рік тому +1

      Except Naruto, DBZ, Trigun, Cowboy Bebop, Samurai Champloo, etc.

    • @doublecuppin20
      @doublecuppin20 Рік тому +2

      @@47shadows76 come on man. Have you watched ALL of One Piece?

    • @47shadows76
      @47shadows76 Рік тому

      @@doublecuppin20 LOL I stopped after Ace got fisted

    • @doublecuppin20
      @doublecuppin20 Рік тому

      @@47shadows76 power through, cause the next few arcs are by far goated.

    • @47shadows76
      @47shadows76 Рік тому +1

      @@doublecuppin20 Looking forward to it. I was heartbroken after ACE. That was an AMAZING Arc.
      If you can't tell, I was trolling. One Piece is a great show.
      All 10258961546 episodes of it lol

  • @bluefig797
    @bluefig797 Рік тому +1

    This is a very important discussion.

  • @jamescollins6347
    @jamescollins6347 Рік тому +1

    The pink shawl was inspired by a badass anime villain called Dolflamingo from the show One Piece. Give it a watch, there’s ZERO things flamboyant about that man other than his swag. He is a straight up demon.

  • @manchulvanist66
    @manchulvanist66 Рік тому +3

    But this why you have to find your own tribe and make a social society within that circle.

  • @stormchaser419
    @stormchaser419 Рік тому +4

    Black students from parts of Africa actually behave in class FAR BETTER than American black girls. I know teachers who say this very thing.

  • @nuggets_of_wisdom
    @nuggets_of_wisdom Рік тому +1

    Amen, all is hype

  • @chrisrussellca
    @chrisrussellca Рік тому +2

    KEVIN SAMUALS AINT SLICK! WE SEE YOU

  • @ramonamron5194
    @ramonamron5194 27 днів тому

    The thing is, BW accept corny WM and then apply the BW effect. Ridiculous as it sounds.

  • @digbot5987
    @digbot5987 2 місяці тому

    I am a black man not all women going to like that one man its life.

  • @donelkingii3738
    @donelkingii3738 Рік тому +2

    Thankfully we are able to get passports.

  • @terryruff64
    @terryruff64 Рік тому +2

    Great content Chez Charde

  • @louisegriffin6672
    @louisegriffin6672 Рік тому +3

    Annoying background music please make it stop.

  • @TONY-fw6bk
    @TONY-fw6bk 7 місяців тому +2

    MY BEST RELATIONSHIPS WERE WITH NON BLACK FEMALES!

  • @ericr.2138
    @ericr.2138 6 місяців тому +1

    Females of other races paid more attention to me also.

  • @InformationManShow
    @InformationManShow Рік тому +1

    Very interesting stream good points were made peace and respect 🎉

  • @c____89
    @c____89 Рік тому +3

    List of traits black women find irresistible - - Not corny - manager at McDonalds, fry cook, ex con (winning), aspiring rapper (70 failed mixtapes), drug dealer (not the rich one - dime bag), drug user (need a guy high on molly to eat that dilapidated 🐈‍⬛), bus rider, robber, scammer, openly bisexual man, closeted gay man, tattoo man, married man (winning), mama’s boy, etc. Those are all non- lame examples.

    • @islandgurl4927
      @islandgurl4927 Рік тому +1

      Sorry but that is not a comprehensive list to all black women. Some want better. Stereotyping won't work for all bw.

    • @c____89
      @c____89 Рік тому +3

      @@islandgurl4927 You are correct “some”. Overwhelming majority want failures, headaches, and problems. As few as 10% want better.

    • @stevenroshni1228
      @stevenroshni1228 3 місяці тому

      Lamo on the eating

  • @margieolvida1214
    @margieolvida1214 Рік тому

    new here maam from sharon I saw you maam sharon lapu lapu interview.

  • @vej48
    @vej48 Рік тому +1

    My outsider observation it's about Power & Control with ABW truly believing they're better than BM and when those same men don't fit the desired stereotype and function as their true selves then, they're ridiculed and perceived as a THREAT.

    • @stevenroshni1228
      @stevenroshni1228 3 місяці тому

      ABW use the "trauma of slavery" as their excuse to be mean, along with claiming that current oppression puts them survival mode while yt women free to take risks

  • @andrewjohnson3241
    @andrewjohnson3241 Рік тому +1

    I heard black women tell African men your black ass. Meanwhile they were the same complexion

  • @Tre38843
    @Tre38843 Рік тому +1

    @1:27 - THUGS at the University of Michigan? HOW!!!

    • @percyastronautstatus.8780
      @percyastronautstatus.8780 Рік тому +1

      They weren't Thugs..They were pretending...Univ of Michigan is a good school and REAL.thugs can't get in....

    • @Tre38843
      @Tre38843 Рік тому

      @@percyastronautstatus.8780 That’s what I would have figured.

    • @LouisianaGoon337
      @LouisianaGoon337 8 місяців тому

      Want to be thugs

  • @levelintent
    @levelintent Рік тому +1

    it's hard to hear the conversation over the music...

  • @manchulvanist66
    @manchulvanist66 Рік тому +2

    You can't be the blind leading the blind, somebody has to lead. What I mean is we must rise above our feelings of name calling. Once you build a society that distributes out resources to our black community none of this shit will matter. Being called corny just means the thing your doing is not effective amongst your peers. Our people suffer from lack of wisdom on both sides, there are surface dwellers and deep sea thinkers and viewers, meaning your not turned off by what you see on the surface. A farmer might look like a fool to one who doesn't have knowledge of gardening.

    • @michealdominic7788
      @michealdominic7788 Рік тому

      Bro what?

    • @CrisisCoreMC
      @CrisisCoreMC 6 місяців тому

      Leaders need good followers. The unruly Jews who didn’t listen to the prophets got left in the wilderness. I hope they like cactuses

  • @KingMike-un5vz
    @KingMike-un5vz Рік тому +1

    I say this we don't really try to know or understand each other now some nerdy black guys don't really care about there black history some do have self hate or colorism

  • @AD-mw6ne
    @AD-mw6ne Рік тому

    Hi this is to Chez, I would like to join in on this discussion. I have a UA-cam channel that I used to discuss this topic and others related to the black community and I feel you may appreciate another perspective. I’ve been on once with Kristelyn Karazin in a one-on-one discussion about 4 years ago. How can I reach out to you where we could discuss further?

  • @CrossfitWarrior
    @CrossfitWarrior 2 місяці тому

    Honeslty I just went where I was appreciated. Asians and Latinas are the women I had the most success with a settled down with a Latina. The bad thing about the black community is that intelligence isnt admired by black women. With other cultures of women specifically Asians and Indians it is and we see their success

    • @ChezCharde
      @ChezCharde  2 місяці тому

      Outside of America intelligence is admired. I've seen this definitely among African cultures and African women but they are such a small minority in the states and depending on the area Africans and African Americans dont always work together as much. As long as a person is happy that's what matters

  • @michealdominic7788
    @michealdominic7788 Рік тому +1

    Being rejected by black women of all people is more of a blessing and good thing than something they had to overcome also black dudes like micheal b Jordan are clearly above the leagues of Black women and they know it so calling him corny is more of a cook g mechanism ok their end cuz they already hé he’s rejected them

    • @asterixandobelix195
      @asterixandobelix195 Рік тому

      And non-Blk w o m e n are above your league.🤣🤣

    • @michealdominic7788
      @michealdominic7788 Рік тому

      @@asterixandobelix195 says you? 🤣🤣 you know you can’t have a debate with me why? Because you know your just some coping low iq individual who i would expose so don’t even dare kiddo now run along

  • @philliplockhart5853
    @philliplockhart5853 Рік тому +3

    19:04 - 20:49 🎯💯🔥🤌🏾

  • @DeeboX-vv8ji
    @DeeboX-vv8ji Рік тому +5

    There's only one race, the HUMAN race. We may be of different ethnic backgrounds, but we are also the same species. A dogo Argentinacan mate with a cane Corso and have puppies. The same goes for humans. I don't BELONG to any woman!

  • @wazamanikurudi9649
    @wazamanikurudi9649 Рік тому +2

    Not just in american society brother over here in the uk a bkack nzn cannot be a functional black man waljing his path to self betterment. The subculture of black womens mating preferences choosing to to give up their box to the most negative of our community has set presedence to what we see today. In a nutshell if you are irrisponsible over sexual with criminal characterustics with a bit of money you are the prime mating choice for black women. Its due to this we see the imballance in black families today. We know the narrative of the irresponsible black male who we all believed was the only fault why leadership and structure in black family is messed up.

  • @rickterrell4369
    @rickterrell4369 Рік тому

    Interesting.

  • @digbot5987
    @digbot5987 2 місяці тому

    I move on

  • @tw69hands2
    @tw69hands2 Рік тому

    The brother in the beginning of the thread is spieling bars but sadly the Black elders need to check that stuff.

  • @JB-tz8fu
    @JB-tz8fu Рік тому

    It's always Jermaines fault 😂😂😂. Nice name....#COACHGANG #FREEAGENTLIFESTYLE

  • @JB-uc1vf
    @JB-uc1vf Рік тому +8

    I think it’s about class and we as black folks don’t practice that

  • @malarki5
    @malarki5 Рік тому +10

    The brother here: 11:18 is mixing up hyena
    Black women with lioness Black women! It
    is the former who will rip you to shreds not
    the latter!
    Hyena clans dominant Black communities
    and families. Lionesses are a rare species
    among the community!

    • @pn1240
      @pn1240 Рік тому +16

      Got it.
      But his point was more so that when picking from a barrel of apples with poisonous apples and none poisonous all looking exactly the same, do you chance being poisoned by picking from that barrel, or do you pick from a different barrel.

    • @Lordparable
      @Lordparable Рік тому +1

      @@pn1240 👈🏾

    • @michealdominic7788
      @michealdominic7788 Рік тому +2

      No such thing as lioness black women lmfao 😂 he didn’t mix up anything

    • @clockehvac1240
      @clockehvac1240 Рік тому

      WTF HYEANS are the absolute worst. Why is the community in shambles again

    • @gracex9286
      @gracex9286 21 день тому

      @@michealdominic7788Lol, y’all are nothing without the white man. 😂🙂‍↔️

  • @petegis6643
    @petegis6643 Рік тому +2

    BROTHERS HATE FAKE HAIR, NAIL AND HORSE EYE LASHES.