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Locs in the Military (Army) | What Women Experience

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  • Опубліковано 9 лип 2021
  • Hey Beautiful People! Welcome back to Amelia Talks! Soooooooooo I would like to Share with Everyone what I have been experiencing lately when it comes to having Locs in the Military (Army) I'm all about taking care of my hair and if that means not getting a retwist every 4 or even 8 weeks then I won't. I want my Locs to be healthy. I don't want to start over! I don't want to damage them by adding color or even doing a lot of different styles. SO with that being said, I usually don't get a retwist until I'm almost at 12 or more weeks with my Locs. I still wash it, add my mist with water and oil, use my rogain, tie it up and go on head about my business. But lately I have had some co-workers not one just one occasion but on several occasions say and speak on my Loc's. I really don't care what people have to say but I went ahead and got a retwist because I honestly felt like the comments were driven based on my rank. The more professional look and appearance I would say. So from here on out, instead of waiting so long to go without a retwist, I will consider getting my hair retwisted at least every 8 weeks now! Have any of you experience negatively or negative comments when it comes to your Locs? Have you been able to pull them in a ponytail and if so does the ponytail make the back of your head hurt? How often are you all getting a retwist and do you think the comments came from my rank and the need to look more professional or do you all think that waiting to get a retwist at least every 12 weeks is to long? Let me know y'all thought! But don't forget to Subscribe and Check out my Merch below! I have something for everybody. Use TIKTOK to receive 10% off on any purchase you make! See you babes on the next Video!
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  • @rah973
    @rah973 2 роки тому +14

    I’ve had my locs for just over a year, they are now shoulder length and very thick, when I’m in uniform at work around non black people I do feel “unprofessional “ without a retwist but when I’m in civilians BEING ME I feel free and beautiful, it’s upsetting bc I do get ignorant jokes or comments about my hair being messy at work and the I feel like I have to put a style in or retwist which hurts my scalp like hell

    • @ameliatalks123
      @ameliatalks123  2 роки тому +2

      I completely understand where you’re coming from! I’ve been wearing butterfly Locs for the pass 2 months so my Locs can have a break from the retwist. But honestly there’s alot of people who believe our hair should be a certain way.

  • @1prettyyungthang
    @1prettyyungthang Рік тому +4

    Yes! YES! As an E-7 that’s about to retire in the Air Force, I felt this in my ENTIRE soul! Thank you for your transparency. I’ve been loc’d f/ 10 months now & it’s such an internal struggle to go every 2-3 months between retwists but I assure you them F-16s still took off today! I assure you the mission didn’t stop b/c of my hair! Whew…I thank you for this video.

    • @Eunoia-1
      @Eunoia-1 9 місяців тому

      Hello I’m looking to go into the military and I don’t want my locs to be reason I rethink it. I know it sounds silly but were you able to find a loctician so that you were able to get your locs retwisted whenever you had time?

  • @aliahguinn-rodriguez9186
    @aliahguinn-rodriguez9186 3 роки тому +8

    So HAPPY YOU MADE THIS VIDEO!!! I admire you and feel more confident about having locs in the Army because of you. I have experienced so much negativity about my locs but one thing I continue to hear is that it's the "new Army" and how things like allowing locs make it trash!
    I am lower enlisted (PFC) but I feel like correcting soliders holds us to the higher standard such as not wearing green nail polish in uniform because there is no excuse for it. I joined for the pride it gives to be in uniform so i hate seeing trashy looking soliders but I don't have as many years in as you. Plus if some people do not get corrected they would never know right from wrong.
    Lastly I am 31 married with a Kid. I believe I am the only African American female in my COMPANY but I am Reserves. A lot of people just do not know about our hair so instead of learning they assume things like locs being full of bugs so I don't get offended when someone says something about my hair I just assume they are ignorant 🙃.

    • @ameliatalks123
      @ameliatalks123  3 роки тому +1

      Since I’ve joined things are & will continue to change so I’m going to always be ready to make & accept that change. But I know that whatever someone says it’s all based upon their lack of knowledge. I think I’m going to start educating people, instead of ignoring what they have to say. Just like with Nail polish! Thanks so much for the Love, I really Appreciate your feedback & comment. We have to be strong together & no matter what our hair looks like we have to educate people/SOLDIERS!

  • @BiancaB
    @BiancaB 2 роки тому +4

    I’m about to go active duty from the guard so this video helped a lot. A lot of people that aren’t of color don’t understand the natural hair.

  • @daniellegreene2411
    @daniellegreene2411 Рік тому +3

    This just helped me so much

  • @teamgravely714
    @teamgravely714 3 роки тому +3

    Your locs are beautiful! Thanks for sharing your experiences in army with locs

  • @jasminemabry3395
    @jasminemabry3395 2 роки тому +4

    So for me when I do have a retwist I feel I do look some professional in uniform and people that don’t know about locs will compliment me however when I don’t have a retwist people really do be looking at me like I’m crazy . I haven’t had anyone say anything to me probably because I’m at Fort Jackson and everybody here got locs but when I don’t have a retwist I’ll wear a back pony tail and just do a big twist in the front and lay my edges.

    • @ameliatalks123
      @ameliatalks123  2 роки тому +1

      Ok with the pony tail and laid edges!!!!!!! I see you Sis! But yes, folks be looking at you like, um when are you going to get your hair done lol! I believe I get a lot of back lash because I'm a SFC, so the higher ups expect a certain look. I was pretty bad about not getting a retwist for 3-6 months though, but I'm doing a lot better. I haven't had anyone say anything to me in a few months though, so I'm thankful! Thanks for the Support and feedback Sis!

  • @user-ft9hx4qd4e
    @user-ft9hx4qd4e Рік тому +2

    I have Locs myself not in the military yet but personally even if I wore a big ass Afro in a business suit and heels it would be professional people associate silk hair with white hair just because other people think their hair needs to look white or silk to be professional I don’t frizzy or not it’s beautiful

  • @BN-fp7ic
    @BN-fp7ic 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for making this video!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @shontayharrell4850
    @shontayharrell4850 3 роки тому +1

    I don't have locs but I do thank you for sharing your story because it can help alot of people. We all grow with time. Your hair looking good 👍👌😍

  • @kimjerrick5170
    @kimjerrick5170 2 роки тому +2

    Thank You SisStar. This was funny and informative.

  • @Soulfulocs
    @Soulfulocs Рік тому +3

    So glad locs are allowed now. They weren’t when I was in.

  • @BigBroDre
    @BigBroDre 3 роки тому +11

    Yep, you’re a human being first. Locks are apart of African culture and more recently Afro American culture. Most of the people with stuff to say would subscribe to being good old American law abiding Christians not knowing that dreadlocks were inspired by the Nazarites from the Bible, people who were direct descendents of King Solomon. This world is a crazy place, do you Sista, F what a hater has to say. Respectfully ✊🏾.

    • @ameliatalks123
      @ameliatalks123  3 роки тому +1

      Thanks Bro! I really Appreciate it, you’re absolutely right. It’s way easier said than done though.

    • @BigBroDre
      @BigBroDre 3 роки тому

      @@ameliatalks123 Facts I feel you.

  • @stormloccs3144
    @stormloccs3144 2 роки тому +1

    Your locs are 🔥

  • @tameahrobertson1620
    @tameahrobertson1620 Рік тому +3

    hey i do have locs and i leave for boot camp in 6 days and i plan on getting a retwist wirh two strand twist .. would that be a problem?

  • @vibeswitvee_9767
    @vibeswitvee_9767 2 роки тому

    Lol that was me.. well I’m a SPC so everyone tells be everyday with my first set of locs.. i got annoyed and cut my locs off in January but i started my second loc journey in August. And its now November and its the same thing. Only difference this time around my new command team understands. But outside of my unit everyone has something to say. But hey its the nature of the army 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @leahrox1347
    @leahrox1347 Рік тому +1

    Hey, I have a few questions for anyone that can answer! I have had my microlocs for about 2 years now. I love my locs and often go months without a retie just because. I am starting basic in about a week.
    1. Are bobby pins out of regulation? I will have to bobby pin my hair to get it all back in a bun.
    2. my locs are currently dyed ginger, will i have to dye them back to black and will they have to stay black throughout my time in the army?
    3. Am I allowed to bring my hair oil or any hair related products to basic?
    Thank you guys so much!
    Thank you for creating a space for me to be able to ask questions!

    • @ameliatalks123
      @ameliatalks123  Рік тому

      I’ll get all your questions answered and let you know within a few hours….Sorry for the delay!

  • @ShxdezOfNxe04
    @ShxdezOfNxe04 Рік тому +1

    I don’t like dreads…the word. I have locs and prefer that over dreads. The word itself just doesn’t sound too delightful.😮‍💨

  • @BN-fp7ic
    @BN-fp7ic 10 місяців тому +1

    Hi!! I’m looking into joining the reserves and maybe leaving next spring. Would it be doable to have 6-month starter locs and dyed hair in basic training or would I be setting myself up for a headache?
    My hair right now is it’s natural color, 3c and about bra strap length, but I’m tired of my hair. I’m ready to dye my hair and start my locs, but I don’t know if it would be better to wait until I’m done with basic training and AIT.

    • @ameliatalks123
      @ameliatalks123  10 місяців тому

      It’s a personal preference… if you’re ok with not getting a retwist then yes. Dying your hair No, wait until you get to AIT or graduate AIT. 6 month starter Locs is a good style but they will get frizzy and you won’t be able to get a retwist unless you know how to do it yourself. You should have time on Sundays to fix your hair up a bit.

    • @Eunoia-1
      @Eunoia-1 9 місяців тому

      @@ameliatalks123 Hello I'm looking to go into the military and I don't want my locs to be reason I rethink it. I know it sounds silly but were you able to find a loctician so that you were able to get your locs retwisted whenever you had time? Or will it be easy to find a loctician?

  • @lovelex4994
    @lovelex4994 2 роки тому +2

    Im supposed to start basic training in September and my locs are shoulder lenghth because I started last year. Do the Army allows locs during basic. I really dont want to undo my locs.

    • @ameliatalks123
      @ameliatalks123  2 роки тому +1

      Yes, you’re allowed Locs in basic but make sure they’re not to bulky & you’re able to put them up if need be.

  • @aleiathomas2736
    @aleiathomas2736 Рік тому

    Personally I'm in the armed forces and I'm a PVT and I've read the blue book they give you in basic training and i have read it n it say braids or locs may be worn down once there medium length but I'm at AIT and there like oh you can't do that oh you cant do this. I do understand that at my unit it might be different but i don't like how its being told to me. I have bin called trainee even though I'm in AIT which i refuse to answer until my higher rankers get it right because to me its provoking and very rude. And also I've dyed my hair so it can be a regulations but the dye is coming off, personally my MOS doesn't give me time the way Im learning I don't have time to sit down and dye my hair the the higher up wasn't even for my company so i also felt for her to tell me was rude and out of place. Plus me having different length dreads as i walked through the mall my dreads that didn't make it into the bun fell out i personally didn't know and the higher rank pulls me to the side and tells me I don't' know whats going on with your hair but you need to fix and make it in regulation and adds my hair is two tone. It's literally certain locs that have a peaking brown like come on. And i don't wanna say she was racist just because the higher up was a certain race but yeah im not fixing my hair n im graduating like this.

  • @WHERELEAAT
    @WHERELEAAT 2 роки тому +2

    Do you think coming with a starter locs is a good idea

    • @WHERELEAAT
      @WHERELEAAT 2 роки тому +1

      Especially at a short length

    • @ameliatalks123
      @ameliatalks123  2 роки тому +1

      I feel like if you’re comfortable with how frizzy your hair will look then yes. Retwist should be done every 3-6 months.

  • @TRILLDAMASTER
    @TRILLDAMASTER Рік тому +1

    Thank you ! My locs go down to my butt I’ve been growing them for years do you think it’ll be a problem

    • @ameliatalks123
      @ameliatalks123  Рік тому +1

      If you have an IG, I’ll send you some pictures of some ponytails you could try but a bun would work also.

    • @TRILLDAMASTER
      @TRILLDAMASTER Рік тому

      @@ameliatalks123 @blaxcrose and thank you so much

  • @amieldeshazor1663
    @amieldeshazor1663 Рік тому +2

    Is it possible after basic training for a guy to have locs

  • @1carusviews
    @1carusviews Рік тому +1

    I’m about to join my family is Rastafari my mom doesn’t want me to cut it bc it’s kinda a sin should I cut it

    • @ameliatalks123
      @ameliatalks123  Рік тому +1

      As a male you can not go to Basic with Locs, only women are allowed Locs right now.