We Thought Of Getting A Divorce! | The Ndlovu's Uncut

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  • @lifewithtendresse
    @lifewithtendresse 2 роки тому +329

    I'll tell you , Mina if y'all separate ..I will never watch a YT couple ever again!😂😂😂 cause y'all are amazing

  • @makomasophia5852
    @makomasophia5852 2 роки тому +66

    "Should we separate, Thank you Jesus because that's not gonna happen" 😭❤️. The love I have for you guys keeps growing and it's all thanks to this channel and you being open with us about everything 😊. Every week we learn a new thing here 😍. This was so beautiful to watch and also educational 😚♥️

  • @fionaminnie2326
    @fionaminnie2326 2 роки тому +113

    Thank You for removing the stigma of prenuptial agreements. Yes! Our brown parents paraded the community of property narrative because they believed it was a test of marital longevity, and to this day so many young people still think this way. Great discussion point 👌👌👌

  • @thembimatoya2123
    @thembimatoya2123 2 роки тому +33

    If we were to separate "thank God that's not gonna happen"😍 I just love you guys❤❤

  • @angelshikwambana
    @angelshikwambana 2 роки тому +144

    The honesty and openness here 🤟 truly on another level. So much love for the Ndlovus ❤️ Keep challenging us to think differently from societal norms, educating and entertaining us the way you do.

  • @terence2287
    @terence2287 2 роки тому +30

    'Prenuptial agreement with accrual' sounds like the best option on the 'menu', it caters for both the romance of sharing and the freedom of individualism.

    • @MillieChimb
      @MillieChimb 2 роки тому +4

      I think it all depends on the couple and their way of life. For them I think it is the best option as they work together in the ndhlovu uncut production and they have shared income flow. It's different when a couple have different jobs. I know Jeannie had the same type of marriage. Her husband protected his wealth which he had inherited before getting married (which is a wise decision) and he had more money than Jeannie. During the course of the marriage Jeannie's career took of and she ended up making more money than her husband. 10 years down the line they were getting a divorce and she's the one who has to pay alimony to the husband who's has a net worth less than hers if his inheritance is excluded

    • @terence2287
      @terence2287 2 роки тому +2

      I know it looks unfair and mostly because the situation is more exposed because it is the woman who is doing the heavy lifting however the purpose of marriage is that we are a team, in soccer when Ronaldo scores 3 goals in one match securing a victory, it is for the whole team. Men have been losing half of their estate in divorce settlements all this time but when it happens to Adele or Jeanie being the bread winner it makes the news. We should then redefine marriage, if what's yours is yours and what's mine is mine then we might as well be 'friends with benefits' or roommates with a legal document. I think you need to ask yourself, is this person the love of your life or a business partner who might do you dirty. The truth comes out just right here.

    • @khumbudzomudimeli406
      @khumbudzomudimeli406 2 роки тому

      Just give us something

  • @Bongani_RSA
    @Bongani_RSA 2 роки тому +29

    I love this video so much, timing is perfect we needed this life lesson as a country

  • @regalkaty
    @regalkaty 2 роки тому +93

    You entertain,you inspire and you educate!!! You guys are a full package!!!! Love you both!!❤️

  • @otlotlengmomphi7107
    @otlotlengmomphi7107 2 роки тому +6

    A pre-nuptial is not only important for separation reasons. It’s also worth considering especially when you’re in business. Because the implications of a failed business (for example) when you’re married ICOP are HUGE. You’d both have to start from scratch especially.
    Thank you for the video guys 👏🏼

  • @reahola
    @reahola 2 роки тому +22

    Thank you for this topic. This is such an important conversation even outside the scenario of divorce.
    If married in community of property (ICOP), also consider what happens should one partner passes on and they have accumulated significant debt. Or even whilst both partners are still alive and there is a business involved (owned by one of the partners) whatever debts of the business are the responsibility of both partners. (So many more scenarios to consider before making this decision).

    • @achatwithgoitse
      @achatwithgoitse 2 роки тому +1

      This 1 is a ‘must NOT’ hey!!!? Yhoo! Especially if u’re older coz people will probably come in with crazy amounts of debt. I think it’s a no go area, although I only used to believe in it.

  • @jesiccamalatji3179
    @jesiccamalatji3179 2 роки тому +16

    I am currently studying law and I enjoyed this video because I also have the knowledge about all these things 😌😌

  • @Lerato_M
    @Lerato_M 2 роки тому +30

    Now I know you guys are forever, even older people have difficulty having conversations like this. I love you ❤️

  • @elizabethmmapaseka7364
    @elizabethmmapaseka7364 2 роки тому +8

    With all the social media couple break ups going on.. such topics are actually needed between couples.
    On and off the camera. On a daily

  • @lydiamwaanyenenge420
    @lydiamwaanyenenge420 2 роки тому +53

    This was very educative especially when you guys spoke on the legal part of marriage and the different options. Love you guys and stay blessed in your marriage.❤❤

  • @mmathapelomonama9012
    @mmathapelomonama9012 2 роки тому +44

    Steph are you okay? You seem to get irritated easily and cut off Hungs harshly. Hope you're okay, we love y'all ❤

    • @guguvilakati3144
      @guguvilakati3144 2 роки тому +4

      I know

    • @Rotondwa_Matshidze
      @Rotondwa_Matshidze 2 роки тому +7

      Noticed from the beginning 😪

    • @nonhlanhlamoloi5250
      @nonhlanhlamoloi5250 2 роки тому +5

      Thought I was seeing things🤨💔

    • @TheNdlovusUncut
      @TheNdlovusUncut  2 роки тому +1

      I’m great! Thanks for your concern…

    • @preciousg5302
      @preciousg5302 2 роки тому +9

      Well I noticed it too, I had to actually look for this comment to see if someone saw it too. And when she blew her own horn about Hungani’s life without her 🤣🤣🤣🤣and didn’t correct that statement, wow I felt it. Her energy said a lot of things there....however this was informative and thank you for enlightening us.

  • @nogolideklaas3510
    @nogolideklaas3510 2 роки тому +3

    So my boyfriend and I where having this conversation the other day and he is well informed about these kind of marriages and what we didn’t know is that of customery marriage. Thank you guys for this topic. I love your love🥰🥰😘 continue to be blessed

  • @XclusiVThash
    @XclusiVThash 2 роки тому +16

    I just love how you tackled this whole uncomfortable topic and made it understandable.. #TheNdlovuGang way 🔥💯

  • @tylerfaith...thenguasetwin1692
    @tylerfaith...thenguasetwin1692 2 роки тому +10

    The last part of the video tell that WE are all human when the focus/camera is switched off, lol 😜
    I love your enthusiasm and love for each other... it's contagious 💖

  • @albertinashikongo9812
    @albertinashikongo9812 2 роки тому +2

    Liking this video for THE ALGORITHM. Thank u for the education guys❤🙏

  • @tina_spani
    @tina_spani 2 роки тому +9

    Not this title😭… I could literally feel my intestines shake😭. You thought of getting a whaaaaatttt?????

  • @thokozileomuhle
    @thokozileomuhle 2 роки тому +49

    Mos you guys are a match made in heaven 😍❣️

  • @michealkarabo7604
    @michealkarabo7604 2 роки тому +2

    SEROUSLY wow i am surprised. what a journey.. i dyondzo ka hina.

  • @preciousmapimele2018
    @preciousmapimele2018 2 роки тому +25

    Before you can divorce you must think of the 287k people following you. People love you because you are together.

    • @mgeijho
      @mgeijho 2 роки тому +11

      If we have to emotionally blackmail them into staying together we will.😂😂😂😂😂😂we are not about to be heartbroken like that!

    • @LaniZM-uq5gs
      @LaniZM-uq5gs 2 роки тому +3

      No marn this comment killed me 😭😭🤣🤣

    • @terence2287
      @terence2287 2 роки тому +1

      If they sell the channel, we should all unsubscribe so that the person who bought it from them will want his money back.😎

  • @pacifiquenteta
    @pacifiquenteta 2 роки тому +20

    Guys this isn't a click bait, they are indeed talking about what could happen if they were getting divorced so in a certain way "they thought of getting divorced". Do you get it? If you don't get it, forget about it 🤣🤣🤣

    • @TheNdlovusUncut
      @TheNdlovusUncut  2 роки тому +5

      Say it louder for those at the back!!!💯🙌🏾🤣✨ Thank you!!!

    • @pacifiquenteta
      @pacifiquenteta 2 роки тому

      @@TheNdlovusUncut 🤣🤣

    • @terence2287
      @terence2287 2 роки тому +2

      😂, we get it, for a moment though I thought they were going to be "spilling some tea" about an incedent in the past...however this is a much better version it also made me think of getting a divorce 😁.

    • @ambersarona
      @ambersarona 2 роки тому +1

      😂😂😂 understood clearly.

  • @vutlharhimashakeni5980
    @vutlharhimashakeni5980 2 роки тому +1

    You guys are just amazing.
    Mina ndza khensa kuri mi endle this video. Very educational. Love you guys

  • @ofentsenonfithuso1606
    @ofentsenonfithuso1606 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you for the light @The Ndlovu's in cut. I love you and super a fan❤️🙏🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼

  • @tsholedimoloi
    @tsholedimoloi 2 роки тому +4

    Establishing the legal conditions of a marriage is a very adult conversation that every couple should have before they get married. Truth is all marriages terminate either through divorce or death. When people begin to understand that, the importance of conversations around marriage regimes, ante- nuptial contracts , accrual and wills becomes apparent. So yay to the both of you and your marriage 🥳😀❤!

  • @nontobekomkhwanazi1616
    @nontobekomkhwanazi1616 2 роки тому +7

    I just love you guys and respect how Hungani respect his wife even some.time and I mean sometimes she is mean🤭🤫

  • @AttaliahMoyo
    @AttaliahMoyo Рік тому +1

    You two are not allowed to divorce no matter what. Till death, you two can part ways.

  • @nalediitea
    @nalediitea 2 роки тому +19

    The love journey carries on!😻

  • @purpisa_dlamini
    @purpisa_dlamini 2 роки тому +1

    Very educational. God bless this marriage.
    This people make me believe there is love but I’m still frightened, what if I’m not as lucky as them 🥺

  • @nolwethuzulu3748
    @nolwethuzulu3748 2 роки тому +1

    Yho almost got a heart attack guys,alteast u not separating thank God ,I really like you guys .

  • @jasminemtebe4496
    @jasminemtebe4496 2 роки тому +13

    You guys are my role models. I love you guys. Also wishing you the best in everything you do, your marriage, well-being, basically all in all. I learn from every video. Thank you😊💯🔥👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @diimakatso
    @diimakatso 2 роки тому +21

    No ways, I hope this is a joke😭. Your love is what makes some of us to believe that love is a beautiful thing 🥺

  • @Laviniatleonard
    @Laviniatleonard 2 роки тому +6

    "Thank God that's not gonna happen"!!!!!!

  • @pontshomotaung310
    @pontshomotaung310 2 роки тому +16

    This was so informative and very easy to grasp thank you.

  • @keneilwemmushi4692
    @keneilwemmushi4692 2 роки тому +1

    Touch down you won't divorce, but honestly this insert is very educational. I think one on understanding the different marriage contracts so people can know what they are signing up for before getting bind in a union

  • @zeynabosmaan7057
    @zeynabosmaan7057 2 роки тому +6

    I loved watching this video , however I was saddened by the fact that the video wasn't long enough....I really enjoy yr long videos 😀 .... Mara guys the way these 2 look at each other 😍

  • @lonalovee6996
    @lonalovee6996 2 роки тому +4

    Hungani reminds me of my fiance ,I'm literally sitting outside because I cant even have a serious convo with him coz his never serious😃God knows we love them🤣🤣

  • @sindishandu7560
    @sindishandu7560 2 роки тому +2

    I’m not getting married or divorced anytime soon but I’m glad I watched this video. I will absolutely do more research and my baby sister is getting married in June and I really need her to know all this

  • @themnyamanes_
    @themnyamanes_ 2 роки тому +49

    This video was so good guys!🔥🔥🔥 it’s informative and also gives people the platform to get informed and make decisions outside of the norms they’ve been raised with. It’s also a hard conversation to have but y’all did so well👏🏽

  • @lesosimon4140
    @lesosimon4140 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks. I will buy a house, cars and everything of my own before getting married. But you forgot to share that if there is a kid involved, it can change things on the house side. The court can take the house and give it to the wife.

  • @eliskapamara4980
    @eliskapamara4980 2 роки тому +7

    I'm here reapting this video for the 10th time now trying to find where Stephie cut Hungani harshly but I can't find it yoooh guys in the comment section you always find something to talk about I give up with you all 🙌

    • @TheNdlovusUncut
      @TheNdlovusUncut  2 роки тому

      🤗🤗

    • @kgali_s3694
      @kgali_s3694 2 роки тому +3

      I love them too and don't see no faults but have you ever had a moment where you're excitedly trying to explain something to someone and their response is " take it down a notch, why you're being so loud" tht time you're just speaking normal?? Like how low was he supposed to speak? Whisper? Anyway I'm just trying to make a point, no shade. All ❤

  • @ntebogangmollylethoka502
    @ntebogangmollylethoka502 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you Mr and Mrs Ndlovu😍😘

  • @chikaerin7153
    @chikaerin7153 2 роки тому +1

    I have never commented on anybody's channel but pleaseeeee stop thinking about this. I love you guys and that will break my heart. I'm Chika from Nigeria.

  • @norahmlilo1637
    @norahmlilo1637 2 роки тому +1

    Very informative 👏 👌. Have got too much love ❤️ 😍 for you guys.

  • @silandisoangela2712
    @silandisoangela2712 2 роки тому +1

    I think they make this kind of topics to get more views. Anyway we are enjoying your acting skills to get more views. Big up

  • @CalvinchaserOfficial
    @CalvinchaserOfficial 2 роки тому +1

    Mrs Ndlovu I think Mr Ndlovu doesn't wanna imagine life without you, that why there is So much energy coming out of him😂😂😂😂 y'all guys are amazing❤️❤️🙏🙏

  • @adehndlovuauthor77
    @adehndlovuauthor77 2 роки тому +1

    Shout out to you guys, for bringing hope of love and marriage to us young people.Xikwembu xi mi katekisa

  • @zinhledladla1414
    @zinhledladla1414 2 роки тому +1

    Yes the tabloids have already started, I came to this video cause I saw an article somewhere. Yhuuu thank you for the topic hey..so profound

  • @luliboelihlendibongo1036
    @luliboelihlendibongo1036 2 роки тому +5

    I almost had a heartattack because I have watched you guys in a while😭😭

  • @alphinammachuene9402
    @alphinammachuene9402 2 роки тому +5

    I am learning alot from this channel 👏, Thank you so much guys

  • @dimphomoela9947
    @dimphomoela9947 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks God you guys are not getting a divorce coz I would have felt like my parents have seperated, I love you guys so so much ❤️❤️❤️😁😁. Thanks for the wisdom

  • @FirstLadyTshepi
    @FirstLadyTshepi Рік тому +1

    What a beautiful and informative video hey, lovely work. I commend you guys for informing and teaching others who are thinking of marriage. Kudos to you! 🙌🙌
    #TheNdlovusUncut #Divorce #UA-camBlack

  • @previous633
    @previous633 2 роки тому +1

    Guys I nearly got a heart attack. I over you guys and I pray that you never ever divorce. I rebuke it in the name of my father God.

  • @thevillagegist
    @thevillagegist 2 роки тому +5

    Wish i saw this video before I got married lol.. I'm new here totally love you guys ❤️❤️❤️

  • @jennafelix5368
    @jennafelix5368 2 роки тому +1

    Very important topic have learned a lot . Thank you and May God continue to be the center of your marriage

  • @SirwilliamsX
    @SirwilliamsX 2 роки тому +1

    Just make a baby!! This topic will never resurface again.😌👏🏽

  • @sandtee
    @sandtee 2 роки тому +7

    Very educative topic,but Steph didn't give us the real her.Maybe she felt uncomfortable with the topic,but yeah she was a bit low,so unusual for her.Keep educating us,talk about things we are always shy to talk about due to superstitious beliefs. I love you guys🥰

    • @ashley_blouw
      @ashley_blouw 2 роки тому

      I'm watching the video and I'm like...Steph's energy is so low, could it be that she is uncomfortable with the conversation/ is it that time of the month...she's really not feeling it,but this was a very informative video, especially for people planning to get married soon

    • @hambeldishena193
      @hambeldishena193 2 роки тому +1

      @@ashley_blouw she is pregnant…

    • @sandtee
      @sandtee 2 роки тому

      @Ashley Blouw okay understandable

  • @YolandaMkhize
    @YolandaMkhize 2 роки тому +1

    So informative, thank you so much for educating us guys. We’re learning. ❤️

  • @TheShongwes
    @TheShongwes 2 роки тому +1

    I Jesus name that will never happen 🙌🙌 I love that what if left happens discussion

  • @YourGirlOkuhle3129
    @YourGirlOkuhle3129 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks God it didn't happen...I love you guys and thanks for every lessons and advices that you giving us

  • @siphumelelekhulemkhize9689
    @siphumelelekhulemkhize9689 2 роки тому +3

    Wishing you guys all the best, Steph is looking kinda sad though, maybe topic isn’t good for her energy but mhhhh.....

  • @mbalenhlenkosi894
    @mbalenhlenkosi894 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for the insight now I know exactly what kind of marriage I want to get into. I know and understand the different types of marital contracts there are thanks to you.

  • @kutlwanomosesi4867
    @kutlwanomosesi4867 2 роки тому +24

    The end convos make my life 😂 Loved the video so informative!!

  • @beingrethabile
    @beingrethabile 2 роки тому +14

    “Prenuptial Agreement with Accrual” we really need to understand the types of contracts, thank you shining light on these conversations and sharing information.

  • @alltheseeknaturemoves
    @alltheseeknaturemoves 2 роки тому +9

    Next time Never shoot when your energies are this off.hope you guys talk through what you are going through
    Can't finish this episode.

    • @TheNdlovusUncut
      @TheNdlovusUncut  2 роки тому +24

      That wouldn't be a true reflection of life. Energies don't always align but the funny thing is...to us there was nothing flawed with our energy. We are actually surprised by these comments. just because one person is more energetic than the other doesn't mean something is faulty.

  • @lesegoyv
    @lesegoyv 2 роки тому +22

    Uncomfortable conversations 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾. These are so so necessary to be spoken about when couples are still at their happiest stages. Especially bo prenuptial and what goes where.
    These conversations makes devorces settlements better.
    We aren't discussing them to open cans of worms but to face reality from honeymoon eyes.

    • @XclusiVThash
      @XclusiVThash 2 роки тому +4

      Thi is so true.. So informative and very much needed knowledge, especially coming from young couples..💯

  • @thotoanesello8635
    @thotoanesello8635 2 роки тому +1

    I've BEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEN telling my friends that I refuse community of property and they think I'm being negative and showing lack of trust to my partner.

  • @KhanyisileDlamini23
    @KhanyisileDlamini23 Рік тому

    Great video❤You guys are so matured in how you talk to each other,you honestly sell marriage .😭😭❤May God bless your union

  • @florencesellane
    @florencesellane 2 роки тому +5

    Thank you guys for the INFO and wisdom. ✊❤
    When I get married I'm certain that I'm gonna sign a Prenuptial Agreement with Accrual.

  • @dinamaphuti8843
    @dinamaphuti8843 2 роки тому +1

    Very knowledgeable advices we get from you my people,where love is taking placez

  • @simplyeasyy377
    @simplyeasyy377 2 роки тому +2

    I think divorce is a good thing and to stay when you not happy isn't ideal. Especially for two adults. Generally 🌷

  • @rorisangmeselane8483
    @rorisangmeselane8483 2 роки тому +1

    This was quite educational.

  • @ferdrikasedi9977
    @ferdrikasedi9977 2 роки тому +14

    This was very informative, thank you very much.. Your union is blessed in Jesus name🙏🏾

  • @toniwilliamsnajoe
    @toniwilliamsnajoe 2 роки тому +2

    Love when the camera rolls after your topic is done.

  • @tM-wb9pr
    @tM-wb9pr 4 місяці тому

    This is very informative. Thank you for the work that you guys do❤

  • @faithshinemashinini6599
    @faithshinemashinini6599 2 роки тому +1

    Hai hai hai guyzin akuna divorce lana even an educational talk ngayo... We are not about that life.. How do we even write dworse in this channel🤯

  • @jujun6465
    @jujun6465 2 роки тому +1

    Get it, is there a problem. That is the healthiest things to do. There is no need for telling us

  • @vusumzingceke6518
    @vusumzingceke6518 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much. This is very important. By the way I love you so much guys. May the wonderful Lord bless you and keep you together until death or until Jesus comes back.

  • @thula-dumasinga1311
    @thula-dumasinga1311 2 роки тому +2

    It’s the Holy Spirit activating there by Mr Ndlovu🤣🤣

  • @thebeg8114
    @thebeg8114 2 роки тому +1

    Great topic 👏🏾 love it🔥💯🤞🏾,so y'all don't have good news to share with us👀🤔🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @yamvuamonamodi6077
    @yamvuamonamodi6077 2 роки тому +1

    Conversations about matrimonial property regimes are very important in this day and time. Also how each of these regimes affects the spouses' contractual capacity, cases of insolvency, and instances where one intends to sue or defend themselves in a lawsuit.

  • @siviwenongqayi579
    @siviwenongqayi579 2 роки тому +2

    Besides the debts there's always those baby mamas that play the devil's advocate as soon as the baby daddy gets married automatically they assume he's loaded

  • @keamogetsemajela2026
    @keamogetsemajela2026 2 роки тому +2

    I got married in December with accrual. My husband didn't understand why I was hesitant on it, but I told him to watch one of your videos that explains... I think it was with Hungani's sister..

  • @raybhengu4244
    @raybhengu4244 2 роки тому +1

    We still healing from the Will Smith n Jada situation, if yoll seperate I'm giving up on love n joining the army.

  • @kinnienokzola6217
    @kinnienokzola6217 2 роки тому +1

    You so Amazing ❤️

  • @fillemonshindubu8239
    @fillemonshindubu8239 2 роки тому +1

    Together until death do you apart, the Ndlovu is uncut.

  • @mgeijho
    @mgeijho 2 роки тому +4

    I saw the line before reading the caption and my silly behind got excited thinking we playing a game and i already picked a side!!whats wrong with me😭😭😭

  • @pontshopriscilla
    @pontshopriscilla 2 роки тому +1

    So I can't get lobola (ed) and get married traditionally?! Hawu 😭. I won't get married then, but just in case I do though, I'll sign a Prenuptial Agreement without Accrual.

  • @vkmabunda9597
    @vkmabunda9597 2 роки тому +4

    So the title was just to get attention🙃🙃
    Lol God bless your union

  • @theLionessss
    @theLionessss 2 роки тому

    Hmmmm neva separate....l hvnt healed after umiey and mxo broke up

  • @simphiwedumakude9888
    @simphiwedumakude9888 2 роки тому +1

    The sound peace.....is crazy....I like the energy

  • @swazikubeka3736
    @swazikubeka3736 2 роки тому +6

    This is why i am a subscriber on your channel guys cause i get to be educated about alot of things ♥️ see now i got to know different types of marriage. So thank you guys ♥️♥️ appreciated.

  • @dumisanemdlalose6065
    @dumisanemdlalose6065 2 роки тому +2

    This scares me slot I must say, call it what you will but feel young couples have devalued values and increased the insignificant significance of their career aspirations and worldly stigmas

  • @joycechirongoma8414
    @joycechirongoma8414 2 роки тому +1

    Very educative... Many thanks. May God continue to guide you

  • @carolinemashiloane2416
    @carolinemashiloane2416 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you the Ndlovu,s for the nuggets of wisdom

  • @blessingolayemi1527
    @blessingolayemi1527 2 роки тому +1

    This is educative. Thanks

  • @TheVakalas
    @TheVakalas 2 роки тому +1

    I thoroughly enjoyed this video, very informative, thank you guys👌🏾
    However, andifuni tuu ungatsho I love the ending even more😂😍 i don’t know how many times I had to rewatch it😂😂🤣❤️

  • @terence2287
    @terence2287 2 роки тому +7

    Why do I feel the need to tell you guys that I love you...why?