I’m confused dated nothing but a lot of hot and cold men for years, at this point I don’t want to date I just want to heal. I don’t want no one bothering me I just want to get myself together financially, be a mother and keep it moving
Wow this hit home from both sides - it brought tears to my eyes. I lost a really good person at 21 because I was in survival mode. This made a lot of things click.
Thank you so much I am one of those woman that had a wall up but wanted someone to love me but didn't except it because of these issues but since you broke it down Derrick now I know that I have to change myself first.....Thank you for the tough love talk.
I, I, I...he's in survivor mode for sure! No matter what happens we always find our way back to each other...i know he wants me, i 🙏 🙏 he will evolve on his own
Yeah but unfortunately the way you just described your relationship dynamics sound a hell of a lot like a teauma bond. The point is you can love someone til the cows come home and they can love you but are they meeting your need? Are you a priority? Are they showing up? Cuz I garentee he didn't act like this in the beginning.. you know that survival mode you were talking about to get you.. You wanna see him act right and change his survival tune..LEAVE! CODEPENDENCY IS NOT LOVE BABE!
I was dealing with a person who cannot have an uncomfortable conversation with anyone at all...he hasn't dealt with his own emotions. He didn't know how. I'm pretty sure he's not trying to deal with them either. He is surrounded by hustlers.. they call him the lower stalk...
@blissfulchaosfactory4799, I can imagine how difficult it must be to navigate through the chaos and confusion in your life right now. It's completely normal to feel overwhelmed and unsure of what steps to take next. Remember, it's okay to ask for help and seek guidance. You are not alone in this journey. As a relationship coach, I want to assure you that there is always a way forward. You have the strength and resilience to overcome any challenges that come your way. Take small steps each day towards your goals and trust that you are capable of creating a brighter future for yourself. If you're looking for more personalized support and guidance, I invite you to check out my new master class that can provide you with tools and strategies to help you navigate through difficult times. You can find the link to the master class in the description of this video. Remember, you are worthy of love and happiness. Stay strong, my friend.
So when we leave him alone because clearly he doesn't care. How do we stop feeling bad when they are struggling and on ur door step begging for a shower meal etc? What if we didn't see something with our own eyes and things u know because other have told u, and they refuse to admit it?
He’s just not that into you…such a hard concept for a woman in love to understand. 💔
Soopo true!
Sex don't make a relationship work.
And this is why i don't chase exes or menses, because if he doesn't want you then he can't value you. And i learned thats the hard wayzes
You made my chest hurt but i needed to hear this😢
Another great talk. You never disappoint. Many gems and explicit examples.
100% REAL TALK AND PURE WISDOM! 💯💯💯
I’m confused dated nothing but a lot of hot and cold men for years, at this point I don’t want to date I just want to heal. I don’t want no one bothering me I just want to get myself together financially, be a mother and keep it moving
I claim this now with positive energy amen 🙏 ❤
Wow this hit home from both sides - it brought tears to my eyes. I lost a really good person at 21 because I was in survival mode. This made a lot of things click.
Please keep bringing the wisdom this is amazing. The world needs more guys like you
Real talk 💯
Whoa! Lotsa truth! You just gave me another dose of reality, more proof of why I'm doing the right thing by ghosting and blocking him totally.
I needed to hear this-thank you
Thank you so much I am one of those woman that had a wall up but wanted someone to love me but didn't except it because of these issues but since you broke it down Derrick now I know that I have to change myself first.....Thank you for the tough love talk.
Damn Derrick Jaxn, you're the definition of tenacious. Keep going, love your content 💕
I, I, I...he's in survivor mode for sure! No matter what happens we always find our way back to each other...i know he wants me, i 🙏 🙏 he will evolve on his own
Yeah but unfortunately the way you just described your relationship dynamics sound a hell of a lot like a teauma bond. The point is you can love someone til the cows come home and they can love you but are they meeting your need? Are you a priority? Are they showing up? Cuz I garentee he didn't act like this in the beginning.. you know that survival mode you were talking about to get you..
You wanna see him act right and change his survival tune..LEAVE!
CODEPENDENCY IS NOT LOVE BABE!
Wow it makes a lot of sense
Thank you for this. I needed to hear this. 😢
Mr Jaxn, I hope you know GOD SPEAKS THROUGH YOU???? You explained everything I needed to know....GOD ALWAYS SPEAKS💯💯💯
Very informative!❤
Really Interesting! And the master's class was the same! Thank you!
Real talk and facts
Thanks I needed this
Another great video, thanks big bro!!
I was dealing with a person who cannot have an uncomfortable conversation with anyone at all...he hasn't dealt with his own emotions. He didn't know how. I'm pretty sure he's not trying to deal with them either. He is surrounded by hustlers.. they call him the lower stalk...
You spoke truth.
Exactly 💯
Yes So True Facts.
If Jesus say it’s not gone happen then it’s not gone happen period
Thank you, thank you!😮
I feel that
Real talk
Im living this whole video right this second
@blissfulchaosfactory4799, I can imagine how difficult it must be to navigate through the chaos and confusion in your life right now. It's completely normal to feel overwhelmed and unsure of what steps to take next. Remember, it's okay to ask for help and seek guidance. You are not alone in this journey.
As a relationship coach, I want to assure you that there is always a way forward. You have the strength and resilience to overcome any challenges that come your way. Take small steps each day towards your goals and trust that you are capable of creating a brighter future for yourself.
If you're looking for more personalized support and guidance, I invite you to check out my new master class that can provide you with tools and strategies to help you navigate through difficult times. You can find the link to the master class in the description of this video. Remember, you are worthy of love and happiness. Stay strong, my friend.
Thank you
You are right 😊
FACTS 🙌🏽
So very true
Very true
So true
What he says he loves you and still do this
Amen sometimes you just have to go with the flow.
THANK YOU
Yup 😆 been there
I did . He has being hurt in the past and won't let me in his heart. So I let him go
REALTALK
What if he's long distance
Nice one
I went threw that recently
So right
I'm not gonna do that cause I'm too in tune to myself.
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Yup!!
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Yass derrickkkkkkk
Yep did that text!
Yessss
I've been their
💯💯💯❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥💥💥💥🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿❤️❤️❤️🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿Facts!!!
So when we leave him alone because clearly he doesn't care. How do we stop feeling bad when they are struggling and on ur door step begging for a shower meal etc? What if we didn't see something with our own eyes and things u know because other have told u, and they refuse to admit it?
When I to pay for THE him taking me out...I say fuff, fuuff
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Ive been thru the survival mode
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Because U love him, how can u leave?
True
Agreed, I
Derrick, love to invite you on an episode of my podcast. 🥰
So you cut my Clint off and all of sudden my mental changes like Woman...Only the Folly of a Woman would assume THAT!
You sir are talking to me ...😕🧐
Yep
Aye 😭💔
I finally broke out of survival mode 🎉
I I I I I CAPTAIN
@Dede. 😢
Are you with and evolve woman I don't see no ring on your finger
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I wonder where these "evolved men" are. Ive dated several men and havent come across any decent ones
LGH.
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