Living with a Minimalist

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  • Опубліковано 30 гру 2024

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  • @mattdavella
    @mattdavella  6 років тому +379

    Let me inside your inbox: mattdavella.com/newsletter
    That sentence feels awkward... but I kinda like it.

    • @undacovabroda45
      @undacovabroda45 6 років тому +2

      hahahah just a little 🤣

    • @thatkidavid
      @thatkidavid 6 років тому +9

      "Let me slide into your inbox" but we all like awkward.

    • @tylert.555
      @tylert.555 6 років тому +6

      Sliding into those inboxes

    • @KFG721
      @KFG721 6 років тому +2

      That’s awesome 😎. You guys crack me up - good video. Congratulations on your engagement!

    • @WhatTheFragrance
      @WhatTheFragrance 6 років тому

      I noticed this is the only video where you didn't grade it using that dark blueish green colour in the shadows and some items around the house. Why did you do that? Also do you do it to clean the noise from the shadows?

  • @suzyb148
    @suzyb148 6 років тому +1134

    She is so cool, she needs to be in more videos, she seems to bring balance to your life and her perspective is on point.....so funny

    • @mattdavella
      @mattdavella  6 років тому +106

      I truly believe we are bad at giving advice. But we have a really good time trying 😂

    • @hrutikabadgeri6505
      @hrutikabadgeri6505 6 років тому

      XD XD

    • @EtwasMartin
      @EtwasMartin 4 роки тому +3

      @@mattdavella I wouldn't call this advice. You are hardly ever saying "this or that will work you!". Mostly you are saying "this or that did or didn't work for me because...."
      And that actually is how advice should be given.

  • @eastside_king9892
    @eastside_king9892 5 років тому +214

    When she said "YOUR STILL MY B×TCH" I could not stop laughing. She is cool.

  • @CurrentlyHannah
    @CurrentlyHannah 6 років тому +905

    This was so freaking enjoyable. You two are adorable and I wanna be friends with Natalie.

    • @mattdavella
      @mattdavella  6 років тому +34

      Thanks, Hannah! Your videos are dope 👍

    • @CurrentlyHannah
      @CurrentlyHannah 6 років тому +22

      Ermagerd, day made! Thank you!

  • @LinetteArroyo
    @LinetteArroyo 6 років тому +61

    Aww she’s adorable! I love how she said, “married, instead of engaged” ☺️

  • @wildorchid8531
    @wildorchid8531 6 років тому +204

    You two are just so darn cute! You both make me laugh. More videos together please!!!!

  • @iamjasonthompson
    @iamjasonthompson 6 років тому +380

    Love it bro. Marriage is great , the challenges are real but that's what makes it cool. That someone is willing to put up with your sht for the rest of their life. How cool is that? I'm starting to work toward minimalism... Pray for my wife 😂😂

  • @ricardofranco3386
    @ricardofranco3386 6 років тому +235

    She's too damn funny and the edits only make it better 😂😂

  • @nicolinoayerdi6753
    @nicolinoayerdi6753 6 років тому +385

    Dude, share your arms workout routine, please

    • @mattdavella
      @mattdavella  6 років тому +266

      The Minimalist Workout Routine: Biceps Everyday.

    • @cigar323
      @cigar323 6 років тому +10

      All day, or just 'erry day?

    • @nicolinoayerdi6753
      @nicolinoayerdi6753 6 років тому +1

      Haha, greatings from Argentina Matt, really love your channel style. And you two chemistry looks excelent. Keep it up,

    • @Mi-kf5bc
      @Mi-kf5bc 6 років тому +18

      Constant decluttering.

    • @ambition1224
      @ambition1224 6 років тому +1

      Matt D'Avella hahaha! 😂😂

  • @RaAscend
    @RaAscend 6 років тому +302

    I didn’t even notice that she wasn’t looking at the lens 😂

    • @megb5196
      @megb5196 6 років тому +11

      Ra Ascend yeah Matt was either talking to us or talking to her, and she was either talking to Matt or listening to Matt. I'd probably do the same, I hate cameras😂

  • @cluebug
    @cluebug 6 років тому +81

    Natalie is SO cute! What a breath of fresh air!

    • @johnzuras6378
      @johnzuras6378 5 років тому

      cut yes, but she is giving him a headache daily.

  • @Aishie939
    @Aishie939 6 років тому +24

    I loveeee her... she's a breath of fresh air! And she's super funny and adorable. Wish you both the best! ❤️

  • @katieosborne5203
    @katieosborne5203 6 років тому +33

    I relate so much to your fiancé when it comes to splitting the bill and being independent it relating to self-preservation due to childhood trauma. Lol. It's sad, but that's one of the most relatable things I've heard someone say in awhile.

  • @mitchells.madness
    @mitchells.madness 6 років тому +45

    I think one of the key things is being open minded in relationships, if you're not wanting to understand you're not willing to change

  • @ethanjohn7638
    @ethanjohn7638 6 років тому +8

    Jesus she's so bubbly, love her personality, super chill. Thanks for the great video Matt.

  • @mcguire9941
    @mcguire9941 6 років тому +5

    How do you fit together so well... it seems like you two are so balanced out and its just amazing to see
    I dont even find words to explain the vibe you guys create when you‘re together

  • @n.c.467
    @n.c.467 6 років тому +3

    You guys are so perfect together. I love watching you both. Matt, so glad you popped the question - she's awesome!

  • @garrelt-mock
    @garrelt-mock 6 років тому +2

    I really liked this video, because it is the perfect match of relaxed conversation and a structure.
    And I love to see you interact. Especially the last scene is perfect. Thank you so much and I wish you all the best.
    Thanks for making great content Matt.

  • @jasperrainjose2749
    @jasperrainjose2749 5 років тому +3

    I am a 14 year old Boy, and living with a poor Family, hoping to save money by watching your Videos and How you Teach us on what life Really is, What to Do in a Minimalist way, Thank you For everything.
    -Jasper Rain From Philippines.

  • @alicedotkay
    @alicedotkay 6 років тому +18

    Haha, she's so feisty and sassy! I love the chemistry between you two, you guys are relationship goals

  • @ggdharris3626
    @ggdharris3626 4 роки тому

    So delighted to hear a fellow Aussie. I’m from Perth and I’m also married to a minimalist from the U.S. Matt, your content and videos are just fantastic. Natalie had me laughing and cheesing the entire time. Super excited to have found and subscribed to your channel! Cheers!

  • @alenawu5383
    @alenawu5383 6 років тому +7

    lol love the raw-ness of the emotions shared and you two chemistry are amazing :) congratulations again!!

  • @meekmillie5225
    @meekmillie5225 6 років тому +35

    Sitting at my desk, laughing hilariously at this video. Thanks for being some sunshine on this cloudy Boston day Matt! “I haven’t looked at the camera once” 😂😂😂😂

  • @tubemurat
    @tubemurat 4 роки тому

    Every minimalist and decluttering video says if anything (Stuff or person) has benefit for you keep it, if dont then get rid of it. I see in this video that they moved in together in his place and they got engaged. Congrats. I like you guys very much. I am happy for you. Since he is a minimalist, I am looking forward a decluttering video after this one when time is arrived.

  • @irlbatty
    @irlbatty 6 років тому +11

    You guys communicate soooooo well!

  • @koroglurustem1722
    @koroglurustem1722 5 років тому

    You guys are very very contagious. Also the video quality is beaming through the screen. That's why you have so many subscribers. Respects ! I came here from Rich Roll interview.

  • @isagarsehwag
    @isagarsehwag 5 років тому +1

    It's really your very high orderliness(Psychological Term) which makes you love minimalism. It's not that you don't want more stuff, You just want them tidy enough that you don't want to waste a single thought after you are done with it.
    Conscientiousness - 2 Divisions (Orderliness & Industriousness).
    I myself am quite orderly but not industrious enough to pursue to the extent you have pursued.
    Hats Off. Thank you for the content.

  • @Squshie00
    @Squshie00 5 років тому +5

    Natalie is so adorable! Y'all are so funny together. I laugh so hard when y'all do a video together. Kudos and keep it up!
    I've tried to become more minimalist and my husband is definitely not. He says I'm rubbing off on him, but sometimes, lol, I really don't believe that😅. I do the same things with his stuff. Scoop it up, put it in his designated room, but after 13 years of being together, sometimes it gets reeeeallly old. So I'm going to take your advice and lead more by example, because I'm definitely not perfect. Thanks for the video and making me realize, I just need to step back, let it go, and laugh more. 🖤😊

  • @KSlivinghappy
    @KSlivinghappy 6 років тому +7

    I rewinded the video to watch her again. She didn’t look at the camera. 😂 Your reaction was awesome. She is funny. She watched you the entire time, Awwwww. So adorable.

  • @rebeccacummings3830
    @rebeccacummings3830 6 років тому

    Omg, I love her!!! Congrats you two :) My husband and I are both minimalists. One recommendation for couples: joining our bank accounts after marriage was the BEST decision we made to support our budget and to pay off ALL our school debt. It also got us real about our commitment to each other, and realize all money coming in was our money, not me or mine. Go team, go!

  • @rihanhon
    @rihanhon 6 років тому +11

    I love how they look at each other ! That's true love there :D

  • @AshiyaWhitley-ShawVeganAthlete
    @AshiyaWhitley-ShawVeganAthlete 3 роки тому

    I’m the only minimalist in my household of 4.😌 You definitely see the differences going from room to room. Too much stuff makes me anxious. 😆 I can’t relax.😑 I love my space.❤️

  • @stasia.alexis
    @stasia.alexis 6 років тому +1

    0:44 This “bitch” segment really made my heart skip a beat. I can really feel the love you have for eachother❤️
    Good luck with your new wife ;)

  • @Iano51
    @Iano51 6 років тому +2

    Her sense of humour is goals. You roo are great

  • @LadyTracyOfTheDisk
    @LadyTracyOfTheDisk 6 років тому +57

    I have a question for Natalie: have you been influenced by Matt's minimalist philosophy? Do you buy less now, maybe, than before?

  • @AnthonyCannonier
    @AnthonyCannonier 6 років тому +32

    @1:40 The way Matt turned to the cam. Ha.

    • @sreejaray6331
      @sreejaray6331 5 років тому +1

      Anthony Cannonier looking for help and support from the audience like “pls guys....” xD

  • @TomStreller
    @TomStreller 6 років тому +57

    This video is so good - definitely bring her in more! Your fiancée is just super cool!

  • @ShantelleKing
    @ShantelleKing 5 років тому +1

    those little edits and clips that you insert always get me 😂😭 - love the videos man! 👏🏾

  • @williamn6133
    @williamn6133 5 років тому

    That was so raw and honest. I loved it. I want more. Humanity is thirsty and starved of such honesty.

  • @Saturn-uz6jc
    @Saturn-uz6jc 5 років тому +2

    Man, these two have some amazing chemistry!

  • @alvarez.l9422
    @alvarez.l9422 6 років тому +1

    Minimalism will give you less to argue about. I wish I knew that before this journey. Congrats guys!

  • @Skylar4654
    @Skylar4654 6 років тому +1

    She looks so beautiful with your glasses! Omg!!!!😫 she’s so beautiful and you two are so cute together!!!!!!!!!

  • @adamspark-hall5970
    @adamspark-hall5970 4 роки тому

    How has this video only got 10k likes this was one of the funniest haha, the most amazing couple, love you guys.

  • @yesrun
    @yesrun 6 років тому +7

    Those slap face clips are the absolute definition of a functional relationship and marriage. You guys are gonna be just fine. Cool video :)

  • @nothandomatshoba6861
    @nothandomatshoba6861 4 роки тому

    I watch every video where she's featured! Love her

  • @Z10C
    @Z10C 5 років тому +1

    She is lovely. She seems like a light. Great job, Matt! :D

  • @macronencer
    @macronencer 6 років тому +1

    That was really fun. Loved all the inserts and running gags, and Natalie's sense of humour. Congratulations on your engagement, you two! :)

  • @NoraConrad
    @NoraConrad 6 років тому +5

    Oh my gosh the ending had me cracking up 😂 I love your channel and your fiance is freaking adorable.

  • @ShemarM
    @ShemarM 6 років тому

    Stumbled across this channel, instant favorite. Great energy and good substance

  • @АнтонЗахаренко-й1ь

    You guys are awesome! Keep rolling!

  • @GreasyAllstar
    @GreasyAllstar 6 років тому

    I am so happy I found your channel and minimalism. Keep these videos up!

  • @stephendowning3261
    @stephendowning3261 5 років тому

    How the heck are you so calm all the time? I aspire to be as chill as Matt!!!

  • @KevinFung
    @KevinFung 5 років тому

    lol...have to be one of my favourite videos. So entertaining seeing you both.
    Keep it up Matt! Love your work.

  • @dsmolks1
    @dsmolks1 6 років тому

    Just kept refreshing your page to watch you go 200k.. congrats, love what you’re doing. Each vid you put out is on point. Cheers

  • @laispiaz
    @laispiaz 4 роки тому

    She's so pretty, smart and funny, we'd love more videos with her!

  • @Leon-qy2xy
    @Leon-qy2xy 6 років тому +16

    Perhaps you should consider doing a video on your workout routines; your biceps are attracting too much of attention :D
    GREAT video by the way! =)

  • @georgia.lynns.peaches
    @georgia.lynns.peaches 6 років тому +4

    OMG I LOVE YOU, YOU CHANGED MY LIFE.

  • @Practice_Kindness-1st
    @Practice_Kindness-1st 6 років тому

    You two make a very cute couple. It helps immensely that you share a great sense of humor!

  • @the-G-Man2022
    @the-G-Man2022 6 років тому

    You guys are hilarious and have great chemistry. Just like Matt, I’m the minimalist while my wife is not and we make it work. Congrats on your engagement!

  • @conniemocumi
    @conniemocumi 5 років тому

    You are guys are so awesome n cool....I think my boyfriend is a minimalist but hasn't realized yet. I wanna adapt to minimalism. Great Channel Matt 💕

  • @harrybooth4278
    @harrybooth4278 6 років тому

    Color grade on the shot of you two together looks way nicer than normal! Keep it up

  • @marthawilliams8986
    @marthawilliams8986 6 років тому

    You guys are so great together!

  • @MrBrilliant001
    @MrBrilliant001 6 років тому

    I'am so really love this concept , Live with a mininalism is more calm .

  • @browzy2000
    @browzy2000 6 років тому +188

    Rumour has it, that if you comment early enough, Matt replies...

    • @mattdavella
      @mattdavella  6 років тому +98

      This is true. I'm pretty active within the first hour and then it's back to making more videos :)

    • @BrendanHufford
      @BrendanHufford 6 років тому +2

      He responds to tweets too!

    • @JesperDramsch
      @JesperDramsch 6 років тому +21

      But only from the rock.

  • @rkatika9
    @rkatika9 6 років тому

    I love to see you guys having so much fun together, that's what life is about! You're a great couple. 😁😁

  • @masonltompkins
    @masonltompkins 6 років тому +4

    this is the most youtuber-ish thing I've seen from you and it was delightful lol

  • @jenni8032
    @jenni8032 6 років тому

    I want to see your minimalist wedding. That's much needed in our world today.

  • @aaronstaes1317
    @aaronstaes1317 6 років тому

    This was so fun to watch :) Had a smile on my face for the whole video !

  • @naheenisapoet69
    @naheenisapoet69 6 років тому +2

    i love how Matt curls up when she puts her arms around him

  • @ToldbyNick
    @ToldbyNick 6 років тому +1

    Really entertaining guys 😂. You guys are great. Also, Matt your video aesthetic is freakin beautiful

  • @kristijanfistrek9055
    @kristijanfistrek9055 5 років тому +2

    I love it how everyone is talking about Matt's biceps.

  • @CandellieStudio
    @CandellieStudio 6 років тому

    This is great. Fun Q & A and great answers. Keep up the good work

  • @johnmendoza5907
    @johnmendoza5907 6 років тому +1

    More couple video's. That was by far the best one. Good shot bro!!!

  • @Ohrlstpph
    @Ohrlstpph 2 роки тому

    You two are awesome!

  • @danielirvine7468
    @danielirvine7468 6 років тому

    Great work loved it
    I’m glad you kept the looking in the lens bit

  • @lexirianne1195
    @lexirianne1195 6 років тому

    You both are so cute! reminds me of my boyfriend and I (together 5 years, living together for 1) minimalism, in the sense that it fits my lifestyle, has been something I’ve been after for years. My bf on the other hand isn’t as enthusiastic about activities like organizing and decluttering lol. It’s also been difficult moving into his space and trying to find out how I can tolerate all his things and gadgets (he’s a film guy too) so this video was definitely helpful 😆

  • @leannekenyon2926
    @leannekenyon2926 4 роки тому

    You guys are the freaking cutest

  • @carlocatabijan
    @carlocatabijan 6 років тому

    Goals. Literal minimal goals. No fancy edits, just really cut to the chase minimal edit with packing cuteness.

  • @User-zz6si
    @User-zz6si 6 років тому

    Great video Matt! Always loving your content

  • @LeahWriter
    @LeahWriter 6 років тому +1

    Love it. You two are great together

  • @loki112000
    @loki112000 6 років тому

    I’m really keen to see how you handle it with kids. In the future. I’ve been taken by the minimalist approach... but with a child or children it’s tough. All possible though. 😊

  • @juanisraelortiz
    @juanisraelortiz 6 років тому

    Congrats again on the engagement. And again... Living vicariously.

  • @ambition1224
    @ambition1224 6 років тому

    Y'all are SO DARN ADORABLE!! Ah, the way Matt looks at Natalie😍💖😍💖 Congrats again guys! XOXOXOXO!

  • @terciosantana4697
    @terciosantana4697 3 роки тому

    gotta love Natalie's laughter!

  • @petercornish-barlow2388
    @petercornish-barlow2388 6 років тому

    That was too funny you guys. I live by myself and have done since I started on my Minimalism journey. I hope that I make it work as well as you guys seem too. Much love x

  • @jogburn
    @jogburn 6 років тому +28

    I feel anxious and scatterbrained when things aren't neat, any suggestions on how to manage this if you are living with a not so neat person?

    • @lexirianne1195
      @lexirianne1195 6 років тому +1

      John ah this is my issue too. I dislike when I get all control freaky when things aren’t tidy.

    • @Mi-kf5bc
      @Mi-kf5bc 6 років тому +6

      Look at the ceiling a lot. 🤷🏻‍♀️
      It’s always tidy. 💁🏻

    • @NicholasBhagasinsan
      @NicholasBhagasinsan 6 років тому

      get a dog

    • @simply_geri
      @simply_geri 6 років тому

      if the person you are living with is your spouse then it is pretty easy, you can simply talk and explain why you live in a certain way. Say all the benefits and go through the process together. But.... if the person is a friend or roommate/housemate... welp i’m clueless as well lol!

    • @migo-migo9503
      @migo-migo9503 5 років тому

      I'm in the same situation, the way I deal with it is by organizing things myself. To prevent arguments, if I see some things out of order I put it back where it should be. I thought, it only bothers me and not her, so I should put it away. I know, I know, even if I did not make the mess, I think of it as a small sacrifice/offering to be with my spouse.
      If it's not your spouse, then you can move out or kick they ass out o yo crib!

  • @bysumeet
    @bysumeet 6 років тому +147

    Those biceps tho

  • @p.r.9982
    @p.r.9982 6 років тому

    Not splitting the bill when it comes to the 1st phase of dating (first 3 months). Absolutely not. But that's what makes the world interesting, we all have our own perspectives, and the goal is to find compatibility. Good for you guys.

  • @Nate_The_Great69
    @Nate_The_Great69 6 років тому +1

    I've been waiting all week for a new video finally got my fix thankyou!

  • @fairyy0611
    @fairyy0611 6 років тому

    Aaaah I love your fiancee she is sooo awesome! More videos with herrrr please💝💝 you both can give us tips often

  • @hu8226
    @hu8226 5 років тому

    congrats! happy for both of you!

  • @drawsleepread
    @drawsleepread 6 років тому

    I love the videos of you two together!

  • @RudiLoof
    @RudiLoof Рік тому

    You lucky bastard! What a great couple you are!

  • @karleighanderson3584
    @karleighanderson3584 6 років тому

    Well this was enjoyable and informative. Thanks for a amazing watch as always!

  • @lulymmacedo
    @lulymmacedo 5 років тому

    U both are so great together ♥️

  • @candiceschultz8317
    @candiceschultz8317 6 років тому

    Lol you guys are gorgeous, learning a lot from both of you with me wanting to become more minamilist and discussing it with my partner etc 😊 love the channel, I’d live to see more about your wedding details etc that’s exciting

  • @evan9759
    @evan9759 6 років тому

    You guys seem perfect for each other!

  • @bigugluchinger1523
    @bigugluchinger1523 6 років тому

    Just love you guys! Having fun with your partner is just one of the most important things in a relationship.
    OMG, was this the first video without mentioning the Rock? 😉😱😉

  • @StephanieStoven
    @StephanieStoven 5 років тому +28

    We still have a lifetime ahead of us for more jewelry 😂😂😂

  • @mnm-jr
    @mnm-jr 5 років тому

    Really happy for the both of you. The outro was perfect lol