39 Things I've Earned the RIGHT to QUIT

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  • @Taduuuu
    @Taduuuu 7 місяців тому +174

    The old man is starting 😂
    Yelling at the clouds ☁️

    • @LuisMercadoorg
      @LuisMercadoorg 7 місяців тому +7

      He’s just aware time is our most valuable asset.

    • @Taduuuu
      @Taduuuu 7 місяців тому +5

      @@LuisMercadoorgyea sir , he is right on most things except for shorts lol

    • @JSSMVCJR2.1
      @JSSMVCJR2.1 13 днів тому

      "No more Yelling at the clouds. I did it once, and all I got was f-kng torrential rain."

  • @johnthomasgoerke7852
    @johnthomasgoerke7852 7 місяців тому +257

    Van is going to be such a legend when he's 80. He'll have the saltiest takes. The wildest hobbies. The most perfect eccentricities. This is like the first sprouting of some seriously good shit in the years to come.

  • @MayBeYouTubin
    @MayBeYouTubin 7 місяців тому +588

    Low Key waiting for the Spirited Man App.

    • @katielowen
      @katielowen 7 місяців тому +75

      It’s available. It’s just physical post it notes and a pen. 😌

    • @RickWeberEcon
      @RickWeberEcon 7 місяців тому +10

      A spirited man stares deeply into his phone and sees his soul.

    • @derrickkoppes4639
      @derrickkoppes4639 7 місяців тому +6

      Naw that's all bad. Probably bricks your phone.

    • @Dampney_
      @Dampney_ 7 місяців тому

      Most users are watching this video on an app. Link at end of video points to Web app.
      Apps: 2
      Spirited Man: 0
      Love from app developer

    • @doofnshmirtz5110
      @doofnshmirtz5110 7 місяців тому +2

      Downloaded witha QR code, of course

  • @MarcMajcher
    @MarcMajcher 7 місяців тому +255

    "No more shorts" Bro here in Texas we are entering the 100+ degrees for two months straight territory and y'all are lucky I'm wearing anything at all.

    • @helpfulcommenter
      @helpfulcommenter 7 місяців тому +9

      Amen

    • @juanreyes6955
      @juanreyes6955 7 місяців тому +3

      Yeah im in cali and i love pants but fuck I need to wear shorts nowadays, I couldn’t imagine being in Texas or Arizona

    • @tet2755
      @tet2755 7 місяців тому +5

      Reporting in from Florida. I concur: it should be illegal to wear pants between May and October.

    • @soundsokf
      @soundsokf 7 місяців тому

      the transition to shorts is one of the many ways in which moving to Texas robs you of your dignity

    • @wrigap
      @wrigap 7 місяців тому +1

      lol, thought the same damn thing, would LOVE to wear pants and boots all year long, not gonna happen in Texas

  • @neilk22
    @neilk22 7 місяців тому +96

    "no more cheap anything, except for this baby monitor" 😂 im here for all the spirited contradictions - great channel!!

    • @degrotekoningwouter
      @degrotekoningwouter 7 місяців тому +2

      no more Chinese electronics except for the baby monitor!

  • @eyesontheinside5776
    @eyesontheinside5776 7 місяців тому +81

    I see a video of this guy and i get some sort of buzz in my neurons that tells me i need to clean my room and start working lol

  • @geejayhey
    @geejayhey 7 місяців тому +205

    "Apps are f***ing stupid". I think Casey might agree nowadays, too.

    • @monkfoobar
      @monkfoobar 7 місяців тому +5

      Turning the iPhone into a “hidden” camera was a wake up call

    • @ibefilmin
      @ibefilmin 5 місяців тому +2

      Casey made $25mil off selling an app.

  • @t77break
    @t77break Місяць тому

    i've been in recovery for two years. my life was very directionless in a lot of ways. people like van make me.. sort of excited to get older. to be in my 30s and 40s onward. life was so empty before i can only hope that moving forward i'll find a life that's so much more active and focused

  • @travismitchell9637
    @travismitchell9637 7 місяців тому +13

    That QR Menu line was Gold! Van treat yourself to a nice pair of Whites Boots I like the 8" packer or smokejumpers and you'll never need another repair. They are the Toyota of boots!

  • @sivarapu
    @sivarapu 6 місяців тому +2

    Hey man, I saw you at Venice Beach biking and I was really awestruck lol. You were with your kid so I didn't approach, but thanks for making videos that actually mean something.

  • @GrindHardPlumbingCo
    @GrindHardPlumbingCo 7 місяців тому +37

    Totally agree with the QR menus 🙈

  • @sstorholm
    @sstorholm 4 місяці тому +2

    I like that these are rules if they only apply to you and preferences as soon as others are involved. Very considerate.

  • @loganadair3075
    @loganadair3075 5 місяців тому +1

    Agree with the clothing statements. Been saying it for years. Love your videos!

  • @DavidVogt
    @DavidVogt 7 місяців тому +10

    I didn't want this video to end.

  • @108u9
    @108u9 7 місяців тому +3

    Things “quitted”:
    • Leica, Qantas and other brands/businesses who are jerks to you and/or others.
    • Persisting way beyond a handful of chances with folks who have demonstrated themselves to be immature, neglectful, avoidant and/or disinterested in developing themselves to do/be better
    • Proprietary lock in where possible
    • Conditional “love”

  • @gonzorvf
    @gonzorvf 7 місяців тому +16

    Apps are great solutions to streamline processes that are often lenghty or cumbersome. Apps SUCK in the atempt of trying to replace face-to-face interaction. They should be illegal for that purpose. That’s why kids don’t know how to properly speak or look in the eyes anymore, physical interaction is important and develops many good things.

    • @keneticchannel
      @keneticchannel 7 місяців тому +5

      Mandatory use of an app just to place and order is BS, though. I've made quick 180s whenever I see "to get started, scan the QR code to download our app." Welp, honey-it looks like we're going somewhere else for coffee.

  • @valarya
    @valarya 7 місяців тому +8

    I love that the first 4 minutes of this video are just "things I'm quitting" with no explanation (because explanations are 100% unnecessary). Me, a 40-something, just sitting here nodding my head at every single one, even the ones I don't have experience with. 🤣 Like "yep, fuck that. Too lazy for that. Mhmm, can't be fucked to do that anymore." 🤣💜

  • @TerrificFlow
    @TerrificFlow 7 місяців тому +141

    You might have crossed the line of snobbery a couple of time here, sir. Sometime you gotta do what you gotta do.

    • @SeanTrischka
      @SeanTrischka 7 місяців тому +58

      I’d argue there were only a couple times that he *didn’t* cross the line into snobbery…

    • @beaconfilms
      @beaconfilms 7 місяців тому +7

      Snobbery is subjective

    • @SeanTrischka
      @SeanTrischka 7 місяців тому +9

      @@beaconfilms this is my subjective opinion

    • @beaconfilms
      @beaconfilms 7 місяців тому

      @@SeanTrischka we're on the same page I think

    • @slothFPV
      @slothFPV 7 місяців тому

      boi you stole my comment! i think its about 50/50

  • @sc9698
    @sc9698 7 місяців тому

    I LOVE that you’re against certain apps and QR codes, I thought I was the only person hating them and refusing to use them. THANK YOU Spirited Man. I hope a movement starts where we all refuse using those apps and QR codes.

  • @jjaazzee
    @jjaazzee 7 місяців тому +1

    Sorry to hear you had a bad experience in Mexico City. I believe this is a crazy place with a lot to offer, but I can see how someone who isn't familiar with it can be put off from it forever. I hope one day you decide to come back and create better memories.

  • @LoosiuFlying
    @LoosiuFlying 7 місяців тому +3

    Soooo true - I despise apps for ordering a thing when You can actually see the person or the item.

  • @natescovill
    @natescovill 7 місяців тому +57

    Hold up. As a fellow bald bearded man who commonly wears a hat I bought from you, how are baseball caps slobby? I just don't want to get sunburnt.

    • @krsp420
      @krsp420 7 місяців тому +5

      He gave good exemptions. That broadly cover ‘getting sunburnt’.

    • @thisfooreallysaid
      @thisfooreallysaid 7 місяців тому +4

      Spirited gentlemen only wear fedoras or top hats (whatever goes with your outfit)

    • @c0mputer
      @c0mputer 7 місяців тому +2

      Toupé or gtfo

    • @davebauerart
      @davebauerart 7 місяців тому +2

      @@thisfooreallysaid Panama Hat is good too.

    • @daemn42
      @daemn42 7 місяців тому +2

      Agreed. And shading your eyes consistently helps slow the development of cataracts in your eyes. As someone who wears glasses, dealing with prescription sunglasses or clip ons is a much bigger hassle than just wearing a hat with a good brim.

  • @Carlos-gm3zn
    @Carlos-gm3zn 7 місяців тому

    I would just love for van to elaborate on so many opinions. His takes seem so obvious yet not really spoken out and therefore satisfying to hear! Thank you for this cool video

  • @chadbaxter5578
    @chadbaxter5578 7 місяців тому +3

    This guy is an awesome you tuber. funny how we get older and we realize what’s actually more important. Most of that is our time. This guy gets it.

  • @krsp420
    @krsp420 7 місяців тому +129

    Not being 40 in 2008 makes an appreciable amount of ‘the world felt better’ difference.

    • @worldofwoodrow3192
      @worldofwoodrow3192 7 місяців тому +19

      I was 6 in 2008, it was definitely better.

    • @krsp420
      @krsp420 7 місяців тому +2

      @@worldofwoodrow3192 lot less physical and mental pain at 6 lol. Maybe more mental pain when I was 14 in 2008 lol. But physical? You’re made of rubber as a kid. It’s crazy.

    • @helpfulcommenter
      @helpfulcommenter 7 місяців тому +12

      I was 30. It was better in every possible way imaginable.

    • @michaeljaques77
      @michaeljaques77 7 місяців тому

      @@helpfulcommenter I was 31. I think the world peaked in 1999. Everything felt possible, technology was just starting to boom, 9/11 hadn't happened yet, and it still felt like fixing climate change was possible. Now, fuck it all if we aren't going to all be dead in the next decade due to climate collapse or WW3.

    • @eb4706
      @eb4706 7 місяців тому +4

      pre-smartphone era was a better world and I am 30 now

  • @Andygeofri
    @Andygeofri 6 місяців тому +1

    Van, please share how you store, organize/file, and then later search/find all your old footage that you clip into videos! Dying to know. I've started to store footage and make some videos but struggle to remember all the stuff i save and where it is.

  • @TinoDeBiaso
    @TinoDeBiaso 7 місяців тому +1

    I am convinced this video will be come increasingly relatable as I get older.

  • @ericdgood
    @ericdgood 7 місяців тому +34

    7:09 Is Van making 13.8k a month on Patreon?!?! No wonder he can afford things now. Congrats

    • @clavius5734
      @clavius5734 7 місяців тому +25

      Yeah, a lot of stuff he mentioned is ‘I no longer do this thing, I just pay a guy to do it for me’ - ya, easy to say if you got m o n e y

    • @davedarling6512
      @davedarling6512 7 місяців тому +13

      Never will I ever pay somebody on Patreon (don't have to quit because I never started)

    • @makeryguy
      @makeryguy 7 місяців тому +1

      13.8k PEOPLE at $5 a pop. $69,000/mo.

    • @lil-j-waters
      @lil-j-waters 7 місяців тому

      @@makeryguynope. it says $13.8

    • @Yenohs_ear
      @Yenohs_ear 7 місяців тому +8

      Exactly. It’s easy to quit things that are stupid and annoying if you have the cash to avoid them or pad the difference. I like Van, but he’s leaning into old man yells at cloud state.

  • @jbratt
    @jbratt 7 місяців тому +12

    I don’t wait for a seat at a restaurant.

  • @LuisMercadoorg
    @LuisMercadoorg 7 місяців тому +2

    Thank you. It’s like the Italian said: dressing well is not only about you, it’s a sign of respect for others.

  • @grahamrothphotography
    @grahamrothphotography 7 місяців тому

    I change my own oil, but the disposal yard is 1km away, I also usually don’t because it’s $20 more to take it to my mechanic, because my 5.7L HEMI jeep engine holds so much oil that it offsets the savings, love this video!! I agree with a lot of it, hassle vs cost.

  • @MobileDwellings
    @MobileDwellings 7 місяців тому +5

    Haha this was amazing. Can we have 100 more things that you quit? I'm sure you've got it in you if you really think about it.

  • @Potz4pizza
    @Potz4pizza 7 місяців тому +10

    Whoa whoa whoa.... how are you making your pizza that it's more expensive than ordering out?

    • @extra_nothing
      @extra_nothing 7 місяців тому +2

      was wondering this as well. i'm doing the opposite - making pizza at home now because it's cheaper (and better)!

    • @mothaphoto
      @mothaphoto 7 місяців тому +1

      Pizzas cost almost $50 where I live after tax delivery and tip (for good ones)…. Get an ooni pizza oven!

  • @obelusyt
    @obelusyt 7 місяців тому +13

    No more yt videos that are a narrated list. Lists can be sent by email.

    • @cz2301
      @cz2301 7 місяців тому +2

      I don't open emails that contain lists

  • @jonathanroberts7649
    @jonathanroberts7649 7 місяців тому +2

    I love your work and always envisioned us likely having a lot in common. I can't get behind the majority of this list.

  • @tomashernandez828
    @tomashernandez828 7 місяців тому +2

    AWESOME! Thanks you again for sharing!

  • @Josefine3408
    @Josefine3408 7 місяців тому

    Hey Van,
    A view from the 1st video :)
    Idea for video...
    What about a walk through of your house and gardens. Looks really interesting and you can talk about the home improvements you have done and future projects.
    Keep up the fantastics work.

  • @Josefine3408
    @Josefine3408 7 місяців тому

    Hey Van,
    A viewer from the 1st video :)
    Idea for video...
    What about a walk through of your house and gardens. Looks really interesting and you can talk about the home improvements you have done and future projects.
    Keep up the fantastics work.

  • @TSGEnt
    @TSGEnt 7 місяців тому +2

    5:30 I did have a real bad experience on Turkish air coming back from Istanbul to Chicago. The entire flight a you child (3 or 4 years old) screamed "anne" (mommy in turkish) for the entire 12 hour flight, sans the half hour nap the child took 'cause he wore himself out. That was at hour 10. Then he woke up and continued for the next 2 hours. I didn't nap the entire flight. I did catch up on four movies though. I saw the "The Dark Knight Rises" on that flight. I became eager to hear teh kid scream "anne" again. Even Christopher Nolan couldn't rescue that film. I also saw the Expendables and Expendables 2. That was truly a horrible flight.

    • @cz2301
      @cz2301 7 місяців тому +1

      Get yourself a noise cancelling headphone, babies do what they gotta do. You were one once.

    • @TSGEnt
      @TSGEnt 7 місяців тому

      @@cz2301 Not once did I ever as a baby scream "anne" let alone for 12 hours.
      I didn't mention the child was about 5-6 years old.

  • @gabriellechilton5902
    @gabriellechilton5902 7 місяців тому

    I agree on so many levels. And! It is nice to hear a graduated, young person…..”Get it”. Spread the word everyone. Spread the “good” word.

  • @kylevining9195
    @kylevining9195 6 місяців тому

    As someone who also grew up and lives in CT (live SE CT now where I know you grew up, raised in central CT)….. bad take man. The snobbiness is here, but 90% is not snobbery, and you know you need to seek out the snobbery to be affected by it.

  • @user-ed3oq5wh9v
    @user-ed3oq5wh9v 7 місяців тому

    Stumbled on this channel because of his victorinox Swiss champ video and noticed how awesome the content is. Take my subscribe! Good stuff!

  • @danieljosesolis5883
    @danieljosesolis5883 7 місяців тому +2

    Videos from the spirited man make my day spirited.

  • @marktwained
    @marktwained 7 місяців тому +4

    Our parasocial relationship is different now.
    I have a “Spirited Man” hoodie, and will continue to watch your content with joy, I’m sure,… but east coast attitude rang through once pointed out.
    We see things differently. That’s not necessarily bad, but I see content differently now.

  • @PiecesofVinyl
    @PiecesofVinyl 7 місяців тому

    @2:58 - might be the best clip I have ever seen on UA-cam! Thank you!

  • @LetsrideJ
    @LetsrideJ 7 місяців тому

    that bus one i never really thought about till now 20 years later. Did a denver to nashville and back. that was the one and only long distance bus trip I'll ever do.

  • @matthiassventoest6800
    @matthiassventoest6800 6 місяців тому

    I enjoy this ..., I will watch it again.., I will recommend it to others

  • @irabnut
    @irabnut 7 місяців тому +1

    Sound like you might like my NO MORE SMARTPHONES policy. 5+ years without a phone of any kind in fact. I live in Berlin so it's possible if you enjoy yourself enough. Nice video!

  • @HISSINGTHOUGHTSGAMING
    @HISSINGTHOUGHTSGAMING 7 місяців тому +1

    Great vid. What is a guest-ready house? Is this just your friends having a spare bedroom with a mint ready on the pillow?

  • @KentHeckel
    @KentHeckel 7 місяців тому +2

    The Southwest Airlines one I took personal. Every other airline encourages social hierarchy. At southwest you board the plane & sit amongst the people. No hierarchy.

    • @fraud1
      @fraud1 7 місяців тому +1

      I've done a lot of flying. Some up the front of the plane, some in a middle seat on a red eye. Expensive airlines, cheap airlines, high tier status, average joe comrade class. I've covered all of it.
      Say whatever you want about hierarchy and loyalty perks, or basic service at an accessible price point... All of that is marketing, you're free to buy into whatever version of that resonates best with you... At the end of the day, the only reason your butt is in that seat is because you've got somewhere to be... For me, there is no seat so cheap or so comfortable that I'd rather be in it for a minute longer than absolutely necessary, or that I'd be willing to deal with hours of back to back delays in boarding, or last minute itinerary changes that add a layover etc. etc.
      Any airline, including but not limited to southwest, that can't get their shit together to provide a consistent predictable operational core product can and should fail, fuck em. The consistent "fuck you, you'll arrive when you arrive" service offering of many airlines is so much more dehumanizing than using ticket classes as a marketing/efficient allocation tool.

  • @sweetlowsounds
    @sweetlowsounds 7 місяців тому

    I am a similar age and also giving up on some of those items. I am not giving up hats and shorts, and feel like that line in Hamilton from King George applies to you, You'll be back.

  • @Zukez
    @Zukez 7 місяців тому

    I love the spirit behind this. As an Australian who moved to Canada (which is influenced by American fashion) I am 100% with you on fighting the creep of socially acceptable slobbery by dressing with self respect. However, I don't get how common the anti-short sentiment is. As someone living in California you must understand that shorts are often a necessity, not a fashion choice, especially somewhere like Australia, and there are many dignified options made of natural fabrics. The same goes for some people writing off sandals - nice leather sandals or huaraches can be worn with dignity.

  • @johnbthomas3
    @johnbthomas3 7 місяців тому

    Once again Van, thank you. Another home run of a video. You’re the man…..or should I say…..the spirited man.

  • @Weisz
    @Weisz 7 місяців тому

    6:45 as one of those in the section of gen z not old enough to remember pre-internet, but definitely old enough to remember pre-iphone-app, YES.
    “Having an app” is not a valid excuse for shitty irl interface design, it’s not an excuse for lack of signage, and it almost universally worsens my experience being a human.
    If the app is OPTIONAL (and I mean truly optional, like my ebike) then I’m happy to have the option for added functionality. My 3D printer has an app that lets me monitor prints from anywhere, for example.

  • @cxweijer1357
    @cxweijer1357 7 місяців тому +8

    As a 21 year old have already started to quit things, although I’m not sure if ive earned the right

    • @brenttterry8259
      @brenttterry8259 7 місяців тому +2

      Just quit them and earn it on the back end. No one is actually keeping score.

    • @helpfulcommenter
      @helpfulcommenter 7 місяців тому

      You haven't. You're still in "paying your dues" phase and will be for another decade at least. If you get cocky now then you'll ruin the entire rest of your life's chance at being a Spirited Man.

    • @cz2301
      @cz2301 7 місяців тому

      just use your good sense, you do you, nobody has anything to do with your choices

  • @amnieto88
    @amnieto88 7 місяців тому

    Can I personally recommend for you to wear a hat or some sort of head coverage. In terms of protecting from the sun, avoiding the sun altogether is the best form of protection, but obviously not possible especially in SoCal. Sunblock (with zinc oxide or some other chemical forget) is helpful, but clothing or something that covers you is the second best option. I just had someone I know pass away from melanoma on his head. I knew him from playing soccer. I was a kid at the time and he used to volunteer referee at the club I played at and was bald even back then, twenty years ago at this point. He refereed games all day on Saturdays and I don’t remember him ever wearing a hat. Sunblock/screen sure, but that only goes so far no matter the SPF and how often you reapply. It’s a bandaid solution. Avoid exposure by blocking with coverings or go inside/in the shade.

  • @bigmike4923
    @bigmike4923 7 місяців тому

    Im 23 and still have that same distain for apps😂 Another thing that bothers me is the amount of places that don't accept cash near me. Its usually smaller places so they don't have to have change on hand, but if I can't use my money to buy goods this whole system feels broken. Maybe this is a local thing, I live near Toronto. I feel like I'm going to be that crazy old guy with all his cash burried in his yard😂 Great vid as always🙌

  • @seanmartinflix
    @seanmartinflix 7 місяців тому

    Great video as always. However if you're going to snowboard in the West you're going to regret those step in bindings if you're off the bunny Hill.

  • @MrBaskins2010
    @MrBaskins2010 7 місяців тому

    no more flip flops bro. love the tom sachs you've got at 2:06. gonna wear my pair today

  • @jaredt.murphy8257
    @jaredt.murphy8257 7 місяців тому

    I have similar takes about useless apps.
    During college orientation (2021), they had all the prospective students open their phones and download an app and then take a long intake questionnaire that was little more than "what're you into kids?" or "Rate your experience" - I pulled out my BlackBerry Classic and shrugged.
    I then got to sit on the bench and watch the clouds go by for a few minutes while everyone else sat silently on their phones rating the nothing that had happened yet.

  • @keithp6054
    @keithp6054 7 місяців тому +3

    2:56 Van is my spirit animal, he is now my favorite Neistat

    • @LuisMercadoorg
      @LuisMercadoorg 7 місяців тому

      Candice was right

    • @cz2301
      @cz2301 7 місяців тому

      after Casey came on video, last year, to defend Israel and the massacre of the Palestinians, I quit him for ever. Good Riddance. Van is the guy!

  • @Keanu.6
    @Keanu.6 7 місяців тому +38

    no sneakers is a crime, i’m just trying to be comfortable grocery shopping

    • @LuisMercadoorg
      @LuisMercadoorg 7 місяців тому

      Casual loafers exist

    • @helpfulcommenter
      @helpfulcommenter 7 місяців тому +16

      @@LuisMercadoorg So does personal choice and freedom. You don't have to follow every influencer's arbitrary rules for their own life.

    • @dan-raica
      @dan-raica 7 місяців тому +23

      A spirited man makes his own rules

    • @helpfulcommenter
      @helpfulcommenter 7 місяців тому +1

      @@dan-raica this

    • @patricklemire9278
      @patricklemire9278 7 місяців тому

      I’m not sure what the point is as long as they’re not ratty. John F Kennedy wore sneakers. Any fashion that falls under WWJFK do? Is fine

  • @developingtank
    @developingtank 7 місяців тому

    As a fellow bald man, I find baseball hats necessary to avoid any kind of burning while under the torment of the sun. Will you be wearing an alternative type of hat outside? Have you said no to all hats now? How are you avoiding the burn, do you avoid the sun enough to make this possible, or is sunscreen enough to keep you from the torment of the sun?

  • @ddutton0
    @ddutton0 7 місяців тому

    I agree with about 95% of this list! Thank you Van for making great content.

  • @Clevelandsteamer324
    @Clevelandsteamer324 7 місяців тому +15

    Cheap brakes, batteries, tires. Change your own oil to know it’s done correctly. Plus you do an inspection while under vehicle. $90 for an oil change I’m not paying it

  • @REVIEWSONTHERUN
    @REVIEWSONTHERUN 7 місяців тому

    Thanks for sharing it. ✌️

  • @theworldsworstperson
    @theworldsworstperson 7 місяців тому +1

    I 100% agree about Dinner QR codes, and anything where an app is required to do business or function.

  • @godniiji
    @godniiji 7 місяців тому

    I'll be 29 on the 20th of July. So the 30's are practically here, but somehow the things that's on your list are on mine. I've always joked that a leg injury I got in 2022 turned me go from 26 to 62. Which means the things I use to do are no more. No, I'm not limping around, I healed ok. Its just it made me aware of how fragile the human body is, and that I don't have to keep putting my body through extreme measures for mediocre results. From there everything else has changed. I no longer book motels, just because they are cheap (this is due to many reason, but after seeing a used condom on the side of the bath tube I was over it). I stopped "dressing my ag." Even when I wear casual clothes I wear vintage polo shirts (stuff that 90s dads wore) and I tuck them in, why, because Its cool. Of course, there is more, but i have to shut up, because the one rule that im working on is "be a man of few words", and I broke that just now lol.

  • @jasonbrittain9258
    @jasonbrittain9258 7 місяців тому +1

    This is gold, my spirited brother

  • @davidchodur7773
    @davidchodur7773 7 місяців тому

    Van Neistat putting up some quality content here. Nice

  • @jaebroom86
    @jaebroom86 7 місяців тому

    This is what I come to UA-cam for. Love this.

  • @alecrobinson5946
    @alecrobinson5946 6 місяців тому

    idk im like half your age so I understand that you'd be done with most of these things, but I love it because most of these delays or detours add to the human experience in my opinion

  • @cade8986
    @cade8986 7 місяців тому +4

    Mine most recent was “I will never step into a laundromat again”

  • @TheRedHeadedRambler
    @TheRedHeadedRambler 7 місяців тому

    This cracks me up and I agree with a lot but I'm a sucker for sandals almost anywhere in every season.

  • @thCapn
    @thCapn 7 місяців тому +30

    Monday morning is off to a great start

  • @LensForgotten
    @LensForgotten 7 місяців тому

    I was raised in Connecticut as well. You are soooo right. I only go back to visit. Never live there again.

  • @Benham_Design
    @Benham_Design 7 місяців тому

    I'm here for all of this!!!!!

  • @flyingdinosaur8871
    @flyingdinosaur8871 7 місяців тому

    Great video, thank you :)

  • @GridIron32
    @GridIron32 7 місяців тому

    I'm with you on alot of these. Some I'll never have to never do again because I've never done them nor will I. But its a pretty good list.

  • @chrissyhudkins
    @chrissyhudkins 7 місяців тому +1

    This one is one of my favorites 😅 I identify with this and will be making my own list of never agains!
    Dignity and snobbery !❤

  • @heydavebell
    @heydavebell 7 місяців тому

    this is the greatest video you have ever made. I feel heard. thank you.

  • @xealit
    @xealit 7 місяців тому

    Good points 👍

  • @streetskier
    @streetskier 7 місяців тому +1

    the app thing got me. Couldn't agree more.

  • @MikeKellyface
    @MikeKellyface 7 місяців тому +2

    😆I couldn't agree and disagree any harder! lol love yea man

  • @dwylhq874
    @dwylhq874 7 місяців тому +1

    03:37 “no more making my own pizza” …
    Respectfully, Van, if your pizza is worse than the pizzeria, that’s on you. We know exactly what goes in our pizza and it’s delicious and 1/3 the price of the pizzeria that uses canned mushrooms! 🤦‍♀️

  • @pete1704
    @pete1704 7 місяців тому +2

    My local bar has not taken cash since Covid.
    Scam, I will never return

  • @Rygo-wk3jm
    @Rygo-wk3jm 7 місяців тому

    You make me think. I appreciate that. Thanks.

  • @vasiliostsirtsakis3953
    @vasiliostsirtsakis3953 7 місяців тому

    I quit doing my own oil changes years ago due to the same reasons. Just not worth the time. Another thing I have given up, Ads. I am done with ads. If there is an option or service that can remove ads, I do it. If I am not willing to do it, then I don’t use said service.
    Shoutout John, who I met last weekend at Shakey Graves and is another spirited man. Hope you liked Beau!

  • @busbymath
    @busbymath 7 місяців тому

    i love your work man

  • @daemn42
    @daemn42 7 місяців тому

    Fun video but all the clothing stuff is pretty snobby. Does it not get hot and sunny where you live?

  • @NCISfreak123
    @NCISfreak123 7 місяців тому +1

    Lmao this is fascinating and I want to see him and Casey discuss a couple of these which I imagine would lead to quite “spirited” disputes

  • @loganlamons5373
    @loganlamons5373 7 місяців тому

    Loved this

  • @octopushat
    @octopushat 7 місяців тому +37

    "I will smoke a cigarette when a friend or loved one has died." Amen to that. It's the little exceptions that separates dignity from snobbery.

  • @bbbernardooo
    @bbbernardooo 7 місяців тому +1

    haha love it, no eating here in Hiong Kong or China without the QR codes my man

  • @longbra
    @longbra 7 місяців тому

    Most of those things I already don't or have never done. Completely agree with the dislike of places requiring QR codes and Apps. I also never give phone number, email or sign-up for any bullshit reward memberships at any stores. "No thanks" or "Nope" have become my most common responses to cashiers these days. I never use self checkout.

  • @ryanfwood
    @ryanfwood 7 місяців тому

    This is probably the funniest Spirited Man to date.

  • @bradlee7483
    @bradlee7483 7 місяців тому

    I'm turning 47 this year and have adopted many of these, love it!

  • @Ramenscooter
    @Ramenscooter 7 місяців тому

    Back to the motorcycle tire changes, did you ever investigate a tubeless setup?

  • @DismasM
    @DismasM 7 місяців тому +1

    Great list. It's amazing how much freedom one gains by just saying no. Oh, and just imagine how many things you'll quit when you hit 60...

  • @russdoesstuff
    @russdoesstuff 7 місяців тому

    The Spirited Man is my Spirit Animal.
    These are all reasonable, most of which I also do not do.
    Two on my list that you didn't mention:
    1. Graphic Tees that I didn't design myself.
    2. Wear another man's name on my clothing unless it's the name of the company I work for and only while being paid to do so. (Example: sports jersey with the player name on it).

    • @jakevance27
      @jakevance27 6 місяців тому

      No, he’s just someone you admire and relate to.